We love it when other smart ladies come up with great ideas. Be sure to send a thank you to Mistress Demi for her idea to use X Spaces (Twitter Spaces) to connect with our friends and even make some new friends.

Ms Demi joins us to talk about Spaces. The ladies talk with her about how the Femdoms at Enchantrix Empire are using spaces.

 For example, every Friday at 7pm eastern various Mistresses gather in the Space for Femdom Friday's.

Each week has a different Mistress host who will lead the conversation. There will be a topic or activity like naughty Mad Libs and other games.

People can listen on Twitter X but the Mistresses are the only ones who will be speakers. Everyone else can join in by going to the Community Kink chatroom and typing while you listen.

When Ms Erika heard Ms Demi’s idea - Ms Erika set up Spaces for The Weekly Hot Spot podcast.

We’ll be live every Thursday at 1pm eastern time -- talking about this kink BDSM podcast, episode ideas, answering questions and, well, basically having a great time shooting the shiznit with each other and all of you. You’ll hear some of those random thoughts in this episode!

Join us on Twitter X:
Ms Demi:  @DommeDemi    
Ms Olivia:  @MistressOlivia1       
Ms Erika:   @ErikaEnchantrix   

Demi’s space for Femdom Friday Sept 6, 2024

Community kink chat room

Look for The Weekly Hot Spot space every Thursday at 1 pm eastern. Cum have lunch with us.


Mistress Demi’s blog: Sensual Cock Tease    
Mistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced Mistress  
Mistress Erika’s blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy   

Miss Cassie returns to talk about self-bondage and rope play.

Ms Erika starts off the conversation with a question about how Distance Domination Femdoms can incorporate self bondage into BDSM sessions over the phone. 

Miss Cassie points out that a long distance Mistress can talk someone through a tie or use other things to create the feelings of being bound, tied, restrained or otherwise controlled by her.

The ladies discuss how vivid descriptions can combine with some simple physical actions to create the feelings, emotions, and sensations of a bondage scene. Miss Cassie points out that descriptions are important even during in-person sessions in a Dominatrix Dungeon.

Things to consider:
What is your self bondage safety plan?
Importance of a safe word in BDSM play in person on online
High protocol versus freely speaking during a scene

Ideas and questions from listeners:
Using remote controlled sex toys during online domination sessions
Using a timed lock box for keys similar to a lock box used for chastity keys
Predicament play safety
Edge play and special issues involved in BDSM negotiation
Keeping safety scissors nearby just in case you need them

Special considerations for submissive men who are in a relationship with a vanilla woman:
How to avoid leaving marks
What causes marks and how long various marks last, for example, tying up the cock and balls (CBT) can leave small broken capillaries.
Marks will depend on the scene, the tie of the ropes and the physical fitness of the submissive.

What can someone use for self bondage?
Examples include:
Sweatband, headband or scrunchie
Shoe laces
¼ inch diameter rope
Paracord
Zone mummification with plastic wrap

Of course, you’ll hear stories from this elite Pro Domme and personal stories from all three Femdoms. 

Miss Cassie’s website:  Miss Cassie Loves Rope
Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

What do you do if you love pain, impact play, discipline, CBT, and/or bondage but you can’t have marks on your body? 
How do you hide the marks when you love being on the receiving end of the S/m dynamic?

That’s the topic today and it’s the result of a listener question to the previous episodes about many aspects of pain play.

Topics include:
Training for a submissive versus a kinky scene with a pain slut
The role of stress positions to enhance kinky scenes
Physical pain, mental pain and the role of an intense mindfuck
The role of suffering in submission to a beautiful Femdom Mistress

Of course, there is always a lot of emphasis on the role of communication in BDSM.
The ladies talk about BDSM negotiation, what to ask your Mistress and why it’s important that you answer her questions honestly (so she can plan the play effectively).

This is BDSM education:
Thuddy versus stingy impact play
The role of warmup in impact play
How bondage affects the skin for CBT
Electrosex and what to look for an a tens unit for kinky usesWax play and safety concerns
Temperature play and a wicked use of ice water
The importance of aftercare

These creative Femdoms talk about workarounds for those who crave S/m pain but need to keep this part hidden.

