WBAY Podcast – Details, episodes & analysis

In this 29th episode of the WBAY (What Bird Are You) Podcast, we talk about our first foursome.

Have you had another couple in your bed for sexy fun times?

What are the expectations?

The boundaries?

Let's kiss and tell.

In this 28th episode of the WBAY (What Bird Are You) Podcast, Suzy and Sam are talking about sex swings.

Furniture and toys and new experiences can heighten the joy in the bedroom (and beyond). Swings in particular can elevate the experience.

There are several swings on the market, including some that spin and some for a doorframe. All sorts of materials from basic nylon straps to elaborate chain and leather combos.

A yoga sling or hammock may also work perfectly well.

The basic idea is that someone is elevated into positions that emphasize the pleasure for the person in the swing and the ease of changing positions for the person controlling the swing.

We have experimented with various types of swings.

One thing is common about all of them, that is, they all need modification to suit the participant's needs.

We have modified our basic ceiling-mounted swing to include cam-straps for ease of adjustment for both the person in the swing and the one controlling the scene. Suzy is the one most typically in the swing.

Another thing common about swings is that they can magnify an orgasm.

Do you have experience with swings? Let us know.

Enjoy the show.

In this 19th episode of the What Bird Are You (WBAY) Podcast, we talk about sex education.

We describe a little about how we were introduced to sex through conversations with our family and friends, the school system, and by being exposed to popular culture (TV, movies, and porn).

Though sex education as curriculum taught in schools remains a controversial subject, especially in the more puritanical communities within the US, we feel it's important to know about various forms of birth control and disease prevention.

We also think it's very important to understand good ways of communication and respecting boundaries.

Also, we feel it's our job as sexually active adults to seek pleasure while sharing the experience with our partners, experimenting, exploring, celebrating our sexuality without shame or guilt.

This takes practice. So, let's get going.

Enjoy the show.

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In this 18th episode of the What Bird Are You (WBAY) Podcast, we talk about toys. 

Of course we love toys. Partner play with toys is a huge part of a healthy sexual relationship, we think.

The more toys the better! 

And the more communication and exploration the better.

Toys can be intimidating, however. 

What's the difference between a vibrator and a dildo? There are Wifi controlled toys? Butt plugs and sex furnature? Oh my!

Can you demo toys? Should you share toys? Isn't toy play just for women?

Let's dive in deeper for a true Toygasm.

What's your expererience with toys? Let us know.

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In this 17th episode of the What Bird Are You (WBAY) Podcast, Suzy and Sam are talking about public displays of affection. 

When are PDAs appropriate or not? What's too far? Who get's to create the rules? 

We'd much rather watch people showing loving affection in public then, say, fighting. And it really does spice things up kissing and petting when you know others may be watching. 

We talk about using the wifi controlled WeVibe Vector when going to a restaurant and bar. 

Also, we address the importance of code words to STOP the play when you partner may be thinking your resistance or reluctance may be simply part of the play. Power roles can be challenging both in the bedroom and outside without good communication.

What are your thoughts of PDA? Have you used toys like the Vector in public?

What are you code words to advance or stop the play according to the comfort levels of you and your partner? 

Let's hear from you. 

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This is the 16th episode of the What Bird Are You (WBAY) Podcast with your hosts, Suzy and Sam.

Foreplay is what we call the "first chapter" of a sexual experience.  

It is about planting the seed of sex and building sexual tension. 

More than simply lubricating genitalia, foreplay is setting the stage.

Priming your partner in advance of the experience is very much part of sexuality.  Have them think about it, dream about it, spend the hours before anticipating what will happen.  Include sexy text messages, love notes, suggestive gifts. 

Let your partner know you desire them.

What are the things you include in foreplay? Let us know.

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In this Episode 15 of the What Bird Are You (WBAY) Podcast we are talking about aftercare. 

Aftercare is what we call the "third chapter" of a sexual expreience followed by foreplay and the sex acts themselves.

Aftercare may be one of the most often neglected part of the sexual experience. It is, however, a key ingredient to having rewarding sex. 

It's the time partners spend recovering together, caressing, cuddling, affirming their affection.

Aftercare is when lovers return to reality together after what may have been an intense sex that may have included elements of BDSM or fantasy roll playing. 

We'd love to hear your feedback and suggestions to make this podcast better.

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After taking several months off from recording episodes, the What Bird Are You (WBAY) Podcast is back! 

Suzy and Sam are recording more episodes promoting safe and consensual sex without shame or guilt.  We're celebrating positive connections between people, and exploring new ways to experience pleasure together.  And, of course, we'll be reviewing sex toys.  FUN.

We consider the word SLUT in this episode.  Can women reclaim the derogatory connotation of the term and make it one without shame? 

Is there a better word we can use?

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Enjoy the show

In this episode we are talking about the BLUEPRINT of Sexual Compatibility as created by somatic sexologist JAIYA.  

Are you an Energetic? Sensual? Sexual? Kinky? ShapeShifter? Are you fulfilling your sexual blueprint superhero side, or living in the shadows of the archtype?

Take her quiz to determine what of the five Blueprint archtypes you are, and what you can become by going to her site www.missjaiya.com.

Most importantly, communicate with your lover. Discover who you are and what you may become together through exploration and attention.

Enjoy the show!

As always, please review and offer suggestions to make the podcast better.

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In this 12th episode of the What Bird Are You Podcast, we are ringing the Devil's doorbell and talking openly about masturbation.

Something judged, celebrated, reviled, and studied throughout history.

Suzy has done some fun research about how masturbation has been viewed over the centuries.

Masturbation has it's several benefits.

And it's complications.

So, warm up that bottle of coconut oil of yours and enjoy the show.

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Also, let us know your suggestions for upcoming episode topics.

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