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How to let God transform your character | Pretty face & bad character?16 Feb 202500:42:10

This is how I went from being lukewarm to having my life and my character transformed through my relationship with God and how you can too.


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How to Reinvent Yourself with God09 Feb 202500:46:39

This is my plan to reinvent myself in 2025 and beyond as a Christian.


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182. How to stop being a perfectionist18 Oct 202400:28:33

Sis.... how much research are you going to do on that idea before you finally start? Let's talk about it.


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Building GODfidence and being intentional about spending time with God (Clip from #124)12 Mar 202400:14:15

He is not a man so he can't lie (Numbers 23:19) so if he says you are made in his image and that you are loved who are you or anyone else to question that? It's time to build our confidence in what GOD says about us not other people.


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154. It's time to stop doom scrolling; you've wasted enough time10 Mar 202400:39:40

You've wasted enough time doom scrolling on social media, sis. It's time to reclaim your attention and focus on things that will build you up vs waste your time.


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Stop saying yes when you really want to say no (Clip from #128)07 Mar 202400:09:50

This one is for the people pleasers. It's time to stop saying yes to people and dreading the day because you really didn't want to do it.


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EP #128. It's time to put an end to your people pleasing sis


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How long will you sit on your ideas? (Clip from #127)05 Mar 202400:10:45

How long will you put off the nagging feeling you have to do that thing? How long will you let it torture you?


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EP #127. Don't bring the same ideas, goals, and fears into 2024


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153. Get out of your comfort zone; It’s making you miserable03 Mar 202400:24:06

Everything you want is on the other side of your comfort zone… and fear.


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If you slack off in one thing you'll slack off in everything (Clip from #126)29 Feb 202400:05:46

Don't think you can slack off in one area of your life and then be the best in another area. It will apply to everything you do.


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EP #126 - Hold yourself to a high standard


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Pastor politics and protecting your relationship with God (Clip from #124)27 Feb 202400:09:58

So you decided to build a relationship with God but you're dealing with all the pastor politics of people wanting to give opinions on certain pastors and condemn you for it.. here's what I've learned in my early days of trying to build a relationship with God.


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152. Your need for approval is holding you back25 Feb 202400:39:11

It's time you stop letting your need for other people to approve of you and support you hold you back. You can't be in a place where you never take action on what you want to do just because you don't have the support of family and friends.. or even let that hold you back along the way.


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It's time to let go of this version of you (Clip from #121)22 Feb 202400:06:41

You've outgrown this version of yourself. It has taken you as far as it can take you. It's time to shift into new habits and patterns to get the things you're working toward.


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EP #121 - Stop running from the call. You've outgrown this version of yourself


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It's just not your time...YET (Clip from #76)20 Feb 202400:05:55

A lot of what you do before you elevate will be unseen. Only you will know how bad you're struggling right now. But eventually, when you're propelled into what you're praying for, people will think you're an overnight success.


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EP #76 - You're planted, not buried


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This version of you has expired. (Clip from #121)08 Oct 202400:06:41

You've outgrown this version of yourself. It has taken you as far as it can take you. It's time to shift into new habits and patterns to get the things you're working toward.


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EP #121 - Stop running from the call. You've outgrown this version of yourself


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151. The waiting season - when God's timing doesn't align with yours18 Feb 202400:35:51

Have you ever felt like you were working on yourself or working toward a goal and you've been waiting to see the fruits of your labor for so long but nothing seems to be changing?... and you're just.... waiting...? It can make you feel hopeless but you can't give up. Here's how to deal with your waiting season.


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Take your word seriously (Clip from #120)15 Feb 202400:08:05

Choose your words carefully and stick to your commitments. It reflects poorly on your integrity and confidence when you don't.


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EP #120 - Honor your commitments


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Don't make poor decisions this Valentine's Day ma'am (Clip from #71)13 Feb 202400:04:41

Don't revisit any closed doors just because you're single on Valentine's day miss girl.


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EP #71 - Listen before you give them a second chance


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150. Your old desires won't go away just because you decide to be better11 Feb 202400:38:14

Just because you decide to be the best version of yourself and walk in alignment with God's plan for your life doesn't mean that your fleshly desires go away. But how many of us beat ourselves up for it? Let's talk about it.


