Explore every episode of the podcast Two Plus Two: The Swinger Podcast for Couples
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| Ep 20: Virgin Vampires vs. Seasoned Swingers | 07 May 2025 | 01:01:24 | |
In this episode, your hosts dive into the dynamic between virgin vampires—newcomers to the swinger lifestyle—and elders who've been sipping from the chalice for a while. Drawing on their own experiences as both fledglings and now seasoned swingers, they explore what makes first encounters with newbies so rewarding, and how they guide fresh blood through those early steps with care, consent, and confidence—creating a safe, sexy, and memorable experience. They also unpack why some elder vamps avoid playing with newcomers, diving into the assumptions, frustrations, and mismatched expectations that can surface on both sides. The hosts discuss common couple dynamics, especially how men often view the lifestyle through a black-and-white lens, while women tend to navigate in nuanced shades of gray. Whether you're freshly turned or long-immortal in the scene, this episode offers real talk and valuable insight into the evolving dance between curiosity, experience, and connection. Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) Virgin Vampires (00:01:35) Seasoned Vampires (00:04:12) Trust is built over time (00:05:28) The internal conflict (00:06:23) Being ushered into the LS by seasoned Vampires (00:07:45) Beliefs vs logical decisions (00:08:49) We’ll take you under our wing (00:10:44) Why we call swingers vampires (00:13:31) Newbies are fun! (00:16:09) Swinging is like going to Disneyland (00:17:31) My ticket into heaven (00:18:26) Benefits of playing with newbies (00:21:13) Full dance cards (00:23:55) Why we love virgin Vampires (00:26:51) Virgin Vampires can change the dynamic (00:30:27) Expect your first experiences to feel uncomfortable (00:32:45) Some vintage Vamps steer clear of virgin Vampires (00:34:54) Some of our best friendships are with virgin Vampires (00:40:04) Playing with seasoned Vampires infrequently (00:41:48) Playing with vintage vs virgin Vampires (00:43:25) Reading the queues from your partner and play partners (00:48:59) Navigating those ‘firsts’ (00:52:33) How men and women view ‘rules’ or ‘boundaries’ differently (00:57:30) The ‘rules’ are different for men and women (00:59:25) Traps and landmines We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: | |||
| Ep 19: A Swinger Scale: Tens and Twos; Rating, Debating & Taking One for the Team | 30 Apr 2025 | 01:00:54 | |
In this candid and laugh-filled episode, hosts Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany dive into one of the more infamous phrases in the lifestyle world: 'Ten and Two,' commonly used to describe couples with a significant gap in perceived attractiveness. Your Two Plus Two crew unpacks the term with honesty, humor, and a healthy dose of self-awareness. They explore the subjective nature of these so-called 'ratings,' acknowledging that everyone’s scale is different—and that beauty (and sexual chemistry) is subjective. The discussion then shifts to the more complex and sometimes divisive concept of 'taking one for the team.' With honesty and differing perspectives, your hosts engage in a thoughtful debate about the dynamics and emotional realities behind the decision to play—especially when attraction isn’t mutual on both sides. Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) A lifestyle term…Ten and Two (00:01:33) They have to be at least a five (00:03:49) ‘Ratings’ are subjective (00:05:33) Peacocking strategy (00:06:19) We’re here for sex (00:09:08) Veto rights (00:11:21) Be honest in your communication (00:12:37) Ten and Two boggles the mind! (00:13:17) Primal Sexual Rating (00:15:46) How do Tens and Twos get together? (00:18:11) Compensating factors or traits (00:19:22) Opportunity and context play a role (00:20:32) Cowboys…need we say more? (00:22:41) Not our first choice, but we had fun (00:25:37) Attraction is initially superficial (00:27:04) Connecting with people on your ‘level’ (00:28:31) It’s easier to avoid conversations than get into awkward ones (00:29:17) Fuck off, David Beckham! (00:32:29) Staying open can pay dividends (00:33:42) We typically don’t consider anyone below a five (00:35:00) Easier to create experiences on LS vacations (00:39:17) Some things aren’t possible with just your partner (00:41:41) What does ‘taking one for the team’ mean? (00:46:58) Have we taken one for the team (00:47:50) If you’re not excited about a play experience…don’t do it! (00:53:12) Fucking, sex and making love (00:54:27) Finally! Zack & Josie explain ‘The Smudge’ (00:56:33) A game within the game (00:57:43) I’d love to be your home run! (00:59:40) I’m Brittany Bitch (01:00:08) Zackology We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: | |||
| Ep 10: Aggressive vs Assertive; How Swingers Navigate the Lifestyle | 26 Feb 2025 | 00:53:08 | |
In this episode, Zack, Josie, Brad and Brittany dive into the art of connecting with other swingers. The ladies offer tips for approaching and interacting with them, without coming off as aggressive. The men share why gauging a woman’s interest is often confusing. They explore the importance of clear communication, reading signals, and advocating for yourself. They each share practical tips that will help you build genuine connections in the lifestyle. Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) Perceptions of Assertive vs Aggressive (00:09:26) Stress, anxiety, sexual tension and excitement (00:12:18) Shoot your shot (00:16:24) When assertiveness is welcomed (00:18:50) Men want it, too (00:22:06) What do you need in order to play? (00:25:47) Singles who pair up to play as couples (00:27:38) Inexperienced in the lifestyle (00:29:27) Debriefing after play sessions (00:30:10) Advocating for yourself (00:33:36) The Smudge (00:36:05) It’s different for women than men (00:38:37) An electric four-way connection (00:41:26) The majority of men in the lifestyle are respectful (00:44:13) Approaching & engaging with women (00:46:35) Signs that indicate they are not interested (00:50:58) Parting advice We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: | |||
| Ep 9: Swingers' Secrets to Initiating Playdates | 19 Feb 2025 | 01:05:13 | |
Swingers want to have sex, but that means someone has to break the ice and initiate play. In this episode, Zack, Josie, Brad and Brittany dive into pickup lines that work, building excitement after a first date, hosting unforgettable playdates, and setting the mood for a spicy foursome. From playful texting to happy hour showers, they’ll help you navigate the art of connection in the swinger lifestyle! Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) You had a first date; now what (00:05:10) Four way vs individual chats (00:06:33) Maintain the excitement (00:11:50) Great pickup line (00:13:15) Confirmation of interest is exciting! (00:15:45) Flirtatious texting & greeting (00:17:44) Capitalize on interest in the moment (00:18:31) Discussing play preferences (00:23:15) Bisensual (00:25:26) Oral and kissing (00:27:26) Breaking the ice (00:30:40) The naked man (00:34:00) So I just kissed him! (00:38:56) Rounding third; heading home (00:41:36) Consensual ass grab (00:44:22) Hosting playdates; ambience and practicality (00:47:11) Play ‘script’ (00:51:56) Dirty talk; awkward or exciting? (00:53:25) Happy hour shower (00:54:54)Naked by 9:00 (00:58:09) Polite, but direct (00:59:13) Is initiating play simple? (01:01:43) Who should initiate play? We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: | |||
| Ep 8: Dating as Swingers; Finding and Connecting with Couples | 12 Feb 2025 | 00:52:55 | |
Dating as a swinger couple isn’t always easy! In this episode, Zack, Josie, Brad and Brittany dive into first-date challenges: remaining honest and transparent with your partner and communicating your interest to each other and your potential play partners. They discuss, in depth, how they each handle rejection, both giving and receiving and discuss ways to successfully transition to sexy playtime. Plus, Zack and Josie share a spicy story from their trip to Desire that you won’t want to miss! Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) Finding dates can be challenging (00:04:42) Naughty pictures, Flirts and Backstage Passes (00:08:30) First dates; drinks or dinner? (00:11:11) Conversation; sexy, vanilla or both? (00:14:11) Signaling interest to your partner (00:18:37) What gets Zack and Josie excited (00:20:19) Playing on the first date and expectations (00:24:10) Zack Stat (00:26:12) Rejection and disappointment (00:31:41) Transparency and honesty (00:35:58) Sexy story from Desire (00:40:33) Expectations (00:45:00) Ask for what you want (00:49:08) Transitioning after the first date (00:51:47) Initiating play; Sex or no sex We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: | |||
| Ep 7: Lifestyle Travel for Swingers; Not Your Typical Vacation | 05 Feb 2025 | 00:58:45 | |
Ready to spice up your travel plans? In this episode, we dive into the exciting world of travel for swingers! From planning sexy getaways and prepping for epic theme nights to packing tips and travel hacks, we’ve got everything you need to make your next trip unforgettable. Plus, we’re sharing behind-the-scenes details on Peaches'nCream—the hottest new app for swingers to post, chat, and connect. Don’t miss out on the fun, the tips, and all the juicy details that make lifestyle travel extraordinary! Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ We have our must have list of LS travel gear along with links to all your favorite LS destinations including Desire, Temptation, Cruises and takeovers!
