As a follow up to our episode 142, we hear from Catherine about how the ending of her marriage is affecting her coaching business at Expansive Connection. Will her clients still trust her as a coach? Has this loss made her job more difficult when discussing non-monogamy with her clients? Does she feel like a bit of an imposter? Will this experience make her a better coach? Would you see a coach who has lost her marriage after becoming non-monogamous? Listen in to find out!

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We are joined by Dedeker, Emily and Jase from the Multiamory* podcast to discuss the similarities and differences between the swinging lifestyle and polyamory! We also talk about what exactly New Relationship Energy (NRE) is and how we can recognize and navigate those strong feelings and emotions when they hit you or someone you love.

*Multiamory centers multiple forms of love- everything from monogamy to nonmonogamy, casual dating to queerplatoni partnerships, married couples living separately to those who are single by choice, and everything in between.

The Multiamory Podcast and Team

Are you considering trying non-monogamy or perhaps learning how to navigate the swinging lifestyle environment? Are you paralyzed by the 'what-ifs?' What if my partner falls in love with someone else? What if I get jealous? What if no one is attracted to me? What if we are outed at swingers? 

You are not alone! Jason from Expansive Connection joins Mr & Mrs Jones to discuss how to better understand and work through these common 'what-if' fears shared by but also overcome by many.

Announcing our special project
Mrs Jones and I are developing an online lifestyle course called Navigating Your Lifestyle Journey to be released in December 2017! We've created 6 modules and over 30 lessons to help you move into the through the lifestyle while having fun, growing your relationship and avoiding the pitfalls and mistakes.  For more information please check out our website or send us an email at mrjones@wegottathing.com.

Discussion Topic
As we prepare for our first group trip to Desire, we discuss the seven deadly mistakes to avoid when attending a lifestyle resort, hotel takeover, meet & greet or any other large swinger event.  Why are we experts? Because we've made all seven mistakes ourselves!

Discussion Topic: Setting expectations is something we (and many couples) struggle with in the lifestyle.  With expectations usually comes disappointment.  Disappointment can lead to leaving the lifestyle or stir up negative emotions and feelings about yourselves.  We discuss how we TRY to manage our interactions with others and share some tips we hope will help you do the same. Good luck!

Discussion Topic: Way back on WGT Episode 3 we discussed Mr Jones's struggle with jealousy when we entered the lifestyle. In this episode we welcome Catherine, a licensed professional counselor AND swinger!  She breaks down jealousy: what it is, how to prepare for it, what it feels like, how to identify it, how to work through it and come out of it stronger as a couple.

You can reach Catherine by email at expansiveconnection@gmail.com or on her website: www.expansiveconnection.com

Resources Mentioned: 
The Ethical Slut by Janet Hardy
The Jealousy Workbook: Exercises and Insights for Managing Open Relationships by Kathy Labriola
Numerous books by Brene Brown
Vulnerability TED Talk by Brene Brown

Discussion Topic- Many couples approaching the lifestyle consider clothing optional resorts as a first step on their journey.  This episode we tackle some commonly held beliefs and fears regarding clothing optional resort vacations.  Just back from another trip to Desire Pearl, we use our experiences from the week to "bust some myths."

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Keeping up with the Joneses
We update you on our new business ventures and Mr Jones makes his request to Mrs Jones for his home office modifications.  We also describe a visit from our Canadian friends, our Southwest friends and our long-time LS friends.

Topic
Many people say how intimidated they are by having to flirt with others in the lifestyle.  We break down flirting in society, in the lifestyle, tie it to individual growth and how ultimately it helps our relationship.  If done naturally it's not so difficult!

BONUS: Listen our conversation with C&D from their Swinging Downunder podcast!

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Keeping up with the Joneses
We recap the highlights of our experiences at Naughty in N'awlins 2017!  Our WGT Meet & Greet and workshops were amazing, we were runner-ups again at the Annual Lifestyle Awards for Best Lifestyle Podcast.

