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Melody Guy shares her extraordinary journey as an autistic singer-songwriter who has traveled over two million miles despite the challenges of sensory issues and PTSD. She reveals how music became both her shelter and her bridge to connecting with others when words failed.

• Diagnosed with autism as an adult around the same time as her son
• Survived childhood sexual abuse starting at age nine and a kidnapping at age 19
• Found her voice through music after escaping a controlling marriage that prevented her from singing for ten years
• Created "red threads" of connection through music demonstrations at Guitar Centers across America
• Developed coping strategies including a mental "switch" that helps her perform despite sensory challenges
• Working on her 11th music project which includes songs about autism like "Invisible" and "Life in the Spectrum"
• Discovered her "superpower" in co-writing songs with other trauma survivors through music therapy programs
• Advocates for fellow autistic individuals to embrace their differences and clearly communicate their boundaries

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Leanna May Franklin shares her journey as a mental health advocate after her son experienced a psychotic break at age 19, revealing the challenges of navigating care even with resources and professional expertise.

• Experienced a life-changing moment when her son had a psychotic breakdown during a family gathering
• Recognized signs that she initially thought were typical teenage behaviors but were early symptoms of mental illness
• Her son is now diagnosed with schizoaffective disorder depressive type with polysubstance use
• Despite having resources and knowledge, faced enormous barriers in getting appropriate care for her adult son
• Co-founded a holistic mental health clinic offering integrated approaches including blood testing and IV therapy
• Advocates for successful community treatment models like one in Yakima, Washington that provides services with minimal budget
• Discusses "ambiguous grief" – the unique pain of losing someone who is still physically present
• Emphasizes the importance of documentation, understanding system language, and building support teams
• Believes in setting boundaries as an act of protection while continuing to advocate for better care
• Works with National Shattering Silence Coalition to influence mental health policy reform

If you'd like to learn more about Liana's work or need advocacy support, contact her at leanna@seattlenad.com or call/text 425-393-4762.

She is available to attend meetings anywhere in the US to support those navigating the mental health system.

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Eric Diaz shares his journey of living with schizoaffective disorder and becoming an advocate for those with serious mental illness.

Through finding the right medication, supportive communities, and creative outlets, Eric transformed from someone who couldn't leave his house to a published author helping others navigate similar challenges.

• Diagnosed with schizoaffective disorder as a teenager but initially lacked insight into his condition
• Participated in a clinical trial at Emory University that was crucial for starting treatment
• Struggled with significant medication side effects before finding an effective treatment in 2011
• Went from making fries at Wendy's to getting his GED and attending college
• Became a Certified Peer Specialist to help others with mental health conditions
• Recently published his novel "I Got Sober For This" exploring themes of mental illness
• Now works as an employment specialist helping others with brain disorders find work
• Credits stable housing, family support, and faith community as vital to his recovery
• Emphasizes the importance of both medical treatment and social support systems
• Currently focusing on writing and will be taking a screenwriting workshop

Keep hope, keep going, and don't give up. Reach out to Eric at EricJDiaz1981@gmail.com if you'd like to learn more about his book or experiences.

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What if realizing you were autistic as an adult could change not only your self-perception but also your life's mission?
Meet Iko Edward Fish of Enlightened Consentment, who received his autism diagnosis at 38.
His path from struggling with social interactions to becoming a beacon of hope for others on the spectrum is nothing short of inspiring.
Listen to his story of growth, spurred by a TEDx talk, which led him to a deeper understanding of himself and a newfound passion for guiding autistic individuals in their dating and relationship journeys.

Ever wondered how personal growth can transform not just your emotional state but your entire life trajectory?
Discover the moving story of a young man who transitioned from social isolation in college to embracing emotional authenticity.
A personal growth program became the turning point, as he confronted years of pent-up anger and sadness, leading to an emotional breakthrough that fueled his dedication to helping others see their inherent worth.
This narrative underscores the power of emotional reconnection and the capacity for profound change.

Finally, delve into the essential topic of self-love and acceptance following a late autism diagnosis.
We cover insights from Enlightened Consentment on fostering successful relationships for those on the spectrum and beyond, emphasizing the importance of seeing autism as a cultural difference.
Learn about workshops designed to aid autistic individuals in social interactions, and discover ways to connect with Iko through his guide on overcoming social awkwardness.
Join us in spreading awareness and understanding, and hear how you can share your own stories to inspire others.

