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Syracuse, New York With Scott Hier30 Oct 202401:04:57

Scott Hier

Born and raised in Syracuse, New York, Scott lives in Camillus, a charming suburb outside the city. He comes with a rich worker-compensation background, where he honed his negotiation skills over a commendable 23-year career at an insurance company, specializing in high-dollar claims for a decade.

During the challenging times of COVID-19 in 2020, Scott pivoted towards a new passion—real estate. After completing his licensing in September 2021, he transitioned from his corporate role in early 2022 to focus full-time on helping individuals and families find their perfect homes. His previous experience has proven invaluable, especially in assisting buyers navigate the complexities of real estate transactions.

Scott's journey into real estate began over sixteen years ago when he first recognized his passion for the field. Although initially held back by financial constraints, his love for home renovations and genuine satisfaction in assisting others to achieve their dream of homeownership kept his interest alive. Today, he's not just selling homes but also helping familiarize newcomers with the myriad opportunities Central New York offers, ensuring they understand the buying and selling process thoroughly. Scott, welcome to the show, and thank you for joining us to share your insights and experiences in Syracuse's vibrant real estate market.

Summary

Mark Goldstein interviews Scott Hier, a real estate expert from Syracuse, New York, in this conversation. They discuss various aspects of living in Syracuse, including its climate, housing market, cost of living, healthcare services, transportation options, and the vibrant arts and culture scene. Scott shares insights into the local LGBTQ+ community, the support systems available, and the ongoing revitalization of downtown Syracuse. The conversation highlights the unique characteristics of Syracuse, making it an attractive place to live and work. In this conversation, Scott Hier shares insights about Syracuse, highlighting its vibrant cultural scene, diverse dining options, and the community's overall safety. He emphasizes the city's appeal as a hidden gem, especially for retirees and the LGBTQ community, while discussing the seasonal changes and activities available throughout the year. Scott also touches on the prospects of Syracuse, including new developments and the importance of community involvement.

Takeaways

  • Syracuse is known for its heavy snowfall, but recent winters have been milder.
  • Although the housing market in Syracuse has seen significant price increases recently, it remains affordable compared to national averages.
  • Healthcare services in Syracuse are robust, with several specialized hospitals.
  • Syracuse has made strides in walkability and bike lanes, enhancing urban mobility.
  • The downtown area is revitalizing, with old buildings being converted into condos.
  • Various organizations and events support the LGBTQ+ community in Syracuse.
  • Syracuse hosts a pride festival that has grown in popularity over the years.
  • Syracuse's arts and culture scene includes museums, theaters, and live performances.
  • Syracuse University contributes to the local arts scene with its drama department.
  • Transportation options include public buses, Amtrak, and ride-sharing services. Syracuse has a rich cultural scene with plenty of shows and events.
  • The dining options in Syracuse are diverse and plentiful, especially Italian cuisine.
  • Safety in Syracuse is generally high, with a downward trend in violent crime.
  • Syracuse is often overlooked but offers a lot for residents and visitors alike.
  • The city has a variety of seasonal activities, making it appealing year-round.
  • Retirement in Syracuse is attractive due to its community and amenities.
  • Syracuse is evolving with new developments and revitalization efforts.
  • The city is well-connected, with many attractions within a short drive.
  • Community involvement is encouraged, and many volunteer opportunities are available.
  • Syracuse's charm lies in its balance of urban and natural offerings.

Are you looking for a place to call home in Syracuse, New York? Contact Scott Hier: https://g.co/kgs/dHsDFsF

https://scotthier.huntrealestate.com/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/scott-hier-7ab4b3190/

https://www.facebook.com/p/Scott-Hier-Licensed-Real-Estate-Salesperson-at-HUNT-Real-Estate-ERA-100078649444177/

Embracing Retirement: Waldron McGinnis's Journey to Courtown, Ireland16 Oct 202401:04:54

Waldron McGinnis is originally from Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. He lived in China for six years and earned his PhD from the University of South Carolina, researching high education reforms in China. 

Waldron spent twenty-five years in the Pacific Northwest of the US. He developed a master's degree and doctorate in leadership at a university. He traveled the world doing partnership work with global non-profit leaders. For the past thirteen years, he has lived in downtown Tacoma as part of an intentional community that provides transitional housing for homeless people, recent immigrants, and people released from incarceration. He has led men’s work through the Mankind Project and working with men in prison.

In 2023, Waldron received Irish citizenship through his grandfather and, in 2024, retired to County Wexford, Ireland. 

Summary

Waldron McGinnis, a retiree in Courtown, Ireland, shares his experience of retiring in Ireland. Courtown is a village in County Wexford, known for its fishing and seaside charm.

Waldron chose Courtown because he wanted to live in a smaller town near Dublin for travel and welcoming guests.

He highlights the mild climate, affordable cost of living, and access to healthcare as benefits of retiring in Courtown.

Waldron also discusses the process of obtaining Irish citizenship and the visa requirements for retirees.

He emphasizes Ireland's vibrant arts and culture scene, with music, theater, and museums being popular attractions.

The food scene in Courtown offers a variety of options, including traditional Irish dishes and international cuisine. Moving to Ireland offers a safe and peaceful environment with high public trust. The crime rate is low, and the country has strict gun control laws.

Research the cost of living and housing beforehand, and join expat groups for valuable information. Set up a bank account and obtain car insurance ahead of time. Ireland is known for its natural beauty, cultural activities, and historical sites. The language barrier is not an issue; the friendly and inclusive society makes it a welcoming place for LGBTQ individuals. Public transportation is convenient, and cashless payments are standard. Overall, Ireland is an excellent choice for retirement.

Oloron Sainte-Marie, France with Mykle Flatley10 Jul 202401:17:57

Mykle Flatley and his spouse Doug moved from Phoenix, Arizona to Oloron Sainte-Marie, France in 2021. They chose Oloron Saint-Marie because of its climate, affordability, and proximity to the Atlantic Ocean and Spain. Michael, who is a dual Irish and American citizen, obtained Irish citizenship 20 years ago, which made moving to France easier. The biggest challenge for them has been the language, but they have found the French to be kind and helpful. Oloron Saint-Marie does not have a large LGBTQ community, but Mykle and Doug have felt accepted and welcomed by their French neighbors. They have made friends with both expats and locals and have found the local economy to be affordable. In this part of the conversation, the principal themes discussed include healthcare expenses, the cost of housing, taxes, and taxation, visas for residency, language barriers, arts and culture, restaurants and food, public transportation, and driver's licenses. In this conversation, Mykle Flatley shares his experience of moving from the United States to France, specifically the towns of Oloron and Pau. He discusses the process of obtaining a driver's license in France, the low crime rate in his town, the affordable and comprehensive healthcare system, and the cultural differences he has encountered. Mykle encourages others to consider living abroad and emphasizes the importance of learning the local language. He concludes by expressing his love for his new home and the opportunities it has provided.

Oloron-Sainte-Marie is a commune in the Pyrénées-Atlantiques department in southwestern France. It is located at the foot of the Pyrenees mountains, at the confluence of the Gave d'Oloron and the Gave de Pau (Pronounced Po) rivers. The town has a population of around 10,000 inhabitants.

Oloron-Sainte-Marie is a historic town, with a rich cultural heritage. The town center is pedestrianized and lined with half-timbered houses. There are also several churches and other religious buildings in the town.

Oloron-Sainte-Marie is a popular tourist destination, particularly for those who enjoy hiking and other outdoor activities. The town is also a center for Basque culture, and there are several Basque festivals and events held here throughout the year.

Philadelphia, Pennsylvania with Nancy Schneider26 Jun 202401:02:22

Summary

  • Nancy Schneider, a Philadelphia retiree shares her experience of retiring in the city.
  • Philadelphia is located on the East Coast of Pennsylvania, with easy access to New York City, Washington DC, and the Jersey coast.
  • The city has a temperate climate and offers a variety of quick getaways, including New York, the Jersey Shore, and nearby gay towns like New Hope and Rehoboth.
  • Philadelphia has a vibrant LGBTQ neighborhood known as the Gayborhood, but being gay is accepted throughout the city.
  • The city has a rich arts and
  • culture scene, with attractions like the Kimmel Center, Walnut Street Theater, Museum of Art, Barnes Museum, and more.
  • The cost of living in Philadelphia varies depending on the neighborhood, but there are affordable options available.
  • The city is walkable and offers convenient public transportation options.
  • Philadelphia's food scene is exceptional and offers a wide variety of cuisines, including Italian, Vietnamese, Chinese, African, and more.
  • The city is known for its sports culture, with basketball, football, and baseball being popular.
  • Crime is a factor to consider, but the new mayor is taking action to address it.
  • Philadelphia has excellent healthcare options, with renowned hospitals and a high number of doctors.
  • The city has an urban lifestyle with walkability and access to arts, culture, and entertainment.
  • Philadelphia offers easy access to travel, including an international airport.
  • Pennsylvania offers tax benefits for retirees, including tax exemptions for retirement income, 401K withdrawals, IRAs, pensions, and social security. The state has the lowest flat tax rate in the country and provides property tax and rent rebate programs. The cost of living in Pennsylvania is slightly below the national average, and the average sales tax rate is 6.17%.
  • Transportation savings include discounts on auto insurance for drivers aged 55+, free bus, subway, and trolley rides for seniors over 65, $1 regional rail rides during off-peak hours, and discounted bridge tolls for drivers aged 65+ with a New Jersey EZPass.
  • Overall, Philadelphia is considered a hidden gem in the Northeast.

Check out this link and video about LGBTQ+ healthcare at Cooper at Cooper University HealthCare in South New Jersey. (3.7 miles and 14 minutes from Philadelphia) https://www.cooperhealth.org/services/cooper-proud-lgbtq-health?utm_source=pgn&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=PGN

Madrid, Spain with Renato Padilla12 Jun 202401:32:44

Renato is a Bolivian entrepreneur who currently resides in Madrid.

He has a passion for languages and has found a way to make money from it.

In addition to being multilingual, he also has a fondness for the arts, particularly pottery and music. He played in the orchestra of his city in Bolivia and Spain for approximately 5 years.

Renato was born in Japan, then moved to Bolivia where he studied until he was 16 years old. He finished his high school education in Logroño, Spain, and in 2022 he moved to Madrid to start his Spanish school. But instead of giving up, he kept trying and now he is the principal of his school in the center of Madrid.

Renato enjoys traveling around the world and is planning to retire at the young age of 25 if everything goes according to plan.

Summary

Renato Padilla, a Bolivian entrepreneur in Madrid, shares his experiences and insights about living and retiring in Madrid, Spain.

He discusses his background, the reasons for choosing Madrid, the LGBTQ+ community in the city, the importance of learning Spanish, and the local economy and housing costs.

Renato also provides information about Madrid's geography, climate, and utility costs. Madrid offers high-quality public services, including healthcare and education, funded by high taxes.

The city has a vibrant arts and culture scene, with numerous theaters, museums, and live performances. Madrid is a food lover's paradise, offering various cuisines, including Japanese, Italian, French, Ethiopian, and more.

The city has excellent public transportation, including local trains, high-speed bullet trains, buses, and a metro system.

While pickpocketing can be a concern, overall, Madrid is considered a safe city. Renato shares insights about safety, healthcare, visas, and living in Madrid in this conversation.

He recounts a personal experience of losing his wallet and how it was returned to him, highlighting the honesty and safety in the city.

Renato discusses the healthcare system in Madrid, emphasizing the accessibility and affordability of both private and public options. He also provides information about obtaining a visa, particularly the non-lucrative visa for retirees. Renato mentions the importance of understanding the different autonomous regions in Spain and their varying rules and taxes. He concludes by offering advice for those considering relocating to Madrid.

Unveiling the Tapestry of Madrid, Spain: A Quick Guide

Bustling Heart of Spain: Madrid, Spain's vibrant capital city, pulsates with energy. As the country's largest metropolis (population: 3.3 million).

Climate and Geography: Nestled on a central plateau at over 2,000 feet, Madrid experiences distinct seasons. Summers are warm and sunny, perfect for strolling through charming plazas or exploring verdant parks like El Retiro. Winters tend to be crisp, with occasional snowfall.

Getting Around: Madrid is a pedestrian's paradise. Many historic areas are best explored on foot, allowing you to soak in the architectural grandeur and vibrant street life. A comprehensive public transportation network offers efficient travel via metro, buses, and trams for longer distances.

A Welcoming Embrace for the LGBTQ+ Community: Madrid has long championed LGBTQ+ rights, fostering a thriving and inclusive community. The city explodes with rainbow colors during the annual Pride celebration, one of the largest in Europe. Numerous LGBTQ+ bars, clubs, and cultural centers provide safe spaces for connection and self-expression.

A Feast for the Senses: Arts & Culture: World-renowned museums like the Prado Museum and Reina Sofía Museum house masterpieces by Goya, Velázquez, and Picasso. The city's energy extends beyond museums, with captivating flamenco performances, lively theaters, and a constant buzz of creativity.

Tantalizing Your Taste Buds: Dining & Restaurants: Madrid is a haven for gourmands. From the iconic tapas bars overflowing with delectable bite-sized delights to Michelin-starred restaurants crafting exquisite culinary experiences, the city caters to every palate. Don't miss out on indulging in local specialties like cocido madrileño (a hearty chickpea stew) or churros con chocolate (deep-fried dough sticks dipped in hot chocolate).

Cost of Living: Compared to other Western European capitals, Madrid offers a relatively moderate cost of living. However, it's important to factor in your lifestyle choices, as dining out and entertainment can add up.

Crime and Safety: Madrid is generally a safe city for tourists. However, as with any major destination, petty theft can occur, particularly in crowded areas. It is recommended that tourists be aware of their surroundings and take precautions with their belongings.

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Amsterdam, The Netherlands with Jeremy Bierbach29 May 202401:31:33

Frontiers of Equality in the Development of EU and US Citizenship

Author: Dr Jeremy B. Bierbach

Jeremy Bierbach (1975) is originally from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. After graduating from Georgetown University in Washington, DC, in 1996 with a bachelor’s degree in linguistics, Jeremy worked as an IT specialist for several years. In 2001, Jeremy emigrated to the Netherlands. In 2003, he changed his career direction. He studied law at the University of Amsterdam, earning a bachelor’s degree in Dutch law in 2006 and a master’s in constitutional and administrative law in 2007. Jeremy subsequently worked as a legal advisor through Avocado Legal, where he focused on immigration and European migration law. In January 2014, Jeremy joined Franssen Advocaten and was sworn into the Dutch bar as an attorney. In September 2015, he successfully defended his PhD thesis in European constitutional law at the University of Amsterdam. A commercial edition of his thesis, Frontiers of Equality in the Development of US and EU Citizenship, was published in 2017 by Asser Press. 

His specialty and focus of interest are in invoking norms of international law — EU law in particular — as a source of protection for members of minority groups who are unrepresented or underrepresented in the democratic process: in particular EU citizens, their non-EU citizen family members, and other non-EU citizen immigrants to the Netherlands (including British citizens as former EU citizens).