Discussion topic
We hear from many listeners how difficult it is to find that "four-way connection" with other lifestyle couples.  We break down the issue and offer insights into what works and doesn't work for us. Oh, and we share how we screwed up at NiN (the Joneses are not perfect).

A special thanks to Ike Thomas for writing our transition song to snapshots and the ending of our show!  Ike's latest work is an acoustic album with the Irreverent Reverends called "Songs for Andreas" and can be found on iTunes and Spotify.

Visit our website for more information about the Joneses!

Discussion topic: This month we stray from our regular format to talk about being "outed" as podcasters in the lifestyle.  We discuss what happened, how it impacted our lives, how we managed the fallout, what decisions we had to make and how we've decided to move forward.

Snapshots: This month we share two emails from listeners that describe perfectly how we view the lifestyle and why it's so important to us both.

Mentioned this episode: It's time to vote for your favorite lifestyle podcasters.  Cast your ballot at the Annual Lifestyle Awards website!  Also, if you'd like to attend our Naughty in N'awlins Meet & Greet be sure to visit our website and sign up so we can send you the details!

Keeping up with the Joneses
"Friends" from out of town drop by for a few sexy encounters and we chat about the half-marathon that almost happened.

Discussion topic
We break down lifestyle friendships and what they might look like.  We categorize friendships into four types: Community, Casual, Close and Core to help put some perspective on expectations for making Friends With Benefits in the lifestyle.

Snapshots
Mr Jones enjoys watching a friend give Mrs Jones a good tongue lashing on the massage table while Mrs Jones recollects a hot make out session.

Mentioned
Please sign up here if you're interested in attending our Meet & Greet at Naughty in N'awlins this summer! Find the "dumb" card game here!

Keeping up with the Joneses
This episode we share three explicit experiences, a weekend with some "tried and true" LS friends, an evening with our new Texas friends and (queue the trumpets) our first experience with a single female!  

Discussion topic
We discuss how we developed a healthy approach to the lifestyle by 1) setting priorities, 2) staying balanced and 3) keeping a healthy perspective as a couple in the lifestyle.

Snapshots
Mr Jones shares an extremely "happy ending" with a new friend and Mrs Jones describes being pushed against a wall from behind while enjoying a sexy view in the mirror...

Mentioned
Please sign up here if you're interested in attending our Meet & Greet at Naughty in N'awlins this summer!
Mrs Jones recommends visiting the Licor 43 website.

Keeping up with the Joneses
This month we catch you up on our date(s) with a "unicorn", an evening in our swinger pad with good friends, a somewhat vanilla work party at our house and a family event.

Discussion topic
Mrs Jones recently discovered the lifestyle changed Mr Jones more than herself.  Armed with this revelation she decides to "interview" Mr Jones in order to dig into how men may view the lifestyle experience differently than women.

Snapshots
We start off by sharing two newbie "hot tub" snapshots from listeners.  Mr Jones shares a "messy" story with good friends while Mrs Jones tells how she caught herself flirting at a vanilla event while Mr Jones was out of town.

Don't forget to join us at Desire Pearl the week of November 11-18! Visit our website and click through our Desire banner to book your room and join us, the rooms are going fast!

So you think you've got what it takes to be 'successful' in the swinging lifestyle? From our 11 years of experience, we share what we believe to be the most important attributes a person or couple must have to fully enjoy all the benefits of non-monogamy.

We also announce the official opening of a new lifestyle resort in Jamaica simply called The Resort (and share a couple of sexy snaphots). Care to join us?

Keeping up with the Joneses
This month we catch you up on the sexy weekend we had with a very special couple as the four of us visited the Trapeze Club in Atlanta, Georgia.  Oh, and you'll also want to hear what we put in each other's naughty stockings!

Discussion topic
How is it that we can watch each other have sex with other people and not only does it turn us on but it brings us closer?  Many of you have asked this question so we decided to share some tangible things we've experienced that prove to us (and hopefully you) that swinging can improve and already strong relationship.