(00:00:00) Lifestyle travel; no filters (00:06:13) Decompression to enjoy vacation (00:09:56) Lifestyle travel with friends (00:14:31) Preparing for lifestyle travel (00:17:37) Connecting with other couples beforehand (00:29:31) Why Zack created Peaches’nCream (00:25:51) Spicy vs vanilla (00:29:19) Join your Two Plus Two Crew (00:31:31) Shopping and planning for theme nights (00:36:28) Advice for the guys (00:41:44) Favorite theme nights (00:44:43) Travel and packing hacks from Josie (00:46:57) Deciding what to wear (00:48:55) You’re not overpacking (00:51:06) Packing your ‘go’ bag (00:52:28) Hair ties and blow jobs (00:54:33) Perfect trip length (00:57:25) Parting advice We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: | |||
| Ep 6: Naughty & Noteworthy; An Honest, Sexy Swinger Conversation | 03 Feb 2025 | 00:29:53 | |
In this bonus episode, Brad and Brittany spill all the juicy details from their recent trip to Costa Rica. From Brittany getting "caught with her hand in the cookie jar" to a spontaneous separate play session and a steamy threesome while Big Texas whipped up dinner, this episode is packed with fun, laughter, and unforgettable moments! Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) We popped their cherry (00:03:57) Brittany got caught with her hand in the cookie jar (00:05:22) ‘Desire Costa Rica’ (00:07:35) Spontaneous separate play (00:13:07) Unequal experiences (00:15:25) Fairness in the lifestyle (00:17:05) Fear and insecurity (00:19:19) Dinner prep and sex (00:21:20) Porn dinner theater (00:23:53) Lifestyle adjacent; mind blowing sex (00:27:17) Sex everywhere; anywhere (00:28:55) Naughty & Noteworthy We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: | |||
| Ep 5: Swinger Origin Story; How your Two Plus Two Crew got into the Lifestyle | 29 Jan 2025 | 00:48:42 | |
Every swinger couple has a story—a spark that lit the flame. It's actually one of the most common questions swingers are asked when meeting other swingers... "So how did you get into the lifestyle?" In other words, what's your origin story. Who brought up the idea of the lifestyle? How did their partner react? Was it an instant 'yes,' or a journey full of questions and challenges? In this episode, we’re getting personal. Zack and Josie, along with Brad and Brittany, are sharing the raw, unfiltered stories of how they each started their lifestyle journeys—and the bumps they hit along the way. Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ and get your copy of the book that changed our lives forever: Come As Your Are. (00:00:00) Segment One: Caught up in the moment (00:04:32) I kissed a girl and I liked it (00:10:43) Accidental Soft Swap (00:13:59) Like getting caught by your parents (00:15:06) That was HOT…how do I tell my husband? (00:20:29) Brad & Brittany’s intentional entry into the lifestyle (00:23:19) Segment Two: The lifestyle…round two (00:26:28) Overcoming shame (00:30:48) Sex becomes routine (00:34:01) Be curious, vulnerable and explore (00:37:47) The lifestyle, as a vanilla couple (00:42:11) Lifestyle couples are respectful (00:45:35) Desire opened up conversations about the lifestyle We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: hello@twoplustwopodcast.com Recommended Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski Ph.D. *Some of the links and resources shared may be affiliate links. This means we may earn a commission if you make a purchase through them—at no extra cost to you. We only recommend products and services we truly believe in. | |||
| Ep 4: Swingers’ Take on Friends with Benefits vs One and Done | 22 Jan 2025 | 01:02:55 | |
Friends with benefits or one-night stands? In this episode, we dive into the pros and cons of one & done, hit it and quit it, one night stands...whatever you want to call it versus friends with benefits. Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ Your Two Plus Two Crew, Zack, Josie, Brad & Brittany, share their personal experiences and how they’ve shaped their views on swinging, intimacy and connection. Join us for candid insights, laughter, and honest reflections on navigating relationships and exploring what may work for you. (00:00:00) Swingers in the Wild (00:06:19) Friends with benefits vs one and done (00:08:43) Looking for a circle of friends (00:09:35) Segment 1: One and done (00:11:50) Circumstances influence when we play (00:16:55) We had sex but won’t be friends (00:18:46) Your partner has sexual chemistry with someone else (00:25:32) One and done and two and through (00:28:43) Two Plus Two crew play (00:33:01) Friends first; sex second? (00:38:24) Sex or no sex? (00:42:22) Cockbocked (00:45:13) Segment 2: Friends with benefits (00:49:54) Comfort in friendships (00:53:17) Exceptions to needing a connection (00:58:13) I shook his penis, ‘hello’ We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: | |||
| Ep 3: Soft vs Full Swap, Same vs Separate Rooms and Hall Passes | 15 Jan 2025 | 00:56:45 | |
Ever wondered about the 'levels' in swinging? From soft swap to full swap, hall passes to playing separately, and even rules about kissing—every couple has their own boundaries. In this episode, we dive into this fascinating spectrum, share our own personal 'levels,' and speculate about those who take it further. How do your rules compare? Tune in to find out! Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) Segment 1: Lifestyle Levels (00:01:02) Full swap ‘situational’ (00:03:03) Lifestyle terms (00:05:10) Hot soft swap story (00:11:25) Zack’s first lifestyle orgasm (00:14:22) The no kissing rule (00:16:50) Comfort level (00:17:43) They’re ‘situational’...now what? (00:20:47) Exclusive to your partnership (00:23:08) Cum is like a box of chocolates (00:24:52) Segment 2: Same vs. Separate rooms (00:26:12) Adjusting boundaries in the moment (00:31:29) You can’t anticipate everything (00:33:20) ‘Same room situational’ (00:35:00) Josie won’t play separately (00:40:09) Possible exceptions for separate play (00:42:37) Segment 3: Hall passes (00:44:56) Celebrity hall passes (00:47:08) 4-way connections & hall pass vacations (00:49:08) Safety concerns (00:50:38) Trust and grace (00:51:53) Envy (FOMO) (00:52:06) She’s a 10; he’s a 6 (00:53:54) Lifestyle veterans (00:55:01) We’re vampires We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: | |||
| Ep 2: Swingers Share Their Favorite Parts of the Body, Sex and Lifestyle | 08 Jan 2025 | 01:06:22 | |
From Brad’s pornstar fantasy to Brittany’s spider monkey move; we dive into our favorite parts of the body, of sex, and the lifestyle; some may surprise you. We discuss theme nights, confidence, communication, and the anxiety of dating in the lifestyle. We explore lifestyle vs vanilla friendships, domination, and more—this one’s a wild ride. Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) Segment 1: Favorite body parts (00:02:32) All the things a mouth can do (00:03:57) Boobs are best (00:07:10) How big is too big? (00:10:52) Josie cheats on the assignment (00:15:50) Dominate us! (00:19:44) Pushing vs pulling (00:22:22) Brad sets a scene that makes Josie hot (00:23:22) Segment 2: Favorite part of sex (00:28:49) Brad’s porn star fantasy (00:33:40) Dirty Talk (00:35:19) Brittany’s spider monkey move (00:37:38) Cock: I want it, I need it (00:41:53) Penetrative sex; the beginning of the end (00:43:17) Segment 3: Lifestyle favorites (00:43:41) Brittany, the hunter (00:47:16) If a cock was a roller coaster (00:48:30) Lifestyle vs vanilla friendships (00:49:39) From sex to Costa Rica (00:51:05) The lifestyle without sex (00:52:44) Zack stat (00:54:55) Theme parties, confidence and feeling sexy (00:57:25) The ladies like attention (00:59:19) When vanillas dress slutty (01:00:46) Our job interview (01:04:35) Is conservative sexy? We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: | |||
| Ep 1: Swingers’ Thoughts on Penises; Size, Condoms and ED/Performance Anxiety | 01 Jan 2025 | 00:59:39 | |
Does size matter? You may be surprised by our answers as we share some real life experiences to drive our point home. We also discuss erectile dysfunction and performance anxiety from both the male and female perspective. Finally, we share our opinions about condom use and whether most people we’ve met recently agree or disagree with us. Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) Segment 1: Does size matter? (00:03:14) Meat gazing (00:05:27) Brad & Zack get excited (00:06:17) Getting Josie into bed (00:07:58) Zack meat gazes (00:08:45) Brad’s penis envy (00:12:38) Average is better (00:17:56) Doggy style (00:19:53) Average guys try harder (00:21:26) Segment 2: ED and performance anxiety (00:22:13) CBD gummies (00:24:40) Dick shots (00:26:22) The brain and the dick disagree (00:27:44) Managing and Overcoming ED (00:42:02) Segment 3: Condoms (00:42:20) Terrorist abduction (00:44:55) Unprotected sex; oral and penetrative (00:45:16) Cross pollination (00:47:48) Vaginal health (00:48:37) Stigma around condoms (00:50:24) Ditching condoms? (00:53:25) Condoms suck (00:57:03) Hard vs Trimix hard We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: | |||
| Ep 18: Lust, Looks & Lift-Off: Swingers Talk Attraction & Picking Play Partners | 23 Apr 2025 | 01:03:15 | |
In this episode, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany dive into the deliciously complicated world of picking play partners. Each share their personal preferences—what turns them on, what gives them pause, and how they navigate attraction within a shared dynamic. The conversation gets flirty as they tease one another and share pet peeves and guilty pleasures, all while unpacking the deeper stuff: confidence, insecurities, and how to handle rejection without letting it bruise the ego. It’s not just about individual desire—it’s about finding that mutual yes, where chemistry clicks for everyone involved. With laughter, vulnerability, and a few playful jabs, this episode is a candid look into how four people approach one of the most crucial parts of the lifestyle: choosing who to play with. Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) Having preferences is totally fine (00:03:24) Attraction can grow through conversation and interaction (00:04:34) You can’t be attracted to a personality from across the room (00:05:50) The ‘fuckable’ switch and the scale system (00:07:14) Variety, the spice of life! (00:09:07) Throw me around, love Brittany! (00:10:10) Interest ebbs and flows (00:14:57) Accents! (00:16:31) Bellies, blow jobs and eye contact (00:17:58) Okay for larger people, but not trim, athletic people? (00:19:09) Choosing play partners as a couple (00:22:12) Confidence in choosing someone for your partner (00:24:25) Is the lifestyle judgment free? (00:25:36) Handling insecurity, tension, and stress in the lifestyle (00:29:34) Insecurity IS a part of the lifestyle (00:32:20) Lifestyle armor (00:33:58) To beard or not to beard (00:36:31) Superman cape or rationalization (00:38:02) Rejection may not be about ‘you’ (00:39:29) It may just be awkward, not too late (00:40:35) Personality; engagement and energy (00:43:12) Engaging with others is more challenging for introverts (00:44:44) Be authentic and vulnerable (00:46:00) Figure out what you want and create those opportunities (00:47:43) I’ll try anything twice (00:50:27) ‘Clowning’ around about hair and other things (00:55:20) You can expect to attract people similar to the level you groom yourself to (00:59:16) Just say, ‘no’ to sandpaper (01:01:45) Parting thoughts We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: | |||
| Ep 17: It’s Getting Hard in Here: Swingers Unload Their Masturbation Stories | 16 Apr 2025 | 00:59:35 | |
Join Zack, Josie, Brad and Brittany as they tackle another taboo subject: Masturbation! Join your hosts for this raw, honest, side-splitting conversation. You can probably relate to at least one of their masturbation discovery stories and if not, you can at least count on laughing along. Get a view inside their bedrooms and their minds as they each set the scene for how they masturbate now. Brad shares more about The Stranger and Josie finally clues us in on The Hoover Maneuver. This episode will be one of your favorites! Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) Brittany’s first experience happened in her 20’s! (00:02:16) Belief that sex is for procreation only (00:04:25) Judgment is deep-rooted (00:06:01) Telling your doctor you’re a swinger (00:07:35) Getting back to the topic… (00:08:38) Electric toothbrush…shower head (00:13:47) Do you ever jerk off? (00:18:06) Zack was hooked (00:19:47) Masturbation can be hot (00:20:21) I was traumatized (00:23:50) Getting caught (00:25:54) If you wake up in the middle of the night… (00:27:48) It’s in the ‘Book of Men’ (00:29:50) Benefits of masturbating before you go to sleep (00:30:48) Setting the scene…how do you like to do it? (00:33:00) Doing it together or when alone (00:35:19) ‘The stranger’ (00:37:27) Learning how your partner likes to be touched (00:39:22) The challenge with masturbating (00:40:12) Making it part of your regular sex life (00:41:59) We’ve never talked about this before (00:42:30) Finishing… (00:43:40) I want to be the one making her cum (00:44:48) Benefits of doing it together (00:46:54) The Hoover Maneuver…and other techniques (00:49:32) Masturbating in play sessions (00:52:12) Using the penis, hand and toys (00:53:28) Hot or not: watching your play partner touch themselves (00:58:19) The wrap up
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| Ep 16: A hilarious, no-filter deep dive into swingers' porn habits, preferences, and relationship dynamics! | 09 Apr 2025 | 01:00:27 | |
