EP48 features the latest installment of our Shining Stars series, where we sit down with former SMart Center patients – or their parents – and discuss how they overcame Selective Mutism. This episode, we meet former SMart Center patient, Alex Collins.

In this episode, Dr. E and Alex discuss Alex’s journey with Selective Mutism, what worked during her treatment, advice she has for those still working to overcome SM, and much, much more.

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Chapters: 

(5:28) ALEX’S UNIQUE BUT RELATABLE EXPERIENCE WITH SELECTIVE MUTISM

(9:41) STRATEGIES THAT HELPED ALEX THE MOST DURING HER JOURNEY WITH SELECTIVE MUTISM

(14:34) ALEX’S LIFE AFTER SELECTIVE MUTISM

(18:15) ALEX’S ADVICE TO CHILDREN & PARENTS CURRENTLY WORKING TO OVERCOME SELECTIVE MUTISM

(21:45) HOW CHILDREN AND TEENS PROGRESS DURING COMMUNICAMP

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Share our upcoming Selective Mutism In The School Virtual Conference with your child or teen’s school staff. 6.5 CEs/CEUs are available. 

Learn more about CommuniCamp, our 3+ day intensive group treatment and ALL DAY parent training & support program

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EP47 of the Unspoken Words podcast  features our latest installment of our Ask Dr. E series, where we answer real questions from our listeners.

In the episode, we answer five questions, including how to deal with contamination; if your child’s impatient, demand-driven behavior is a sign of OCD, if it’s possible to develop SM at home but speak clearly at school and more. 

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Chapters: 

(4:18) How do you deal with contamination?

(11:12) Are my six-year-old daughter's impatience, refusal to comply until she gets what she wants, and negative assumptions about others related to OCD, and are they treatable?

(16:28) Can a teenager develop SM at home but speak clearly at school?

(20:44) How can I help my 10-year-old son with ASD and selective mutism continue building social confidence despite lingering anxiety in certain situations?

(25:14) Where should treatment start for a 4-year-old with selective mutism and "the quad," especially given school-related challenges, to maximize progress without overwhelming the child?

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Learn more about C&A, our General Mental health Counseling & Assessments division.

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EP38 features the latest installment of our Shining Stars series, where we sit down with former SMart Center patients – or their parents – and discuss how they overcame Selective Mutism. This episode, we meet Jenny, mom to Shining Star Emily. 

In this episode, Dr. E and Emily’s mom, Jenny, to discuss Emily’s SM journey, the importance of parental involvement, embracing our children’s unique gifts, and much, much more.

This podcast was produced by New Edition Consulting (neweditionconsulting.co) 

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Chapters: 

(2:35) 
(8:51) 
(15:47) 
(24:23) 
(33:26) 

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EP37 of the Unspoken Words podcast features a discussion between Dr E and Kati Morton, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, author and media personality – on how parents and caregivers can better manage the stress often associated with raising an individual with Selective Mutism. 

In this episode, Dr. E and Kati Morton discuss parent and caregiver stress, the importance of self-care for parents and caregivers, why modeling healthy behaviors to your children is so important and more. 

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Chapters: 

(3:47) Strategies & Solutions to Navigate Caregiver Stress 
(9:32) Tools for Everyday Wellness 

(16:24) Importance of Showing Your Children Positive Self-Care Routines 
(22:20) Understanding Your Emotional Triggers 
(27:59) Simple Tools for Navigating Your Emotions

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EP36 of the Unspoken Words Podcast features a detailed discussion between Dr E and Dr. Jenna on Authoritative Parenting. 

In this episode, Dr. E and Dr. Jenna discuss the importance of authoritative parenting, why authoritative parenting is the most ideal type of parenting style during treatment, ways to become an authoritative parent and more. 

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EP35 of the Unspoken Words podcast features our latest installment of our Ask Dr. E series. 

In the episode, we answer five listener questions, including ways to help a home-schooled child make friends, how to deal with SM as an adult, the concept of “parental expectations” and more. 

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Chapters: 

(3:06) Bilingualism and Selective Mutism  

(8:13) Helping a Homeschooled Child Make Friends  

(14:42) Dealing with SM as an Adult  

(21:09) When Exposures Aren't Working  

(30:12) Parental Expectations and Community Camp  

(37:06) Conclusion and Final Thoughts 

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EP34 of the Unspoken Words podcast features a live chat with parents at CommuniCamp™, focusing on preparing children with Selective Mutism for the back-to-school transition. 

In the episode, Dr. E and four participating parents discuss unlearning old parenting habits, tips for acclimating to a new school year, balancing structure and flexibility as a parent and much, much more. 

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Chapters: 

(2:49) INTROS 

(2:52) UNLEARNING OLD HABITS AS PARENTS 

(10:10) ACCLIMATING TO A NEW SCHOOL YEAR 

(18:00) BALANCING STRUCTURE & FLEXIBILITY IN PARENTING 

(25:43) TACKLING PRE-SCHOOL SEPARATION ANXIETY 

(35:49) TOILETING TIPS FOR ANXIOUS CHILDREN 

(45:03) HOW TO HELP YOUR SOCIALLY ANXIETY CHILD MAKE FRIENDS 

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Learn more about CommuniCamp™, our 3+ Day CommuniCamp™ is an Intensive Group Treatment and ALL DAY Parent Training & Support Program.

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EP33 of the Unspoken Words podcast features a detailed discussion between Dr. E and Dr. Jenna on the critical role parenting plays in the treatment of Selective Mutism. 

In the episode, Dr. E and Dr. Jenna dive into the four main parenting styles – permissive, authoritarian, uninvolved and authoritative – highlighting their characteristics and impact on treatment. 

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Chapters: 

(4:58) UNDERSTANDING PARENTING STYLES & THEIR IMPACT 

(9:37) FINDING THE RIGHT PARENTING APPROACH 

(18:03) HOW PARENTING STYLES AFFECT OUR CHILDEN & TEENS 

(28:49) EXPLAINING THE 'UNINVOLVED PARENT' 

(38:40) THE IMPACT OF AUTHORITARIAN PARENTING 

(42:20) THE AUTHORITATIVE PARENTING APPROACH 

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This episode of the Unspoken Words podcast features a live chat with five parents at CommuniCamp. 

Dr. E discusses with the participating parents their experiences and concerns, particularly how their children become non-verbal in certain social situations such as meeting school peers. Strategies discussed include using bridging techniques, diligent parental involvement, the importance of school-based accommodations, and specific strategies used at CommuniCamp to help children gradually overcome their mutism. 