Remember if you hear something in the podcast and you have a followup question, send an email.
Olivia AT enchantrixempire.com
Erika AT enchantrixempire.com

Ms Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Ms Erika’s blog:  https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Kay Marie is a self proclaimed suburban MILF. Mistress Erika and Ms Olivia get with Kay Marie to talk about her podcast, Happy Hour with Kay Marie.
We all go off topic right from the start of this episode and Kay Marie says that’s the perfect way to showcase her podcast because it’s organic and just flows without a topic or outline.
Her podcast is also a bit different in that she does her show live and interacts with her fans live in the Community Kink chat room.
In this episode you’ll find out about Kay Marie’s style on a phone sex call, what calls she likes to do and calls she does not want to do.

Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about podcasting, sex and random silliness with Mistress Hunter.
What makes a sex podcast sexy?
Why did Ms Hunter start a podcast called Sexy Story Time?
Is it better to structure a podcast or do an organic, stream of consciousness podcast?
This episode ranges from sexy to sweet to smart along with a dash of naughty.

Hosts Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika answer listener questions about sissy transformation and feminization.
Some of the questions are from people who are new to the podcast and are just starting to explore their feminine side – others are from callers who want to share their experiences with the Sissy Training Calendar and Feminization trance audio.
Have the episodes on being a crossdresser, sissy or trans helped you to explore your femininity? The ladies talk about how important it is to have a community around you.
You’ll hear specific answers to questions from a new sissy, a sissy who has to stay in the closet and another sissy in chastity.

Did you know that Mistress Becky has a Masters in Mental Health Counseling? She joins The Weekly Hot Spot to talk about sex, sexuality, mental health, BDSM, and so much more!
Ms Erika leads a conversation about sexual pleasure for people with disabilities. Her ignore pet says that people see him in a wheelchair and don’t think he has sexual desires including cruel erotic humiliation.
Ms Becky talks about how powerful it is to get your sexual needs met and how erotic pleasure is a tool to express our experience of life.
Mistress Olivia thinks of sex work as a calling and a privelege … even in Mean Mistress mode when the inner sadist comes out to play with the quivering submissive.
Hear a discussion about CBT and how to do intense sessions for pain sluts whether it’s real life instructions or a fantasy roleplay.
Questions for listeners include: are you surprised at what you are learning about Ms Becky and other Mistresses?

What do you want to know about life as a phone sex operator?
Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika take listeners behind the scenes of life and love on the phone.
Ms Olivia shares an email that prompts a conversation about cost, value and sex work in general. Mistress Erika has some great ideas about why some people send a really explicit email as a first email.
Are you curious about how to communicate with a Femdom, a phone sex operator or other kind of sex worker? Hear what these women say about some of the crazy things said to them.
A headache and edibles lead to an fun conversation about how to say smart cars in a sexy way and why WAP (wet ass pussy) is the perfect song.
It’s not all joking around, there is a serious conversation about how to communicate what makes you hot when you’re a shy guy.
Don’t miss confessions of first phone sex calls - weirdest phone sex calls and nuances of BDSM and Distance Domination.
What do you want to know? Take a listen to the first batch of questions; we promise to do this again.

In this episode we interview our friend and fellow podcaster, Duchess Willow Munroe.
She is wicked smart and incredibly sensual so this conversation covers a little of all sorts of topics.
Duchess Willow has a podcast episode about remote control sex toys. This leads to a thoughtful conversation about intimacy, distance domination, safe sex, and connections with our callers.
Of course, since this is a sex podcast, the conversation gets … well … sexual!
Hear:
Why Ms Olivia wants to be a guy.
What Duchess Willow enjoys with her special friends; if you want to get the Duchess off, you’ll find out how to do it!
A podcast question from Ms Erika leads to a conversation about creativity.
And … if all that isn’t enough … there’s a discussion about Ms Willow’s Dick Ratings, good penis size, shrinking a tiny man so small he …..
Well, you best listen to find out.

Today’s guest, Mistress Becky, calls herself a natural born pervert. You’ll want to get all the details on this Femdom Mistress. She is sensual, strict and smart.
Ms. Erika asks about favorite sex toys. We learn that Becky used to sell sex toys and is getting a new kind of vibrator that tracks your orgasms using bio feedback.
This leads to a conversation about how to fuck with a submissive using remote controlled vibrators.
Mistress Olivia starts to design a phone sex cock teasing assignment and you hear the brainstorming around this idea. We take you behind the scenes so you hear a bit about how we do what we do.
All the ladies love the girly girls: crossdressers, sissies and trans. Ms Olivia asks about favorite places to shop and other tips for our femme friends.
There’s also a serious conversation about kink friendly therapy, BDSM and mental health and the issues of shame around sexuality, sex and sexual pleasure.