Snapshots
Okay, two naked female bodies and a strap-on.  Need we say more?

Don't forget to join us at Desire Pearl the week of November 11-18!  Visit our website and click through our Desire banner to book your room and join us, the rooms are going fast!

Keeping up with the Joneses
Our trip to Desire Pearl is set! Join us the week of November 11-18, 2017 as we bring T&A from The Curious Couple and C&D from the Swinging Downunder podcasts to meet you all for some sexy fun times.  Book on our website through our affiliate link on the page titled "The Joneses Recommend." We also describe what happened at our second house party (note: it was better than the first).

Discussion topic
As much as we try to research, learn and discuss everything before stepping into the lifestyle the inevitable mistake(s) will happen to us all.  This time we don't tell you how to avoid the mistakes but rather how to work through them and come out stronger on the other side.  Mistakes will happen to experienced swingers as well as newbies!

Snapshots
We recently had a sexy experience with a couple and did something we've never done before: book a hotel room from our dinner table at a restaurant!  Both of us share sexy stories from the evening.

Keeping up with the Joneses
Our new website is live! Come take a look at wegottathing.com and let us know what you think.  We also share what sexy things we've been up to this month to include pushing a boundary by playing on the first date, enjoying our "Southwest Friends" again (in a sexy way) and a couple of other dinner dates.
 
Discussion topic
We've received a couple of critical emails lately from listeners who say we "only play with attractive couples" and that the lifestyle environment we describe is "nothing like what we  normally see".  We break down the idea of what attractiveness means to us both, who we are attracted to and how attractive we see ourselves.  Attractiveness is a subjective word and we hope to better explain what it means to us and ask you to do the same.

Snapshots
Mr Jones loves the "dirty talk" while Mrs Jones participates in a very sexy triple-blow-job (yes, they do exist)!

Discussion Topic
In this bonus episode we discuss an issue that most couples will face, one way or another, during their journey through the lifestyle.  Jay and Kay from "That Couple Next Door" podcast join us to discuss a performance anxiety issue the four of us encountered when playing together.  This issue is pervasive and can be discouraging but fear not, with the right approach: good communication, self-reflection and re-testing it can be resolved for the best!

Keeping up with the Joneses
A lifestyle "happy hour" with "sexy" lifestyle friends, an intimate conversation with "new" lifestyle friends and we share some playtime with "old" lifestyle friends, and a very fun evening with some "podcasting" friends.

Discussion topic
We made mistakes early in our lifestyle journey by not understanding how to make rules.  We've split "rule making" into two categories: "rules" to protect your relationship and should not be broken and "boundaries" which are more flexible and allow for healthy growth.

Snapshots
Two listeners share snapshots about making and breaking rules and boundaries while Mrs Jones and I share two of our sexy encounters from this past month.

Keeping up with the Joneses
After a bit of a rant from Mr Jones, we chat about a local date with a new couple that didn't go as well as we would've liked.

Topic
We talk about our week in paradise! After 14 months we finally get back to Desire Pearl and talk about meeting some amazing new friends, experiencing some play time with sexy couples and of course a lesson learned (or two).

Snapshots
Two sexy stories from a couple we had some fun with at Pearl and two from us as well.

Discussion topic
Listen in as we chat at Desire Pearl with Jay and Nathan, an Indian couple from Edmonton, Canada, who were brought together in an arranged marriage.  If you think you know what an arranged marriage is you might want to listen and learn!  They discuss how it all began, the pitfalls and stereotyping they faced and what led them to try the lifestyle after over 20 years of marriage.

Keeping up with the Joneses
We share our "creed": who we are, where we are coming from, why we share and the purpose of our podcast.  We also share a sexy tale after a special visit from friends we met at Naughty in N'awlins!

Discussion topic
Finally! After months of remodeling our "sex-pad" and preparation we host our first house party.....and an orgy breaks out!  As much fun as it was we had a lot to process about what we enjoyed and what our comfort zones are regarding group sex.