Takeaways

  • Amsterdam is a popular city due to its charm and infrastructure.
  • The Netherlands is located northwest of Europe and is known for its flat landscape and canals.
  • Amsterdam has a temperate climate with short days in winter and long days in summer.
  • The city has a history of tolerance and a vibrant LGBTQ community.
  • Housing in Amsterdam can be expensive, with limited availability.
  • Utilities, including gas and electricity, can be costly.
  • The price of groceries in Amsterdam is lower compared to the US, with high-quality produce available.
  • Meeting friends and gay people in Amsterdam is relatively easy due to the city's diverse and inclusive culture.
  • The Red Light District is a famous area in Amsterdam known for its adult entertainment. Obtaining a visa in the Netherlands is challenging for non-EU citizens, as Dutch immigration law is based on the concept that the country is already whole and has a housing shortage.
  • The only ways for non-EU citizens to move to the Netherlands are through family connections, work-related migration, or the Dutch-American Friendship Treaty, which allows US citizens to legally reside in the Netherlands to develop and run a business.
  • Living in Amsterdam has its advantages, such as a high quality of life, good infrastructure, and a vibrant queer scene. Still, it also has limitations, including limited housing stock and strict zoning regulations.

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Malta, with Eric Tenin and Michael Salone15 May 202401:10:09

Eric is French, born and raised in Paris where he lived and worked as a business journalist until Michael and he left for Malta.

Michael is American by birth (born in Hollywood, Florida) and became French while living in Paris. An HR Executive for 2 very large conglomerates, Michael has moved around a lot for his companies and traveled the world. 

He and Eric decided that life was too short to pass up a move to somewhere warm, and sunny yet still close to Eric's family in Paris. They decided to move to Malta in 2014 and opened a couple of rental properties before restoring an ancient property to become a boutique hotel, Senglea Suites.

Summary:

  • Eric Tenin and Michael Salone discuss their move from Paris to Malta.
  •  Reasons for choosing Malta as their new home.
  • Climate, expat community, LGBTQ+ acceptance, language, and local economy discussed.
  • Integration and acceptance of foreigners, cost of housing, and living expenses explored.
  • Various aspects of living in Malta covered: taxes, cost of living, the impact of expats, rental properties, quality of life, healthcare system, services, amenities, food prices, transportation, infrastructure, proximity to the airport, and low crime rate.
  • Gun laws and safety, cultural differences, honesty, safety for women, homelessness, challenges, access to goods/services, obtaining visa/residency, buying citizenship/residency, and cons of living discussed.

 Takeaways:

  •  Malta is popular for expats due to its warm climate, English proficiency, and LGBTQ+ acceptance.
  •  English is widely spoken alongside Maltese.
  •  Diverse expat community, particularly in areas like Senglea.
  •  Housing is expensive, with rental prices ranging from 1,000 to 1,200 euros for a two-bedroom apartment, and home prices averaging around 1 million euros.
  •  Gun ownership laws and cultural attitudes differ from the US.
  •  Malta is considered safe with low crime rates.
  •  Homelessness is not significant due to cultural/legal factors.
  •  Limited access to goods/services like Amazon Prime.
  •  Obtaining a visa/residency is expensive, and may require meeting financial criteria.
  •  Considerations for relocating include lifestyle preferences, language barriers, and access to amenities.

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Albuquerque, New Mexico with Pamm Meyers01 May 202401:03:54

pamm meyers

pamm meyers is, storyteller, dynamic leader and advocate dedicated to fostering prosperity within the LGBTQIA community through business innovation and social advocacy. With a multifaceted background, pamm has become a trailblazer in various fields, leaving an indelible mark on New Mexico’s LGBTQIA and business communities. 

As CEO of Go Social, pamm meyers Social Media.

https://www.pammmeyerssocialmedia.com/ pamm is at the forefront of digital marketing and podcasting solutions for business owners and organizations. Her visionary approach has empowered countless ventures to harness the potential of social media, unlocking new avenues for growth and engagement. It is a driving force behind her client’s success, leveraging the power of connectivity to elevate their brand through digital marketing and podcasting. 

pamm is the managing partner of Two Flower Productions, a podcasting company that produces “Lip Service, the podcast of Our Coming Out Stories”, New Mexico’s Business Podcast.

Previously the Execu?ve Director of the New Mexico Out Business Alliance, currently, Board Advisor for the Way Out West Film Fest, Board Advisor for the Albuquerque Community Founda?on Pride Circle, hMps://abqcf.org/pride-circle/

supporting the LGBTQIA community through philanthropy. 

pamm meyers

https://www.pammmeyerssocialmedia.com/ pamm@pammmeyers.com

Albuquerque, New Mexico with Pamm Meyers 

Summary 

Pam Myers, a dynamic leader and advocate, shares her retirement experience in Albuquerque, New Mexico.

She discusses the LGBTQ+ community, arts and culture, cost of living, and transportation in the area.

Pam highlights the welcoming and safe environment for LGBTQ+ individuals and the thriving arts scene in Albuquerque. She also mentions the affordable cost of living and the abundance of galleries, theaters, and restaurants in the city. Pam concludes by mentioning the unique attractions in New Mexico, such as the Balloon Fiesta and the historic train rides.

Albuquerque, New Mexico offers an enchanting atmosphere with its blue skies and sense of peacefulness. Albuquerque's lack of traffic and affordable housing make it an attractive option. The city has a public transportation system, including buses and a rail trolley, but owning a car is still necessary.

The airport is conveniently located and undergoing renovations.

Crime rates in Albuquerque are comparable to other cities of its size, with petty theft being the most common issue.

The healthcare system is well-equipped, with multiple hospitals and reasonable wait times for specialists. The LGBTQ+ community in Albuquerque is welcoming and supportive. Overall, Albuquerque offers an ideal climate, affordability, and a strong sense of community.\

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Madison, Wisconsin with Rick Rose18 Apr 202401:10:44

Rick retired on Dec 31 2023 with 35 years and 21 Emmy Awards under his belt as a producer, writer, and director. 

He began his work as a public service when he was elected as Dane County WI County Board Supervisor for which he will aim for reelection on 4/2/24. 

He is an advocate for the disenfranchised serving as a CASA volunteer in 3 states, as co-chair of Pride In Prevention, focused on harm reduction within the queer PWUD community, and as a fierce feminist.

He also writes regularly for The Word In Season, a daily Christian devotional that is translated into 30 languages. He lives in Madison, WI having moved there from Shreveport, LA.

Summary

Rick Rose, a retired producer, writer, and director, discusses his move from Shreveport, Louisiana to Madison, Wisconsin. He shares his reasons for choosing Madison and talks about the climate and amount of snow in the area. Rick also discusses the LGBTQ+ community in Madison and the absence of a specific gayborhood.

He highlights the growth and economy of Madison, the ease of making friends, and the presence of arts and culture in the city.

Rick also mentions the local food and dining scene in Madison. Madison, Wisconsin has a vibrant arts and entertainment scene, with a thriving comedy community and a diverse range of performances and events.

The city also has a strong public transportation system, with options for biking, electric transportation, and plans for an Amtrak center.

Healthcare in Madison is highly regarded, with access to quality providers and affordable insurance options.

While crime exists, Madison is considered a safe city overall. The city also has a significant Native American community and is working towards preserving and promoting Native American culture and tourism.

Takeaways

Madison, Wisconsin offers a unique blend of urban amenities and natural beauty, making it an attractive place to retire.

The city experiences a wide range of weather, including hot and humid summers and snowy winters.

While Madison does not have a designated gayborhood, it is known for its progressive and inclusive community.

The city has a thriving arts and culture scene, with opportunities to enjoy live music, theater, and visual arts.

The cost of living in Madison can be high, with average home prices and rental rates above the national average. 

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Salt Lake City, Utah with Dwayne Atkinson03 Apr 202400:54:42

Dwayne was born/raised in the northern Utah area (Ogden, north of SLC) and also spent time in southern California (Oxnard)

He was educated in Utah through high school, and went to Weber State University, majoring in Architecture, but discontinued his education. 

Raised in the area's predominant religion (Latter Day Saints, Mormon) Served a church mission to So. Korea. Has since left organized religion.

They have been in a relationship since 1987, They were legally married in Oakland CA, when it was legal in California and then again In Salt Lake after the federal recognition of same-sex marriage.

His employment is in Fire Protection and he worked in the Salt Lake area for 8yr and currently in the Oakland/San Francisco CA area (27 years) but remains living in SLC Utah. 

He has lived in downtown Salt Lake since 2002. They recently sold our condo there and live in South Ogden. He enjoyed the SLC community/vibe since he's a city guy, but his husband is not so much!

He was part of the neighborhood community, and also supported the gay community but was not active/involved in the community.

He has already planned for retirement locations and has a tiny home in Littlefield AZ (a sliver of Arizona between Utah and Nevada) and a place in Baltimore MD. 

They chose to remain in Northern Utah for our primary retirement location.

Hobbies are camping (maybe considered glamping! LOL), hiking in summer, snowshoeing in winter, riding side by side in the mountains and desert, attending local car shows, local community festivals, small venue music concerts, and evenings with friends enjoying dinner and wine.

I'm still working, but I enjoy traveling when we can (when I can) to different places around the country and sometimes the world. 

Salt Lake City

Salt Lake City, often shortened to Salt Lake or SLC, is the capital and most populous city of Utah, United States. It is the seat of Salt Lake County, the most populous county in Utah. 

Salt Lake City, state capital and seat (1849) of Salt Lake County, north-central Utah, U.S., situated on the Jordan River at the southeastern end of Great Salt Lake.

Summary of cost of living in Salt Lake City, UT, United States: A family of four estimated monthly costs are 3,766.4$ without rent. A single person's estimated monthly costs are 1,047.8$ without rent. Salt Lake City is 30.6% less expensive than New York (without rent). 

Ithaca, New York with Kurt Becker21 Mar 202401:02:38

"Meet Kurt Becker, a seasoned public health professional with a rich journey of dedication and impact. Originally from Ithaca, NY, Kurt earned dual degrees in broadcasting and developmental psychology from Tompkins Cortland Community College. After moving to Las Cruces, New Mexico, he finished courses at New Mexico State University and graduated from SUNY Cortland in 1994 with a bachelor of science in psychology.

Kurt's commitment to community health began in Las Cruces, where he served as a Health Educator for Families and Youth. Notably, he initiated an LGBTQ+ youth group, 'The Next Rainbow Generation,' orchestrating remarkable initiatives such as raising funds to showcase the largest ever NAMES Project AIDS memorial quilt in southern New Mexico, spanning over 15,000 square feet. Kurt and his youth also pioneered 'Not Your Mom's Prom,' one of the area's first alternative proms.

 In 1999, Kurt's journey led him to Austin, Texas, where he assumed the role of the City's Coordinator for Ryan White funds, overseeing the distribution of over $4 million annually. In 2006, he became the immunization manager for the City of Austin and Travis County. He successfully secured a $12 million grant to provide easy and free access to vaccines for at-risk adults.

In 2021 Kurt retired from the City of Austin and returned to his roots in Ithaca with his husband of 15 years, Jose. Nestled on 1.5 green acres, they share their home with their two dogs, Molly and Heidi." 

**Ithaca, New York Quick Facts:**

- **Location:**

 - Located in the Finger Lakes region of New York, in the northeastern United States.

 - Approximately 225 miles northwest of New York City 

- **Geography:**

 - Surrounded by picturesque natural landscapes, including gorges, waterfalls, and Cayuga Lake.

 - Home to Cornell University and Ithaca College.

- **Climate:**

 - Experiences a humid continental climate with cold winters and warm summers.

 - Average winter temperatures range from -1 to -8°C (30 to 18°F), while summer temperatures range from 14 to 27°C (57 to 80°F).

- **Cost of Living:**

 - The cost of living is moderate, with housing costs being a significant factor.

 The average price of a single-family home varies but may range from $250,000 to $400,000, depending on the neighborhood and size.

- **Arts and Culture:**

 - Vibrant arts scene with numerous galleries, theaters, and cultural events.

 - Hosts festivals, including the Ithaca Festival and the Finger Lakes International Film Festival.

- **LGBTQ+ Community:**

 - Ithaca is known for its LGBTQ+ inclusivity and progressive values.

 - Supportive community with LGBTQ+ events and organizations.

- **Healthcare:**

 - Access to healthcare through local hospitals and clinics.

 - Presence of medical facilities associated with Cornell University.

- **Crime and Safety:**

 - Generally considered a safe city with a low crime rate.

Saugatuck/Douglas, Michigan With Kevin Putnam07 Mar 202401:01:06

Kevin grew up in the Detroit area. He attended college at Wayne State University and acquired his  Bachelor’s Degree in Business Management and Entrepreneurship. He started working with McDonald’s Restaurants as a franchisee in 1988 as an hourly crew person and worked his up to Director of Operations and Managing Partner. 

He has a great life partner and best friend, and they have been together for 22 years. In 2005, they purchased a second home in the Saugatuck/Douglas area which they loved and enjoyed for years. In 2016, they both decided to permanently relocate to West, Michigan. After 27.5 years with McDonald’s, he pursued his interests in Real Estate…and has been enjoying it eight years later. They have two little Havanese Fur Babies, Rex (5 yrs old) and Max (4 years old). His partner and Kevin love spending time with their little fur babies, vacationing, sharing time with friends, meeting new people, and enjoying life to the best of their ability. If anyone should have any Real Estate needs, Kevin can help anywhere in Michigan, and even assist anywhere in the US.

Best wishes for happiness, good health, and good/memorable times.

Kevin Putnam…with Kevin & Sarah, Coastal Living Advisors Email is… KevinandSarah@CoastalLivingAdvisors.com Website is… https://www.coastallivingadvisors.com Contact Number is… (586)524-3462.

Saugatuck/Douglas, Michigan

  • Location: Situated on the eastern shore of Lake Michigan, in Allegan County, Michigan. 
  • Nickname: "The Art Coast of Michigan" due to its thriving art scene and numerous art galleries. 
  • Population: Around 865 residents (city of Saugatuck) but the area attracts many tourists throughout the year.
  • Beaches: Award-winning beaches with soft sand and clear waters, perfect for swimming, sunbathing, and water sports. 
  • Outdoor activities: Hiking, biking, kayaking, canoeing, stand-up paddleboarding, and fishing are popular options. 
  • Wineries and breweries: Sample local wines and craft beers at the many wineries and breweries in the area. 
  • Art scene: Explore the numerous art galleries, studios, and museums showcasing the work of local and regional artists.
  • Festivals and events: Throughout the year, Saugatuck/Douglas hosts a variety of festivals and events, including the Saugatuck Art Fair, the Saugatuck Boat Show, and the Douglas Winter Fest. 
  • Dining: Enjoy a variety of restaurants, cafes, and bars offering fresh, seasonal cuisine. 
  • Shopping: Find unique gifts and souvenirs at the many shops and boutiques in Saugatuck/Douglas. 
  • Accommodations: Choose from a variety of hotels, resorts, vacation rentals, and campgrounds to suit your needs and budget.