Ms Erika asks about the recent sex-cation (oh yeah, you want some of that too, don’t you?).
Find out why:
a kinky lesbian would be a submissive to a male Dom
kudzu should be considered a sex toy or at least, a BDSM pervertable
and how a chance encounter unleashed a Femdom in all her glory!
Lots of conversation about BDSM, fetish play and favorite sex toys.

Find out what Ms Ryan needs for “the safety of those around me.” Get your head outta the gutter; this has nothing to do with sex.
Don’t worry - most of the rest of this episode IS about sex: BDSM, kink, fetish, D/s negotiation and so much more.
Ms Ryan talks about finding balance with the Mean Mistress side and the sexual woman in charge side of her personality.
Hear Ms Olivia’s story about getting stopped by a sexy female cop while on the way to a fetish party.
Mistress Erika’s question about time away from sex work and kink leads to Mistress confession time. We learn things about Ms Ryan that even we didn’t know!
The three ladies have a fun conversation about strapons, “Darth” the strapon cock, remote controlled sex toys, chastity training, cuckold scenes and how cuckolding brought Ms Ryan true love.

Mistress Erika has a lively conversation with Ms. Claire. This is part of a series of interviews where you get to meet the Ladies of LDW Group.
This is a wide ranging conversation about sex, sex work, kink, Femdom and fetish friendly communities. Did we say, sex? Yep, we talk about sex.
Oh and you’ll get insight into the stranger things that go looking for Claire - she swears she doesn’t go looking for them.

This episode is inspired by Sissy Kylie who says she wants to get a more feminine body and wants sissy workout tips. 

Mistress Erika begins the episode talking about body image. Mistress Olivia says, it’s normal to want to change things about your physical body to be more of the feminine ideal in your mind.

Many feminized people want workout tips and exercises to target specific areas like ass, hips and stomach. Both ladies talk about exercises they do and recommend for any sissy workout.


Ms Olivia talks about how she gets a cute round yoga ass with squats, walking lunges and donkey kicks (among other exercises). Ms Erika adds in a suggestion to do bridges. Working core muscles help to slim the tummy and a tight lacing corset and give that feminine hourglass shape.

These Femdoms love feminization and sissy training. They talk about how to combine legitimate exercises with kinky inspiration to make sure these get done! For example, a way to strap a dildo onto the long part of a couch cushion to get a thigh and ass workout while perfecting the sissy cowgirl position!

You’ll hear specific exercises suggestions, behind the scenes stories, general naughtiness and so much more.

Mistress Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Mistress Erika’s blog:  https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Today the ladies talk with The Dicktator. That’s not a typo.
Mistress Cassandra is known for her love of chastity and all things that involve cock control, hence the name of her chastity training blog: TheDictator.com.
Mistress Erika and Ms Olivia talk all things chastity with Ms Cassandra.
You’ll hear a conversation about BDSM explorations, what makes someone a “Lifestyle Domme”, pain play, the difference between in session and out of session, and more, including what this Femdom does in her time away from controlling naughty submissives.

Co hosts Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika interview their friends and fellow Femdoms. Even after knowing one another for years, there’s always something new to learn and Ms Hunter is full of surprises.
Imagine being a TSA agent and encountering Miss Hunter. In her bag, Mr. Fat Cock (a giant dildo) that she was bringing to a Mistress Meeting.
All three ladies share stories about internet controlled sex toys.
Find out why Mr. Hunter says: “I’m just one man!”
Hear about Ms Erika’s pet who found love in a department store aisle.
Have you ever wondered what a phone sex call sounds like? We do a three way scene and give you a sense of how erotic phone sex can be.

The Weekly Hot Spot returns!
Meet some of our special, kinky friends of hosts Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika.
Find out about the exciting relationship Miss Madison has with her pillows. Listen to the ladies talk about using an Hitachi Magic Wand. And hear a confession by Madison that takes the podcast into a whole new direction for a bit.

Today’s topic is inspired by a conversation overheard by Mistress Erika. Someone said, “What kind of guy calls phone sex?” The ladies discuss who calls and why.
Have you ever called a phone sex chat line? Have you ever gone to a sex worker?
Hear how Ms Olivia and Ms Erika got into the business of erotic pleasure.
Find out some of the common reasons why someone calls for distance domination. The ladies point out that calling a sex chat line is often not about sex per se; it can be about intimacy, vulnerability, and questions that can’t be asked elsewhere.

