Explore every episode of the podcast Transforming The Toddler Years- Parents and Educators Raising Calm, Connected, Capable Kids
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| Why Some Kids Crave Cuddles and Others Prefer Solitude | 03 Nov 2026 | 00:14:54 | |
What if understanding your nervous system could transform the way you connect with children, colleagues, and the people you love? In this episode, I share a powerful aha moment inspired by early childhood expert Alyssa Blask Campbell and explore how sensory processing and individual nervous system differences shape the ways we experience connection. I share the difference between seeking emotional connection and finding fulfillment through completing tasks, and how recognizing these differences can strengthen relationships at home and in the classroom. I also reflect on the lasting impact of early childhood educators and why meaningful teaching matters, even when we never get to see the long-term results of our work. Tune in to discover how understanding your nervous system, embracing individual differences, and building stronger connections can help you become a more mindful, responsive educator, parent, and caregiver.Want to learn more? Get your copy of Talk to Them Early and Often now! Buy it here!November 3, 2026Episode 358Why Some Kids Crave Cuddles and Others Prefer Solitude About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| Childhood Trauma: What it is and What it Isn't with Laura Todd | 29 Oct 2026 | 00:41:29 | |
What does it really take to raise resilient, emotionally secure children who feel safe, understood, and supported? In this episode, child development and trauma expert Laura Todd explores how early childhood experiences, birth trauma, NICU stays, and the developing nervous system shape children’s behavior and emotional well-being. Discover how secure attachment, sensory needs, healthy boundaries, and connection-based parenting can help you better understand your child and navigate challenging behaviors with confidence. Laura also shares practical parenting strategies, including play, humor, and repairing relationships after difficult moments, to strengthen your bond and support your child’s resilience. Tune in for an empowering conversation about child development, trauma-informed parenting, emotional regulation, and building resilience in children—and learn why being a good parent isn’t about perfection, but showing up with compassion, connection, and a willingness to grow. Laura Todd is a licensed therapist in Silicon Valley with over a decade of experience. She specializes in Perinatal Mental Health and Infant/Early Childhood Mental Health. She began her career as a birth-to-five therapist for a local non-profit in Santa Clara County. After having her first baby, she realized she needed to change her career and opened her private practice, Early Bonds Therapy, to support moms in their mental health, the mental health of their baby, and their attachment together. Learn more about Laura's work here and eb sure to follow her on Instagram! Interested in a Toddler Tribe Community full of resources and connection? DM me "Community" on Instagram so we can connect! October 39, 2026 Episode 357 Childhood Trauma: What it is and What it Isn't with Laura Todd About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| Why Kids Want to be First, Best, and Wish They Were Older | 27 Oct 2026 | 00:14:00 | |
How can we turn a child’s hurtful words into a powerful learning opportunity without resorting to shame or blame? In this episode, discover how positive communication, mindful parenting, and curiosity-based questions can help children process their emotions, build self-awareness, and develop empathy. Through a powerful real-life story, explore how early childhood educators, parents, and caregivers can use intentional language to guide children toward understanding, confidence, and compassion. Learn why giving children time to process their thoughts and hands-on opportunities to learn can transform their mindset and strengthen relationships with siblings and peers. Tune in for practical strategies to improve communication with young children, nurture emotional intelligence, and create meaningful conversations that help children thrive. Ready to transform the way you talk to children? Get Cara’s new book, Talk to Them Early and Often, and start creating more meaningful conversations today! October 27, 2026 Episode 356 Why Kids Want to be First, Best, and Wish They Were Older About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| What to Say When Kids Ask the Hard Questions | 20 Oct 2026 | 00:15:30 | |
How do you answer your child’s hardest questions with honesty, confidence, and age-appropriate language? In this episode, discover how to navigate difficult parenting conversations about puberty, body changes, death, and other sensitive topics while building trust and emotional safety. Learn why telling the truth, answering confidently, and keeping explanations developmentally appropriate helps children feel safe asking questions and exploring their curiosity. Explore how your responses today shape your child’s beliefs, self-worth, and understanding of others as they grow into adulthood. Plus, discover how creating a clear parenting mission statement can help you approach challenging conversations with greater confidence and raise thoughtful, compassionate, and emotionally secure children. Parenting Mission Statement Masterclass! In this short yet transformational masterclass, you’ll create your personalized Parenting Mission Statement—a one-of-a-kind guide that reflects your values, your vision, and the parent you want to be. Start the masterclass now! October 20, 2026 Episode 355 What to Say When Kids Ask the Hard Questions About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| Potty Trained From Birth: Elimination Communication with Andrea Olsen from Go Diaper Free | 15 Oct 2026 | 00:38:14 | |
Could elimination communication help your baby ditch diapers earlier, strengthen your bond, and make potty learning easier? In this episode of Transforming the Toddler Years, I welcome Andrea Olson, elimination communication expert and founder of Go Diaper Free, to explain the difference between elimination communication (EC) and traditional potty training. Discover how to recognize your baby’s potty cues, practice part-time elimination communication from birth, and support your child’s natural development without adding unnecessary stress to your parenting routine. Andrea shares practical advice for navigating daycare potty training, overcoming challenges with older toddlers, understanding the benefits of proper squatting positions, and handling bathroom needs while traveling. Whether you’re a new parent exploring early potty learning or navigating toddler toilet training, this conversation offers actionable tips for building confidence, fostering connection, and making the diaper-free journey work for your family.Andrea Olson is the author of Go Diaper Free (https://godiaperfree.com) and The Tiny Potty Training Book, and the world's leading educator on elimination communication — the gentle practice of tuning into your baby's natural cues to use the potty from birth. Andrea's approach to EC is practical, low-pressure, and designed to work for real parents in real life — whether you're all in or just dipping a toe in the potty waters. Interested in a Toddler Tribe Community full of resources and connection? DM me "Community" on Instagram so we can connect! October 15, 2026 Episode 354 Potty Trained From Birth: Elimination Communication with Andrea Olsen from Go Diaper Free About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| How to Hold Boundaries Without Power Struggles or Meltdowns | 13 Oct 2026 | 00:14:41 | |
