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When a neurodivergent child is struggling at school, it’s easy to focus on what we can see—the behavior, the unfinished work, the frustration. But what’s making it hard for them to learn in the first place?

In this episode of Unlocking School Success, school psychologist Dr. Emily King, author of The Neurodivergent Learner, joins me to unpack what neurodivergent kids need in order to be available for learning. Emily explains why regulation plays such an important role and how her “window of tolerance” framework can help parents make sense of what they’re seeing.

Sometimes the first clue is sensory. Sometimes it’s sleep, hunger, physical comfort, or anxiety. And sometimes behavior that looks like “defiance” is telling us that a child doesn’t yet have the skills to handle what’s being asked of them. Understanding those clues can give parents a very different starting point—not only for figuring out what their child needs, but for working with teachers to support them at school.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

- Why “can’t do school” often means “can’t do school under these conditions”

- The window of tolerance (Dan Siegel’s framework) and why regulation comes before learning

- How connection and relationship support learning—and how that can include routines, interests, art, or animals (not just people)

- Why sensory factors are a smart first place to look when school feels hard

- Simple, high-impact starting points at home: sleep, nutrition, and sensory comfort (clothes/shoes)

- What to tell teachers when sleep, medication side effects, or stress may affect attention and mood

- How to handle the “my kid is falling apart at home but looks fine at school” mismatch

- Why Dr. King included sample email scripts in every chapter—and how they help parents collaborate without “coming in hot”

- What to do when a teacher experiences your child as “defiant,” and you believe it’s anxiety or a skill gap

This episode will help if:

- Your child is bright but school still feels overwhelming, exhausting, or impossible

- You suspect sensory overload, anxiety, or social/motor differences are getting in the way of learning

- You’re heading into a new school year and want practical ways to set your child (and teacher) up for success

- You feel stuck between not wanting to be “that parent” and needing to advocate clearly

- You’re seeing totally different behavior at home vs. school and don’t know what it means

Resources & links mentioned:

- Dr. Emily King’s book page: https://learnwithdremily.com/book

- Dr. Emily King on Substack (parent workshops + replay library): https://learnwithdremily.substack.com/

- Tilt Parenting (Debbie Reber): https://tiltparenting.com/

- Boys Town Press children’s books (ADHD, autism, executive functioning, social skills): https://www.boystownpress.org/

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If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking, “If they can’t do this now… what happens in middle school/high school/college?!”—take a breath.

In this episode, I’m joined by Sean McCormick (former special ed educator and founder of Executive Function Specialists) for a grounded, hopeful conversation about how parents can support executive functioning without falling into fear, power struggles, or endless nagging.

We talk about why executive function skills matter for life outcomes, how to keep a long-term view when your child is still developing, and small daily shifts that can make a big difference—like narrating your own thinking, focusing on starting (not finishing), and celebrating the tiny wins that actually build confidence.

We also dig into school teamwork, IEP/goal clarity, and why we’re really aiming for interdependence—not “do it all alone.”

Key Takeaways:

• Why fear-based “scare tactics” can backfire and increase anxiety (the opposite of executive functioning) 
• Sean’s POSITIVE acronym for executive function skills: planning, organization, self-awareness, inhibition, time management, initiation, visualizing outcomes, and evaluating priorities 
• The Parenting mindset shift: play the long game (because brain development takes time) 
• How routines, consistency, and clear boundaries create the conditions for executive skills to grow 
• A simple reframe that reduces homework battles: focus on starting tasks (even for 3 minutes) instead of finishing 
• How “declarative language” (cueing vs commanding) helps kids make their own executive decisions 
•  Why small wins need specific praise—and how that changes motivation over time 
• What “interdependence” really looks like at school, and why teams matter 
• How measurable, “proof-able” goals help everyone see progress (including your child) 

This episode will help if: 

• You’re worried your child’s struggles now mean they’ll “never” be able to handle what’s next 
• You feel stuck in a cycle of reminders, nagging, and conflict around school tasks 
• Your child is overwhelmed by big assignments and has trouble getting started 
• You want to support executive function at home, even though you’re not in the classroom 
• You’re navigating a 504/IEP (or just school stress in general) and want clearer goals and better collaboration 
• You’re trying to build your child’s confidence after lots of negative feedback at school

Resources:

•  Learn more about Sean’s work + free resources: https://www.efspecialists.com/
•  NeuroDiversions conference: https://neurodiversion.org/

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Your kid melts down, the school emails (again), and suddenly you can feel your whole body go into “mama bear” mode.