Snapshots
Mrs Jones shares a "tattoo'd vision" from our house party and Mr Jones shares a hot (and wet) story about a sexual encounter with Mrs Jones on our sex swing!

Keeping up with the Joneses
We discuss our evening with J and K from the That Couple Next Door podcast and we thank you, our listeners for voting for us and making We Gotta Thing a finalist in the Annual Lifestyle Awards ceremony at Naught in N'awlins.

Discussion topic
Not much of a lesson in this episode- we talk about all the hot, fun and sexy times we had at Naughty in N'awlins 2016!  Our Meet and Greet was amazing, we met so many lifestyle podcasters, listeners, new swinger friends and reconnected with "old" friends too.

Snapshots
Of course we both share sexy snapshots from NiN!

Contact us
Mr Jones's email- mrjones@wegottathing.com
Mrs Jones's email- mrsjones@wegottathing.com
Twitter- @wegottathing
Website- wegottathing.com

Music licensed by BMI
Me and Mrs Jones- Billy Paul

Keeping up with the Joneses
Dinner with new friends, hosting new friends in the "Swinger Pad" and a night out with Jay and Kay from That Couple Next Door podcast.

Discussion topic
We recap our trip to Temptation Resort in Cancun and discuss our penchant for attracting and helping "newbies" move forward in  the lifestyle.  Connection, confidence and communication!

Snapshots
Listeners "M and A" share a sexy story, Mr Jones recounts a happy ending with Tony and Mrs Jones shares a memory from her birthday weekend at Temptation.

Mentioned in this episode
That Couple Next Door podcast with Jay and Kay
Temptation Resort, Cancun Mexico
Lifestyle Awards voting for your favorite podcast!

Contact us
Mr Jones's email- mrjones@wegottathing.com
Mrs Jones's email- mrsjones@wegottathing.com
Twitter- @wegottathing
Website- wegottathing.com

Music licensed by BMI
Me and Mrs Jones- Billy Paul

Why do we usually react to the word 'different' as something negative? Our differences can help us to learn more about ourselves which can lead to individual growth as well as strengthen our relationships. Kel from Expansive Connection Coaching joins us this episode to help us understand how and why we react to something different and gives us tools to help explore them and turn those differences into opportunities for growth!

Discussion topic
In this special episode we'd like to share our "single guy" with you all!  We hope that listening to Tony will help couples navigate the single guy experience and help those aspiring single males to better understand how to best position themselves for "success" in the lifestyle.

Snapshots
A "three-way" snapshot of our playtime together with Tony!

Contact us
Mr Jones's email- mrjones@wegottathing.com
Mrs Jones's email- mrsjones@wegottathing.com
Twitter- @wegottathing
Website- wegottathing.com

Music licensed by BMI
Me and Mrs Jones- Billy Paul

Keeping up with the Joneses
Afternoon delight with good friends, Mr and Mrs Jones's reconnection time,  Dan Savage's Humpfest and why you shouldn't drink beer all day before running a half-marathon.

Discussion Topic
We talk about when and how to talk to your partner about trying the swinging lifestyle.

Snapshots
Mr Jones describes watching the purple double-ended dildo disappear and Mrs Jones shares a naughty look with Mr Jones.

Mentioned in this episode
Dan Savage's "Humpfest"
The Desire Forum
That Couple Next Door podcast

Contact us
Mr Jones's email- mrjones@wegottathing.com
Mrs Jones's email- mrsjones@wegottathing.com
Twitter- @wegottathing
Website- wegottathing.com

Music licensed by BMI
Me and Mrs Jones- Billy Paul

Keeping up with the Joneses
A vanilla race weekend, a hot quickie with good friends before vacation, sexy fun with the Sapphic Swingers, a trip to Trapeze Club in Fort Lauderdale and a weekend double-header.

Discussion topic
We talk about how our "vanilla cruise" helped us to redefine the lifestyle as a way of living a sexy life full of fun and not just swinging (although that's fun too)!

