The Weekly Hot Spot – Details, episodes & analysis

We love it when other smart ladies come up with great ideas. Be sure to send a thank you to Mistress Demi for her idea to use X Spaces (Twitter Spaces) to connect with our friends and even make some new friends.

Ms Demi joins us to talk about Spaces. The ladies talk with her about how the Femdoms at Enchantrix Empire are using spaces.

 For example, every Friday at 7pm eastern various Mistresses gather in the Space for Femdom Friday's.

Each week has a different Mistress host who will lead the conversation. There will be a topic or activity like naughty Mad Libs and other games.

People can listen on Twitter X but the Mistresses are the only ones who will be speakers. Everyone else can join in by going to the Community Kink chatroom and typing while you listen.

When Ms Erika heard Ms Demi’s idea - Ms Erika set up Spaces for The Weekly Hot Spot podcast.

We’ll be live every Thursday at 1pm eastern time -- talking about this kink BDSM podcast, episode ideas, answering questions and, well, basically having a great time shooting the shiznit with each other and all of you. You’ll hear some of those random thoughts in this episode!

Join us on Twitter X:
Ms Demi:  @DommeDemi    
Ms Olivia:  @MistressOlivia1       
Ms Erika:   @ErikaEnchantrix   

Demi’s space for Femdom Friday Sept 6, 2024

Community kink chat room

Look for The Weekly Hot Spot space every Thursday at 1 pm eastern. Cum have lunch with us.


Mistress Demi’s blog: Sensual Cock Tease    
Mistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced Mistress  
Mistress Erika’s blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy   

Miss Cassie returns to talk about self-bondage and rope play.

Ms Erika starts off the conversation with a question about how Distance Domination Femdoms can incorporate self bondage into BDSM sessions over the phone. 

Miss Cassie points out that a long distance Mistress can talk someone through a tie or use other things to create the feelings of being bound, tied, restrained or otherwise controlled by her.

The ladies discuss how vivid descriptions can combine with some simple physical actions to create the feelings, emotions, and sensations of a bondage scene. Miss Cassie points out that descriptions are important even during in-person sessions in a Dominatrix Dungeon.

Things to consider:
What is your self bondage safety plan?
Importance of a safe word in BDSM play in person on online
High protocol versus freely speaking during a scene

Ideas and questions from listeners:
Using remote controlled sex toys during online domination sessions
Using a timed lock box for keys similar to a lock box used for chastity keys
Predicament play safety
Edge play and special issues involved in BDSM negotiation
Keeping safety scissors nearby just in case you need them

Special considerations for submissive men who are in a relationship with a vanilla woman:
How to avoid leaving marks
What causes marks and how long various marks last, for example, tying up the cock and balls (CBT) can leave small broken capillaries.
Marks will depend on the scene, the tie of the ropes and the physical fitness of the submissive.

What can someone use for self bondage?
Examples include:
Sweatband, headband or scrunchie
Shoe laces
¼ inch diameter rope
Paracord
Zone mummification with plastic wrap

Of course, you’ll hear stories from this elite Pro Domme and personal stories from all three Femdoms. 

Miss Cassie’s website:  Miss Cassie Loves Rope
Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

What do you do if you love pain, impact play, discipline, CBT, and/or bondage but you can’t have marks on your body? 
How do you hide the marks when you love being on the receiving end of the S/m dynamic?

That’s the topic today and it’s the result of a listener question to the previous episodes about many aspects of pain play.

Topics include:
Training for a submissive versus a kinky scene with a pain slut
The role of stress positions to enhance kinky scenes
Physical pain, mental pain and the role of an intense mindfuck
The role of suffering in submission to a beautiful Femdom Mistress

Of course, there is always a lot of emphasis on the role of communication in BDSM.
The ladies talk about BDSM negotiation, what to ask your Mistress and why it’s important that you answer her questions honestly (so she can plan the play effectively).

This is BDSM education:
Thuddy versus stingy impact play
The role of warmup in impact play
How bondage affects the skin for CBT
Electrosex and what to look for an a tens unit for kinky usesWax play and safety concerns
Temperature play and a wicked use of ice water
The importance of aftercare

These creative Femdoms talk about workarounds for those who crave S/m pain but need to keep this part hidden.

