Where You Left Them - The dadhugsforyoursoul Podcast – Details, episodes & analysis

Welcome to the very first episode of Where You Left Them, the Dadhugsforyoursoul podcast with Harry and Emma. This podcast dives deep into the messy, heartbreaking, and sometimes unbelievable realities of modern relationships. It’s not therapy, but it is real: raw stories from real people, told honestly, with empathy, humour, and perspective.

In our first story, we meet Kate, who thought she was living the dream: twenty years with Rich, the partner who seemed like her perfect match. They had the house, the holidays, the reputation of being that couple. But in a single weekend, it all shattered.

What follows is an unflinching look at betrayal, self-doubt, and the struggle to rebuild a sense of self when everything you trusted collapses. Harry and Emma unpack the story in the studio.

If you’re having relationship problems, going through a relationship break-up or experiencing heartbreak then we are with you and the first and most important thing to know is that you can and will survive heartbreak and heal.

Listen to the audio version on Deezer, Spotify and Apple Podcasts - watch the full eps on YouTube - head to the socials (search dadhugsforyoursoul) and have your say too!

You can also visit the podcast area on our website and get involved; comment, leave a voice note and even submit your own story.

We’ll see how complicated life can be for everyone. We’ll see that there’s always hope. And we’ll see that there’s a lesson in every story for our own lives.

Big Hug

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If you’re having relationship problems, going through a relationship break-up or experiencing heartbreak then we are with you and the first and most important thing to know is that you can and will survive heartbreak and heal.

The Where You Left Them podcast from dadhugsforyoursoul delivers a twice-weekly episode dedicated to your stories of relationship issues, surviving heartbreak, and learning to love yourself. We explore common attachment styles and discuss the issues they may present in relationships. 

The stories are real, and the emotions of grief, loss and heartbreak are familiar; we use our lived experience to help guide you on to the path to healing and moving forward towards happier and healthier relationships, living authentically, and loving yourself.

Listen to the audio version on Deezer, Spotify and Apple Podcasts - watch the full eps on YouTube - head to the socials (search dadhugsforyoursoul) and have your say too!

You can also visit the podcast area on our website and get involved; comment, leave a voice note and even submit your own story.

We’ll see how complicated life can be for everyone. We’ll see that there’s always hope. And we’ll see that there’s a lesson in every story for our own lives.

Big Hug

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In this week’s story, we meet Clive, a widower of eight years. When Pippa gives him her number, he puts his reservations to one side and bravely chooses to step back into dating life. What unfolds is a long way from what he expected - and it throws him into a very different world. 

If you’re having relationship problems, going through a relationship breakup or experiencing heartbreak then know this first: we are with you and you can and will survive, heal and thrive.

Listen to the audio version on Deezer, Spotify and Apple Podcasts - watch the full eps on YouTube - head to the socials (search dadhugsforyoursoul) and have your say too!

You can also visit the podcast area on our website to comment and even submit your own story.

We’ll see how complicated life can be for everyone. We’ll see that there’s always hope. And we’ll see that there’s a lesson in every story for our own lives.

Big Hug

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In this episode we revisit Clive (who is universally adored) and discuss your comments and suggestions. We first met Clive in Episode 2 of Where You Left Them, the dadhugsforyoursoul podcast. If you've not met him (and he is lovely) do go and have a listen or watch. The full episode is on our YouTube playlist here

We also discuss a couple of social media posts which hit home: how to reclaim things; whether that's music, food, a film, anything, that you feel has been taken from you after a break-up.

We find out more about Harry's "accidental feminism" as Emma reveals a little more about his background and why he actually likes women (and not just "likes" likes them). We give a shout out to the women who raised us and the women raising the next generation too. Because why not?

We are so proud of this community and we hope you can feel safe enough to get involved with your own stories and comments. You are very welcome here.

Big Hug x

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Meet Trina, a single mother of two, preparing to send her second daughter to University and facing an empty nest. It’s a big life change, and Trina faces a sudden new onslaught of loneliness. But is that all that's going on?

Disillusioned with dating apps, and feeling like she's “always the one who gets dumped”, Trina's about to make some big life decisions - with some challenging consequences. How will she fill the space left by her daughter? She's certainly not ready to give up on love, but at what cost?Listen to find out.

As we always say, if you’re having relationship problems, going through a relationship breakup or experiencing heartbreak then know this first: we are with you. Because you can and will survive, heal and thrive. Everyone who appears on our podcast can take positive steps forward, and so can you.