Snapshots
Mrs Jones dancing with a bunch of sexy guys and Mr Jones at a nude beach with three HOT chicks!

Mentioned in this episode
The Sapphic Swingers- with Rachel and Tiffany
Trapeze Club- Fort Lauderdale

Contact us
Email- mrjones@wegottathing.com
mrsjones@wegottathing.com
Website- wegottathing.com
Twitter- @wegottathing

Music licensed by BMI
Me & Mrs Jones- Billy Paul

Keeping up with the Joneses- another try at a house party, a visit from our Florida friends, single guy #2 and a "shake down" cruise of our new swinger pad.

Discussion Topic- We discuss how we approached understanding and balancing the risks (STIs, pregnancy, our relationship and being found out) with the rewards of entering and progressing through the lifestyle.

Snapshots- (Yet) another un-sexy snapshot from Mr Jones but never fear, Mrs Jones heats things back up with a very sexy story!

Mentioned in this episode
Centers for Disease Control- educate yourself about sexually transmitted infections.

Contact us
Email- wegottathing@gmail.com
Website- wegottathing.com
Twitter- @wegottathing

Music licenses by BMI
Me & Mrs Jones- Billy Paul

Keeping up with the Joneses- a visit from mid-west friends, Mrs Jones joins the Vino Ladies and a house party with a communications issue (oops)!

Discussion topic- Do You Know George? We do! We share our experiences at a George event in Miami.

Snapshots- Mr Jones bobbing in the hot tub and Mrs Jones with her single guy....

Mentioned in this episode
Do You Know George? Learn about and book his events here.
Just For Dinner- A smaller "George" event coming to a city near you!
The Game of Lifestyle- we highly recommend this icebreaker card game.
Ruti Celli Music- website, iTunes and Facebook

Contact us
Email- wegottathing@gmail.com
website- wegottathing.com
Twitter- @wegottathing

Music licensed by BMI
Me & Mrs Jones- Billy Paul

Keeping up with the Joneses- We Gotta Thing-o, Naughty stockings, a birthday double blow job, a trip to Pittsburg, new play friends and your hairdresser said what?

Discussion topic- we talk about the thought process and steps to take in order to move into the through the lifestyle.

Snapshots- two listener snapshots and a couple of hot snippets from our latest playtime!

Keeping up with The Joneses- Sexy times with special friends and a hot night for just us two!
Discussion Topic- We talk about how we reconcile our Christian faith with our lifestyle journey.
Snapshots- Mrs Jones shares a "mouth full"; an awesome four-way connection and two listener snapshots.

Our 2016 travel plans:
Do You Know George?- February 12-15
Vanilla Cruise- March 26- April 2
Naughty in N'awlins 2016- July 6-10
Desire Pearl Resort- August 13-21

Contact Us:
Email- wegottathing@gmail.com
Twitter- @wegottathing
Website- wegottathing.com

Music licensed through BMI:
Me & Mrs Jones- Billy Paul

Keeping up with the Joneses- Goodbye Paige and Penn, Halloween party, dinner dates (good and bad) and good friends

Discussion Topic- Emotional monogamy and sexual non-monogamy

Snapshots- Special guests (HINT: Swinger Diaries) and our own hot memories

New Swinger Podcasts

The Aussie Swingers

Swinging Downunder

LnK Swinging Adventures

Shameless Adventures

Two or More to Tango

Swinger Podcast

Contact us!

Email- wegottathing@gmail.com

Website- wegottathing.com

Twitter- @wegottathing

Music licensed through BMI

Me & Mrs Jones- Billy Paul

Keeping up with the Joneses- Another spectacular house party, a visit by our Florida friends, fun at a Meet & Greet and dinner with a special listener
Discussion Topic- Here's what Mr & Mrs Jones from today would tell Mr & Mrs Jones from 18 months ago about their future lifestyle journey if we could travel back in time!
Snapshots- We share ours and two more from our listeners

Contact Us!
Email- wegottathing@gmail.com
Website- wegottathing.com
Twitter- @wegottathing

Music licenses through BMI
Me & Mrs Jones- Billy Paul

Keeping up with The Joneses- Changes to our music format; Email us!!; Playtime at home
Discussion Topic- Mr Jones interviews Mrs Jones about the past year in the lifestyle
Snapshots- We share ours and two special snapshots from listeners!