Join Zack, Josie, Brad and Brittany as they tackle another taboo subject: porn! You’ll gain insight into the type of porn that turns them each on, when they watch, who they watch it with and what they do while watching. Learn how their consumption has changed throughout their relationships and upon entering the lifestyle. Join your hosts as they take this fun, lighthearted journey through the topic of porn and be prepared to laugh until your belly hurts. Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) We dabbled in porn a little bit (00:02:15) Brittany’s preferences (00:03:52) Josie’s preferences…and an example (00:07:29) Zack’s preference (00:09:43) Brad’s preference…and an example (00:11:13) No porn shaming here! (00:13:15) Type varies; together vs alone (00:15:48) Watching while receiving…ladies are a no (00:16:25) A fun little rabbit hole…Josie’s fantasy (00:19:52) Brittany gets a new toy (00:23:10) Brad takes care of morning wood (00:24:29) Watching porn together (00:25:34) Just pick a porn! (00:27:27) Type of porn we watch together (00:29:28) Actions in porn that turn us off (00:30:32) Gagging on cock..hot or not? (00:32:50) Brad Gosse; The Goat with the Big Throat (00:33:44) Ten minute blow jobs (00:35:00) A blow job is like cold pizza (00:35:37) Watching with other couples (00:37:37) Recording our own porn and porn with other couples (00:40:43) Photo and video etiquette (00:42:40) We played a game…can you guess who’s giving the blow job? (00:43:45) Sharing videos with other couples…yes or no; why or why not? (00:47:35) Taking photos for your profile (00:48:38) Brad’s first dick pic (00:50:15) Receiving videos from potential play partners (00:53:51) Erotic, sensual pictures vs graphic pictures (00:55:06) Addicted to porn? (00:56:28) Porn consumption since entering the lifestyle (00:57:44) There’s nothing wrong with porn (00:59:00) Brad’s porn binder We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: | |||
| Ep 15: Swingers Discuss Navigating Consent in the Lifestyle and Self-Advocating | 02 Apr 2025 | 01:01:10 | |
In this episode, Zack, Josie, Brad and Brittany dive into the complexities of consent in the lifestyle and how it can vary in different situations with different people; how to advocate for yourself and how misunderstandings can happen. Josie gets raw and vulnerable, sharing a powerful story of misplaced blame and emotional growth; Zack shares how this experience impacted him and their relationship. With laughter, unexpected twists, and lots of light-hearted banter, this episode is both enlightening and entertaining! Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) Consent is situational (00:01:35) Women like to be pursued (00:02:48) Partners on different ‘pages’ with PDA (00:07:17) Asking for a first kiss vs not (00:09:20) If you’re feeling the vibes, ask (00:11:07) Reading women can be challenging for men (00:13:29) Women want to feel safe (00:14:58) It’s safer to ask for than assume you have consent (00:17:30) Blanket consent can come with trust (00:20:56) Different environments can impact consent tolerance (00:22:29) Coming in the back door…our abs hurt! (00:23:50) Asking for consent during a play session (00:26:30) Women feel safe when men ask for consent (00:28:16) Men get turned on when women ask for consent (00:31:42) Flip side of consent is advocating for yourself (00:32:23) Those are not starter cocks (00:33:20) Turning someone down without killing the vibe (00:35:58) Issuing a ‘no thank you’ (00:38:23) Advocating for yourself (00:41:57) Sometimes advocating for yourself is personal (00:43:23) Advocating for yourself during play (00:46:03) Experiences in the lifestyle create growth opportunities (00:49:15) Advocacy is empowering (00:54:30) You can’t plan for every situation (00:56:11) The lifestyle is fun yet challenging (00:57:17) Men in the lifestyle are generally more respectful (00:59:19) If in doubt, ask for consent We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: | |||
| Ep 14: Bliss Cruise for Swingers: Past Experiences and Future Fantasies | 26 Mar 2025 | 00:52:44 | |
Are you booked on a future Bliss cruise or maybe considering booking one? Join Zack, Josie, Brad and Brittany as they discuss their previous cruise experience and what they are planning to do differently on their next Bliss cruise. They share their tips from packing to travel to health and wellness and connecting with other people to increase the opportunities for connections and playdates. Are you booked on the April 2025 Bliss Cruise? If so, join our Two Plus Two Podcast group on Peaches’nCream and let us know you’re coming. We’ll see you there! (Not a member of PnC yet? Join for free!) Support our podcast by booking your next Bliss Cruise or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ and get our list of must have travel gear for the LS! (00:00:00) What’s great about Bliss Cruises (00:03:30) The perfect size and length (00:04:35) We’re not cruisers (00:05:54) You will find your people! (00:07:09) We ‘missed’ the sail-away party (00:11:12) Bucket lists and fantasies (00:12:27) Growing and doing it differently this time (00:14:31) Speed dating (00:15:55) Different playrooms (00:17:23) Experience of the group playroom (00:20:03) Playing in the group playroom (00:21:52) Keep it clean! (00:23:17) Our dungeon experience (00:25:31) St. Elmo…no, St. Andrew! (00:28:01) I just wanted a drink! (00:29:28) Eat dinner in the dining room! (00:32:30) CYA…vanilla pictures and cover story (00:33:57) All things promenade (00:37:12) Meet Brad, the Mayor of Hot Tub Town! (00:39:05) Happy hour showers & naked by nine! (00:41:56) Planning tips for new cruisers (00:45:22) Maintaining health, wellness and using condoms (00:48:47) Decompression and re-entry (00:50:41) We’ll do it different this time We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: | |||
| Ep 13: Dirty Talk as Swingers: Fun, Awkward, and Exciting | 19 Mar 2025 | 00:52:22 | |
Join Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany as they explore the exciting and sometimes anxiety-ridden world of dirty talk. They discuss whether it’s ever truly comfortable and share their experiences with giving and receiving it. They dive into the dynamics of dirty talk while swinging versus when you’re with your primary partner and examine the feelings that arise when someone whispers in your partner’s ear. They also uncover the benefits of dirty talk and offer tips on how to use it in the lifestyle to create exciting play sessions. Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) It’s already getting hot in here! (00:01:04) Dirty talk vs talking about sex (00:02:41) Who’s comfortable with dirty talk? (00:03:55) When Brad got comfortable with it (00:05:19) It’s great feedback for lifestyle partners (00:05:49) Josie shares a secret about her private fantasies (00:07:58) Dirty talk can be embarrassing (00:10:20) Dirty talk vs feedback (00:13:41) Five second rule (00:15:39) Dirty talk can be distracting (00:17:56) It’s all fake, Brad! (00:19:45) Zack Stat…is dirty talk popular? (00:21:57) Name calling can be hit or miss (00:23:31) Dirty talk can start before your playdate (00:26:15) Are you ready for this…pressure? (00:29:37) Dirty talk…Just let it out! (00:31:02) We were inverted…like Top Gun (00:34:30) Dirty talk and compersion (00:37:50) Familiarity makes dirty talk more comfortable (00:41:14) Feelings about hearing someone dirty talk to your partner (00:44:37) Audible distractions during play sessions (00:45:56) ‘Privately’ dirty talking to a play partner (00:47:37) Dirty talk with your play partner can impact your life partner (00:48:45) Brittany’s magic tongue (00:49:23) Separate play…less stressful? (00:50:57) Everybody enjoys something different We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: | |||
| Ep 12: Swingers Discuss Social and Lifestyle Stigmas; Profiles, HWP, Size Queens, Bisexuality, ‘Sluts’ and ‘Studs’, Cheating and Much More! | 12 Mar 2025 | 00:59:53 | |
In this episode, Zack, Josie, Brad and Brittany explore both social and lifestyle stigmas. Do social stigmas influence how we behave and interact inside the bubble of the lifestyle? What things are considered taboo and why? Society may be opening up to alternative lifestyles, including swinging. What caused this shift? What can we do to convey exactly what we are looking for to have more of the experiences we desire? Your hosts discuss at length, some stigmas shared by their listeners and invite you to share your comments and questions for a future episode. Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) Lifestyle site profiles (00:04:13) Two Tits on a Stick (00:06:17) Profiles: lifestyle resumes (00:09:22) Body: HWP (00:10:25) Be specific about preferences (00:11:08) You don’t have to be perfect (00:12:24) It’s okay to have preferences (00:15:10) Sluts vs Studs (00:18:14) Is this wrong? (00:20:35) Meeting & playing on vacation vs when at home (00:22:40) Situational…contact us for more information (00:24:55) Lifestyle labels (00:26:45) Navigating bisexuality (00:30:41) Judgement (00:32:44) Why we’re all called vampires (00:33:33) Sexuality: celebrated for men, shameful for women (00:35:59) Women are extremely sexual (00:38:47) The societal shift: celebrating sex (00:40:35) Will swingers be ‘coming out of the closet’? (00:43:29) Would you admit to being a swinger? (00:45:14) Cheating is socially more acceptable than ENM (00:50:03) The lifestyle is for old people (00:51:57) You can finding your group (00:53:24) Advice for new vampires (00:54:54) Confident women are sexy (00:56:03) Unicorns and bulls (00:58:22) Bowling without the bumpers (00:59:16) We want to know what YOU think We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: | |||
| Ep 11: Swingers Share Their Experiences of Vaginas; The Sights, Smells, Feelings, Tastes and Sounds | 05 Mar 2025 | 00:57:32 | |
In this episode, Zack, Josie, Brad and Brittany discuss vaginas and vulvas at length. Pussies seem to play second fiddle to penises, but not today! Learn from the men what they love about women’s kitties, hear the women’s insecurities about their own bodies and how their husbands assuage their fears. This episode will have you rolling on the floor laughing, as your hosts share real experiences and authentic emotions that deliver solid information you can use. Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) Vaginas; who knows them best? (00:02:05) Segment One: Sights (00:06:36) Rumble in the jungle (00:09:02) It’s a nice warm, cozy place to sit (00:10:47) Thinking about vaginas around naked dudes (00:12:08) Segment Two: Feeling (00:13:49) Varying degrees of tightness & depth (00:15:02) Doggy style; is deeper better? (00:16:48) Cues you’re in too deep (00:17:38) Some women may need more buildup time (00:19:49) The tongue feels electric (00:20:33) Master of the Muff (00:22:35) Ladies, please give feedback! (00:25:00) The lollipop licker (00:26:25) Suck our clit; Brad’s humming technique (00:27:36) Segment Three: Taste and Smell (00:30:23) Odor doesn’t always match the taste (00:34:42) Josie’s vulnerable share makes her blush (00:37:57) Microfeedback (00:39:08) Multi-stimulation…meow (00:40:50) Josie shares a fantasy…it’s news to Zack (00:43:55) Segment Four: Sounds (00:44:04) Queefing trauma…the gift that keeps on giving (00:47:37) There’s a lot of air in vaginas (00:49:19) It just wasn’t a queef…dragon’s breath (00:52:16) Enjoy it and don’t take it too seriously (00:53:00) This one time in the lifestyle… (00:56:50) Who likes pussies? We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: | |||
| Ep 25: The Closeted Swinger Life: Fears and Fantasies of Being Outed | 11 Jun 2025 | 01:02:47 | |
In this juicy, no-holds-barred episode, your favorite foursome—Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany—dive headfirst into one of the lifestyle’s most nerve-wracking realities: the fear of being outed. With equal parts humor and heart, they unpack what it feels like to live double lives—respectable business owners by day, sexy vampires by night—while society looms over them like a nosy HOA board with a stick up its ass. The gang explores how being exposed could impact their livelihoods, reputations, and relationships with family members who still think “ethical non-monogamy” is just a fancy way of saying “cheating.” From quiet paranoia to slow-burning anxiety of knowing your whole life could be derailed by a single screenshot, they each rank their current fear level on a scale of 1 to “I just bought a burner phone.” Zack and Josie spill the beans on being outed in their past relationships and a recent close call that had them sweating more than a newbie at their first play party. Still, despite the fear, there’s a seductive fantasy lurking underneath—a world where they could live authentically and proudly... without losing their jobs, their moms' respect, or access to Sunday potlucks. It’s vulnerable, it’s hilarious, and it’ll definitely make you triple-check who’s following your Finsta. Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) This could be a trap (00:05:00) It feels like a betrayal of trust (00:06:34) Fear of judgment (00:08:09) Sharing our secret was exciting (00:09:44) I threw the Hail Mary at ‘em (00:12:20) A little surprise for Zack (00:16:00) Being clandestine is fun (00:19:26) Just put it on one check…we’ll figure it out (00:21:42) It’s all in the family (00:24:40) I always wondered if you were a swinger (00:26:34) I’m gonna’ tell your mom! (00:28:47) My mom can’t keep a secret (00:33:15) Embarrassing moments (00:36:20) Don’t ask, don’t tell (00:38:53) Six cocks of separation (00:42:50) The best husband on the planet (00:43:57) Releasing the pressure (00:46:20) Business blowback (00:51:35) Career suicide (00:54:35) I wish we could share our success with our family (00:56:40) Peaches’nCream Invite Code 2plus2 (00:56:52) Protecting ourselves from exposure (01:01:13) Gotcha’ Bitch!
