Unbroken Podcast is a space for honest conversations about love, connection, and the work it takes to build relationships that last. Through candid discussions, expert teaching, and practical coaching, each episode offers advice and tools to help you navigate the messy, beautiful reality of human connection - whether you're single, dating, partnered, or healing. Real talk. Real growth. Relationships, unbroken.
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He Saw Me At My WORST - Bald, Broken, Fighting Cancer… And Still Asked Me To Marry Him
Wednesday, September 30, 2026 • Duration 01:03:24
She was bald, broken, and fighting for her life. He saw all of it and still asked her to marry him.
In this deeply moving episode of Unbroken Podcast, host Richard Akita sits down with Christy Trina, breast cancer survivor, advocate, and homemaker, for a conversation that will redefine what you think you know about love, commitment, and what marriage vows really mean when tested by fire.
Trina opens up about the day she was diagnosed with breast cancer at 36, the moment she called a man she barely knew because he seemed to understand what she was going through, and how she moved in with him for treatment without even knowing he was a doctor. She reveals the steroids that made her unrecognizable, the nights she couldn't sleep, the moment she looked in the mirror and asked if she'd ever come back to herself, and his response that changed everything. She also shares the painful decision to have a total hysterectomy, how she mourned her unborn children by writing them letters, and why she believes crying is a form of prayer.
This isn't just a cancer survival story. It's a masterclass in vulnerability, self love, and what it means to be loved at your absolute lowest. Trina breaks down why she never wore a wig, how she learned that caregivers carry invisible scars too, and the one thing her husband asked for in their marriage that most people overlook. She also explains why she believes everything happens for a reason, how her father's words about finding someone who will cry with you suddenly made sense, and why she wouldn't change a single thing about her journey even if she could.
If you're facing illness, supporting someone who is, or wondering whether love can truly survive the worst, this conversation will give you hope, clarity, and a roadmap you won't find anywhere else.
Guest: Christy Trina
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🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST
Mr Richard Akita is a multifaceted relationship and life coach, author, entrepreneur, and corporate trainer with over 30–35 years of experience in management and personal development.
IG: https://www.instagram.com/akitarichard/
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🎧 ABOUT UNBROKEN PODCAST
Unbroken Podcast is where stories meet truth. Hosted by Richard Akita, the show brings together thinkers, builders, healers, and disruptors to have the conversations most people are afraid to have about love, faith, identity, money, family, and the journey to becoming whole.
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Your Husband Can Cheat AND Still Love You
Wednesday, September 23, 2026 • Duration 50:28
He says wives should buy Christmas hampers for their husband's side chicks. And he means it.
In this explosive, deeply controversial episode of Unbroken Podcast, host Richard Akita sits down with John Michael, social worker, community advocate, and self-styled President of Enjoyment, for a conversation that will challenge everything you think you know about monogamy, marriage vows, and what African men really want.
John holds nothing back. He explains why African traditions were never monogamous and how Western laws imposed population control disguised as morality, why he believes side chicks carry burdens wives refuse to, and the controversial statement that your husband can cheat AND still love you to bits. He also reveals why most women already know their husbands have someone else but turn a blind eye as long as respect remains, why sex should never be a chore or reward, and the shocking reality that when you're "too tired" for intimacy, someone else isn't.
This isn't just about infidelity. It's a raw examination of polygamy, polyandry, open relationships, and whether modern marriage can survive ancient instincts. John dives into why leaving your husband for cheating is like leaving your country because it rained, the three things any man considering polygamy must have, and why enjoyment is the glue that holds everything together. If you're married, thinking about marriage, or wondering why your partner stepped out, this conversation will give you answers you didn't know you needed and perspectives you've never heard before.
Chapters
00:00:00 Introduction: Meeting John Michael - President of Enjoyment
00:03:55 Chemistry vs Energy: What Really Draws People Together
00:07:20 The Seven-Year Itch and Why Men Seek Variety
00:09:11 African Traditions Were Never Monogamous: The Historical Context
00:12:18 Side Chicks Deserve Christmas Hampers: The Controversial Take
00:19:43 Your Husband Can Cheat AND Still Love You
00:21:37 Equal Opportunities: Should Women Have Multiple Partners Too?
