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S1Ep. 19 - Feminisation stands out as a common theme in kink, encompassing a broad range of activities. Some individuals enjoy the sensual aspects of feminine clothing, appreciating its textures and visual appeal. Others may pursue feminisation for humiliation, while for some, it is a vital expression of their identity. In this episode, we take a closer look at the world of feminisation and the various approaches people adopt within this area of kink.

S1Ep. 18 - In this episode, we explore the spanking community with special guests, Eric & Sky from Spanko! podcast. They shed light on the nuances of consensual adult spanking and the myths that surround it. Join us as we discuss important communication habits, the intersectionality with BDSM, and how this practice can be a meaningful and consensual expression of intimacy for many. Whether you're curious about being the one under or being the one holding the paddle, this episode offers a respectful and informative look into the world of spankos.

Quotable: "She stole the keys right outta my pockets and pretended I had lost them somewhere!"

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S1Ep. 9 - Cuckolding is a sexual practice as old as time, but has only recently gained mainstream attention. We carefully uncover this consensual act between adults with Cuckoldress, Goddess Greta Vanderthrust. Listen as she shares her firsthand success stories and we get into the nitty gritty of all parties motivations, challenges, false expectations, and myths while balancing your self-worth. Come explore the truth about cuckolding as a kink and a lifestyle.

Quotable: "Sometimes I just like watching my partner [accidentally] cuck himself."

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S1Ep. 8 - Guiding your own sexual health, relationships, desires and kinky ideology is something you may seek on a personal scale. Join us with relationship coach and behavior analyst, Anneke Elmhirst of All4Love. As a queer, polyamorous, kinkster her perspective is vast and inquisitive. We discuss the evolution of societal acceptances through sexual health awareness. Listen in as Anneke flexes her coaching skills and shares her viewpoint and tips on motives behind kinks, the importance of compassion in self awareness, adjusting belief systems, shedding shame, and confronting the uncomfortable within on the road to greater sexual health and healing.

Quotable: "Shame is universal. Every client I have helped, has had some level of shame around something that needed to be unpacked."

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S1Ep. 7 - High protocol is often considered the most "formal" level of D/s play. Some even consider this secret set of rituals a big part of their interactions within their dynamics. This strict and formal enactment of roles for all parties depending on the event, location, present company, desired reaction, or more can dictate a lot without saying much. We will chat about understanding how to define structure discreetly and implement rituals to vary the intensity of activities whether for a scene, a party, or to practice "leveling up" your protocols.

Quotable: "High protocol is a form of subspace for me. My reality is changed."

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S1Ep. 6 - The internet may try to tell you otherwise, but kink is not exclusively a young person's playground, nor is blooming later into whatever your sexual desires may entail. But, what is it really like to get into kink later in life? Join us as we chat with guest kinkster, Bondage slave, who dipped their toe into their dark desires over the hill. We will discuss personal challenges and triumphs along his journey to self discovery where he learned, age really is just a number and not a limitation.

Quotable: "There's mental arousal and physical arousal, and I owe Mistress Star for helping me reach both."

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S1Ep. 5 - Pet Play is a popular and fully customizable subculture of BDSM and kink, involving taking on the properties of a particular pet, animal, or creature. Unlike some other kinks, this one is easy to approach for newcomers, inexpensive, and suitable for pick-up play or long term training. Pet players come in all shapes and sizes from the well known puppies, kitties, and ponies, to dragons, bunnies, and more! Let "fetch" you the basics of exploring this kink from terminology, roles, play suggestions, and training practices.

Quotable: "Once the blinders go on, you really, really feel removed."

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S1Ep. 4 - Often we hear about D-types "vetting" their s-types, but it goes both way. Vetting is to thoroughly inspect and get to know a person. It’s an old school practice in BDSM that gets ignored too often in today’s meet-online-first world. We'll share what to consider before you start a dynamic, how to approach necessary topics early on, where to meet other kinksters, red flags, and more tips toward Dominant vetting. A huge part of having a functional D/s relationship is about building trust and this is the first step.

Quotable: "I only want to see a d*ck pic if it makes me laugh or moan."

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S1Ep. 3 - S-Types come in all styles from “bratty” to “service” and these individuals have their own unique ways of expressing themselves through submission. But have you ever thought about what those expressions manifest as and the markers for identifying some common traits? This week we peel back the edges in discussing the mindsets, titles, tips, and more when naming the many, non-exhaustive list of "styles" submission can take.

Quotable: "I know I give off brat vibes but, trust me, I am no brat."

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S1Ep. 2 - Living in a 24/7 D/s relationship isn't for everyone. The lines between your roles as kinksters and the rest of your life get blurred. That's why it's important you understand the realities over the myths. Join us for a candid conversation with guest and collared submissive, Sxysmrf as we dive into 24/7 dynamics and the real work, emotional needs, challenges, and surprising rewards it can entail. ⁠What does a 24/7 lifestyle mean to you?

Quotable: "It's not a cult until there are 5 of em!"

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