Who is the saboteur? The unconscious in everyday life – Details, episodes & analysis

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Who is the saboteur? The unconscious in everyday life

Michael Drayton

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Frequency: 1 episode/63d. Total Eps: 28

This is a podcast for anyone interested in finding out more about the psychology of work and day-to-day life. Dr Mike Drayton is a consultant, executive coach and clinical psychologist, and an expert in individual and organizational resilience. Mike was educated at LSE, Oxford Saïd Business School and the University of Birmingham.

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You Can’t See It, But You Can Feel It: The Role of Emotions in Business

Thursday, December 12, 2024 • Duration 04:10

Feelings are the hidden energy that drives behaviour at work. They shape decisions, teamwork, and culture—whether we realise it or not.

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit michaeldrayton.substack.com

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Why does this keep happening to me?

Thursday, September 26, 2024 • Duration 05:00

Cue the feelings of helplessness and frustration as you question why things seem to go wrong despite your efforts. Maybe you feel like you're unfairly judged or that your career is being held back by external factors.

And when you try to find a way through?

You end up focusing on the negatives, interpreting neutral actions as personal attacks, and falling into the trap of a victim mindset.

Does this sound familiar?

If you've ever felt stuck or unfairly treated, you might be experiencing this mindset. But here’s the good news: You can break free from it.

Here are three practical steps to help you move from feeling like a victim to taking control:

👉 Challenge Your Certainty: When you're convinced you're being treated unfairly, ask yourself, "In what way could I be wrong?" This small shift in thinking opens up new possibilities.

👉 Shift Your Perspective: Before reacting, pause and consider the other person’s viewpoint. What might their experience be? Understanding both sides can change the dynamic.

👉 Self-Reflect: Ask yourself the tough question: "How might I have contributed to this situation?" Taking ownership of your role gives you power to change the outcome.

Remember, the power to shift your mindset lies within you. By breaking free from the victim mentality, you open up new opportunities for growth and success.

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit michaeldrayton.substack.com

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What do you do when your day hasn't gone well?

Friday, July 24, 2020 • Duration 04:48

How was your journey home yesterday?

Did you sit in your car, or on the train, going over the events of the day?

Going over and over the conversations you had - what you could have said, what you should have said.

When you got home, did it continue. Instead of inside your head, you went over things with who ever would listen, "you wouldn't believe the day I have had, and I should have done this and I could have done that..."

Do you remember how you were feeling when you replayed these incidents over and over in your head? Upset? Anxious? Angry?

You may have left work hours ago, but the replaying of your day is keeping those feelings alive...

The name for this is rumination.

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit michaeldrayton.substack.com

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Helping someone to change...

Tuesday, July 7, 2020 • Duration 04:18

Do you work or live with someone who really needs to change - but won't?

Not only do they resist all efforts to help them, but don't even acknowledge there's a problem?

Perhaps it is someone who upsets people they work with. Or a teenager who ought to do more to get ready for their exams.

You can't simply force people to change.... but you can influence their willingness to change.

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit michaeldrayton.substack.com

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Can a belief kill you?

Wednesday, June 24, 2020 • Duration 06:00

Can a belief kill you? Can something as intangible and ephemeral as a belief, thought or attitude kill you?

Well, yes they can - and they do kill millions of people every year.

Most deaths from illness are caused by beliefs. The belief that smoking, drinking too much, eating junk food and not taking exercise only damages the health of other people.

These are all pretty obvious examples of beliefs leading to poor lifestyle choices with predictable consequences. What about something less obvious. For example, how could holding the belief that stress is bad for your health, possibly harm you?

A study carried out in the US in 2012, asked 30,000 people the questions "How much stress have you experienced in the last year?" And, "Do you believe that stress is harmful for your health?"

The researchers then tracked them for eight years, and at the end of the study they used public death records to find out who died...

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How to be more decisive...

Thursday, June 18, 2020 • Duration 04:33

Do you know someone who suffers with analysis paralysis? Someone who always ask for more and more information, rather than make a clear decision?

Or, you might be that person.

We'd all prefer to avoid making difficult decisions. This is because we fear making the wrong decision. The very anticipation of making the wrong choice is a powerful deterrent. The bigger the decision, the more the anxiety about taking action.

In real life situations, the only decisions we can hope to make are imperfect decisions. An imperfect decision is better than none because once implemented, they can be monitored, evaluated and modified, whereas inaction simply generates more inaction.

If you keep putting off a decision, it will stay bubbling away at the back of your mind, using up mental resources and making other decisions that much more difficult.

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit michaeldrayton.substack.com

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Why diversity doesn't work...

Monday, June 8, 2020 • Duration 05:41

A passenger boarded a flight, only to discover that she was allocated a seat beside someone who had political views that were different to hers.

Feeling virtuous, she went into a full blown rant and demanded that the passenger be moved to another seat. It didn't help her mood, when the airline crew pointed out that this wasn't something that she could demand. After a deterioration in her behaviour, the woman was removed from the flight.

Wouldn't life be simple if anyone we didn't agree with, could be moved...from the seat beside you, from the office or just out of your life?

Wouldn't that be great?

But, would it? Imagine what life would be like if you spent all day living, working and talking to people who are just like you? Imagine just talking to people who hold exactly the same opinions as you?

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit michaeldrayton.substack.com

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The art of group think...

Tuesday, June 2, 2020 • Duration 04:37

In April 1998, a glittering party was held in a Manhattan art gallery to launch a biography of the American Expressionist painter, Nat Tate.

The party was attended by David Bowie, Gore Vidal, as well as gallery owners and art critics from influential papers such as the New York Times. Many of these experts in modern American art spoke enthusiastically about Nat Tate, warmly remembering aspects of his life, shows they had attended, and reflecting on the sadness of his premature death.

But there is a twist to the story of Nat Tate...

Hear the strange story of how Nat Tate, David Bowie and William Boyd hoaxed the New York art establishment - and what it has to do with work today.

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The joy of being bored...

Tuesday, May 26, 2020 • Duration 05:39

What do you do when you feel bored? Do you turn to your mobile phone for distraction or just nod off?

There has never been so much to do. Whenever we feel the slightest twinge of boredom, we reach for our smartphone for instant gratification. If you walk around any city you will see people gazing down at their phones, rather than paying attention to what is going on around them. We live in a society where we are chronically over stimulated - 24 hour social media, shopping and TV.

We should embrace boredom as a luxury of modern life, rather than fear and avoid it.

The next time you feel bored, resist reaching for a distraction and instead turn your attention inwards. Allow your mind to wander. This is when creativity starts to kick in and your mind looks for stimulation from your internal world, not the external world. When you pay attention to boredom it gets unbelievably interesting.

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How resilience can hurt you...

Wednesday, May 20, 2020 • Duration 07:32

In 2016, at the Wembly Arena, Nick Blackwell and Eubank Jr met for a boxing match. Both boxers were breathing heavily. For every punch that Eubank made, Blackwell tried to hit back.

Eubank was clearly winning…

No matter how hard Eubank hit Blackwell, Blackwell always came back for more. He was the embodiment of resilience, no matter how much pressure he was under, he stood there and took it and did his best to fight back. That is, until the referee stopped the match in the 10th round.

A closed left eye and blood coming from his nose - the boxer, Nick Blackwell was finally taken to hospital on a stretcher while receiving oxygen.

It’s the same in life and in business. A person or team can only tolerate stress for so long until that final punch gets them...

Resilience will eventually turn into fragility.

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit michaeldrayton.substack.com

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