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| Ep 24: Sexy Confessions & Swingers' Secrets: Yay, Nay, May, or Oh, I’ve Played | 04 Jun 2025 | 00:59:16 | |
In this playful and revealing episode, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany dive into a spicy game of “Yay, Nay, May, or Oh, I’ve Played.” From hard no’s to enthusiastic yeses—and everything in between—the crew shares where they stand on a wide range of sex acts. As the game heats up, unexpected confessions lead to laughter, curiosity, and even a few secret fantasies. Each answer peels back another layer, sparking bold stories and steamy moments that might just leave listeners blushing. From awkward overshares to hilarious hypotheticals, this episode is full of outrageous laughs, unexpected reactions, and stories that probably shouldn’t be told—but definitely are. It’s naughty, it’s honest, and it’s the most fun you’ll have learning way too much about four very unfiltered friends. Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) Yes, No, Maybe list…our gateway drug (00:02:24) Remote sex toys (00:03:56) Fun, new fishbowl idea! (00:04:50) Cock rings…not for me (00:07:02) Squirting (00:07:53) Is it sprinkling…no, it’s me (00:10:11) It was like getting a navage irrigation (00:12:36) Edging (00:14:39) A three hour tour (00:15:36) It’s like a super soaker (00:17:21) Blindfolds (00:18:16) Hot and cold play…a play buffet (00:20:26) Spanking (00:22:14) Handcuffs…’suck cock, but don’t do that!’ (00:23:50) And we’re havin’ a pizza (00:25:00) I like to service my service men and women (00:27:48) Shibari (00:29:20) Let me tie you and your husband up (00:31:46) Cuckholds and cuckqueens…we’re all selfish (00:33:53) Double barrelled blow jobs (00:34:43) It was like an orgasercism…a sex story (00:43:11) Back to double barrelled blow jobs (00:45:08) Double penetration (00:46:15) She woke me up…all revved up! (00:48:10) Do I know the person who was in the ‘P’? (00:51:14) Air tight…mixed reviews (00:53:49) Gang bang…emphatic yes! (00:56:50) It’s all about compersion
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| Ep 23: Jealousy, Envy, and Everything Swingers Feel but Don’t Say | 28 May 2025 | 01:01:02 | |
In this honest and insightful episode, your hosts dive deep into two of the most complex emotions in swinging: jealousy and envy. While often confused, these two feelings are very different—and each can surface in powerful and unexpected ways within the lifestyle. Your hosts share openly about their personal experiences, exploring how these emotions have affected their relationships, and where their individual insecurities have surfaced. They also reflect on how age, experience, and their unique relationship dynamics influence the way they process their feelings. It’s a more serious conversation, grounded in transparency, vulnerability, and real growth. This one promises to inspire deep conversations with your own partner. Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) Defining Jealousy and Envy (00:02:24) Fear of losing your partner (00:04:03) Good luck finding somebody better (00:05:14) Boundaries were crossed (00:07:27) Why are we in this lifestyle? (00:08:20) Articulating your emotions is challenging (00:09:52) Questioning your own feelings (00:10:18) Jealousy, envy, insecurities (00:11:48) You can’t stuff the feelings down (00:16:15) Is jealousy and envy necessary to experience the thrill? (00:19:03) In the lifestyle…we flirt back (00:21:15) He used to be my little secret (00:23:31) Sharing the intimacy of your spouse and relationship (00:26:23) Jealousy could creep in (00:30:16) Is our subconscious controlling our outcome? (00:32:47) Don’t fix it if it ain’t broke (00:33:09) Envy can show up in all kinds of unexpected places (00:36:32) I was envious of his ‘8’ experience because I had a ‘2’ (00:38:49) Being envious of your partner’s personality (00:40:48) ‘Helping’ doesn’t help (00:42:37) You don’t do that with me anymore…don’t do it with her (00:43:59) Feeling envious of other couples (00:47:25) Jealousy can create emotional and physical pain (00:49:44) Will jealousy always be a part of the lifestyle? (00:52:29) Is jealousy a positive or negative thing? (00:56:45) This is almost the definition OF the lifestyle (00:57:53) Parting advice (01:00:04) Listen to episode 11: Vaginas if you need a good laugh We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: hello@twoplustwopodcast.com | |||
| Ep 22: Bliss Cruise for Swingers Part 2: Spicy Stories, Real Rejections and More Insider Info from Bliss HQ | 21 May 2025 | 01:04:09 | |
Ep 22: Bliss Cruise for Swingers Part 2: Spicy Stories, Real Rejections and More Insider Info from Bliss HQ This is Part 2 of our two-part Bliss Cruise series—and now it’s time to get to the really juicy stuff. Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany pick up where they left off, sharing the sexier side of their week at sea, including some spicy escapades and steamy surprises. But it’s not all playtime in the playrooms. The crew opens up about rejection, the emotional rollercoaster of swinger life, and the lessons they’re taking into their next Bliss Cruise adventure. PLUS, they reveal more insider secrets straight from the new Bliss Cruise owners—exclusive updates, behind-the-scenes details, and what’s coming next that swingers (and curious cruisers) will want to know. If Part 1 was the appetizer...this is the main course. Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/
(00:02:25) Baptizing a soft swap couple (00:06:05) Earn your squirting badge (00:08:22) Mini Pleasuring the Penis workshop at Dizzy’s (00:11:00) Schoolyard pick (00:12:25) Gang Bank Amy and Big Mike (00:14:32) Happy hour showers (00:17:42) No, we’re not Canadians (00:18:24) We’d already established ‘fuckable’ (00:22:50) Rejection du joir (00:26:39) A sexy newbie couple (00:28:25) Please stop talking (00:30:00) We’re just not there yet (00:33:30) I’d rather know than not know (00:34:45) Lobbing up a softball (00:36:06) We appreciated the honesty and transparency (00:39:43) There’s always another hole (00:40:48) The great unknowing (00:42:07) Shoot your shot more often (00:44:58) Doing it differently next time (00:45:33) Our favorite kinds of conversations (00:46:50) Spongebob Nervous Energy Squarepants (00:48:43) Find your people within our people (00:50:50) Just your typical bar conversation (00:51:52) I can’t do every dick…err deck, the same day (00:54:44) I’m an exhibitionist (00:55:22) It was like the end of summer camp (00:58:00) Orgy swag and other little ditties (00:59:45) Strategies for next time (01:00:13) Dance and Play; hot new event for Bliss We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: | |||
| Ep 21: Bliss Cruise for Swingers Part 1: Fantasies, Fumbles & the Inside Scoop from Bliss HQ | 14 May 2025 | 01:01:58 | |
In this two-part series, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany unpack the wet, wild, wicked, and wonderful world of the Bliss lifestyle cruise. They each kick things off with a one-liner that perfectly sums up their week at sea then dish on all the dirty details. From missing the sail away party for the second year in a row, to awkward but honest conversations, and really wet rides, the crew dishes out the highs, lows, and lessons from their floating swinger playground. Zack compares the cruise to a trip to Disneyland—if Disneyland had playrooms, pool parties, naked people and lots of sex. While Zack and Jose may have spent more time “waiting in line” than “riding rides,” Brad and Brittany’s experience was a massive contrast. The week still brought deep connection, steamy sexy firsts, and a few unforgettable stories. And just when things start heating up...you’ll have to wait until next week for Part 2 because we simply couldn’t fit it all into one hour. Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) Each of our experiences…in a single sentence (00:01:50) Better than the last, not as good as the next (00:04:33) The NEW amazing Bliss App! (00:05:59) Thwarted because of a family resemblance (00:06:48) Maybe not a ‘no,’ just a ‘no for now’ (00:07:33) Second chances (00:09:07) Wanna come back to our room and fuck? (00:12:06) Maybe they got us confused (00:12:44) Being too cheeky (00:14:06) Determining who to approach can be tricky (00:15:18) Opportunity has a bigger impact than we may think (00:16:35) Creating context is a necessity for me (00:17:48) I’m along for the ride (00:18:11) I choose the ride I want to be on (00:20:04) Take off your clothes…we need to talk (00:21:45) Let’s play, ‘where’s Brittany?’ (00:24:34) This crazy, thrilling, challenging ‘ride’ that is the lifestyle (00:26:02) Watching the experts work the room (00:28:15) I was just trying to have a martini and get some down time (00:30:35) Nobody talks about the stressful aspects of the cruise (00:31:57) I went to Disneyland and I wanted to ride the rides (00:34:12) She was dedicated and I was fine with it (00:39:02) Comfort is a big thing for me, in every way (00:41:36) NEW Bliss owners shared exciting changes with us (00:42:35) Using Peaches’nCream for better travel experiences (00:44:00) A hot, new couple’s sex experience (00:47:14) Having expectations can create disappointment (00:49:19) How do you go in without expectations? (00:52:23) Another awkward ‘family’ resemblance story (00:53:41) I’m Splash Mountain (00:55:22) We had some exciting moments, for sure (00:56:13) Struttin’ our stuff at Dizzie’s (00:56:46) INSIDER INFO from the new Bliss owners (00:59:42) Future functionality and availability of the Bliss App (01:00:35) Full Swap and Beyond Full Swap We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: | |||
| Ep 26: Unzipped: STIs, Testing and the Swinger Lifestyle | 18 Jun 2025 | 01:04:58 | |
Things get hot—and a little uncomfortable—as hosts Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany slide into a topic every swinger should know about but few want to talk about: STIs. But leave it to this crew to make even that a good time. From testing (how, when, and how often) to sharing results with partners—both current and past—they cover it all with their signature mix of sass, honesty, and just the right dose of inappropriate humor. Josie and Brittany get personal, opening up about their own experiences with STIs, while the group offers real-world advice that’s as helpful as it is hilarious. Yes, it’s one of their more serious episodes—but they keep it interesting by poking a bit of fun at STI nicknames, cracking jokes and roasting one another. Think of it as the sex-ed class you wish you had in middle school… but way hotter and with better banter. Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) On a scale from dirty to dirty (00:05:42) Breaking down STI’s (00:08:40) HPV and Herpes…personal experiences (00:14:34) Nicknames for STI’s and green gooey stuff (00:17:40) It’s all fun until you get it (00:19:20) Stats from the CDC (00:21:59) Lifestyle folks are conscious of STI’s (00:24:32) Many are asymptomatic (00:27:05) Prevention & sharing your STI status (00:29:07) Handling an outbreak (00:31:28) Sharing test result status (00:34:27) Lifestyle cruises, takeovers and other high ‘volume’ events (00:36:44) Don’t ask, don’t tell (00:40:48) How often is often enough (00:45:36) Our eyes are open in this lifestyle…or are they? (00:47:40) Vaccinations and preventative medications (00:51:17) Testing at the same time vs staggering tests (00:53:09) Where to test and what they ask (00:55:49) An anal swab story (00:58:50) At home tests and discounts (01:00:30) Benefits of anonymity (01:01:18) Different STI’s are tested differently (01:02:08) Sharing positive test results with partners (01:03:50) Join PnC and tell us what you think - Invite Code 2plus2
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| Ep 27: The Swinger Snuggle Struggle: Call the Cuddle Play or Punt and Run | 25 Jun 2025 | 01:03:32 | |
In this episode, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany unpack the complex and often unspoken dynamics of post-play cuddling, reconnection, and reclaiming your partner. While the play may be over, what happens next—whether it’s a gentle caress, an awkward shuffle, or a full-on cuddle puddle—can bring up a surprising mix of emotions. The group explores why post-play intimacy, especially cuddling, can sometimes feel even more personal than the play itself, and how this moment can either strengthen connection or stir up unexpected discomfort. They open up about their own preferences—who likes to cuddle, who doesn’t, and why that might change from one encounter to the next. With thoughtful reflection, a dose of vulnerability, and plenty of laughter, the conversation stays honest and playful, even as it touches on some deeper or more taboo corners of lifestyle dynamics. This is one of those episodes that’s both real and relatable, full of nuance, self-awareness, and hilarious stories from the swingy side of life. Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) Determining when the play session is over (00:05:16) Choosing your own meaning (00:07:26) It’s an evolution (00:09:33) Lead up to play and post play similarities and differences (00:10:49) PDA with play partners (00:11:55) Jealousy can creep in (00:14:18) Sometimes it’s just easy (00:15:26) Determining when the play session is over (00:18:52) Cuddling or punting (00:20:56) It’s weird to see your partner cuddle someone else (00:24:38) It can feel very intimate (00:27:10) Stop touching me! (00:29:41) Fucking, sex and making love (00:33:58) Puppy piles and hot conversations (00:35:36) How long is too long? (00:38:55) When the play session is bad we don’t cuddle (00:40:49) That pussy’s mine (00:43:44) Replaying the highlight reel (00:46:38) The penis is a semen plunger (00:48:06) We didn’t follow the script! (00:51:29) Play sessions with a time constraint are exciting (00:54:37) Reconnection; reclamation (01:00:10) Oxytocin and sex We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at:hello@twoplustwopodcast.com | |||
| Ep 28: From Gen Z to AARP: All Swingers are Welcome! | 02 Jul 2025 | 00:54:18 | |