How can you hold firm boundaries with toddlers without turning every limit into a power struggle or meltdown? In this episode we explore the difference between rigid, permissive, and collaborative boundaries—and why effective toddler discipline requires both connection and consistency. Learn how collaborative discipline gives children a voice and choices within a clear boundary, helping parents and educators reduce power struggles while still confidently holding limits. We’ll look at practical examples of using flexible, respectful boundary-setting during everyday challenges like diaper changes and transitions. If you’re looking for positive parenting strategies, toddler discipline tips, and ways to set healthy boundaries without yelling or power struggles, this episode is for you. October 13, 2026 Episode 353 How to Hold Boundaries Without Power Struggles or Meltdowns About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| Toddler with Speech Delays? Use the OWLS Method for Language Development | 06 Oct 2026 | 00:10:28 | |
What if simply observing, waiting, and listening could help boost your toddler’s language development and communication skills? In this episode, we explore the OWL method—Observe, Wait, and Listen—and how this simple parenting strategy gives toddlers the space they need to practice language, build sentences, and express their thoughts. You’ll learn why repetition and pauses are important for toddler speech and language development, and why resisting the urge to fill every moment of silence can lead to richer communication. We also introduce the “S” for Speak, showing parents how to use meaningful language and reflection after their child has had a chance to lead the conversation. Discover practical ways to support your toddler’s language development, strengthen your connection, and encourage confident communication during everyday play and activities. October 6, 2026 Episode 352 Toddler with Speech Delays? Use the OWLS Method for Language Development About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| Sing to Your Baby from Birth. The Connection Power of Music with Vered Benhorin | 01 Oct 2026 | 00:38:07 | |
What if one of the simplest tools for helping your child connect, communicate, and regulate is already in your voice? In this episode, I talk with music therapist, musician, author, and mom Vered Benhorin, about how everyday singing can support connection, language development, transitions, and co-regulation with babies and toddlers. We explore why repetition, rhythm, movement, and that naturally sing-songy way we talk to babies can be so powerful for early learning. Vered also shares simple ways parents, caregivers, and educators can create their own songs for everything from diaper changes and bedtime to calming big feelings. Most importantly, we talk about why you don't need to be a great singer—or even consider yourself musical—to use music as a joyful way to connect with the little humans in your life. Vered Benhorin, LCAT, is a board-certified music therapist, psychotherapist, parenting author, recording artist, and family connection expert whose work brings together attachment theory, music, mindfulness, and play. She studied music therapy and clinical psychology and has spent nearly two decades helping parents strengthen connection with their babies and young children through Baby in Tune. Learn more about the work she does here. Interested in a Toddler Tribe Community full of resources and connection? DM me "Community" on Instagram so we can connect! October 1, 2026 Episode 351 Sing to Your Baby from Birth. The Connection Power of Music with Vered Benhorin About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| How Do I Keep Toddlers Entertained During Travel? My Best Advice In One Sentence | 29 Sep 2026 | 00:11:17 | |
What if the best way to keep your toddler entertained is to stop trying to entertain them? In this episode, I unpack the idea of “don’t solve a problem you don’t have” and share why giving children space to be bored, observe, explore, and come up with their own ideas is an important part of building autonomy. I share stories from traveling with my own young children and explain how over-preparing can sometimes get in the way of their opportunity to practice entertaining themselves. We’ll look at how to recognize when your child truly needs something from you—and when the most helpful thing you can do is simply give them the space to figure it out. Whether you’re traveling, at home, or out and about, this episode offers a simple shift that can help you step back while still supporting your child’s learning and development. 🎤 Want to be the first to watch Cara’s upcoming TED Talk, “Grown-Ups Don’t Know Everything”? Sign up for Cara’s newsletter at caratyrrell.com to be the first to know when the talk is released! September 29, 2026 Episode 350 How Do I Keep Toddlers Entertained During Travel? My Best Advice In One Sentence About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| Teaching Toddlers Manners: Please and Thank You | 22 Sep 2026 | 00:15:14 | |
What if teaching toddlers to say “please” and “thank you” isn’t really about manners at all? In this episode, I explore how we can move beyond forcing polite words and instead help children develop genuine gratitude, connection, cooperation, and humility from the inside out. You’ll learn how music, repetition, modeling, and playful prompts can teach manners without shame, blame, or coercion. I also share a sweet story that demonstrates how a simple song can help toddlers naturally remember to say “thank you.” 🎤 Want to be the first to watch Cara’s upcoming TED Talk, “Grown-Ups Don’t Know Everything”? Sign up for Cara’s newsletter at caratyrrell.com to be the first to know when the talk is released! September 22, 2026 Episode 349 Teaching Toddlers Manners: Please and Thank You About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| Understanding Challenging Preschool Behaviors with Dr. Danielle Dushane | 17 Sep 2026 | 00:43:03 | |
What happens when we stop seeing challenging behavior as a problem to fix and start seeing it as a developmental need to understand? In this episode, Danielle—a mother, educator, and doctoral researcher—joins the conversation to explore how adult expectations, reactions, and past experiences can shape children’s behavior and how proactive, relationship-based approaches can create more successful environments for young children. We discuss the importance of play, developmentally appropriate expectations, and giving children the space to be messy, explore, and learn rather than focusing too heavily on academic readiness. Together, we explore alternative care settings, the importance of emotional and relational safety, and why sharing what we know about our children with their teachers can help build the relationships and support children need to thrive. Dr. Danielle Dushane is a former teacher and early interventionist. She is a mom of three and former foster parent. She has a Ph.D. in education and a Master's in Special Education and her research focuses on preschool and childcare expulsion. She is passionate about helping educators partner with families to support their children. September 17, 2026 Episode 348 Understanding Challenging Preschool Behaviors with Dr. Danielle Dushane About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| Creative Thinking vs. Creative Play - What a Girl Dad in a Cafe Taught Me | 15 Sep 2026 | 00:12:22 | |