Today it’s all about the rear view … not the rear view mirror, your rear end. This listener inspired episode is all about anal sex.
Most questions and concerns fall into two broad categories: psychological and physical.
Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika love strap on play, anal sex and exploring all sorts of erotic pleasure. You’ll learn why they both say anal pleasure is something you want to at least try (because you’re likely to love it!)
Miss Rachel joins the ladies to talk about why she loves anal and how she handles her submissives.
They discuss wow to get your head around psychological worries like the common question: “If a guy likes anal does that mean he is gay?”
Ms Erika gives specific tips on hygiene before and during anal sex.
Each Mistress shares examples from her own experiences with anal sex; including thoughts on how to share sexual desires with your partner.
You’ll hear tips, advice, practical suggestions, specific stories of some hot anal experiences and much more.
Come for advice - stay for the excursion about how to set up a submissive race where the subs are bouncing on dildo balls.
Enjoy!

Remember Mistress Erika talking about her ignore slave? Did you wonder who pays for a phone call just to be ignored? What’s going on and, more importantly, WHY?
Ignore slave doesn’t even have a name and Ms Olivia calls it, “it.”
This podcast is recorded while the ladies ignore it, who called in and is paying for a 2 Mistress call.
Ignore slave sent Ms Erika an email listing the reasons why it likes ignore calls - the ladies read the reasons and discuss.
So — what’s the deal about sexual humiliation? Who is a sexual machochist?
Why is erotic humiliation called pain for the brain?
What is human furniture?
Why does someone like being teased for having a small penis?
Why are these types of submissives so much fun for a Femdom to torment? Learn how each Mistress incorporates neglect play into kink scenes that also include things like bondage, covering eyes and ears, or other types of sensory deprivation like a vac bed.
You’ll hear why is trust so important with BDSM partners and some details of how to create a consensual slave contract.
Many parts of BDSM are about the paradox of pain being pleasure.
Listen to each experienced Mistress describe why the mental anguish of sexual humiliation hurts so good.

Today’s episode is all about erotic audios. There are several different sites to hear or get erotic audios. The ladies talks about pre-made erotic scenes and assignments. These out of the box audios are pre-made and ready for purchase.
Custom erotic audios are also available and involve more interaction with your Mistress to make sure both of you are on the same page with the details of your sexual fantasy. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika share behind the scenes details of what goes into creating a custom audio.
Ms Ruby joins the ladies to talk about bringing her audio mixing skills as a musician to the erotic audio scene. Ruby says erotic audios are works of art and she loves creating soundscapes full of layered sounds.
Hear some of the most unusual requests for custom audios - including furries, Giantess squishing miniature vampire girls and hiccups.

Do you know who first coined the term cock control?
Headmistress Ms Ally, creator of the LDW Group network of femdom phone sex, actually has a copyright on the term! Whatttttt?????
You find out fun facts like this on today’s episode.
What makes us cock control experts? How do you know if you want to be a submissive or simply want a woman in charge to be sexually assertive. Ms Erika says this might be Femdom lite and both ladies agree it’s fucking FUN!
The ladies share their favorite stroking ideas, masturbation games and more.
This is chock full of news you can use including specific edging tips for you to try during or after the podcast.

Sissy trance audios and anything to boost feminization are very popular right now. Ms Erika and Mistress Olivia created a 30 Day Calendar for the sissy girls and a 30 Day Calendar for general feminization. Today, they talk about the trance audios that go along with the feminization training programs.
You’ll hear the difference between feminization and sissification, including how to use trance audios to increase submissive feelings as any femme girl learns to fully obey Mistress.
Ms Erika talks about how a trance audio works on your subconscious to fully transform your mindset to embrace feminine feelings, mannerisms and actions.
Mistress Olivia admits she has a learning curve with audio tech as both ladies share the behind the scenes stuff about how they make sissy trance and feminization audios.

We love all of our new listeners! We’re glad you found our kinky podcast and are sending us questions.
Mistress Olivia points out there are a lot of submissive men who want to know how they can inspire their wives and girlfriends to be more Dominant.
Ms Erika gives specific suggestions about how to introduce kink into your sex life including ways to gently (and effectively) talk with your partner about your true sexual desires.
You’ll hear real questions and answers on topics like tease and denial, chastity, feminization and sissification and more.
It’s a fun sometimes rambling conversation that covers everything from speculation about dinosaur sex to compassion for a new listener who says she is a lost sissy.

