Explore every episode of the podcast Violet Lange's Pleasure Path

Discover the secrets to a sizzling sex life that keeps getting better and better year after year! In this episode, Jason and I reveal our sexual journey, sharing candid tips on maintaining erotic energy and emotional connection. Learn why safety, vulnerability, and shared responsibility are the keys to unlocking unparalleled pleasure and deepening your bond. Whether you're struggling with sexual challenges or looking to elevate your passion, this episode can revolutionize your approach to intimacy and reignite the spark in your relationship.

Whether you're newlyweds or celebrating decades together, this episode is your roadmap to unprecedented sexual connection.

• Join our LIVE cohort of our Evolutionary Couples program at https://evolutionarycouples.us
• Short on time? You can also experience 12 Epic Dates at your own pace and reignite the fire of your relationship

In this episode, my husband Jason and I dive deep into the raw, real, and often messy side of relationships by sharing our three biggest fights and lessons from them. From trust issues and emotional disregulation to financial stress and fertility struggles, we explore how rupture and repair are essential for growth in any partnership. We also introduce our new programs, Evolutionary Couples & 12 Epic Dates, designed to help couples build stronger, more resilient relationships through skill-building, emotional connection, and polarity. Tune in for an honest conversation about the challenges of love, and how to navigate them with grace, tools, and support.

Find out more about Evolutionary Couples which starts October 19th and has Early Bird until October 7th, and sign up for 12 Epic Dates anytime at https://evolutionarycouples.us

If you only had about 2 hours a week to spend on your relationship, how could you use that time most wisely?

The truth is relationships can be incredibly challenging, especially in today’s fast-paced world where it can be hard to prioritize the relationship. Even when partners deeply love each other, they may face difficulties in maintaining passion, resolving conflicts, and growing together over the long term. Many couples are stuck in unfulfilling patterns, feeling more like roommates than lovers, or constantly bickering over small issues. Without the right tools and support, it’s easy for relationships to stagnate or deteriorate over time.

My husband Jason and I created the Evolutionary Couples program as a structured experience to help couples revitalize their relationships and foster deeper connection. Through 12 carefully designed “epic dates,” couples are guided to explore key areas like communication, intimacy, finances, and shared purpose. The journey provides a mix of themed dates addressing practical issues and polarity dates to reignite passion and play. With options for self-paced learning or a more immersive experience with coaching and community support, couples can choose the level of engagement that works for them. By dedicating just two hours a week to intentional relationship building, partners can develop new skills, heal old wounds, and cultivate a thriving, passionate partnership that just keeps improving over time!

Learn more and sign up at evolutionarycouples.us

How do you awaken an innocent connection to your body and the Earth? How do you reclaim all of the parts of you, and be witnessed in your fullness? How can you access greater truth, power, freedom and love?

Tune in to hear more about Wild Sensuality including details on my upcoming retreat in November: https://violetlange.com/wild-sensuality-retreat/

Fire + fire will burn out...balancing the elements in our relationships, and in ourselves, is key. Learn how to tap into your elemental sensuality and alchemize stuck areas, so you can plant the seeds of your vision of love.

For more practice and support in this area, check out my Wild Sensuality retreat at https://violetlange.com/wild-sensuality-retreat/ or my Sacred Sensuality program https://violetlange.com/sacred-sensuality/

Going through a lull, or a total freeze, in your sex life? Not feeling very sexy or radiant? Tune in for a unique perspective on turn-on. To sign up for Sacred Sexuality visit https://violetlange.com/sacred-sensuality/

Ever wonder if your "picker" is broken? Have you unknowingly fallen for the same type of person again and again? Listen to learn how to change your patterns of attraction and stop falling for your dating "catnip."

Creating healthy love isn't just about affirmations or a checklist. Bring your list to life with this episode and get tips for speeding up the process.

My guest Melanie Curtin, host of the Dear Men Podcast, joins to share three things you might not know about men, dating, and sex. Find out more about her at www.melaniecurtin.com

If you feel stuck in negative beliefs or have great self-care but something seems missing, listen for how to dial up your self-love to level fierce. The book mentioned: No Bad Parts by Richard Schwartz.

Emotional and physical intimacy can sweep us away, but practical intimacy is what sustains a relationship. It's also the missing piece to make dating more efficient and effective.

Ever let resentments pile up like the dishes, then just avoid them? If you want a smoother, easier relationship or dating experience, listen now.

You might be surprised to discover that good men are everywhere if you know how to look. Tune in to this episode to find out how to make it easy to find a great man.

If you feel like love is just out of reach, this episode is for you. Learn how using archetypes can bring love even closer to you.

Want that sizzle, that dazzle, that magical mystique? Of course you do. Everyone does. And if you're in a long-term relationship, it can feel harder to maintain that over time.

We're witnessing an epidemic of sexless relationships — some studies put it at 15% of all marriages. When it comes to sex, sensuality, and a woman's erotic essence, it can be easy to lose.

One way this can show up is as mismatched desire. A man wants sex with his woman (i.e. wants to know, "How do I get my wife to have sex with me more?"), but she's not feelin' it. Maybe she feels like her libido is low. Maybe she wants to figure out whether there's something wrong with her — isn't it her wifely duty to "provide sex" to her husband/man?

Here, we delve into the pattern of losing one's erotic essence as well as the delicious ways to reclaim it. YES, it is possible to get that sexy, sassy, soulful passion back — both in a relationship as well as just in your own body.

If you’re interested in staying in the loop about the program we reference at the end of this episode, reach out at https://violetlange.com/contact

In this episode of my Dating with Pleasure series, I share about the joy of aligning with the right time to date. Should you date after a divorce? When is your heart ready? what if you're sick of the apps and want to take a break? I answer all these questions and more so listen now.

This series of episodes is all about dating with pleasure -- bringing the joy, fun, and romance back to our opening to love. One of the biggest complaints I hear is about dating apps, yet, over 50 million people use them. Tune in to hear how to make this process fruitful and fulfilling!

Reclaiming and embodying our sexual wholeness is a gift to ourselves, our partners, and the world. Listen as Rahi Chun, host of the Organic Sexuality podcast, shares his wisdom as a practitioner and healer.

What is life without beauty and ritual? Listen in as my special guest Caren Chroma and I talk about adornment as soul empowerment, and how body-painting helps us to celebrate our ever-changing identities.

IG: @carenchroma

https://www.carenchroma.com/