In this unforgettable Full Frontal of What’s Your Position, we sit down with the incomparable Jessica Lynn—international speaker, educator, and trans rights advocate whose personal story has changed laws, hearts, and minds around the world. With raw vulnerability and unapologetic brilliance, Jessica opens up about her decades-long fight for truth, identity, and justice—including her high-profile custody battle that became a lightning rod in the global conversation around transgender rights.

 

We explore her evolution from a life lived in hiding to one of radical visibility, and how her scientific knowledge, emotional intelligence, and deep compassion have made her one of the most sought-after voices in gender education today.

 

Fewer than 30% of trans adults over 50 say they have strong support systems. Jessica is changing that—one conversation, one courtroom, and one country at a time.

 

This episode is honest, intimate, and full of the kind of truth that lingers long after the mic goes off. Whether you’re questioning, learning, or unlearning, Jessica’s story will move you to think deeper, love harder, and show up louder.

Check out her website here: Jessica’s Website

Hello Fellow Humans! For todays Full Frontal, slip into something a little more comfortable and join us for a steamy stroll through the aisles of desire. In this episode, we get intimate with “V,” a fabulous friend and fierce expert from a local California sex shop, as we uncover the surprisingly scandalous history of erotic retail.

Did you know the first recorded sex shop opened in London in 1738? That’s right—across the pond, folks were already in the mood for mood lighting and feather ticklers. But when it came to the U.S., things got a little… stiff. Cue the Comstock Laws, those Victorian-era vibe-killers that tried to criminalize anything sexy—including your grandma’s vintage vibrators.

 

We dish on how laws have tried (and failed) to police desire, and “V” dishes on why walking into a real, brick-and-mortar pleasure shop can still offer something the internet never could: human connection, trusted guidance, and a judgment-free zone to explore your deepest curiosities.

We spill the tea, and the lube on just how horney Americans are. Did you know we are buying pleasure products by the millions? In fact, the U.S. sex toy market hit over $10.6 billion in 2024. That’s a whole lot of buzz, babes.

So grab your lube and get comfy—we’re talking vibrators, vibrancy, and the value of keeping things real in a digital age. This one’s for the lovers, the learners, and everyone in between. 💋

AFTERNOON DELIGHT PART 3! How can we build healthier, happier relationships that withstand the test of time? In this episode, we delve into the groundbreaking research of Dr. John Gottman, a pioneer in understanding what makes relationships thrive. We’ll explore the infamous 'Four Horsemen' of relationship doom: Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling. These behaviors can derail even the strongest bonds, and recognizing them is the first step toward fostering a more secure and loving connection.

What sets the Gottman Method apart from traditional couples therapy? Unlike many approaches that focus primarily on past traumas, Gottman's method is rooted in extensive empirical research. He has studied thousands of couples to identify specific, measurable behaviors that predict relationship success. Instead of avoiding conflict, Gottman emphasizes constructive conflict resolution, equipping couples with effective communication skills to navigate disagreements positively.

We’ll introduce the Sound Relationship House Theory, a structured framework that outlines essential levels for strengthening relationships, such as building love maps, nurturing fondness, and creating shared goals. This clear roadmap is unique to the Gottman Method, providing couples with actionable steps toward improvement.

Did you know that according to Gottman’s research, couples who regularly exhibit the Four Horsemen are 80% more likely to break up? However, couples who practice his techniques experience a 94% success rate in improving their relationship satisfaction!

Join us as we share three actionable tips to help you build a stronger foundation:

1. Practice Appreciation – Make it a habit to express gratitude for your partner.
2. Learn to Repair – Develop skills to recognize and address conflicts before they escalate.
3. Foster Emotional Connection – Prioritize meaningful conversations and engage in shared activities.

Tune in to discover how understanding and applying Gottman’s principles can transform your relationship into a thriving partnership!

🎄🎙️ Christmas Quickie: The Naughty List Edition! 🎁🔥

Ho, ho, ho, you naughty little elves! In this festive quickie episode of What's Your Position?, we're slipping into something cozy (or maybe barely there) and unwrapping the spiciest holiday facts you didn’t know you needed.

❄️ Winter is Coming... and So Are You 🥵 Did you know science says people have way more sex in the winter? Turns out, those shorter days and longer nights aren't just for Netflix. We'll break down the hormone shifts, seasonal moods, and actual research showing why your bed gets more action when it’s cold outside.

💋 Meet Me Under the Mistletoe 🌿 This innocent-looking holiday plant has a wild history. We’re talking ancient fertility rituals, forbidden kisses, and some very sexy origins. Spoiler: It’s not just about stealing a smooch at the office party.

🎁 Stuff Their Stocking... Literally 🔥 Forget socks and gift cards. We're talking vibrators, lacey little numbers, and gifts that guarantee you'll both be on the nice list this year. We'll give you tips on how to pick the perfect pleasure-packed present for your partner.

📽️ Holiday Rom-Com Smackdown ❤️🎬 We’re ranking our Top Holiday Rom-Coms and serving up juicy facts about these festive flicks:

• "White Christmas" – Did you know this classic was never intended to become a full-length movie? The iconic Bing Crosby song was actually written for a different film entirely!
• "The Holiday" – Fun fact: Kate Winslet’s cottage was so cozy, fans tried to rent it… only to find out it’s fake.

So grab your eggnog, light a fire (in more ways than one), and let’s get holly, jolly, and hella frisky.