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Chapters: 

(3:12) PARENT INTROS 

(4:34) MANAGING ANXIETY IN SOCIAL SETTINGS 

(13:49) HELPING CHILDREN TRANSITION TO NEW SCHOOLS 

(22:06) TIPS FOR ENGAGING NON-VERBAL CHILDREN 

(32:50) HELPING YOUR CHILD AT SOCIAL EVENTS 

(43:19) HOW COMMUNICAMP HELPS PARENTS UNDERSTNAD THEIR ROLE IN TREATMENT 

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In this episode, Dr. E. introduces Dr. Jenna to the SMart Center’s podcast audience.

Dr. Jenna received her doctorate in Clinical Psychology and is now working full-time at the SMart Center.

They discuss Dr. Jenna's passion for psychology, her career path, her upcoming role at the SMart Center and more. 

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Learn more about C&A, our General Mental health Counseling & Assessments division 

Read more about Dr. Jenna here 

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EP31 of the Unspoken Words podcast features a detailed discussion between Dr. E and Dr. Eric Endlich on the process and challenges of securing college accommodations for students with disabilities. 

In the episode, Dr. E and Dr. Endlich discuss the differences between K-12 and college accommodations, the role of self-advocacy, types of accommodations available, the importance of early preparation and parental involvement and more. 

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Chapters: 

(4:33) UNDERSTANDING COLLEGE DISABILITY ACCOMMODATIONS 

(13:35) BEST COLLEGES FOR STUDENT ACCOMMODATIONS 

(19:42) EXAMPLES OF NON-ACADEMIC ACCOMMODATIONS 

(27:03) EXAMPLES OF ACADEMIC ACCOMMODATIONS 

(36:13) WHEN TO DISCLOSE A DISABILITY TO YOUR COLLEGE 

(44:53) IMPORTANCE OF STARTING COLLEGE SELECTION PROCESS EARLY 

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For the best clips from every episode, follow the podcast on Instagram & YouTube 

Learn more about C&A, our General Mental health Counseling & Assessments division 

Visit Dr. Eric Endlich’s Top College Consultants here 

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In the latest installment of our Ask Dr. E series, Dr. E answers five teen-related listener questions, including whether changing schools can serve as a fresh start for your teen, how to handle a teen who won’t leave their room, how to continue supporting and encouraging your teen and more. 

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Chapters: 

(2:57) My son is 18 and is completely silent everywhere. He hasn’t spoken since 2nd grade. Are there any resources you recommend I check out and pass along? 

(10:45) Will changing schools solve my teen’s mutism? If so, should I consider a special education school or a private school? 

(17:09) I have a 15-year-old son with SM and social anxiety who refuses to go to school and stays in his bedroom all day. How can I help him? What’s a good first step? 

(22:00) I have a 14-year-old daughter who has social communication difficulties, sensory processing difficulties and defiance at home. What training(s) do you recommend we check out to help support and encourage her? 

(28:01) Is there a link between Multiple Personality Disorder and SM? My 17-yr-old brother, out of the blue, stopped talking to his close family in late 2022. Have you seen anything like this before? 

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EP46 of the Unspoken Words podcast features a live chat with parents at January 2025 CommuniCamp.

In the episode, Dr. E and three participating parents discuss separation anxiety, strategies to encourage verbal communication, how to address fears of speaking and much more.  

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Chapters: 

(5:58) UNDERSTANDING SEPARATION ANXIETY AND BUILDING CONFIDENCE (17:07) STRATEGIES TO ENCOURAGE VERBAL COMMUNICATION(24:46) HOW PARENTS CAN CREATE A SUPPORTIVE ENVIRONMENT FOR THEIR CHILDREN (29:50) ADDRESSING FEARS AND CONCERNS ABOUT SPEAKING (35:58) WAYS TO EMPOWER AND ENCOURAGE YOUR CHILD

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Listen to other Unspoken Words episodes here. 

For the best clips from every episode, follow the podcast on Instagram & YouTube 

Share our upcoming Selective Mutism In The School Virtual Conference with your child or teen’s school staff. 6.5 CEs/CEUs are available. 

Learn more about CommuniCamp, our 3+ day intensive group treatment and ALL DAY parent training & support program

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EP29 of the Unspoken Words podcast features an in-depth discussion between Dr. E and Dr. Megan Faye on eating difficulties, specifically focusing on Avoidant Restrictive Food Intake Disorder – otherwise known as ARFID. 

In the episode, Dr. E and Dr. Faye explore the reasons behind the lack of awareness regarding ARFID, its diagnostic criteria, its developmental patterns, and much, much more. 

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To learn more about Dr. Megan Faye, please view her bio.  

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Chapters: 

(3:52) IMPORTANCE OF UNDERSTANDING ARFID 

(10:04) A DEEP DIVE INTO SENSORY PROCESSING & EATING BEHAVIORS 

(19:40) THE CONSEQUENCES OF UNTREATED ARFID 

(25:05) PRACTICAL TREATMENT APPROACHES TO ARFID 

(39:09) ARFID, A COMPREHENSIVE PARENTING GUIDE 

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Learn more about the host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum 

Explore our SMart Center success stories! 

Get started at the SMart Center 

Listen to other Unspoken Words episodes here. 

For the best clips from every episode, follow the podcast on Instagram & YouTube 

Learn more about C&A, our General Mental health Counseling & Assessments division 

Watch Dr. Megan Faye’s YouTube series here 

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EP28 of the Unspoken Words podcast features an in-depth discussion on the buddy process, an important and effective accommodation to help children and teens with Selective Mutism build comfort in the classroom. 

In the episode, Dr. E and Jen explain what the buddy process is, why it’s so important, what to do when the school isn’t cooperating, and much, much more. 

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Chapters: 

(2:59) Explaining the Buddy Process 

(6:22) Why the Buddy Process is so important and how to set your child up for success 

(20:26) What if the school can't implement the buddy process? 

(29:19) How the buddy process evolves as your child gets older 

(36:06) Next steps once child's buddies are in place and working 

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This episode features the latest installment of our Shining Star series. Olive was diagnosed with Selective Mutism in pre-school, when her parents noticed she wasn’t talking in school yet was fully verbal and “normal” at home.  

In this episode, Dr. E sits down with Olive's mom, Mindy, to discuss how Olive overcame Selective Mutism, what Olive is like today, and the strategies that worked. 

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Chapters: 

(3:14) Mindy and her daughter Olive’s Selective Mutism Story 

(8:10) Mindy and her daughter's experience at CommuniCamp 

(12:17) The tipping point moment where treatment was the only way through 

(15:24) What's Olive like today? 

(23:27) Importance of Parental Education 

(27:22) Mindy's advice to parents and strategies that worked for her and her child 

(42:07) How Mindy helped her child build social connections 

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In the latest installment of our Ask Dr. E series, we answer four listener questions; including whether or not the use of basic signs is good for a Selectively Mute child, to what to do when specific accommodations don’t seem to be working, to what to do when your child is scared to ask to go to the bathroom at school, and more. 

