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| Episode #94- Richard De La Mora on Body Count: Biblical Solutions To Deal With Your Partners Promiscuous Past | 18 Oct 2024 | 00:51:08 | |
The shame from past sexual experiences can be a heavy burden, affecting our current and future relationships. In today's world, influenced by hook-up culture, hyper-sexualization, and widespread use of pornography, many people struggle with feelings of regret and guilt that impact their self-worth. This shame can lead to fear and insecurity, making it challenging to trust, be vulnerable, and fully experience the love and intimacy necessary for healthy relationships. It's important to recognize that this doesn't just affect the person with the sexual past, but also their partner. In this deeply personal and insightful interview, Richard De La Mora, a respected pastor, devoted husband, and co-founder of LoveAlwaysMinistries.com, sheds light on his latest book, "Body Count." The book addresses a sensitive and vital issue in today’s hyper-sexualized world: navigating a relationship when one partner has a significant sexual history. Richard candidly shares his own journey of marrying a former adult film actress and how they successfully navigated through challenges such as jealousy, shame, and societal judgment. The interview delves into the book's core themes, exploring how to cultivate a thriving relationship despite a partner's past and how to overcome mental obstacles like recurring negative thoughts or "mental movies." Richard emphasizes the transformative power of grace, both in receiving it from God and extending it to a partner who may have a challenging sexual past. Richard De La Mora is a husband, father, pastor, evangelist, and author. His deep love for Jesus and passion for people led him to San Diego, CA, in 2012, where he began working in full-time ministry. He married his wife, former porn star Brittni, in 2016. Shortly after, they began preaching the gospel and sharing their unique story worldwide, which depicts a modern-day version of Hosea and Gomer. In 2020, Richard and Brittni founded Love Always Ministries. A ministry that helps people walk in their calling by discovering God’s love and leading a victorious life through purity. Get your copy of Body Count Learn more about Love Always Ministries Follow on socials: Richard- @richardelamora Brittni- @brittnidelamora Love Always- @lovealwaysministries | |||
| Episode #93-Kyla Gillespie on Gender Dysphoria, Transitioning & The Love of Jesus | 04 Oct 2024 | 01:02:59 | |
| Episode 84 - Healing From Unresolved Trauma with Tara Lalonde. PhD | 16 Feb 2024 | 01:08:01 | |
Join us in this riveting episode as we delve deep into the complexities of unresolved trauma, exploring its impact on friendships and marriages. Our expert guest, Tara Lalonde PhD, a seasoned psychotherapist and marriage counsellor, shares profound insights and practical advice for supporting individuals amid their trauma journeys. Tara recently worked with Focus On The Family Canada in producing a resource centred around helping people find Healing From Un-resolved Trauma. If you find this podcast episode helpful and want to go deeper we would highly recommend signing up for this free resource. Episode #84 Highlights: -Demystifying Trauma: In a world increasingly aware of trauma, our guest breaks down the concept for listeners, providing a clear understanding of what is meant when we speak of trauma and its various forms. -Big T vs. Little T Trauma: Explore the distinctions between Big T and Little T trauma, gaining valuable insights into why these nuances matter in mental and emotional well-being. -Procedural Maps and Life Filters: Unpack the fascinating concept of procedural maps and how they become the lenses through which we navigate life, shaping our perceptions and responses to the world around us. -Childhood Trauma Unveiled: Understand why experiences from our formative years persist into adulthood, affecting relationships and emotional well-being…and more! Tara Lalonde, a registered psychotherapist in Ontario, has been counselling adults and couples for over 20 years and is a lead marriage therapist with the Hope Restored marriage intensive counselling program in Ontario, Canada. She also has a private practice focusing on trauma recovery. Tara holds a doctorate in professional counselling from Liberty University and has theological training through her Master’s of Divinity in professional counselling, minoring in pastoral studies, from Tyndale Seminary. Tara has appeared on 100 Huntley Street and 700 Club along with radio programs and podcasts in Canada. She is also the author of An Unexpected Freedom: Discover Peace and Joy in the Reality of Life. She is also publishing a new book she co-authored that will be out in July 2024. Tara and her husband Vince have been married for 19 years. For more info on the Hope Restored Marriage Intensive, click here | |||