What if one of the most powerful skills we can give our children is the ability to think creatively when no one is there to entertain them? In this episode, we explore the important difference between creative thinking—the ability to imagine possibilities, solve problems, and generate ideas—and creative play, which is how children put those ideas into action. We discuss why boredom and independent play are essential opportunities for children to strengthen their “creative thinking muscle” and why adults can sometimes unintentionally limit imagination by insisting on what is real. Through a powerful story about a family on a device-free dinner outing, we explore the importance of nurturing children’s expansive imaginations while also eventually teaching them when to distinguish fantasy from reality. The episode ends with a simple challenge for parents and educators: encourage creativity by asking two powerful questions—“What if?” and “I wonder.” 🧠 Your Toddler Tribe Homework This week, your mission is simple: feed that creative brain! ✨ When your little one is playing, exploring, or wondering about the world, try swapping out answers and instructions for two magic phrases: “What if…?” What if that cardboard box were a rocket ship? The goal isn’t to make their play bigger or better—it’s to give their imagination room to lead. Step back, get curious, and see where their wonderfully creative brains take them! September 15, 2026 Episode 347 Creative Thinking vs. Creative Play - What a Girl Dad in a Cafe Taught Me About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| The Hardest Thing About Parenting Toddlers (And it's not what you think) | 08 Sep 2026 | 00:22:01 | |
What if understanding toddler behavior—not controlling it—is the key to better communication, cooperation, and connection? In this special listener-inspired episode, I explore the biggest challenges facing parents, caregivers, and early childhood educators, including toddler tantrums, big feelings, emotional regulation, challenging behaviors, transitions, routines, and learning how to communicate with young children. I reveal that what adults truly want isn’t simply better behavior or obedience, but stronger relationships, emotional intelligence, relational intelligence, and practical tools for communicating with toddlers and young children. Whether you’re parenting a toddler, working in early childhood education, or caring for young children, this episode offers a powerful reminder that emotional safety, connection, and intentional communication are the foundation for cooperation, positive relationships, and lifelong learning. Interested in the Sign to Speak - The Communication Bridgeon-demand course that teaches you how to communicate effectively with your baby as they learn to talk? Get it now! September 8, 2026 Episode 346 The Hardest Thing About Parenting Toddlers (And it's not what you think) About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| How to Reduce Your Mental Load during the Back to School Transition with Dilaini co-founder of Anna | 03 Sep 2026 | 00:30:30 | |
What if you could hand off the endless mental checklist of family life and finally be more present with the people you love? In this episode, Diliani Kahawala unpacks the invisible mental load parents carry—from meal planning and school forms to schedule changes, reminders, and constantly anticipating what everyone needs next. We explore how Anna, an AI-powered personal assistant, can help parents offload that behind-the-scenes project management by connecting with calendars, email, messaging apps, and family schedules. Diliani also shares how Anna is designed with privacy and security in mind, while helping parents manage both their family responsibilities and professional lives. Most importantly, this conversation is about using technology intentionally to give parents back time, reduce overwhelm, and create more space for connection, presence, and meaningful family memories. Dilani Kahawala, co-founder and CEO of Anna, a truly autonomous AI assistant designed to help busy parents reduce their mental load and stay on top of family life. As a parent of three, she understands firsthand the challenge of balancing family, work, and everything in between. Before founding Anna, Diliani led product management teams at companies including Meta and Etsy, bringing her experience in technology and product development to building a tool that gives parents back time and mental space.Try out Anna today with a FREE 30 day trial! Use code LAUNCH: www.hianna.ai September 3, 2026 Episode 345 How to Reduce Your Mental Load during the Back to School Transition with Dilaini co-founder of Anna About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| Why Your Toddler Says "Mama" 400 Times a Day (And What to Say Back) | 01 Sep 2026 | 00:12:04 | |
Could that endless chorus of “Mama, mama, mama” actually be an important milestone in your toddler’s language development? In this episode, we explore why toddlers repeatedly say a parent or caregiver’s name before nearly every sentence as they practice the connection between attention, communication, and relationships. Rather than a behavior meant to frustrate you, this repetition is a developmental learning phase that helps children build confidence and strengthen the neural pathways involved in expressive language. We also discuss how responding with connection-based phrases like “Yes, love” instead of the automatic “What?” can support your child’s communication while reducing frustration for both of you. Tune in to learn how small changes in the words and tone you use can nurture connection and help your toddler’s language truly explode. Take my two-minute survey! Win a Free Class! Tell me your struggles and the resources you're using to help you move through them so that I can do a better job of creating tools for you. As a thank you, everybody who fills it out will get entered in to win a free class of mine. It is an American Sign Language class called Sign to Speak, the communication bridge designed for you, the caregivers of babies and toddlers. Take the survey now! September 1, 2026 Episode 344 Why Your Toddler Says "Mama" 400 Times a Day (And What to Say Back) About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| The Fourth C of Collaborative Discipline - The Art of Compromise | 25 Aug 2026 | 00:17:55 | |
How important is compromise with your child? In this final episode of our five part series on the four Cs of collaborative discipline, learn to transform the way that you connect with kids, problem solve with them and completely avoid power struggles. Download the free 4 C's of Collaborative Discipline PDF now! Looking for more 1:1 help? Book your complimentary connection call and we will explore together what it would look like to put together a one-on-one package for you. August 25, 2026 Episode 343 The Fourth C of Collaborative Discipline - The Art of Compromise About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| The Third C of Collaborative Discipline - Collaborate to Problem Solve | 18 Aug 2026 | 00:17:19 | |
How important is collaborating with your kids? In this episode, I discuss the third C of Collaborative Discipline: Collaboration. I share that it's the togetherness is where you problem solve. Let's turn the daily tantrums into teachable moments that align with your core values as you raise whole kids in my Transforming the Toddler Years Course. The course is six modules and it dives deep. It gives you many resources to team up with your kids to get to the promised lands that you want to get to without all the typical parenting drama that is very popularized on the internet and social media. Check it out here. August 18, 2026 Episode 342 The Third C of Collaborative Discipline - Collaborate to Problem Solve About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| The Second C of Collaborative Discipline - Intentional Communication | 11 Aug 2026 | 00:18:11 | |