In this episode, I’m joined by parent coach Allyn Miller (founder of Child Connection) for a down-to-earth conversation about what regulation actually means—and why it’s not the same thing as being calm all the time. We talk about how our nervous systems respond under stress (fight, flight, freeze, and even fawn), why neurodiverse kids can have bigger reactions, and how parents can start with one powerful first step: noticing what’s happening in your body before you react.

We also dig into power dynamics in parent-teacher relationships, the role of humility and collaboration, and how “redos” and repair can be the most practical (and effective) tool in your parenting toolbox.

Key Takeaways:

• Why regulation isn’t “stay calm,” but having a nervous system that can flex to match the situation 
• A simple self-check practice: noticing body signals (tight chest, clenched jaw, racing heart) before words come out 
• How fight/flight responses often show up verbally in parenting (“Just get over it” vs. “Whatever, I’m done”) 
• What “flow/find another way” looks like—and why it’s the sweet spot for problem-solving with schools 
•  How perception can feel like reality for kids (especially neurodiverse kids), even when adults see it differently 
•  The hidden role of power dynamics between parents and teachers—and how to reflect on your own relationship to power 
• Why “assume good intention” can change everything (with your child and with educators) 
•  How to use repairs and “redos” after a hard moment—without pretending it didn’t happen 

Resources:

•  Connect with Allyn Miller + grab her “number one tool for moms (and dads) to keep cool”: https://child-connection.com/
•  Book recommendation: Beyond Behaviors by Mona Delahooke

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For kids who have a hard time at school, summer camp can be much more than a fun way to spend the summer. It can be a place to build confidence, discover strengths, develop friendships, and experience success in ways that aren't tied to grades or academics.

In this episode of Unlocking School Success, I talk with former special education teacher and Camp Director Chris Gibbons about why camp can be especially powerful for kids who struggle in traditional school settings.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why camp can feel like a "vacation from failure" for some kids
• How camp helps build confidence, resilience, and independence
• What skills kids develop at camp that can support success at school

This episode is especially helpful if:

• Your child has a hard time at school and needs a confidence boost
• You're considering summer camp but aren't sure if it's the right fit
• You want your child to build social, emotional, and life skills outside the classroom

How has summer camp—or another out-of-school experience—helped your child grow?

Quick Links:

•  ⛺ Chris' camp - Camp Nor’Wester
•  🔥 American Camp Association (ACA) + camp search tool
•  🔗 Full show notes here

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If parenting has ever made you think, “Wait… why didn’t anyone warn me it would be THIS hard?”, you’re in good company.

In this episode, I sit down with parenting coach Wendy Snyder to talk about her new book, Fresh Start Your Family (releasing May 26), and what happens when “be stricter” advice totally backfires—especially with strong-willed kids.

Wendy shares her family’s journey from power struggles and punishment-based tools to a relationship-first, firm-and-kind approach that supports real cooperation at home and in school. We also dig into common school discipline issues (like taking away recess), how to advocate without teacher-bashing, and why discipline should build skills—not shame kids into compliance.

• Why “power over” parenting (punishment, threats, shame) often creates more rebellion—especially for strong-willed kids.
• The difference between being strict (firm boundaries + respect) and being authoritarian (fear + force).
• Why punishment is rooted in making kids “pay,” while discipline is about teaching future skills through practice.
• How to respond when schools use consequences like taking away recess or shaming kids for being “unprepared.”
• How to spot what kinds of teachers your child truly thrives with—and use that information to support them.
• What it can look like to advocate for your child (ex: homework pushback) while staying respectful and collaborative.