Listen to the audio version on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Deezer and anywhere you get your podcasts. Watch the full eps on YouTube too.

Head to the socials (search dadhugsforyoursoul) to have your say on every episode. Or visit the podcast area on our website (dadhugsforyoursoul.com/podcasts) to comment and even submit your own story (we've had an extraordinary number of submissions since launching two weeks ago!).

In this podcast, we see how complicated life can be for everyone. We see that there’s always hope. And we see that there’s a lesson in every story for our own lives.

Big Hug

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In this episode we discuss your comments on Mamma Mia – the jaw-dropping episode 3! Trina has fared badly in your comments but we do have SOME understanding. You can hear some of the comments we received and some excellent insights from the dadhugsforyoursoul community.

This really was a shocking episode and if you’ve not listened yet, you can find it wherever you get your podcasts or you can watch it here on YouTube:

We also get to discuss your dating green flags – there are some great ones, thanks so much for contributing.  Finally, we get a little update from Poster Girl For Anxious Attachment (Emma) on her Activity of the Week. Even if she can’t remember the name, she DOES remember how she felt about it. 

As always, we are so grateful to all the contributors and are really excited at how our community is evolving. Remember, you are very welcome here, you are safe and supported. 

Big Hug x

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This week's story comes from Rebecca, who was with her husband for 19 years. And they weren't particularly good years: she believed she had to “keep her man happy” and he took every opportunity to make sure things stayed that way - even when she was grieving the loss of her brother. But that loss was also the catalyst for change. Rebecca decided enough was enough, and she bravely quit her one-sided marriage. Her husband, however, wasn't finished. Desperate to regain control of the situation, he was regularly in touch, promising the earth - despite being with another partner!

Rebecca's story is ultimately both positive and instructive. As we always say, if you’re having relationship problems, going through a relationship breakup or experiencing heartbreak, then know this first: we're with you. Because you can and will survive, heal and thrive. Everyone who appears on our podcast can take positive steps forward, and so can you.

Listen to the audio version on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Deezer and anywhere you get your podcasts. Watch the full eps on YouTube too.

Head to the socials (search dadhugsforyoursoul) to have your say on every episode. Or visit the podcast area on our website (dadhugsforyoursoul.com/podcasts) to comment and even submit your own story (we've had an extraordinary number of submissions since launching three weeks ago!).

In this podcast, we see how complicated life can be for everyone. We see that there’s always hope. And we see that there’s a lesson in every story for our own lives.

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In this shorter episode we (well, Harry - good job I healed those abandonment issues isn't it?) discuss your comments on Someone Like Me – the incredibly powerful and somewhat inspirational episode 4! The time and pain that Susanne spent in an unhappy marriage has struck a chord with many of you You can hear some of the comments we received and some excellent insights from the dadhugsforyoursoul community. Thank you so much once again for your input - we're growing something really good here and appreciate every comment and dm - even the ones that call me big nose!

This really was a moving episode and if you haven't yet listened to the studio episode, you can find it wherever you get your podcasts or you can watch it here on YouTube:

https://youtu.be/dwUkmlNCT2Y?si=JmC4VcszAN0TcBNj

We also get a little update from Poster Girl For Anxious Attachment (Emma) on her Activity of the Week. It's one of my favourites again, and it's super-effective for those of us of a more anxious disposition, so I know Emma's gonna love it

As always, we are so grateful to all the contributors and are really excited at how our community is evolving. Remember, you are very welcome here, you are safe and supported.

Big Hug x

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Susanne has been living in a loveless marriage for decades. But she's determined to move beyond everyone's expectations in the pursuit of personal freedom and happiness. And that includes her mother, who hasn't been nearly as supportive as she could be. Susanne's story is one of quiet strength and resilience. It's full of hope for a more authentic, fulfilled future - and proof that it's never too late to stand up for yourself.

As we always say, if you’re having relationship problems, going through a relationship breakup or experiencing heartbreak then know this first: we are with you. Because you can and will survive, heal and thrive. Everyone who appears on our podcast can take positive steps forward, and so can you.

Listen to the audio version on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Deezer and anywhere you get your podcasts. Watch the full eps on YouTube too.

Head to the socials (search dadhugsforyoursoul) to have your say on every episode. Or visit the podcast area on our website (dadhugsforyoursoul.com) to comment and even submit your own story (we've had an extraordinary number of submissions since launching - thank you!)

In this podcast, we see how complicated life can be for everyone. We see that there’s always hope. And we see that there’s a lesson in every story for our own lives.

Big Hug

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.