| Episode 83 - Made For Each Other: facing loneliness and finding community | 02 Feb 2024 | 00:41:31 | |
Welcome to the first episode of season 4 of The Union Podcast. We frequently receive numerous inquiries about singleness, how to begin healthy relationships and the key ingredients for a successful marriage. Therefore, we have dedicated this entire fourth season to exploring these subjects. We have some outstanding guests lined up that we are confident you will enjoy. In this episode Bonnie and Bryan cover: -Unpacking the profound truth, "It's not good for man to be alone" -Exploring current trends of marriage and singleness, and their impact. -The remedy for loneliness in the church. -Addressing the challenge of connection and fostering meaningful bonds to combat isolation. …and more. www.theunionmovement.com | |||
| Episode 82- Matthew Schlesinger On Keys To A Better Sex Life Part 2 | 27 Nov 2023 | 00:56:05 | |
I’ve heard it said that “ the only key for better sex in marriage, from a man’s perspective, is for the wife to bring food and show up naked.” All joking aside, being an authentic man is a challenging topic for many guys. As men, we hear a wide variety of voices calling for everything from the crushing of the patriarchy and the ever-growing definition of toxic masculinity to the other extreme of “red-pill” masculinity that sees manhood as being defined by money, power and sex. How we see these topics will affect the type of man we become and the health of sexual intimacy we have in marriage. That’s exactly what Bryan and Pastor Matthew Schlesinger talk about in this episode. Matthew, and his wife, Sabrina were married in 2000 and served as pastors alongside Matthew’s parents for ten years in Oregon. The dream God placed in their hearts years earlier unfolded and in December of 2012 they joined the Grace team as Lead Pastors in their favorite city, San Diego. Matthew is fun and authentic. He loves God’s Word, places priority on His Presence, and believes that the local church is the hope of the world. Matthew & Sabrina are the proud parents of three beautiful daughters and one amazing son. Their family mission is to populate heaven and plunder hell. Matthew and Sabrina host both the Marriage on the Go and Parenting on the Go podcasts.@matthewschlesinger | |||
| Episode 81- Sabrina Schlesinger On Keys To A Better Sex Life | 03 Nov 2023 | 00:48:12 | |
The statement that “sex before marriage is bad” can quickly become “sex is bad” if we don’t see sex as the beautiful gift from God that it is. In this episode, Bonnie chats with Sabrina Schlesinger about how women can have a healthy perspective toward their sexuality and experience a better sex life within their marriages. Sabrina is a wife to Matthew, mother, pastor, speaker and podcast host. Sabrina and Matthew host two podcasts, Parenting on the Go and Marriage on the Go. Both podcasts offer Biblical and practical advice on parenting and marriage. Every episode is brief so you can listen to them in the carpool lane, at the gym, grocery shopping, and anywhere you are "on the go!" You can subscribe and listen to them every week on iTunes, Google Play, and Spotify. Sabrina also wrote a book for moms called, What Other Moms Never Told Me. It is available on Amazon as paperback or Kindle. Register For The Union Conference @Sabrinaschlesinger | |||
| Episode 80- Dr. Andy Steiger On What It Means To Be Human | 24 Oct 2023 | 00:58:28 | |
In a world that has become so preoccupied with progress, have we lost what it means to be human? We are so pumped to have Dr Andy Steiger join us to talk about how we can find what it truly means to be human within God’s restorative plan in Jesus. Andy Steiger is the founder and president of Apologetics Canada Ministries (AC). He passionately engages in pressing issues related to our humanity from a Christian perspective. He has presented at various venues such as Cambridge University on philosophical issues related to Artificial Intelligence, provided ethical guidelines on robotics for the United Nations, and addressed legal concerns over rights of conscience at the World Congress in Philosophy of Law. Andy has published widely from children’s books to a Supreme Court Law Review. His most recent book, Reclaimed: How Jesus Restores Our Humanity in a Dehumanized World was awarded runner-up to evangelistic resource of the year. Andy is known for making complex theological and philosophical ideas understandable through the art of storytelling as seen in AC’s video resources. The Human Project video series debuted at film festivals around the world and won a number of awards including Best Short Film and People's Choice. Recently released is BRANDED: A Series on Identity which is now available on RightNow Media. Between his 20 years of pastoral experience and a PhD from the University of Aberdeen, Andy brings both experience and research to his work. Andy currently lives in Abbotsford, British Columbia, with his wife, Nancy, and their two sons. Most weekends you’ll find the Steigers in the mountains or lakes of BC. | |||