🎧 Tune in, turn on, and let’s sleigh this holiday season. 🔔🔥

Episode Title: Get Intimate with Athena and Arya!

Hello Fellow Humans! This week on What's Your Position, we're thrilled to bring you a Full Frontal episode featuring the radiant and sultry Athena! As a product tester, playlist curator, and content creator for the oh-so-spicy Arya subscription box, Athena dives into the ins and outs of her fascinating job.

We’re unpacking it all—new boxes like Edge, Adore, and Pose—and why adding a touch of music to your intimate moments is a total game-changer. Athena shares juicy tidbits about why orgasms should be on your daily to-do list (yes, please!), how to cultivate deeper intimacy with your partner, and the research that backs it all up. Did you know that couples who have regular deep conversations report their relationships are 33% more satisfying? Or that vulnerable communication can lead to a 60% improvement in your sex life?

But wait, there’s more! We dive into the art of sexting—how it’s not just a spicy addition but a powerful way to stay connected. We also explore how showing intimacy in front of others, like holding hands or sharing loving glances, can translate to even more closeness and passion in the bedroom. And because music makes everything better, we discuss how the right tunes can set the mood, deepen your connection, and enhance your relationship in unexpected ways.

With over 15 customizable boxes, personalized quizzes, and a concierge service to spice up your connection, Arya is revolutionizing date nights. Tune in as we explore how Arya takes the guesswork out of intimacy while adding layers of fun, passion, and, let’s be real, orgasms!

Don’t forget to snag your Arya box with our exclusive code WYP15 for 15% off your first three months. Head to Arya.Fyi, take the quiz, and start creating unforgettable moments.

Come join us for a steamy, insightful, and oh-so-fun episode. Let’s play!

Athena created a What's your position Playlist JUST FOR OUR LISTENERS! 

WYP Sexy Playlist

Check out Arya and get your first box here and use our code WYP15 for 15% off your first 3mo!

Arya, your erotic concierge for a sexy date night

AFTERNOON DELIGHT PART 2: Ever wonder how your attachment style affects your relationships, from sparks to emotional hiccups? In this episode, we’ll dive into attachment theory and explore the four main attachment styles: Secure, Anxious, Avoidant, and Fearful-Avoidant (also called Disorganized). We’ll break down how each style shapes our behavior, communication, and emotional needs in relationships and why knowing your style can be the ultimate game-changer in building healthier connections.

Did you know that studies show about 50% of adults identify as Secure, while 20% report an Anxious attachment style, 25% are Avoidant, and the remaining 5% fall under the Fearful-Avoidant style? Understanding these stats helps us see that everyone has attachment-related tendencies, but it’s possible to grow into a more Secure attachment.

We’ll also share practical ways to move toward secure attachment, whether through self-awareness, therapy, or relationship adjustments. By the end, you’ll have actionable tools to make your connections more balanced, fulfilling, and less reactive. Join us as we dig deep into the psychology behind attachment and offer tips for growth and mutual understanding!

WE ARE THANK FUL FOR YOU!  Enjoy this bonus episode of WYP for your long weekend of family gatherings!

 

Ever find yourself wondering why men are still expected to pop the question or why dating apps feel like an endless loop of awkward encounters? Is your dating life one bad date away from becoming a monastic retreat? Trust us, you’re not alone. The dating scene is a bit of a rigged game, and we’re here to unpack why!

HELLO ANXIOUS HUMANS! Did you know that over 80% of the population will experience an anxiety disorder at some point in their lives? That’s right! Anxiety is basically the overbearing parent of mental health—always hovering, ready to critique your every move! In this quickie, we’re diving deep into how this sneaky little gremlin can throw a wrench in our love lives, sex lives, and relationships like a bad rom-com plot twist.

Ever tried to be romantic when your heart feels like it's doing the cha-cha? We’ll talk about the physical sensations that come with anxiety, from that delightful stomach flip that starts as butterflies but quickly turns into a full-blown hornet’s nest. Then there’s the mind game that can turn a sweet date into an internal monologue of “Do I look okay? What if they don’t like my choice of pasta? Am I talking too much?!”—and just when you think you might seal the deal, anxiety decides to crash the party, leaving you feeling more like a deer in headlights than a seductive starlet.

But wait—let's get steamy! Did you know that nearly 30% of men report experiencing performance anxiety? Yes, that pressure to perform can turn a night of passion into an episode of “Survivor: Bedroom Edition,” where the stakes are high, and the tension is palpable! We'll explore how anxiety can mess with your mojo, making that path to pleasure feel like running a marathon in stilettos—difficult, wobbly, and downright amusing.

Join me as I share my personal rollercoaster of living with anxiety every single day. We'll break down tips to not just survive, but thrive in your relationship while juggling those anxiety-induced challenges.

And if you’re the partner of someone wrestling with this beast, I’ve got your back, too! We’ll discuss effective ways to support your loved one—no, you don’t need to don a cape, but maybe bring a little humor and lots of empathy to the table. After all, laughter can be the best aphrodisiac when navigating the murky waters of anxiety.

So, buckle up for a fun, sexy, and insightful ride as we navigate the ups and downs of love and anxiety together. Remember, in this wild journey called life, stay safe, stay kind, and—most importantly—stay sexy!