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Marie Martin never imagined she'd become a fierce advocate for her autistic son, Zach, but life had other plans. J
oin us as Marie reveals her transformative journey from a telecommunications professional to a warrior mom, equipped with a wealth of knowledge about autism, ADHD, and co-occurring conditions.
You'll gain invaluable insights from her experiences, including the hurdles she and her family face due to Zach's demand avoidant profile and severe anxiety.

The episode takes a critical look at the systemic flaws within the UK's Children and Families Act 2014, particularly its impact on Special Educational Needs and Disabilities (SEND).
Marie unpacks the deficiencies in professional training and accountability, as well as the pressures placed on local authorities through initiatives like "safety valves."
Hear a poignant personal story that underscores the desperate need for better resources and independent support systems, advocating for a more inclusive and effective educational landscape.

But Marie's advocacy doesn't stop at education. Learn about Zach's incredible journey into the workforce, where despite his talents and glowing testimonials from companies like National Grid and Morrison's Energy, he faced significant challenges.
Marie's relentless efforts in fighting for neurodivergent employment opportunities, including going to the press and harnessing the power of social media, emphasize the urgent need for systemic change.
As the episode concludes, we call upon our listeners to join forces in spreading the message that no one should face these struggles alone.

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Unlock the complexities of autism with Dr. Temple Grandin, one of the most respected voices in the field.
Our in-depth conversation peels back the layers of the autistic experience, illuminating the importance of early intervention, hands-on learning, and the richness of talents within the spectrum.
Discover how practical life skills and work experience can transform lives, and learn strategies to support both verbal and non-verbal individuals in expressing themselves and thriving in a world that often misunderstands them.

Meltdowns can be one of the most challenging aspects of autism, but they don't have to be a barrier to peace.
Dr. Grandin and I share personal insights and strategies on navigating these intense moments with calmness and consistency.
From identifying the underlying causes of frustration to managing sensory sensitivities, this episode equips listeners with tools to help their loved ones gain control over their experiences and communicate more effectively.

Step into the shoes of someone living on the autism spectrum as we explore the vital role of educational support, accommodating workplaces, and the cultural understanding of autism.
Dr. Grandin's wisdom is complemented by a practical look at dietary needs and therapy choices for autistic children, emphasizing the significance of a teacher's connection over the name of a therapy.
Plus, Temple Grandin reflects on her illustrious career and how her no-nonsense approach to problem-solving has forged paths in agriculture and autism advocacy alike. Join us to embrace diverse perspectives and champion the autistic community through education, empathy, and empowerment.

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From the depths of silence to a voice that echoes across the globe, Temple Grandin's life is a testament to the uncharted brilliance of the autistic mind.
Our conversation peels back the curtain on Temple's journey, revealing the significance of nurturing communication in non-verbal children and the power of supportive educational systems.
Temple's raw recount of adolescence showcases her unyielding resilience amidst the sting of high school bullying, yet she emerged with a steadfast determination that would shape her into the celebrated thought leader and animal behaviorist she is today.

Imagine a world where the workplace thrives on the diverse talents of the autistic community.
Temple Grandin guides us through this transformative vision, emphasizing the critical need for practical skills training and workplace accommodations, like written instructions, to tap into the rich pool of visual, pattern, and word thinkers on the spectrum.
Her insights are a beacon for integrating hands-on classes in education, illuminating the path for those with autism to shine in industries that yearn for their unique skills—from technology to specialized retail.

Temple's conversation culminates in a powerful call to action, urging society to embrace and integrate the 'different operating systems' of autistic individuals.
As we dissect the importance of life skills education and the value autistic individuals bring to fields as varied as aviation and pharmaceuticals, it becomes clear that autism is not a hindrance but a lens through which new solutions emerge.
Temple's vision extends beyond mere acceptance, advocating for a future where appreciation for the rich variety of human minds fosters a more inclusive and thriving society.
Join us on this inspiring journey, as we uncover the untapped potential that lies in recognizing and valuing neurodiversity.