| Episode 79- Nikki Dent On Breaking Up With Babel | 06 Oct 2023 | 01:03:49 | |
You may not know what Babel is but trust me, it’s all over the place. Babel is a way of thinking, speaking and living apart from God. We see its influence nowhere stronger than in the realm of sexuality. It shows itself in everything from the culture’s addiction to pornography, to even the views of marriage that some people hold, even in the church. We are so pumped to have had the opportunity to sit down with Nikki Dent and talk about her new book, BREAKING UP WITH BABEL- The Gospel Of Sex, Dating and Relating In A Culture Of Confusion. This hope-filled and captivating teaching provides a Scripture-based perspective on sex, dating, and romance that compels Christians to walk in purity and passion. By exploring a positive and powerful theology on sex and dating, Breaking Up with Babel presents a sexual gospel that outshines the humanistic messages of broken sexuality, pornography, sex outside of marriage, and digital dating in a Babel-weary world. God's people are called to live their most fruitful lives by answering questions such as: How does sex affect our body, soul, and spirit? Why should we wait until marriage to have sex? Why is pornography terrible for our sex life? How do we date biblically in a digital world? Why do we need boundaries to have healthy relationships? How can we be restored from heartache and brokenness? Nikki is a passionate Bible preacher who lives with her husband, Paul, and three daughters on the east coast of Australia. Paul and Nikki also serve as Pastors at Eastgate Church in Byron Bay. She has passionately taught on sex, dating, and relationships from a Christian worldview for ten years in Christian leadership academies, discipleship training schools (YWAM), churches and young adult ministries. Register For THE UNION YA CONFERENCE Get Your Copy Of BREAKING UP WITH BABEL IG- @nikkident_ | |||
| Episode 78- Daniel Principe On The Sexploitation Of The Young Generation | 05 Sep 2023 | 01:01:29 | |
There is no question that our current generation is saturated with pornography and the ideas that it presents about human worth and life's meaning. In this episode, Bryan sits down with Daniel Principe and discusses what is at stake if we don't see a massive shift from this epidemic. Daniel is a youth advocate and educator with Collective Shout. He partners with schools and communities to challenge porn culture and the sexualization of women and girls. He works with boys and men across Australia to reimagine masculinity and embody a vision of manhood defined by virtue. A former health professional, he has a background in public relations, marketing, and media, and has worked as an advisor in politics and the non-profit health sector. He recognizes the urgent need to help equip young people to recognize the impacts of harmful messaging from social media, advertising, pop culture and the global porn industry. He helps young people see how these cultural forces fuel distorted ideas and attitudes about bodies, relationships and sex. Daniel encourages young people to resist these harmful messages and to be courageous as they aspire to something far better for their lives and relationships. Daniel has presented to hundreds of schools and organizations to help parents and communities raise healthy, resilient and empathetic young people. Daniel hosts Collective Shout’s podcast ‘Reimagining Masculinity’ and is a regular on TV and radio programs. | |||
| Episode 77- Bryan & Bonnie Pue on The Search for Self: where discipleship and gender identity meet | 21 Jun 2023 | 00:56:51 | |
What is the self? What does it mean to be human? These are some of the major questions being asked in our cultural moment. The good news is that we can find creditable answers for them in the words of Jesus. In this episode, Bryan & Bonnie Pue discuss what Jesus is talking about in Luke 9 where He says, “What good is it for someone to gain the whole world, and yet lose or forfeit their very self?” We cover the topics of: -The biblical view of the self compared to the secular psychological view. -The human identity in creation, redemption and glorification -Humanity being made in the image of God. - The integration of body, soul and spirit. - Gnosticism and modern gender theory - The hope of redemption we have in Jesus | |||
| Episode 76- Dr. Christopher Yuan On Holy Sexuality And The Gospel | 19 May 2023 | 01:03:19 | |