Curious about collaborative discipline? In this episode, I talk about the second C of collaborative discipline- communication! I share why it is a cornerstone of the collaborative discipline framework and share an example of it in action. Download the free 4 C's of Collaborative Discipline PDF now! Ready to take the next step? Check out my short video training, where I guide you through the process of writing your personalized mission statement for raising and to teaching extraordinary human beings. Find all the details here. August 11, 2026 Episode 341 The Second C of Collaborative Discipline - Intentional Communication About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| The First C of Collaborative Discipline - Connect Before You Expect | 04 Aug 2026 | 00:18:41 | |
Want to know how to really connect with your child? In this episode, I talk about connection being the key first step in the collaborative discipline cycle. Spoiler alert: connection is not made with words! Ready to take the next step? Check out my short video training, where I guide you through the process of writing your personalized mission statement for raising and to teaching extraordinary human beings. Find all the details here. August 4, 2026 Episode 340 The First C of Collaborative Discipline - Connect Before You Expect About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| The 4 C's of Collaborative Discipline | 28 Jul 2026 | 00:18:39 | |
Join me as I discuss the four C's of collaborative discipline, starting with a positive definition of discipline. I then give an overview of the four intentional steps of collaborative discipline and share a story where I recently practiced this approach. Ready to Adopt the 4 C’s of Collaborative Discipline? Grab your free download and embrace connection before correction! Get it here. Check out Episode #1 of my first series Raising Successful Kids: Skill #1 - Waiting July 28, 2026 Episode 339 The 4 C's of Collaborative Discipline About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| Teaching Toddlers the Art of Compromise | 21 Jul 2026 | 00:13:11 | |
What if the missing piece to raising cooperative kids isn't sharing, but learning how to compromise? In this episode, we explore why compromise is a skill that develops through emotional regulation, not simply expecting children to "work it out." You'll learn how helping children understand another person's perspective creates the foundation for genuine collaboration. We also discuss why jumping in with solutions can actually limit problem-solving and how curiosity can empower children to create their own win-win plans. By teaching the process of compromise from an early age, we help children build lifelong skills in communication, empathy, and healthy conflict resolution. Don't miss a thing! Sign up for my weekly newsletter and get parenting tips, podcast episodes, and exclusive updates delivered straight to your inbox every Monday morning. Sign up here. July 21, 2026 Episode 338 Teaching Toddlers the Art of Compromise About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| How to Teach Your Toddler Time Management | 14 Jul 2026 | 00:15:13 | |
What if teaching your toddler to manage time isn't about timers at all, but about giving them the chance to make their own decisions? In this episode, I explain why toddlers are capable of developing time management skills much earlier than most people realize when we shift from directing to guiding. I share practical strategies for setting clear expectations, asking thoughtful questions, and giving children enough time to process and plan their actions before transitions. You'll discover how small language shifts can strengthen executive functioning, build independence, and reduce power struggles around everyday routines like cleaning up before dinner. Plus, I remind parents that time management is just one of several essential life skills—and it's okay to focus on one developmental goal at a time. Don't miss a thing! Sign up for my weekly newsletter and get parenting tips, podcast episodes, and exclusive updates delivered straight to your inbox every Monday morning. Sign up here. July 14, 2026 Episode 337 How to Teach Your Toddler Time Management About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| Raising Proud Kids Without Raising Prideful Children | 07 Jul 2026 | 00:16:15 | |
Can the way we talk about pride shape a child's confidence, resilience, and lifelong motivation? In this episode, we explore the two very different meanings of pride and why helping children develop an internal sense of accomplishment is essential for healthy growth. You'll learn how creating small pockets of child-led time and using intentional language can nurture genuine confidence instead of external validation. We also unpack why phrases like "I'm so proud of you" may have a different impact than you think—and what to say instead to encourage lasting self-belief. Join us for a thoughtful conversation on raising children who are motivated from within and equipped to thrive. Interested in a Toddler Tribe Community full of resources and connection? DM me "Community" on Instagram so we can connect! July 7, 2026 Episode 336 Raising Proud Kids Without Raising Prideful Children About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| Raising Smart Kids in a Digital World - Part 4 - Questions That Teach Perspective | 30 Jun 2026 | 00:14:31 | |
What happens when your child has to navigate relationships with people they simply don't click with? In this episode, I take a deeper dive into relational intelligence, exploring how children can learn empathy, compassion, and perspective-taking when faced with challenging interpersonal dynamics. Drawing from my own experience supporting a child through a difficult teacher-student relationship, I share practical strategies for helping children understand that different perspectives and personalities don't make someone "bad"—just different. Discover how teaching perspective-taking today can help your child build stronger, more respectful relationships throughout life.This week’s challenge: When your child faces a challenging relationship or conflict, use “What do you think…” and “I wonder…” questions to help them step into someone else’s perspective and build empathy, respect, and understanding of differences. June 30, 2026 Episode 335 Raising Smart Kids in a Digital World - Part 4 - Questions That Teach Perspective About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| Raising Smart Kids in a Digital World - Part 3 - Relational Intelligence | 23 Jun 2026 | 00:15:33 | |
What if your child's future success depends less on what they know and more on how they connect with others? In this episode of the Raising Smart Kids in a Digital World series, I explore relational intelligence and why strong, authentic relationships are essential for learning, resilience, and personal growth. I explain how children develop their understanding of trust, respect, communication, and connection through their earliest relationships—especially those they observe at home. Through practical examples, I highlight the powerful role parents play in modeling healthy interactions and creating a foundation of honesty, respect, and meaningful conversation. Read or revisit the section on the Core Four Connectors in Talk to Them Early and Often and apply the principles of collaborative discipline and relationship-building discussed! June 23, 2026 Episode 334 Raising Smart Kids in a Digital World - Part 3 - Relational Intelligence About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| Raising Smart Kids in a Digital World - Part 2 - Cultivating Their Character | 16 Jun 2026 | 00:13:37 | |