AFTERNOON DELIGHT SERIES: We want to bring you ideas for better relationships. On part one we ask; Are the traditional five love languages still the best way to understand what we need in a relationship? According to recent studies, nearly 80% of couples who engage in each other’s primary love language regularly experience deeper emotional intimacy. In this afternoon delight, we explore the origins of love languages, breaking down Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Acts of Service, Physical Touch, and Receiving Gifts, while also challenging listeners to consider how their love needs have shifted. Did you know that 65% of couples who understand each other's love languages report higher relationship satisfaction? Yet many feel that new love languages are emerging in today’s digital, fast-paced world. Could yours be ‘Arts and interests’ or ‘intelligence’?

We’ll discuss ideas for new love languages that reflect modern needs, shifting norms, and evolving values, helping couples connect on levels beyond the original five. Whether you’re fluent in ‘I love you’ or searching for new ways to express it, this episode has something for everyone ready to rethink love.

Hello Fellow Humans! On this episode we sat down with the captivating Sophia Domina for an in-depth, raw conversation about kink, religion, and empowerment. We dove headfirst into topics some might find shocking—like the juxtaposition of butt plugs and Bibles—and explored the complex ways sexuality and spirituality can intersect. 

Sophia shared her journey as a dominatrix, revealing how BDSM can be a liberating force for both her and her clients. We talked about religious guilt, sexual freedom, and how embracing your desires can actually lead to personal growth and self-discovery. Did you know that 1 in 6 Americans has dabbled in BDSM? That statistic alone shows how far we've come in normalizing kink, but there’s still a long way to go in shedding shame, especially when it comes to sexuality and religion.

**Key Takeaways**: 1. BDSM can be an empowering practice, helping people reclaim control and confront societal shame. 2. There’s often a strong connection between religious guilt and the exploration of sexuality. 3. Setting boundaries and clear communication are crucial in any sexual relationship, especially in kink. 4. Embracing your authentic self—kinks and all—can lead to deeper emotional and personal growth.

If you're curious about Sophia's work, make sure to check out her new book and more on her website Sophiadomina.com

Hello spooky Humans! Welcome to our annual Halloween episode! Did you know that in a study done on those with sleep disorders over 18% reported a sexual encounter with an unknown entity? On this years super scary episode we discuss the ghosts that haunt not just our houses, but our dreams too! Incubi and Succubae have been around for centuries and in this quickie we tell you all about their origins, some scary stories from celebrities and regular folk alike and some statistics about these sex demons. Get ready for some fun and freaky facts all about f**king ghosts!  

Hello fellow humans Did you know that around 70% of humans consume some type of P*RN in their lifetime? ON today's Full Frontal we speak to Lily, the founder of XO Afterglow, an ethical sex-based media site that offers not just erotic films, but erotic classes or "Edu-p*rn"" as well as blogs about sex and how to videos. Since the majority of teens say they get their sex education from P*RN, we think this episode is imperative for explaining how we can use erotic art and film to better our sex lives and make sure the performer's in the films get paid, recognized and are not exploited! Check out this INCRDIBLE episode, listen to our favorite films on the site, how they make fake c*m and how much P*RN actors get paid! We also have a free trial for you all on XOAfterglow!

https://afterglow.ubpages.com/wyp | @xoaftergloww Use code “WYP” for a 7 day free trial!

Afterglow is a women-led platform dedicated to inspiring great sex by promoting female pleasure and confidence in fulfilling desires. Their ethical porn, made by women for women, emphasizes consent, fair treatment of performers, and accurate portrayals of sex. Subscribers gain access to guided masturbations, partner exercises, educational content, and a stress-free, secure viewing experience. 

On this episode of WYP we look back at the life of a legend, Dr. Ruth. 

Karola Ruth Siegel on June 4, 1928, in Wiesbaden, Germany, lived a life full of fascinating twists. As a Jewish child fleeing Nazi Germany, she was sent to a Swiss orphanage during WWII. Post-war, she moved to Israel and became a sniper for the Haganah—talk about a dramatic start!

In the 1950s, Dr. Ruth moved to the U.S. and took a unique path into sexual health. Her radio show “Sexually Speaking” in the 1980s made her a household name with her no-nonsense, yet warm and funny approach to sex and relationships. She also made big waves at Planned Parenthood, where she championed sexual health education.

Even in her 90s, she kept sharing her wisdom through numerous books and television appearances until her passing on June 26, 2023. She is one of our major inspirations and we hope you love her too! “The more we learn about our bodies, the more we understand that sex is a natural part of who we are.” 

We are re-releasing some super important episodes to make sure you all got an earful the first time around! Be sure to check out our friends at Arya.FYI.com!

 

Is your bedroom getting boring? Need a spice in your sex life? In this Full Frontal we are joined by Arya's own Head of Relationship Research, Nicholas Velotta, to bring attention to this incredible, relationship changing subscription service. Arya is unlike any "date night" box you have ever seen, with constantly changing scenes that are tailor made for you and your partner by your very own "relationship concierge". From tame to tantric, Arya has boxes curated with high-end sex toys, sexy playlists, ideas for getting started, safe words, aftercare and so much more. Nicholas talks to us about how each box is made, how the scenes are created and the statistics they have learned from the couples who have tried and tested Arya from the start. We also discuss Kevin and my first box and take a look at the future of Arya. Wanna try it for yourself? Use code WYP15 for 15% off your first 3 months. This revolutionary relationship rejuvenator has the WYP sexy stamp of approval. Go check out Arya today, and reignite the passion in your romance. 