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Climate Change and Retirement – Where Should You Settle for the Future?10 Oct 202400:23:26

Summary

Climate change is a crucial factor to consider when choosing a retirement destination, especially for the LGBTQ community seeking both safety and inclusivity. In this engaging episode of "Where Do Gays Retire?" host Mark Goldstein explores various U.S. cities that stand out for their proactive approaches to climate change mitigation. From the eco-conscious vibes of Portland, Oregon, to the wind-powered ambitions of Chicago, Illinois, each city is committed to sustainability while maintaining a welcoming atmosphere for the LGBTQ community. Mark also highlights affordable cities with minimal climate risks, such as Madison, Wisconsin, and Burlington, Vermont, where retirees can enjoy a progressive lifestyle without breaking the bank. For those considering international options, cities like Lisbon, Portugal, and Auckland, New Zealand, emerge as top contenders, offering charm, affordability, and vibrant LGBTQ scenes without the looming threat of climate chaos.

Show Notes

Exploring the intersection of climate change and retirement, Mark Goldstein delves into the best cities for LGBTQ retirees seeking sustainable and inclusive environments. Focusing on proactive and affordable cities, the episode covers key factors like municipal equality scores and climate resilience. Cities like Austin and Chicago are praised for their green initiatives, while Madison and Burlington are noted for their affordability and safety from climate extremes. The narrative offers a blend of humor and practical advice, emphasizing the importance of choosing a city that aligns with one's values and is resilient against climate challenges. The episode concludes with a look at international destinations, providing a global perspective on retirement options.

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Chicago, Illinois With Marc Goldberg22 Feb 202401:08:32

Marc Goldberg 

Dog Trainer and author

Marc  Goldberg had his first paying client while still in junior high school and printed his first business card in 1975 at the age of 17.  Marc first competed in an American Kennel Club obedience ring at age 12 with his first dog, a Sheltie named Gus.  They won High in Trial, beating out nearly 100 dogs and they won a Dog World Magazine Award that same year.

Marc became the youngest voting member of the Philadelphia Dog Training Club. He trained dogs for private clients during college at Frankin & Marshall and taught classes for the college Adult Education program. 

Marc became a full-time professional dog trainer in the Chicago area. He served as president of the International Association of Canine Professionals.  

Now he writes books with the Monks of New Skete who are NY Times Best Selling authors. Together, they have coauthored three books:

LET DOGS BE DOGS

THE ART OF TRAINING YOUR DOG 

And their newly released book THE JOY OF PLAYING WITH YOUR DOG

Marc lives with his partner and their two beloved dogs.

Chicago, Illinois
 
- **Population:**
  - Approximately 2.7 million people (as of my last knowledge update in 2022).

- **Climate:**
  - Humid continental climate with distinct seasons.
  - Winters are cold and snowy, while summers are warm and humid.

- **Cost of Living:**
  - The cost of living in Chicago is generally higher than the national average.
  - Housing costs can be a significant factor, with variations between neighborhoods.

- **Transportation:**
  - Extensive public transportation system including buses and the "L" train system.
  - Major highways and expressways for commuting.
  - Bike-friendly city with a growing emphasis on cycling infrastructure.

- **LGBTQ+ Community:**
  - Chicago has a vibrant LGBTQ+ community with numerous events and organizations.
  - Boystown, in the Lakeview neighborhood, is one of the oldest and most famous LGBTQ+ neighborhoods in the U.S.

- **Arts and Culture:**
  - Home to numerous museums, including the Art Institute of Chicago and the Museum of Science and Industry.
  - The city has a rich architectural history, with iconic buildings like the Willis Tower and John Hancock Center.
  - A thriving theater scene, including the famous Chicago Broadway district.

- **Crime and Safety:**
  - Like many large cities, crime rates can vary by neighborhood.
  - Areas downtown and in the north side are generally considered safer, while some south and west side neighborhoods may have higher crime rates.
  - The city has implemented various initiatives to address crime and improve public safety.

These facts provide a general overview, and it's essential to note that the situation in any city can change, so it's a good idea to check for the most recent information if you're considering a move or an extended visit.

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Las Cruces, New Mexico with Michael Stracener08 Feb 202401:26:47

Dr. Michael Stracener is currently a Visiting Professor in social welfare policy at New Mexico State University in Las Cruces, New Mexico. He has 40-plus years’ experience as a clinical social worker and doctor of public health, retiring to Las Cruces in 2021 from Federal service with the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. Dr. Stracener is married to Larry King, a clinical social worker who also retired from Federal service with the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs.  Due to the increasingly conservative political policies in their home state (Arkansas) and the overturning of a city ordinance in place to protect employees on the basis of gender identity and expression, the couple decided to leave Arkansas for retirement. Upon retiring from Federal service, the couple researched things such as economics, political climate, cost of living, access to healthcare, and climate in New Mexico, Arizona, California Colorado, and Oregon. The couple narrowed the options to California, Arizona, and New Mexico and made several trips to each to get a feel for where they wanted to live. Climate, moderate cost of living, progressive political climate, and the friendly and diverse cultural community drew them to Las Cruces, New Mexico The presence of a university or college in their retirement community was important and Las Cruces is the home of New Mexico State University (NM SU), a university with enrollment of around 22,000 students. Surrounded by beautiful mountains, Las Cruces looks very similar to Palm Springs California terrain wise, but does not have the high Palm Springs cost of living. Las Cruces is the second largest city in New Mexico with a population of over 100,000. 

The couple bought their home in the Mesilla Valley area of Las Cruces in September of 2021 and were able to complete their move in November 2021. In November of 2022, Michael was contacted by a recruiter and asked to consider teaching social welfare policy at NMSU as a Visiting Professor. He began teaching in January 2023 and continues to teach online courses for the School of Social Work at NMSU, focusing on social policy. Since retirement and the move to Las Cruces, Larry has been engaged with a national therapy organization to provide online mental health counseling to residents of New Mexico and Arkansas.


Lac Cruces:

  • Population: 111,385 (2020)
  • Location: Southern New Mexico, on the banks of the Rio Grande
  • Elevation: 3,908 feet (1,193 m)
  • Climate: Warm, dry desert climate with 350 days of sunshine per year
  • Major industries: Education, healthcare, tourism, agriculture
  • Notable attractions: White Sands National Monument, Organ Mountains-Desert Peaks National Monument, Mesilla Valley Bosque State Park, New Mexico State University, Spaceport America
  • Why people visit Las Cruces: For its warm weather, beautiful scenery, and variety of cultural and recreational activities
  • Why people live in Las Cruces: For its affordable cost of living, friendly people, and proximity to outdoor recreation



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National Capital Region - District of Columbia, Maryland, Virginia (DMV) with Jim Hansen25 Jan 202401:15:52

Jim Hansen

He was born in Pensacola, Florida in 1965 and raised in a military family. By the time he graduated from high school in 1983 in Newport News, Virginia, he had attended 9 different elementary and secondary schools. He can legitimately say he has lived in Texas, Oklahoma, Kansas, Florida, Georgia, South Carolina, North Carolina, Virginia, Washington D.C., New York, Germany and now Maryland. Until he moved to the Washington metro area in 1989, he had never lived in one town/city for more than 3 years.  

Travel and anything international have always been a significant part of his life. He grew up with a German grandmother who taught high school social studies when she wasn’t traveling the world. His grandfather was in the American military and stationed in Turkey in the 1950s and Iran in the 1960s. That fueled his grandmother’s love of the far and near east and that was transmitted to him via the slides she would show him when he stayed at her house and all the Asian artifacts that filled her home. She literally traveled the entire Silk Road except Afghanistan.  By the time he graduated college, he had already been to Europe and Asia. His career choices seemed to boil down to either international relations the hospitality industry, or a mix of the two.

Luck and chance led him to a career in the Federal Government where he’s been for 33 years. Approximately 23 of those years have been spent doing international work. The remainder has been in high-level management positions. His work has allowed him to travel to Europe, South America, and Asia multiple times. Between work and his own passion for travel, he’s a member of the 6 continents club (with only Antarctica being the one that got away). His passion for travel continues in retirement. He’s a big believer in life lists (NOT bucket lists). His generally contains places he’d love to visit. He’s been very lucky in that he’s hit so many places but there are still more to see. Right now, that includes New Zealand, India, South Africa, Costa Rica, Poland, and all the countries of the former Yugoslavia. 

He's very fortunate to have a partner of 29 years who also loves to travel. Ultimately, it’s a compromise. We trade off in picking places to visit. Next stop? Probably Greece because he hasn’t been (I’ve been twice). His next stop? Either India or New Zealand.

The Washington metropolitan area, also sometimes referred to as Greater Washington, the National Capital Region, or colloquially as the DMV (named after the District of Columbia, Maryland, and Virginia), is the metropolitan area containing Washington, D.C., the federal capital of the United States. The metropolitan area includes all of Washington, D.C., and parts of Maryland, Virginia, and West Virginia

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Ericeira, Portugal with Roxana Bellia11 Jan 202401:33:43

Roxana Bellia
Growing up in Buenos Aires in the 60s, the adventure and quest for new economic opportunities took my parents to the vibrant city of New York. This was amidst the tenuous and fragile government that was later to succumb to a dictatorship.

Despite having grown up with a cosmopolitan mindset and bicultural orientation, California became home and in adult life, Long Beach was my happy home for a long time. 

I currently work mostly remotely as an executive coach and leadership development advisor, although I sometimes travel within Europe for engagements. I support clients primarily in the US, and also in Latin America, the Caribbean, and Europe. My career began in community public health with many fond memories created in the city of Long Beach where I played and worked.

I live in a 4-story moradia en banda (similar to a townhouse) 3 blocks from the beach in the quaint town of Ericeira with my dog Riley. I’m single.

My wife and partner died in 2017. April was an artist and spiritual seeker and her loss in part fueled my decision to explore beyond my borders. I coached myself – was I living in a town that aligned with my values? The answer was no. Violence, racism, growing homelessness. Added to this, financial pressures brought about my pandemic aftermath. I experienced a significant loss of work and income. So, with 3 passports in hand, US, Italian, and Argentinean, I started to reflect on options outside of where I lived. I didn’t want to “burn” through my savings to stay afloat. And so in the middle of the pandemic, I reached out to my good friend and realtor Marilyn who then lived on the same street and decided to move on selling my property while the market was hot.

Population:

  • 8,951 (2021)

Geography:

  • A coastal town in the Lisbon District of Portugal
  • Known for its world-class surfing beaches
  • Located about 50 kilometers northwest of Lisbon

Cost of Living:

  • Lower than most major European cities
  • The average rent for a one-bedroom apartment is €600 per month
  • The average cost of a meal at a restaurant is €10

LGBTQ Community:

  • Ericeira is a welcoming and inclusive community for LGBTQ people
  • There are several LGBTQ-friendly bars and clubs in town
  • Ericeira Pride is celebrated annually in June

Crime and Safety:

  • Ericeira is a very safe place to live
  • Crime rates are very low
  • The town has a strong sense of community and people look out for each other

Additional Facts:

  • Ericeira is a UNESCO World Surfing Reserve
  • The town is home to several beautiful beaches, including Praia dos Supertubos, which is known for its powerful waves
  • Ericeira is also a popular destination for hiking, biking, and other outdoor activities
  • The town has a charming historic center with narrow streets and traditional Portuguese houses
  • Ericeira is a great place to live for people who are looking for a relaxed and laid-back lifestyle



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Puerto Vallarta, Mexico (Refresh) with Herschel Weisfeld28 Dec 202301:45:04

Herschel Alan Weisfeld was born March 14, 1961, in McAllen, Texas along the southern border just across the Rio Grande River from Reynosa, Mexico, and graduated from public school in 1979.  While in high school he studied real estate and received his Texas Real Estate salesman’s license as soon as he turned 18 and his Real estate broker’s license at the age of 23.  He received a Bachelor’s degree in Business Management with a concentration in accounting from Tulane University in New Orleans in 1983.

He moved to Dallas Texas in the spring of 1984 where he built a self-directed real estate investment company where he still owns and manages a diverse portfolio of commercial real estate rental properties.  

He came out to his family in the fall of 1984 and today is single and breeds the national dog of Mexico, of which he has 8, and shares these fine miniature hairless Xoloitzcuintli who is just as passionate about the breed as was Freda Khalo and Diego Rivera who brought attention to this 3500-year-old breed that the Aztecs held in high esteem.

He also spent decades engaged in the cultural, political, and civic communities by giving of both his time and resources of which the list is endless.  He has received countless awards and recognitions from art, and historic preservation to homelessness sitting on many boards, commissions, and task forces both in the US and Mexico.

 In 2003 while vacationing in Puerto Vallarta Mexico he bought a small home on a mountainside overlooking the romantic zone and assembled three additional adjoining properties where he designed and built Hacienda Herchito which includes six fully furnished rental apartments along with his private residence which was designed as a boutique hotel but occupied as his private home.  These acquisitions were astute moves before the word got out about PV and the extensive condo explosion took place.

Today Herschel is once again working on a new construction project which is an assemblage of six properties on a higher mountaintop that will be a home with gardens unlike anything that can be found in the romantic zone today so that his dogs will have plenty of room to roam and is known as La Casa Nuevo de La Familia de Yoli y Temo.

Puerto Vallarta Quick Facts

  • Population: 319,000
  • Geography: Puerto Vallarta is a coastal city in Mexico, located in the state of Jalisco. It is situated on the Pacific Ocean, on the western side of Mexico's mainland. The city is surrounded by the Sierra Madre Occidental mountains to the east.
  • Climate: Puerto Vallarta has a tropical climate, with warm, humid weather year-round. The average temperature is 25°C (77°F). The rainy season runs from June to October, but even during this time, there are usually sunny days in between the rains.
  • Cost of living: The cost of living in Puerto Vallarta is relatively low, especially when compared to other popular tourist destinations in Mexico. A couple can live comfortably on $2,000 per month, including rent, utilities, and groceries.
  • Visa requirements: US citizens do not need a visa to visit Mexico for up to 180 days. However, if you plan to stay longer

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La Barra, Uruguay with Elaine Zito and Cynthia Richards14 Dec 202301:36:14

Elaine Zito was born in Chicago and raised in Elk Grove Village until her family moved to Southern California. She graduated from UCSD in San Diego and received her Political Science degree with an emphasis in Latin American Politics. During her tenure at UCSD, she had the opportunity to study in Mexico City. This is where she discovered her love for the Latin people and culture. Three years later while teaching elementary school in San Diego, Elaine received her Masters in Education with an emphasis in Bilingual Education from the University of San Diego. She has been working on becoming bilingual in Spanish for decades now…it’s a process, not an event!

In 1994, Elaine relocated to Scottsdale, AZ and soon thereafter became securities and insurance licensed after her teaching job ended in Phoenix. 

She figured she might as well learn about money, something her family didn’t really teach her about…After several years of training, she earned her Certified Financial Planning designation as well as the Certified Estate Planning designation.

Elaine helped people retire for 27 years. After Covid and the death of her mother, she and her wife decided to hang it up and retire to Uruguay where they currently reside happily and safely. 

Her major incentive to move away from the US was to create a life where she didn’t feel terrorized on a daily basis.