What if the most important thing you can teach your child is who they are, not what they can do? In this episode, I continue the Raising Smart Kids in a Digital World series by exploring how self-awareness and identity form the foundation of emotional intelligence and lifelong learning. I explain why children are born with unique temperaments, strengths, and character traits, and how parents can nurture these qualities through observation and intentional language. Tune in to discover how recognizing and affirming your child's natural gifts can strengthen relationships, build character, and support their long-term success. Want to take your parenting journey to another level? Book your complimentary connection call now! June 16, 2026 Episode 333 Raising Smart Kids in a Digital World - Part 2 - Cultivating Their Character About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| Raising Smart Kids in a Digital World - Part 1 - Emotional Intelligence | 09 Jun 2026 | 00:18:19 | |
What if the key to raising resilient, capable kids isn't academic achievement, but emotional intelligence? In this first episode of the Raising Smart Kids in a Digital World, I explore why emotional awareness is the foundation of emotional intelligence and ultimately learning itself. Through relatable parenting examples and real-life observations, I explain the difference between reacting to emotions and recognizing, naming, and managing them. You'll learn why toddlers can't develop emotional skills during meltdowns and how calm, connected moments create the best opportunities for teaching emotional awareness. Tune in to discover practical ways to observe, support, and strengthen your child's emotional intelligence from the inside out! Your task for the week: Check out your kids. Watch them in action. Watch them in play. Listen to them as they communicate with you. Have moments where your only goal is to assess their energy and to see where they are on this scale. June 9, 2026 Episode 332 Raising Smart Kids in a Digital World - Part 1 - Emotional Intelligence About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| AI in Education - What This Means For Your Family | 02 Jun 2026 | 00:22:15 | |
Is the education system preparing our children for the future—or failing them before they even begin? In this episode, we explore the growing challenges facing families, from soaring childcare costs and declining school enrollment to the rapid transformation of education in the age of AI. Discover why character, self-management, and human-centered skills may be the most important tools children need to thrive in a world where learning, work, and opportunity are being redefined. This week, start an honest conversation with your partner and your child about what education should look like in a rapidly changing world—and whether their current learning experience is helping them become the person they want to be. June 2, 2026 Episode 331 AI in Education - What This Means For Your Family About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| A Vunerable Story: My Daughter, Her Wedding & Letting Go of Expectations | 26 May 2026 | 00:14:43 | |
What does it feel like when the independent, world-ready child you raised begins building a life far beyond what you imagined? In this deeply personal episode, I share the emotional journey of supporting my daughter’s upcoming wedding in Japan while navigating the heartbreak of not being able to attend in person. I reflect on the powerful parenting lesson of separating our expectations from our children’s unique life paths and embracing perspective shifts rooted in love and trust. This heartfelt conversation is a reminder that raising confident, autonomous children is both beautiful and bittersweet—and that sometimes the greatest act of parenting is learning to cheer them on from afar. If this episode touched your heart or helped you feel a little less alone in your parenting journey, would you take a moment to rate and review the show? Your support helps more parents find this space to feel seen, encouraged, and empowered as they raise incredible humans. May 26, 2026 Episode 330 A Vunerable Story: My Daughter, Her Wedding & Letting Go of Expectations About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| Building Your Family Culture - Parenting On Purpose with Nancy and Steven Shapiro | 21 May 2026 | 00:46:15 | |
What if the secret to raising resilient, emotionally healthy kids starts with intentionally creating your family’s culture?
In this heartfelt conversation, educators Nancy and Steven Shapiro share how families can move from parenting by default to parenting by design through simple daily practices rooted in shared values and connection. Drawing from nearly a century of combined experience in education, the discussion explores how modeling behaviors like kindness, self-regulation, and empathy helps children build strong identities and meaningful relationships. The episode also dives into the realities of blended families, mental health, and the power of creating a home where children always feel they belong. Steven Shapiro and Nancy Shapiro Rapport are a brother-sister team with a combined 68 years of experience in public education. Their work as educators gave them a front row seat to the youth mental health crisis and the enormous challenges of modern parenting. Steven and Nancy are committed to helping parents raise emotionally healthy kids in close knit, connected families through the creation of intentional family cultures rooted in parents’ deepest-held values. Check out the groundbreaking mobile app, Our Family Culture. A one-of-a-kind, time-tested system that produces profound results for parents and kids alike. Nancy and Steven are currently offering a low cost Our Family Culture subscription as a welcome offer to new families. No code is needed! Parents can access the app and offer through the app store on their cell phone. Want to take your parenting journey to another level? Book your complimentary connection call now! May 21, 2026 Episode 329 Building Your Family Culture - Parenting On Purpose with Nancy and Steven Shapiro About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| The Power of Complimenting Parents in Public | 19 May 2026 | 00:15:12 | |
What if one heartfelt compliment could completely change another parent’s day? In this episode, I explore how quick we can be to notice parenting struggles in public while often overlooking the moments of patience, connection, and love happening all around us. The conversation highlights the importance of remembering that every family has a story we cannot see and that one difficult moment never defines a parent or child. This episode will inspire you to shift your focus toward compassion, community, and celebrating the everyday wins of parenting. Interested in a Toddler Tribe Community full of resources and connection? DM me "Community" on Instagram so we can connect! May 19, 2026 Episode 328 The Power of Complimenting Parents in Public About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| Child Led Learning - What it Really Means | 12 May 2026 | 00:13:27 | |
What if the most powerful learning moments happen not in classrooms, but during everyday adventures with your child? In this episode, I explore the concept of child-led learning and challenge the traditional belief that learning is simply the accumulation of knowledge. Instead, learning is reframed as a child’s natural process of exploring, connecting, experimenting, and making sense of the world around them. The episode highlights the importance of emotional safety, connection, and allowing children the space to guide their own discoveries in everyday moments. I share a fresh perspective on how to support curiosity, nurture development naturally, and recognize the powerful learning opportunities already happening all around them.Interested in a Toddler Tribe Community full of resources and connection? DM me "Community" on Instagram so we can connect! May 12, 2026 Episode 327 Child Led Learning - What it Really Means About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| Raising Dreamers: Nurturing Creative Intelligence in the Age of AI with Bradley Scheel | 07 May 2026 | 00:45:40 | |
