Turns Out I'm Into It! – Details, episodes & analysis
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Turns Out I'm Into It!
Harley Rabbit
Frequency: 1 episode/9d. Total Eps: 89
Turns Out I’m Into It is your backstage pass to the world of kink—where curiosity is queen, shame is stripped away, and nothing is off-limits. Hosted by somatic sexologist Harley Rabbit, this podcast delves into the psychology of desire, exploring how BDSM, power dynamics, and play can unlock self-discovery, intimacy, and even healing.
From abduction fantasies to shibari, age play to non-monogamy, Harley serves up candid personal stories and juicy interviews with kink experts from around the globe. Whether you're a seasoned kinkster, a wide-eyed newbie, or just here for the naughty stories, this show will indulge your imagination, tickle your curiosity, and maybe—just maybe—have you whispering, turns out, I’m into it too!
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#66: Dipping Your Toe Into BDSM: Ideas for Beginners - with Jeanne Baade
mercredi 28 août 2024 • Duration 01:03:45
In this episode, I talk with Jeanne Baade, a sex and relationship coach who discovered her sexuality later in life after growing up in a conservative christian household. Jeanne shares how she first experienced a clitoral orgasm at 48, and her journey into kink and BDSM. We explore simple ways for beginners to dip their toe into BDSM, like using blindfolds, scarves and rope harnesses to build trust and connection with a partner.
Jeanne’s humour and storytelling make this conversation both insightful and engaging, offering relatable advice for anyone curious about exploring kink. Whether you're new to BDSM or looking to reignite your relationship, Jeanne’s wisdom provides a welcoming introduction to this world.
Mentioned in this episode
- Intimate Unicorn website
- Follow Jeanne on Instagram @intimateunicorn
- Follow Jeanne on Facebook
- Obedience (app)
- Come Together - Emily Nagoski
- Come As You Are - Emily Nagoski
Contact
xx Harley 🐰
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Visit my website harleyrabbit.com
#65: The STI Questions You’re Too Afraid to Ask – With Dr Sara
mercredi 21 août 2024 • Duration 48:00
In this episode, we’re diving into a topic that might not be the sexiest, but it’s crucial for anyone exploring their sexuality, especially in non-monogamous relationships. I’m joined by Dr. Sara Whitburn, a General Practitioner specialising in sexual health and the Deputy Medical Director at Sexual Health Victoria, to tackle all the awkward questions about STIs.
We’ll be covering what you need to know about common STIs, including what you should be testing for and how often. Dr. Sara answers those burning questions like, “How risky is oral sex without condoms?” and “Can I get genital herpes if my partner gives me oral with a cold sore?”
If you have an active sx life with multiple partners, or just want to stay informed, this episode is a must-listen. Being educated about STIs allows us to make informed decisions about the risks we’re willing to take and how we negotiate boundaries with our partners.
Mentioned in this episode
- Sexual Health Victoria website
- Herpes Foundation New Zealand
- Better Health Channel (sexual communication)
- Sexual Health Victoria on Instagram (@sexualhealthvictoria)
- Sexual Health Victoria on Youtube
- Sexual Health Victoria on TikTok (@shvic.org.au)
Contact
xx Harley 🐰
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Visit my website harleyrabbit.com
#56: Reflections on Speaking Out, and Cultivating Your Feed
mercredi 12 juin 2024 • Duration 37:08
In this week's episode I reflect on the responses I got from speaking out in episode #54. I am so grateful to everyone who has reached out to me, shared their stories, or told me the episode had an impact on them. I was very nervous about how the episode would be received and this really goes to show that most people in this community are good humans!
Also in this episode I reveal some of my favorite profiles to follow on Fetlife and Instagram! This is just one of the ways we can be proactive about cultivating a positive community around us. See the list of profile names below if you’d like to follow these amazing people yourself.
Mentioned in this episode- Erenisch_Comics
- ChainedValkyrie
- Gary-whitehouse
- MrG__ and PropertyofMrG
- Thingsmyd**kdoes
- _MrV- and Darkmole
- Mostlybicpics
- Bettersx.blog
- Disabled_Eliza
- Lainey.molnar
- Kimoftheinternet
Contact
xx Harley 🐰
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Visit my website harleyrabbit.com
#55: Saying No - The Power of Setting Boundaries
mercredi 5 juin 2024 • Duration 43:42
Setting boundaries might seem straightforward, but it’s often challenging to recognise and communicate them, especially in the context of kink. This week's episode dives into the complexities of identifying and asserting your boundaries, with a particular focus on the struggles faced by those with anxiety who may have become adept at ignoring their body’s warning signals. I share insights from my recent experiences at a weekend rope workshop that showed me that saying ‘no’ can actually lead to more fun! Special thanks to Evil Girls HQ and Miss Gen for an incredible workshop – if you have the chance to take a class with Miss Gen, don’t miss it! Links below.
Mentioned in this episode- EvilGIrlsHQ website
- EvilGirlsHQ on Instagram @evilgirls.hq
- Miss Gen on Instagram @missgen_does_rope
Contact
xx Harley 🐰
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Visit my website harleyrabbit.com
#54: I had a Bad Experience - This is What Happened
mercredi 29 mai 2024 • Duration 01:00:20
This week’s podcast was the hardest I’ve ever recorded. It’s easy to share the positive aspects of kink—the great experiences and the joys of exploration. What’s hard is sharing the negative experiences. It would have been much easier to keep this private, but my podcast is about sharing my kink journey openly and honestly. I can't do that if I’m only highlighting the good parts.