In this episode, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany dive into the nuanced world of age and attraction in the lifestyle. Drawing from their experiences navigating the age gaps within their own relationships, they explore how those differences influence confidence, chemistry, and connection. They ask the big questions: How young is too young? How old is too old? Along the way, they unpack the frustration of misleading online profiles and discuss generational differences in their attitudes about sex. From biology and instinct to fantasy and fulfillment, the conversation spans everything from the science behind our desires to the spark that can come from a significant age difference. Whether you're seasoned or just getting started, this candid and insightful discussion offers something for everyone curious about how age plays a role in the lifestyle. Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) She’s a cougar (00:03:41) Skewing older or younger (00:06:07) Age can be a limiting factor (00:07:17) I washed my hair for this? (00:10:43) Representing yourself honestly (00:11:23) They’ve gotta be legal (00:13:48) We don’t discriminate (00:16:00) Largest LS age demographic (00:19:00) Younger generation is more fluid (00:21:03) Is free love coming back? (00:23:49) Age and online profiles (00:28:16) Stacy’s mom (00:30:07) Is it age or is it maturity? (00:33:42) I was fishing in the wrong pond (00:35:10) It’s biological (00:37:45) A teenager’s fantasy (00:41:23) With age comes confidence and that’s attractive (00:43:29) We’re in the sweet spot (00:47:59) Fantasies revolve around novelty (00:49:32) What the hell is going on with Brittany? (00:50:12) I’ll be your home run (00:53:28)I It’s all a fantasy and age is part of it We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: | |||
| Ep 29: Swinger Getaways: Trippin’ with Vampires and Ranking the Rides | 09 Jul 2025 | 01:07:54 | |
In this tantalizing travel episode, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany bare it all—well, at least metaphorically—as they sink their teeth into the steamy world of lifestyle vacations. From sultry swinger cruises to resort romps that promised more than they delivered, the hosts dish on the highs, the lows, and the downright “what were we thinking?” moments of their past getaways. With plenty of laughs and more than a few playful jabs, the crew compares notes on their favorite bites—err, nights—and reveals what really gets their fangs out when it comes to group travel. They don’t hold back on sharing tips for event hosts (consider it a little tough love with a leather twist), and they offer advice for fresh vampires trying to navigate the buffet of lifestyle trips without getting burned. Whether you’re looking to book your first seductive escape or just enjoy the vicarious thrills, this episode will leave you thirsty for more… and maybe booking your next room with a mirror on the ceiling. Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) How energy impacts your experience (00:06:47) Volume of people and variety of activities (00:08:20) Shared arrival and departure days (00:10:23) Seizing opportunities (00:11:57) Spontaneity vs planned meetups (00:14:49) Fishing with a harpoon vs a net (00:18:28) Two Plus Two therapy (00:20:11) Take sex out of it….what?!?! (00:24:01) Feeling trapped (00:26:04) Endless sun and loud music (00:27:50) Party barge or RV equivalent (00:29:24) Pussy floss and sugar babies (00:36:48) Those dirty swingers (00:38:13) Being outed on an LS trip (00:39:31) Being ‘in public’ on a lifestyle vacation (00:44:00) Staff and dining options (00:49:01) Accommodations matter (00:51:52) Come see us at Scarlet Ranch in August (00:52:45) Onsite play (00:57:20) The ‘perfect’ lifestyle vacation (00:59:38) What the hell are you talking about? (01:01:38) Understanding and crafting your best experiences (01:06:05) Two Plus Two Crew in Europe We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: | |||
| Ep 30: Sexy Swinger Confessions: Yay, Nay, May, or Oh, I’ve Played Round 2 | 16 Jul 2025 | 01:00:51 | |
The vampires are back for another bite of bold truths and tantalizing tales in Round Two of “Yay, Nay, May, or Oh, I’ve Played.” This time, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany sink their teeth into an even naughtier menu of topics—sex swings, butt plugs, hair pulling, ball gags, flogging, virtual hookups, public escapades, and glory holes. No kink is safe and no secret stays buried for long. Fueled by Josie’s dangerously delicious espresso martinis—swiftly followed by a round of lemon drops (aka “truth serum”)—Brittany is in rare, unfiltered form, letting the confessions fly and dragging the rest of the crew right into the tease. Between bursts of laughter and a few jaw-dropping reveals, these vampires discover that a well-timed cocktail can turn a hard ‘nay’ into a very eager ‘yay.’ Expect unexpected switches, sultry surprises, and a few spicy schemes that have Zack and Brad reconsidering their safe words. From playful spanks to public peeks, this episode is dripping with double meanings and delightfully dirty details that might just inspire listeners to find a swing—or a flogger—of their own. Naughty, nosy, and deliciously unfiltered—just the way these vampires like it. Sink your teeth in and see where you land: yay, nay, may… or oh, you’ve played. Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) Round Two! Will it be as popular as the first? (00:02:16) Sex swings…thanks for the espresso martini! (00:08:04) Sex, errrr, I mean yoga chairs (00:11:23) Butt plugs…I stuck a finger up your ass and you didn’t like it (00:18:16) Hair pulling…I like it rough (00:22:26) Ball gags…bring out the Gimp! (00:27:37) A rabbit hole about flogging (00:34:00) Josie’s fantasy about St. Andrews Cross changes the boys’ answers (00:40:46) Virtual sex and recording play sessions (00:48:06) Public sex in playrooms; voyeurism and exhibitionism (00:54:48) Glory holes We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: | |||
| Ep 31: The Sweet Side of Swinging: Fantastic Friends and Naughty Nights | 23 Jul 2025 | 00:52:52 | |
Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany sink their teeth into another juicy topic—friendship. In this episode, your favorite swingers share all the complexities that come with lifestyle friendships—from the deep, delicious bonds that form when playmates become true friends to the challenges that level of closeness can create. They discuss whether it’s hotter to unwrap new treats or savor familiar bites. They tease apart whether playing with friends keeps the sparks flying or risks making those late nights feel like déjà screw. From sexy secrets to group getaways, they swap stories about making memories on the road—and in the sheets—without limiting opportunities for new play experiences. But even the undead aren’t immune to heartbreak. The Two Plus Two Crew opens up about losing a close lifestyle friend and why those goodbyes can cut deeper than fangs ever could. So pour a glass, cozy up, and let these four remind you why, in the vampire coven of swinging, friends really do come first. Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) Does friendship enhance or hinder the play experience? (00:04:21) Play experiences shouldn’t feel repetitive…we’re not poly (00:08:35) We don’t have sex all the time, but spoiler alert…when we do, it’s fucking hot (00:09:10) Some relationships are deeper, more authentic (00:13:02) Are close relationships a double edged sword? (00:15:47) What makes a sexual relationship a FWB relationship?(00:18:57) Keeping friendships sexy (00:22:27) Lifestyle trips with friends and debriefing in the Sapphire Lounge (00:27:09) Vampire reunions at Desire (00:31:43) Challenges with traveling or going as a group (00:36:21) Receiving judgment from your friends (00:39:29) Communicating and setting expectations (00:42:48) Connect with us on Peaches’nCream: Invite code 2plus2 (00:43:53) Vulnerability, trust and deep relationships (00:47:51) The devastation of losing a close friend (00:50:12) The naked girl at The Sweet Spot We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: hello@twoplustwopodcast.com | |||
| Ep 32: Swinger Confessions: When the Fangs Came Out… and So Did Josie | 30 Jul 2025 | 00:59:34 | |
Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany bare it all—again—in this deliciously unexpected tale of how one round of Yay, Nay, May or Oh, I’ve Played turned into Josie’s first taste of girl-on-girl fun. Your favorite vampires spill every juicy detail about how a couple of espresso martinis, a few lemon drops, and four best friends in a flirtatious mood brewed up the perfect concoction for a night of naughtiness no one saw coming—especially Josie, who’s always been adamant she was only into men. When the fangs came out and the clothes came off, everyone found themselves feasting on the moment, savoring a completely surreal play session so organic and electric it rocketed straight to the top of their all-time naughty list. For once, even Zack’s mind stopped spinning long enough for him to soak it all in—every moan, every bite, every surprise twist. So pour yourself a martini (or three) and listen in as the Two Plus Two Crew relives the night Josie discovered how fun a little girl-on-girl action —with the right woman can be. After all, when vampires mix martinis with mischief, no one’s safe from temptation. Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) A little teaser… (00:01:29) Flashback to a conversation we had before we recorded our last episode (00:03:03) Back to the present… (00:04:32) Espresso and lemon drop martinis…the magic combo for naughtiness (00:06:09) That’s when her clothes came off (00:08:30) It turned into a M.A.S.H. unit triage (00:09:19) It just felt organic (00:10:18) We were like the Three Stooges running around setting things up (00:12:39) Brittany goes down on Josie (00:15:06) Sunday Fun Day (00:17:17) Zack’s role in Josie’s experience was very surreal (00:19:39) Why it worked even though it was not a decision we made together (00:20:53) What just happened? (00:21:45) I was almost as surprised as you! (00:23:19) Best foursome by definition I’ve ever had (00:25:34) It was all gas, no brakes (00:28:11) I know what to do with this (00:29:20) There’s one more thing (00:30:32) What does this mean for me? (00:31:53) Vampire evolution (00:33:59) There doesn’t have to be a label on it (00:35:06) What the lifestyle is all about [for Zack and Josie] (00:37:11) When your motives for getting in may be selfish (00:39:13) A different kind of growth (00:42:25) Breaking the seal (00:45:22) I made you squeal (00:46:19) Zack’s big ‘O’ and Brittany’s booty (00:48:46) Sometimes we get in our own way(00:50:13) Being structured vs go with the flow (00:55:32) What makes going ‘off script’ work (00:56:25) From our listeners (00:57:28) Join the conversation on PnC…Invite Code 2plus2 (00:58:46) Parting thoughts on our impromptu play session We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: hello@twoplustwopodcast.com | |||
| Ep 34: Drinking in the Swinging Lifestyle: Highs, Lows and the Social Flow | 13 Aug 2025 | 00:57:00 | |
In this week’s steamy episode, your favorite sexy vampires — Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany — sink their teeth into a spirited conversation about booze, buzzes, and bedroom bites. From liquid courage to THC-tinged tingles, they bare all about how their drinking and indulging habits have evolved over time. The coven shares tales of blurry playdates they wish they could sink their fangs into again (if only they could remember them), the shame hangovers that bite harder than any hickey, and the sweet spot between loosening up and losing control. They debate the seductive dangers of “beer goggles,” sip on their differences over whether next-morning regrets are really regrets at all, and dish out bite-sized tips for keeping your pleasure high without going off the deep end. Whether you’re a teetotaler or a tipsy temptress, this episode is a potent cocktail of honesty, humor, and just enough bite to leave you thirsty for more. Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) It’s just social lubrication (00:01:46) Our alcohol consumption has ebbed and flowe d (00:04:28) Relying on a substance to enjoy the lifestyle (00:05:13) It can help slow racing thoughts (00:05:59) Not remembering things due to consumption (00:07:24) No one wants to be ‘that guy’ (00:09:16) Guilt and shame associated with drinking too much (00:12:46) There is a place for alcohol in the lifestyle (00:14:24) Brad’s dance juice (00:17:05) Is ‘needing’ alcohol okay? (00:18:17) Personal boundaries for consumption (00:21:28) Using CBD and THC for social anxiety (00:23:31) Some our best sex has been on THC (00:27:03) How much is too much? (00:31:12) Stopping yourself when you start to feel it (00:35:01) Consent can be tricky when alcohol is involved (00:37:46) Interacting with people who are under the influence (00:40:54) Getting out of Mommy Mode (00:42:00) Keeping sex top of mind may keep consumption low (00:44:25) Image and opinions when you drink too much or don’t drink at all (00:46:30) Strategies for staying hydrated and drinking less (00:47:43) Picking play partners with your beer goggles on (00:51:22) To regret or not to regret? (00:54:49) Takeaways We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: | |||
| Ep 33: Swinger Communication: Flirty, Thirsty & Respectful | 06 Aug 2025 | 00:46:57 | |
Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany bare their feelings and share their experiences in this episode all about the fine art of letting your partner know you’d like a taste—without sinking your teeth in too deep. They tackle the tricky balance of sharing just how interested you are in a potential play partner, while keeping things sweet, sexy, and respectful for your life partner. Is it better to spill your level of thirst up front, or does that just stir up trouble? Should you play it cool or let your excitement show? And how does that honesty land differently for him versus her? The Two Plus Two Crew unwraps how they navigate these sticky moments—where sharing can build trust or accidentally bruise an ego. They get vulnerable as they discuss: Do you even know how much you’re into someone if you’ve only sized them up from across the bar? Does your partner’s vibe turn your heat up—or cool you down? And what happens when someone’s just a little too eager to pounce? Pour a drink, sharpen those fangs, and join your favorite vampires as they reveal how they keep communication flowing, the jealousy at bay, and the spark alive—without ever crossing the line from flirty to fatal. Support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) Fuckable or not (00:02:42) It’s just a code word (00:04:35) Brad considers Brittany’s potential interest first (00:06:16) What is an appropriate level of interest to communicate to your partner? (00:09:01) Being too excited can turn your partner off (00:12:29) Does your partner’s interest influence your personal choice? (00:15:25) Does your partner’s interest in someone turn you on or off? (00:18:37) Why don’t we have more transparency? (00:21:58) Creating comparisons and feeling insecure (00:24:29) Expressing a high level of interest can be a positive (00:27:57) Never say, ‘hell yes’ (00:30:26) A new strategy! (00:32:39) We continue to evolve (00:38:14) Does sharing your level of interest matter? (00:40:45) ‘Rating’ scales can be useful (00:43:21) Connect with us online and in person (00:45:44) This conversation has been illuminating We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: hello@twoplustwopodcast.com | |||
| Ep 36: Fangs vs. Fiction: Myths, Mischief & the Truth About Swingers | 27 Aug 2025 | 01:02:14 | |
In this episode, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany sink their teeth into nine of the most common myths about the swinging lifestyle. From the idea that swingers are just “sex-obsessed commitment-phobes” to the belief that every event is one giant orgy, the hosts pull back the velvet curtain and reveal what really happens when vampires come out to play. With humor, honesty, and a few cheeky double takes, they bust misconceptions that scare off the curious and confuse the vanillas. Whether you’re a newbie, considering the lifestyle, or just love a good myth-busting session, this episode proves that swinging isn’t all about sex—it’s about connection, communication, and maybe just a little bit of delicious mischief. JOIN US in 2026 on the Bliss Cruise in February or at Naughty Nawlins and support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Please do us a favor and visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) Swingers and baby oil (00:02:05) Myth One: Swingers are just sex obsessed people who can’t commit (00:03:45) Maybe we’re just more open about sex (00:05:54) We commit to exploring our sexuality (00:08:52) We can see why vanillas believe this myth (00:10:32) Myth Two: Swinging is just cheating with permission (00:14:26) Myth Three: Swinger events are just wild sex orgies (00:17:04) The image vs the reality (00:20:56) Playroom etiquette and orgies (00:22:50) Myth Four: Once you swing your relationship is doomed (00:24:43) You can try the lifestyle and later change your mind (00:26:41) The lifestyle can mean different things to different people (00:28:59) Myth Five: Women are pressured into the lifestyle to please their husbands (00:31:42) Men may be more likely to bring the topic up (00:34:52) It gave the women permission to explore the idea (00:37:25) Success in the lifestyle is all about your resources (00:39:47) Myth Six: Swingers will hit on you anywhere (00:41:11) Every swinger needs a ‘how we met’ cover story (00:45:48) How vanillas react when they find out you’re swingers (00:46:23) Myth Seven: Swinging is only for couples (00:47:57) Myth Eight: Swingers are never jealous or insecure (00:51:36) What we’re thinking as we look around in a group of swingers (00:53:36) Missed opportunities occur with lack of communication (00:54:32) Why this misconception may exist (00:55:12) Myth Nine: The lifestyle is all about sex (00:57:41) If it’s not all about sex, what is it about? We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: | |||
| Ep 35: The Swinger’s Guide to Flirting & Creating Connections | 20 Aug 2025 | 00:59:43 | |
In this episode, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany sink their teeth into the playful, pulse-quickening art of flirting in the lifestyle. From subtle glances to sizzling banter, the foursome shares their favorite ways to spark interest—whether one-on-one or as a perfectly in-sync team. They explore the idea of a “flirt language” and how it compares to love languages, all while keeping that all-important four-way chemistry alive. With tips on mirroring your partner, striking while the iron’s hot, and blending business-savvy confidence with bedroom charm, these sexy vampires prove that flirting isn’t just foreplay—it’s a skill worth mastering. Plus, they bite into the pros and cons of teasing over text versus turning up the heat in person. JOIN US in 2026 on the Bliss Cruise in February or at Naughty Nawlins and support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Please do us a favor and visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) Anticipation of what may cum (00:04:01) Flirting ‘techniques’ (00:07:10) Giving compliments without an agenda (00:12:24) Flirting in your love language…that wasn’t the question (00:15:33) Being flirted with in the way you flirt with others (00:18:59) Flirting is tedious to a degree (00:20:07) Flirting as an individual while keeping the four way connection in mind (00:21:47) Dynamics of flirting in the lifestyle as couples (00:23:55) When the women start things it’s easier for the men (00:26:06) Mirror your partner’s actions (00:28:19) Girls are flirting, but your partner’s not interested (00:30:11) Tag team flirting…it’s an art (00:33:49) The lifestyle is very similar to business (00:36:32) There are lots of ways to approach the lifestyle (00:39:57) Playing to our strengths to create opportunities (00:44:08) Assertiveness plays a role and is situational (00:49:34) Striking while the iron is hot (00:52:08) Flirting over text vs in person (00:56:00) Takeaways
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| Ep 37: From Forgettable to Fang-tastic: Crafting Your Swinger Brand | 03 Sep 2025 | 00:55:22 | |
This week, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany sink their fangs into a topic every lifestyle couple needs to hear—how to step up your game in and out of the bedroom. From first impressions that make her decide “yes” or “no” in ten seconds flat, to why looking like you “phoned it in” could cost you more than a date, the hosts share playful but practical advice for both husbands and wives on standing out for all the right reasons. With cheeky metaphors and plenty of flirty banter, they remind vampires that authenticity, effort, and a little polish go a long way toward making connections—and earning repeat invitations. Whether you’re new to the scene or a seasoned swinger, this episode proves that with a few tweaks, you can go from being a commodity to an unforgettable brand… and maybe even become the one everyone wants to sink their teeth into. JOIN US in 2026 on the Bliss Cruise in February or at Naughty Nawlins and support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Please do us a favor and visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) Top Tips for Lifestyle Husbands (00:02:33) It feels like some men just phone it in (00:04:42) A thought experiment (00:06:33) Lack of care in appearance may carry into the bedroom (00:08:05) It only takes 10 seconds for her to decide it’s a ‘no’ (00:10:25) You may develop a reputation…make it a good one! (00:11:26) Being a product vs a commodity (00:14:02) Spider monkey (00:15:21) What is a brand and where do you convey (explain, portray) (00:18:35) First impressions and attractions (00:20:56) Attracting attention and being authentic (00:23:48) Authenticity can be scary (00:26:21) Real people make the lifestyle more rewarding (00:28:40) Showing your authentic self can take time for various reasons (00:32:15) Performance and improving your skills (00:36:33) Being responsive is a skill and is easier with an expressive partner (00:42:50) Why we created Two Plus Two (00:48:29) Your ticket to having more fun (00:50:13) The homework assignment (00:52:34) Small tweaks may produce better results (00:54:00) Join us on PnC, on the journey and on a trip! We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: | |||
| Ep 38: Swinger Etiquette: Red Flags, Green Flags & Rabbit Holes | 10 Sep 2025 | 00:56:12 | |
This week, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany sink their teeth into one of the most talked-about topics in the lifestyle: red flags. And this time, it’s not just their own perspectives—they’re debating the warning signs shared by listeners on Peaches’nCream. From couples who feel like “fresh meat,” to partners who aren’t on the same page, to those misleading photos (or no photos at all), the crew unpacks the signals that can make or break a connection. But it’s not all caution tape—there are plenty of green flags, too, from inclusivity to empowerment and stretching comfort zones. With playful banter, candid stories, and just enough bite, this episode will leave you laughing, nodding along, and maybe rethinking your own approach to the lifestyle. JOIN US in 2026 on the Bliss Cruise in February or at Naughty Nawlins and support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Please do us a favor and visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) We asked our listeners (00:02:29) Red Flag 1: We are new and feel like ‘fresh meat’ (00:04:41) Being inclusive is more fun for everyone (00:07:00) Red Flag 2: Disrespecting their own partner (00:08:48) When one partner isn’t ‘into it’ and needs to drink to play (00:10:46) Red Flag 3: Too much attention can be a turn off (00:12:10) Red Flag 4: Name dropping (00:15:54) Red Flag 5: Misleading or just missing photos…of him (00:17:17) Meeting virtually before an in-person meeting (00:21:04) Sunday night booty call (00:24:16) Everyone gets to do it their way (00:25:00) Green flags! (00:30:16) Expanding your comfort zone boundaries (00:33:00) Sexual liberation and empowerment (00:35:30) Talking about erections before a play session (00:40:29) When the dick shot doesn’t work (00:43:50) Sexual liberation and penis evolution (00:45:18) Red Flag 6: When couples or singles start messaging outside the group chat (00:45:42) Hooking up with someone of the same sex without your partner’s consent (00:48:29) Red Flag 6 may not a red flag for everyone (00:54:06) Join the conversation on Peaches’nCream! We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: hello@twoplustwopodcast.com | |||
| Ep 40: More Than Sex: The Unexpected Benefits of Swinging | 24 Sep 2025 | 00:59:09 | |
Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany explore all the delicious perks of the lifestyle that go far beyond the playroom. From the intoxicating energy of a Bliss event to the thrill of dressing up and letting desire set the tone, these playful vampires share how swinging fuels confidence, deepens connection, and sparks sexual liberation. It’s proof that sometimes the sweetest bites are found in the moments between the sheets. JOIN US in 2026 on the Bliss Cruise in February or at Naughty Nawlins and support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Please do us a favor and visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) How most couples define success in the lifestyle (00:01:46) Benefits from Bliss other than playing (00:03:30) If you’re considering the lifestyle, this is for you (00:07:00) You can be yourself (00:08:01) There’s great energy (00:08:40) There’s warm and comforting, yet also anxious energy (00:09:25) The razor’s edge between anxiety and excitement (00:10:51) Reframing and resetting expectations (00:11:24) Anticipation instead of expectations (00:11:44) A sexual atmosphere is important (00:13:06) Bliss group play room (00:15:24) Bliss Dance ‘n Play (00:18:17) Redefining success (00:19:44) Zack enjoys voyeurism (00:23:18) Josie is more comfortable watching porn than live action (00:25:10) Scarlet Ranch group playroom (00:27:29) Better and more fun vacations (00:29:48) Giving up control and feeling youthful (00:32:30) Dressing in theme and feeling sexy (00:35:18) Comments are welcomed in the lifestyle (00:38:15) If you like it try it, be who you want to be (00:40:32) Pump up your volume! (00:42:47) Increased confidence through self expression (00:45:00) Fake it ‘til you make it (00:48:06) Squeeze every benefit out of every event (00:49:25) Exposure to new ideas or kinks (00:53:35) Experiences, exploration, liberation, communication (00:56:00) Deeper, more connected relationships (00:57:32) The lifestyle community is very accepting
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| Ep 39: Swinging Isn’t Judgment-Free (And That’s a Good Thing) | 17 Sep 2025 | 00:56:12 | |
In this episode, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany break down why judgment isn’t always a dirty word—it’s simply part of deciding what (and who) makes you tingle. These playful vampires of the mic aren’t here to drain the fun—they’re teasing apart why “judgment-free” might be more fantasy than fact. From judging to being judged, they share stories of decisions (not damnations), kinks that don’t quite fit, and the delicate dance of acceptance versus attraction. Whether you’re an introvert, extrovert, or somewhere in between, this conversation proves that a little judgment can be just as sexy as it is honest. JOIN US in 2026 on the Bliss Cruise in February or at Naughty Nawlins and support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Please do us a favor and visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) Is the lifestyle really judgment free (00:04:10) Judgment defined (00:05:39) An example of judgment (00:06:16) Why the topic of judgment came up(00:09:12) Digging on use of the word and why we use it (00:11:06) Politics and other musings (00:13:27) Not less judgmental just more accepting (00:14:58) Salted Caramel Cookie and Swappertunity69 (00:16:08) Tell me more about that (00:18:13) Replace ‘judgment’ with ‘decisions’ (00:19:54) Kinks and preferences that aren’t our own (00:21:35) Kink vs lifestyle vs swingers (00:24:02) Judgment and the feelings judgment creates (00:28:14) Ways to handle feeling judged (00:31:43) Being accepting doesn’t auto translate to fucking (00:33:12) Introverts and extroverts experience the lifestyle differently (00:38:05) Common perceptions of introverts vs extroverts (00:41:36) A potential strategy for introverts (00:42:37) Judgments we’ve each made (00:49:57) Trust and transparency is valuable to us (00:54:17) Share your opinions with us on Peaches’nCream We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: | |||
