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A Dominatrix Breaks Down Power, Consent, and Censorship | Danielle Blunt
Season 2 · Episode 44
Monday, January 12, 2026 • Duration 45:09
EP 44: In this candid, no-holds-barred conversation, Mx Tomie sits down with Danielle Blunt—a dominatrix, researcher, and organizer working at the intersection of sexuality, technology, censorship, and power. Danielle is the co-founder of Hacking//Hustling and a leading voice on how digital platforms, financial systems, and so-called “safety” policies disproportionately harm sex workers and marginalized communities.
Together, they explore how domination isn’t just about pleasure, but about risk, ethics, and what happens at the edge of consent—both in intimate dynamics and in our relationship to technology and capitalism. From Danielle’s early training in old-guard BDSM spaces to the real consequences of platform censorship and financial discrimination, this conversation connects the dungeon to the digital world in ways you probably haven’t considered.
If you’ve ever wondered who decides what’s “acceptable,” who gets punished for desire, and why intimacy always involves risk—this episode is for you.
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0:00 — 1:05 Danielle Blunt Introduction
1:00 — 2:02 Mx Tomie Formally Introduces Danielle Blunt
2:15 – 3:25 Danielle is Anti‑Pleasure, Pro‑Torture?
3:25 – 5:30 Origin Story: Sex, Taboo & Power
5:30 – 8:26 The Old Guard BDSM Chateau
8:26 – 12:28 Lifestyle Domination, Manipulation & Negotiation
12:28 – 18:20 Edge Play: A Deep‑Dive Story
18:20 – 22:31 Repair Work, Consent & The Unknown
22:31 – 26:05 Long‑Term Subs, DS Dynamics & Training
26:00 – 30:13 Femdom GFE, Sex & The “Untouchable Dom” Myth
30:13 – 32:34 Censorship, “Safety” Rhetoric & Who’s Protected
32:34 – 35:55 Financial Discrimination & Banking Deplatforming
35:55 – 37:43 Digital Security & Threat Modeling
37:43 – 40:30 Censorship, Codes & Fetish Evolution
40:30 – 42:55 Content Creation Fatigue & Forced Innovation
42:55 – 44:10 Quick‑Fire Segment (Presented by IWantClips)
44:10 – 45:05 Outro & Closing
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The Real Reason We Struggle to Talk About S3x | Dr Tara
Season 2 · Episode 43
Thursday, January 8, 2026 • Duration 58:26
EP 43: Mx Tomie sits down with award-winning sexologist and TV sex expert Dr. Tara to explore how pleasure, kink, and communication intersect with power, shame, and liberation.
They unpack why conversations about sex—and money—are often the hardest in long-term relationships, how shame is used as a tool of control (especially against women and marginalized communities), and how reclaiming pleasure can radically shift how we show up in our lives.
From morning “pleasure routines” that replace coffee, to kink-aware ways of talking about desire with a vanilla partner, to the deeper psychology behind BDSM and humiliation, this episode weaves together practical tools, personal stories, and unapologetically real talk. Dr. Tara also shares insights from her domme training with a professional dominatrix, her perspective on television as a form of sex education, and what happens when high-powered people finally have permission to let go—and be held.
Chapters
0:00 — 1:00 Dr. Tara Introduction
1:00 — 2:00 Mx Tomie Introduces Dr. Tara
2:00 — 04:50 Sexual Wellness as “Morning Coffee” and Pleasure Routine
04:50 – 7:36 Sex Toys, Pleasure Pathways & “Desensitization” Myths
07:36 – 10:01 Growing Up Repressed in Bangkok & Finding Sexology
10:01 – 12:44 Sex, Money, Power & Walking on Eggshells
12:44 – 16:38 Kinks, Shame & What Clients Confess
16:38 – 21:21 Three Practical Tips for Sharing Kinks with a Partner
21:21 – 26:50 Coaching Couples, Normalizing Kink & Finding the Right Therapist
26:50 – 28:50 Dom Training: From Theory to Practice
28:50 – 30:33 | Favorite Dom Activities & Dominant Archetypes
28:58 – 30:38 TV, Sex Ed & Where the Biggest Gaps Are
30:38 – 34:04 Shame as Social Control & Performing Sex
34:04 – 35:09 Cultural Shame Around Divorce & Staying “For the Kids”
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Redditor finds out her dad was throwing WILD parties at his house... 👀 #redditstories #AITA #reddit
Sunday, November 2, 2025 • Duration 00:57
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Thea Wayne Tells All - Her Journey As A Domme & How She's Working To Change STI Testing For Good!
Season 2 · Episode 11
Monday, July 21, 2025 • Duration 27:19
Uncensored Episode S2 E10!In this episode, we sit down with Thea Wayne to explore her powerful journey through the kink world and her mission to change sexual health with her startup, Testie.Thea opens up about why she created Testie, her experiences of burning out as a domme, and what excites her most about being in the dominant role. She shares how domming men gave her a new perspective on male softness, and why she’s decided to take a break from domming for now.We also dive into the reality of New York City subs, the stigma around being a domme, and the importance of truly knowing yourself within power dynamics.👉 Watch the full episode to hear Thea’s honest, insightful take on kink, domination, and building a future for safer sexual health.Follow Mx Tomie For More Here -IG - @mx.tomie.digital & @uncensoredwithmxtomieTikTok - @mx.tomie & @uncensoredFB - @uncensoredpodcastYouTube - @UncensoredWithMxTomie
Down Divas Hotline! 📞🏳️⚧️
Sunday, July 20, 2025 • Duration 00:52
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Do you play as a woman? 😏😍
Sunday, July 20, 2025 • Duration 00:32
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She spent her rent money, then made 10 grand in 2 weeks!
Saturday, July 19, 2025 • Duration 00:34
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How it all started for Mama Hart 🤩💰
Saturday, July 19, 2025 • Duration 00:26
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She knew what she was doing 😉😈
Friday, July 18, 2025 • Duration 00:28
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Meet The Entrepreneur come Domme Thea Rose - K*nk Parties, Company Sales & Sex Work Equality
Season 2 · Episode 10
Friday, July 18, 2025 • Duration 22:45
Uncensored Episode S2 E10!In this episode, we sit down with Thea Rose, a young entrepreneur who found her sexual awakening, stepped into her power as a professional Domme, and is now fighting for equality and safety in sex work.From kink parties to company sales, Thea shares her unfiltered, empowering story of confidence, power, and creating a better future for sex workers everywhere.Follow Mx Tomie For More Here -IG - @mx.tomie.digital & @uncensoredwithmxtomieTikTok - @mx.tomie & @uncensoredFB - @uncensoredpodcastYouTube - @UncensoredWithMxTomie
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