Today’s episode is inspired by several pets who acted surprised to hear that Mistress Olivia likes pain play and rough kink. 

It starts with this quote from one submissive:
“You are just such a nice person. And you have a sweet natural demeanor. Even though you can turn into a firm Domme in the blink of an eye, I didn’t think pain play was a fun thing for you.”

Both ladies talk about being a Femdom and a sensual sadist.  

You’ll hear answers to these questions from another treasured pet and listener who wants to hear more about sadism and masochism. Michael asks:
How common is it for a sensual dom to also have a little bit of a sadistic streak?
and
Is it typical for this to be a frequent activity in a loving and nurturing relationship? 

Topics include:
Sharing experiences with the S/m part of BDSM
Various expectation of a Mistress
How do you know you’re correct about your assumptions of her, who she is and what she likes?
How can you tell if a sensual Femdom also enjoys rough kink?
How does consent work with risk aware BDSM and kink?

This is a peek behind the scenes as each Femdom talks about BDSM scenes gone awry when a sub doesn’t obey, how each lady feels when that happens and how it changes her feelings towards the bratty sub. By the end of the episode you'll know that in scene domination is different from the podcast and both ladies love delivering an intense kink session that includes pain play.

Mistress Olivia’s blog:  https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Mistress Erika’s blog:  https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

New Year and new ideas for our kink podcast.
We have so many things to talk about - including feminization and sissy tips for Valentine’s Day, best stroking techniques for Masturbation May and, of course, anal play for Aptil 15th tax day (because if you’re going to be fucked in the ass, it might as well be fun).
Ms Erika offers to find out how to do the technical things to incorporate some live podcasts where we answer your questions live.
We might even decide to pop Ms Erika’s girl on girl cherry LIVE on a podcast.

What’s on your sexual bucket list? Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika find a list of sexual bucket list ideas and talk about ones they’ve done and what they’d like to do next.
Ms Olivia goes on an excursion into the Superman origin story. Ms Erika reveals a fear and Ms Olivia has an idea of how to overcome that during sex on a cruise ship.
All this leads to a conversation about some possible changes to The Weekly Hot Spot including ideas about doing some episodes live. Do you want to be able to have a way to send messages to each Mistress while we are recording? Now is your chance to tell us what you think.

People who aren’t into BDsm might cringe at the sight of spanking, whipping, caning and other rough play but impact play is a huge part of kink culture.
Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika share what they love about this classic activity.
Why does a Femdom like inflicting pain?
Why would a submissive crave physical suffering?
The ladies talk about impact play and why punishment is often called funishment.

Happy New Year!
Today, the ladies talk about how to BE a lady or a slut! Seriously, it’s all about feminization and sissy training.
There are lots of ways to explore and enhance your feminine side.
We are talking about 2 calendars for 30 days of feminization and sissification, including things that you can do to maintain your feminine mindset even when you aren’t able to get all dressed in your pretty or sexy clothes.
Mistress Olivia gives an example of a sissy trance audio.
Mistress Erika talks about reaffirming affirmations coupled with actions.
Naughty sissy training includes things like blow job training exercises, how to have a sissygasm and whether or not to put a sissy in chastity.
Remember, it’s a New Year and time for a new you!

It’s the final podcast for 2021. Hosts Olivia and Erika talk about doing the podcast, listener reviews, kink things to try and just general conversation.
Poetry, porn … kink and confessions … Femdom insights and more.
Until …
Ms Erika admits to something that involves butterscotch and that inspires Ms Olivia to confess …
And then, all bets are off.
Stay safe and have a kinky New Year!

Ever wondered how you can get your erotica published? That’s what we’re talking about with today’s guest, Dirk Hooper. His book (under his pen name Asher Lake) is called: Dominatrix Boss - a BDSM Femdom Tale.
Before getting to the writing and publishing advice, we talk about BDSM and the kink community. Dirk talks about what he calls a Domme deficit: way more male submissives then there are Femdoms.
There are lots of writing and publishing tips. Including one that inspires Ms Erika to change the way she writes her own erotica based on how we both do phone sex calls.
Dirk has a surprising tip about writing while you’re horny and channeling your sexual arousal into your erotica.
Enjoy and send us links to your own erotica!