Cynthia Richards was born and raised in Maine. She is the baby of the family with an older brother who lives in Washington state. She grew up tromping in the woods, fishing in the lakes, and looking for Mermaid tears (sea glass) with her family. She married the woman of her dreams, Elaine Zito, in 2015, and they now tromp through the woods, eat fish someone else has caught, and look for Mermaid tears on the beaches of Uruguay with their family of three dogs.

She started dance class at two or three, found her people in theater groups in school and throughout Maine, and eventually moved to the Washington D.C. area to work professionally in the theater communities in D.C., Virginia, and Maryland. This is a love she has today and continued with Voices of the Desert, an Unconventional Theatrical Chorus in Phoenix, AZ. 

Cynthia has a Master’s Degree in Business with an emphasis on Human Resource Management and has worked in the HR capacity in many forms of business, eventually spending the years before retirement working with her wife in the finance industry. 

Today she can be found in Uruguay, retired, walking with her family on the beach, learning Spanish, finding places to sing and dance, baking, playing pickleball, and being grateful and thankful for the life she has been allowed to create.

If you are interested in reaching out to either Elaine or Cynthia you can email them at elainezito65@gmail.com. 

  • Location: La Barra is a resort town located on the eastern coast of Uruguay, near the popular tourist destination of Punta del Este.
  • Population: La Barra has a population of about 2,000 people.
  • Climate: La Barra has a mild climate year-round, with average temperatures ranging from 60°F to 80°F.

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El Pescadero, Mexico with Lew Gallo30 Nov 202301:18:50

Born in Anaheim, California, Lew Gallo, and his family moved to the San Francisco area when he was nine years old. The move was not unfamiliar to Lew and his siblings. His parents were known to take Sunday drives. As it would get later in the day and no sign of his parents, Lew’s oldest sister would start to cry but Lew was filled with excitement. This usually meant their parents had found a new home to buy, and for Lew, a new place to discover and new friends to make!

It is this excitement of discovery and anticipation of meeting new people that has only flourished with time. After visiting Los Cabos on a quick weekend getaway with friends, Lew was captivated by the beauty of the ocean, terrain, and people of Baja Sur. The practically perfect weather and delicious cuisine only added to its allure. Lew went home, gave his notice at work, and was living in Cabo 3 months later.

Now, with 4+ years of living the Cabo life, Lew has become known for bringing people together and sharing his love for all that is Cabo. He has earned a reputation for taking exceptional care of the buyers and sellers he represents, making sure to go the extra mile to get the best deal possible. Whether it’s a high-rise condo or a high-end beachfront property, Lew knows the ins and outs of Los Cabos and the surrounding neighborhoods.

Before entering real estate, Lew had a successful furniture and interior design career focusing on superior quality and unique sustainable design. He has a discerning eye for architecture and an appreciation of community. Combine that with a genuine concern for people and an ability to hear their specific needs and wants, and you see what drives Lew to be the best at what he does.

Lew has had the opportunity to travel the world for both work and pleasure. For his design work, he spent a lot of time in Asia and Europe. During this time, he found a deep love for Vietnam and considered living there at one point. Luca Italy was also on his list of places to live but since his parents were getting up there in age, he wanted to focus on places closer to the US. After crossing PV and PS off of his list, he discovered San Jose del Cabo and knew he found his new home.
Check out his website at www.gallo64.com

 El Pescadero, Mexico:

  • Population: 4,245 (2020)
  • Geography: Located on the Pacific coast of Baja California Sur, Mexico, about 8 kilometers south of Todos Santos and one hour north of Cabo San Lucas.
  • Climate: Hot and dry summers, mild winters. Average temperature: 22°C (72°F).
  • LGBTQ+ community: El Pescadero is a relatively accepting community for LGBTQ+ people. There are a few gay-owned businesses in town, and the annual Chili and Strawberry Festival is a popular event for the LGBTQ+ community.
  • Cost of living: The cost of living in El Pescadero is lower than in most other parts of Mexico. A couple can live comfortably on a budget of around $1,500 USD per month.


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Uvita, Costa Rica with Joe Studer and Keith Foley16 Nov 202301:26:58

Keith and Joe moved to Costa Rica after many years of living in Arizona.  They have been together for 16 years.  They both had a dream of living in Costa Rica and running a small hotel.  3 years ago, they finally made it come true, finding the perfect hotel in Uvita Costa Rica.  They sold their home in Arizona and bought Nature’s Edge Hotel in March 2020.  The US borders shut the exact week that they planned to move due to Covid, so they had to manage a major hotel renovation project remotely from the states.  The borders finally opened in September 2020, allowing them to finally arrive in Costa Rica.  Their first hotel guests arrived in December 2020.

Keith was born in New Jersey but spent most of his younger life in Atlanta.  Joe was born and raised in Chicago.  After meeting 16 years ago, they moved to Arizona.

Keith has a degree in Psychology from Georgia State.

Joe started his career as a registered nurse but worked most of his professional career in the IT and Operations side of healthcare.  Joe has a BSN from Northern Illinois, an MBA from Loyola University Chicago, and a Masters degree in Healthcare Administration from Georgia State University.  Joe worked remotely for the first 3 years after moving to Costa Rica but just retired (June 30, 2023) and now works solely helping to run the hotel.

Keith has had a variety of jobs throughout his career, first working as a corporate travel agent and then moving on to various project management roles in the tech and travel industries.  Keith quit working after purchasing the hotel and is the primary operator of the hotel.  Joe cooks breakfast, sets up rooms, does laundry, and checks in guests.

Joe plays tennis, works out at the gym, hikes, reads, cooks, and bakes.  He also watches a lot of tennis on TV.

Keith discovered a love for gardening and bird watching since moving to Costa Rica.  They both are actively engaged in the Costa Rican community they live in. 

Both Keith and Joe enjoy traveling.   They are going on an extended trip to Spain followed by a trans-Atlantic cruise.

Uvita 

Town in Costa Rica

  • Population: Approximately 5,000 people
  • Geography: Uvita is located on the southern Pacific coast of Costa Rica, in the Puntarenas province. It is about a 3-hour drive from the capital city of San José. 
  • Climate: Uvita has a tropical rainforest climate, with warm temperatures and high humidity year-round. The average temperature is 77°F (25°C).
  • Cost of living: The cost of living in Uvita is relatively affordable, especially compared to other parts of Costa Rica. Groceries are also relatively inexpensive, and you can find many local restaurants that offer affordable meals.
  • Uvita is home to the Whale Tail, a natural rock formation that resembles a whale's tail. This is a popular spot for whale watching, as humpback whales migrate to the area every year to mate and give birth. 
  • Uvita is also home to the Marino Ballena National Park, which protects a variety of wildlife, including humpback whales, dolphins, turtles, and monkeys.
  • Uvita is a popular destination for surfers, as it has several good surfing spot

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Hilo, Hawaii with Richard Ostreicher and Bob Sleasman02 Nov 202300:54:46

Richard Ostreicher  was born in Plainview, New York, and began his professional career at the Yale School of Drama and Yale Repertory Theatre.  He went on to be the first Managing Director of the Portland Stage Company, Maine’s first resident professional theatre.

The early 80s HIV/AIDS crisis inspired him to partner with NYC-based pioneers in HIV/AIDS patient care and research that was published in notable medical journals and tests.  This life-changing experience led him to enroll in medical school at the age of 29.  He returned to Yale in ’88 as a resident in Internal Medicine and then to NYU as a resident in Dermatology.

He has over 35 years of medical experience in the San Francisco Bay area and was an Assistant Professor of Medicine at the University of California, San Francisco.

He is currently a volunteer physician with Hawaii’s Big Island Medical Reserve Corps and resides near Hilo, Hawaii with his husband, Bob Sleasman.

Bob Sleasman is originally from upstate New York.  His professional brand marketing career led him over the years to reside in the San Francisco Bay Area, Chicago, Cincinnati, Baltimore, and Sarasota.  He currently is gleefully retired and living on Hawaii’s Big Island with his husband Rich.

After earning his MBA at Northwestern University’s prestigious Kellogg School he climbed the corporate brand management ladder at such companies as Procter & Gamble, Clorox, and Ghirardelli Premium Chocolate.  Having developed an expertise in strategic brand design he jumped to the branding agency business and consulted with a multitude of well-known consumer brands for the balance of his career.

Hilo is the largest city on the Big Island of Hawaii, with a population of 45,248 as of 2020. It is located on the eastern side of the island, on the shores of Hilo Bay. Hilo is a popular tourist destination, known for its beautiful scenery, lush rainforests, and active volcanoes.

Some of the popular points of interest in Hilo include:

  • Rainbow Falls: A beautiful waterfall that cascades over a basalt cliff.
  • Akaka Falls State Park: A park that features Akaka Falls, one of the tallest waterfalls in Hawaii.
  • Hawaii Volcanoes National Park: A national park that protects the active volcanoes of Kilauea and Mauna Loa.
  • Liliuokalani Gardens: A botanical garden that features a variety of plants from around the world.
  • Lyman Museum and Mission House: A museum that tells the story of the early missionaries to Hawaii.
  • Pacific Tsunami Museum: A museum that tells the story of the devastating tsunami that struck Hilo in 1946.

The cost of living in Hilo is relatively high, compared to other parts of the United States. The median home price in Hilo is $500,000, and the median rent is $1,500 per month. However, the cost of living in Hilo is still lower than on the other islands of Hawaii.

The LGBTQ+ community in Hilo is small but active. There are a number of LGBTQ+-friendly businesses and organizations in Hilo, and the city is generally welcoming to LGBTQ+ people.

Here are some additional facts about Hilo:

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New Orleans, Louisiana with Jim Meadows and Joe Fay19 Oct 202301:28:01

Jim Meadows, MSW, is the executive director of New Orleans Advocates for LGBTQ+ Elders (NOAGE). 

In addition to his work with NOAGE, he is the secretary for the LGBT Archives Project of Louisiana, and he serves on the board of directors for A Home Among Friends, which aims to provide affordable housing to low-income LGBT seniors in New Orleans.

He is vice president of the New Orleans Steamboat Club, one of the oldest gay social clubs in America. He is particularly interested in providing support to LGBT elders, and in preserving the history and legacy of the New Orleans LGBT community.

Joe Fay is the founder of A Home Among Friends, a 501(c)(3) created to provide affordable housing for very low-income LGBTQ seniors. We believe communities that are modest in scope work best to create not just housing, but homes for older folks who deserve as much as anyone to enjoy their golden years in safe, welcoming environments.

Joe spent 30 years in the non-profit sector in senior management and leadership. He is a graduate of Boston College and Columbia University's Graduate School of Business. He served as a U.S. Navy Supply Corps Officer between college and graduate school. He and his long-time partner were recently married in New Orleans. They live in the Irish Channel in a restored Italianate home dating from the 1880s.

New Orleans
New Orleans is a Louisiana city on the Mississippi River, near the Gulf of Mexico. Nicknamed the "Big Easy," it's known for its round-the-clock nightlife, vibrant live music scene, and spicy, singular cuisine reflecting its history as a melting pot of French, African, and American cultures. Embodying its festive spirit is Mardi Gras, the late-winter carnival famed for raucous costumed parades and street parties. 

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Exploring Retirement in Spain: Valencia vs. Malaga for LGBTQ Expats with Dave Piccolo, Jesus Bartoli and Steve Aronberg02 Oct 202401:33:05

Summary/Intro

The podcast episode delves into the experiences of LGBTQ retirees living in Malaga and Valencia, Spain, highlighting the allure of these Spanish cities for those seeking a vibrant and inclusive retirement destination. Host Mark Goldstein engages with guests Steve Aronberg from Malaga and Dave Piccolo and Jesus Bartoli from Valencia, who share insights about the climate, cost of living, healthcare, and the welcoming atmosphere for LGBTQ individuals. Both cities boast a high quality of life, affordable living costs, excellent healthcare systems, and a rich cultural landscape, making them attractive options for expatriates. The discussion also touches on practical aspects such as obtaining residency, navigating Spanish bureaucracy, and the minimal crime rates, underscoring the safety and comfort of living in Spain. With personal anecdotes and expert advice, the episode offers valuable guidance for those considering a move to these sun-soaked destinations.

Show Notes

Exploring the nuances of retirement in Spain, Mark Goldstein hosts an engaging dialogue featuring insights from Steve Aronberg in Malaga and Dave Piccolo and Jesus Bartoli in Valencia. This installment of the "Where Do Gays Retire?" podcast offers a comprehensive look at the factors influencing expatriates' choice of retirement location, from climate and geography to local culture and real estate.

Steve shares his experience of Malaga's sunny Mediterranean climate and its appeal to retirees seeking an active, outdoor lifestyle. He discusses the region's cultural richness, including its lively arts scene and historical landmarks. Dave and Jesus highlight Valencia's affordability and flat terrain, making it an ideal place for walking and cycling. They emphasize the vibrant food culture, where local markets and diverse dining options abound, offering a taste of authentic Spanish cuisine.

The episode also addresses the practical aspects of living abroad, such as healthcare and language barriers, while reassuring listeners about the safety and inclusivity of both cities. Both locations are portrayed as welcoming to the LGBTQ community, with a sense of acceptance and integration into the broader society. The discussion encourages potential retirees to explore different parts of Spain to find a location that aligns with their personal and financial needs, highlighting the benefits of a slower-paced, culturally rich lifestyle.

Takeaways:

  • The podcast explores two Spanish cities, Malaga and Valencia, as potential retirement destinations for the LGBTQ community.
  • Malaga offers a sunny climate with 300 days of sunshine a year, making it an attractive place to live outdoors.
  • Valencia is a flat, walkable city with a low cost of living. It is famous for its rice dishes, such as paella.
  • Malaga and Valencia have vibrant LGBTQ-friendly communities and are very accepting of diversity.
  • The healthcare system in Spain is affordable and accessible, with private insurance options for non-residents.
  • Spain is known for its safety, with low crime rates and a lack of gun culture, providing peace of mind.

Steve Aronberg

He was born in Nuremberg, Germany. His dad was in the army and stationed there. His dad proposed to his mom, who flew over to get married. He spent all his teen years in New Bedford, MA, and graduated from the University of Massachusetts in Amherst with a degree in Business Administration.

His entire career was with the U.S. Federal government, and he spent his last 25 years working for the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission. He is a strong proponent of equality and was fortunate to spend most of his working career supporting civil rights. He was also fortunate to retire at the young age of 55.

During his career, he lived in the Washington, D.C. metro area and worked in San Diego, CA, for 17+ years. He met his husband in San Diego, and they have been together for 25 years. They have been married since 2013.

They bought their home in Spain in January 2017. He is a Spanish resident and lives there full-time.

Dave Piccolo

He lived as a real estate agent in Indianapolis, Indiana, for 30 years. In July 2019, he met Jesus from Venezuela and only planned to stay for three months before moving to Spain. They got married and moved to Dallas to be closer to his mom. They lived there for just one year before moving to Fort Myers, Florida. When Hurricane Ian came through Fort Myers and destroyed most of it (luckily, their house was spared), a displaced family needed housing, so they decided to rent it. As a result, they moved back to Dallas temporarily.

