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Why Do I…?

Tom Stroud x I.A.M Podcasts

Society & Culture

Frequency: 1 episode/10d. Total Eps: 46

Exploring the behaviours that shape our relationships, with ourselves and with others 💬 ‘Why Do I…?’ is a podcast about the behaviours and patterns that show up in our relationships, and what happens when we start to notice them. Hosted by Tom Stroud, the series follows on from Why Do Men, which explored male behaviour in dating and relationships. This season broadens the lens, moving away from expert advice around specific behaviours like ghosting and jealousy towards lived experience across all kinds of relationships.

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Should You Go To Sleep On An Argument?! Best Moment #1

Season 1 · Episode 2

Tuesday, February 18, 2025 • Duration 01:38

Our favourite moment from the Michelle Elman Episode!

Make sure to check out the full episode.

In the first episode of Why Do Men, we dive deep into the reasons men struggle with communication in relationships, touch on emotional expression, healthy anger, dating transparency, and setting boundaries - all crucial for building stronger connections.

🔥 Check Out Some Of My Favourite Bits Before You Go:

🧠 15% Off Science-backed supplements for your brain, body & gut → ⁠Your Heights⁠

📚 My Top 10 Books On Dating & Relationships → ⁠Amazon Shop⁠

Get in Touch: 💬

Instagram: ⁠@stroudtom⁠

Threads: ⁠@stroudtom⁠

TikTok: ⁠@stroudtom⁠

📩 For Podcast Enquiries: wdmukpod@gmail.com

#michelleelman #whydomenpodcast

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Why Do Men Struggle To Communicate? - Michelle Elman #1

Season 1 · Episode 2

Friday, February 14, 2025 • Duration 53:07

Why Do Men Struggle to Communicate in Relationships? | Michelle Elman on Emotional Expression, Boundaries & Dating Transparency

Michelle Elman is a five-board accredited body confidence coach, award-winning body positivity activist, and best-selling author.

In this episode of Why Do Men, we dive deep into the reasons men struggle with communication in relationships, touch on emotional expression, healthy anger, dating transparency, and setting boundaries - all crucial for building stronger connections.

🔥 Some Of My Favourite Bits:

🧠 15% Off Science-backed supplements for your brain, body & gut → Your Heights

📚 My Top 10 Books On Dating & Relationships → Amazon Shop

-------- EPISODE CHAPTERS ---------

(0:00:00) - Male Communication in Relationships

(0:12:44) - Emotional Communication in Relationships

(0:18:09) - Understanding and Expressing Healthy Anger

(0:28:29) - Boundaries in Parental Relationships

(0:32:50) - Transparent Dating Communication

(0:37:36) - Communication Challenges in Relationships

(0:40:15) - Improving Male Communication in Relationships

(0:48:47) - Heartbreak and Self-Improvement

Get in Touch: 💬

Instagram: @stroudtom

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What To Expect In Season 1!

Thursday, February 6, 2025 • Duration 00:27

Releasing on the 14th February!🎙️ Welcome to Why Do Men – The Podcast About Relationships & Dating

Ever wondered why men do certain things?

We’re here to break it down for you. Each episode dives into the behaviors, patterns and psychology behind dating and relationships with the aim to help you navigate them with clarity and confidence.

🗓️ New episodes drop every Friday - so hit that follow button and set your reminders!

If you enjoy the podcast, please leave a rating & follow us—it helps more than you know!

Get in Touch: 💬

Instagram: @stroudtom

Threads: @stroudtom

TikTok: @stroudtom

📩 For Podcast Enquiries: wdmukpod@gmail.com

🔥 Some of my Favourite Bits

🧠 Science-backed supplements for your brain, body & gut → Your Heights

#WhyDoMenPodcast #RelationshipPodcast #DatingPodcast

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Breaking Down Male Communication in Dating - Tom's Tips #1

Season 1 · Episode 3

Friday, February 21, 2025 • Duration 10:40

Growing up, I was taught that being strong meant staying silent about my feelings. But after an enlightening conversation with Michelle Elman shifted my perspective on how men communicate in relationships.

Here is the key takeaways from the conversation & my points of view on male communication in relationships!

🔥 Check Out Some Of My Favourite Bits Before You Go:

🧠 15% Off Science-backed supplements for your brain, body & gut → Your Heights

📚 My Top 10 Books On Dating & Relationships → Amazon Shop

Get in Touch: 💬

Instagram: @stroudtom

Threads: @stroudtom

TikTok: @stroudtom

📩 For Podcast Enquiries: wdmukpod@gmail.com

#malecommunication #tomstroud #whydomenpodcast

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Why Do Men Ghost? - Lalalaletmeexplain #2

Season 1 · Episode 4

Friday, February 28, 2025 • Duration 51:51

In this episode of Why Do Men, we explore why men play games in relationships, the psychology behind ghosting, love bombing and breadcrumbing... Lalalaletmeexplain is a relationship expert, dating coach, and best-selling author known for her no-nonsense approach to modern dating. We also cover how to spot red flags early, leading to the outcome of how we can date with confidence in today’s world. 🔥 Some Of My Favourite Bits: Science-backed supplements for your brain, body & gut → https://www.yourheights.com/WHYDOMENPOD 📚 My Top 10 Books On Dating & Relationships → https://www.amazon.co.uk/shop/stroudtom --------- EPISODE CHAPTERS --------- (0:00:04) - Exploring Male Behavior in Dating (0:11:16) - Dating Behavior and Communication (0:18:50) - Ghosting in Relationships (0:29:28) - Post-Date Behavior and Ghosting (0:39:54) - Understanding Attachment Styles in Relationships (0:44:03) - Modern Dating Behavior and Ghosting (0:49:54) - Understanding and Overcoming Ghosting Get in Touch: 💬Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stroudtom/?hl=en Threads: https://www.threads.net/@stroudtom TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stroudtom 📩 For Podcast Enquiries: wdmukpod@gmail.com © Why Do Men Podcast #WhyDoMenPodcast #RelationshipPodcast #DatingPodcast #lalalaletmexplain

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The Craziest Ghosting Story I've Ever Heard! Best Moment #2

Season 5 · Episode 1

Tuesday, March 4, 2025 • Duration 01:35

Our favourite moment from the Lalalaletmeexplain episode!