 

To reach Nicholas:

• TikTok: mindonlove
• Instagram: mind_on_love
• website: mindonlove.com

Arya contact:

• Arya's instagram and tiktok: arya.fyi
• Arya's website: Arya.fyi
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Hello Humans! In our first Full Frontal of Season 5 we sit down with Ally Iseman, owner and founder of Passport To pleasure; an expansive relationship guide that helps any couple looking to explore the concepts of ethical non-monogamy. She gives us the run down of her journey into this space and her 6 principals to a better relationship (22:00). We also discuss the four phases of Limitless Love (52:00) and how to take a relationship from the curious to the constructive! 

Ally Iseman is a writer, relationship coach, and non-monogamy educator based in Los Angeles who has been featured in The New York Times, Cosmopolitan, Well+Good, Yahoo!, PureWow, and more. She is a sought after speaker and podcast guest who teaches busy couples on the brink how to build a bulletproof relationship that lasts. Download her free Relationship Ratio workbook to see if your relationship is ready to open up without blowing up!

Hello fellow Humans! We are back for season 5 of What's Your Position and boy oh boy do we have some exciting news! Check out our first episode and learn all about our new logo, and new website! We are featuring mostly in person episodes this season so if you see more "Quickies" that's why! We love that you are still with us on this journey and we thank you all for listening and sharing the information with your friends! CHEERS TO SEASON 5!

In this Full Frontal we are joined by the stars of the Podcast Double Teamed, twin sisters Cami and Niki as they share some of their wildest experiences and deepest fantasies! We talk about our shared love of smut novels and break down your sun sign into what you should be doing in the bedroom. We also discuss topics like golden showers, consensual non-consent and knife play! This kinky episode is jam packed with spicy content and we were so grateful to have this incredible duo on our show! Check out their podcast, Double Teamed wherever you get podcasts!

 

Click here for their website!

Hello Humans! Did you know perimenopause (the start of symptoms of menopause) begin on average in a persons early to mid 40's? Did you know that not all women get hot flashes? Did you know birth control can mitigate some symptoms of menopause/ NEITHER DID WE! In this episode we are joined again by the incredible Dr. Shyama Mathews, OBGYN. We had so many requests for an episode all about Menopause that we could think of no better person to go over the finer details and listener (and host TBH) questions! Menopause is not a topic of conversation in many circles and it is such a shame because anyone with a uterus is going to experience this shift in hormones, desires, lubrication, emotions, weight gain, hair loss and so many other aspects of the end of your menstrual cycle. It is important to get the conversation going and share with friends and loved ones about your experiences! We get to some great questions about onset, genetics, symptoms, medications, hormone replacements and more! 

Be sure to check out Dr. Shyama on her websites and at Playground

Www.helloplayground.com Www.drmathewsgyn.com @drmathewsgyn @helloplayground   For a discount at Playground use our code!   "YOURPOSITION" for 15% off their first order from Playground. This link will auto-apply the code at checkout as well: https://helloplayground.com/discount/YOURPOSITION

Hello humans! In this Full Frontal we have owner of Sacred Skin, Ciara Fisher, over to the studio to give us a history lesson and free armpit sugaring! We discuss the benefits, stats and go way back to Egypt to understand the longstanding desire to rip out body hair out with hot liquid. We also get our underarms sugared live in the episode (videos on our Instagram!) and we talk about hair removal in general; who does it, how often and why! Check it out!

In this quickie we visit the world of bras, the history of why we allow these torture devices in our lives and the advances in modern technology! We have some titalizing facts for you, some perky stats and some busty claims about bras during WW2! Join us as we stare directly at your ches..eyes...and discuss the brazier in all its glory and pain!

Hello Humans! On this quickie we talk to Erin, a former student of mine who took a pole dancing class as part of her final paper and had it change her life. We discuss how pole dancing came to be, the benefits of it not only physically, but mentally as well and we discuss the amazing humans who engage in this confidence boosting sport! As her former professor, the paper she wrote about her experience in the pole dancing class moved me to tears. And this episode might just get you out of the house and onto the pole! Happy spinning!

Hello Humans! There has been a lot of talk recently about the benefits of weed and sex so we got award winning sex educator and author of The CBD Solution. We discuss so much in this episode including:

• Cannabis can help address the things that get in the way of pleasure, connection, and intimacy, such as being stuck in your head and disconnected from your body.
• Using cannabis can enhance sensation, relax muscles, and alleviate pain, making sex more enjoyable.
• Cannabis can help individuals with trauma history regain sensation in their bodies and experience pleasure.
• The need to challenge the stigma and taboo surrounding cannabis in the bedroom and promote education and awareness about its potential benefits for sexual experiences.
• Psychedelics, such as LSD and psilocybin, can alter states of consciousness and enhance sexual experiences, but it is important to approach their use with caution and in a safe and consensual manner.

Ashley has presented at mainstream, adult, and cannabis events, including SXSW, American Association of Sexuality Educators Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) Conference, Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit, Oakland Psychedelic Conference, the Cannabis Nurse Network Conference, and the world-renowned lifestyle resort Hedonism II in Jamaica.

Check out her websites:

My website: www.CannaSexual.com My online courses: www.elevatedintimacy.com My Instagram: www.instagram.com/cannasexual (Spicy sites): She has an OnlyFans as well just search by using her full name!