As we close out 2021, we talk with some of our Mistress friends about some things they love in their private lives. Ever wondered if a Femdom binge watches a tv show? You’ll find out! Also hear some movie reviews and find out more about your Mistress.
The Welsh Mistress Miss Ruby has a fabulous book suggestion about the neuroscience of orgasm delay.
We were shocked to learn something about our favorite Babe with a Boner, Miss Bethany. Trust me, you want to know this!
Also, Miss Daphne shares why a book written in 1865 is her favorite read for 2021.
Finally, Miss Madison touches our hearts with her favorite thing of 2021.
These round robin conversations with our Mistress friends are always a fun time!

One thing we love about doing this podcast is that we get a chance to talk to our friends and coworkers. Mistress Olivia and Ms. Erika did the best and worst of the 2021 review. The categories are tv shows, movies, documentaries, books and our personal favorite, sex toys.
This episode features The Scarlet Mistress, our first conversation with Miss Riley and our favorite babe with a boner, Bethany.
Be sure to come back next week for three more of our Mistress friends and their top picks in pop culture (and sex toys).

Are you ready to get Femme for the holiday? You’ll need some feminization assignments and sissy training from Mistress Olivia, Ms. Erika and special guest Miss Ruby.
Each Mistress talks about how she personally stays in touch with her sexy side during the busy holiday season.
Find out what Ms. Olivia said that made Ruby say, “That’s the weirdest fucking thing I’ve ever heard.”
Of course, there are lots of laughs and some serious conversations about holiday stress and our LGBTQ friends. For the transwoman, crossdresser or sissy the holiday can cause unique stresses and issues.
Each Mistress has specific suggestions and assignments to help girly girls stay in touch with a femme side no matter the outside circumstances.

Did you know that Princess Cassidy is in school, studying the psychology of fear? Yep and that’s why Princess Cassidy is the perfect guest to join Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika for this episode on holiday stress.
There are lots of tips and vanilla ideas of how to keep your sex life going during the holidays. You’ll enjoy the kink guide to coping with holiday stress even if you can’t get to one of the recommended fetish or kink activities.
Ms. Olivia recommends Spanksgiving the kink convention in St. Louis. Ms. Erika wants to go to Hedonism in Jamaica. Princess Cassidy wants to go anywhere that is not a stay-cation!
Don’t let holiday stress stop your kinky play! Check out simple ideas and assignments for some discrete erotic play even if you don’t have all the alone time or privacy that you want.

What happens when a Dominant Woman decides to feminize a submissive?
Sometimes the subby is coerced into sissy training, maybe even before realizing what’s going on and then it’s really too late because full on sissy training is underway.

How does a Femdom Mistress train a sissy submissive?
Listen to feminization Mistresses talking about how they do coerced feminization, sissy training and use a combination of praise, punishment, pain and pleasure to ensure the creation of the best sissy!

This episode is inspired by comments from various listeners. And, while the ladies start off talking about sissification and coerced feminization - much of the conversation about using pain and punishment on a submissive applies to crossdressers and transwomen who are submissive but might not be sissies.

The role of discipline to enforce who is in charge is always a favorite topic and an opportunity to talk about the paradox of BDSM where pain is pleasure.



Mistress Olivia's blog:  https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Mistress Erika's blog:  https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

What do you do with leftover holiday food?
Join Ms. Erika, Miss Constance, Ms. Hunter, and Mistress Olivia for this fun conversation about the wet and messy fetish.
Miss Constance tells us about her puppet who loves sploshing. These funny stories inspire the ladies to laughter and the celebration of kinky fun in all its wicked aspects.
Ms. Hunter says you can incorporate sploshing into a lot of other fetish and kink roleplay scenes like cum eating, submission, humiliation and more.
Ms. Erika brings up thoughtful points about how there’s nothing wrong with enjoying something like food play or any kink. Others might not “get” the erotic enjoyment but that’s okay, we do get it and will enjoy it with you!
Listen to this episode and celebrate this food driven holiday in a whole new light.

Straight married corporate dude to smokin’ hot trans woman: an interview with Maria Konner.
Maria is an author, vlogger, video blogger, musician, and FEMbassador
She answers listener questions like:
How do I come out?
How did you leave the suburban, corporate, and straight world to follow your dream?
What is it like to be a transwoman?
Are you able to support yourself now that you are living en femme.
How do you describe yourself - what about sex, what about relationships?
Ms Olivia and Ms Erika have the best time with Maria!