• You’ve been told to “just be more strict,” but your child only escalates when you try.
• Your kid is labeled “defiant,” “bossy,” “sassy,” or “lazy,” and your gut says there’s a better interpretation.
• School consequences feel like they’re making things worse (especially for kids who need movement and connection).
• You want to build your advocacy confidence without feeling like you’re attacking teachers or administrators.
• You’re trying to break a cycle of reactive or punishment-based parenting and create a calmer, more respectful family culture.

Full show notes: https://www.reframeparenting.com/blog/podcast-fresh-start-your-family-parenting-strong-willed-kids

• Free workshop: Three Secrets to Thriving with Strong-Willed Kids: https://freshstartfamilyonline.com/power
• Connect with Wendy Snyder: https://freshstartfamilyonline.com

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If you’ve ever stared at a report card thinking, “But…this is a good kid—what is happening?” you’re not alone.

In this episode of Unlocking School Success, I sit down with educational counselor Dr. Linda Silbert (who specializes in struggling readers and runs a tutoring/test prep company) to talk about the newly updated second edition of her book, Why Good Kids Get Bad Grades. Dr. Linda breaks down why grades don’t “just happen,” how many kids are never actually taught how to study, and why the most important job is finding the real cause behind the struggle—without crushing a child’s self-worth along the way.

What you’ll learn:

• Why focusing on grades alone misses the bigger (and more fixable) picture.
• The two main drivers behind grades: tests and homework—and why both can go off the rails.
• What “studying” actually is (and why “just read your notes” often doesn’t work).
• How the brain’s limits (like only holding a few items at once) impact learning—and how “chunking” helps.
• Why some school expectations can be developmentally unrealistic (especially for younger kids).
• Early clues that may point to dyslexia (and why language development matters for reading).
• Why kids remember negative feedback so powerfully—and what that does to self-esteem.
• How to shift from being the “school police” to being your child’s ally.
• Why kids need skills (study skills + time management), not just encouragement.

This episode will help if:

• Your child is smart and kind—but their grades don’t match what you know they’re capable of.
• Homework time feels like a nightly conflict, meltdown, or power struggle.
• You’re worried your child is starting to believe they’re “lazy” or “bad at school.”
• You suspect a reading issue, but you’re not sure what to look for—or what to ask for.
• Your child is overwhelmed and overbooked, and late/missing work keeps piling up.
• You want practical ways to help that don’t involve more nagging, shame, or punishment.

Full Show Notes here: https://www.reframeparenting.com/blog/why-good-kids-get-bad-grades

Quick Links:

• Dr. Linda Silbert / Strong Learning: https://stronglearning.com
• Email Dr. Linda: DrLindaSilbert@gmail.com
• Book (coming late March/early April): Available via https://stronglearning.com, Amazon, and bookstores

Recommended Resources Mentioned:

• Overcoming Dyslexia by Dr. Sally Shaywitz
• International Dyslexia Association: https://dyslexiaida.org
• CHADD (ADHD resources): https://chadd.org

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Ever leave a school meeting wondering if you’re “doing enough” for your kids… and also somehow feel like your “doing it wrong”?

In this episode of Unlocking School Success, I’m joined by Brianna Cullen, a pediatric psychiatric mental health nurse practitioner, to talk about what parents really need to know when understanding ADHD Medication & Mental Health Support at School.

What you’ll learn:

• How mental health nurse practitioners can support kids and families and why many parents don’t realize this option exists.
• What providers look at when deciding whether medication might help (academic, social, and home functioning).
• Why medication decisions should be a family decision (and a kid decision), not something dictated by school pressure.
• How to think about meds as “a tool, not a forever path” including the reality of trial-and-error.
• Why collaboration with teachers can be key feedback when evaluating whether a medication is helping.
• How stigma and guilt show up for parents and how supportive care can change everything.
• Why untreated ADHD can increase long-term risks (including impulsivity and substance use) and why early support matters.