On this quickie we dive into all things anus and talk about butt stuff! Oral, toys, lube, positions and, of course, statistics. The butt puns are HEAVY in this bad boi, so maybe listen with headphones 😂 If you have an ass, this episodes for you! 

Hello Humans! On this INCREDIBLE Full Frontal we have DR. Shyama Mathews on to discuss everything you wanted to know about PCOS, endometriosis and ways to advocate for yourself and your pain! We dive into topics surrounding finding a good gyno, and her work as a robotics surgeon for numerous types of OBGYN operations (so fricken cool!). We discuss why there has been a push recently for women to get "labiaplasty" and why our society makes women think their labia's need to be a certain shape or size to be "good enough".  We also touch upon her work at "Playground" a Women's Wellness website founded by Christina Aguilera. Enjoy 15% off your first order when you use code "YOURPOSITION" at checkout! Enjoy!

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Dr. Mathews Website

or reach out to her on Socials:

@drmathewsgyn

@helloplayground

Welcome to part 3 of Afternoon Delight: Birth Control Chronicles! We’ve talked about the facts, we’ve broken down the methods, but now—it’s time to dive deep into REAL stories from YOU, our incredible listeners. 🫶 Over 10 submissions came through when I asked for your stories, and I was overwhelmed with the willingness to share. We got a wild mix of call-ins, write-ins, and unforgettable stories that give us the inside scoop on everything from vasectomies to IUDs, and beyond. Huge thanks to everyone who took the time to share—you’re the real MVPs! 💖

💥 What’s on the table? 💥

🔪 Vasectomy Stories: We’ve got three different vasectomy journeys, each one as unique as the person who shared it. Whether it was a quick decision, a long contemplation, or a "why didn't I do this sooner?" moment, these stories bring all the feels. 😱🔪💥

💊 The Pill Chronicles: A few listeners walk us through decades of being on the pill—from being a teen to now. Spoiler: It’s not always sunshine and rainbows, but the lessons learned are priceless. 🌈💊

💉 The IUD Experience: Painful insertion? A breeze? Multiple listeners spill their IUD stories, each more different than the last. Did they almost pass out from the pain? Did they keep it in? Let’s just say, it’s a wild ride. 🚨😵‍💫

🌟 And let’s not forget... our amazing Erin is BACK to talk about life off the pill—what's it REALLY like, and did the grass turn out greener? 

💡 Did You Know? 💡 🔹 IUDs are over 99% effective and last anywhere from 3 to 10 years—pretty solid for low-maintenance. 🔹 Vasectomies are 99% effective at preventing pregnancy, but remember—reversal rates can drop over time. 🔹 The Pill revolutionized reproductive health in 1960, but it wasn’t until 1972 that all women could legally access it in the U.S. 😳

Thank you a million times to our listeners for sharing these powerful, personal stories. You inspire us and we are SO grateful for you. 💖 This felt like going back to season 1 where the guests were my friends, so thank you for bringing it full circle. 

🎧 Tune in for a raw, real, and hilarious episode full of love, laughs, and life-changing insights. We hope you hear your story, feel validated by similar experiences, or hear something that sparks you to take control over your reproductive health. 

#WhatsYourPosition #BCConfidential #RealTalkReproductiveHealth #ContraceptionChronicles #mybodymychoice #listenerstory 

Hello Humans! In this sexy, sensual full frontal we are joined by Jaqueline Michelle who is a Sensuality Mentor and Sensual Shibari Practitioner based in Miami, FL. She specializes in supporting women in connecting to their bodies, revolutionizing their sexuality and sensuality, and healing from sexual trauma in an empowering and safe way. Her background is in yogic and tantric philosophy and solo conscious kink. 

We discuss the psychological benefits of bondage and BDSM are explored, including the flow state and enhanced communication skills. Jacqueline shares her experiences in the kink community and the deep connections and revelations that can occur. We dive into solo Shabari and how it can be a journey of self-intimacy and sensuality and Jacqueline shares her expertise in sensuality, tantra, and Shabari. She discusses the importance of tuning into the senses and embracing sensuality in all aspects of life, even in challenging moments. Jacqueline also explores the connection between sensuality and emotions, emphasizing the need to process and be present with one's feelings. She highlights the power of touch and sensation, both in self-pleasure practices and in intimate relationships. Jacqueline shares her personal kinks and the transformative impact her current relationship has had on her personal growth. She also discusses the revolutionary potential of ethical porn and the ways in which sensual tantra and Shabari have positively transformed lives.

It is a powerful episode! We hope you enjoy!

Check out her website here: Sensuality & Erotic Expression- BDSM + Tantra Foundation

In this Full Frontal, Ashley and guest Freya discusses the challenges in Yoni massage training and the lack of legitimate practitioners in the field. Freya also introduces her coaching services and her podcast, The Labia Lounge. We discuss her experiences in helping clients overcome pleasure issues and the importance of practice and integration. She emphasizes the need for understanding female genitalia and the challenges in exploring it. Freya provides insights on finding legitimate Yoni practitioners and coaching men on female pleasure. She also highlights the topics covered in her podcast and her online course.   Takeaways

• Yoni massage training is challenging and there is a lack of legitimate practitioners in the field.
• Practice and integration are crucial for clients to overcome pleasure issues.
• Understanding female genitalia is important for both men and women.
• Finding legitimate Yoni practitioners can be difficult due to the lack of regulation in the industry.
• Coaching men on female pleasure helps improve their confidence and communication skills.
• The Labia Lounge podcast aims to demystify and de-stigmatize topics related to genitals, pleasure, and sexuality.
• Freya offers an online course that provides a step-by-step roadmap to experiencing more pleasure and intimacy.