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Questions: 

(2:39) I am a kindergarten teacher that uses basic signs with all my students, including my student with SM. Is this ok? 

(9:56) Despite weekly lunch bunches, my child in pre-school hasn't seen much improvement. Do you have any recommendations on how do we get her past this stage? 

(20:37) My child doesn’t feel comfortable asking to go to the bathroom in school, so he doesn't drink out of his water bottle. How do we handle this? 

(26:37) Recommendations for ways to continue progressing during sessions now that the child's mom can no longer be present. 

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In the episode, Dr. E and autism expert, Dr. Vera Joffe, discuss the coexistence of SM and autism, the differentiation between the two, treatment considerations, school-based accommodations, and the importance of early screening for autism. 

Timestamps: 

(2:52) The link between SM and Autism 

(16:36) “Sometimes, parents are in denial” 

(23:00) The difference between an individual with SM and an individual with Autism 

(34:39) Treatment considerations for Autism 

(44:57) Findings from Dr. Joffe’s SM & Comorbidity study 

(49:42) School-based accommodations for individuals with SM & Autism 

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This episode offers valuable insights from Dr. E, Jen, and school professionals, James and Lindsey, on empowering students with selective mutism in the classroom. 

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Timestamps: 

(04:16) Student overcomes school anxiety with teacher support. 

(06:57) Prepare and support children to ease transitions. 

(11:01) Observe children and note behavior in class. 

(16:00) Use songs and sounds to engage cat. 

(18:03) Small groups or one-on-one aid progress. 

(21:25) Encouraging verbal interactions to move to next stage. 

(24:48) Be cautious of tallying for motivation. 

(29:34) Student excels in independent projects, delivers eloquently. 

(30:22) Fostering student engagement and growth in class. 

(35:11) Preparing thoughts, sharing verbally, mastering social cues. 

(39:06) Each child's unique needs require personalized approach. 

(42:28) Focused support and communication helps student thrive. 

(45:51) Guide parents on appropriate involvement in school. 

(47:43) Parents need education on selective mutism support. 

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This episode features a conversation between Dr. E and Lynn Lyons, LICSW. Dr. E and Lynn discuss how to balance parental intervention and accommodations to avoid the pitfalls of excessive worry and anxiety that could cripple a child's development. They emphasized the need for regular parental modeling, skill-building, and promoting flexibility rather than rigidity.

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TOPICS: 

(04:48) GENERATIONAL ANXIETY IS REAL 

(09:41) PARENTS NEED TO BE INVOLVED IN THEIR KID'S TREATMENT, TOO 

(16:15) HOW PARENTS CAN MANAGE THEIR OWN ANXIETY 

(37:29) PARENTS NEED A SELF-CARE ROUTINE 

(47:00) WHERE TO BEGIN IF YOU'RE AN ANXIOUS PARENT 

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MORE ON THIS EPISODE’S GUEST, LYNN LYONS: 

Lynn travels internationally as a speaker and trainer on the subject of anxiety, its role in families, and the need for a preventative approach at home and in schools. She is a sought-after expert, appearing in the New York Times, Time, NPR, Psychology Today, Good Morning America, the Today Show and other media outlets. Lynn is a featured expert in the recent documentary Anxious Nation. 

With a special interest in breaking the generational cycle of worry in families, Lynn is the author/coauthor of several books and articles on anxiety, including Anxious Kids, Anxious Parents: 7 Ways to Stop the Worry Cycle and Raise Courageous & Independent Children, and the companion book for kids, Playing with Anxiety: Casey’s Guide for Teens and Kids. Her latest book for adults and teenagers, The Anxiety Audit was released October ’22.  

Lynn is the co-host of the popular podcast Flusterclux. 

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This episode is a Live Chat with Parents, hosted by Dr. E and moderated by LisaMarie. This is a special recording focused on children ages nine to 12 with selective mutism. Three parents, Daphne, Edwin, and Julie, engage in conversation, sharing their experiences and asking Dr. E questions related to their children's specific circumstances.

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Questions: 

(3:40) HOW CAN I BE THE BEST ADVOCATE FOR MY DAUGHTER IN SCHOOL? WE ATTEND A PRIVATE SCHOOL. 

(9:54) PUBLIC SCHOOL VS PRIVATE SCHOOL. WHICH IS MORE EFFECTIVE FOR A CHILD WITH SM? 

(15:25) HANDLING THE MISCONCEPTION THAT KIDS WITH SM ARE DEFIANT OR NON-COMPLIANT 

(26:19) HOW TO ENCOURAGE A YOUNG TEEN TO BE MORE OF AN ADVOCATE FOR THEMSELVES 

(35:36) IF WE LIFT MY CHILD'S SM, IS THERE A CHANCE THAT IT'LL COME BACK? 

(39:58) WAYS TO BUILD COMFORT IN SCHOOL AND SETTING IMPACTFUL IEP GOALS 

(44:39) HOW TO REGAIN THE MOMENTUM AFTER A DIGRESSION 

(49:00) WAYS TO MAINTAIN OLD FREINDSHIPS AS YOUR CHILD'S INTEREST GROW AND EVOLVE 

(51:45) WOULD A MONTESSORI SCHOOL BE BENEFICIAL FOR MY CHILD?

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In the latest installment of our Ask Dr E podcast series, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum answers five wide-ranging listeners questions relating to Selective Mutism. 

Questions: 

(1:45) WHAT TRAINING AND QUALIFICATIONS DO I NEED TO BEGIN TREATING INDIVIDUALS WITH SELECTIVE MUTISM? 

(7:17) MY SEVEN YEAR OLD SON DOESN’T SPEAK IN SCHOOL. ANY SUGGESSTIONS? 

(1:18) HOW DO I GET MY CHILD PAST THE VERBAL INTERMEDIARY STAGE?  

(9:17) WHEN SHOULD WE USE AAC DEVICES OR APPS IN TREATMENT? 

(28:01) HOW DO WE GET OUR CHILD TO STOP WEARING THEIR MASK AT SCHOOL? 

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Ask Dr. E a question of your own! 

Learn more about the host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum 

Explore our SMart Center success stories! 

Get started at the SMart Center 

Listen to other episodes of Unspoken Words here. 

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This podcast was produced by New Edition Consulting 

For all podcast inquiries, please contact Dakota Hornak at ⁠dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org⁠ 

Audrey Whisman was diagnosed with Selective Mutism when she was in 5th Grade. After Audrey’s teachers began to share her challenges with her parents, they soon found their way to the SMart Center. Today, over 10 years after her diagnosis, Audrey is absolutely thriving.

In this episode, Dr. E sits down with Audrey to discuss how she overcame Selective Mutism.