The political climate in Florida under Ron DeSantis and in Texas under Greg Abbott had become so extreme that he was experiencing anxiety and a general sense of unhappiness. When he and Jesus met, they talked about moving to Spain. Their goal was to move when he retired at 65 (he was 54 then). He started perusing Idealista to get a feel for the real estate market in Valencia. He spent the next six months looking at over 1,000 properties online from Dallas. He came across a property that was the needle in the haystack. It was newly converted into a residence (previously commercial), fully renovated, bright, open, spacious, and furnished with a 200-square-foot terrace. And it was half the budget they had anticipated.

They called the realtor and had him do FaceTime so they could see the apartment and neighborhood virtually. As a realtor, he knew they could not afford to pass this up and wait another ten years. So, they purchased it without ever setting foot in Valencia! They have been there about 14 months, love it, and have no regrets!

Jesus Gallardo Bartoli

Jesus was born and raised in Caracas, Venezuela, where he went to college and earned his degree in Business Administration and Tourism. In 2010, he moved to Bogota, Columbia, where he owned a Venezuelan restaurant for ten years. In 2019, he visited a friend in the US and planned to live in Spain. Dave and Jesus met in Indianapolis in 2019. They planned to move to Spain when Dave retired in 2027. A series of open doors allowed them to (semi) retire to Valencia in 2023.

Lambertville, NJ and New Hope PA with Mark McNease05 Oct 202301:12:03

Mark McNease is the author of 13 novels, including the Kyle Callahan Mysteries, the Maggie Dahl Mysteries, the Marshall James Thrillers, and several stand-alone books. He has had six plays produced, the last one being at New Jersey Repertory Company. He is the founder and editor of LGBTSR.com, a website dedicated to LGBTQ people over 50 and our friends that he launched 11 years ago.

He is a two-time Emmy winner, as the co-creator and original writer for the children’s television program, Into the Outdoors. He worked as the Story Editor for foreign co-productions of Sesame Street, before spending a decade at Reuters News, the world’s largest news organization, as the Executive Assistant to the Global Managing Editor. He has been the co-host of The Twist Podcast with his longtime collaborator Rick Rose (Madison, WI) for the past five years. 


He currently lives in rural New Jersey, after spending 25 years in New York City (preceded by 12 years in Los Angeles). He is a Mississippian by birth, a Hoosier by upbringing, and much prefers where he lives to either of those locations.  

He will soon celebrate 10 years of marriage to his husband, Frank Murray (17 years together), and loves ‘the country life’ surrounded by woods, animals, and plant life, just 20 minutes from Lambertville, NJ, his favorite town and now the setting of his murder mysteries.  

Check out Mark's website https://markmcnease.com/.  You will find his podcast The Twist with Mark & Rick, his books, and more.  Subscribe to LGBTSR.com and read columns, the Savvy Senior.
Thank you Mark for all that you do for our community!!! <3

Lambertville, New Jersey

Lambertville is a city within Hunterdon County in the U.S. state of New Jersey. As of the 2020 United States census, the city's population was 4,139, an increase of 233 (+6.0%) from the 3,906 recorded at the 2010 census, which in turn had reflected an increase of 38 (1.0%) from the 3,868 counted at the 2000 census.

Lambertville is situated on the banks of the Delaware River in southwestern Hunterdon County, directly across the river from New Hope, Pennsylvania. In the 18th century, the area was named after various operators of ferries across the river to Pennsylvania, ultimately becoming known as Coryell's Ferry, after its owner, Emanuel Coryell. Coryell's Ferry was the western terminus of the New Jersey portion of York Road, which became U.S. Route 202

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Mexico City, Mexico with Zac Campbell and John Rogers21 Sep 202301:28:39

Zac Campbell:
My name is Zac Campbell. I’m a chef, a wedding and event planner, a former interior designer, and a lover of living life out loud. I’ve produced upward of 300 weddings and events all over the world.  I’ve had the privilege to cook for Rock Stars, Royals, and Regular Joes and Janes. I’ve lived life with passion. I’ve hit hard times and I’ve celebrated the good times. I’ve been engaged twice and married once. Not only have I created beautiful events for other people, I have also created my own “BIG DAY”!

John Rogers:
John was born in Bogota, Colombia, and grew up in Denver, Colorado.
He attended the University of Colorado in Boulder with a major in Finance.
He moved to Dallas, Texas where he was a bank examiner for two years.
He attended law school at the University of Texas in Austin. 
He worked at the Federal Reserve Bank and was the assistant city attorney in Dallas where he worked in zoning and urban planning.
John retired in 2014 and was a flight attendant with Southwest Airlines, working at World Market, and LA Fitness.
He moved to Mexico City in June 2022.

Quick facts

Here are some quick facts on Mexico City, Mexico:

  • Area: 1,495 square kilometers (577 sq mi)
  • Altitude: 2,240 meters (7,350 ft)
  • Climate: Temperate, with hot summers and cool winters
  • Time zone: Central Standard Time (UTC-6)
  • Languages: Spanish, Nahuatl, and other indigenous languages
  • Currency: Mexican peso (MXN)
  • Government: Federal republic
  • Capital: Mexico City

Mexico City is the most populous city in North America and the second-largest city in the Americas after São Paulo, Brazil. It is also one of the world's largest metropolitan areas, with a population of over 22 million people. The city is located in the Valley of Mexico, at an altitude of over 2,000 meters (6,600 feet). Mexico City has a long and rich history, dating back to its founding by the Aztecs in the 14th century. The city was conquered by the Spanish in 1521 and became the capital of New Spain. After Mexico gained independence from Spain in 1821, Mexico City remained the capital of the new nation.

Today, Mexico City is a modern metropolis with a diverse population. The city is home to a wide range of cultural attractions, including museums, historical sites, and theaters. Mexico City is also a major center for business, finance, and education.

 



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Portland, Oregon with Paul Iarrobino07 Sep 202301:16:48

Paul Iarrobino is a community activist, speaker, author and documentarian with over three decades of gerontology experience.
He implemented virtual gatherings for older adults to safely connect during the pandemic to reduce isolation and increase social connectivity. This experience led to Paul’s first book, COVIDOLOGY: Sharing Life Lessons from Behind the Mask.
His current book Defining Moments will amplify the voices of LGBTQ+ writers and will be released early next year. You can follow his work at https://www.ourboldvoices.com.

Sure, here are some highlights of Portland, Oregon in bullet points:

  • Population: 641,162 (2021)
  • Climate: Temperate, with average temperatures ranging from 35°F (2°C) in the winter to 75°F (24°C) in the summer.
  • Geography: Located in the Willamette Valley, on the Columbia and Willamette rivers.
  • Cost of living: Moderate, with a median home price of $525,000 (2022).
  • LGBTQ+ community: Large and welcoming, with Portland being named one of the "Best Places to Live for LGBTQ People" by The Advocate magazine.
  • Arts and culture: Thriving, with a variety of museums, theaters, and music venues.
  • Crime and safety: Relatively safe, with a violent crime rate that is below the national average.

Here are some additional details about each of these highlights:

  • Population: Portland is the largest city in Oregon and the 26th largest city in the United States. The population is diverse, with many people from Asian, European, and Hispanic backgrounds.
  • Climate: Portland has a temperate climate, with four distinct seasons. The winters are mild, with average temperatures in the mid-30s Fahrenheit. The summers are warm, with average temperatures in the mid-70s Fahrenheit.
  • Geography: Portland is located in the Willamette Valley, a lush, green valley surrounded by mountains. The city is bisected by the Columbia and Willamette rivers, which provide stunning views and opportunities for recreation.
  • Cost of living: The cost of living in Portland is moderate, but it has been rising in recent years. The median home price is now over $500,000.
  • LGBTQ+ community: Portland has a large and welcoming LGBTQ+ community. The city has been named one of the "Best Places to Live for LGBTQ People" by The Advocate magazine.
  • Arts and culture: Portland has a thriving arts and culture scene. The city has a number of museums, theaters, and music venues. The Portland Art Museum is one of the oldest and largest museums in the Pacific Northwest. The Portland Center Stage is a professional theater company that produces a wide range of plays. The Portland Symphony Orchestra is a well-respected classical music ensemble.
  • Crime and safety: Portland is relatively safe, with a violent crime rate that is below the national average. However, the city has seen increased property crime in recent years.


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Sacramento, California with Greg Wine24 Aug 202301:28:00


Greg Wine lives with his husband Robert Zargaryan in Sacramento, California.

They have been together for 26 years after meeting at the Los Angeles Gay Rodeo.   

They moved to Sacramento 16 years ago from Los Angeles where Greg was a restaurant manager and a dietitian.   

Greg is now a retired clinical dietitian from UC Davis Medical Center, where he was promoting healthy nutrition and preventing malnutrition in patients with Head and Neck Cancer. 

 In retirement, Greg assists his husband Robert, a Realtor, and his clients with design ideas to maximize potential in buying and selling real estate.  

Together they live in an active 55+ resort community of 960 homes called Heritage Park, in Sacramento where they enjoy many amenities, including a 100+ member Rainbow Club. 

Sacramento, California

  • Current population: 523,899 (2022)
  • Geography: Sacramento is located in the Central Valley of California, at the confluence of the Sacramento and American rivers.
  • Cost of living: The cost of living in Sacramento is slightly lower than the national average.
  • Transportation: Sacramento is a relatively easy city to get around, with a variety of public transportation options available, including buses, light rail, and Amtrak.
  • LGBTQ+ community: Sacramento has a thriving LGBTQ+ community, with a number of bars, clubs, and organizations that cater to the community.
  • Crime and safety: Sacramento has a relatively low crime rate compared to other major cities in California.

Here are some additional details about each of these points:

  • Population: Sacramento is the capital of California and the sixth-most populous city in the state. The population has been growing steadily in recent years and is expected to continue to grow in the future.
  • Geography: Sacramento is located in the Central Valley of California, at the confluence of the Sacramento and American rivers. The city is surrounded by rolling hills and agricultural land.
  • Cost of living: The cost of living in Sacramento is slightly lower than the national average. The median home price is $450,000, and the median rent is $1,500 per month.
  • Transportation: Sacramento is a relatively easy city to get around, with a variety of public transportation options available. The Sacramento Regional Transit District (RTD) operates buses, light rail, and a streetcar. Amtrak also offers service to Sacramento.
  • LGBTQ+ community: Sacramento has a thriving LGBTQ+ community, with a number of bars, clubs, and organizations that cater to the community. The city hosts the annual Sacramento Pride Festival, which is one of the largest LGBTQ+ events in California.
  • Crime and safety: Sacramento has a relatively low crime rate compared to other major cities in California. The violent crime rate is below the national average, and the property crime rate is slightly above the national average.

Check out this link on LGBTQ+ Sacramento. 

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Bisbee, Arizona With Bob Klein10 Aug 202301:13:14

Bob Klein 

Originally from Philadelphia, Bob spent time growing up in Mexico and Florida, where he completed a Master’s Degree in Business Administration. Bob’s professional background includes a career working in grant administration for both the New Mexico State Supreme Court and the Cochise County, AZ Victim Witness Program. He has been involved in real estate for many years, starting off by working in property management in Santa Fe. Bob also owns and operates the Doublejack Guesthouse, a popular destination guesthouse in historic Old Bisbee. 

Bob has worked as a REALTOR in Bisbee since 2013; every year since 2015 he has been voted “Best REALTOR in Bisbee” by the Sierra Vista Herald. He has been a resident of Bisbee since 2004 and attributes much of his success to his passion for the community of Bisbee, from the people and historic nature of the town to the beauty of the historic architecture and the landscape. His appreciation and knowledge of Cochise County and the local real estate market have become an advantage for his clients; they continue to value his hands-on approach, attention to detail, persistence, strong negotiating skills, extensive local network, and insider knowledge. 

Community involvement is critical to Bob, and he’s manifested this in many ways. This includes being involved in the creation and development of the annual Bisbee Pride Festival and working with the annual Bisbee Historic Home Tour and annual Bisbee Coaster Races. Bob is also strongly committed to quality childhood education in Bisbee by working on the Bisbee Community Montessori School Board of Directors and CMS Executive Steering Committee. 

When Bob is not previewing Bisbee properties, assisting folks in listing their properties, or helping others find the perfect Bisbee home/getaway, he enjoys spending time with his family, volunteering, cooking, being physically active, traveling, and sharing experiences with friends. Whether sharing his passion for Bisbee with his clients or marketing a home to others, Bob is committed to offering the highest quality representation and service. His track record says it all.

Bisbee, Arizona

  • Population: Bisbee's population was around 5,500 residents. (2021) 
  • Geography: Bisbee is a city located in the southeastern part of Arizona, near the Mexican border. It is nestled in the Mule Mountains, surrounded by picturesque landscapes.
  • Climate: Bisbee experiences a semi-arid climate. Summers are typically hot with temperatures reaching the 90s °F (30-40°C) during the day. Winters are mild, with daytime temperatures averaging in the 50s to 60s °F (10-20°C). It can get quite chilly at night during the winter.
  • Cost of living: Bisbee is known for being an affordable place to live compared to larger cities in the United States. The cost of living can vary, but generally, housing costs, utilities, and other expenses are relatively reasonable.
  • LGBTQ+ community: Bisbee has a vibrant and inclusive LGBTQ+ community. The city has been recognized as LGBTQ+-friendly and has a reputation for being an accepting and supportive community for people of all sexual orientations an

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Cathedral City, California With Keith Coleman27 Jul 202301:24:25

Keith Coleman -
1984 - Worked at United Airlines, Los Angeles, CA as a Reservation Specialist

1985 - Worked as a flight attendant for United Airlines, Chicago, IL, Los Angeles CA, San Francisco, CA, Miami, FL, and London, UK              Moved to Cathedral City, California

1989 - Worked at College of the Desert. Palm Desert, CA as Adjunct faculty (Theatre Arts)

1991 - Moved to London, UK

1992 - Moved to Ft. Lauderdale, FL

1992 - Moved to Cathedral City, California

2004 - Graduated from San Francisco State University, M.A. (Drama)

2001- 2013 Produced and directed multiple plays for community theatre

2011- Retired from United Airlines

2023 -Traveling and enjoying life!  

I was partnered from 1985-1998, my husband is deceased

I am partnered/married from1999 to present

Two dogs, one cat, one tortoise


Cathedral City

  • Geography: Cathedral City is a desert resort city in Riverside County, California, United States, within the Colorado Desert's Coachella Valley. It is situated between Cathedral City and Rancho Mirage and has over 50,000 people.
  • Population: The population of Cathedral City is diverse, with a large Hispanic population. The median age is 38.1 years old, and the median household income is $50,350.
  • Cost of Living: The cost of living in Cathedral City is relatively high, especially for housing. The median home price is over $500,000.
  • LGBTQ Community: Cathedral City is a welcoming city for the LGBTQ community. The city has a Pride festival every year, and many LGBTQ-owned businesses are in the city.
  • Crime and Safety: The crime rate in Cathedral City is relatively low. The violent crime rate is below the national average, and the property crime rate is slightly above the national average.