This episode will help if:

• You feel overwhelmed by school feedback and you’re wondering if medication is being suggested too quickly.
• You’re nervous about side effects, stigma, or “making the wrong choice” for your child.
• You live in a rural area (or anywhere with long waitlists) and need more clarity on care options like telehealth.
• You want a provider who partners with your family without pushing a one-size-fits-all plan.
• You’re trying to support a child with ADHD, anxiety, or big emotional/behavioral challenges impacting school. 

Full show notes here: https://www.reframeparenting.com/blog/adhd-medication-mental-health-support-school

Quick Links:

• SkyLake Psychiatry and Behavioral Health Clinic (Southern Oregon) — referral-based; telehealth available in Oregon
• Gifted and Distractible: Understanding, Supporting, and Advocating for Your Twice Exceptional Child by Julie F. Skolnick (book recommendation)

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Parenting can feel like you’re doing everything “right” and still constantly butting heads. In this episode of Unlocking School Success, I chat with human behavior specialist and Teaching Our Youth founder Karen Wagnon, about using personality and temperament (including the DISC model) to understand what’s really driving kids’ behavior at home and at school.

Karen explains that kids are born with different traits and emotional needs, and when those needs aren’t met, parents and teachers often react to the surface behavior instead of the root cause.

What you'll learn:

• Why what works beautifully for one child can totally backfire with another-and how to adapt without losing authority.
• How to look for the root cause of shutdowns, defiance, or explosions instead of only addressing surface behavior.
• Why bridging teaching styles and learning styles in school can reduce frustration (without immediately jumping to labels).
• How leading with curiosity (not judgment) helps kids feel safe enough to talk-especially in the teen years.

This episode will help if:

• You feel like you’re playing “whack-a-mole” at home - constantly reacting to behavior without real progress.
• You have siblings with wildly different personalities and you’re not sure how to parent them fairly and effectively.
• Your child is struggling in school and you’re hearing labels like “lazy” or “unmotivated.”
• You want to advocate for your child with teachers but need better language and clearer insight into what your child needs.
• You’re in the teen years and it feels like your once-close kid is pulling away-and you want to protect the long-term relationship.

Full Show Notes here: https://www.reframeparenting.com/blog/podcast-understanding-childs-behavior-through-personality

Quick Links:

Karen’s website (Teaching Our Youth)

Recommended Resources:

Different Children, Different Needs by Dr. Charles Boyd (affiliate link)

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Getting involved at your child’s school can feel intimidating-like you’re one “yes” away from a never-ending volunteer job. In this conversation with Christina Hidek (a “recovering attorney” and the voice behind PTO Answers), I break down what PTAs and PTOs actually are, why parent involvement matters so much, and how to start in a way that fits your life. We talk about the real benefits of showing up - from gaining insight into what happens inside the school building to building relationships that make collaboration with teachers and administrators easier—plus simple, low-pressure ways to dip your toe in while still keeping healthy boundaries.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• The difference between a PTA and a PTO—and why the name matters less than the purpose.
• How parent groups improve school communities through enrichment, support for staff, and connection.
• Easy “first steps” to get involved, like attending a meeting or following your PTO on social media.
• Why small, skill-based volunteering can make a big impact without a huge time commitment.
• How relationships and trust with school staff can make it easier to ask questions and advocate for your child.

This episode will help if:

• You want to be more involved at school but worry about overcommitting or burning out.
• You’re not sure where to start—or you feel like “someone else will handle it.”
• You have a full plate (especially if your child struggles in school) and need low-lift options.
• You’d like to build community, understand how the school works, and feel more connected.

Quick Links:

Explore Christina’s website: https://www.ptoanswers.com/

Free download on common mistakes to avoid: https://www.ptoanswers.com/mistakes

The Pricipal’s PTO Playbook: https://ptoanswers.com/principals-parent-group-playbook/

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When school challenges start to pile up, the stress doesn’t just affect kids—it hits parents too. In this conversation with Dr. Kate Lund we explore what resilient parenting really looks like, with simple, practical tools to manage your stress response, handle tough moments, and shift out of the constant stream of negative feedback so you can better support your child at school and at home.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• The concept of resilient parenting and how it benefits both parents and children.
• Practical stress management tools like the relaxation response.
• The importance of recognizing daily wins to maintain a positive outlook.