Mentioned in this episode
Jim and Jen from The Hidden Swing

Music licensed through BMI
Me & Mrs Jones- Billy Paul

Contact us
Email us at wegottathing@gmail.com
Follow us on Twitter @wegottathing

What makes the WGT community unique? We are not a dating site. We are not like a Facebook group. Nor are we similar to a Discord server, a Slack channel, a Zoom meeting or a WhatsApp conversation.

What are we then?

We are a community full of real people in real relationships who are looking to explore, learn, share and interact with others in a safe, non-judgmental and secure virtual environment.

What will you gain in one year by joining us?

Mastered Communication – You'll have developed unshakable confidence in open and honest conversations, leading to more trust, deeper intimacy, and fewer misunderstandings with your partner.
A Thriving Support System – You'll be surrounded by a network of like-minded couples who truly get you, offering support, wisdom, and genuine friendship. No more feeling like you're navigating this journey alone.
New & Exciting Experiences – Whether through online discussions, live events, or luxurious getaways, you'll have explored new facets of your relationship in a way that feels safe, sexy, and fulfilling.
Personal & Relationship Growth – You'll have gained insights from other members and  experts, engaged in transformative workshops, and overcome challenges that once seemed overwhelming.
Living Authentically –No matter where you are in your journey, you'll feel empowered to embrace your desires and connections without fear or hesitation.

Your relationship will be stronger, your connections deeper, and your confidence stronger than ever.

Care to join us?

Learn more about the We Gotta Thing community experience here!

This bonus episode 13 part 2 was originally posted on the Swinger Diaries podcast in August 2015.  Swinger Diaries is no longer podcasting so we are posting this episode to complete the story of our time together as podcasters at Naughty in 'Nawlins 2015!

All previously released Swinger Diaries podcast episodes can be requested on their website!

Special Episode!
In this episode we are joined by Paige and Penn from Swinger Diaries and we all discuss our hot, sexy and fun times together at Naughty in N'awlins! Catch part 2 of this episode on their Swinger Diaries podcast episode 19!

Music Licensed through BMI
Me & Mrs Jones- Billy Paul
Mr Jones- Counting Crows

Contact Us!
Email- Wegottathing@gmail.com
Twitter- @wegottathing

Keeping up with The Joneses- A dinner party, a house party and an apartment party
Discussion Topic- Our Naughty in N'awlins experience
Snsapshots- Side by side service and the ponytail holder

Mentioned in this episode
Naugthy in N'awlins
pLink Floyd
Colette Club

Podcasters at NiN
Swinger Diaries
Swingercast
Swap Fu
Two or More to Tango
Average Swingers
Bliss Bringers

Music licensed through BMI
Me & Mrs Jones- Billy Paul
Scream and Shout- Brittany Spears/Will.i.am
Mr Jones- Counting Crows

Contact us:
Email- wegottathing@gmail.com
Follow us on Twitter- @wegottathing

Keeping up with The Joneses- Desire Pearl: The Resort
Discussion Topic- Desire Pearl: The Experience
Snapshots- Sex fort orgasm and caught red-handed

Mentioned in this episode
Desire Pearl
Naughty in N'awlins
Annual Lifestyle Awards

Music Licensed by BMI
Me & Mrs Jones- Billy Paul
Desire- Andy Gibb
Stays in Mexico- Toby Keith
Mr Jones- Counting Crows

Contact us
Email- wegottathing@gmail.com
Twitter- @wegottathing

Episode 10: We've Come "Full" Circle

Keeping up with The Joneses- Hot (some not) Dates at the beach.

Discussion Topic- Navigating back to full swap; handling uncomfortable advances.

