What's The Call? – Details, episodes & analysis

It’s a monumental episode - our very first guest joins the pod! Interior designer, entrepreneur, and our longtime friend Alessia Miro steps in to bring some much-needed calm to our chaos. We dive into the story of our friendship (which started with mutual hatred and a pivotal period moment), reflect on what it means to grow up alongside someone, and explore how Alessia found the balance between independence and partnership. From New York to London, heartbreaks to healing, we unpack everything from codependency to the power of being single—even when it really sucks.

If you’ve ever felt a little lost, this episode is a reminder that your path doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s. Better things are coming.

Find Alessia:

Website: https://www.alessiamiro.com/

Instagram: @alessiamirointeriors

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Andrea and Theo are back with sunshine, spirals, and a serious case of seasonal stress. From the pressure of feeling happy when it’s sunny outside, to the guilt of staying indoors and the panic of time moving too fast, this week kicks off with a candid chat about mental load, social expectations, and why hibernation mode still has its grip. They also share chaotic weekend recaps—from dinner party blunders and mountain mishaps to convincing strangers you’re dating a Formula 1 driver.

But the heart of the episode is their deep-dive into Why Men Love Bitches by Sherry Argov. They unpack what parts of the book hit a little too close to home, what advice actually helped, and what definitely didn’t. From losing yourself in relationships to setting real boundaries, they reflect on past dynamics, people-pleasing habits, and the importance of maintaining independence—no matter how in love you are. Plus, the infamous “Are You Too Nice?” quiz gets brutally real. If you’ve ever been a relationship doormat or want to avoid becoming one, this one’s for you.

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In this episode of Chaotically Ever After, Theo shares her return to weight training—and the ultimate cockblock experience that left her speechless. The duo also dives into the Australian Open, their Super Bowl predictions, and the strange phenomenon of time flying by way too fast.

But, as always, chaos is never far away. Andrea somehow ends up buying a birthday cake for her ex, while Theo faces an infuriating almond milk frothing crisis (because some things in life just refuse to cooperate). From personal mishaps to pop culture and sports, this episode has it all—so join us for laughs, real talk, and just the right amount of chaos.

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Welcome to our first episode of 2025! We’re kicking off the new year with stories from Japan, where cultural surprises, ski trip drama, and New Year’s Eve anticlimaxes set the stage. Plus, we chat about the big 3-0 milestone, weigh in on the U.S. TikTok ban, and break down the latest from the Australian Open. And yes, there’s a fair share of chaos, but we’ll let you decide how much!

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In this episode, Andrea and Theo, dive into how they’re approaching 2025. They share their hopes and predictions for each other’s personal and professional lives in the year ahead, from big career moves to life milestones.

They also turn their attention to the tennis season, discussing their takes on who might take home the Grand Slam titles. How are you looking at 2025, and what do you think the year ahead has in store for you? Let us know!

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In this episode, Andrea and Theo sit down to chat about the big moments of 2024 and what’s ahead for the New Year. From the excitement of the Olympics and Taylor Swift’s Eras Tour to the shockwaves of Trump becoming president again, they dive into how these events shaped their year. Along the way, they reflect on their personal growth, shifting perspectives, and even reminisce about how their friendship first began. This episode is the perfect listen to end the year on a high.

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In this episode, Andrea and Theo dive into a mix of relatable and chaotic topics, from navigating attachment styles—whether anxious, avoidant, or striving for secure—to reflections on past relationships and personal growth.

The conversation takes a festive turn as they discuss gift-giving, their plans (and dilemmas) for the upcoming Christmas season, and Theo’s wildly funny and slightly disastrous attempt to confront her fear of cats before her 30th birthday.

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In this episode, Andrea and Theo cover everything from life transitions to chaotic late-night antics. Andrea reflects on her upcoming birthday and temporarily moving back in with her parents, sharing feelings of nostalgia and anxiety while striving to stay present and Theo opens up about feeling self-conscious listening back to her voice on the podcast. They also bond over their shared love of the Martha Stewart documentary before Andrea advises Theo on how to handle an ex’s unexpected message.

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In this episode, Andrea and Theo recap their recent wild night out, filled with exclusive party drama, an unlimited open bar, and chaotic adventures—including Andrea’s repeated phone mishaps and Theo’s unexpected departure.

The conversation takes a turn as they discuss the fascinating and unconventional tennis player Nick Kyrgios, his unique personality, and his recent podcast interview.

Balancing the fun with the serious, Andrea and Theo reflect on their struggles to maintain a healthy lifestyle while juggling the demands of their social and professional lives.

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In this episode, Theo and Andrea swap stories about life’s latest curveballs. Theo opens up about the excitement and nerves of starting a new job, sharing how it’s sparking fresh opportunities. Andrea, on the other hand, brings the drama with tales of a wild wedding weekend, complete with lost phones and unexpected chaos.

The duo also tackle some big topics, from the awkward reality of running into exes to the power of setting boundaries in relationships. With humour, honesty, and plenty of insights, they explore how these experiences shape who we are—and how we grow.

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