00:24:20 Sister Wives and The Genasi Effect: When Polygamy Goes Public
00:27:41 Why Christianity's Monogamy Rule Doesn't Add Up
00:37:58 The Upgrade: What Women Must Do to Keep Their Men
00:39:18 Sex Is Not a Chore: The Physical vs Psychological Exhaustion Debate
00:44:49 The Four-and-a-Half-Minute Question: Is That Too Much to Ask?
00:46:13 Angry Sex: Why Fighting Can Lead to the Most Passionate Moments
00:49:22 Final Advice: Three Things Men Need for Successful Polygamy
Guest: John Michael Appiah Acheampong
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🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST
Mr Richard Akita is a multifaceted relationship and life coach, author, entrepreneur, and corporate trainer with over 30–35 years of experience in management and personal development.
IG: https://www.instagram.com/akitarichard/
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🎧 ABOUT UNBROKEN PODCAST
Unbroken Podcast is where stories meet truth. Hosted by Richard Akita, the show brings together thinkers, builders, healers, and disruptors to have the conversations most people are afraid to have — about love, faith, identity, money, family, and the journey to becoming whole.
Welcome to the new home of unfiltered wisdom.
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She Got Divorced… Then Used the Pain to Build Her Dream Life
Wednesday, September 16, 2026 • Duration 47:35
She dreamed of marriage as a child. It was her escape. Years later, she walked out, rebuilt herself from the ground up, and turned her pain into power.
In this raw, deeply vulnerable episode of Unbroken Podcast, host Richard Akita sits down with Natalie Anang, studio executive, wellness enthusiast, and Bible study facilitator, for a conversation that will challenge everything you think you know about healing after heartbreak, the energy of trauma, and what it really takes to rebuild your life when your dream falls apart.
Natalie opens up about the childhood fantasy that led her into the wrong marriage, the moment she looked in the mirror and didn't recognize herself anymore, the day she received her divorce judgment and it hit harder than she expected, and how she lost memory of the trauma as her brain tried to protect her. She also reveals the three things she negotiated with God while in pain, the factory and SUV that came to pass, and why she believes divorce or trauma has an energy you can either waste in bed or channel into building the life you've always wanted.
This isn't just a story about surviving divorce. It's a masterclass in making pain pay, redefining marriage from fantasy to purpose, and choosing to fix the girl before the marriage, not just the one after. If you're healing from heartbreak, rebuilding after loss, or wondering whether it's possible to dream again after everything falls apart, this conversation will give you the roadmap you didn't know you needed.
Chapters
00:00:00 Introduction: Meeting Natalie Anang - Studio Executive and Wellness Enthusiast
00:03:06 The Childhood Dream: Marriage as Escape and Fantasy
00:06:54 Ignoring Red Flags: When Dreams Override Counsel
00:08:51 The Girl in the Mirror: Losing Yourself in Marriage
00:09:32 Judgment Day: When Divorce Becomes Real
00:12:10 God Hates Divorce: Reconciling Faith with Reality
00:17:28 The Guilt: Fixing the Girl Before the Marriage
00:22:43 Loss of Memory: When Your Brain Protects You from Trauma
00:28:59 Channeling Pain Into Power: The Energy of Trauma
00:31:10 The Three-Item Negotiation: Making Pain Pay
00:32:59 Ten Years From Now: Eight Bedrooms and Community for Women
00:34:20 Redefining Marriage: From Fantasy to Purpose-Driven Partnership
00:38:46 The 1 Percent: Leadership Over Everything Else
00:40:53 Submission Redefined: Support, Not Surrender
00:45:07 To Prenup or Not to Prenup: Protecting What You've Built
Guest: Natalie Anang
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🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST
Mr Richard Akita is a multifaceted relationship and life coach, author, entrepreneur, and corporate trainer with over 30–35 years of experience in management and personal development.
IG: https://www.instagram.com/akitarichard/
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🎧 ABOUT UNBROKEN PODCAST
Unbroken Podcast is where stories meet truth. Hosted by Richard Akita, the show brings together thinkers, builders, healers, and disruptors to have the conversations most people are afraid to have — about love, faith, identity, money, family, and the journey to becoming whole.
Welcome to the new home of unfiltered wisdom.
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Marriage Counselor's SHOCKING Truth: "My Wife Earned MORE & Lived Miles Away" - How We Made It Work
Wednesday, September 2, 2026 • Duration 01:05:21
Her first salary was bigger than his after six years of work. Most men would feel threatened. But PG Sebastian made a decision that saved his marriage and built his wealth.