Timestamps (1:37): 

(2:58) AUDREY'S STORY 

(5:51) TREATMENT STRATEGIES THAT WORKED

(8:10) LEAVING SYMPTOMS BEHIND

(12:31) ADVICE TO INDIVIDUALS, PARENTS AND TEACHERS 

(22:29) FIGHTING OFF ANXIETY AND NOT LOOKING BACK

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⁠Ask Dr. E⁠ any questions you may have from the episode. 

⁠Learn more⁠ about the host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum 

Explore our ⁠SMart Center success stories⁠! 

⁠Get started⁠ at the SMart Center 

Listen to other episodes of Unspoken Words ⁠⁠here⁠⁠.

Relevant resources: 

• Audrey's Shining Star Feature

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This podcast was made possible thanks to ⁠New Edition Consulting.⁠ 

For all podcast inquiries, please contact Dakota Hornak at ⁠⁠⁠dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org⁠⁠

EP45 features the latest installment of our Shining Stars series, where we sit down with former SMart Center patients – or their parents – and discuss how they overcame Selective Mutism. This episode, we meet former SMart Center patient, Nick Jones. 

In this episode, Dr. E and Nick discuss how Nick overcame Selective Mutism, how Nick approaches social interactions today, the importance of small wins and much, much more. 

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Chapters: 

(3:30) NICK’S SELECTIVE MUTISM BATTLE BEGAN AFTER A CAR ACCIDENT 
(10:09) SELECTIVE MUTISM STILL PLAYS A ROLE IN NICK’S EVERYDAY LIFE 
(14:42) NICK’S ADVICE TO TEENS STRUGGLING WITH SELECTIVE MUTISM 
(24:05) WHEN YOU HAVE SELECTIVE MUTISM, TEXTING IS EASIER THAN IN-PERSON CONVERSATIONS 
(28:25) NICK’S BATTLE WITH SELECTIVE MUTISM SERVES AS A BEACON OF HOPE FOR OTHERS 

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Ask Dr. E a question of your own! 

Learn more about the host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum 

Explore our SMart Center success stories, including Nick Jones!  

Get started at the SMart Center 

Listen to other Unspoken Words episodes here. 

For the best clips from every episode, follow the podcast on Instagram & YouTube 

Share our upcoming Selective Mutism In The School Virtual Conference with your child or teen’s school staff. 6.5 CEs/CEUs are available.  

Learn more about CommuniCamp, our 3+ day intensive group treatment and ALL DAY parent training & support program.

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For all podcast inquiries, please contact Dakota Hornak at ⁠dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org⁠ 

In this week’s episode, Dr. E answers a handful of holiday-themed mailbag questions from our community. We chat about how to handle family relatives at large family gatherings, tips to give to your child’s teacher ahead of upcoming holiday parties, realistic goals to set for your teen while doing your holiday shopping, and more.  

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Timestamps: 

[04:37] HOW DO I HANDLE FAMILY RELATIVES WHO DON'T KNOW MY CHILD HAS SM? 

(14:05) TIPS TO SHARE WITH TEACHERS AHEAD OF HOLIDAY EVENTS 

(24:43) SHOULD I ENCOURAGE MY CHILD TO PARTICIPATE IN THEIR SCHOOL PERFORMANCE? 

(33:23) HOW SHOULD I BRING MY CHILD OR TEEN AROUND BUSY SHOPPING ENVIRONMENTS? 

(42:21) COMMON STRATEGIES TO USE OVER THE HOLIDAYS 

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Ask Dr. E any questions you may have from the episode. 

Learn more about the host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum 

Explore our SMart Center success stories! 

Get started at the SMart Center 

Listen to other episodes of Unspoken Words ⁠here⁠. 

Relevant resources: 

• Handout – Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum’s Holiday Preparations and Practicalities 

• Podcast – EP18: Holiday Prep 

• Blog – Why an individual develops Selective Mutism and why it persists 

This podcast was made possible thanks to New Edition Consulting. 

For all podcast inquiries, please contact Dakota Hornak at ⁠⁠dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org⁠⁠

[NOTE: this episode originally aired November 2022] 

The holiday season is here! While it’s a fun and joyous time, it can also be a stressful and overwhelming time for children and teens with Selective Mutism. Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum sits down with co-host Alex Collins to answer some listener questions on how to best prepare yourself, child or teen heading into the holidays.  

Timestamps: 

[02:17] What can parents do to prepare their child/teen for the holiday season? 

[05:15] Ways to communicate with relatives 

[20:11] How to approach a holiday party at school 

[30:15] School performances and shows 

[33:17] Communications strategies  

[35:55] Different types of travelers 

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Ask Dr. E any questions you may have from the episode. 

Learn more about the host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum 

Explore our SMart Center success stories! 

Get started at the SMart Center 

Listen to other episodes of Unspoken Words ⁠here⁠. 

Relevant resources: 

• Handout – Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum’s Holiday Preparations and Practicalities Handout 

• Brochure – What is Selective Mutism 

This podcast was made possible thanks to New Edition Consulting. 

For all podcast inquiries, please contact Dakota Hornak at ⁠⁠dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org⁠⁠ 

In the third installment of our Ask Dr E podcast series, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum answers four wide-ranging questions from our listeners. 

Questions: 

(1:32) Should we get our son tested? 

(6:55) Why is my child leaving their test blank? 

(13:59) Should we start medication?  

(20:51) Tips for traveling with a teen with Selective Mutism 

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Ask Dr. E a question of your own! 

Learn more about the host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum 

Explore our SMart Center success stories! 

Get started at the SMart Center 

Listen to other episodes of Unspoken Words here. 

This podcast was produced by New Edition Consulting 

For all podcast inquiries, please contact Dakota Hornak at ⁠dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org⁠ 

This episode features a live discussion with Dr. Elisa Shipon Blum and four teenagers at a recent CommuniCamp.

The four teens share their individual experiences with Selective Mutism, answering questions, providing advice and recommendations, and serving as a beacon of hope and support to anyone else going through their own journey with Selective Mutism.

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Ask Dr. E any questions you may have from the episode. 

Learn more about the host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum 

Explore our SMart Center success stories! 

Get started at the SMart Center 

Listen to other episodes of Unspoken Words here. 

Recommended Listening:  

• Ep10: Live Chat w Parents of Teens 

• Dr. E Talks Teens on the Outloud Podcast 

Recommended Reading: 

• Unspoken Words: A Child’s View of Selective Mutism (download eBook)
• Understanding Katie: Understanding a child with Selective Mutism (download eBook)
• 9 Reasons for a Teen to attend CommuniCamp 

This podcast was produced by New Edition Consulting 

For all podcast inquiries please contact Dakota Hornak at ⁠dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org 

Dr. E sits down with SMart Center Lead Clinician Jennifer Brittingham to discuss ways to navigate the testing and assessment process, what to do when your child has difficulty engaging with peers, how to build comfort with teachers, and more.  