In this episode, I discuss a recent experience where my vetting process failed, and I ended up trusting someone who caused me significant harm. This experience was confusing and required a lot of reflection and conversations to understand fully. I share all of this on the podcast as openly and accurately as I can. This isn't about pointing fingers but rather an honest exploration of the risks we take in this community and how we can better protect ourselves.
Contact
xx Harley 🐰
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Visit my website harleyrabbit.com
#53: Surprising Lessons from Floor Ropes!
mercredi 15 mai 2024 • Duration 48:31
In this episode, I dive into a recent adventure that took me to Brisbane, where I explored rope suspension for the first time. While I successfully achieved my suspension goals, it was the floor rope scenes with a talented rigger named Ravel (@ravel_shibari on Instagram) that truly transformed my perspective on rope.
Join me as I share about these floor scenes, revealing what they looked like, how they felt, and the crucial elements of successful scene negotiation and trust-building with a new play partner. In line with our show’s ethos, I also peel back the curtain on some of the less glamorous aspects of kinky play—like stress, expectations, and fatigue—helping to normalise the full spectrum of experiences that come with exploring our kinks.
Tune in to learn why sometimes the most insightful lessons come from unexpected places!
Mentioned in this episode- Ravel on Fetlife
- Ravel on Instagram
- Crystal Chateau
- Rope Radar (scene negotiation tool)
- Contact Improvisation
Contact
xx Harley 🐰
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Visit my website harleyrabbit.com
#52: Fire, Sensation Play and Somatic Therapy - with Alisa Millard
mercredi 8 mai 2024 • Duration 01:24:58
Welcome to the next instalment of our Everyday Kinkster series. In today’s episode I have a chat with Alisa Milard. Alisa is studying at Somatica Institute with me, and she has also just started her practice at Intimacy Illumination as a somatic sex and relationship coach.
Alisa shares all about her kink journey, beginning with what it’s like to be a single female sub navigating this world on your own, all the way through to exploring impact play, rope suspension, fire play and electro play! We also talk about embodiment, somatic and the crossover between somatic therapies and kink. If you’d like to get in touch with Alisa, you can do so at @intimacy_illumination on Instagram, or by clicking the links below. Mentioned in this episode
- Intimacy Illumination (Instagram)
- Lotus Blooms sex shop in DC Alexandra Virginia
- The Crucible Dungeon in DC
- Black Rose (kink educational group)
- The Kink Consultant Instagram
- Agreeable Agony (impact toys)
- Violet wand (electro play)
- The Body Keeps the Score (book)
- Come As You Are (book)
- Polysecure (book)
- The Bone Season - Shannon Smith (book)
Cont
xx Harley 🐰
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Visit my website harleyrabbit.com
#49: How to Give INSANE Blowjobs - Even if you Can’t Deepthroat
mercredi 17 avril 2024 • Duration 30:32
I am so excited to dive into this topic today! Most of us learn about blowjobs from porn, which usually shows some very talented actresses and actors taking a lot, very deeply! This is actually pretty hard to do (especially for a long time) and there is no wonder that so many of us think we are bad at giving blowjobs. In this episode I’m going to teach you my biggest secret to giving an insane blowjob! I’m also going to share a bunch of tips and techniques that are going to be WAY easier than what you’ve seen in porn, and will most likely be a lot more pleasurable for you and your partner! I’ll even take you through a practical exercise to get you started.
Mentioned in this episodeContact
xx Harley 🐰
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Visit my website harleyrabbit.com
#48: I Booked a Rope Trip! - Planning an Experience Safely
mercredi 10 avril 2024 • Duration 32:16
Hey friends! Today I am spilling the beads about my plans for a rope trip in Brisbane! Woop Woop! I am doing a rope class with Slade, visiting the Crystal Chateau, and have organised two rope sessions with some amazing riggers! It is super scary to plan scenes, especially with people you don’t know, so that’s why in this episode I walk you through all the steps I took to plan this experience, so you can do the same! This includes being realistic about expectations,, looking for partners, having a throughout vetting process and communicating desires, limits, boundaries and health issues. If you’d like to follow me on this journey in real time, make sure you follow me on instagram @harley_rabbit
Mentioned in this episodeContact
xx Harley 🐰
Follow me:
Visit my website harleyrabbit.com
#47: Australia's First Age Play Convention Kangacon! - Interview with DaddaG
mercredi 3 avril 2024 • Duration 01:01:52
Meet the man behind Kangacon - Australia's first Ageplay convention. I had so much fun chatting to DaddaG about his journey as an ABDL and a caregiver. DaddaG is filled with amazing stories about his experiences with other ABDL’s, he also shares about his many trips to CAPCon and TeddyCon in the US, and how these conventions inspired him to start KangaCon in Australia. Tickets to KangaCon are on sale now, and DaddaG gives us a great description of what to expect across the 3 day event, including a ball bit, stuffy pageant, story time, as well as informative classes. I am so grateful for DaddaG coming on the show, as this is such a fun and informative episode for anyone curious about exploring Ageplay.
Mentioned in this episode- Kangacon Ticket Application
- Kangacon Fetlife Group
- Dr Phil Episode with Brett
- CAPCon - USA Convention
- Teddycon - USA Convention
- Tomkat - Canadian Camp
- DiaperBois
Contact
xx Harley 🐰
Follow me:
Visit my website harleyrabbit.com
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