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These Are The Gays Of Our Lives
Sarah Nelson, Drew Ishii
Frequency: 1 episode/13d. Total Eps: 22

Drew and Sarah are college friends who share a love of pop culture from 80s music, old Hollywood movies, iconic closeted characters, and campy TV shows. Countless LGBTQ+ stories remain hidden in history, but deserve to be in the spotlight. Drew and Sarah explore the memorable and the not-so-well-known LGBTQ+ people that influenced both their lives and society. Peppered in every story are their hot takes and sass. Listen in, learn, and laugh along as they humorously and affectionately tell the life stories of the many gays of our lives.
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22: Truman Capote And Oscar Wilde
Season 1 · Episode 22
vendredi 23 mai 2025 • Duration 01:43:45
In this episode of 'These Are the Gays of Our Lives', hosts Sarah and Drew explore the lives of LGBTQ authors, focusing on Oscar Wilde. They discuss various media representations of gay culture, share positive news for the community, and delve into Wilde's literary contributions and personal struggles with identity. The conversation highlights the importance of representation in media and the ongoing journey of the LGBTQ community. This conversation delves into the life and legacy of Truman Capote, exploring his rise to fame, his relationships within high society, and the impact of his work, particularly 'In Cold Blood.' The discussion highlights Capote's complex personality, his struggles with addiction, and the eventual downfall that came with his controversial writings. The hosts reflect on the tragic elements of his life, including his childhood trauma and the consequences of his actions on his friendships and career.
Sources:
Oscar Wilde
https://youtu.be/oxZudaO67Fg?si=ovor2Y2Rn28abtw6
Truman Capote: The Capote Tapes (movie 2019) https://www.imdb.com/title/tt10826972/
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21: THE GRACE JONES PART 2
Season 1 · Episode 21
vendredi 9 mai 2025 • Duration 01:52:41
In this episode, Drew and Sarah delve into the life and legacy of Grace Jones, exploring her journey from Jamaica to becoming a disco icon. They discuss her relationships, the impact of her Jamaican roots on her identity and music, and the challenges she faced during her pregnancy. The conversation highlights Grace's unique persona, her influence on pop culture, and the personal stories that shaped her career. In this segment, Drew and Sarah delve into the multifaceted life of Grace Jones, exploring her relationships, creative collaborations, and the impact of her music and persona on pop culture. They discuss her experiences as a mother, the challenges of censorship in her lyrics, and the complexities of her relationships, particularly with Jean-Paul Goude and Dolph Lundgren. The conversation also touches on her iconic music videos and the public's perception of her controversial moments, including a live TV incident that became a defining moment in her career. This conversation delves into the life and career of Grace Jones, exploring her relationships, her experiences at the Grammy Awards, and her significant impact on film and pop culture. The discussion highlights her iconic roles, particularly in 'Boomerang' and 'A View to a Kill', and reflects on the challenges she faced as a female creator in a male-dominated industry, as well as the personal struggles during the AIDS crisis.
Source:
I'll Never Write My Memoirs By Grace Jones
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12: Historical Figures: Leonardo da Vinci and Michelangelo
Season 1 · Episode 12
vendredi 3 janvier 2025 • Duration 01:27:52
In this episode, Sarah and Drew explore lesser-known figures from the LGBTQIA+ community, discuss media representations that resonate with queer culture, and highlight positive initiatives within the community. They delve into the life and works of Leonardo da Vinci, examining his artistic genius, innovative inventions, and groundbreaking anatomical studies, while also celebrating the cultural impact of Pee-wee Herman. This conversation delves into the lives and works of two of the most renowned artists of the Renaissance, Leonardo da Vinci and Michelangelo. It explores their artistic genius, personal struggles, and the historical context in which they created their masterpieces. The discussion highlights their innovative techniques, the complexities of their relationships, and the lasting impact they have had on art and culture.
sources:
youtube: https://youtu.be/fepw_YS28cY?si=x9I5V-Bu9Mx03eE5
Michelangelo: A revolution in art
Leonardo--
Documentary- Leonardo da Vinci by Ken Burns
Amazon Prime Video - Leonardo da Vinci Universal Man
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11: Historical Figures: Hatshepsut And Alexander The Great
Season 1 · Episode 11
vendredi 20 décembre 2024 • Duration 01:30:46
In this episode of 'These Are The Gays of Our Lives', hosts Drew and Sarah explore various themes related to LGBTQ+ representation in media and history.. In this conversation, Drew and Sarah delve into the fascinating life of Hatshepsut, the longest-reigning female pharaoh of ancient Egypt. They explore the fluid concepts of gender in ancient Egyptian culture, the unique challenges Hatshepsut faced in a male-dominated society, and her strategic rise to power. The discussion highlights the complexities of her reign, her androgynous imagery, and the societal perceptions of women in leadership roles throughout history. This conversation explores the legacies of two significant historical figures: Hatshepsut, the female pharaoh of ancient Egypt, and Alexander the Great, the renowned conqueror. The discussion delves into Hatshepsut's achievements, including her monumental constructions and economic contributions, as well as the challenges she faced during her reign. The conversation then shifts to Alexander's rise to power, his military strategies, and his relentless pursuit of conquest, culminating in his mysterious death and the impact of his relationships on his legacy.