Topics: 

(1:54) How to navigate the testing process 

(17:51) What if my child has difficulty engaging with peers? 

(30:01) How to build comfort with teachers   

(39:18) Strategies for children to become more responsive in the classroom  

(42:54) Does your child have difficulty starting and completing tasks? 

(50:28) How to accommodate picky eating  

(57:46) How to navigate changes and transitions 

(1:01:35) Final thoughts/recommendations heading into the school year 

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Ask Dr. E any questions you may have from the episode. 

Learn more about the host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum 

Explore our SMart Center success stories! 

Get started at the SMart Center 

Listen to other episodes of Unspoken Words here. 

Recommended Listening:  

• Ep5: Back to School  

• Ep9: Importance of School-based accommodations and interventions 

• EP15: Differences between 504 and IEP plans, getting the school on board with treatment, building social skills & more 

• Webinar: What is Selective Mutism? 

Recommended Reading:  

• Handout: Social Engagement is the KEY and FUEL to Communcation 

• Summer Vacation & Back-to-School Guide (download eBook) 

• Easing School Jitters for the Selectively Mute Child (download eBook) 

This podcast was produced by New Edition Consulting 

For all podcast inquiries please contact Dakota Hornak at ⁠dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org 

Dr. E is joined once again by SMart Center Lead Clinician Jennifer Brittingham to discuss the differences between 504 and IEP plans, ways to get your child’s school staff on board with treatment, how to make progress without a formal 504 or IEP plan, and more. This episode is the perfect primer for the new school year ahead.  

Topics: 

(2:46) The difference between IEPs and 504s 

(11:03) You can make progress without a formal 504 or IEP 

(17:29) 504 vs IEP: When’s a good time for each.    

(31:26) Ways to get the school on board with treatment  

(35:49) School isn't all about academics. It's about building social skills, too. 

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Ask Dr. E any questions you may have from the episode. 

Learn more about the host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum 

Explore our SMart Center success stories! 

Get started at the SMart Center 

Listen to other episodes of Unspoken Words here. 

Additional Back to School Resources:

• PODCAST EPISODE: Ep5: Back to School
• PODCAST EPISODE: Ep9: Importance of School-based accommodations and interventions
• BOOK: Summer Vacation & Back-to-School Guide (download eBook)
• BOOK:Easing School Jitters for the Selectively Mute Child (download eBook)

This podcast was produced by New Edition Consulting 

For all podcast inquiries please contact Dakota Hornak at ⁠dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org

[NOTE: this episode originally aired September 2022]

Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum welcomes Jennifer Brittingham LPC, a SMart Center lead clinician and school consultant to the podcast to discuss all things back to school! From preparing your child/teen and their teachers, to the comfort-building strategies that help with progression of communication, to how to educate the school, to determining IEP & 504 plans, this episode is jam-packed!

(2:50) - How to prepare your child for school

(12:51) - What if my child has anxiety or a panic attack during school?

(17:01) - What if the teacher calls on me?

(21:30) - How do you recommend we build comfort and help with progression of communication?

(35:09) - How do you recommend educating the school?

(43:26) - How do you determine what type of plan you recommend (i.e., 504, IEP)?

(49:40) - Bathroom and eating issues

(1:01:48) - Taking the Bus

⁠Ask Dr. E⁠ any questions you may have from the episode.

⁠Learn more⁠ about the host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum

Explore our ⁠SMart Center success stories⁠!

⁠Get started⁠ at the SMart Center

Relevant resources: ⁠About My Child⁠ | ⁠The Selective Mutism Summer Vacation and Back to School Guide⁠ | ⁠Social Communication Bridge®⁠ | ⁠Preparing for the Upcoming School Year⁠

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Listen to other episodes of Unspoken Words ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠.

This podcast was made possible thanks to ⁠⁠New Edition Consulting⁠⁠

For all podcast inquiries please contact Dakota Hornak at ⁠⁠dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org

In the second installment of our Ask Dr E podcast series, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum answers five questions relating to teenagers with Selective Mutism. 

Questions: 

(1:12) How do we apply CBT when our teenager visits the doctor?

(8:05) Is there any hope for my almost 16 year old son? 

(14:35) How can I support getting my teenager to talk in their regular voice at school? 

(20:19) Any suggestions on ways to build friendships in and out of the classroom? 

(25:52) Should I be concerned about my son's emotional regulation? 

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Ask Dr. E any questions you may have from the episode. 

Learn more about the host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum 

Explore our SMart Center success stories! 

Get started at the SMart Center 

Listen to other episodes of Unspoken Words here. 

This podcast was produced by New Edition Consulting 

For all podcast inquiries please contact Dakota Hornak at ⁠dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org⁠ 

This episode features a great discussion between Dr. E and Jennifer Brittingham – the SMart Center’s Lead Clinician and School Consultant - on what parents can do to prepare their children for the summer months ahead. These next few months will provide individuals with SM with some unique opportunities. There will be untraditional socialization situations with peers, visits with extended family, and may even include a summer vacation to a new, unfamiliar place. Dr E and Jen break all these scenarios down and more in this episode. 

Timestamps: 

(2:05) Importance of socializing throughout the summer 

(7:13) What to look for when choosing a summer camp 

(13:25) Pre-camp tips to get child ready for day 1 of camp 

(17:41) How to create opportunities for social communication  

(26:17) Do’s and don’t’s when trying to create comfort during the summer  

(30:57) Putting it all together 

(33:36) Don't underestimate utilizing family, friends, and relatives 

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Ask Dr. E any questions you may have from the episode. 

Learn more about the host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum 

Explore our SMart Center success stories! 

Get started at the SMart Center 

Listen to other episodes of Unspoken Words here. 

Relevant resources:

• Webinar: Summer Strategies 101 
• Webinar: Summer Strategies 102
• Book: Summer Vacation & Back-to-School Guide (download eBook)

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This podcast was produced by New Edition Consulting 

For all podcast inquiries please contact Dakota Hornak at ⁠dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org⁠ 

This episode features a second installation of our live chat with parents. In this episode, we focus the discussion on children ages three to eight with Selective Mutism.

This live chat is moderated once again by CommuniCamp Director and Outreach Coordinator, LisaMarie Vargas. Thank you to the parents who joined the show and for engaging in a thoughtful discussion with Dr. Elisa Shipon Blum and LisaMarie!  

Topics: 

(00:46) Participants introductions 

(2:00) My child is progressing nicely during play dates and even at places like restaurants, however not as much at school. How can we help our child carry their progress into the classroom? 