This episode will help if:

• You feel stressed or overwhelmed when school issues come up.
• You find yourself stuck in a cycle of negative feedback about your child.
• You want simple, practical ways to stay steady and support your child through challenges.

Full show notes

Quick Links:

🔗Explore more about Dr. Kate Lund's work: https://www.katelundspeaks.com/

🎧 Listen to Dr. Kate's Podcast: https://www.katelundspeaks.com/podcast

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Spring break can be both exciting and challenging when school routines pause and days fill up differently. This episode of Unlocking School Success, I'll be sharing five valuable tips for parents to help kids reset and make the most out of this break.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How to recognize signs of a "school hangover" and plan for recovery time
• The importance of observing your child’s natural energy patterns
• Ways to prioritize activities that genuinely engage and excite your child
• How certain structures can benefit kids even during vacation
• Tips for reinforcing the parent-child bond during spring break

This episode is especially helpful if you're:

• Feeling overwhelmed by unstructured days
• Seeking to enrich spring break without stress
• Looking to lean into their kids’ strengths outside of school

Full shownotes here.

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EP and school meetings can be a lot for any parent. But when you’re neurodivergent yourself, navigating those conversations can come with extra layers. In this episode, Scotti talks with IEP advocate and therapist Dr. Destiny Huff about how neurodivergent parents experience school meetings, why these situations can be difficult, and what can make them easier to navigate.

Full shownotes here.

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An ADHD diagnosis can bring valuable information — but also uncertainty about what to do next. In this episode, I share a real parent coaching story about a family learning how to turn that diagnosis into a thoughtful, practical plan at school and at home. I dig into 504 supports, how to approach conversations with your child about ADHD in a way that builds confidence, and how parent coaching can help you move from overwhelm to steady, confident advocacy for your child.

Read the blog here: https://www.reframeparenting.com/blog/podcast-parent-coaching-adhd-school

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In this episode, I’m joined by occupational therapist Kelli Fetter, founder of Handwriting Solutions, to explore what handwriting challenges really mean—including dysgraphia and related learning differences. We talk about why frustration and avoidance are important clues, how handwriting difficulties can look different for every child, and how parents can shift from worry and blame to understanding and effective school support.

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Parenting a child with ADHD or executive function challenges can bring a lot of questions—especially when the usual strategies don’t seem to work. In this episode, I explore what it really means to slow down, get curious, and support the child in front of you rather than the one you expected. I’m joined by parent coach and ADHD expert Cindy Goldrich as we talk about how these challenges show up differently for every child, why understanding the “why” behind behavior matters more than quick fixes, and how small reframes can shift daily frustration into meaningful progress both at home and at school.

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In this episode, I talk about why going back to school after winter break can feel harder than expected, especially for kids who already find school challenging. We explore why this transition takes time, how pressure and fatigue often show up before kids feel regulated again, and what parents can do right now to better support the same kid they had in December. Instead of chasing “new year” outcomes, I invite you to think differently about January—focusing on support, understanding, and small adjustments that can make this transition smoother for your child AND for you.

Full show notes: https://www.reframeparenting.com/blog/podcast-school-winter-break-transition-january

5 Ways to Make Transitions Easier blog post

Managing Back-to-School Anxiety and Transitions: Tips for Parents podcast episode with Dr Gila

Let’s Talk About Grades: What They Do (and Don’t) Tell You About Your Child podcast episode

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Why do kids fall apart after school—even when the day seemed to go fine? In this episode, Scotti talks with psychotherapist Matthew Fishleder about what’s really behind after-school meltdowns and how parents can respond with more calm and confidence. You’ll learn why transitions, hunger, and exhaustion hit so hard, plus simple, practical strategies to make the after-school hours feel more manageable for your child and for you.

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Parent-teacher conferences may be short, but they can pack a powerful punch when you walk in with clarity and intention. In this episode of Unlocking School Success, I’m breaking down the simple framework I use to help parents get the most out of those quick meetings—without feeling rushed, overwhelmed, or unsure what to ask.