Here are some additional facts about Cathedral City:

  • The city was incorporated in 1981.
  • The city is home to the Agua Caliente Band of Cahuilla Indians.
  • The city is known for its golf courses, spas, and resorts.
  • The city is a popular destination for winter snowbirds.

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San Diego With Stephen Keiley13 Jul 202301:07:34

Stephen Keiley - 61 years old. I was born and raised in New York City (Forest Hills, Queens). I grew up in the ’70s and ’80s in NYC during the peak of the AIDS crisis. This was a very scary time, but the gay community rallied together to remove the stigma that was associated with HIV/AIDS. 

After high school, I began working in the airline industry as a customer service representative. This led me to a job transfer to Ft. Lauderdale, Fl in 1985. I spent ten years in South Florida where I met my former partner. Together, we moved to San Diego in 1995 as a result of his job transfer. 

Our partnership ended in 2005. However, we remain great friends to this day. It was also during this time that I enrolled in school to obtain my degree in Education. In 2002 I started my career as a teacher. I have been teaching at the same school since (21 years). 

I met my current husband, Curtis, on a vacation in Florida in 2012. He lived in Philadelphia at the time and we maintained a long-distance relationship for two years until he moved to San Diego in 2014. We were married in 2019. He also works in education. As we plan for our retirement, one of our priorities is to continue our love of traveling (particularly cruises). Our goal is to retire in 2025.

San Diego is a large coastal city in California, well-known for its beaches, climate, and military bases. It is also a popular destination for LGBTQ+ people, who make up a significant portion of the population.

Geography

San Diego is located in the southern part of California, on the coast of the Pacific Ocean. It is bordered by Mexico to the south and east, and by the cities of Chula Vista, National City, and Imperial Beach to the north and west. The city has a total area of 325 square miles, making it the second-largest city in California by area.

Population

The population of San Diego is approximately 1.4 million people. The city is home to a diverse population, with people from all over the world calling San Diego home. The LGBTQ+ community is a significant part of the population, making up an estimated 10% of the city's residents.

LGBTQ+ Community

San Diego is a very welcoming city for LGBTQ+ people. The city has a large and vibrant LGBTQ+ community, with many resources and events available to LGBTQ+ residents and visitors. Hillcrest is a neighborhood in San Diego that is known for its LGBTQ+ community. The neighborhood is home to many LGBTQ+ businesses, bars, and clubs.

Climate

San Diego has a Mediterranean climate, with warm, dry summers and mild, wet winters. The average temperature in San Diego is 72 degrees Fahrenheit. The city receives an average of 10 inches of rain per year.

Cost of Living

The cost of living in San Diego is relatively high. The median home price in San Diego is $750,000. The median rent for a one-bedroom apartment is $2,000 per month.

Crime and Safety

San Diego is a relatively safe city. The violent crime rate in San Diego is lower than the national average. The property crime rate in San Diego is higher than the national average.

Overall, San Diego is a great place to

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Durham, North Carolina - Village Hearth CoHousing Community With Margaret Roesch06 Jul 202301:19:46

Hello, my name is Margaret Roesch and I have been lucky enough to share the past 27 years with my wife, Pat McAulay. Pat moved to Durham from Flint, MI and I am a transplant from West Lafayette, IN. We met in Durham and chose to create our 55+, LGBTQ+, cohousing community here in Durham, a very Gay-friendly city in the liberal part of NC called The Triangle (Raleigh-Durham-Chapel Hill). Our condo-style homes on 5 of our 15 acres in N. Durham consist of 28 individual 1-story homes. The homes are connected in side-by-side quads, brightly colored, and are within close distance of the 2600 SF, Common House.  

We’ve been here 3 years, and I still smile every morning when I wake up and realize we really live here! There are challenges for us to learn new ways to communicate and navigate the process of making decisions with 27 other homeowners. I feel like there’s always something coming up to do, and something new for me to learn which is essential to keep our minds active and engaged!  

Pat and I wanted to avoid the loneliness and isolation we often see as folks age and mobility becomes more difficult. In addition, we wanted to be in a community with like-minded neighbors who could share resources and give and receive neighborly support. Village Hearth was a dream in 2015 when we hired our Development Consultant, Katie McCamant (Cohousing Solutions) and by 2020 we were moving into our completed homes. We are a lovely mix of well-educated, well-traveled, politically aware, partnered, married, widowed, divorced, and living single or with partners/spouses. We also are a mix of LGBTQ+ folks and folks who identify themselves as “straight”.  

All of us at Village Hearth have a special bond because of all we have seen affect the LGBTQ+ community over the decades. We have rejoiced and cried at the events we have seen in person or on TV.  We have come too far to have to go back into the closet. And, in a community like Village Hearth, we know we can always feel understood, respected, and free to be who we really are.

Check out the story on CNBC! https://www.cnbc.com/2023/06/12/how-lgbtq-seniors-can-tackle-their-special-caregiving-challenges.html.
Village Hearth Website: About Village Hearth - VILLAGE HEARTH (villagehearthcohousing.com)
Village Hearth Co-Housing Facebook Page: (10) Facebook

Resources:
Cohousing.org
CohoUS (Cohousing Association of the U.S.)

Ic.org
Foundation for Intentional Communities

Cohousing-solutions.com
Katie McCamant, President, Cohousing Solutions
(0ur fabulous Development Consultant)

Senior Cohousing Handbook, 2nd Ed. A Community Approach to Independent Living
Charles Durrett, Author (ebook or paperback)

…and one of the best ways to get a feel for Village Hearth and Durham is to look through our newsletter archives:

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Dordogne, France With Kevin Pollock22 Jun 202301:35:29

Kevin Pollock
I am originally from NY but lived the last 20 or so years in the Phoenix area, with stops in VA and FL in between. The vast majority of my career was based in land development and real estate management. The firm I worked for assisted developers in building large-scale master-planned communities, golf course communities, etc. Aside from consulting with the developers, we also managed the asset after it was built, providing long-term partnerships to help maintain the vision. My last position with the company was as Executive Director at Desert Mountain in Scottsdale AZ. 
 
In 2021, my husband and I decided to sell our home and most of our belongings and move to Europe. We initially chose Portugal as our destination, but after some scouting, we decided France was a better fit for us. At first, we arrived in the south of France, Cote D'Azur, but ultimately decided the French countryside was a better fit. The charm of the small villages, the markets, the vineyards, and the slower pace of life was the biggest factor. Additionally, having brought our small dog, apartment (city) life was not the best option. 
 
I'm currently renting a small house in the village of Beauregard-et-Bassac, which is between the cities of Bergerac and Périgueux, about one and a half hours east of Bordeaux. And while I "retired" from my career in land development, I have taken on some part-time marketing work for an English company based in France.

Sure, here are some quick facts about Dordogne, France, with a focus on retirement:

  • Location: Dordogne is a department in southwestern France, located in the Nouvelle-Aquitaine region. It is situated between the Loire Valley and the Pyrenees mountains. 
  • Area: Dordogne has an area of 9,060 square kilometers.
  • Population: Dordogne has a population of about 430,000 people.
  • Capital: The capital of Dordogne is Périgueux. 
  • Language: The official language of Dordogne is French. However, many people in the region also speak Occitan, a regional language of southern France.
  • Climate: Dordogne has a mild Mediterranean climate, with warm summers and mild winters.
  • Economy: The economy of Dordogne is based on agriculture, tourism, and wine production.
  • Attractions: Dordogne is a popular tourist destination, known for its beautiful countryside, medieval villages, and world-famous caves. Some of the most popular attractions in Dordogne include Lascaux Caves: These caves are famous for their prehistoric paintings. 
  • The Périgord Noir: This region is known for its black limestone cliffs and forests. 
  • The Dordogne River Valley: This valley is home to many charming villages and vineyards. 
  • Sarlat-la-Canéda: This medieval town is a UNESCO World Heritage Site. 

Retirement Information

Dordogne is a popular destination for retirees, thanks to its mild climate, beautiful scenery, and relaxed lifestyle. The cost of living in Dordogne is also relatively low, making it an affordable option for retirees.

Here are some of the things that make Dordogne a great place to retire:

  • Beautiful scenery: Dordogne is home to some o

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Provincetown, Massachusetts With Elizabeth G. Brooke08 Jun 202300:45:10

Elizabeth Gabriel Brooke

During graduate school in 1974, she went to Provincetown on a whim for New Year’s. It turned into a wild and crazy weekend that included Grace Jones in concert.  

Provincetown spoke to her then as it continues to do every day. She was determined to return for the summer, which she did. Since that time, she has never left except to travel. Over the next several decades, she wore many entrepreneurial hats with business startups, including kite store owner, printmaker, website and design firm owner, restauranteur, photo studio owner, press photographer, advertising marketing director, innkeeper, educator, nonprofit founder, therapy dog trainer, and boat captain. 

Her core interests are the welfare of animals and children, environmental preservation, and fine art & wildlife photography. 

She lives at Gabriel’s, a Provincetown hotel that she has owned since 1979. They have luxury accommodations, consisting of four buildings, and are right in the center of town next to the park. Her wife, also named Elizabeth, runs the business now, so she is free and able to concentrate full-time on my photography.

 Visit Gabriel's at: www.gabriels.com 

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As photographer

About The Photographer:

Photographer Elizabeth G. Brooke has made her home in Provincetown, MA, since 1974; her lifelong love of the sea and her seaside community is frequently evident in her images. However, she travels worldwide, always broadening her subject matter while using her technical skill and aesthetic vision. 

Publications: Massachusetts Audubon Society newsletter, Cape Cod Times, Boston Globe, Provincetown Magazine, Provincetown Independent, New York Times, South by Southeast Magazine, Shitzen Magazine, among others. 

Exhibits: Provincetown Art Association and Museum juried show, One woman show at The Commons in Provincetown, Cape Cod Creative Arts Center in Chatham, Columbia Arts Center in Maryland, Photoplace Gallery in Vermont, SE Center for Photography

Awards: First Place Winner in Black and White category by Paper Arts Collective, Best in Show by Orleans Gallery of Photography, Jurors Award for Anamalia by Photoplace Gallery, Award in Group Show by Chatham Creative Arts Center, Leica Society Photo of the Week

Her 2021 book of Provincetown-based images, “The Lobstermen,” can be purchased online at https://www.blurb.com/b/10527651-the-lobstermen

Elizabeth describes looking through her lens and uniting with her subject without thinking, “change my f-stop, move right, left, up, down,” but rather sensing what will capture the raw quality and feel of the moment through creative intuition and sharing that through her images.

Elizabeth holds a Master’s degree from the University of Massachusetts/Amherst. She is married. You are invited to visit her website, here: https://www.elizabethgbrooke.com/


Provincetown is a town located at the extreme tip of Cape Cod in Barns

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Seattle, Washington with Steven Chapman18 Sep 202401:14:38

Steven recently retired from teaching high school math and enjoys having no responsibilities besides his family and hobbies. He has renewed his hobbies of quilting, cooking, and racquetball. He is currently ranked #3 in his age division in Washington State.

Steven moved to Seattle after graduating from Gonzaga University in Spokane, Washington, in 1989 and met his husband in 1990. They have been together for thirty-four years. They have two adopted sons and await grandchildren, although none are imminently expected. 

Steven's community involvement is a testament to his commitment to social causes. He's an active member of their Lutheran congregation and other civic groups. His activism includes advocating for the full inclusion of LGBTQ+ people in the Lutheran Church and working to alleviate hunger and homelessness. One of his most significant achievements is helping a refugee family from Syria start a new life in British Columbia. Recently, he took on the role of regional coordinator for Gonzaga University's Lavender Alumni Network.

Steven Chapman, a retired high school math teacher, shares his experience living in Seattle. He fell in love with the city after visiting for Thanksgiving in 1988 and has lived there ever since. Seattle is known for its unique climate, with rain over extended periods rather than concentrated bursts.

The city is also surrounded by water, with Puget Sound to the west and Lake Washington to the east.

With high housing prices and rental fees, Seattle's living cost is approximately 50% higher than the national average. However, the city has a vibrant food scene and is LGBTQ-friendly, with inclusive community centers and events like Pride.

Seattle offers a vibrant arts and culture scene, with symphonies, ballets, operas, art museums, and Broadway touring companies. Burlesque shows are also popular in the city. Seattle hosts the Seattle International Film Festival, one of the largest film festivals in the country.

The city has a commuter-based transit system, with light rail and buses, but having a car in certain areas may be necessary.

Healthcare in Seattle is excellent, with multiple hospitals and a high number of LGBT doctors.

The state of Washington does not have an income tax, which benefits retirees, and property taxes can vary depending on the location and value of the property. Seattle has high property taxes and sales tax, which fund government services.

Crime rates vary by neighborhood, but systemic racism within the police department is a problem.

Due to high housing costs, Seattle has a significant homeless population. The city provides some services and housing options for the homeless, but it's insufficient.

Seattle is known for its laid-back culture, acceptance of the LGBTQ+ community, and beautiful natural surroundings. However, the city experiences gloomy winters and is prone to earthquakes and volcanic activity.

Pattaya, Thailand With Tweed Harris01 Jun 202300:55:53

Tweed Harris is a 90-year-old gay male in Pattaya, Thailand. He is a retired actor/singer/teacher.

Now a novelist and playwright. Born in London UK, moved to Australia when he was 16 years old.

Autobiography published 2002.

Now living in Thailand with his Thai husband.
Links to Tweed Harris:
https://www.amazon.com/Tweed-Harris/e/B004NZPGNY%3Fref=dbs_a_mng_rwt_scns_share

https://www.stageplays.com/plays-by-author/Tweed%20Harris

Here are some facts on living in retirement in Pattaya, Thailand:

  • Cost of living: The cost of living in Pattaya is very low compared to many other countries. A couple can live comfortably on a budget of $2,000 per month.
  • Weather: The weather in Pattaya is warm and sunny year-round. The average temperature is 28 degrees Celsius (82 degrees Fahrenheit).
  • Healthcare: Healthcare in Pattaya is good and affordable. There are many hospitals and clinics in the city, and many doctors and nurses speak English.
  • Visas: Retirees from many countries can obtain a visa that allows them to live in Thailand for one year. The visa can be renewed for multiple years.
  • Culture: Thailand is a very welcoming and friendly country. The Thai people are known for their hospitality and their love of life.
  • Activities: There are many activities and things to do in Pattaya. The city has beautiful beaches, vibrant nightlife, and a variety of cultural attractions.

Overall, Pattaya is a great place to live in retirement. The cost of living is low, the weather is great, and there are many things to do. If you are looking for a warm, sunny place to retire, Pattaya is a great option.

Here are some additional tips for retirees considering Pattaya:

  • Do your research: There are many different areas of Pattaya, and some are more suitable for retirees than others. Do your research and find an area that fits your needs and budget.
  • Visit Pattaya before you move: It is always a good idea to visit a place before you move there. This will give you a chance to see the city for yourself and meet some of the people who live there.
  • Be prepared to adjust to a new culture: Thailand is a very different country from the United States, and it may take some time to adjust to the culture shock.