(7:51) Tips for navigating emotional regulation  

(16:46) Can a child grow out of Selective Mutism?  

(23:00) Help with initiating conversation  

(32:28) My child won’t leave the house without his baseball hat on... 

(39:54) Strategies when dealing with separation anxiety  

(46:10) What are next steps when you feel like exposures aren’t working out as well as you’d hoped? 

(58:00) Final thoughts 

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Ask Dr. E any questions you may have from the episode. 

Learn more about the host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum 

Explore our SMart Center success stories! 

Get started at the SMart Center 

Listen to other episodes of Unspoken Words here. 

Relevant resources: 

• Handouts:  About My Child | Helping the Child with Selective Mutism Acknowledge, Assess, and Understand their Anxiety | Helping Individuals with Selective Mutism Become Confident Social Communicators  

• Book: Unspoken Words: A Child’s View of Selective Mutism 

• Research Studies 

This podcast was made possible thanks to New Edition Consulting 

For all podcast inquiries please contact Dakota Hornak at ⁠dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org⁠ 

EP44 of the Unspoken Words podcast features a discussion between Dr E. and Kelly Melhorn, BCaBA on life after Selective Mutism. 

In this episode, Dr. E and Kelly discuss overcoming selective mutism, navigating social challenges, fostering independence in your children and much more. 

Chapter: 

(4:24) NAVIGATING LIFE AFTER SELECTIVE MUTISM 
(16:20) UNDERSTANDING THE CAUSE(S) OF SELECTIVE MUTISM 
(28:49) IMPORTANCE OF EXPERTS WHEN TREATING SELECTIVE MUTISM 
(39:08) UNDERSTAND YOUR CHILD’S UNIQUE INTERESTS AND MOTIVATIONS 
(47:36) CONTINUE TO SUPPORT AND LOVE YOUR CHILD 

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This podcast was produced by New Edition Consulting (neweditionconsulting.co) 

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Ask Dr. E a question! 

Learn more about the host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum 

Explore our SMart Center success stories! 

Get started at the SMart Center 

Listen to other Unspoken Words episodes here. 

For the best clips from every episode, follow the podcast on Instagram & YouTube 

Learn more about CommuniCamp, our 3+ day intensive group treatment and ALL DAY parent training & support program 

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For all podcast inquiries, please contact Dakota Hornak at ⁠dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org⁠

This is Part 2 (of 2) of Dr Elisa Shipon-Blum's discussion with Jennifer Brittingham, LPC on Stage 2 of the Social Communication Bridge®, otherwise known as the transitional stage of communication. Here at the SMart Center, we often refer to this stage as ‘The Missing Link’ to treatment.  

Timestamps: 

(03:49) Verbal intermediary in school setting 

(13:07) ‘Selective whisperers’ 

(21:37) Use of sounds 

(24:29) Sound activity example 

(33:01) Ritual Sound Approach 

(44:26) Final remarks 

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For all podcast inquiries please contact Dakota Hornak at dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org

Dr Elisa Shipon-Blum is joined once again by Jennifer Brittingham, LPC to break down Stage 2 of the Social Communication Bridge®, otherwise known as the transitional stage of communication. Here at the SMart Center, we often refer to this stage as ‘The Missing Link’ to treatment.  

Timestamps: 

(01:04) Dr. E's pop quiz (get out your pen and paper!) 

(07:22) Re-familiarizing parents with the Social Communication Bridge® 

(08:55) How and why Dr. E began focusing her treatment on the ‘Transitional Stage’  

(14:29) Three types of transitional strategies 

(15:11) Using augmented devices; should parents record their child talking without them knowing? 

(22:15) Unpacking verbal intermediaries 

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Ask Dr. E any questions you may have from the episode. 

Learn more about the host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum 

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Get started at the SMart Center 

Listen to other episodes of Unspoken Words here. 

Relevant resources: 

Handouts:

• Transitional Stage ‘The Missing Link’
• Social Communication Bridge® 

Previous Podcasts 

• Ep 4 – Social Communication Bridge® 

• Ep 5 – Back to School  

This podcast was made possible thanks to New Edition Consulting

For all podcast inquiries please contact Dakota Hornak at dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org

A few weeks ago, Dr. Elisa Shipon Blum had the pleasure of joining Dr. Ray Christner and Paul Wagner on the Psyched to Practice podcast. Psyched to Practice is a podcast designed to explore the far reaches of mental health. Dr. E and the podcast's co-hosts covered a lot of great material on Selective Mutism and we want to bring everything discussed directly to our podcast feed.

Thank you, Dr. Ray Christner and Paul Wagner, for allowing us to bring this amazing episode to our listeners! 

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Learn more about the Psyched to Practice Podcast

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Listen to other episodes of Unspoken Words here.

This podcast was made possible thanks to New Edition Consulting

For all podcast inquiries please contact Dakota Hornak at dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org

If you follow us on social media or receive our monthly newsletter, you’re likely familiar with our ongoing Ask Dr. E segment. “Ask Dr E” is where our community can ask Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum any question they have on any topic relating to Selective Mutism.

Since rolling out this segment in 2022, we have received some amazing questions. As a result, we are giving the segment more life by giving it its own series on our podcast feed! These Q&A-type episodes will be released once a quarter, and we can’t be more excited!

In our first Ask Dr E episode, Dr. E provided insight into the following situations:

(01:15) A parent of a 3rd grader with SM whose school is focused only on getting her son to speak, instead of focusing first on interacting and communicating non-verbally.

(5:30) A 4th grade girl whose mom is watching her child lose her sense of confidence yet the school has not yet brought up the need for accommodations and/or interventions

(9:35) What to do when a private school is not receptive to the SM diagnosis

(14:15) A 3rd grade girl struggling in school and showing avoidance behaviors

(20:30) Whether or not to carry on with a child’s 504 plan when they may or may not need it.

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Ask Dr. E any questions you may have from the episode.

Learn more about the host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum

Explore our SMart Center success stories!

Get started at the SMart Center

Listen to other episodes of Unspoken Words here.

This podcast was made possible thanks to New Edition Consulting

For all podcast inquiries please contact Dakota Hornak at ⁠dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org⁠

Dr Elisa Shipon-Blum speaks with parents of teenagers with Selective Mutism and answers some of their questions. The discussion is moderated by CommuniCamp Director and Outreach Coordinator LisaMarie Vargas. Thank you to both parents who joined the show and for engaging in a thoughtful discussion with Dr. E and LisaMarie!

Topics:

(00:27) Participant introductions

(1:16) How is treatment different for teens and adults with SM compared to children?

(12:30) If a teen is struggling to make friends and they are too old for play dates, what can parents do to give them opportunities to practice treatment strategies?

(23:49) What is depression's role in the treatment of teens?

