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Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged with hosts Isla and Paul.

In this week’s episode, the pair are joined by the incredibly talented Joe Reeves, a wedding saxophone player whose career has taken him from school performances to playing for brands and names like Manchester United, Porsche, and Gymshark.

Joe shares honest insight into the biggest mistakes couples make when booking live wedding entertainment, and breaks down the reality of having a sax player at your wedding - beyond the Instagram hype. He opens up about his own journey, from starting out as a more reserved performer to becoming an artist who fully engages with the crowd and brings the party to life.

The conversation also covers budgeting for live entertainment, what couples should expect from the booking process, and the pros and cons of hiring a wedding sax player. Joe explains why couples should be cautious when searching for a bargain - and what can go wrong when price becomes the priority.

If you’re considering live music for your wedding, this episode is packed with real advice, industry insight, and behind-the-scenes truth you won’t want to miss.

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Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged with your hosts Isla and Paul! 

On today's bonus episode, the pair are joined by Esme, one of the organisers of the hub wedding showcase. If you are recently engaged, or in the depths of wedding planning, you NEED to listen to this episode as it contains exclusive information about the upcoming wedding show on the 22nd February 2026.

• Live podcast experience
• Free goodies and discounts
• Advice from expert suppliers
• Food and drinks
• No venue pressure

We will see you there! 

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Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked with your hosts Isla and Paul!

This week, we’re brushing up on all things bridal beauty with the fabulous Toni, owner of Hair by Toni - a pro wedding hairstylist who knows exactly how to make every bride feel like a million dollars on their big day. ✨

From achieving the perfect curl to handling those fussy bridesmaids with grace, Toni shares expert insights, tried-and-true techniques, and behind-the-scenes stories from years in the wedding industry.

If you’re planning your wedding, searching for the right bridal hair inspiration, or just want to know what it takes to create flawless wedding day hair, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in and get ready to let your hair down - beautifully! 

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Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked with hosts Isla and Paul!

This week, they’re joined by Rhian, the creative force behind Bake-a-Licious, to talk all things wedding cakes - from design inspiration to delicious disasters. Rhian takes us behind the scenes of her meticulous cake-making process, revealing the artistry, planning, and precision that goes into creating the perfect centrepiece for a couple’s big day.

She also shares the latest wedding cake trends, what’s currently in fashion, and her top expert tips for avoiding any last-minute cake catastrophes. And of course, she answers the age-old question: do you really need a wedding cake at all?

Whether you’re deep in wedding planning, searching for cake ideas, or just curious if fruitcake is still a thing, this episode will leave you feeling confident, inspired, and maybe even a little hungry.

🎧 Tune in for insider advice, expert insights, and plenty of sweet laughs!

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Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked with your hosts Isla and Paul!

This week, the pair are joined by the incredibly talented Alison from Lasting Memories Wedding and Event Styling for a fun and inspiring chat all about luxury wedding venue styling. From expert venue dressing tips and design ideas to clever ways to repurpose ceremony décor for your evening reception, Alison shares how to make every wedding space look stunning and cohesive.

You’ll also hear her best advice for couples on the big day, including how to keep children (and guests!) from accidentally disrupting the décor or wedding videos.

Plus, Alison opens up about the shocking story behind her viral Instagram comeback after her original, years-in-the-making account was hacked and deleted. Her resilience and success in rebuilding her brand from scratch is an inspiring listen for wedding pros, business owners, and anyone chasing their dream.

✨ Packed with expert styling insights, wedding inspiration, and motivational moments, this episode is a must-listen for anyone planning a wedding or working in the industry.

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Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked with your hosts Isla and Paul!

This week, we’re turning up the volume with special guest Harry from HM Sounds, a professional wedding DJ who knows exactly how to keep the dancefloor packed and the vibes immaculate. 

Harry drops the beat and the knowledge as he unpacks what couples should (and definitely shouldn’t) do when it comes to their wedding music, DJ setup, and reception playlist. From wedding failures to crowd-pleasing anthems, this episode is full of insider tips, laughs, and real talk that every soon-to-be-wed couple needs before saying “I do.”

Whether you’re planning your dream wedding or just love a good behind-the-booth story, hit play and let’s spin through the world of wedding DJing, one track at a time. 

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In this episode of The Added Extra Unpacked, hosts Isla and Paul sit down with Laura from Vision Wave, an award-winning wedding videographer, to unpack the wild, funny, and sometimes shocking world of wedding videography.

They dive deep into wedding day dos and don’ts, the most common mistakes guests make that ruin wedding videos, and essential wedding planning tips every couple should know before saying “I do.” Laura also reveals her biggest piece of advice for couples, her top wedding icks, and how to make sure your wedding video looks cinematic and stress-free.

If you’re planning a wedding, working in the wedding industry, or just love behind-the-scenes stories from wedding pros, this episode is packed with expert insights, funny wedding stories, and real advice from a professional videographer.

🎧 Tune in for hilarious moments, practical wedding planning tips, and a look at what really happens behind the camera on your big day!

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Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked with Isla and Paul! 

This week, they’re joined by professional wedding content creator Lisa, who’s here to tackle one of the biggest questions couples ask: “Can’t my guests just record the wedding on their phones?” 

Lisa shares insider knowledge on why guest phone videos often miss the magic, plus the must-know benefits of having a dedicated content creator on your big day. From capturing the candid moments you’ll treasure forever to avoiding those wedding day “icks,” Lisa spills her top tips and industry secrets.

🎥 Expect hilarious behind-the-scenes stories, shocking real-life experiences, and practical advice every bride and groom should hear before saying “I do.”

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Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked with hosts Isla and Paul! 

This week, they’re joined by Liam from the stunning wedding venue Lion & Swan. Liam reveals an exclusive new package designed especially for grooms, plus insider venue secrets every couple needs to know before the big day.

From handling drunk guests and navigating family feuds to switching up your venue layout for maximum impact, Liam shares invaluable tips and behind-the-scenes advice straight from the wedding industry. You’ll also hear about the biggest “icks” wedding pros encounter-and how to avoid them!

👰🤵 Whether you’re a bride, groom, or part of the wedding party, this episode is packed with must-know insights to help you plan a smooth, unforgettable celebration.

✨ Don’t miss it-subscribe for more expert wedding tips, venue advice, and hilarious real-life stories on Unpacked with Isla & Paul!

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Welcome to a brand-new series of Unpacked with hosts Isla and Paul! 

In this week’s episode, they sit down with expert wedding coordinator Joella to dive deep into the world of wedding planning. Joella shares insider secrets about her role in guiding couples through the wedding process, the most common mistakes to avoid, and the must-know tips that can help your big day run smoothly and stress-free.

From hilarious (and slightly harrowing) real-life client dilemmas to practical advice every bride and groom needs before walking down the aisle, this episode is packed with valuable insights you won’t want to miss.

👰🤵 Perfect for brides, grooms, and anyone planning a wedding!

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