Frey has offered the WYPEEPS a discount for her online course! Use code 100CLAMSOFF to get $100 off! CLICK HERE TO LEARN ABOUT YOUR LABIA!

In this Full Frontal, Ashley interviews Brenna and Brian, hosts of the Front Porch Swingers podcast, about their experiences and insights into the swinging lifestyle. They discuss misconceptions about swinging, the importance of communication, and the evolution of their own swinging relationship. They also talk about the evolution of their rules and preferences in the lifestyle, including their transition from couple swapping to playing separately. The conversation touches on the stigma and discrimination that still exist within the lifestyle community, particularly towards queer individuals. They also discuss their experiences starting a podcast and becoming coaches in the field of sex and relationships. They also share their favorite aspects of watching their partners experience pleasure and how they reconnect as a couple after playing with others, emphasizing the importance of both sexual and emotional intimacy. 

 

Brenna and Brian

Front Porch Swingers https://frontporchswingers.com https://sexonyourterms.com

HELLO FELLOW HUMANS!

On this Full Frontal we talk with CEO of Promescent about premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction and his incredible product, Delay Spray, which is an FDA clinically proven product to help people with penises make intimacy last longer. We touch on some social and psychological issues that can affect a person’s ability to get and maintain an erection and tips for helping you last longer in bed. Check out his website below for all their products, including sex toys, lubrication and more! Happy Cumming!

 

Promescent Delay Spray

 

On this Full Frontal we have Author and Relationship Coach, Courtney Boyer back on to discuss the intricacies of being married in the military. Courtney is married to a physician for the US Army and she coaches a lot of couples who have one or both persons in the military. It is this insight that enables her to give us deep and personal insight into what makes military marriages different than civilian marries. From the basics like distance, missing life moments and intimacy, to deeper things like PTSD, infidelity and secret rules you have to follow as a military relationship. She also gives some amazing tips (both typical and outside of the box) to help individuals who marriages have these aspects of the military in them and are struggling to stay connected. This is an episode I have wanted to do for so long and we are very thankful to have had such an expert in the field chat with us. We at WYP love and appreciate those who serve our country and hope this episode helps you create more lasting, romantic, sexy moments with your spouse! 

 

Check out Courtney's Website here: Courtney Boyer Coaching

Buy her new book about sexual desire and relationships here: Not Tonight Honey

 

 

On this Full Frontal we speak to herpes advocate, educator and wellness specialist, Alexandra Harbushka. She has a Podcast, YouTube show and full wellness website called “Life With Herpes” where she helps others work through struggles and challenges that come with a herpes diagnosis. We discuss her diagnosis, stigma and shame as well as taking control and finding a path forward with health and happiness. Join us for this deeply personal and vulnerable conversation.

 

check out her website here lifewithherpes.com

Hello Lovers. On this quickie we breakdown the very beginnings of this love celebration known as Valentines day. We discuss crazy facts about monies spent, cards sent and the history of Galentines day. We also breakdown the Pagan festival that started it all; Lupercalia and all its bloody, whipping, sexy glory... and how a saint named "Valentine" secretly married young romans to avoid war and became a love martyr. Check it out and make sure you tell someone you love them today. And remember, we love you <3

 

Check out our newest sponsor, Arya for an all new way to connect with your partner! Get a custom made adventure box that satisfy every desire and deepest fantasy. Go to Arya's Website Here and use code WYP15 at checkout for 15% off you first 3 months! 

Hello Humans! On this episode we discuss how to cultivate a healthier relationship with dating by become more mindful in our desire, our drive, our self esteem and creating a space where we are able to date and be successful at it! 

Dr. Marie Thouin is a dating & relationship coach who helps folks of all backgrounds and orientations create vibrant love lives. Her "mindful dating" framework has helped hundreds turn dating into an adventure of personal growth, freedom, and authentic connection with others. Marie is also a leading scholar on the topic of compersion (positive empathy) in consensually non-monogamous relationships, and celebrates relationship diversity as a foundation of creating an intentional life. You can find Marie at www.LoveInSight-Dating.com(coaching) as well as www.whatiscompersion.com (research). Follow her on Instagram at @love_insight_dating.

Our dear friend, Daniel Garza, joins us for an in depth conversation about living with HIV, beating anal cancer and doing it with a smile on your face. Daniel is an activist, actor, stand up comic, educator and SURVIVOR. And this episode has all the ass puns you could ever hope for. 

Check out Daniel’s production company LilMesicanproductions here!!!

Hello Humans! We have a listener requested episode for you! We talk with our good friend Amy about her decision to get both a boob job and tummy tuck and we get the low down on the procedure and recovery. We also dive into why people choose to get body modification and gender affirming surgeries and what some pros and cons are. Remember, YOUR BODY, YOUR CHOICE!  Stay safe, stay kind and stay sexy!

We’re BACK, baby! 💃 If you thought we covered it all in Afternoon Delight Part 1, think again—because birth control comes in many forms, and we’re breaking them all down. Whether you’re popping a pill, slapping on a patch, or letting the ring do its thing, we’ve got the facts, the history, and the stats you need to make the right choice for YOU. Because when it comes to birth control, one size does NOT fit all!