You’ll learn the “three Ps” that make conferences more productive, how to pull helpful insight from your child before you meet with the teacher, the one phrase that instantly opens up collaboration, and the small step most parents forget that can make a big difference after the conference ends.

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In this episode of Unlocking School Success, host Scotti Weintraub and special guest Lisa Smith, an occupational therapist and ADHD coach for parents, dive into the complexities of self-advocacy for kids in school.

They break down why kids might hesitate to seek help and share practical, friendly strategies to boost their confidence and competence in the classroom.

Discussing everything from understanding IEPs and 504 plans to role-playing at home and collaborating with teachers, this chat is packed with actionable tips. Tune in to learn how to make school a more supportive and enjoyable experience for your child.

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If school feels harder than it should — for your child and for you — you’re not alone. In this episode, Scotti shares the story behind the School Support That Sticks Summit, a resource she created for parents who are tired of trying to piece together help on their own.

This four-day online event held October 27-30, 2025 brings together experts who truly understand kids who learn and think differently — and how it gives parents the tools, language, and confidence to make school work better for their child. It’s everything you need to stop guessing, start understanding, and feel confident walking into school conversations again.

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In this episode of Unlocking School Success, high school math educators and Project Think co-founders Charles Slusher and Joe Sneed share how project-based learning (PBL) transforms classrooms. We discuss their journey from traditional math instruction to creating innovative, hands-on learning experiences that build deeper student engagement, differentiation, and real-world problem-solving skills. The conversation highlights how PBL supports all learners—especially those who struggle in conventional classrooms—by offering flexibility, choice, and meaningful connections to learning.

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In this episode of Unlocking School Success, I’m sharing practical strategies (and a powerful mindset shift) to help make the transition less stressful and more connected. From resetting routines to building strong teacher relationships early on, these are the tools that can help your family start the school year with more calm and confidence.

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Back-to-school season can be exciting—but it can also be overwhelming, especially if you’re parenting a strong-willed or neurodivergent child. In this episode of Unlocking School Success, I talk with Dr. Gila Reckess, psychologist, parenting coach, and “brain nerd,” about how to ease the big emotions of big transitions for both you and your child. Whether your child is starting a new grade, moving to a different school, or just adjusting to the routine of a new school year, you’ll walk away with practical tips for creating calmer transitions, and more confident kids.

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In this episode of Unlocking School Success, We'll talk about a big question many parents face: should you bring your child to school meetings?

We'll explore the benefits and challenges, how to decide based on your child's age and emotional readiness, and ways to involve them even if they don't attend.

Join me for heartfelt advice and simple tips to help your child learn to advocate for themselves and grow with confidence. 🌟👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

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In this episode of Unlocking School Success, we dive into the often-misunderstood world of executive functioning with our first guest, a good friend of mine - executive functioning coach Carrie Bonett.

We'll break down what executive function means, why these brain skills are crucial for getting important things done, and how they're not innate but learned.

Carrie shares how these skills are important not just for academic success but for everyday life—think of managing chores, appointments, and tasks we might not like to do. We also debunk the myth that students who seem lazy or defiant are simply lacking these crucial skills. 🧠✨

Join us as we explore practical tips for making the invisible visible, supporting your kids by getting involved, and even learning some skills for yourself as a parent. 📚📝 Tune in to gain valuable insights and strategies that can turn school stress into success! 🌟

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In this episode of Reframe Parenting, we're diving into why camp can be an incredible experience for every child, especially those who learn differently. Learn how camp can help kids grow, make new friends, and gain important life skills while having a blast. 🎒

I'll share how camp environments are uniquely beneficial for children with diverse learning needs, offering them a chance to thrive in ways traditional settings might not. 🌟 Also I've got some easy tips & personal stories, how to figure out how your child functions, what works for them, and how these discoveries can help them get ready for the upcoming school year. I'm also sharing a cool tool you can use to track those summer wins!

Join us for friendly, inspiring advice that will help you see parenting in a whole new, inclusive way.