In this raw, deeply personal episode of Unbroken Podcast, host Richard Akita sits down with PG Sebastian, relationship coach, certified family counselor, published author, and corporate professional with over 2,700 clients under his belt, for a conversation that will challenge everything you think you know about provision, ego, and what it really takes to survive a long distance marriage.
PG opens up about the trade-offs he had to make when his wife earned more than him from day one, the 30 days apart and 12 days together routine that tested their covenant, raising three kids alone while his wife worked miles away, and the one statement his wife made in the kitchen that changed his entire approach to marriage. This isn't theory. This is a counselor who lived what he preaches, and the results speak for themselves: two houses by age 40, a thriving family, and a marriage that gets stronger every year.
If you're in a long distance relationship, struggling with ego, or wondering whether provision is really just the man's job, this conversation will give you a roadmap you won't find anywhere else.
Chapters
00:00:00 Introduction: Meeting PG Sebastian - Counselor, Author, and Corporate Professional
00:01:00 Her First Salary Was Bigger Than Mine After Six Years
00:03:45 The Business Decision: Choosing Long Distance Marriage
00:09:39 Killing Ego Before It Kills Your Marriage
00:11:32 Why Men Force Women to Quit Their Careers
00:12:15 The Morning Glory Problem: Surviving Physical Distance
00:13:48 Everything Is Possible When You Make Up Your Mind
00:17:10 The Day She Got the Job: Timing and Divine Intervention
00:18:15 Being the Head Without Being the Provider
00:21:19 When Your Income Catches Up: The Reversal
00:28:08 The Solo Father: Eight Months Alone With the Kids
00:29:00 If Your Wife Was Dead, You Would Do It
00:38:42 Two Houses By 40: The Payoff of Sacrifice
00:39:36 Communication: The Real Foundation of Long Distance
00:51:03 You Are My Only Friend: When Your Spouse Is Your Best Friend
00:55:15 Learning to Love Her: The Daily Journey
00:55:55 The Comment That Changed Everything
00:56:42 If Nobody Is Dying, Let It Slide
01:02:52 Final Thoughts: The 20 Percent That Gives 80 Percent Value
Guest: PG Sebastian
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🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST
Mr Richard Akita is a multifaceted relationship and life coach, author, entrepreneur, and corporate trainer with over 30–35 years of experience in management and personal development.
IG: https://www.instagram.com/akitarichard/
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🎧 ABOUT UNBROKEN PODCAST
Unbroken Podcast is where stories meet truth. Hosted by Richard Akita, the show brings together thinkers, builders, healers, and disruptors to have the conversations most people are afraid to have — about love, faith, identity, money, family, and the journey to becoming whole.
Welcome to the new home of unfiltered wisdom.
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Marriage Counselor Reveals: Why This "Chemistry" Destroys Marriages Yet Everyone Chases It | Mama Cathy
Wednesday, August 5, 2026 • Duration 01:00:31
In this powerful episode of Unbroken Podcast, host Mr. Akita sits down with Reverend Minister and renowned relationship counselor Mama Cathy (34+ years of marriage experience) for a deep, unfiltered conversation on why chemistry fades, how unforgiveness acts as a slow poison, and what it truly takes to build a lasting, foolproof marriage.
Guest: Rev. Mrs. Catherine Emmanuel Onwioduokit
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🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST
Mr Richard Akita is a multifaceted relationship and life coach, author, entrepreneur, and corporate trainer with over 30–35 years of experience in management and personal development.
IG: https://www.instagram.com/akitarichard/
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🎧 ABOUT UNBROKEN PODCAST
Unbroken Podcast is where stories meet truth. Hosted by Richard Akita, the show brings together thinkers, builders, healers, and disruptors to have the conversations most people are afraid to have — about love, faith, identity, money, family, and the journey to becoming whole.
Welcome to the new home of unfiltered wisdom.
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"My Wife Gave Me Her Entire Salary While I Made Nothing!" 3 Years Without Closing A Single Deal!
Wednesday, July 22, 2026 • Duration 44:02
She handed him her entire salary every single month - while his business made nothing for almost 3 YEARS.
