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Unmasking Kink

Nova Monroe Media, LLC

Health & Fitness

Education

Frequency: 1 episode/12d. Total Eps: 18

Ever feel like you want to know more about kink but don’t know where to start... or who to ask? Unmasking Kink is where we figure it out together. I’m Nova Monroe, your host and resident research nerd, here to explore the world of kink, BDSM, identity, the lifestyle and everything in between. I’m not claiming to be an expert, I’m just asking the questions you probably Googled at 2am. This podcast is here for the cautious, the bold, the unsure and the unapologetic. Whoever you are, you’re welcome here! Join me, and together we’ll unmask what kink is all about

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🇨🇦 Canada - sexuality
04/05/2026
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Season 1 Episode 16 - Unmasking Making Your Dom Feel Safe

Season 1 · Episode 17

Friday, November 21, 2025 • Duration 22:21

In this episode, I’m digging into a side of D/s that doesn’t get talked about nearly enough. We spend so much time focusing on submissive safety — physical, emotional, mental — and that’s incredibly important. But somewhere along the way, people started acting like Doms don’t need support, reassurance, or space to be human.

This week’s conversation was inspired by a fantastic piece of writing from one of my favorite creators on FetLife, RopeTigerDaddy. His post really hit me, because it put into words something I’ve seen and felt in my own dynamics. Doms need safety too. They need trust, communication, and grace. They need room to learn, to grow, and, yes, to make mistakes without being treated like monsters.

In this episode, I talk about what emotional safety looks like for Doms, how to tell the difference between a mistake and a red flag, how to navigate vulnerability on both sides of the slash, and what it means to grow together instead of demanding perfection.

You can read the original writing that sparked this episode here: https://fetlife.com/RopeTigerDaddy/posts/13147534

Check out his profile: https://fetlife.com/RopeTigerDaddy

Connect with me on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/Nova-Monroe (make sure you include the hyphen!)

If you have thoughts, questions, stories, or anything you want to share after listening, reach out to me on FetLife or visit UnmaskingKink.com. I love hearing how these episodes land for you.

Until next time, stay curious my friends, and take care of one another.

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Season 1 Episode 15 - Unmasking Kink in Public

Episode 16

Friday, November 14, 2025 • Duration 13:47

In this episode, I’m taking a closer look at something people don’t always talk about honestly: what belongs in public, what belongs in private, and why consent doesn’t stop at the bedroom door. Kink isn’t shameful and it isn’t something to hide, but it is something that requires maturity, intention, and informed consent from everyone involved.

I talk about how shared spaces work, why people who didn’t opt in shouldn’t be exposed to adult themes, and why age-appropriate education matters — especially when it comes to teens and brand-new eighteen year olds who are still figuring out who they are. I also look at some recent examples of kink showing up in places it probably shouldn’t, like college campuses and public events, and why that blurs the line between education and influence.

I share a personal story from a karaoke night I worked, where a surprise drag show took over the entire evening without warning. It wasn’t about who was performing — it was about not being given the choice to participate. Later, when another event came through, I was given the option to opt out, and that difference shows exactly what consent looks like in everyday life.

This episode is all about respect, context, and remembering that freedom doesn’t cancel responsibility. Public doesn’t mean permission, and true kink is always rooted in communication and consent.

Until next time, stay curious my friends! And take care of one another.

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Season 1 Episode 6 - Unmasking A Yes/No/Maybe List

Season 1 · Episode 7

Friday, August 29, 2025 • Duration 10:29

This week on Unmasking Kink, Nova Monroe explores one of the simplest yet most powerful tools in the kink world: the Yes/No/Maybe List. Whether you’re brand new to BDSM or just looking for a better way to communicate with partners, this little checklist can make all the difference.

Nova breaks down what it is, why it matters, and how to use it—without overthinking or overcomplicating. Plus, a special milestone: the podcast has officially hit 200 downloads!

Tune in for practical tips, a bit of personal reflection, and a preview of Nova’s printable Yes/No/Maybe List that will soon be available on Etsy.

✨ Clearer communication, safer play, and more fun—that’s the power of Yes/No/Maybe.

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Season 1 Episode 5 - Unmasking A Munch

Season 1 · Episode 5

Friday, August 22, 2025 • Duration 11:17

In this episode of Unmasking Kink, I share my first experience attending a munch! What it's like, how to prepare and what you can expect when you walk into your first one.

We'll cover everything from event descriptions and table markers to conversation starters, group dynamics and what organizers really want you to know. Plus, I are tips on preparing ahead, how I accidentally stumbled into mine, and the lessons I walked away with.