Snapshots- "Danger Will Robinson"!!

Listener Snapshots

Mentioned in this episode

Naughty in N'awlins

Desire Resorts

Music licensed through BMI

Me & Mrs Jones- Billy Paul

Right Back Where We Started From- Maxine Nightingale

Picture - Kid Rock/Sheryl Crow

You Are So Beautiful- Joe Cocker

Contact us!

Email-wegottathing@gmail.com

Follow us on Twitter-@wegottathing

Keeping up with The Joneses- Why yes, we do know George!
Discussion Topic- Who are you? Who are we? Our experience with swinger date site profiles.
Snapshots- Mrs Jones- Dirty dancing in a vanilla disco;
                   Mr Jones- so THAT'S what dirty dancing is...

Thoughts and comments from our listeners- All the way from Sydney, Australia

Mentioned in this episode:
Do You Know George?
Dr Zhana's Swinger Party Survey
Naughty in N'awlins
iTunes Review

Coming to Naughty in N'awllins? Email us at wegottathing@gmail.com

Boy, do we have a lot to talk about this month.......

Keeping up with The Joneses- A dinner and a "hot" hot tub date;  a night out in Miami; the dreaded vanilla cruise; an awesome house party..

Discussion Topic- Our thoughts on CatalystCon- a conference described as a "melting pot of sexuality"

Snapshots- Mrs Jones finds a good use for both hands and Mr Jones gets an eyeful....

Listeners Q&A- Do we think we could just "pull the plug" on the lifestyle and be happy?

Mentioned in this episode:

Catalyst Con East 2015

The Curious Couple for the Curious Ear

Dr Zhana Vrangalova

The Private Gym

Life on the Swingset- Live at CatalystCon East

Ending the Sexual Dark Age- Live at CatalystCon East

Music licensed through BMI:

Me & Mrs Jones- Billy Paul

I'm in Miami Bitch- LMFAO

Picture- Kid Rock and Sheryl Crow

Mr Jones- Counting Crows

This month's question: Could you and your partner  pull the plug on the lifestyle and be happy?  Let us know at wegottathing@gmail.com

Keeping up with the Joneses
This month we skip out of a marriage conference early to attend a swinger lifestyle meet and greet.  Are we bad?  We also talk about a local date for dinner.

Discussion topic
We've both read the book and seen the movie and share our thoughts on how we view the story and how it relates to our lifestyle journey.

Snapshots
Mrs Jones finds herself the center of attention at an "over 45" meet and greet and Mr Jones shares a sexy story of how Mrs Jones fulfills one of his fantasies by dressing the part of the "female CEO"!

In this bonus episode we veer from our normal format to chat with Cooper, host of the "Life on the Swingset" podcast, about his new book "My Life on the Swingset" and other sex-positive topics.  As you know, Mrs. Jones and I use podcasts and other forms of media to educate and prepare ourselves as we journey through the lifestyle.  Whether you are just curious, a newbie, or an experienced swinger, Cooper's book is a refreshing and insightful resource that can speak to and entertain everyone.

Listen in to our conversation about whether or not it's the right time for us to move from soft swap to full!

Catherine from Expansive Connection Coaching joins us to help define that 'squishy' term that is a result of some combination of 'swinging' and 'polyamory.' She then discusses pro's and con's of what to expect when creating your own brand of 'swolly' and then shares tips on how to successfully communicate and navigate along the way.

Resources mentioned during this episode:

Sex Nerd Sandra Podcast- The New Monogamy with Dr. Tammy Nelson

The Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough Quiz

Join us as we discuss (in detail) our swinging experiences at the Sinn-ergy James Bond New Year's Eve hotel takeover and party!

Join us as we discuss the topic of jealousy and other emotions from our own experience as we entered the lifestyle.

Join us as we discuss what we've been up to in the lifestyle.  We share an experience with another couple after our first date, our hot experiences at Desire Pearl and our sexy snapshots of our swinging adventures!