Oh, about that cool tool? You can Download the Camp to Classroom Reflection Tool here — capture what clicked at camp and bring those wins into the school year. 🏕️

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📚 In this episode of Unlocking School Success, I'll be giving parents a fresh perspective on report cards. Rather than seeing grades as verdicts, I encourage you to view them as conversation starters. I explain that grades don't fully capture a child's intelligence or potential; instead, they reflect performance in a specific educational environment.

I urge parents to dig deeper into underlying factors affecting grades, ask insightful questions, and focus on patterns rather than isolated results.

I also be sharing tips for meaningful discussions with teachers and children to foster understanding and growth. ✨

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Reframing Laziness: Uncovering the Real Reasons Behind School Struggles

🌟 In this episode of Unlocking School Success, we're tackling a big myth: lazy kids. If you've ever caught yourself labeling your child as lazy when they don't do their homework, this one's for you. I'm Scotti Weintraub, your host and parent coach, here to explain why that label misses the mark. We'll explore the deeper reasons that might explain your child's lack of effort, from executive functioning challenges to mental health issues and sensory overload. Plus, I'll share practical strategies to help you support your child better, like breaking tasks into smaller steps and creating effective systems. Stick around for a simple but powerful challenge to help you shift from frustration to curiosity. 🙌✨ Join us for thoughtful insights and actionable advice to transform how you view and respond to school struggles. ✨👍

You'll get actionable strategies to support your child effectively, uncover the real reasons behind perceived laziness, and learn how to create positive change in your home.

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🌞 In this episode of Unlocking School Success, we're exploring why summer is the secret weapon for a smoother school year ahead. No more rushing, school emails, or forgotten homework. Instead, summer offers you the perfect, stress-free time to reflect on what worked and didn't over the last school year. I'm Scotti Weintraub, your host and parent coach, here to show you how simple, intentional steps during the summer can save you major stress later.

We'll dive into the four Rs: Reflect, Review, Reconnect, and Research—a surefire way to make next school year a breeze. Plus, don't miss a quick exercise at the end that can make a huge difference this fall. 🌟📚 Tune in for practical tips, insightful reflections, and a strategy to make school success less stressful and more manageable. 👌✨

☀️ Join in the fun of the School Success Lab: Summer Edition! This offer is designed to give you the full support system you need to help your child thrive in school. 🎒

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🎉 Welcome to the inaugural episode of Unlocking School Success! I’m Scotti Weintraub, your go-to guide for turning school stress into strategies that work. Today, we’re digging into why I started this podcast—to help parents like you get the support your kids need to thrive at school. I’ll break down three reasons why your involvement is vital: your kids deserve to shine, school challenges affect home life, and knowing that neither you nor your child are failing. Schools might not be equipped to handle unique learning needs, but I’m here to provide you with real tools, honest conversations, and practical solutions. 🌟 Join me every two weeks for packed episodes filled with strategies, scripts, expert interviews, and parent stories to help you navigate those rough school seas.

Let’s take the next best step together!

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🎙️ Unlocking School Success with Scotti Weintraub is the podcast for parents who feel stuck, confused, or exhausted by their child’s school experience—and are ready for something better.

If you're constantly deciphering school emails, leaving meetings with more questions than answers, or wondering how to help your child without burning out, you're in the right place. 💛

Host Scotti Weintraub, parent coach and school navigation expert, knows firsthand how frustrating and isolating it can feel when your child is struggling—and the school system isn’t helping. As a parent of two teens with anxiety and learning differences, Scotti’s been through it all. Now, she’s here to share the tools, mindset shifts, and support she wishes she had when she was in your shoes.

💡 In each episode, you'll get:

✔️ Practical strategies to support your child at school

✔️ Insightful interviews with teachers, therapists, and experts

✔️ Simple ways to decode school systems and advocate with confidence

✔️ Real talk about parenting kids who don't fit the mold

No more feeling lost in school lingo or alone in the fight. Unlocking School Success is your guide to navigating school challenges with clarity, connection, and courage.

🔔 Subscribe now so you’re ready when we launch—and start unlocking the support your child truly needs.

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