Sources for Hapshetsut
A FEMINIST AND QUEER THEORY TAKE ON THE LEGITIMIZATION OF HATSHEPSUT AS KING Derian L. Dalton
When Women ruled the world:Six Queens of Egypt, Kara Cooney
Alexander The Great:
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10: Kristy McNichol And Robert Reed
Season 1 · Episode 10
vendredi 6 décembre 2024 • Duration 01:23:42
In this episode of 'These Are the Gays of Our Lives', hosts Sarah and Drew explore various themes related to LGBTQ+ representation in media, political moments that resonate with the community, and the cultural impact of iconic TV shows like 'The Brady Bunch'. This conversation delves into the lives and careers of Robert Reed and Kristi McNichol, two iconic figures in television history. It explores Reed's complex character in The Brady Bunch, his struggles with identity, and his diverse roles in various shows. The discussion then shifts to Kristy McNichol, highlighting her rise to fame, the impact of her roles, and the challenges she faced as a child star. The conversation also touches on mental health issues, the controversies surrounding their careers, and their legacies in Hollywood.
Sources: A & E Biography Kristi McNichol
Robert Reed : https://na01.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fyoutu.be%2F0EudODPKCJc%3Fsi%3D5ij9GPqCQRU_521_&data=05%7C02%7C%7C602a843546fa4ccdba5408dcf4464842%7C84df9e7fe9f640afb435aaaaaaaaaaaa%7C1%7C0%7C638653829910225873%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&sdata=ZCG%2FoERC2SWpUaSAcMVNS7cTheO5L0O9Zik%2FkmqMOws%3D&reserved=0
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9: Raymond Burr And Richard Chamberlain
Season 1 · Episode 9
jeudi 21 novembre 2024 • Duration 01:38:43
In this episode, Sarah and Drew explore the hidden stories of LGBTQ icons in television and film, focusing on figures who had to conceal their identities to protect their careers. The conversation also touches on the support for LGBTQ refugees in the U.S. and the wholesome nature of Japanese reality TV.
This conversation delves into the lives and careers of Raymond Burr and Richard Chamberlain, exploring their legacies in Hollywood, personal struggles, and the impact of their work on television and film. The discussion highlights the complexities of fame, the challenges of being in the public eye, and the personal journeys of both actors, including their relationships and experiences in the industry.
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8: Bea Arthur And Charles Nelson Reilly
Season 1 · Episode 8
vendredi 8 novembre 2024 • Duration 01:15:48
Drew and Sarah cover two of the very best. If you are any kind of decent human, you know the show The Golden Girls. Bea Arthur was the guiding force of that show as Dorothy. But there is so much more to Bea and you will crap you pants at how amazing she is!
Charles Nelson Reilly is the love of Sarah's life and covering him for this show was the greatest day ever. Charles was the guy you want as you bestie in every situation you can possibly think of on the planet, and then a million more.
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7: Halloween Spooktacular
Season 1 · Episode 7
jeudi 31 octobre 2024 • Duration 01:12:18
It's our first annual Halloween Special! Sarah and Drew discuss LGTBQ Halloween, with special focus on Rocky Horror Picture Show and The Paul Lynde Halloween Special. Both Sarah and Drew give their top ten gay moments in Halloween TV and movies.
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6: Bewitched Special: Paul Lynde And Agnes Moorehead
Season 1 · Episode 6
jeudi 24 octobre 2024 • Duration 01:11:11
Drew and Sarah cover that wonderful show with two Darrin's just in time for Halloween. Bewitched was a huge hit in the 1960's and into the 1970's about a witch trying to be a normal housewife. Her overbearing mother and crazy uncle are the actors we are going to cover. If you loved the show, you have to listen!!
Sources:
Paul Lynde: A Biography - His Life, His Love(s) and His Laughter
By Cathy Fitzgibbon Rudolph
Twitch Upon A Star
By Herbie Pilato
Agnes Moorehead Hated Her Role on Bewitched, This Is Why, https://youtu.be/_WNiVzBSuww?si=1gu03zSEBgzSvSnI
The Mysterious Life and Death of Agnes Moorehead Endora on Bewitched, https://youtu.be/5ZGnLMpMucY?si=18zBsTjvZvM2w1Nc
Did Agnes Moorehead Sleep with WOMEN Secretly? https://youtu.be/2QeuHoicvww?si=bjSGJfJgzq9x0vRd
Agnes Moorehead rare interview on Bewitched set https://youtu.be/orvLFjAIUT4?si=6klNcDsDsOVSc6JU
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5: Vintage Hollywood: Cary Grant
Season 1 · Episode 5
dimanche 13 octobre 2024 • Duration 01:07:03
Drew and Sarah BOTH tell the story of legendary actor Cary Grant. Grant was married 5 times (to women) but had a long time relationship with a fellow actor. His extreme good looks and unique sense of humor made him a leading man in Hollywood for decades. He always seemed to struggle with love until he had his daughter late in life.
Sources:
The Hollywood Collection: Cary Grant: The Leading Man
Cary Grant and Randolph Scott’s Hollywood Story: “Our Souls Did Touch” | Vanity Fair, January 18, 2024.
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