(26:16) Finding the right therapist

(29:25) How does sensory processing play a role in Selective Mutism and how does that relate to picky eating?

(36:35) There is hope/help for your teen!

(42:36) Why teens tend to "do worse" when their parents are around

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Ask Dr. E any questions you may have from the episode.

Learn more about the host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum

Explore our SMart Center success stories!

Get started at the SMart Center

Listen to other episodes of Unspoken Words here.

Relevant resources:

• Webinar - SM through the Ages
• Webinar - Helping Individuals with Selective Mutism Become Confident Social Communicators
• Podcast Guest Appearance: Let's Talk Teens with Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum

This podcast was made possible thanks to New Edition Consulting

For all podcast inquiries please contact Dakota Hornak at ⁠dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org⁠

Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum welcomes Jennifer Brittingham, LPC back to the podcast to discuss the general approach to providing effective school-based accommodations and interventions and why it’s important to have them. Just like past episodes when Dr. E and Jen get together, the two long-time colleagues cover A LOT of material.

Timestamps:

(1:43) The Importance of Accommodations and Training

(6:49) Approaching School-Based Accommodations

(13:10) Moving Through the Social Communication Bridge®

(17:00) IEPs and 504s

(29:30) Building comfort can also be considered progress

(36:00) Whether or not to hold a child with SM back a grade

(43:59) Are goals the same when a child is mute?

(50:00) Comfortable vs. uncomfortable mutism

(59:30) Comfort and connection

(1:07:00) How to test for accommodations

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Ask Dr. E any questions you have from the episode

Learn more about the host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum

Explore our SMart Center success stories!

Get started at the SMart Center

Listen to other episodes of Unspoken Words here.

Relevant resources:

• Media - Perceptions are important! Caregivers’ perceptions of their own and their schools’ views about selective mutism
• eBook - Easing School Jitters for the Selectively Mute Child
• eBook - The Ideal Classroom Setting for the Selectively Mute Child
• Treatment - School-based Services

This podcast was made possible thanks to New Edition Consulting.

For all podcast inquiries please contact Dakota Hornak at ⁠dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org⁠

This bonus episode features a live Q&A panel that was recorded at a recent CommuniCamp. In this episode, Dr. Elisa Shipon Blum moderates a five-guest panel of former patients and parents of patients who share their journey overcoming Selective Mutism. The Q&A panel is one of our most popular sessions at CommuniCamp. It offers camp attendees much needed support and hope.

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Timestamps:

(1:17) Panelist Intros

• Nick (patient)
• Glenda’s Intro (parent)
• Alex’s Intro (patient)
• Sophie’s Intro (patient)
• Rachel’s Intro (parent)

(10:29) Key strategies that helped panelists beat Selective Mutism

(14:45) Anxiety associated when making progress

(22:46) How to navigate sibling relationships

(28:45) Staying motivated to continue treatment after CommuniCamp

(32:17) How to know when you need help

(34:22) The role of teachers

(46:50) Struggling with schoolwork + asking for help at school when needed

(50:05) Handling pushback from school staff regarding accommodation and treatment

(52:33) Dealing with peer pressure and bullying

(56:07) Telling school peers about battle with SM

(1:00:14) Struggling with depression

(1:03:10) Advice to children and teens with SM

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Ask Dr. E any questions you may have from the episode.

Learn more about the host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum

Explore our SMart Center success stories!

CommuniCamp Resources:

• Landing Page
• Testimonials
• Interest Form

This podcast was made possible thanks to New Edition Consulting

For all podcast inquiries please contact Dakota Hornak at ⁠dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org⁠

The holiday season is here! Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum sits down with co-host Alex Collins to answer some 'Ask Dr. E' questions on how to best prepare yourself, child or teen heading into the holidays.

(0:00) Intro

(1:37) Prepare your child/teen for the holiday season

(4:35) Communicating with relatives

(19:01) Holiday parties 

(29:35) School performances / shows

(32:37) Overall communication strategies

(35:15) Different types of Travelers

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Ask Dr. E any questions you may have from the episode.

Learn more about the host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum

Explore our SMart Center success stories!

Get started at the SMart Center

Previous episodes of Unspoken Words:

• Ep 1 - More Than Mutism
• Ep 2 - S-CAT: A whole person approach
• Ep 3 (Part 1, Part 2)
• Ep 4 (Part 1, Part 2, BONUS FAQ)
• Ep 5 – Back to School
• Ep 6 – Medication
• Ep 7 – The Quad

Relevant resources:

• Handout – Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum’s Holiday Preparations and Practicalities Handout
• Brochure – What is Selective Mutism

This podcast was made possible thanks to New Edition Consulting

For all podcast inquiries please contact Dakota Hornak at ⁠dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org⁠

Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum welcomes Jennifer Brittingham, LPC, back on the podcast to discuss the prevalence of eating, sleeping, toileting, and behavioral difficulties associated with Selective Mutism – otherwise known as the ‘Quad’. Get out your pen and paper, because this 99-minute episode is jam-packed!

(0:00) - Intro

(1:19) - What is the QUAD

(4:07) - Results from the SMart Center's study on the QUAD

(9:15) - Eating issues

(30:49) - Sleeping issues

(52:40) - Toileting issues

(1:14:01) - Difficult behaviors + tips for parents

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Listen to previous episodes of Unspoken Words:

• Ep 1 - More Than Mutism
• Ep 2 - S-CAT: A whole person approach
• Episode 3 (Part 1, Part 2)
• Episode 4 (Part 1, Part 2, BONUS FAQ)
• Ep 5 – Back to School
• Ep 6 – Medication

Relevant resources:

• Research – The “QUAD”: Eating, Sleeping, Toileting and Difficult Behaviors in Children with Selective Mutism
• Brochure – What is Selective Mutism

This podcast was made possible thanks to New Edition Consulting

For all podcast inquiries please contact Dakota Hornak at ⁠dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org⁠

Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum uses this month’s podcast episode to explain the reasons to consider the use of medication as an adjunct in the treatment of Selective Mutism. The SMart Center receives questions on this topic all the time. “Should I use medication?” “For how long should I use medication?” “What type of medication should I use?” “What’s the dosing of medication to use?” “When can I ween off?” “How do I ween?” Dr. E answers all of these questions and more in this month’s episode.

(0:00) - Intro

(4:09) - On prescribing Xanex or Valium

(5:10) - Why use medication

(7:12) - When to use medication

(10:49) - How to use medication

(14:20) – Medication-induced side effects to be aware of

(18:26) – Medication's long-term effects

(20:10) – Common concerns around using medication

(22:53) – How to tell a child or teen they are going on medication

(24:52) – Weening off medication

(27:36) – How long should someone be on medication

(28:45) – Listener Q&A

Ask Dr. E any questions you may have from the episode. 