What if the key to raising successful kids in an AI-driven world isn’t more academics, but stronger imagination? Bradley Scheel joins me to explore how creativity is a learnable skill that too often fades as children grow, especially after age five. He breaks down how brain development, cultural norms, and education systems unintentionally suppress imagination, and what parents can do to reverse that trend. We discuss the importance of intrinsic motivation, curiosity, and resilience as essential 21st-century skills. Tune in to learn how intentional, play-based experiences can help children build creative intelligence and thrive in a rapidly changing world. When not living in his imagination, Wylde is an award-winning children’s author and founder of The Imagination Project and Wylde Scott Entertainment. In addition to dreaming up fantastic tales for young readers, Wylde spends his time in elementary schools, bookstores, and libraries creating fun-filled events for children, parents, and teachers alike. His mission is to ignite imaginations worldwide and empower children with the mindset that anything is possible.Check out Bradley's best-selling book Raising Dreamers: Why Imagination is the Key to Preserving Humanity in the Age of Artificial Intelligence Want to take your parenting journey to another level? Book your complimentary connection call now! May 7, 2026 Episode 326 Raising Dreamers: Nurturing Creative Intelligence in the Age of AI with Bradley Scheel About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| When Toddlers Refuse To Say Thank You - Do This! | 05 May 2026 | 00:10:17 | |
What if your toddler’s refusal to say “thank you” isn’t defiance but a clue about how their brain actually works? In this episode I unpack a real-life moment where prompting gratitude backfired, revealing why young children often can’t express thankfulness on command. You’ll learn how true gratitude is an internal feeling that toddlers are still developing, not a social script they can reliably perform. Instead of enforcing polite words, I share a powerful shift: modeling gratitude by thanking your child first. The result is a more authentic, emotionally grounded path to raising genuinely grateful humans. If you’re enjoying the show, please take a moment to rate and review! Your support helps us reach more listeners, grow the podcast, and continue bringing you valuable conversations each week. Thank you for being here! May 5, 2026 Episode 325 When Toddlers Refuse To Say Thank You - Do This! About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| What to Say to Toddlers When They Run Away | 28 Apr 2026 | 00:12:26 | |
What happens when your instincts scream danger, but the reality says your child is safe? In this episode, I share a heart-racing moment in a parking lot that became a powerful lesson in balancing fear with intentional language. You’ll hear how one caregiver managed her own emotional response while staying connected to her child’s experience. I demonstrate how reflective statements can turn chaotic moments into meaningful learning opportunities. I emphasize that staying mindful and choosing your words carefully can transform even the most triggering situations into growth for both you and your child. Want to practice some intentional language script starters, some frameworks that give you an idea of what to say even when you are escalated? Grab a copy of my new book Talk to Them Early and Often. It is an intentional language guide for infant, toddler caregivers, and it gives you the tools to navigate the tricky situations. April 28, 2026 Episode 324 What to Say to Toddlers When They Run Away About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| Accessing Mental Wellness as a Toddler Parent with M.J. Murray Vachon, LCSW | 23 Apr 2026 | 00:44:32 | |
What if calming your child actually starts with calming yourself? MJ Murray Vanchon, creator of the Inner Challenge mental wellness program, joins me to explore practical ways parents can build inner calm for themselves and their kids. MJ shares simple, effective mindfulness tools like grounding and intentional breathing, as children rely on co-regulation and adults must regulate first. MJ is a licensed clinical social worker with over 40 years of experience and more than 50,000 hours of clinical sessions, many focused on parenting and family life. She developed Inner Challenge, a skills-based mental wellness program used in schools for over 21 years, incorporated into HealthWorks!—a children’s health museum. MJ is also the host of the Creating Midlife Calm podcast, where she translates psychology into practical, doable tools for everyday life. Check it out now! Want to take your parenting journey to another level? Book your complimentary connection call now! April 23, 2026 Episode 323 Accessing Mental Wellness as a Toddler Parent with M.J. Murray Vachon, LCSW About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the forthcoming book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| Why Questions are Stressful for Kids & What to Say Instead (Little Linguists Part 12) | 21 Apr 2026 | 00:10:30 | |
What if a simple shift in how you speak could transform a child’s confidence and development? In this episode, I wrap up the Little Linguists series by introducing a powerful strategy: turning “are you” questions into “you are” statements to reduce stress and improve communication with young children. I demonstrate how everyday interactions can be reframed to support understanding and autonomy. Caregivers are reminded that they are a child’s first teacher, and that intentional word choices play a critical role in early development. Be the First to Know When Talk to Them Early and Often is Available For Preorder. Get on the list here! April 21, 2026 Episode 323 Why Questions are Stressful for Kids & What to Say Instead (Little Linguists Part 12) About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the forthcoming book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| What to Say When Kids Refuse - Expectation vs. Permission Based Statements | 14 Apr 2026 | 00:12:28 | |
What if giving children more choice is actually the key to better behavior and deeper connection? In this episode I celebrate the Week of the Young Child, highlighting the importance of early learning and the communities that support it. Through real-life moments, I demonstrate how offering children permission, rather than control, can transform their willingness to participate and feel safe. I offer a powerful reminder that when we shift our responses, children naturally begin to engage, connect, and thriveReady to take the next step to start being on the same team as your kids and watch their behavior and their choices change? I would love for you to go check out my Transforming the Toddler Years Course. Six modules, one massive transformation rooted in the psychology of human connection and the science of early language and behavior management. Learn more about it here! April 14, 2026 Episode 322 What to Say When Kids Refuse - Expectation vs. Permission Based Statements About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the forthcoming book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| Neurodiversity Affirming Speech Therapy with Rebecca Rowe, SLP | 09 Apr 2026 | 00:28:46 | |
