Intended to inspire and entertain, best friends Jaci Marie & Chelsey Jade talk candidly about health, business, relationships, life, etc. You can expect the girls to be joined by occasional guests, reading friends' & fans' stories, & offering unsolicited but heartfelt advice. | Introduction music by Lowercase Committee | Cover art by Chloe Bruderer.
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Trigger warning: this episode discusses pregnancy loss, baby loss, and Trisomy 18.
We’re back after a much needed break. Chelsey opens up about the reason for their time away: the loss of her precious baby, Jude River. She shares her experience, from planning for their third child to navigating grief in the weeks following his passing.
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If there’s anything that deserves a return to the What We Said spotlight, it’s some of Jaci and Chelsey’s glorious advice. You all know it, love it, and keep coming back with burning questions that need answers from your hosts. This “Best Of” episode revisits your biggest dilemmas, from navigating different religious views to dealing with picky eaters. Is it ever okay to date a friend’s ex? Should you be concerned if your man refuses to wear his wedding ring? The girls also discuss catching your husband on Reddit, dealing with immature in-laws, and surviving snarky family group chats.
Prepare to cringe, because this “Best Of” episode is bringing back some of the most embarrassing moments from What We Said! We’ve got a rogue husband inviting another couple to sit with them in an otherwise empty restaurant, a bold “three finger combo” comment made to a father in law that absolutely did not need to be said, and plenty more stories guaranteed to give you secondhand embarrassment. None of these moments happened to you, but your body will still react like they did. Feel free to pause the episode, take a breather and remind yourself this isn’t happening to you.
Back again with another hit compilation, Jaci and Chelsey are getting into your WORST dating and relationship stories! From Tinder to Hinge and Mutual, no dating app is safe. They’re reading about scary tantrums, sneaky thieves, hometown romances, and how to make sure you don’t get stuck with the bill. Then things get spooky with stories about ghosting, the scariest dating phenomenon of all. Whether you’ve been robbed on a first date or left on read by someone you thought was the love of your life, this “Best Of” episode might make being single feel like the only option.
This week, Jaci and Chelsey are revisiting some of the most shocking anonymous confessions ever shared on What We Said! They’re reading secrets about hooking up with the wrong person and bathroom moments that should have stayed private. There are bad habits to confess, plus a story that demands justice for grandma. Then things get petty with roommate revenge, harmless pranks, and listeners finding creative ways to get back at their exes.
After y’all ATE UP the last “Burning Questions” episode, Jaci and Chelsey are back with part two! They’re answering even more of the questions you’ve been dying to ask, including what their dream home (or compound) would absolutely have to include. If you guessed Italian kitchens, reformers, and red light rooms, you’d be on the right track. They also reveal which words they’d use to describe each other, which instruments they wish they played, and what food should be banned from airplanes forever. Tune in for another chance to get to know your hosts even better!
What’s a hill you’ll die on before ever changing your mind? Listeners submitted their most stubborn stances and Jaci + Chelsey are here to decide if they’re worth defending. Some are reasonable–like the belief that strength training is more effective than other forms of exercise. Others, like adopting a pet just to give it right back, are a little more controversial. Then there’s someone out there who believes all men are gay until proven otherwise. That one might be straight up (pun intended) rage bait, but the girls still find some validity in the argument. Choose your hill wisely, because Jaci and Chelsey are coming in ready to debate.
Nothing will make your stomach drop like sending a text message to the wrong person. You’re undeniably guilty, and as the panic sets in, your mind races to come up with an explanation for the receiver of your misdirected message. Today, Jaci and Chelsey are reading some of your WORST accidental texts, and a few are truly unrecoverable. Imagine sending suggestive messages to your in laws, or even worse, pictures of the real deal. There’s an accidental request to snuggle sent to a football coach, in laws exposed in the family group chat, and someone requesting a sample of a pastor’s “sermon,” or at least that’s what they meant to type. Double check that contact name before you hit send, ladies!
Jaci and Chelsey are back with another advice column! How do you plan a wedding when every trend and influencer is pulling you in a different direction, making your big day feel like a nightmare? The girls share tips for navigating mom guilt and taking time away from your kids for yourself. They also suggest cheap hobbies for those moments when you’ve got time and NOT a lot of money. Whatever stage of life you’re in, there’s plenty of advice waiting for you in this episode!
Today Jaci and Chelsey are answering 73 rapid fire questions, Vogue style. Except they definitely won’t make it through all 73 questions. You’ll learn plenty about the girls as they reveal their dream lazy days and least favorite food. They also share what rules their cult would have and how they’d spend a flight sitting next to their biggest celebrity idol.
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