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San Miguel de Allende With Mick Lockey25 May 202301:13:28

Mick Lockey, who retired in 2017 lives in San Miguel de Allende, located in the central highlands of Mexico, about three and half hours north of Mexico City, in the state of Guanajuato. The city sits on a bed of rose quartz, and the local legend is that this affords San Miguel “magical” qualities. 

 

Mick is from the San Francisco Bay Area—first San Francisco, then Oakland--having worked in high-tech publishing, cable TV broadcasting, and a variety of editing and writing stints in banking, insurance, and website development. 

 

Often called el corazon de Mexico, San Miguel is a colonial gem featuring Old World Spanish architecture, cobblestone streets, and a grand pink Neo-Gothic cathedral. Readers from Travel and Leisure magazine have voted San Miguel de Allende one of the most beautiful cities in the world. 

 

San Miguel is a favored spot for expats from around the world, approximating 10 percent of the city’s 160,000 residents. The city offers a relaxed, gracious style of living with fine dining, art galleries, boutiques, and a variety of opportunities to socialize. The weather is mostly temperate year-round.  The cost of living is considerably lower than in the U.S. and Canada, although, with inflation, prices are rising for everything from housing to food costs. 

 

Traditionally a place for retired expats, San Miguel is enjoying popularity among young families and digital nomads. LGTBQ Out magazine has called San Miguel, the “new queer oasis.” 

(Reference: https://www.out.com/travel/2020/9/03/thirsting-culture-san-miguel-de-allende-lgbtq-travel-must). San Miguel does have a gay community, with a small annual Gay Pride parade,  but the community is integrated well within the larger culture. 

 

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Asheville, North Carolina With John Brock18 May 202300:54:14

Growing up in rural Kentucky, John Brock comes from a long line of unsuccessful farmers. As a young man, he fell in love with his best friend (a handsome young man) and quickly realized that Kentucky was not a safe place, so he moved to New York.  After five years, John moved to Atlanta for the vibrant gay community. John served as the commissioner of Hotlanta Volleyball and participated in Gay Games 1990 and 1994. At the same time, John attended graduate school at Emory University and later worked at the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) as a toxicologist. 

After working way too hard for 10 years, doing research in 17 countries, and sitting in traffic far too long, John moved to Asheville in 2001 to be a professor and create a nurturing home life. John now teaches at the University of North Carolina Asheville and consults on a national study of birth defects. 

John lives in a loving web of people but, oddly, is currently single. He would like to date (hint hint). He is currently raising his nearly perfect adopted 16-year-old son who will soon go off to college. He also is raising a sweet, somewhat neurotic dog, who will not. 

Asheville is John’s home base but he dreams of living in other countries, one or two month a year, and some new adventures.

·       Asheville is a city located in the western part of the state of North Carolina, United States. Here are some quick facts about Asheville:

·       Population: As of the 2020 Census, the estimated population of Asheville was 97,317.

·       Geography: Asheville is located in the Blue Ridge Mountains and is surrounded by the Pisgah National Forest. The city sits at an elevation of 2,134 feet (650 meters) above sea level.

·       Climate: Asheville has a humid subtropical climate, with hot summers and mild winters. The average high temperature in July is 83°F (28°C), while the average low temperature in January is 28°F (-2°C).

·       LGBTQ Community: Asheville has a vibrant LGBTQ community and has been recognized as one of the most gay-friendly cities in the country. The city has numerous LGBTQ-owned businesses and hosts several LGBTQ events throughout the year, such as the Blue Ridge Pride Festival.

·       Crime and Safety: According to the FBI's Uniform Crime Report, Asheville has a crime rate that is higher than the national average. However, the city has a relatively low violent crime rate. Like any city, it is important to take precautions and be aware of your surroundings.

 ·     Cost of Living: Asheville has a cost of living that is slightly higher than the national average. However, the city has a relatively low cost of housing compared to other cities on the East Coast. The cost of living can vary depending on the neighborhood you live in and your lifestyle. 

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Berlin, Germany With Greg Casella11 May 202301:00:27

Greg Casella grew up in Chicago and moved to San Jose, CA (Silicon Valley) when he was 25 years old.  Working in the Tech industry for a few years his dream was always to open a restaurant, having worked in restaurants growing up from the age of 13!

 

In 1992 he started an Off-Premise Catering business in Silicon Valley, the next best thing to having a restaurant.  He was actually on unemployment when he started the business with no capital, but built it into one of the largest LGBTQ Businesses in the San Francisco Bay Area by the time he sold it in 2019.  

 

His business catered about 80% Corporate events and the rest weddings and social events.  By the time he left the business, he had 70 full-time staff, 3 cafes, and a regular client that he catered for 20,000 guests at one time multiple years in a row!

 

In 2016 he had a therapist, doctor, and mentor all say to him “It sounds like you need a vacation.”  Having been intrigued with the city of Berlin for many years he first visited the city in 2007 and kept visiting every couple of years running the Berlin Marathon three times.  So he decided that vacation would be a 3-month sabbatical from work and he would go to Berlin to experience more of the city and culture and travel around Europe.  

 

Once in Berlin he connected with a community there and fell more in love with the city and the people.  After the sabbatical, for the next couple of years, he started stepping back from his business a bit and would travel to Berlin for a month at a time and work remotely, letting some of his managers handle the day-to-day operations.  

 

At the same time in 2016, he celebrated being with his husband for 30 years, but at the same time, the relationship was changing.  He was actively looking for an apartment in Silicon Valley to be on his own and soon realized that he could rent an apartment in Berlin and fly back and forth every couple of months for less than renting an apartment in the Valley, so that is how he ended up in Berlin.  

 

In 2018 on one trip back to California and work his General Manager said “When you are ready to sell the business I want to buy it”, his immediate answer was YES.  Although he loved working and building the business, mentoring staff, and thought he would be working till he was 100, it seemed like the right thing to do at the time.  

 

So at the end of 2018, he sold the business, bought an apartment in Berlin, and now resides there about 80% of the year.  

·       Berlin is the capital and largest city in Germany, with a population of over 3.7 million people. It has a rich history, and vibrant culture, and is known for its progressive attitudes toward LGBTQ+ rights.

·       Here are some of the highlights of why Berlin could be a great place for LGBTQ+ retirees:

·       LGBTQ+ Scene: Berlin is famous for its diverse and inclusive LGBTQ+ scene, which includes everything from bars and clubs to community centers and events. The city has a long history of LGBTQ+ activism and is home to one of the world's largest pride parades, Christopher Street Day, which takes place every June.

·       Cultural Offe

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Falmouth, Massachusetts With Tom von Zabern04 May 202301:01:07

Tom was born in 1961 in West Germany and spent his early formative years on the good side of the Iron Curtain. In 1969 his family moved to the USA where they spent six years in suburban New York and then relocated to southwestern New Hampshire. In 1991 he moved to Cambridge, Massachusetts in search of a more welcoming, more accepting setting and spent 28 happy years there as a real estate professional and home design consultant. He finally moved to Falmouth on Cape Cod in 2018 with his husband Billy to buy the Palmer House Inn, a 17-room bed and breakfast. 

 

They have been here ever since. Billy, a native of Jamaica came to the USA in 1975, spending his childhood and adolescence on Long Island, and moving to Virginia, and Florida in his professional life as a nurse and nursing home manager. Billy and Tom met in 2010 he joined Tom in Cambridge the same year. They spent the last five years renovating their Cape Cod Inn and running it together with Brody, their six-year-old Leonberger. As innkeepers, they have incorporated everything they previously learned to design a welcoming and tranquil environment for their guests, combining the laid-back lifestyle enjoyed by well-to-do people of the Gilded Age with traditional Cape Cod cottage garden grounds. 

They welcome both gay and straight guests, from singles looking for an escape to couples celebrating life together, to bridal couples looking to tie the knot on the Cape.

 

Thomas von Zabern

Palmer House Inn

81 Palmer Avenue

Falmouth, MA, 02540

https://www.palmerhouseinn.com/

508-548-1230 Main

617-817-4098 Cell

Tomvonz1@gmail.com

Falmouth is a town located in Barnstable County, Massachusetts, USA. Here are some quick facts about Falmouth:

Population: According to the United States Census Bureau, as of 2020, the estimated population of Falmouth is 30,013.

Geography: Falmouth is located on the southwestern corner of Cape Cod, Massachusetts, and is surrounded by water on three sides, with the Atlantic Ocean to the south and southwest, Buzzards Bay to the west, and Vineyard Sound to the east.

Climate: Falmouth has a climate with warm summers and cool winters. The average temperature in July is around 74°F, while the average temperature in January is around 33°F.

Cost of living: The cost of living in Falmouth is generally higher than the national average due to its desirable location on Cape Cod. Housing prices in particular are quite high, with a median home price of around $608,000.

Healthcare: Falmouth has several healthcare options, including Falmouth Hospital, which is part of the Cape Cod Healthcare system. The hospital has 95 beds and offers a range of services, including emergency care, surgery, and maternity care.

Crime and safety: Falmouth is generally considered a safe community, with a relatively low crime rate compared to other towns and cities in Massachusetts. However, like any community, there is still some crime, particularly theft and property crime.

LGBTQ community: Falmouth has a relatively active LGBTQ community, with several organizations and events ai

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Guadalajara, Mexico With Matthew Prutsman and Adam Lopez27 Apr 202301:29:36

Matthew Prutsman

Matthew worked in operations in various university libraries in Virginia and California from 2000 until 2022. Now he runs 2 Airbnbs in Guadalajara, Mexico with his husband. He was born and raised in rural Virginia, moved to California in 2006, and then to Mexico in 2020. He attended the University of Virginia where he received a degree in urban planning. 

Matthew currently lives in Guadalajara, Mexico with his husband of 7 years, 3 (or 4) dogs, 4 birds, various fish, and a turtle named Angela. He chose to live in Guadalajara for the quality of life, queer culture, and friendliness of people. He is an avid gardener, self-taught chef, and puzzle fanatic.

Adam Lopez

Adam was born in Los Ángeles, California, and studied fine arts at the San Francisco Art Institute. He lived many years in SF and NYC and returned to LA in his 30s where he met Matthew.  Adam worked in Hollywood for many years in production and sold handmade mid-century furniture online.  Currently, he runs an e-commerce shop where he sells Mexican handicrafts worldwide. Adam and Matthew formed an art collective in 2020 that brings art to local children of the community and they also hold art shows and cultural events in one of their Airbnbs.

Links to their Airbnb’s:
3 bedroom - https://abnb.me/I2XzFgGNwzb
4 bedroom - https://abnb.me/2i1BeSKNwzb

  • Guadalajara is the capital city of the state of Jalisco in Mexico.
  • With a population of over 1.5 million people, the metro is 5.5 million it is the second most populous city in Mexico.
  • Guadalajara is known for its rich cultural heritage, including mariachi music, and tequila.
  • The city is also home to several universities and has a thriving technology industry.
  • Guadalajara has a warm, semi-arid climate with an average temperature of around 22°C (72°F) throughout the year.
  • The city has a vibrant LGBT+ community, with several gay bars, clubs, and events taking place throughout the year.
  • The annual Guadalajara Pride Parade takes place in June and attracts thousands of participants and visitors from all over Mexico and beyond.
  • Guadalajara has been recognized as one of the most gay-friendly cities in Mexico, and the country as a whole is becoming increasingly accepting of LGBT+ people and their rights.

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Rehoboth Beach, Delaware With Frank Jump20 Apr 202301:04:11

Frank Jump, a retired NYC technology teacher, is also the author and photographer of the Fading Ads of NYC published in 2011 by the History Press.  His book documents ghost signage through the lens of an artist living with HIV/AIDS. It has become a metaphor of survival for Jump since, like himself, many of these ads have long outlived their expected life span. 

 

Twenty-four of his images were exhibited at the NY Historical Society in NYC in 1998. In 1999, he launched the Fading Ad Campaign website and later a celebrated blog of the same name. A lifelong LGBTQ and AIDS activist, Jump married his partner Vincenzo, in 2004 in Toronto Canada, and later again in NYC in 2017. Jump and his husband have been living in Milton Delaware since 2016.

Quick Facts on Rehoboth Beach

  • Rehoboth Beach is a popular coastal resort town located in Sussex County, Delaware, on the east coast of the United States.
  • The town has a population of around 1,500 people, but during peak tourist season, that number can soar to over 25,000.
  • Rehoboth Beach has a reputation as a gay-friendly destination and has been a popular vacation spot for the LGBTQ+ community since the 1940s.
  • The town has a vibrant LGBTQ+ community, and there are several LGBTQ+ organizations, events, and businesses in the area.
  • Rehoboth Beach has been named one of the best beach towns for retirees by several publications, including U.S. News & World Report and Forbes.
  • The town has a low cost of living compared to other coastal retirement destinations, and Delaware does not have a sales tax, making it an attractive option for retirees on a budget.
  • Rehoboth Beach has a mild climate, with average temperatures ranging from the low 30s in winter to the mid-80s in summer.
  • The town has a wide range of recreational activities available, including golfing, fishing, hiking, and biking, as well as a variety of cultural events and festivals throughout the year.
  • Rehoboth Beach is located just a few hours' drive from major cities like Philadelphia, Baltimore, and Washington, D.C., making it easy to visit friends and family or take advantage of urban amenities.

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Brattleboro, Vermont With Scott Heller13 Apr 202301:01:39

Scott and Dave met in May 1991 while Scott was at Mount Snow in Vermont training for a triathlon and Dave was directing the Mountain Bike School there. 

 

Scott was living in NYC at the time and Dave is from Vermont. Scott had an early career in marketing & advertising, was running a mail order catalog business and was an amateur competitive triathlete, Dave was a pro ski patroller at Mount Snow during the winter months and a pro mountain biker in the off-season. 

 

Previous to Mount Snow, Dave was a professional chef with much experience in the hospitality field.  


  • Population: Brattleboro has a population of 12,046 people.
  • Cost of living: The cost of living in Brattleboro is higher than the national average but lower than the cost of living in other parts of Vermont.
  • Real estate: The median home price in Brattleboro is $325,000.
  • Climate: Brattleboro has a temperate climate with four distinct seasons. The average temperature in January is 22 degrees Fahrenheit, and the average in July is 74 degrees Fahrenheit.
  • Geography: Brattleboro is located on the Connecticut River in the southern part of Vermont.
  • The LGBTQ+ community: Brattleboro is a welcoming and inclusive community for LGBTQ+ people. There are many LGBTQ+-friendly businesses and organizations in Brattleboro, and the city has a strong sense of community.
  • Crime and safety: Brattleboro is a safe and comfortable place to live. The crime rate in Brattleboro is low, and the city has a strong sense of community safety.

Here is some additional information about Brattleboro:

  • Brattleboro is a popular tourist destination. The town is home to a number of art galleries, museums, and shops.
  • Brattleboro is also a popular destination for outdoor recreation. The town is located near a number of hiking trails, biking trails, and swimming holes.
  • Brattleboro is a great place to retire. The town is quiet and peaceful, and the cost of living is relatively low.
  • Brattleboro is also a great place to raise a family. The town has a robust public school system, and there are a number of family-friendly activities and events.