The topic of same-sex attraction and homosexuality can be difficult for some of us to discuss. With so many voices on the topic, terms like side A or B, mixed with changing definitions of words, make you wonder, have we lost touch with holiness? In this episode, Dr. Christopher Yuan joins us as we seek to understand what it really means to live in holy sexuality from a Biblical perspective. He shares his powerful testimony of how he came to Christ and experienced a radical transformation. We talk about: The Gospel’s effect on our sexuality The proper process for Biblical interpretation Biblical anthropology and homosexuality Jesus never mentioned homosexuality…right? …and more! Dr. Christopher Yuan is a highly sought-after expert whose book, Holy Sexuality and the Gospel, was named 2020 book of the year for social issues by Outreach Magazine. Dr. Yuan casts a compelling vision of not identifying with our sexuality, but embracing Christ and living out Holy Sexuality, which shatters the secular paradigms of gay and straight. Dr. Yuan graduated from Moody Bible Institute in 2005 and received a master’s degree in biblical exegesis in 2007 and a doctorate of ministry in 2014. He taught the Bible at Moody Bible Institute for 12 years and his speaking ministry on faith and sexuality has reached five continents. Christopher has also produced The Holy Sexuality Project video series for parents and their teens. It is a first-of-its-kind resource to help parents and grandparents to empower their teens to understand, embrace, and celebrate biblical sexuality. For more from Dr. Yuan: | |||
| Episode 75 - Jessica Harris on Women + Finding Freedom from Porn | 04 May 2023 | 00:49:13 | |
Jessica Harris has first-hand experience of what it is like as a woman to face the shame of porn addiction when it was assumed to be a man’s issue. Statistics show that there is a rising number of women who have sought out sexual content to view; this isn’t a fringe topic and ignoring it won’t make it go away. That’s why Jessica Harris is committed to breaking the silence, and we are glad to be able to share this conversation with you. Bonnie and Jessica sat down to talk about: - Jessica’s story of how she overcame the grip of pornography in her life - Common symptoms of shame and what true freedom looks like - How followers of Jesus can find true satisfaction for their souls Jessica Harris is a writer, speaker, and creator of “Beggar’s Daughter”, a blog for Christian women struggling with pornography and sexual sin. She is recognized as a leading voice on the topic of female porn use and addiction in the church. She is author of the recently released book, “Quenched: Discovering God’s Abundant Grace for Women Struggling with Pornography and Sexual Shame”. You can find more from Jessica at https://beggarsdaughter.com/ . | |||
| Episode #92- Robert Paul and Tara Lalonde On Marriages That Are Empowered To Love | 20 Sep 2024 | 01:04:00 | |
When faced with continuous challenges and unexpected obstacles in life, how can we create a fulfilling and close marriage? How can we transition from feeling stressed and overwhelmed to feeling energized and motivated, and find the strength to improve our marriage relationship? In this episode, hosted by Bryan Pue, we will hear from Robert Paul, and return guest Tara Lalonde, as they unpack principles from their new book entitled “Empowered To Love”. Robert and Tara provide practical, biblically based tools for husbands and wives to enhance their personal lives and empower their marriage. Instead of simply hoping and praying for something better, couples are encouraged to actively take steps to care for themselves and prioritize their most important relationship. Through insightful guidance, Robert and Tara will address questions like: Why is Empowered to Love so important in today’s cultural moment, and how can it offer hope for struggling marriages? How can couples focus on personal development without falling into self-centeredness? What are the greatest threats to creating a marriage that feels safe emotionally, spiritually, physically, and mentally? Why is personal responsibility so crucial in maintaining a healthy relationship? How can we avoid codependency and recognize when we are taking on too much responsibility for our spouse’s emotional and spiritual health? What does it mean to “guard your heart” in an unhealthy marriage while still showing up as the best version of yourself? How has the modern view of love and commitment in marriage gone off track, and how can we reclaim the true meaning of covenant love? Is love a feeling or a choice, and how do both perspectives shape a lasting marriage? What words of hope can we offer to couples who feel stuck in negative patterns and don’t know how to move forward? Whether you’re a newlywed or a couple facing years of unresolved tension, Empowered to Love offers real