Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris are joined by Elliott’s bestie Sasha. Who f*cked a murderer? What dirty talk in bed can the boys just not get behind? All this and more on this episode of Lost Nuggs!

Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris sit down with comedy queen Taylor Jackson. Are straight men more trash than gay men? When do men actually gain emotional intelligence? Enjoy the laughs on this episode of Lost Nuggs!

Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris are joined by John Duff, to talk all things music, blackmail, and "success". These boys had some hot takes on Upstate New York as well as what the gays in our community are really looking for. Tune into this episode of Lost Nuggs!

Spencer Olson (@Spencer.T.Olson) long lost cousin to the Mary-Kate & Ashley Olsen, joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss the Hetrick-Martin Institute (HMI) and the amazing work behind this institute.  HMI is a New York City-based non-profit organization devoted to serving the needs of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or questioning youth between the ages of 13 and 24. Halfway through 18:37 this takes an interesting turn where Jeff and Spencer share some personal stories and techniques that may be NSFW! Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

Boyfriends Justin & Shae (@justshaemless) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss gay relationships, Fire Island, & play a very intense game of never have I ever. What happened when Shae walked in on Jeff having sex? Wait what?! Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

Host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) is greeted by a surprise guest from his past Gabriel Valentin Clinaz (@Gabrielvalentinclinaz). Gabriel had a 5 hour layover in NYC and ran in quick to visit Jeff after not seeing each other in nearly 2 years. They reminisce on what sent Jeff to the hospital on Halloween 2017, what it's like to eat the "shell", and Gabriel tries very hard to get with Jeff. You can listen to all this and more on this episode of Behind The Bum.

Host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) went to Mykonos with his best friends Reed Buggie (@Reedbuggie), Max Rutcofsky (@Maxrut), and Anthony Guerrieri (@Asguerrieri). If you watched their Instagram stories you may have noticed they were kicked out of their hotel, never slept and lets be honest we have a lot of questions! On this episode Reed joins Jeff to discuss why they were kicked out of the hotel and who won't be allowed to rent an ATV ever again. On the second half of this episode Max and Anthony join Jeff to discuss the Catamaran day, Max's firsts from this trip, and a lot of things none of us ever needed to know. Check out this episode of Behind The Bum!

Host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) sits down with School of Rock icon Brian Falduto (@brianfalduto). What was it like filming School of Rock as a closeted kid? How did you grow up to be a fetish queen? Where was the most public place they each have had sex? Find out on this episode of Behind The Bum!

Matt Bellassai (@Mattbellassai) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss gay culture to pop culture. From Queer Eye (sorry Bobby) to Big Little Lies, from vaginas to nugget porn? Wait what?! Nothing is off topic after 2 bottles of rosè. Grab a glass and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

Igee Okafor (@Igeeokafor) joins host, Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) as they discuss what it was like growing up in Nigeria and moving to America? How do you explain to your parents that you are gay? Is it easier to come out once you don't live home anymore? Have you ever experienced racism within the LGBTQ community? Was being shipped off the boarding school like living your best Zoey 101 experience? 

Bradley Miller (@TheArtOfBradley) joins host Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) as they discuss gender identity. Throughout the episode and a few bottles of rosè things take a turn to scrotum detailing VIA Instagram. Hear about the first and last time Jeff sent a naked picture, who slid into Bradley's DM's recently *cough cough* TWINS?! Find out on this episode of Behind The Bum.

Jimmy Pezzino (@Jimmypezzino) joins host Jeff Perla (@Thetravelinbum) to discuss life after pride and 4th of July. Jeff and Jimmy share a story about what it was like doing their first photo shoot together which took a turn for the worst. Between Fire Island, Instagram, Modeling, and a little bit about chicken nuggets listen up on this episode of Behind The Bum!

James Rogers(@jamesroghairs) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) post wig brunch to discuss everything from life to bottom shaming. Have you ever had an accident when bottoming? Has someone's "O" face ever been so awful you never hooked up with them again? Who has bigger .... Oh wait, find out on this episode of Behind The Bum!

Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris are joined by Courtney Revolution, reality TV guru to reminisce on iconic shows from the past and bash the ones they were on. Jeff & Courtney may have overshared, but lets see how this goes!

John Halbach (@johnhalbach) and Kit Williamson (@kitwilliamson) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss when you know you met the one! From their first impressions to their most memorable sexual encounter Jeff learns what it takes to make and keep a relationship. Will Eastsider's see a season 5? Who is the biggest stoner out of this group of 3? Who should never take an edible again? Find out on this episode f Behind The Bum!

Corey Rae (@imcoreyrae) joins Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) as they discuss transitioning from male to female. How does someone at the age of 12 find the words transgender? Can you be trans and not have bottom surgery? Should transgender individuals be apart of the LGBTQ+ community? Find out on this episode of Behind The Bum!

Fat Carrie Bradshaw (@fatcarriebradshaw) joins Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) as they discuss body issues in the gay community. What does it mean to be comfortable in your body? What is the worst thing someone has ever said to you because of your weight? Have you ever catfished someone because you felt you weren't "Good Enough". Find out on this episode of Behind The Bum!