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Contradicting yourself isn't always a bad thing (Clip from #101)08 Feb 202400:06:23

I used to be afraid of contradicting myself on my platform. I was afraid of saying the wrong thing and being wrong or crucified if I changed my mind later. But I learned something very important and I'm going to share it with you today. This perspective literally freed me from that fear.


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How to start being selfish (in a good way) (Clip from #114)06 Feb 202400:11:23

It's time to start putting yourself first and being selfish (in a good way). You gain nothing from putting yourself last.


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149. Accept your story and become UNBOTHERED04 Feb 202400:21:11

This is the only way to fully love yourself and feel confident in who you are. Once you do this people won't have any ammunition on you and you'll feel absolutely invincible.


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Are you letting distractions make you drift in life? (Clip #117)01 Feb 202400:12:02

Be mindful of what you give your time to because you might find yourself drifting and feeling lost in life.


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Are you giving off desperate energy in your dating life? (Clip from #116)30 Jan 202400:12:12

We weren't meant to be alone forever.. but have you been alone for so long that you're coming across as desperate?


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EP #116 - You date at the level of your self esteem... so make sure it's HIGH



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148. Stop hopping on every trend and blending in with the crowd28 Jan 202400:15:41

Do you realize hopping on every trend is making you blend in with everyone else? Let's start thinking for ourselves in 2024.


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181. How to ACTUALLY change your life in the next 90 days03 Oct 202400:24:09

And I'm not talking 45 step morning routines, waking up at 5AM and all this other stuff.


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Are the things you give your time to helping you or distracting you? (Clip from #118)25 Jan 202400:09:32

Change what you consume to align with what you desire.


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EP #118 - Stop getting caught up in the destination and enjoy the journey



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What does your time with God look like AFTER He gets you out of tough situations? (Clip from #117)23 Jan 202400:14:10

Childd the devil is always working hard so make sure you're working harder!


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147. Stop living for the next best thing21 Jan 202400:21:52

Don't overlook the season you're in right now because it's not aligned with where you'd "rather" be.


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Remember this the next time you want to scroll mindlessly (Clip from #118)18 Jan 202400:09:35

You can have fun and get some entertainment but be mindful of the type of "entertainment" you consume and what it does to your mindset or how it distracts you.


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STOP promoting the STRUGGLE GOSPEL (Clip from #113)16 Jan 202400:13:27

Your tough times were for YOU. They were to mold you. And even if you made it out the suburbs vs the hood your experience is still VALID. Stop making people feel invalidated your work ethic because you weren't traumatized OR make you feel like you have to prove that you were traumatized to deserve success.


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146. 2024 will NOT be your year if you fear success14 Jan 202400:30:39

We all want success but I'll bet the closer you get to it the more you'll start to fear it.


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But what have you gained for putting yourself last? (Clip from #114)11 Jan 202400:11:23

You might think putting yourself last is noble but sis.. what has this done for you so far? How can you continue to justify this when it leaves you so depleted?


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So you have time for others but not for yourself? (Clip from #115)09 Jan 202400:08:26

But... what about the things you're supposed to be doing for yourself? If you committed your time to do something for you why do you easily change your plans when other people need things from you? What about your personal commitments?


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145. The 4 Most Important Things to Prioritize in 202407 Jan 202400:44:39

Everything you want to achieve and become stems from these 4 things so if you prioritize them you will not only become a better person but you will achieve your other goals as well.


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Sis your mind was made up long before you asked people to cosign your decision (Clip from #109)04 Jan 202400:09:10

You might fool your friends but you can't fool me. You made your mind up long before you conjured up that story (in your favor) to tell your friends to get them to cosign on your bad decisions. Let's own up to it.


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Are you giving your BEST or the bare minimum? (Clip from #151)03 Oct 202400:10:37

When you think about the thing you really want to do.. are you giving your all in the pursuit of that thing or are you just keeping busy with basic tasks?


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USE YOUR PRIVILEGE! Stop downplaying them to make others feel comfortable (Clip from #113)02 Jan 202400:07:15

You gonna throw your advantage away so other people can feel comfortable??? You do know that they're only saying that because they're trying to belittle you and discount your hard work right???