This episode is inspired by requested and unsolicited dick pics.
Hear Ms Olivia and Ms Erika talk about setting up the new Dick Review where the penis rating team tells you what they think.
Ms Olivia interviews 5 women who are cock connoisseurs.
Each woman talks about what she likes and doesn’t like when looking at a penis. You’ll be surprised to hear the controversy over a certain part of the penis. Find out what happens when one Mistress compares the penis to an item of clothing. Hear ideas like setting up a Dick Museum and more.
There is a lot of laughter amongst the legitimate cock rating appraisal criteria that includes:
Overall size, shape and curvature
Circumcised or uncircumcised
What makes a cock head sexy or not
Veins: yes or no on
Manscaping preferences
You’ll also hear an idea about offering a “how to take dick pics” service to help you improve your dick pics.

This How To Give A Blow Job episode is in response to questions from callers.
Mistress Olivia, Ms. Erika and Goddess Mandy describe how they each give a blow job in their personal lives.
It’s okay to need to learn how to suck cock, everyone has a learning curve. Just wait until you hear about Ms. Olivia’s epic blow job fail.
Whether you are bi sexual, gay, cock curious, submissive, cuckold or sissy - the tips and techniques from the ladies will get you started on the path of cock sucking success OR you can simply listen to the sexy voices and enjoy as you give yourself a hand.
These experienced Femdoms talk about who needs to learn to suck cock, why many men are cock curious, the different sexual roleplay scenes that incorporate cocksucking, and so much more.

Fall into the sultry, sexy voice of today’s guest, Mistress Rachel.
We talk about Femdom, kink, passion and so much more!
Ms Erika starts us off with talk about the epic cock stroking Strokeathon. Ms Rachel shares her love of masturbation, insight into being one of her favorite playmates and her fascination with anal. Ms Rachel’s confession about ass play ends up being the quote of the day.
All the ladies talk about what kinds of calls and callers they enjoy. There are some great tips about how NOT to communicate with a Mistress and the difference between being an erotic partner and being submissive.
Ms Erika has some fascinating things to say about erotic humiliation. Ms Rachel shares her thoughts on the value of degradation scenes and hardcore humiliation.
The ladies talk about exploring the kink world and learning things about themselves and others.
Ms Olivia has an insight into why she loves phone sex during a conversation about war.
Ms Rachel is a deep thinker and her insights prompts a conversation about intimacy that you won’t hear anywhere else.

Imagine being a crossdresser for years and finally coming out to your mother. That’s just one of the moving stories from this week’s guest, Yvonne. Ms Erika tears up talking about all the crossdressers and sissies who call us and ache to be accepted.
This episode runs the gamut of poignant to playful.
All three ladies dish about fashion, makeup and how to develop a personal style. Yvonne talks about how a supportive community helped her realize she is not transgender or a sissy.
Ms Erika and Ms Olivia dream about a feminization school and list what training classes need to be included in the curriculum. You hear the science behind how to make your voice sound more feminine and get a feminization voice assignment from Ms. Erika.
All this and more when you slip into something pretty for this episode.

Time for the Halloween edition! Princess Cassidy joins Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika to talk about scary movies, fetish fun and why vanilla women like to dress like a slut one day a year. Cassidy shares her Psychology major and talks about her focus on fear studies. Olivia brings up superhero outfits and kink. Erika shares some of her best costume choices.
There’s a bit of everything in this episode including the world’s most hideous candy.
Happy Halloween from all of us to you!

Today’s guest is an award winning journalist, fetish photographer, 20-year kinkster and BDsm mentor. Dirk Hooper is a fascinating guest with insight and lots of stories.
Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk with Dirk about why it’s so hard for a submissive man to find a Lifestyle Domme and how the BDsm community acts towards sex workers and Pro Dommes.

The conversation evolves into porn and why Dominance and submission is so hard to accurately depict. All three weigh in on the value (or damage) of Fifty Shades of Grey.

His personal and professional goal is to dispel myths about BDsm. For example, what it’s like to be a switch. He talks about being a sexual submissive and why the feelings are so hard to replicate anywhere else. Dirk has been on both sides of the whip, so to speak.

Of course, there are all sorts of interesting excursions into other topics including: Ms Olivia’s love of comics art, a discussion about NFTs, crypto currency and the future of content creation, so much more!