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Celebrating a year of heartfelt stories and shared experiences, "Why Not Me the World Podcast" reaches its first milestone with gratitude and excitement that knows no bounds.
As your host Tony Mantor, I've had the honor of welcoming guests whose resilience and joy have touched us all, and now, from the vibrant city of Nashville, Tennessee, we're gearing up for another trip around the sun.
This special anniversary episode is a heartfelt thank-you to each of you—our global listeners—for the laughs, tears, and profound connections we've created together.
Starting this Wednesday, buckle up for a two-part interview with the legendary Temple Grandin, a luminary whose insights into autism have revolutionized our understanding and acceptance.
Her captivating conversation is a testament to the powerful voices that guide our mission, fostering a community where autistic individuals are uplifted and celebrated.
We're not just sharing stories; we're building a movement, one episode at a time.
So, whether you're a long-time listener or newly tuning in, join us as we embark on another year of discovery and inspiration right here on "Why Not Me? The World Podcast.

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Imagine discovering the key to unlocking new levels of connection and learning for those with autism—a key covered in fur and filled with unconditional love.
That's exactly what AJ Cullen Langell brings to light in our heartwarming episode as she recounts the story of Autism Barks. AJ, a special education teacher, witnessed firsthand the incredible influence her dog, Ella, had on her students, catalyzing the creation of an initiative that intertwines her passion for canines with her dedication to the autism community.
We delve into the distinctions among service dogs, therapy dogs, and emotional support animals, unraveling the specialized roles each plays in supporting individuals with autism.

Through AJ's lens, we're taken on a journey that explores not only the enchanting bond between humans and dogs but also the intricate process of tailoring a service dog's training to the needs of their autistic companions.
Our conversation traverses the complexities involved in acquiring a service dog, from the hefty financial commitment to the extensive training, often spanning up to two years.
Moreover, we examine the delicate balance of ensuring the well-being of both the individual and their canine helper, debunking the myth that service dogs are a panacea. AJ's experiences illuminate the transformative capacities of these remarkable creatures and the dedication required to craft such finely attuned partnerships.

Our exchange concludes with a candid discussion on the power of advocacy and research in animal-assisted interventions, aimed at broadening acceptance and understanding within educational and medical circles.
Sharing stories of triumph and trial, AJ and I underscore the necessity of combatting biases and fostering a more inclusive view of autism.
By weaving connections with organizations that share our vision, we advocate for recognizing therapy animals as invaluable allies in the lives of those on the autism spectrum.
We invite you to tune in and perhaps even share your own encounters with the healing presence of pets in the journey with autism.

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When Ebony Allard stepped into the luminous yet puzzling world of her autism, she unearthed an unexpected sanctuary amidst the rhythmic hum of Spain's foreign tongue. Our latest conversation with this mystic artist and self-actualization facilitator is nothing short of a revelation, as she shares the untold nuances of living with autism diagnosed in adulthood.
Ebony's narrative is not just her own - it echoes the silent symphonies of many who navigate life feeling perennially out of sync, only to discover that their unique symphony has its own harmonious place in the world.

Venture with us through the entangled pathways of Ebony's metastable nervous system, where humor became her shield and rebellion her salve during the tumultuous journey from adolescence to the vast stages of university life.
Her candid reflection on the seismic shifts from small classrooms to the grand theatres of scenic art and theatre practice casts a spotlight on the coping mechanisms that so often go unseen.
In this chapter of Ebony's life, the laughter and defiance that peppered her story reveal a profound self-awareness and resilience that speaks volumes to anyone wrestling with their mental health in the face of daunting social landscapes.

But the richness of Ebony's tapestry doesn't stop at her personal triumphs; as the founder of Ebony Unlimited Limited, her entrepreneurial flair has ignited transformations that are nothing short of miraculous - from marketing professionals to men of the cloth.
Our exchange dives into the kaleidoscope of her ventures and the delicate dance of neurodiverse relationships, all while dispensing wisdom that resonates deeply with those striving to carve out their unique imprint in business and life.
Ebony's journey, marked by her laughter, learning, and limitless potential, is a testament to the fact that sometimes, the most profound insights come from embracing the very things that make us different.

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