Hello there, sugar pants. I'm backāand whew, life has been a lot lately. But today, Iām diving into something thatās been messing with way too many of us for way too long: perfection.
Weāve been taught that if we can just get it rightābe good enough, successful enough, lovable enoughāthen life will finally feel better.
But hereās the truth: you canāt love perfect. You canāt be perfect. And trying to is killing your joy, your creativity, your connectionāand your relationships.
In this episode, Iām sharing:
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The red flag hidden in āYou seem perfectā (and why it made me cringe)
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What went down in my own relationship during a rough season
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How even great relationships fall apart a littleāand what it looks like to come back from that
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Why perfectionism keeps us stuck, lonely, and exhausted (even when everything looks good on paper)
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How I help women actually start feeling betterāon purpose
Iāll also give you a real look at what weāre doing inside Thrive Midlifeāmy 6-month group coaching experience for women 40+ who are ready to stop surviving and start actually living.
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Iām not being cute. Science shows that 40% of our happiness comes from our daily mindset and choicesānot our past, not our DNA.
Thatās what Thrive is all about. We blend neuroscience, emotional regulation, coaching, creativity, and a community of women who actually give a damn.
š¬ Weekly workshops & tools
š§ One-on-one coaching with me
šÆāāļø A group of badass, funny, honest women
š And a fall retreat in Madison, WI (think goat petting, cider breakthroughs, and cheese)
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