hope, practical strategies, and transformative insights that can help your marriage flourish in today’s fast-paced world. Tune in and take the next step toward a healthier, more empowered relationship. Robert S. Paul, M.S., is the vice president of the Focus on the Family Marriage Institute and the primary architect of the Hope Restored marriage intensive programs. He is a licensed professional counsellor with over 30 years of experience and is an international speaker. He has coauthored six books, including The DNA of Relationships with Gary and Greg Smalley and, more recently, 9 Lies That Will Destroy Your Marriage. Robert and his wife, Jenni, have been married for 43 years and have four children and seven grandchildren. Tara Lalonde, PhD, is a registered psychotherapist in Ontario and has been counselling adults and couples for over 20 years. She is a lead marriage therapist with the Hope Restored marriage intensive counselling program in Ontario, Canada. She is also the author of An Unexpected Freedom: Discover Peace and Joy in the Reality of Life. She and her husband, Vince, have been married for 19 years. Get your copy of “Empowered To Love” | |||
| Episode 74 - Bryan & Bonnie Pue On Justice, Abortion + Innocent blood | 08 Apr 2023 | 00:38:29 | |
If you were not aware, Canada is one of the few countries in the world with no laws around abortion. That means that a baby's life can be taken at any stage up until complete birth, even at 38 weeks. This is exactly what happened at a Montreal hospital in early February of 2023. In this podcast, Bonnie and Bryan discuss the heartbreaking realities of abortion and its effects on the nations of the earth. We cover topics of: Human beings are created in the image of God Objective vs subjective moral reasoning & a two-tiered worldview Abortions connection to sexual immorality The Biblical history of human sacrifice in false god worship practices Innocent bloodshed & demonic empowerment A gospel response to the injustice of abortion. | |||
| Episode 73 - Joanna Hyatt on Abortion & a Pro-Life Viewpoint | 24 Mar 2023 | 00:54:20 | |
You can stay up to speed with all of Joanna’s amazing content on her website- www.joannahyatt.com and follow her on IG & FB- @joannahyatt | |||
| Episode 72 - 7 Ways Leaders Can Start Talking About Sexuality Pt 2 | 24 Feb 2023 | 00:17:20 | |
There are lots of things that can keep leaders from talking about sexuality. Whether it’s intimidation from the masses or shame from their past, wading into these waters can seem daunting. Here is Episode 72, Bryan finishes our two-part series on the 7 ways leaders can start talking about sexuality, by looking at some of the reasons why leaders don’t. Covered in this episode: 4) Fear Of The Mob 5) Not Wanting To Cause Damage 6)Living A Double Life 7) Not Sure Where To Start | |||
| Episode 71 - 7 Ways Leaders Can Start Talking About Sexuality Pt 1 | 10 Feb 2023 | 00:17:01 | |
There are lots of things that can keep leaders from talking about sexuality. Whether it’s intimidation from the masses or shame from their past, wading into these waters can seem daunting. Here is Episode 71, Bryan kicks off our two-part series on the 7 ways leaders can start talking about sexuality, by looking at some of the reasons why leaders don’t. Covered in this episode: 1) Dodging The Need 2)Feeling Under-equipped 3)Shadows from the past. | |||
| Episode 70 - Jonathan Bryden On Same-Sex Attraction, Suffering & The Gospel | 27 Jan 2023 | 00:53:38 | |
How does one navigate sexual desires that are contrary to your faith? That is what we seek to discover here in Episode 70. We were honoured to have Jonathan Bryden join us to share his story of same-sex attraction and how Jesus showed Him that trusting His design for sexuality was going to make all the difference. Jonathan Bryden works in Vancouver Canada as a documentary filmmaker in the independent film industry. A Christian from a young age, Jonathan also has struggled with reconciling his same-sex attraction with his faith and is currently living a celibate life in pursuit of Jesus. Passionate to share the Gospel through film, Jonathan is producing a documentary series that aims to ask the question, “How does the church, in light of the Gospel, face homosexuality?” | |||
| Episode 69 - Rachelle Starr On Outrageous Obedience | 13 Jan 2023 | 00:37:19 | |