Gay Boy Problem AF with Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) & Peter Pagan (@GayBoyProblems.AF) discuss the meme era we are living in? Where does Peter project it going? How can hopefully future memer's create their own content? Is there a secret society of memer's who all support each other? What are the struggles of being a late 20 year old approaching their 30's. Find out on Behind The Bum!

Insta-Triplets with Jeff Perla from (@thetravelinbum), Michael & Zach Zakar (@zakartwins) talk about how they first met. They give their best attempt at giving you a serious conversation about where they see their lives going. Do Jeff and Michael see themselves being married? Will Michael and Zach move to NYC? Who slashed their ex boyfriends tires? Find out on this episode of Behind The Bum!

Jeff Perla and Corey Camperchioli (@coreycamp) discuss gender norms. Jeff shares his view point on the term "masc" and "femme". Corey shares his experiences growing up "femme" and how a word that tormented him his whole life has turned in to a light for his future. How do Jeff & Corey feel about hooking up with someone "femme" or "masc"? What journey are Jeff & Corey going to take on this summer? Find out on this episode of Behind The Bum!

Jeff Perla & DJ Mikey Pop (@DJMikeyPop) discuss Threesomes. Jeff shares his view points on threesomes and Mikey discusses how he manages being in a an open relationship. How does Jeff feel about having a threesome? Where is the craziest place Mikey has ever had a threesome? Will Jeff ever have one? Find out on Behind The Bum!

Jeff Perla & Edgardo Riveros (@Gatosheko) discuss Only Fans. From personal experience, Gato shares how his photos and videos were leaked, what his family thinks of his new business, and how he manages to maintain a day job. Will Gato convince Jeff Perla to make an Only Fans account? Find out on Behind The Bum?

Jeff Perla & Garrett Swann discuss the Sugar Baby / Sugar Daddy life. From personal experiences, Jeff opens up on how he originally found a Sugar Daddy and Garrett shares his feelings on age in the gay community. Is Garrett Swann Jeff Perla's sugar daddy? Find out on Behind The Bum?

Jeff Perla & Logan Fletcher discuss what dating is like in the big city. From bad relationships to horror story bottoming experiences they dish the dirt on everything you wanted to know. Have Jeff and Logan ever been a thing? Find out on Behind the Bum!

Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris are joined by Roy Tomko, psychic medium in hopes of getting a look into their future. Roy shares what is in store for Jeff & Elliott this next year. Elliott is joined by a spirit looking for closure.. Listen to this episode to hear this in real time!

Hey guys I'm your host Jeff Perla, founder and creator of The Travelin Bum on Instagram. It's time to take my bum to new tops or new heights and get deep into some of these bottoms. I am here to give you the inside scoop from your favorite influencers, reality tv stars, trailblazers and iconic gays in our community. So what are you waiting for grab a condom and get ready for an episode of behind the bum.  

Jeff Perla & Elliott Norris are joined by Austin Show. Why don't you wear your good underwear to the Cheesecake Factory? Who chills naked together? Between Austin, Jeff, & Elliott what is the obsession with twinks?

Jeff Perla & Elliott Norris are joined by Chris Pitsicalis. Who offended Jojo Siwa's bestie? Is it normal to ask someone if they are autistic on a date? Sounds Iike Jeff & Elliott have had a week..lets unpack this...

Jeff Perla & Elliott Norris launch their new venture "Lost Nuggs" sharing their ins and outs navigating life behind the scenes. Catch up on their dating life. Is Elliott on Ozempic? Who has the higher body count between Jeff & Elliott? Well lets find out...

Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined by casting agent Mike Rose (@MikeRoseLA) giving you the tips and tricks to make it on TV. How do you audition? What are casting directors looking for? If someone in a position of power makes a move on you for a gig what do you do?!

Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined by drag artists Britney Banks (@thebritneybanks) & Justine Van De Blair (@justinequeenqueen) to share everything that is going on with the new legislation that just passed in Tennessee. Jeff explains what you can expect in this new "Gays in the Wild" journey! 

Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined by Netflix's Love Is Blind star Nancy Rodriguez (@thenancyrodriguez) to share their most recent relationship highs, lows, and what ultimately led to their breakups. Nancy shares why her and Bartise were never meant to be (5:02) Jeff asks Nancy the most inappropriate question (22:20) Jeff dives in the why him and Alex ended (25:30)! Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined by life coach Alex Alberti (@albertidevelopment) to talk about the joys and sorrows of turning 30? Why is turning 30 known as gay death? Learn how to age like a bad b*tch! Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

You can follow Alex Here

Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris are joined by Nick Norcia.

The boys play an array of games including over/ under where they make some confessions. What does clean cut actually mean? Can you be friends with someone who has different political views than you? Listen in on this episode of Lost Nuggs!

Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined his streaming bestie Connor Shennan (@ShennanConnor) to laugh about their experiences on a dating show. Do you think you can force a relationship? Have you ever felt fucked up that you knew someone liked you and they were a good fit for you but you just couldn't get there? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

You can follow Connor Here

Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined by Devon Rouse (@Devon__Rouse) to share what it's like being the first Nascar driver to come out in 20 years!. Devon opens up about what his coming out journey has been like & how the Nascar community has responded. Did coming out effect his career? How many closet cases are in the Nascar community? Who just got an anal fissure?... Oh just kidding... Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

You can follow Devon Here

Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) & Alex Van Gurp (@Alexvangurp) are joined by Ophira Edut (@Astrotwins) to discuss their birth charts. Ophi is an Astrologer for Elle Magazine as well as one of the masterminds behind Amazon Prime Video's latest show Cosmic Love. Are the stars aligned for Jeff & Alex? What zodiac signs make the best matches? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! You guys can follow the Astro Twins Here & be sure to stream Cosmic Love on Prime Video now!

Checkout the Astro Twins daily horoscopes here!

Stream Cosmic Love on Prime Video here!

Jeff Perla is joined by Gonzalo Aburto de la Fuente (@Gonzalo_Aburto) from 'Uncoupled' now streaming on Netflix. Gonzalo shares his experiences on set working with Darren Star & NPH. How difficult has it been immigrating to the US from Mexico City? Jeff & Gonzalo give some life advice to 2 guys navigating  a bump in their relationships. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! You guys can follow Gonzalo Here & be sure to stream Uncoupled on Netflix now!

Jeff Perla is joined by fellow cast-mate Anthony Wright (@Antsinyapantzz) from The One That Got Away, now streaming on Prime Video. The boys dive deep into each cast member, their relationships, and what really went down at the pool party. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

You guys can follow Anthony Here

& be sure to stream The One That Got Away now on Prime Video!

Jeff Perla is joined by Alex Van Gurp (@AlexVanGurp) to discuss their relationship pending the show. You all submitted questions you wanted to know. What was it like transitioning back into the real world? When did we tell our friends? What was it like filming the bedroom scene on camera?

The second half of this podcast Jeff is joined by Gabe, (@GabrielBoyers) to share his experience battling Monkey Pox. What does Gabe wish he knew prior to getting it? What's it feel like? The boys discuss everything from where he got it to treatment. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

For more information on Monkey Pox or to book your vaccine in NYC click here

Jeff Perla is joined by Joe Santini (@SavageSantini) travel host for nomads. Joe explains how so many gays have found time to travel and yet make a living. Is there a difference between your relationship standards and your hookup standards? Is it weird to use Grindr to network? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

You can follow Joe Here

Jeff Perla is joined by fellow cast-mate Dylan Palladino (@DylanJpalladino) from The One That Got Away, now streaming on Prime Video. The boys reminisce on their experience filming the show and answer on going questions. Does Dylan's BDE match the reality? Who stirred the pot the most in the house? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

You guys can follow Dylan Here

& be sure to stream The One That Got Away now on Prime Video!

Jeff Perla is joined by Kyle Langan (@kylejlangan) author & social media consultant. The boys share their own experiences through the narrative of Kyle's new book "Confessions Of A Call Boy". This fictional novel explores the life of a call boy and his journey with self acceptance, self identity, suicide, sex work all wrapped into a murder plot. Hear the boys answers as they share some personal information and insight into their lives. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

Jeff Perla is joined by Josh Van Sant (@JoshVanSant) "an older gay" who is notorious for offering advice to younger gays. Most famously for his videos on TikTok, the 2 get personal on what they think they need to work on about themselves and what they think they've got all figured out. What are your top 3 attributes you're seeking in a partner? If any of those are physical, you'll be in an unhappy relationship. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

You can follow Josh on Instagram Here

Josh's TikTok

Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris catch up after their few weeks apart. From farting on the air to Camila Cabellos ratty blonde hair this episode will have you laughing from start to finish.

Jeff Perla is joined by Vlad Radoi (@RadoiVlad) a Biochemist with a PHD in Medical Science. The boys discuss how your sex drive works and the difference between your libido and hormones. Just because your testosterone levels decrease does that mean your sex drive should decrease? Well guess again. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

Jeff Perla is joined by Elliott Norris (@Elliottnorris) & Alex Van Gurp (@Alexvangurp), sharing their heights and experiences with taller or shorter men. Does height matter? The boys have been in Curacao for one week. Hear about the trip, our peak and pits, and all the drama in between! Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

Jeff Perla is joined by Rob Pugliese (@SouthTampaBob) & David Rumsey (@MusgraveMTNMan),2 men over the age of 60 sharing their life experiences in the gay community! What was it like coming out in the 80's? What does "Side mean"? Want to gain some great life advice as to why you shouldn't spend your time "checking a box"? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

Jeff Perla is joined by Tiger Redz (@Tiger.Redz), a femme creator sharing their opinions on toxic masculinity! Is there a difference between internalized homophobia and toxic masculinity? What are the traits of a toxic male? How many of them do these 2 have? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

Jeff Perla is joined by Pedro (@_________pedro________) to play a game sharing their wild stories abroad! Pedro is studying to be a urologist so the conversations naturally revolved around... well ya know, dicks. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!