Rebecca Rowe joins me in this episode, as we explore what it truly means to provide neurodiversity-affirming speech therapy, with a focus on supporting families navigating an autism diagnosis. Rebecca shares how SLPs and OTs can guide and empower parents throughout the diagnostic process, while helping them find providers who align with neurodiversity-affirming values. We also break down key differences between ABA and OT/SLP services, and offer practical ways to support both yourself and your child with compassion, clarity, and confidence during this journey. Rebecca has over sixteen years of experience in the field of Speech Language Pathology. Her specialty is orofacial myology and she is a Certified Orofacial Myologist ( COM® ). She has owned ACT Therapy Services for ten years and enjoys leading a team providing play-based, neurodivergent therapy services to families and children. Check out her myofunctional therapy course for parents, mention this podcast and receive a 20% discount! Learn more here. Want to take your parenting journey to another level? Book your complimentary connection call now! April 9, 2026 Episode 321 Neurodiversity Affirming Speech Therapy with Rebecca Rowe, SLPis About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the forthcoming book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| A Fresh Take on How To Encourage Sharing (Little Linguists Part 11) | 07 Apr 2026 | 00:14:56 | |
What if the words you use with your child every day are quietly shaping who they believe they are? In this episode, I emphasize that the words adults use with young children shape their identity and sense of self, not just their behavior. I encourages parents and caregivers to pause, observe, and use intentional language that validates feelings while teaching empathy and co-regulation. Ultimately, consistent, mindful interactions help raise children who are emotionally aware, socially capable, and prepared to navigate an increasingly complex, technology-driven world. Longing for more community on your parenting journey? I am launching a community JUST FOR YOU! It's time for us to see each other face to virtual face, hear each other in live time, so that we can really connect deeply and help each other through those challenging and celebratory moments that is toddlerhood. Get on the mailing list here so you can get all the details! Be the First to Know When Talk to Them Early and Often is Available For Preorder. Get on the list here! April 7 , 2026 Episode 320 A Fresh Take on How To Encourage Sharing (Little Linguists Part 11) About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the forthcoming book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details here! | |||
| What Your Toddler Really Means When They Say NO! (Little Linguists Part 10) | 31 Mar 2026 | 00:13:49 | |
Wonder why your toddler is always saying No!? In this episode I discuss why toddlers frequently use the word “no,” not as defiance, but as a limited-language way to express preferences, opinions, or discomfort. I encourage parents and caregivers to respond with curiosity and empathy instead of reacting negatively, as it’s an opportunity to understand what the child truly means. Longing for more community on your parenting journey? I am launching a community JUST FOR YOU! It's time for us to see each other face to virtual face, hear each other in live time, so that we can really connect deeply and help each other through those challenging and celebratory moments that is toddlerhood. Get on the mailing list here so you can get all the details! March 31, 2026 Episode 319 What Your Toddler Really Means When They Say NO! (Little Linguists Part 10) About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the forthcoming book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Interested in being a guest on the podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Complete the Guest Application form here. | |||
| How to Parent Better By Doing Less - The Power of Distress Tolerance with Joanna Hardis | 26 Mar 2026 | 00:46:06 | |
How much distress tolerance do you and your children have? Joanna Hardis joins me in this episode to discuss distress tolerance, or the ability to handle emotional discomfort without letting it control behavior or relationships. In this exciting conversation we talk about the idea of “microdosing” discomfort—practicing small, manageable moments of challenge to gradually increase resilience. We also talk about the difference between emotional regulation (managing intensity) and distress tolerance (accepting discomfort). Joanna Hardis, LISW-S, a Cornell graduate and cognitive behavioral therapist, helps parents build resilience and distress tolerance in her clinical practice. Be sure to grab a copy of her new book, Just Do Nothing (for Parents): How to Parent Better by Doing Less Want to take your parenting journey to another level? Book your complimentary connection call now! March 26, 2026 Episode 318 How to Parent Better By Doing Less - The Power of Distress Tolerance with Joanna Hardis About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the forthcoming book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Interested in being a guest on the podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Complete the Guest Application form here. | |||
| Meltdown in Aisle Two! How to Talk to Toddlers in the Moment. (Little Linguists Part 9) | 24 Mar 2026 | 00:17:14 | |
How do you talk to a toddler when they are in the middle of a meltdown? In this episode I explain how using intentional language helps caregivers connect with toddlers and guide their behavior more effectively. I emphasize the idea that connection is the foundation for cooperation, especially in challenging moments. Giving children space, empathy, and involvement leads to better outcomes and stronger communication. Be the First to Know When Talk to Them Early and Often is Available For Preorder. Get on the list here! March 24, 2026 Episode 317 Meltdown in Aisle Two! How to Talk to Toddlers in the Moment. (Little Linguists Part 9) About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the forthcoming book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Interested in being a guest on the podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Complete the Guest Application form here. | |||
| Why Won't Toddlers Listen? The 4 Steps to Active Listening- Little Linguists Series Part 8 | 17 Mar 2026 | 00:13:50 | |
What if toddlers are actually listening—but simply choosing a response we didn’t expect? This episode redefines what it truly means for toddlers to “listen,” challenging the common belief that listening equals immediate compliance. I explain the four steps of active listening and highlight that a child may listen yet still choose not to follow a direction. I emphasize that adults can shift expectations and reduce power struggles with toddlers. Longing for more community on your parenting journey? I am launching a community JUST FOR YOU! It's time for us to see each other face to virtual face, hear each other in live time, so that we can really connect deeply and help each other through those challenging and celebratory moments that is toddlerhood. Get on the mailing list here so you can get all the details! March 17, 2026 Episode 316 Why Won't Toddlers Listen? The 4 Steps to Active Listening- Little Linguists Series Part 8 About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the forthcoming book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Interested in being a guest on the podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Complete the Guest Application form here. | |||
| Children's Doodles: What They Tell You About Their Feelings & Identity with Dr. Josephine Deguara | 12 Mar 2026 | 00:40:43 | |