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144. Have the courage to be DISLIKED31 Dec 202300:26:45

First we think it’s the money that will solve all of our problems.. Then we think it’s time. “If I had control of my time I’d be happy..” But it’s neither. Today we’re discussing the TRUE way to achieve FREEDOM.


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Why are you so hard on yourself but lenient towards men?? (Clip from #114)28 Dec 202300:11:43

Lmao let's be real with ourselves pls. Somebody has to tell you this.


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So after you've given everything you need to others.. what's left for you? (Clip from #115)26 Dec 202300:11:18

Consider YOUR OWN needs before you prioritize that of others. In some situations it'll work against you if you always prioritize other people before yourself.


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143. 6 Productivity tips to achieve your goals + warning against the productivity trap24 Dec 202300:23:02

Let’s talk about the productivity trap that a lot of us fall into + productivity tips to help you achieve your goals in the New Year!


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  • 93. Micro-habits & systems for 2023
  • 82. You DO have enough time, you just don't use it wisely
  • 60. You've been too comfortable
  • 57. Will you have an excuse or a testimony?



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So he deserved your grace but you don't? (Clip from #114)21 Dec 202300:09:23

Sis.... why are you so hard on yourself but so lenient with people who don't deserve you?


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You don't owe people an explanation of how you spend your coin, sis (Clip from #113)19 Dec 202300:08:27

If these people aren't paying your bills or signing your checks why are you explaining and justifying how you spend your money to them?


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142. 5 Tips to prepare for 202417 Dec 202300:23:24

This is not your typical ‘create a vision board, declutter your phone, set goals’ prep list. I’m holding you accountable to these 5 things you need to do to get your life together in preparation for 2024.


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EPISODES FOR SELF REFLECTION

  • 131. Stop needing to be in survival mode to get things done
  • 130. Who are you when no one is looking?
  • 128. It's time to put an end to your people pleasing sis
  • 121. Stop running from the call. You've outgrown this version of yourself.
  • 107. Give yourself permission to outgrow things
  • 105. Live in the world AS IT IS, not as it should be
  • 103. Stop responding to what you DON'T want
  • 92. Honor your emotions and stop gaslighting yourself


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  • 133. How to Reinvent Yourself (the inner work)
  • 109. How accountability will change your life
  • 90. Ask BIG and stop living in mediocrity
  • 86. Don't settle for "what if.."


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  • 99. Stop nagging and justifying your NON-NEGOTIABLES
  • 96. Do your relationships align with your core values?
  • 71. Listen before you give them a second chance
  • 63. How to set boundaries and protect your energy from negative people
  • 37. What to do when people say "You changed"



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Are your beliefs serving you? (Clip from #111)14 Dec 202300:11:09

Are the things you say about yourself conssitent with the best version of yourself? Are you holding yourself back from living your ideal life because you keep saying things like "that's just not who I am" or "that's just the way I am?"


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Let people assume you had it easy; stop defending your struggle (Clip from #113)12 Dec 202300:10:15

Stop fighting to prove that you "made it out the mud" or that life wasn't easy for you and you had to hustle and grind. Stop letting that offend you. Stop going overboard to try to prove that you struggled. Take it as a compliment instead.


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Let your boundaries speak for you (Clip from #145)01 Oct 202400:09:06

Stop talking so much and let your boundaries speak for you. You should not be explaining things like why you deserve the bare minimum to anybody. Create and enforce healthy boundaries to filter out these parasites from your life <3


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141. DO THE HARD WORK10 Dec 202300:31:31

There's no way around it. In order to get through this trial phase in your life you have to do the hard work!


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It's not your fault.. but it IS your responsibility (Clip from #109)07 Dec 202300:09:58

...Or maybe he has potential.. but that doesn't mean you'll be around to ever see it. Put yourself first and don't negotiate based on fantasies! STAND UP SIS!


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Rest your MIND so you can hear God (Clip from #112)05 Dec 202300:10:43

Make sure you rest your mind before the New Year so you can be refreshed and think clearly as your take on the New Year! You also need to make sure you're receptive to hearing God's voice


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