🔥 What’s on the agenda? 🔥

💊 The Pill: ✔️ First hit the market in 1960—and changed everything. ✔️ With perfect use, it’s 99% effective, but typical use brings it down to 93%.

👕 The Patch: ✔️ Releases steady hormones through the skin—set it and forget it (for a week!). ✔️ Can be less effective in people over 198 lbs, so weight may be a factor.

💍 The Ring: ✔️ Insert it once a month—hello, low maintenance! ✔️ Contains a lower dose of hormones than the pill, but just as effective.

💉 The Shot: ✔️ Just 4 shots a year—talk about easy! ✔️ Can take 10 months or longer to regain fertility after stopping.

⚠️ REMEMBER: Not all birth control is created equal, and not all bodies react the same way. What’s perfect for your BFF might not vibe with you—and that’s okay! Your body, your rules, your choice.

🎧 Tune in, get the facts, and take control of your reproductive health like the badass you are! And come back for part 3 where we hear listener stories about experience on birth control!

Stay protected. Stay smart. Stay sexy. 😘🔥

#WhatsYourPosition #BirthControlBoss #MyBodyMyChoice #SafeNotSorry #ReproRights #SexEdMatters #ContraceptionConversation

Hello Humans! On this quickie we break down how depression affects our sex life! 🚨BE AWARE: Episode contains discussions about mental health and sensitive topics. 🚨 We break down what depression is, how desire, pleasure and libido are affected by our mental health and how sex can actually help some symptoms of depression. Remember to search for the joy in everyday. Stay safe, stay kind, and stay well 😘

If you or someone you know is struggling with their mental health issues, please call 988 ☎️

Hello Humans and Happy 2024! To start the year off with a BANG we collaborated with fellow sex podcasters, Bottled Up Bitches, to bring you a jam packed, sexifed, game filled, tip bursting episode with love from all of us! Join us as we discuss the difficulty of having a friend exit your life (and your show), what we all think "good sex" is and Kevin wins a sex game! THE AIR HORNS ARE FIRING in this bad boy! HAPPY NEW YEAR BITCHES!

🎄Ho ho ho fellow humans! We have a very Christmas Quickie for all you little elves out there. In this episode we give some gift ideas for your partner that are meaningful and sexy, we talk about managing your expectations and stress levels (Ashley tells a story about the worst Christmas ever when Kevin met her family for the first time!) and we talk about our favorite Christmas movies! It’s a holiday extravaganza for you! We love you and are so thankful for your continued support! Happy Holidays Humans!🎅

In this AMAZING full frontal we got to get up close, live and personal with Frances Tang, owner, founder and Captain awkward from one of our affiliates; AWKWARD ESSENTIALS! You’ve heard our plugs for the drip stick and now you can hear from her how she got started and what it’s like to run a successful, sex and wellness business. Make sure you check out all of their amazing products and use our code WYP for a discount at checkout!

Cum see all the products here!

HO HO Hello Humans! We have a super sexy, toy filled episode for all you sexy Santa’s out there. We get into some kinky and niche sexy play items you can introduce to the bedroom this holiday season. There are 3 levels of kinky for the novice, the intermediate and the advanced toy user. Links below! Enjoy and play safe!!!

 

Level 1

WaterSlyde Aquatic Stimulator - https://lovabilityinc.com/products/waterslyde

I Rub My Duckie - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01ACPEN00?ref_=cm_sw_r_apin_dp_D52MQGVED9BDGKMZTMEF&language=en-US

Absinthe Lotion Teacup Candle - https://rosaliebodyworks.com/products/absinthe-halloween-candle

 

Level 2

ElectraStim Flick Stimulator Multi-Pack - https://us.electrastim.com/products/flick-em60-m-stimulation-multi-pack

DrakainaDS FLESHLIGHT GAS-MASK - https://www.etsy.com/listing/1411719067/fleshlight-gas-mask-rubber-military

Mashable: The ultimate guide to fisting - https://mashable.com/article/fisting-vaginal-anal-how-to

 

Level 3

Gates Of Hell Male Chastity Device - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B007W52874?ref_=cm_sw_r_apin_dp_ZJFCCMSGSTAM15MA6S05&language=en-US&th=1

PassionFruitsexart Inflatable Ovipositor Alien Egg Pump - https://www.etsy.com/listing/1562721339/inflatable-ovipositor-alien-knot-dildo

Healthline: Everything You Need to Know About Urethral Sounding - https://www.healthline.com/health/urethral-sounding

 

We have a bonus episode for you humans! We *almost* didn’t release this episode because the audio is…well…not the greatest 😒. We tried three times to record this very important topic and this was the best one, sound wise. But boy oh boy this is a deep and intense episode about Britany, a woman with spina bifida, overcoming the odds, being sexual, getting married and having children. We cover so many important topics we couldn’t keep this one to ourselves. So bare with us, buckle up and get ready for an incredibly powerful bonus episode! 

 

Hello fellow Humans! We are SO THANKFUL that Lorals is here!!! In this Full Frontal I fan girl BIG TIME as we talk all things Lorals and latex with Sarah, the face of Lorals and marketing guru! Dive in and learn more about their start, the path to FDA approval and their upcoming products! We discuss mouth stuff, butt stuff and kinky stuff you can do with Lorals amazing line of latex undies. Check out the links below and be sure to use our code: WYP for 10% off your order! WE LOVE LORALS!