Wonder what your child's doodles mean? Dr. Josephine Deguara joins me to discuss how children often use drawing as an early language to express thoughts and emotions before they can fully use words. We talk about how adults should avoid interpreting drawings themselves and instead ask open-ended questions to understand the child’s meaning. When children are given time, materials, and attentive listeners, drawing helps them process feelings, tell stories, and explore their identity. Prof Josephine Deguara is an Associate Professor and researcher in the Department of Early Childhood and Primary Education at the University of Malta. Her work focuses on early childhood pedagogy, policy, and practice, with a particular interest in how children express their thinking and experiences through drawing. She uses children’s drawings as a way of understanding identity, belonging, play, and children’s funds of knowledge through participatory, rights-based research approaches. Longing for more community on your parenting journey? I am launching a community JUST FOR YOU! It's time for us to see each other face to virtual face, hear each other in live time, so that we can really connect deeply and help each other through those challenging and celebratory moments that is toddlerhood. Get on the mailing list here so you can get all the details! March 12, 2026 Episode 315 Children's Doodles: What They Tell You About Their Feelings & Identity with Dr. Josephine Deguara About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the forthcoming book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Interested in being a guest on the podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Complete the Guest Application form here. | |||
| My Toddler Can't Follow Simple Directions. Is Something Wrong? Little Linguists Series Part 7 | 10 Mar 2026 | 00:13:16 | |
Ever feel like your toddler has "selective listening"? In this episode I share how toddlers may struggle to follow directions when their receptive language skills or emotional regulation are not fully developed. Children move through three brain states—physical safety, emotional safety, and learning, and they can only process instructions and learn when they feel both safe and loved. Be the First to Know When Talk to Them Early and Often is Available For Preorder. Get on the list here! March 10, 2026 Episode 314 My Toddler Can't Follow Simple Directions. Is Something Wrong? Little Linguists Series Part 7 About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the forthcoming book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Interested in being a guest on the podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Complete the Guest Application form here. | |||
| A Girl and Her Dog: Why Toddlers Seem 'So Smart' Overnight - Little Linguists Series Part 6 | 03 Mar 2026 | 00:16:53 | |
What if your toddler understands far more than they can say—and they’ve been quietly learning from you since the day they were born? In this episode I explain how toddlers develop receptive language (what they understand) long before they can fully express themselves and have been absorbing words, tone, body language, and environmental cues since birth. I emphasize that communication is a two-way, relational process—what adults express, children receive and interpret, and vice versa—so miscommunication can happen when meanings don’t align. The key takeaway is for caregivers to be intentional with their language, energy, and responses, and to celebrate toddlers when they demonstrate understanding, recognizing that early development is a long but powerful growing season. Looking for intentional language scripts you can use with your toddler? Check out my newest free gift to you:5 Things Your Toddler Needs to Hear You Say Everyday. Watch and listen as your child starts to respond differently to you. March 3, 2026 Episode 313 A Girl and Her Dog: Why Toddlers Seem 'So Smart' Overnight - Little Linguists Series Part 6 About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the forthcoming book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Interested in being a guest on the podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Complete the Guest Application form here. | |||
| Breathe, Sleep, Thrive - The Healthy Connection Between Airway Health and Successful Kids with Dr. Lim | 26 Feb 2026 | 00:39:09 | |
Ever wonder how breath and sleep affect our kids? Dr. Shereen Lim joins me to discuss the connection between breath and sleep. We explore how healthy breathing shapes your child's brain and behavior and also talk about tongue ties and healthy mouths. Dr. Shereen Lim is the Founder and Principal Dentist at Sparkle Dental, the author of Breathe, Sleep, Thrive and is one of Australia’s first dentists to pioneer an airway-focused approach to dental care. Through her work, she’s helped hundreds of parents and educators understand how healthy breathing and jaw development support sleep, speech, learning, and behavior. Lean more about her work in her bookBreathe, Sleep, Thrive. Want to learn more about language, communication and connecting with toddlers? Book your complimentary connection call now! February 26, 2026 Episode 312 Breathe, Sleep, Thrive - The Healthy Connection Between Airway Health and Successful Kids with Dr. Lim About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the forthcoming book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Interested in being a guest on the podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Complete the Guest Application form here.
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| The Antidote to Anxiety - Little Linguists Series Part 5 | 24 Feb 2026 | 00:16:37 | |
What's the antidote to anxiety? In this episode, I explain that energy—especially nonverbal communication—plays a powerful role in how adults connect with toddlers. Fear, anxiety, and worry about new situations or repeated challenging routines (like naptime) subtly shape our tone, body language, and facial expressions, which children quickly mirror. Rather than trying to eliminate anxiety by achieving better outcomes, I emphasize that the true antidote to anxiety is acceptance of the moment as it is. Be the First to Know When Talk to Them Early and Often is Available For Preorder. Get on the list here! February 24, 2026 Episode 311 The Antidote to Anxiety - Little Linguists Series Part 5 About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the forthcoming book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Interested in being a guest on the podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Complete the Guest Application form here. | |||
| My Public Apology to My Daughter - What I Said vs. What I Should Have Said | 17 Feb 2026 | 00:14:14 | |
Have you ever said something to your child and regretted it? In this episode, I share a recent and very personal example of a situation where I said something hurtful to my daughter. I share what happened, what I said and what I should have said in that moment. This episode is a reminder that parenting is a continual process and the importance of repair work, no matter our children's age. Want to learn more about language, communication and connecting with your children? Book your complimentary connection call now! Be the First to Know When Talk to Them Early and Often is Available For Preorder. Get on the list here! February 17, 2026 Episode 310 My Public Apology to My Daughter - What I Said vs. What I Should Have Said About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of Core4Parenting. A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success. As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the forthcoming book Talk to Them Early and Often, a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life. Interested in being a guest on the podcast? We'd love to hear from you! Complete the Guest Application form here. | |||