It seems the word “obedience” has become a swear word today in Christian culture. We know that we are saved by grace and not works, so we assume that obedience is optional. This couldn’t be further from the truth. It is not optional but, it is also not a burden. It’s a joy to obey God’s instruction and His leadership in our everyday life. In Episode 69, Bryan sits down with Rachelle Starr and discusses her new book, “Outrageous Obedience” and how we can grow in radical obedience that shows the amazing love of God in some dark and challenging areas of humanity. Rachelle Starr (www.scarlethope.org) founded Scarlet Hope, a nonprofit dedicated to sharing the hope of Jesus with women in the adult entertainment industry. In 2015, Rachelle launched a social enterprise called Scarlet's Bakery, where women can receive employment and valuable job skills while producing and selling delicious baked goods. Rachelle and her husband, Josh, have two boys through adoption and reside in Louisville, Kentucky. Learn more at scarlethope.org and by following @rachellestarr.co on Instagram. | |||
| Episode 68 - We've Been Here Before | 25 Nov 2022 | 00:53:06 | |
It’s easy to be overwhelmed by the hyper-sexualization of our society. Often, we see what is happening as new when in actuality it is just re-packaged. Modern-day transgenderism and gender theory are actually ancient Gnosticism just wearing a new shirt. The hope we have is that Jesus used His church of the first century to rescue lost people out of the folly of these ideas. If we are willing to do what they did we can see what they saw. In this episode, we are highlighting a message Bryan preached at a recent MFI Canada Conference. He covers: -The template of Satan’s strategy found in the garden of Eden -The re-occurring cycle of God’s judgment towards idolatry. -The hope of the Gospel to bring people out of brokenness into wholeness. | |||
| Episode 67 - Bryan & Bonnie Pue On Raising Gender Confident Kids | 08 Nov 2022 | 00:51:32 | |
Government and media have become two of the greatest influencers over culture, and they seem to be pushing a strong message of moral relativism. As followers of Christ, will we let our lives be formed by Scripture and pass our values on to our children? Or will we throw up our hands and give in to ideologies that seek to blur all lines of gender design? In this podcast episode we talk about: ⁃ How we must always remember that these struggles are not actually against fellow humans, but against spiritual enemies and strategies ⁃ How the church can become a place that celebrates the unique nature of being male and female, understanding not just biological differences, but also physiological differences ⁃ How parents can teach their children a biblical view on gender, while also encouraging compassionate interactions with kids who identify as non-binary ⁃ Practical ways that parents can support their children’s God-given gender design Download The “Five Ways To Support Your Childs God-Given Gender Identity” Infographic If you are a Christ-follower, wondering how to raise gender-confident kids - this conversation will be a good place to start. You can find and follow The Union Podcast over on Apple, Spotify, and Google Play. While you’re at it, if you find this content helpful, would you: ⁃ Send the episode to a friend who you think would appreciate it? ⁃ Write us a quick review in your favourite podcast app? (It helps more people find our content) ⁃ Leave us a comment below and tell us what stood out to you? (It means a lot to us to get to connect with listeners!) Download The “Five Ways To Support Your Childs God-Given Gender Identity” Infographic | |||
| Episode 66 - Brant Hansen On "The Men We Need" | 19 Oct 2022 | 00:46:51 | |
What defines being a man? Is it lifting heavy weights or driving a big truck? Is it the amount of money you make or how fast you can chug a beer? What if it’s none of those things? We are living in a time of cultural confusion when it comes to genuine manhood. History would show that when men lack true identity and purpose, everyone suffers. That’s why Brant Hansen’s new book, “The Men We Need” is so important. In it, he outlines the everyday choices that men can make to cultivate healthy atmospheres around them and not toxic ones. In this episode, Bryan and Brant discuss some of the cultural lies we are having to navigate as men and how we can find a perfect example of authentic manhood in the character of Jesus. Brant Hansen is an author, radio host, and advocate for healing children with correctible disabilities through CURE International. He's won multiple awards for "Personality of the Year" for his radio show, which airs on more than 200 stations nationwide. His podcast with his friend and radio producer, The Brant and Sherri Oddcast, has been downloaded more than 10 million times. The author of The Truth About Us, Unoffendable, and Blessed Are the Misfits, Hansen has written for CNN.com, the Washington Post, U.S. News and World Report, the South Florida Sun-Sentinel, Relevant, and numerous other outlets on matters as varied as public policy, culture, sports, Asperger's syndrome, and faith. He and his wife, Carolyn, live in South Florida. Get Your Copy Of “The Men We Need”. Learn More About Cure International Follow Brant on Social Media- @branthansen | |||