 Further background:  

https://www.frogmeadow.com/more-info/about-ushistory/   

https://www.frogmeadow.com/gay-brattleboro-vt/ 

https://www.frogmeadow.com/rock-river-vermont/   

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Buenos Aires, Argentina With Tom Jewell and Bruce Woolverton06 Apr 202301:13:51

Tom Jewell and Bruce Woolverton met as college kids in 1975, then lived on Manhattan's upper west side from '77 to '84, when they moved to Seattle.  Bruce worked in the telecom industry initially, then in business development for startups.  Bruce always worked as a fundraiser in some capacity, at various nonprofits such as The Nature Conservancy and the Northwest AIDS Foundation in its early days. 

 Through luck and timing, they were able to buy a cottage on the water on Vashon Island (in 1989) and were early adopters of VRBO as a way to enjoy a wonderful place and have a bit of income to help pay for it.  They eventually bought a condo in Ketchum Idaho (Sun Valley ski resort town) as Bruce is a big skier; it was a great place that they loved, with a boost from rental income to make it possible.  That's how they came to buy the condo they are now living in Buenos Aires.  

 

Up until the pandemic and our retirement, they did very well with vacation rentals and were able to enjoy the place for a week or two most years.  Now they are spending October thru April here in Argentina, and May-September on Vashon Island.


·       Buenos Aires is known as the "gay capital" of South America, with a thriving LGBTQ+ community.

·       Same-sex marriage has been legal in Argentina since 2010, making it the first country in Latin America to legalize same-sex marriage.

·       Argentina also has laws prohibiting discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity.

·       The annual Buenos Aires Pride Parade is one of the largest LGBTQ+ events in South America, attracting thousands of participants and spectators.

·       The city has a vibrant LGBTQ+ nightlife, with many bars, clubs, and events catering to the community.

·       LGBTQ+ rights organizations in Buenos Aires include the Argentine Federation of LGBT Rights and the Buenos Aires LGBT Chamber of Commerce.

·       Buenos Aires is also home to several LGBTQ+ landmarks, such as the iconic Obelisk monument, which is often lit up in rainbow colors to celebrate Pride Month.

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Atlanta, Georgia With Mark Camp30 Mar 202301:11:58

Mark is originally from Birmingham, AL.  Mark moved to Atlanta in 1988 and has been here for 35 years.  Mark began his real estate career 22 years ago and has helped numerous buyers and sellers in the metro-Atlanta area.  Mark focuses his sales mostly in the inside perimeter area where a large percentage of the gay population lives.   Mark lives with his partner, Cruse, and have been together 25 years.  

Mark Camp - website is www.markcamp.com, email is mark@markcamp.com,  404-786-5400

Mark Camp - Associate Broker

Berkshire Hathaway Home Services of Georgia 

1163 West Peachtree Street, Suite 200

Atlanta, GA 30309

Show Notes:


Welcome to the Where Do Gays Retire podcast. Today, we're exploring Atlanta, Georgia - a city that offers a unique blend of Southern charm, urban sophistication, and a thriving LGBTQ community. Atlanta has long been considered a hub for the LGBTQ community in the South and is consistently ranked as one of the top cities for LGBTQ retirement. Let's dive into what makes Atlanta such an appealing destination for the LGBTQ community.

History of LGBTQ Community in Atlanta:
Atlanta has a rich history of LGBTQ activism and acceptance, dating back to the 1960s when the city was a hub for the civil rights movement. In the decades that followed, Atlanta has become a hub for LGBTQ culture, with a thriving nightlife scene, numerous LGBTQ organizations and events, and a strong community of LGBTQ residents.

Entertainment and Culture:
Atlanta is known for its diverse and vibrant arts and cultural scene, including the High Museum of Art, the Alliance Theatre, and the Atlanta Symphony Orchestra. The city also offers a thriving LGBTQ nightlife scene, with numerous gay bars and clubs, as well as annual events such as the Atlanta Pride Festival and the Atlanta Black Pride Festival.

Outdoor Activities:
Atlanta is home to a number of parks and outdoor spaces, including Piedmont Park, Centennial Olympic Park, and the Atlanta Botanical Garden. These spaces offer opportunities for outdoor recreation, such as hiking, biking, and picnicking, as well as events and festivals throughout the year.

Dining and Shopping:
Atlanta is a foodie's paradise, with a diverse range of cuisine options, from Southern comfort food to international dishes. The city is also home to numerous shopping destinations, including the Lenox Square mall and the Westside Provisions District.

Conclusion:
In conclusion, Atlanta, Georgia is a city that offers a unique blend of Southern charm, urban sophistication, and a thriving LGBTQ community. From its rich history of LGBTQ activism and acceptance, to its thriving arts and cultural scene, outdoor activities, and dining and shopping options, Atlanta is a top destination for LGBTQ retirees. Whether you're looking for a place to call home or just a city to visit, Atlanta is a must-see for the LGBTQ community.

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Which City Wins? Sitges or Torremolinos?11 Sep 202400:16:10

In this solo episode of Where Do Gays Retire, Mark Goldstein compares Sitges and Torremolinos, Spain, two of the most popular retirement destinations for the LGBTQ+ community. Mark covers critical aspects such as climate, cost of living, healthcare, LGBTQ+ community, transportation, walkability, arts and culture, dining, and safety. Stay tuned until the end as Mark reveals which destination is top for LGBTQ+ retirees.

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Torremolinos has a warmer climate year-round compared to Sitges

Sitges has a higher cost of living than Torremolinos

Torremolinos has better healthcare access and proximity to hospitals

Sitges has a more established and longer-standing LGBTQ+ community

Both cities offer excellent walkability and public transport options

Sitges has a more vibrant arts and culture scene, while Torremolinos is more focused on beach and nightlife

Sitges offers a diverse dining scene, while Torremolinos is better for casual, traditional meals

Both cities are generally safe but experience petty theft due to tourism

Torremolinos has better tax advantages, particularly regarding income and inheritance tax

Torremolinos is the winner!

Torremolinos, Spain With Richard Jasicki23 Mar 202301:36:15

Richard Jasicki, 63 years young, he retired at the age of 62. Married to Charles Naldrett since it was legal to do so in 2014. They have been together for 22 years (that's about 122 in gay years lol).

He was born on a USAF base in the UK to an English mom from London and an American dad from Milwaukee, WI. At the ripe age of 6 months they moved to Madison, WI where his dad was stationed at the local USAF base. 

He sponsored his partner for a Green Card as soon as it was legal to marry. That took over 18 months and over $2k to get it done. He is happy  to compare the process he is going through now here in Spain as his husband is an Irish/UK citizen and now he is sponsoring Rich for immigration to Spain. 

Introduction:
Today, we're exploring Torremolinos, a vibrant and popular coastal town in the province of Málaga, Andalusia, Spain. With its sunny weather, stunning beaches, and bustling gay scene, Torremolinos has been a popular destination for LGBTQ+ travelers and retirees for many years. In this episode, we'll take a closer look at what makes Torremolinos such a great place to live and visit.

History:

Torremolinos has a rich history dating back to the Roman times. In the 20th century, it emerged as a popular holiday destination for travelers from Northern Europe, and by the 1970s, it had become one of the first destinations in Europe to embrace LGBTQ+ tourism. Since then, Torremolinos has continued to evolve, becoming a destination known for its lively gay scene, stunning beaches, and diverse cultural offerings.

Culture:

Torremolinos is a melting pot of different cultures, with a mix of Spanish, Andalusian, and international influences. The town is known for its lively atmosphere, with plenty of bars, clubs, and restaurants to enjoy. There's also a thriving arts scene, with several galleries and cultural centers showcasing local and international works.

Gay Scene:

Torremolinos has a thriving gay scene, with several bars and clubs catering to the LGBTQ+ community. The town is also home to the annual Torremolinos Gay Pride celebration, which attracts visitors from all over the world. Whether you're looking to party the night away or simply relax with a drink in a friendly, welcoming environment, Torremolinos has something for everyone.

Beaches:

One of the main draws of Torremolinos is its stunning beaches. The town is surrounded by several miles of sandy coastline, offering plenty of opportunities for sunbathing, swimming, and other water sports. Some of the most popular beaches in Torremolinos include Playa del Bajondillo and Playa de la Carihuela.

Retirement:

For those looking to retire in Torremolinos, the town offers a relaxed and welcoming atmosphere, with plenty of opportunities to enjoy the great outdoors and a lively social scene. The cost of living in Torremolinos is relatively low compared to other areas of Europe, making it a great option for retirees on a budget. With its warm climate, stunning beaches, and thriving gay scene, Torremolinos is a top choice for LGBTQ+ retirees looking for a place to call home.

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Santa Fe, New Mexico With Perry MacKrill16 Mar 202301:15:46

Perry was born and raised in a small town in Iowa. According to his dad, the population was 600, if you count the dogs and cats. 

He received two degrees (Pharmacy and Biology) from Drake University in Des Moines, Iowa. Upon graduation, he moved to Dallas, to begin his career as a Pharmacist. After 3 years, he moved He earned a Master’s Degree MAS in Information Technology Management. In 1999, he met a man and moved in with him in Washington DC.
 
 In January 2005, they came to a conference in Santa Fe.  They fell in love with the energy and flavor and kindness of the people in Santa Fe. They had decided that they should buy a vacation house and retire someday in Santa Fe. 

In 2008 they bought a house on the west edge of Santa Fe. In 2011 his husband’s job changed and they decided to sell their house in DC and move. They landed in Santa Fe full-time in January 2012. 

They enjoy food and drinks, restaurants, and all the amazing art and cultures of Santa Fe.

Introduction:

Welcome to another episode of Where Do Gays Retire! Today, we will be exploring the beautiful city of Santa Fe, New Mexico. Santa Fe is known for its stunning natural beauty, rich cultural heritage, and vibrant arts scene, making it a popular destination for retirees and travelers alike.

History:

Santa Fe is the oldest capital city in the United States, founded in 1610. It has a rich history, having been ruled by Spanish, Mexican, and American governments, each leaving its mark on the city's architecture and culture. The city is also known for being a center of Native American culture, with many Pueblo Indian tribes still residing in the area.

Arts and Culture:

Santa Fe is a city of art and creativity, with a thriving art scene that includes galleries, museums, and performing arts centers. The city is home to the famous Lensic Performing Arts Center, as well as the Santa Fe Opera and the New Mexico Museum of Art. The city also hosts several cultural festivals throughout the year, including the Santa Fe Indian Market, the Spanish Market, and the Folk Art Market.

Outdoor Activities:

Santa Fe is surrounded by breathtaking natural beauty, with opportunities for outdoor activities such as hiking, biking, skiing, and horseback riding. The city is also located near several national parks, including the Santa Fe National Forest, Bandelier National Monument, and the Pecos Wilderness.

Food and Drink:

Santa Fe is known for its delicious cuisine, with a wide range of dining options that include traditional New Mexican food, and Mexican, Italian, and contemporary American cuisine. The city is also home to many wineries and breweries, making it a great place for food and drink enthusiasts.

Lifestyle:

Santa Fe is a city that values community, relaxation, and a connection to nature. It has a small-town feel, with a friendly and welcoming community, and a relaxed pace of life. The city also has a thriving LGBTQ community, with many events and activities that celebrate diversity and inclusiveness.

Conclusion:

In conclusion, Santa Fe is a beautiful and unique city that offers retirees a vibrant

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Rovigo, Italy With Daniel Rainey09 Mar 202301:07:34

Daniel Rainey is a retired pharmacist. He is 53 years old and has been living in Italy since his retirement in February 2022. He graduated from the University of South Carolina with a Bachelor's degree in science in 1991, and then went on to receive a Doctorate in Pharmacy from Mercer school of pharmacy four years later. 

During his 30 years as a pharmacist, he worked in both retail and hospital settings and spent his last 5 years managing an HIV specialty pharmacy at Walgreens. Now that he is retired, He is excited to have more time to pursue his passions for adventure and travel. He is particularly looking forward to restarting his love for skiing and kitesurfing.

Rovigo is a city located in the Northern part of Italy, in the Veneto region. It has a population of around 50,000 people.

Introduction:

  • A brief history of Rovigo
  • Population and geographical location

Lifestyle:

  • Climate and weather
  • Local cuisine and culinary specialties
  • Cultural events and festivals
  • Leisure activities (e.g. parks, museums, theaters)
  • Gay scene and community in Rovigo

Cost of living:

  • Housing prices and options
  • The average cost of food, transportation, and healthcare

Accessibility:

  • Proximity to airports and major cities
  • Public transportation options
  • Driving conditions

Safety:

  • Crime rates and safety measures

Final Thoughts:

  • Pros and cons of retiring in Rovigo
  • Overall impression and recommendation for gay retirees


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Baguio, Philippines With Albert Sotelo And Kevin Mize02 Mar 202301:27:41

Ozark Diner and Bed & Breakfast 
Albert Sotelo and 
Chef Kevin W. Mize
Owner/Operators 

Albert, 59 years old, and Kevin, 56 years old, have been together for 19 years and married for 12 years.  They moved to Baguio City, Philippines eight years ago as a prelude to retirement.  Albert was a former Operations Specialist with American Airlines in Dallas, while Kevin was a former Clinical Research Coordinator for Alcon Industries in Fort Worth.  

Albert also was a former Subway Sandwiches franchisee in Virginia, while Kevin was a former chef in Little Rock where they initially met.  It was this foodie-like-mindedness that made them consider opening a Southern Cuisine diner and Bed and Breakfast.

Their Ozark Diner was recently included in the prestigious list of Best Restaurants in The Philippines of 2022.  They are also Airbnb Superhost since 2017.   While their business currently caters to domestic tourists, Albert is currently a Tourism Council Board Member promoting Retirement Tourism in their city.

Baguio City, Philippines is a popular destination for retirees, including the LGBTQ+ community, due to its cool climate, affordable cost of living, and friendly local people. 

  1. Location: Baguio City is located in the Cordillera region of the northern Philippines and is known as the "City of Pines".
  2. Climate: Baguio City has a cool and temperate climate, making it an ideal location for retirees who are looking for a comfortable and relaxing lifestyle.
  3. Cost of Living: Baguio City is known for its affordable cost of living, with a wide range of housing options and low living expenses. This makes it an ideal location for retirees who are looking to stretch their retirement savings.
  4. Cultural Attractions: Baguio City is rich in cultural attractions and is home to a vibrant arts scene. Some popular attractions include the Tam-Awan Village, the BenCab Museum, and the Baguio Arts Guild Gallery.
  5. Local Community: Baguio City has a welcoming and friendly local community, which makes it a great place for retirees to build new relationships and socialize. There is also a vibrant LGBTQ+ community in the city.
  6. Health Care: Baguio City has a well-developed healthcare system, with both public and private hospitals and clinics providing quality medical services.
  7. Food Scene: Baguio City has a diverse food scene, with a wide range of local and international cuisine options available. Some popular local dishes include pinikpikan and longganisa.
  8. Outdoor Activities: Baguio City is surrounded by stunning natural beauty and offers plenty of outdoor activities for retirees to enjoy, such as hiking, camping, and horseback riding.
  9. Safety: Baguio City is considered a safe city, with low crime rates and a friendly local community.

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