In this episode of The Unbroken Podcast, Richard Akita sits down with Cosmos Owusu Adjei (Chief Cosmos), founder of SPH Properties and one of Ghana's sharpest real estate minds. What started as a mentorship became a masterclass: Chief went nearly three years without closing a single deal, survived on what he and his wife called a "survival budget," and built a thriving property business - without losing his marriage in the process.
This is a raw, honest conversation about the real cost of ambition. Chief holds nothing back — including his most controversial take yet: "Marriage is overrated."
Chapters
00:00:00 Introduction: Meeting Cosmos Owusu Ejei - Realtor and Entrepreneur
00:02:58 Choosing Both: Ambition and Family
00:05:47 The Daily Juggle: A Typical Day in the Life
00:08:45 Alignment in Marriage: Why Your Partner Must Understand the Vision
00:10:38 Know Where You're Going Before You Choose a Partner
00:13:02 Different People Want Different Things: Defining Your Own Success
00:15:39 The Brutal Beginning: Three Years Without Closing a Deal
00:17:31 My Wife Gave Me Her Entire Salary: The Ultimate Support
00:20:37 Communication: The Foundation of Navigating Ambition and Marriage
00:25:01 Start Early, Start Small, Be Consistent: Lessons for Entrepreneurs
00:31:56 Marriage Is Overrated: A Controversial Take
00:35:18 Temporary Sacrifice vs Emotional Neglect: Knowing the Difference
00:38:04 The Dream: When Your Name Opens Doors for Others
00:40:41 Final Word: It's Not That Deep - Just Keep Showing Up
Guest: Cosmos Owusu Adjei
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🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST
Mr Richard Akita is a multifaceted relationship and life coach, author, entrepreneur, and corporate trainer with over 30–35 years of experience in management and personal development.
IG: https://www.instagram.com/akitarichard/
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🎧 ABOUT UNBROKEN PODCAST
Unbroken Podcast is where stories meet truth. Hosted by Richard Akita, the show brings together thinkers, builders, healers, and disruptors to have the conversations most people are afraid to have — about love, faith, identity, money, family, and the journey to becoming whole.
Welcome to the new home of unfiltered wisdom.
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The Breakup Text That SHATTERED Her After 20 Years
Wednesday, July 15, 2026 • Duration 53:07
She knew him for over 20 years. They dated for 3. Days after he reassured her "we're fine," he hung up the phone and sent one text: I'm done.
In this deeply vulnerable episode of Unbroken, psychologist and bestselling author Vachiwa Glover opens up for the first time about being discarded - and why, 18 months later, she still hasn't fully healed.
This is not just a breakup story. Vachiwa breaks down the psychology most people never hear: the difference between a breakup and a "discard," why heartbreak can be genuine trauma, why you don't need to make your ex a villain to heal, and why forgiveness must start with YOU - not them.
Whether you're going through heartbreak right now or supporting someone who is, this conversation will change how you understand healing, closure, and your own mind.
Guest: Boakyewaa Glover
IG: https://www.instagram.com/boakyewaaglover?igsh=MWFxdXE3MGI4eHE1NQ==
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🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST
Mr Richard Akita is a multifaceted relationship and life coach, author, entrepreneur, and corporate trainer with over 30–35 years of experience in management and personal development.
IG: https://www.instagram.com/akitarichard/
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🎧 ABOUT UNBROKEN PODCAST
Unbroken Podcast is where stories meet truth. Hosted by Richard Akita, the show brings together thinkers, builders, healers, and disruptors to have the conversations most people are afraid to have — about love, faith, identity, money, family, and the journey to becoming whole.
Welcome to the new home of unfiltered wisdom.
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The Soulmate Myth EXPOSED: Why You're Looking For The Wrong Person (And What To Look For Instead)
Wednesday, July 1, 2026 • Duration 46:53
Is love enough to build a lasting relationship? In this episode of The Unbroken Podcast, Richard Akita sits down with entrepreneur, writer, and One Man Thousand curator Kodzo N Doamekpor for a raw, faith-driven conversation that challenges everything you think you know about soulmates, love, and marriage.
Kodzo makes a bold claim: your soulmate is NOT a person — it's an ideal. From the "anima-animus complex" to the real meaning of the biblical "helpmeet," from submission and headship to his controversial relationship "hack," this conversation goes places most relationship talks never dare to. They get into why love alone won't save a marriage, what it really means for a man to lead a home, his journey from pornography to celibacy, and why singleness is a gift — not a waiting room.