The premiere chastity cage creator, William from Mature Metal, talks about all things chastity. Ms Olivia and Ms Erika have questions from callers.
You’ll find out why Mature Metal’s custom sized chastity cages are so comfortable. You’ll get answers to common questions like hygiene and stealth while in chastity.
Are your balls high and tight? Does that make a cage uncomfortable? There’s a solution! Circumcised versus uncircumcised means you’ll want to wear different style cages. Are you (or your keyholder) looking for the smallest cage imaginable? They’ve got you covered!
Find out why Mature Metal has the BEST customer service!!
You’ll also hear how William got his vanilla wife to fully embrace kink and chastity! This is one of our favorite interviews ever!
It is informative, useful and, of course, full of laughter!

Want to know what happened in the Strokeathon?
Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika give you the down and dirty on this exclusive event with 10 Mistresses watching strokers.
Here’s the lineup: Olivia, Madison, Erika, Willow, Riley, Hunter, Daphne, Bethany, Rachel & Harper. Miss Constance joined as the Mistress of Ceremonies.
What exactly IS this edging event where each Mistress TRIES to make the men cum. Did anyone last the full hour?

The conversation starts out with the enduring fascination with “bad girls” - the women who are non-traditional, often sex workers or women that claim their social and/or sexual autonomy. 

Jane talks about the role of sex and sex workers in shaping the culture … especially in terms of fetish wear going mainstream with leather and latex being featured in couture lines. Fashion is never “only” about covering the body. 

The ladies all talk about how their personal and professional experiences with kink have changed them.

Conversation includes:
** the Paradox of BDSM: pain is pleasure, bondage is freedom, etc.
** dominant or powerful women who tend to have a thirst for knowledge and want to grow as people
** the very particular skills of a Pro Domme, whether as an in person Dominatrix or Distance Domination (and phone sex).
** the relationship between submissive and Dominant
** consent
 ** merging the personal and professional in erotic spaces
** the role of money - in society, in relationships, as a symbol of power
** and so much more.

This episode uses quotes from the BDSM book, Edge Play to explore the nuances of culture, societal roles, and more. 

Edge Play by Jane Boonhttps://www.janeboon.com/
Twitter:  @JaneEBoon

Mistress Olivia’s blog:  https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Mistress Erika’s blog:  https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Get up close and personal with the Mistresses of the Strokeathon. This is part two of the special double episode.
Each Mistress brings her special blend of experience, sensuality and wicked imagination to see if she can make the cock strokers pop their cocks! Remember the top 3 winners of the Strokeathon will earn some great prizes - and they will work for it!
Rachel is the perfect mix of pure sex and wicked edging instructions.
Harper talks about her BDsm history and how guided masturbation is a special treat when combined with power exchange.
Willow has some wicked plans for the stroker contestants; if they can handle Willow, they might be able to last to the end of the Strokeathon.
Madison has a lot of ideas about how to torment cock strokers - will they be able to refrain from cumming?
Daphne won’t say exactly what her special move is but we know it’s going to topple hard cocks.
Finally, Bethany points out that because she has a penis she can really torment the strokers - find out the favorite stroking instruction of this Babe with a boner.
All this and so much more in this episode.

Meet the ladies of the Stroke-a-thon. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk with each Mistress about this test of cock stroking stamina.
Each participant will try to NOT cum until the end of the hour. Who will explode first and why?
Will it be when Rachel describes what she’ll wear to the Strokeathon?
Harper’s lube recommendations get the ladies thoroughly sidetracked on the luxurious sounds of a throbbing cock aching to explode.
Willow’s sensual voice and her guided masturbation preview make Olivia and Erika decide to wear a strapon to the Strokeathon so they can also stroke their own dick.
Madison is a thrilling addition to the LDW phone sex team. Hear her plans for her first group event.
Daphne enchants the ladies by pointing out the intimacy of being able to bear witness to this intimate display of masturbation.
And finally, Bethany is liable to make you lose it just listening to her say what she’s going to wear to the Strokeathon. Hint - socks, a smile and a hard cock.
All this and so much more in this episode.

It’s question time! Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika take listener questions and comments. This episode covers all kinds of calls and callers. What do the ladies think of the human connection that they say is only possible on the phone? Why is this intimacy so powerful on a phone sex call? It’s not all serious, as you know if you’re a fan of this sexuality podcast. You’ll hear Ms Olivia plead for one particular humiliation caller to call her. Ms Erika has special insight for the older sissy who is just learning to love her sissy self. The Mistress hosts are full of advice, insight and, yes, the random excursion into a bit of whacky topics.