Learn more about the host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum

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Relevant resources: Medication in the Treatment of Selective Mutism | What is Selective Mutism

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This podcast was made possible thanks to ⁠⁠New Edition Consulting⁠⁠

For all podcast inquiries please contact Dakota Hornak at ⁠⁠dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org⁠

EP43 features the latest installment of our Shining Stars series, where we sit down with former SMart Center patients – or their parents – and discuss how they overcame Selective Mutism. This episode, we meet Pushkar and Nicole Marathe, the parents of SMart Center Shining Star, Toyam.

In this episode, Dr. E, Pushkar and Nicole discuss Toyam’s SM journey, finding the right support for your child with SM, celebrating milestones and much, much more.

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This podcast was produced by New Edition Consulting (neweditionconsulting.com) 

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Chapters:

(4:53) TOYAM’S JOURNEY WITH SELECTIVE MUTISM 
(12:02) STRATEGIES FOR MANAGING SELECTIVE MUTISM 
(17:50) SUPPORTIVE ENVIRONMENTS ARE KEY WHEN TREATING SELECTIVE MUTISM 
(32:03) CHILDREN WITH SELECTIVE MUTISM HAVE UNIQUE NEEDS  

(40:44) MORE ON UPCOMING 4TH ANNUAL SMRI FUNDRAISER AT STAGE KITCHEN

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Learn more about the host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum 

Explore our SMart Center success stories! 

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Learn More: Upcoming 4th Annual 4th Annual SMRI Fundraiser at Stage Kitchen on January 30th, 2025. 

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For all podcast inquiries, please contact Dakota Hornak at ⁠dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org⁠ 

Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum welcomes Jennifer Brittingham LPC, a SMart Center lead clinician and school consultant to the podcast to discuss all things back to school! From preparing your child/teen and their teachers, to the comfort-building strategies that help with progression of communication, to how to educate the school, to determining IEP & 504 plans, this episode is jam-packed!

(2:01) - How to prepare your child for school

(12:02) - What if my child has anxiety or a panic attack during school?

(16:12) - What if the teacher calls on me?

(20:41) - How do you recommend we build comfort and help with progression of communication?

(34:20) - How do you recommend educating the school?

(42:37) - How do you determine what type of plan you recommend (i.e., 504, IEP)?

(48:51) - Bathroom and eating issues

(1:01:07) - Taking the Bus

Ask Dr. E any questions you may have from the episode.

Learn more about the host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum

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Relevant resources: About My Child | The Selective Mutism Summer Vacation and Back to School Guide | Social Communication Bridge® | Preparing for the Upcoming School Year

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Listen to other episodes of Unspoken Words ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠.

This podcast was made possible thanks to ⁠New Edition Consulting⁠

For all podcast inquiries please contact Dakota Hornak at ⁠dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org

We received A TON of questions after our two-part episode on The Social Communication Bridge®. So, we decided to record a BONUS episode and answer some of them!

In this bonus episode, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum answers the following questions:

(0:38) Because children with SM are not speaking, shouldn’t the emphasis be on helping them to speak, perhaps even offering incentives to speak?

(6:37) My son’s clinician felt strongly that if we allowed him to use a verbal intermediary or whisper buddy, we were enabling him...

(9:38) Since Selective Mutism is an anxiety disorder, shouldn’t lowering anxiety be enough to propel them into speech?

(14:25) When we think about “the bridge” and “the Whys of SM,” it makes sense that Selective Mutism is a social communication anxiety disorder. Do you feel that if others saw it this way, more individuals would overcome their mutism?

(18:23) Can you give some examples of how you would determine an individual’s beginning stage of communication?

(22:49) My 10-year-old child is truly stuck in nonverbal with kids and teachers, even kids he’s known for years. We’ve tried everything: rewards, even a trip to Disney. We are at a loss. We’ve seen five therapists and he seems to have only gotten more stuck. Any advice?

(30:37) My child progressed across the bridge at CommuniCamp (!), but now, a few weeks later, they are no longer in stage 3. How can I get them back to being verbal like they were at camp?

(35:19) My child has begun making animal sounds in social environments but he will not speak. How can I get him to use his words?

(41:39) My teenage daughter will communicate with others through written responses. She will even initiate with her teachers and peers through writing. However, she will not speak to them. What can I do to help transition her from written communication to verbal communication?

(48:10) My child is completely nonverbal and non-communicative in any setting outside of the home. He is very expressive and loud at home. What should I do to make him able to communicate effectively in other environments?

Ask Dr. E any questions you may have from the episode.

Learn more about Dr. Elisa Shipon Blum

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Relevant resources: The Social Communication Anxiety Inventory© | Social Communication Bridge® | The Missing Link

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Listen to other episodes of Unspoken Words ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠.

This podcast was made possible thanks to ⁠⁠New Edition Consulting⁠⁠

For all podcast inquiries please contact Dakota Hornak at ⁠⁠dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org⁠

The discussion on Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum’s Social Communication Bridge® continues.

In Part 2, Dr. E and co-host Alex Collins discuss:

• How to ‘transition’ from nonverbal to verbal communication
• Key strategies used to ‘bridge’ a child or teen into speech, in the school environment.
• How to bridge up or down in social settings to reduce anxiety
• And much, much more!

Ask Dr. E any questions you may have from the episode.

Learn more about Dr. Elisa Shipon Blum

Explore our SMart Center success stories!

Get started at the SMart Center

Listen to previous episodes of Unspoken Words:

• Episode 1
• Episode 2
• Episode 3 (Part 1, Part 2)

Relevant resources: The Social Communication Anxiety Inventory© | Social Communication Bridge® | The Missing Link

This podcast episode was made possible thanks to New Edition Consulting

Learn all about Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum’s popular visual tool, The Social Communication Bridge©.  The Bridge is used within Social Communication Anxiety Treatment (S-CAT®), where Selective Mutism is understood as a social communication anxiety disorder.

In Part 1, Dr. E and co-host Alex Collins discuss:

• How and Why the Social Communication Bridge® was developed
• How to determine an individual's stage of communication, in each setting, using the Social Communication Anxiety Inventory©
• Key strategies to progress an individual across the Bridge, into speech.
• The importance of respecting a child, teen or adults' stage on the Bridge
• And much, much more!

Ask Dr. E any questions you may have from the episode.

Learn more about Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum

Explore our SMart Center success stories!

Get started at the SMart Center

Relevant resources: The Social Communication Anxiety Inventory© | Social Communication Bridge® | The Missing Link

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Listen to other episodes of Unspoken Words ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠.

This podcast was made possible thanks to ⁠⁠New Edition Consulting⁠⁠

For all podcast inquiries please contact Dakota Hornak at ⁠⁠dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org⁠