| Ep 41: Bisexuality in Swinging: Barriers Broken, Desires Awakened | 01 Oct 2025 | 01:00:35 | |
This week, the vampires sink their teeth into something a little different. Zack and Josie cozy up with their irresistible friends Luke and Rickie—an erotica author with a wicked imagination and her equally adventurous partner—whom they first met under the sultry moonlight of Desire Riviera Maya. Together, they peel back the velvet curtain on their journey into the lifestyle, from sizzling first encounters to the thrills (and giggles) of bi-comfortable play. No topic is off-limits as the conversation winds through pegging, prostate pleasure, DVP, and the deliciously complicated dance of desire when all four partners are fully in sync. Along the way, Luke and Rickie bare the truth about bisexuality, breaking down the double standards that paint men and women so differently, and revealing just how freeing it can be to embrace the unexpected. Whether you’re curious about crossing boundaries or just love eavesdropping on sexy, candid stories, this episode offers both a bite of wisdom and a taste of naughtiness. Even if you’re not looking to go bi, you’ll find yourself enthralled—and maybe just a little tempted. JOIN US in 2026 on the Bliss Cruise in February or at Naughty Nawlins and support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Please do us a favor and visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) Introducing our guests, Luke and Rickie (00:02:32) Erotica…a gateway to the lifestyle (00:05:28) It all started with Vegas (00:07:59) We were like scared children experiencing our first house party (00:09:18) We went all in (00:10:48) I’m a heterosexual man but enjoy the pleasure of another man (00:14:07) The complexity and hypocrisy of bi men vs women (00:17:56) How the bisexual conversation started (00:20:07) I don’t want you to see me as less of a man (00:22:47) The evolution of lifestyle desires (00:26:32) Changing our beliefs is an evolution (00:28:42) The MM fantasy is on women’s minds (00:30:04) It’s only enjoyable for me if you also find it enjoyable (00:32:57) Strap-ons, prostate orgasms and stigmas (00:36:09) She has the hormones of a teenaged boy (00:37:31) Helping inexperienced couples explore bisexuality (00:40:05) Removing barriers to foursome play (00:44:03) DVP took my orgasm to a level 10 (00:48:43) Fun foursomes; condoms and bisexual play (00:52:41) Orgasms and controlling squirting (00:56:18) Putting less significance on the orgasm can make it easier to orgasm
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| Ep 43: From FF Fire to Full Swap Desire: One Couple’s Journey | 15 Oct 2025 | 00:56:34 | |
This week, the vampires turn down the lights and turn up the honesty. Zack and Josie welcome Stone and Selene, a couple who first stepped into the lifestyle so Selene could explore her attraction to women. What began as a soft spark of curiosity evolved into a full swap journey—complete with steamy firsts, emotional growth, and plenty of delicious self-discovery. Stone opens up about his own inner work—navigating the envy and insecurity that came with watching Selene experience pleasure with another man. Their story isn’t about drama or broken trust; it’s about personal reflection, emotional courage, and a deeply supportive partnership. With Selene by his side, Stone learned how shifting beliefs can unlock new levels of connection and play. From FF encounters to unforgettable threesomes (and that oh-so-important “who’s in the middle?” moment), this episode is a reminder that real growth can be just as sexy as the play itself. JOIN US in 2026 on the Bliss Cruise in February or at Naughty Nawlins and support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Please do us a favor and visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) Selene finally shared with Stone that she wanted to explore women (00:04:11) Stone supported Selene in FF but didn’t think it included him (00:05:57) Selene’s first FF experience (00:09:02) Their first threesome (00:12:17) With threesomes the question is who’s in the middle? (00:14:08) Their favorite threesome position…it’ll make you hot! (00:17:27) Bliss was their first lifestyle experience (00:20:18) Selene’s mindset shift changed her experience (00:23:14) Being a little naughty was her favorite thing (00:25:20) The first time she had sex with a man other than Stone (00:28:24) Selene had to work through her feelings (00:31:18) A supportive spouse makes a huge difference (00:34:02) He was handsome and he fucked her brains out (00:36:28) It was fun but it was difficult to work through the feelings (00:39:06) Stone had to stop the play session and that can be hard (00:40:54) He had to go to work on himself (00:42:50) He felt insecure and had a lot of feelings to work through (00:44:19) Reframing experiences and changing core beliefs (00:46:08) Selene was heartbroken watching Stone struggle (00:48:28) Brad and Brittany helped them turn a corner in couples play (00:50:44) Judgment around number of play partners (00:53:14) Reconnection sex is the hottest sex (00:54:39) These are normal feelings
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| Ep 42: Swinger Buzzkills & Bedroom Thrills: Listener Pet Peeves | 08 Oct 2025 | 00:56:32 | |
This week, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany dive into the little turn-offs that can make a big difference in the lifestyle. From endless talkers who don’t know when to zip it, to naughty pics that miss the mark, to distracted dates and space-invading flirts, the hosts share their own pet peeves while weighing in on those shared by listeners. Playful, cheeky, and just a touch wicked, this episode proves that sometimes the sexiest sparks come from knowing what not to do. JOIN US in 2026 on the Bliss Cruise in February or at Naughty Nawlins and support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Please do us a favor and visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) We asked our listeners (00:01:53) People who dominate the conversation (00:07:10) Good listeners may be more responsive in play sessions (00:08:21) Dick pics (00:11:50 ) It’s a numbers game (00:12:48) Naked Man - flashback to Episode 9 at 00:32:00 (00:15:47) Pussy pics (00:16:15) Pics the ladies find sexy (00:18:04) Ignoring DM’s, ghosting and communication etiquette (00:23:39) Distracted dates (00:25:54) Cock shock collars and pocket pussies (00:26:19) Halitosis and smoking (00:31:38) Interrupting closed conversations (00:36:06) Lifestyle culture (00:38:36) Posers (00:39:30) Personal space (00:40:43) Being too handsy or overly friendly (00:43:12) Women may view interactions differently than men (00:48:50) Difficulty talking about having sex with potential partners (00:52:14) Talking yourself out of a play session when you know too much (00:55:02) Future podcast topic…join the conversation on Peaches’nCream
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| Ep 45: Love, Trust, and the Lifestyle: How Swinging Can Make or Break Your Relationship | 29 Oct 2025 | 00:56:26 | |
This week, the Two Plus Two Crew gets real about one of the lifestyle’s biggest questions — can swinging actually make your relationship stronger? Zack and Josie open up about what it was like being in the lifestyle during their previous marriages — how they got into it, where things went wrong, and what they’ve learned since. They share how, through their evolution in the lifestyle together, their marriage has grown through honesty, vulnerability, and countless deep conversations about what truly matters. Brad and Brittany bring their own experiences to the table, sharing insecurities and insights that couples everywhere can relate to. Together, the crew explores how men and women often see the lifestyle through different lenses — and how those differences can either pull you apart or bring you closer. From trust and transparency to authenticity and acceptance, they reveal how the lifestyle can strengthen your bond — if you’re willing to put in the work (and maybe bare a little more than just your bodies). Because when you can show up fully as yourself — love yourself — and be loved for it, that’s when your relationship truly comes alive. JOIN US in 2026 on the Bliss Cruise in February or at Naughty Nawlins and support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Please do us a favor and visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) Lifestyle 1.0 didn’t go so well (00:03:08) Josie was pressured into getting into the lifestyle (00:05:33) Zack and his wife at the time were both in agreement to try it (00:09:39) Brad’s first brush with the lifestyle (00:11:02) We found other swingers on Craigslist (00:12:41) We weren’t in supportive marriages (00:14:26) The intimacy wasn’t like it is for us now (00:15:48) I feel more drawn to Josie than I am to you (00:18:23) Keeping things from going down a wrong path (00:20:14) We feared the lifestyle for a long time (00:22:32) Lifestyle 2.0 is much better (00:25:50) We know what it feels like to catch feelings (00:27:41) Trust and open communication helps your relationship grow (00:28:27) Friends with benefits vs one and done (00:30:14) Strong couples make playing more comfortable for the girls (00:33:56) How the lifestyle benefits your relationship (00:36:04) Men’s brains and women’s brains are very different (00:40:50) Revealing all of yourself to your partner (00:42:57) Lifestyle related arguments help you dig deep (00:45:11) Your partner helps give you confidence to be yourself (00:47:17) Supporting your partner (00:49:18) Trust is small promises kept repeatedly over time (00:54:02) We’re able to work through things faster now (00:55:39) If you think you can or you think you can’t, you’re right We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: hello@twoplustwopodcast.com | |||
| Ep 44: Swingers Kiss and Tell: Group Play Getaway | 22 Oct 2025 | 00:58:09 | |
This week, the Two Plus Two Crew is back together, and things are getting deliciously crowded. Brad and Brittany are fully in their element, fresh from a steamy mountain takeover weekend with 16 lifestyle friends and plenty of spicy stories to share. Meanwhile, Zack and Josie open up about a night they didn’t see coming: their first threesome and a group play twist that left their hearts racing and pulses quickening. From Brittany’s shibari fantasy coming to life to the electric thrill of meeting new play partners and feeling that spark catch fire, this episode dives deep into the sexy, messy, and unforgettable moments that make group play so intoxicating. Consider this your invitation to the after-dark gathering where communication, connection, and curiosity collide. One taste… and you may not want to leave. JOIN US in 2026 on the Bliss Cruise in February or at Naughty Nawlins and support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Please do us a favor and visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) Welcome back to the studio, Brad & Brittany! (00:02:24) Group play is our jam (00:03:06) Group play challenges and nerves (00:06:31) 18 people in one house for three days (00:09:16) Conveying interest when and how (00:11:50) It was my turn to be tied up (00:15:05) Envy and communicating interest to your partner (00:18:52) Initiating group play (00:22:31) We turned into exhibitionists (00:24:19) Our first ‘threesome’ (00:27:24) It was unexpected, new and exciting (00:30:07) And now there were five (00:33:47) Getting consent during play…verbal vs visual (00:37:15) Group play in place of a four way connection (00:38:08) Communication with your partner is key (00:40:52) ‘Same’ party, different outcome…we were intentional (00:43:29) Challenges with communicating interest to your partner (00:44:39) Putting the right group of people together for play (00:48:04) Taking time to reflect on play experiences and recuperate (00:51:08) Some group play experiences get your motor running (00:52:00) Parties coming up (00:53:34) Taking care of your relationship is most important (00:54:31) Looking forward to our next group play experience We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: hello@twoplustwopodcast.com | |||
| Ep 47: Premature Evacuation – Loving, Laughing, and Learning in the Swinger Lifestyle | 12 Nov 2025 | 01:01:22 | |