Make sure to check out the full episode.

Lalalaletmeexplain is a relationship expert, dating coach, and best-selling author known for her no-nonsense approach to modern dating.

🔥 Some Of My Favourite Bits:

Science-backed supplements for your brain, body & gut → https://www.yourheights.com/WHYDOMENPOD

📚 My Top 10 Books On Dating & Relationships → https://www.amazon.co.uk/shop/stroudtom

Get in Touch: 💬

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stroudtom/?hl=en

Threads: https://www.threads.net/@stroudtom

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stroudtom

📩 For Podcast Enquiries: wdmukpod@gmail.com

#WhyDoMenPodcast #RelationshipPodcast #DatingPodcast

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What To Do If You Get Ghosted! Tom’s Tips #2

Season 1 · Episode 6

Friday, March 7, 2025 • Duration 09:03

Here are the key takeaways from the Lala conversation & my point of view on what to do if you get ghosted!

🔥 Check Out Some Of My Favourite Bits Before You Go:

🧠 15% Off Science-backed supplements for your brain, body & gut → ⁠Your Heights⁠

📚 My Top 10 Books On Dating & Relationships → ⁠Amazon Shop⁠

Get in Touch: 💬

Instagram: ⁠@stroudtom⁠

Threads: ⁠@stroudtom⁠

TikTok: ⁠@stroudtom⁠

📩 For Podcast Enquiries: wdmukpod@gmail.com

#malecommunication #tomstroud #whydomenpodcast

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Why Do Men Cheat? - Claira Hermet #3

Season 1 · Episode 7

Friday, March 14, 2025 • Duration 48:14

Why Do Men Cheat? Joining me for this conversation today is Claira Hermet!

Claira Hermet, a self-love and confidence coach, joins us to explore infidelity - both physical and emotional - and how personal experiences and modern dating shape our views.

We look at the root causes of betrayal, from unmet emotional needs and childhood trauma to the pursuit of validation, and how self-worth and communication impact our relationships.

Claira shares insights on trust, forgiveness, and healing, offering a compassionate look at moving forward after betrayal.

Let us know your thoughts on the episode below & make sure to let us know who you want to see next on the podcast :)

🔥 Some Of My Favourite Bits:

Science-backed supplements for your brain, body & gut → https://www.yourheights.com/WHYDOMENPOD

📚 My Top 10 Books On Dating & Relationships → https://www.amazon.co.uk/shop/stroudtom

--------- EPISODE CHAPTERS ---------

(0:00:00) - Exploring Male Behaviour in Relationships

(0:12:13) - Understanding Male Infidelity Patterns

(0:16:18) - Navigating Relationship Dynamics and Self-Worth

(0:19:27) - Seeking Communication and Support in Relationships

(0:23:39) - Evolution of Relationship Expectations

(0:28:04) - The Impact of Gender Roles

(0:37:51) - Navigating Infidelity and Rebuilding Self-Worth

(0:45:13) - Can you forgive Cheating?

(0:47:55) - The Reality of Cheating

The Emotional and Psychological Maze of Cheating - Tom's Tips #3

Season 1 · Episode 9

Friday, March 21, 2025 • Duration 11:04

What drives men to cheat, and is it ever more than just the thrill of the forbidden?

Our insightful discussion with Claira Hermet unravels the intricate dynamics of male infidelity, challenging the simplistic notion of labelling such men as 'bad guys.'

This episode encourages a profound exploration of personal responsibility, urging those tempted by infidelity to reflect on their unmet needs and address them within the bounds of trust.

Share this with someone who would find it useful :)

🔥 Some Of My Favourite Bits:

Science-backed supplements for your brain, body & gut → https://www.yourheights.com/WHYDOMENPOD

📚 My Top 10 Books On Dating & Relationships → https://www.amazon.co.uk/shop/stroudtom

Get in Touch: 💬

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stroudtom/?hl=en

Threads: https://www.threads.net/@stroudtom

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stroudtom

📩 For Podcast Enquiries: wdmukpod@gmail.com

#WhyDoMenPodcast #RelationshipPodcast #DatingPodcast #clairahermet

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The Art of Communication in Relationships! Best Moment #3

Season 1 · Episode 8

Tuesday, March 18, 2025 • Duration 01:54

The Art of Communication in Relationships

Whats everyones view on this? For us this is healthy, but we would love to hear your thoughts below on whether you agree :)

🔥 Some Of My Favourite Bits:

Science-backed supplements for your brain, body & gut → https://www.yourheights.com/WHYDOMENPOD

📚 My Top 10 Books On Dating & Relationships → https://www.amazon.co.uk/shop/stroudtom

Get in Touch: 💬

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stroudtom/?hl=en

Threads: https://www.threads.net/@stroudtom

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stroudtom

📩 For Podcast Enquiries: wdmukpod@gmail.com

#WhyDoMenPodcast #RelationshipPodcast #DatingPodcast #clariahermet

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