To All the Men I've Tolerated Before – Details, episodes & analysis

We have a very special guest who was kind enough to help Natalie determine her definition for “the female gaze” once and for all. Morgan is the host of the podcast, Female Gaze: The Film Club, where she and her guests discuss films directed by female filmmakers. Natalie and Morgan will discuss the nuances and differences they see when female filmmakers are the ones capturing women’s experiences. Directors of note will be Greta Gerwig, Sophia Coppola, Natalie Morales, Chloe Zhao, and more! Are you able to sit in a movie theater and determine if a movie is directed by a woman just by the tone and choices made?

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This week’s guest is Brianna McCabe, author of the book The Red Flags I've (Repeatedly) Ignored. Natalie and Brianna will share some instances from their past relationships and dating expectations where they knew they were definitely ignoring the red flags the other person was presenting loudly and without question. The two women will also discuss why women may feel pressured to ignore red flags, how loving yourself and having clear expectations helps combat settling for subpar partners, and what red flags became deal breakers as they grew more experienced in dating. Help us get to the root cause of ignoring red flags by telling us why you’ve found yourself dating someone who was a walking red flag!

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Website:https://thebriannamccabe.com/
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To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of Mrs. Doubtfire starring Robin Williams and Sally Field!

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Make sure you have subscribed to us on Patreon! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown. 

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!

Happy Holidays! We are on our seasonal holiday break until 2023. Please, enjoy this teaser from one of our Patreon Episodes that is a Still Comfy? episode with Juls Washington from Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. The episode is reviewing Hocus Pocus and Hocus Pocus 2. In order to listen to the full episode, you can join our Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod.

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“Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

This is a very special season 2 finale episode of To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before! We are joined by some of our favorite guests from past episodes. Annie Sieg, Caitlin Grant, and Julia Washington are back and we’re all talking about all the different ways women keep themselves safe from harm. Whether it is physical safety during the night, at home, or literally anywhere a woman has to be alone or in a vulnerable position, there are a lot of tips and tricks that young women have been taught for decades on how they take ownership of making themselves safe. Why are women so responsible for getting home alive and well instead of living in a world where they can count on everyone respecting their right to safety? Come discuss it with all of us!


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Follow Annie, Juls, and Caitlin at @aksieg, @popculturemakesmejealous, and @plugituppod. Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous and Plug It Up can be found wherever you listen to podcasts. Annie is an amazing creator on both TikTok as AnnieMakesArt and runs a YouTube channel.

Kelly Winget is on the podcast this week to speak on managing wealth, whether it is yours or you’ve been employed to manage someone else’s, and what that world looks like for women. Kelly is a financial entrepreneur and founder of Dallas-based private equity company Alternative Wealth Partners. She has built her career with a fierceness that demanded respect from men in the wealth industry and oil industry. There’s more reflections on how women are spoken to about money, what happens when men are confronted with a woman who knows how to manage wealth, and who is making moves to make sure women’s voices are being heard in the world of money. The best piece of advice given during the episode? When being talked down to about your money, ask if there is a woman who is able to help you that is hired by the company.

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“Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

Find Kelly:
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kellyannwinget/
Instagram: @kellyannwinget

Stacey Simms, host of Diabetes Connections and author of The World’s Worst Diabetes Mom, is Natalie’s guest this week to talk about her career in morning news. Natalie and Stacey have a conversation about women being overlooked for promotion, proving their worth in the workplace, and how to have honest conversations with your co-workers about what it means to be a woman in the workplace. They also dissect what it means to use your knowledge about your audience to your advantage when presenting topics that may be out of their comfort zone or what happens when your audience’s comfort zone dictates what you get to present to the public. The episode rounds out with a discussion on building a community around diabetes and how important it is to understand someone else’s experience in a community you take space within. It is an episode that brings together two women from different generations who have a lot in common, even if their approach to their place in the general media takes different notes or tones.

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“Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

Find Stacey on all platforms at @staceysimms

Natalie wanted to take a moment to celebrate when To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before reached one year of podcasting! This is a pre-recorded live episode on the platform Fireside. We will be diving into reality tv, relationship tropes we fall into, creepy dates, and more. Thank you to everyone who celebrated with us and those who are still celebrating our show! If you would like to watch us live on Fireside, please follow us at fireside.com/nataliekatona.

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“Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

 Natalie had the pleasure to talk to Laura Danger after being a huge fan of her social media presence on the idea of “weaponized incompetence”. Laura will go over how fair play has a role in healthy expectations and boundaries within your marriage and relationships. Natalie and Laura will also discuss distinct examples that they have witnessed of this idea of weaponized incompetence where your partner gets to just not know how to do something and you pick up that emotional/physical/mental labor. Not only do they find that as a really petty excuse to not be involved in a laborious activity, but they also discover that weaponized ignorance is also at play when it comes to how women are treated within their homes, society, and the world.

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 “Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! 

Find Laura:

Instagram and TikTok: @thatdarnchat

Natalie is joined by Ellen Moore, host of The Slut Show With Ellen Moore. Natalie at 33 years old and Ellen just almost at 23 years old have something in common, they have a hard time being taken seriously. Whether it be at work, with their families and friends, or when it comes to money and finances, each woman will discuss how they knew being a young woman played a role in how they were unable to be taken seriously or be heard. They will also call out the systems that make it easy to disregard young women and what happens when women are unable to use their voice and power.   Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.   “Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!   Find Ellen: Instagram: @theslutshowwithellenmoore and @byellenmoore Linktree: https://linktr.ee/theslutshow