This week, the Two Plus Two Crew tackles a playful term with some serious depth — premature evacuation. No, not that kind — we’re talking about those moments when play ends earlier than planned and all the emotions that can come with it. Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany open up about the messy, human side of swinging — from people-pleasing and communication breakdowns to triggers and shame. Josie shares a few personal experiences that highlight how past trauma can resurface in unexpected ways, and the group talks candidly about how to give ourselves and our partners grace when those moments happen. They dig into the importance of being honest with ourselves, clear with our partners, and compassionate with our playmates — because no one can read our minds, no matter how in sync we think we are. The Crew also shares tips for better communication and staying connected even when things don’t go as planned. Of course, there are still plenty of laughs — at each other’s expense and their own — as they explore how the lifestyle continues to challenge, teach, and strengthen their relationships. JOIN US in 2026 on the Bliss Cruise in February or at Naughty Nawlins and support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Please do us a favor and visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) What is premature evacuation? (00:02:09) A traumatic play experience (00:08:09) Nobody was doing anything wrong (00:10:24) Feeling shame for not self-advocating (00:19:24) Brad learns he has the perfect cock for anal (00:21:07) Other people aren’t aware of our triggers (00:23:26) There was no malicious intent (00:26:11) Listeners who become play partners (00:26:48) We don’t know what we don’t know (00:28:56) Evolving in the lifestyle (00:29:49) Some people will try to push your boundaries (00:34:39) Are we being instinctual or over critical? (00:37:39) Assessing potential play partners to ensure a positive experience (00:39:45) Positive or negative bias will impact your choices and decisions (00:43:44) Considering changing our approach to serve us better (00:46:37) Looking at your results and deciding whether you want to make changes (00:48:55) Comparing your own results with others you see in the lifestyle (00:50:22) Assessing our own risk tolerance (00:53:13) Making comparisons in the lifestyle (00:55:13) Getting out of your head and letting go (00:56:30) Holding one another back (01:00:16) Parting advice We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: | |||
| Ep 46: Swinger Therapy: Healing, Honesty, and Growth in the Lifestyle | 05 Nov 2025 | 00:58:58 | |
This week, Zack, Josie, and Brad welcome Mary — a licensed professional counselor with 13 years in the lifestyle alongside her husband. With a rare mix of professional insight and personal experience, Mary opens up about emotional awareness, connection, and the importance of taking care of yourself — and your relationship — while living the lifestyle. Mary shares her perspective on knowing when it might be time to step back and refocus on your partnership, and how the lifestyle can magnify both the challenges and the strengths within a relationship. Drawing from her trauma specialization, she discusses the four types of trauma, how they can quietly shape our lifestyle experiences, and why vulnerability and shame often show up where we least expect them. The conversation shines a light on the feelings many swingers experience but struggle to name — and offers a fresh, compassionate perspective on what it really means to grow together through honesty, self-awareness, and trust. As Mary put it best: there are many different kinds of therapy… and sometimes, the lifestyle can be one of them. JOIN US in 2026 on the Bliss Cruise in February or at Naughty Nawlins and support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Please do us a favor and visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) Mary has a different perspective as a trauma therapist who’s also in the lifestyle (00:02:44) Coming from a place of love or fear (00:04:21) Everyone is in the lifestyle they just don’t know it (00:05:28) Stumbling upon the lifestyle (00:07:25) Choosing to explore and grow instead of running in fear (00:10:37) My husband and I have 13 years of lifestyle experience (00:13:03) The impact trauma has on our lives and lifestyle journeys (00:15:35) Four types of trauma: betrayal, abandonment, rejection, and shame (00:17:00) Information overload and the direction society is moving in (00:21:05) Men and women think differently (00:24:11) Personality differences impact experiences, too (00:27:22) Is energy the same as attunement (00:30:30) The lifestyle will magnify any problems you have in your relationship (00:33:24) The biggest trauma trigger in the lifestyle is shame (00:35:49) Daily walks, communication and thought experiments (00:38:43) Tips to help couples better communicate (00:40:15) Self-advocacy and learning to speak up for yourself (00:41:47) How to know if you’re having ‘too much’ lifestyle (00:44:23) What to do when you feel triggered in a play session (00:48:34) Tips on taking care of yourselves and your relationship (00:49:43) When to seek counseling and how to find a good therapist (00:53:35) Nuggets of wisdom from Mary We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: Resources Lewis Howes’ Interview with Esther Perel Brene Brown’s Ted Talk on Shame - YouTube 2012 Dr. Brian Pennie’s interview with Dr. Gabor Mate, an expert on Trauma and Addiction BARS Acronym
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| Ep 48: STIs and the Swinger Lifestyle – Facts, Testing, and Trust | 19 Nov 2025 | 00:53:15 | |
This week, Zack, Josie, and Brad sit down with Callie — a Physician Assistant who works in the ER and has seen it all — to talk about one of the most important topics in the swinger lifestyle: sexual health. Callie breaks down what everyone in the lifestyle should know about STI prevention, testing, and risk management. She explains how your risk isn’t just about your behavior, but also the behavior of your partners — and why trust, responsibility, and regular testing are essential for keeping everyone safe. From women’s vaginal health and condom sensitivity to UTI prevention and the realities of unprotected oral sex, the conversation covers the practical side of pleasure. Callie also sheds light on HPV, how the vaccine has evolved, and how to approach testing — whether you test with your partner or alternate schedules. Throughout the episode, the Crew explores how understanding your own risk tolerance, staying informed, and choosing responsible play partners can make all the difference. Because in the lifestyle, good sexual health isn’t just about protection — it’s about connection, communication, and confidence. JOIN US in 2026 on the Bliss Cruise in February or at Naughty Nawlins and support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Please do us a favor and visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) Callie is a PA and has 10 years of ER experience (00:02:51) Fantasies - the gateway drug (00:04:00) Condom use is a personal choice but there are risks (00:06:49) This information is only an opinion and is not medical advice (00:07:30) Anal tissue is more easily broken down so risk of STI is higher with anal sex (00:08:29) Condoms and vaginal health (00:10:00) More facts about vaginas (00:11:11) Post menopausal vaginal decline, treatment and UTI prevention (00:13:40) Condom use can be frustrating for men (00:15:11) Oral sex and STI risks (00:16:35) Deep dive on HPV (00:19:39) The risks associated with oral vs vaginal sex are less severe (00:20:26) Difference between STI ‘ and STD’s (00:21:06) STI testing frequency and most common STI’s (00:23:05) Throat and anal swabs by request only (00:23:54) Most STI’s are asymptomatic so you have to test regularly (00:25:11) STI testing funnies (00:27:42) Testing frequency and alternating testing with your partner (00:30:00) The partners you choose may influence testing frequency (00:30:43) Sharing or asking for most recent test results (00:34:50) You should be testing for these STI’s (00:37:37) PREP (00:39:30) Doxy PEP (00:41:35) Prevention - condoms, regular testing, partners and substances (00:43:00) Drugs, alcohol and high risk activities (00:45:00) Gauging risk has a lot to do with the people and your intuition (00:46:48) Trimix (00:48:00) Stranger things…ER edition (00:50:46) Preventative vaccines and screenings Callie recommends (00:51:32) STI treatment app from CDC very helpful (00:52:02) USPSTF - United States Preventative Services Task Force We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: hello@twoplustwopodcast.com RESOURCES USPSTF Chlamydia and gonorrhea (Basics) Sexually transmitted infections (Basics) The five Ps: Partners, prevention of pregnancy, protection from STIs, practices, and past history of STIs | |||
| Ep 49: The Lifestyle Flake Factor: Ghosting, Excuses, and Awkward Truths | 26 Nov 2025 | 00:55:30 | |
In this week’s episode, hosts Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany dive into one of the most universally frustrating parts of the lifestyle: communication… or the lack of it. From last-minute confirmations that never come to couples who keep others dangling “just in case,” the crew unpacks the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways poor communication can waste time, strain friendships, and complicate connections. They explore why it feels so disrespectful when couples make plans but go silent when it’s time to confirm, and how annoying it is when someone breaks a commitment and then disappears—only to ask you to suggest a new time and never respond. The hosts also share their collective experience with a notoriously flaky couple whose repeated excuses have become a running theme in their local community. The conversation moves into whether people owe each other explanations when interest fades, or whether being honest only invites unnecessary drama. They also examine the sting of being ghosted by close friends, and the gray area where “ghosting” isn’t so clear—especially in a dynamic with multiple people, mismatched levels of interest, or partners who aren’t on the same page. Ultimately, the group acknowledges what everyone secretly knows: the lifestyle is awkward, interest is complicated, and communication between couples is hard. But understanding how these behaviors affect others—and recognizing the subjectivity of what counts as ghosting—can make navigating it all just a little easier. JOIN US in 2026 on the Bliss Cruise in February or at Naughty Nawlins and support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Please do us a favor and visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) The sizzle fizzle (00:02:23) The times when we’ve flaked or ghosted (00:04:02) Communication is great….then crickets! (00:05:55) Ranting about coordinating with people who are traveling (00:14:00) Speculating on why people may flake or ghost (00:16:34) Letting people know you’re not interested so they don’t wonder (00:17:42) A local couple with a reputation for expressing interest and not following through (00:22:24) The local lifestyle scene (00:26:38) Another rant about a gh osting scenario (00:29:12) Being honest about your true interest (00:31:00) Texting etiquette (00:34:26) When too much time passes between responses (00:38:00) Challenges in identifying and connecting with couples online (00:40:25) How honest should you be when breaking plans? (00:43:18) When friends ghost you (00:48:28) Ghosting is subjective and may not always be a bad thing (00:51:58) Be kind, honest, direct, respectful and don’t string people along We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: hello@twoplustwopodcast.com | |||
| Ep 50: Not Just the Bull: A Single Male’s Perspective on Connection and Complexity | 03 Dec 2025 | 00:48:22 | |
In this episode, hosts Zack, Josie, and Brad sit down with Ferdinand the bull, to explore the real, often-unspoken complexities of being a single male navigating ENM spaces. Ferdinand shares how he first entered the lifestyle at the encouragement of his then-wife, who never chose to participate herself. Now eight years, a divorce, and countless connections later, he finds himself at a crossroads: dating in the vanilla world while weighing whether he can—or should—remain in the lifestyle community he’s grown so deeply attached to. The hosts dig into the nuanced decisions single men face, including when to disclose lifestyle involvement to vanilla partners, and the unique blend of freedom, connection, and emotional intelligence that strong bulls cultivate. Ferdinand opens up about both the highs and the lows: the excitement of partnered experiences, the intimacy he builds with couples, and the loneliness being a bull can create. Together, they unpack the dynamics between bulls and couples, the financial realities of being a single male in lifestyle spaces, and the stereotypes that make forming genuine connections harder than most people realize. Ferdinand also offers grounded, experience-based advice for single men curious about entering the lifestyle—highlighting why assertiveness paired with respect is essential, and why aggression never works. This episode offers an honest look at what single men gain from the lifestyle that traditional dating can’t provide, and what it truly costs, emotionally and financially, to walk this path. JOIN US in 2026 on the Bliss Cruise in February or at Naughty Nawlins and support our podcast by booking your travel or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Please do us a favor and visit https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/ (00:00:00) Good luck Chuck (00:02:00) How I found the lifestyle (00:04:46) Friends with benefits (00:06:09) Being a bull in the lifestyle can be lonely (00:07:45) Evolving in the lifestyle over the last 8 years (00:08:50) Navigating the LS can be difficult and rejection is common (00:09:36) I shared my sexual experiences with my wife (00:10:17) Dating vanillas while you’re in the lifestyle (00:13:03) Benefits and drawbacks of being a bull (00:14:24) Bringing a new partner into the lifestyle (00:16:25) Favorite lifestyle events or activities (00:19:01) Advice for single males entering the lifestyle (00:22:33) The bull / couple dynamics (00:24:41) Lifestyle scenarios (00:29:39) Assumptions people make about bulls (00:33:07) What singles get out of the lifestyle (00:34:18) Addressing sexual orientation (00:36:05) I’m a good first experience for couples (00:37:02) Catching feelings (00:38:10) Being a bull is expensive (00:39:01) How they begin and how I conduct myself in play sessions (00:40:01) Communication and emotional intelligence (00:43:59) A good learning experience We'd love to connect with you! Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle! Available on the App Store and on Google Play. INVITE CODE: 2plus2 https://peachesncream.app/ Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie. Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at: hello@twoplustwopodcast.com | |||