For pleasure and protection

FDA Clears First Pair of Underwear to Protect Against STIs During Oral Sex

Lorals on Instagram

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Hello Fellow Humans! In this full frontal we are graced with the amazingly intelligent and incredibly knowledgeable, Ruby Ryder; professional Dominatrix, sex worker, educator and pegging aficionado. We ask Ruby all about her experiences with pegging, how it can be beneficial and why the prostrate is so underrated in the sexual pleasure of men. Below are some great links and resources if this episode peaked your interest! Stay safe, stay kind and stay sexy!

HUGE SHOUT OUT TO Jacob Head Media for editing this episode! Check out their website!

Jacob Head Media

Links: PeggingParadise.com - pegging info, erotica and podcasts Pegging101.com - pegging info without the kink TheArtofPegging.com - webinars Pegging Paradise Podcasts - spotify link Shop for Toys - Support My Work - this is the EnticeMe.com link if you want to be an affiliate Become a Patron - Support My Work - Left Patreon, they are censorship heavy! Instagram TikTok Twitter FetLife Tryst - sex work   Approaching your partner: • Givers: https://peggingparadise.com/blog/2015/09/podcast-112-for-the-ladies/ • Receivers: https://peggingparadise.com/2019/12/podcast-253-for-the-gentlemen

On this episode we talk to badass mom, author, marriage coach and soccer player; Courtney Boyer all about her new book "Not Tonight Honey" and women's sex drive or lack there of. A lot of times women can be inundated with kids, work, tasks at home, social events and just life in general and it can have a serious impacts on their sex drive and desire. Courtney works with hundreds of clients who needed help in this very area so she wrote a book all about it! We discuss what can cause a lack of desire and how we can change our mind set about our bodies, our lives and our passion. 

Special shout out to J.M Faupel Music for editing this episode! We appreciate you so much!!!

 

Check out Courtney's website here

And here Instagram here 

 

We love you humans! Thanks for sticking with us through our editing woes!

Sexy sayings, pillow talk, dirty talk, setting the mood, flirting...however you want to say it, dirty talk is hot. In this quickie we talk about what dirty talk is, some of our favorite sayings, the taboo surrounding it and some great ways to get this naughty conversation started. Come and listen you sexy little minx. And share with your friends! 

 

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 And our Linktree!

Hello Fellow Humans!

Get ready to crank up the fun and kink factor at Backwards Bordelo! Join us for a playful romp through LA’s most outrageous queer kink event, hosted by the fabulous Carter—your guide to everything quirky, sexy, and delightfully subversive. 😘✨

In this episode, we celebrate queer spaces as the ultimate playgrounds for self-expression, creativity, and a little mischief. We’re diving deep into the history of these vibrant havens—from the legendary gay and lesbian bars that lit up our nights to the sizzling alternative events that have taken over when COVID-19 forced many beloved spaces to close. Did you know that nearly 30% of LA’s iconic queer establishments shuttered during the pandemic? 📉 Across the nation, a similar 20% decline has left many feeling the loss of these safe spaces where laughter, love, and liberation once thrived.

But hey, out of every challenge comes a fabulous comeback! 💪🏳️‍🌈 Backwards Bordelo is more than just an event—it’s a beacon of creative resistance. Studies have shown that over 70% of queer youth crave safe environments for authentic exploration and self-discovery, and this event is answering that call with a mix of kink, performance art, and unapologetic joy. 🔥💃

Carter brings their signature blend of humor and heart as we explore how celebrating kink in a secure, inclusive setting isn’t just about pushing boundaries—it’s about building community and fostering empowerment. Whether you’re drawn by the jaw-dropping fire dancers, the immersive Shibari, the dancers and knife play, the vibrant stories of resilience, or the need to reclaim spaces that nurture our true selves, this episode promises to be a rollicking good time! 🎭💖

Tune in for a playful yet powerful journey through queer history, sizzling current trends, and a vision of a future where every queer soul has a space to shine. Because when the going gets tough, the tough get kinked—and we’re here to celebrate it all! 🎙️🌈✨

Let's get this party started! 🎉💥

We are HONORED to have Dr. Laurie Mintz joins us to talk about why there is such a large gap between men and women and orgasms! Dr. Laurie Mintz is a feminist author, therapist, professor, and speaker whose life’s work has been committed to helping people live more authentic, meaningful, joyful—and sexually satisfying—lives through the art and science of psychology. Her book “Becoming Cliterate” is one I assign in my classes and is such an important aspect of our sexuality. Check this episode out as well as her website and book!!!

In this jam packed episode we talk with TikTok famous Kami Orange all about boundaries, safe spaces, phrases to use when you are feeling overwhelmed or anxious and how our relationships can be both fulfilling and respectful. *NOTE!* this episode was recorded right after we lost our producer and the editing is not the greatest! But we are learning and we appreciate your patience!

Hello Fellow Humans! In this quickie I break down my review of The Barbie Movie with some friends and we discuss all the controversial issues that cropped up in the wake of its massive success! Why are some people (read: insecure men) so upset about it’s girl-power messaging. Join us as we discuss what “The Patriarchy” is and why it is such an important movie for HUMANS everywhere. You are Kenough!

“A dream is a wish your heart makes” and our wish came true when Tasha Reign came into our show to tell us all about her life. From growing up in Laguna Beach, to her time at the Playboy Mansion, how she became a mother, and all about working in the porn industry. This is a BIG episode so get your favorite woodland creature, your fairy godmother and settle in for this magical episode.