Remember if you hear something in the podcast and you have a followup question, send an email.
Olivia AT enchantrixempire.com
Erika AT enchantrixempire.com

Ms Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Ms Erika’s blog:  https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Kay Marie is a self proclaimed suburban MILF. Mistress Erika and Ms Olivia get with Kay Marie to talk about her podcast, Happy Hour with Kay Marie.
We all go off topic right from the start of this episode and Kay Marie says that’s the perfect way to showcase her podcast because it’s organic and just flows without a topic or outline.
Her podcast is also a bit different in that she does her show live and interacts with her fans live in the Community Kink chat room.
In this episode you’ll find out about Kay Marie’s style on a phone sex call, what calls she likes to do and calls she does not want to do.

Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about podcasting, sex and random silliness with Mistress Hunter.
What makes a sex podcast sexy?
Why did Ms Hunter start a podcast called Sexy Story Time?
Is it better to structure a podcast or do an organic, stream of consciousness podcast?
This episode ranges from sexy to sweet to smart along with a dash of naughty.

Hosts Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika answer listener questions about sissy transformation and feminization.
Some of the questions are from people who are new to the podcast and are just starting to explore their feminine side – others are from callers who want to share their experiences with the Sissy Training Calendar and Feminization trance audio.
Have the episodes on being a crossdresser, sissy or trans helped you to explore your femininity? The ladies talk about how important it is to have a community around you.
You’ll hear specific answers to questions from a new sissy, a sissy who has to stay in the closet and another sissy in chastity.

Did you know that Mistress Becky has a Masters in Mental Health Counseling? She joins The Weekly Hot Spot to talk about sex, sexuality, mental health, BDSM, and so much more!
Ms Erika leads a conversation about sexual pleasure for people with disabilities. Her ignore pet says that people see him in a wheelchair and don’t think he has sexual desires including cruel erotic humiliation.
Ms Becky talks about how powerful it is to get your sexual needs met and how erotic pleasure is a tool to express our experience of life.
Mistress Olivia thinks of sex work as a calling and a privelege … even in Mean Mistress mode when the inner sadist comes out to play with the quivering submissive.
Hear a discussion about CBT and how to do intense sessions for pain sluts whether it’s real life instructions or a fantasy roleplay.
Questions for listeners include: are you surprised at what you are learning about Ms Becky and other Mistresses?

What do you want to know about life as a phone sex operator?
Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika take listeners behind the scenes of life and love on the phone.
Ms Olivia shares an email that prompts a conversation about cost, value and sex work in general. Mistress Erika has some great ideas about why some people send a really explicit email as a first email.
Are you curious about how to communicate with a Femdom, a phone sex operator or other kind of sex worker? Hear what these women say about some of the crazy things said to them.
A headache and edibles lead to an fun conversation about how to say smart cars in a sexy way and why WAP (wet ass pussy) is the perfect song.
It’s not all joking around, there is a serious conversation about how to communicate what makes you hot when you’re a shy guy.
Don’t miss confessions of first phone sex calls - weirdest phone sex calls and nuances of BDSM and Distance Domination.
What do you want to know? Take a listen to the first batch of questions; we promise to do this again.

In this episode we interview our friend and fellow podcaster, Duchess Willow Munroe.
She is wicked smart and incredibly sensual so this conversation covers a little of all sorts of topics.
Duchess Willow has a podcast episode about remote control sex toys. This leads to a thoughtful conversation about intimacy, distance domination, safe sex, and connections with our callers.
Of course, since this is a sex podcast, the conversation gets … well … sexual!
Hear:
Why Ms Olivia wants to be a guy.
What Duchess Willow enjoys with her special friends; if you want to get the Duchess off, you’ll find out how to do it!
A podcast question from Ms Erika leads to a conversation about creativity.
And … if all that isn’t enough … there’s a discussion about Ms Willow’s Dick Ratings, good penis size, shrinking a tiny man so small he …..
Well, you best listen to find out.

Today’s guest, Mistress Becky, calls herself a natural born pervert. You’ll want to get all the details on this Femdom Mistress. She is sensual, strict and smart.
Ms. Erika asks about favorite sex toys. We learn that Becky used to sell sex toys and is getting a new kind of vibrator that tracks your orgasms using bio feedback.
This leads to a conversation about how to fuck with a submissive using remote controlled vibrators.
Mistress Olivia starts to design a phone sex cock teasing assignment and you hear the brainstorming around this idea. We take you behind the scenes so you hear a bit about how we do what we do.
All the ladies love the girly girls: crossdressers, sissies and trans. Ms Olivia asks about favorite places to shop and other tips for our femme friends.
There’s also a serious conversation about kink friendly therapy, BDSM and mental health and the issues of shame around sexuality, sex and sexual pleasure.