Whether you're single, dating, or married, this one will make you rethink how you approach love, purpose, and partnership.
Guest: Kodzo Doamekpor
IG: https://www.instagram.com/_nyanyuie_/?hl=en
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🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST
Mr Richard Akita is a multifaceted relationship and life coach, author, entrepreneur, and corporate trainer with over 30–35 years of experience in management and personal development.
IG: https://www.instagram.com/akitarichard/
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🎧 ABOUT UNBROKEN PODCAST
Unbroken Podcast is where stories meet truth. Hosted by Richard Akita, the show brings together thinkers, builders, healers, and disruptors to have the conversations most people are afraid to have - about love, faith, identity, money, family, and the journey to becoming whole.
Welcome to the new home of unfiltered wisdom.
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The 26-Year Marriage Expert: "There Is NO Secret!" The Truth About Why Love Lasts!
Wednesday, June 24, 2026 • Duration 36:17
26 Years Married and He Says There's NO Secret (The Truth Hurts)
What does it really take to stay married for 26 years? In this episode of The Unbroken Podcast, host Richard Akita sits down with entrepreneur Kailash for an honest, no-fluff conversation about love, commitment, and why most modern relationships fall apart before they ever get strong.
Kailash breaks down the difference between a SPRINT and a MARATHON in relationships - why chasing the spark keeps people single, why arranged love can outlast "falling in love," and the red-light test that quietly predicts divorce. If you're dating, engaged, married, or rebuilding after heartbreak, this one will shift how you see commitment.
Guest: Kailash
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🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST
Mr Richard Akita is a multifaceted relationship and life coach, author, entrepreneur, and corporate trainer with over 30–35 years of experience in management and personal development.
IG: https://www.instagram.com/akitarichard/
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🎧 ABOUT UNBROKEN PODCAST
Unbroken Podcast is where stories meet truth. Hosted by Richard Akita, the show brings together thinkers, builders, healers, and disruptors to have the conversations most people are afraid to have - about love, faith, identity, money, family, and the journey to becoming whole.
Welcome to the new home of unfiltered wisdom.
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Sex Therapist: 85% Of Married Women Have NEVER Had An Orgasm
Wednesday, June 17, 2026 • Duration 52:22
85% of married women have NEVER experienced an orgasm. That's not an opinion - it's a statistic. And Sex Therapist Angela Akins is about to explain why, and what couples can actually do about it.
In this raw, unfiltered episode of The Unbroken Podcast, Richard Akita sits down with Angela Akins - relationship coach, counselling psychologist, mental health therapist and sex therapist - for a conversation African couples are too afraid to have. They go deep on why intimacy dies, why the church gets it wrong, the truth about aphrodisiacs and sex toys, and why sex is "an act AND an art" you actually have to learn.
If you're married, getting married, or just want to understand intimacy honestly — this one's for you.
Chapters
00:00:00 Introduction: Meeting Angela Akins, Sex Therapist
00:02:10 When Does Sex Dry Up in Marriage?
00:10:11 Sex Is an Act and an Art: Learning to Perform It Well
00:12:23 Breaking the Taboo: Why We Must Talk About Sex
00:16:53 Sex Is Actually for Women: Understanding Pleasure
00:19:35 The Problem With Not Communicating Your Needs
00:21:56 Pre-Marriage Counseling: Beyond Church Basics
00:30:18 Sex Toys and Aphrodisiacs: When Are They Appropriate?
00:34:13 Erectile Dysfunction and Psychological Barriers
00:42:00 Mental Visualization and Sexual Satisfaction
00:44:22 Throw the Clock Away: Quality Over Duration
00:47:43 Final Thoughts: Seek Professional Help and Invest in Your Marriage
Guest: Angela Akins
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🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST
Mr Richard Akita is a multifaceted relationship and life coach, author, entrepreneur, and corporate trainer with over 30–35 years of experience in management and personal development.
IG: https://www.instagram.com/akitarichard/
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🎧 ABOUT UNBROKEN PODCAST
Unbroken Podcast is where stories meet truth. Hosted by Richard Akita, the show brings together thinkers, builders, healers, and disruptors to have the conversations most people are afraid to have - about love, faith, identity, money, family, and the journey to becoming whole.
Welcome to the new home of unfiltered wisdom.
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