Whether you're brand new to kink, or looking for community, this episode breaks down the who, what, when, where, why and how of munches in a way that's welcoming, real and a little bit personal.

Recourses mentioned - Show Notes – Unmasking a Munch

Finding Events & Munches

Understanding Munches & Etiquette

For Newcomers to Kink & Events

Kink Academy – “What to do when you’re new.”

Find all I’ve got going on at the website

Unmaskingkink.com

Season 1 Episode 4 Unmasking Masochism

Season 1 · Episode 6

Friday, June 6, 2025 • Duration 19:06

Not every episode needs to be loud to hit hard.

This week, I’m exploring the very first kink I ever recognized in myself, masochism. What draws someone to enjoy pain? Is it something to worry about, or something worth understanding on a deeper level? I’m breaking down common misconceptions, unpacking the psychology, and tackling the big question: is masochism a mental disorder, or just another way humans seek sensation, control, and connection?

It’s a slower, more thoughtful vibe, but worth every second.

Articles referenced: Definition How to Tell if I have Self Defeating Personality Disorder What is a Masochist.

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Season 1 Episode 3 Let Kink Stay Kinky

Season 1 · Episode 5

Friday, May 30, 2025 • Duration 10:30

In this episode of Unmasking Kink, we delve into the tension between authenticity and acceptability in the kink community. Inspired by insightful posts from FetLife users Tittan and Vampyre, we explore the implications of sanitizing BDSM for mainstream comfort.

We'll discuss personal boundaries, the importance of consent, and the value of embracing the raw, unfiltered aspects of kink.

Whether you're a seasoned player or new to the scene, this conversation invites you to reflect on the true essence of kink and the importance of preserving its integrity.

Featured FetLife Writers:

Tittan – “When Kink Gets Tamed: The Dangers of Vanilla-fying BDSM”
Vampyre – “BDSM Isn’t About Making Outsiders Comfortable”

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Season 1 Episode 2 Am I Kinky or Vanilla?

Season 1 · Episode 4

Friday, May 23, 2025 • Duration 10:52

You’ve probably asked yourself:

“Am I kinky? Or just curious?” “Does liking [insert thing here] make me into kink?” “Do I have to pick a side?”

The answers? Could be both, possibly, and absolutely not.

In this episode, I give my take on what it means to be kinky or vanilla, or somewhere in between. We’ll talk about how those labels aren’t fixed, what actually “counts” as kink, and how to start exploring.

Topics include:

The difference between kink and vanilla
Why “what counts as kink” depends on who you ask
Where to look for real, respectful information

Whether you're seasoned, curious, or still figuring it out—you belong here.

Resources mentioned:

FetLife: https://fetlife.com
Chief’s Sex Menu: https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sex-menu
Shibari on YouTube (my favorite video): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HTnFlfm04uk
Local classes and munches: Search via FetLife or reach out to event organizers

More: https://unmaskingkink.com

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Season 1 Episode 1 What Is Kink?

Season 1 · Episode 3

Friday, May 16, 2025 • Duration 09:08

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In this debut episode of Unmasking Kink, Nova Monroe breaks down what kink actually is—and what it isn’t. We talk about the difference between kink and BDSM, explore how kink doesn’t always have to be sexual, and tackle the question: Is this normal? (Spoiler: yes.) Whether you’re curious, questioning, or just here to learn, this episode gives you a shame-free, honest look at how broad and human kink really is.

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Articles & Resources Referenced:

Healthline – What Is Kink?
Business Insider – List of Kinks, According to Experts
Verywell Mind – Understanding Sexual Kinks and Fetishes
Kinkly – Kink Glossary & Psychology of Kink
National Coalition for Sexual Freedom – https://www.ncsfreedom.org
Focus on the Family – Sexual Behavior Outside of God’s Design
Institute for Family Studies – Sexual Liberation Is Not Sexual Freedom
Covenant Spice – Christian sex-positive resource: https://covenantspice.com

Episode 0: Introduction

Season 1

Friday, May 9, 2025 • Duration 06:08

Welcome to Unmasking Kink! Let me start by introducing myself, and give you the low down on what to expect from Unmasking Kink and the community we're going to build together!

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Season 1

Sunday, May 4, 2025 • Duration 01:03

Unmasking Kink is a podcast for the curious, the kinky, and everyone in between.

Hosted by Nova Monroe, each episode explores real questions about kink, BDSM, and the lifestyle. Nova isn't an expert, but she's a proud research nerd, digging into topics so we can learn and grow together.

From vanilla to veteran, this space is for anyone who's ever felt left out, unsure or just plain curios.

Join Nova, and together, we'll unmask what kink is all about.

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