| Episode 65 - Ruth Erickson On Finding Healing After Your Husband’s Affair | 03 Oct 2022 | 00:53:27 | |
In Episode 65, we sit down with Ruth Erickson as she unpacks some of the keys to finding healing after a marriage experiences adultery even when the marriage doesn’t survive. Ruth is a mama and step-mama in a beautiful blended family. Ruth has a heart for worship and for helping women, who are recovering from infidelity trauma, find hope & healing and to equip the church to love these women well. God has re-written the most painful parts of her story to prove His promises. Ruth’s new book, (Un)Faithful, is a guide through the firestorm of infidelity. Ruth Erickson’s story of heartbreak and healing is an invitation for all women who have suffered the betrayal of an affair to discover the depths of the faithfulness of God. Ruth offers wisdom, perspective and hope, standing years beyond her own fire, yet the book also journeys back in time to include riveting and honest poetry and journal entries from her real-time experience. Wrapped in forgiveness and faith, (Un)Faithful is a raw and reverent journey to healing, whether the marriage survives or not. While every story is unique, this book offers timeless, biblical principles by which any woman can walk into safety and dignity under the covering of a gracious God. Follow Ruth on IG- @ruthaerickson | |||
| Episode #91- Bryan and Bonnie Pue On Courageous Leadership and The Church | 06 Sep 2024 | 00:34:50 | |
| Episode 64 - Sam Tielemans on Restoring Marriage from the Effects of Porn Addiction | 16 Sep 2022 | 00:50:58 | |
The numbers don’t lie, porn usage within marriage is a key factor in why many marriages end in divorce. For a long time, porn was viewed as only a man's problem, but the stats show a major increase in women accessing porn. No matter whether it’s the husband or wife, porn in a marriage is destructive. In this episode, Bryan speaks with Sam Tielemans about how change can be possible in a marriage where porn is present and the boundaries needed to be set to make that change. Sam Tielemans is a licensed marriage and family therapist that specializes in helping couples overcome the effect of unhealthy porn use in their relationship. He has a private practice in Las Vegas, and after working with couples for over a decade, he has developed an approach to help couples restore their marriage, rebuild trust, and improve their sexual intimacy after betrayal. https://healingcouples.org | |||
| Episode 63 - Dr. Iian Provan On Gender Theory, Free Speech and 1984 | 24 Jun 2022 | 00:46:41 | |
What happens when words that have meant something for thousands of years, now mean something completely different? What happens when they are words like “man” and “woman”? Whats happens when there are criminal charges applied to those who dont think “correctly"? …In many ways, we are about to find out. In this episode, Bryan sits down with Dr. Iain Provan to discuss the current challenges that face the church regarding gender identity and free speech. Dr. Provan even uses analogies connected to the book, you probably read in high school. 1984 written by George Orwell. The similiarites to our cultural moment are shocking. Dr. Provan was born and educated in the UK, ultimately completing a PhD at the University of Cambridge. His academic teaching career began in the university world of the UK, prior to his family’s emigration to Canada in 1997. He is the author of many books, essays, and articles, with a particular focus in the last decade on the intersection of Christian Scripture and theology and contemporary culture. He is a Life Member of Clare Hall, Cambridge and the recipient of an Alexander von Humboldt Research Fellowship in Germany. He is also a qualified Provincial B Licence soccer coach and a keen fly fisherman. https://iainprovan.ca | |||
| Episode 62 - Stephen Thomas On Identity, Porn Addiction & Same Sex Attraction | 10 Jun 2022 | 00:36:43 | |
| Episode 61 - Matt Cline On Quitting Porn And Finding Real Love | 31 May 2022 | 00:46:15 | |
For more info on Restored Ministries visit- www.restoredministries.ca | |||
| Episode 60 - Bryan & Bonnie On Honour | 13 May 2022 | 00:32:51 | |
| Episode 59 - Bryan and Bonnie On Legacy | 29 Apr 2022 | 00:24:02 | |
| Episode 58 - Bryan & Bonnie Pue On Transparency | 15 Apr 2022 | 00:17:50 | |
| Episode 57 - Bryan & Bonnie Pue On Holistic Sexual Health | 27 Mar 2022 | 00:15:27 | |
| Episode 56 - Bryan & Bonnie On Gospel Centred Sexual Health | 11 Mar 2022 | 00:18:21 | |
The gospel of Jesus and sexuality are NOT mutually exclusive.
It’s easy to relegate gospel preaching to only be about the initial introduction to Jesus that leads someone to faith in Him. This, unfortunately, leaves a large space in between the moment of that decision and the moment of someone’s death. So, what happens in between?
This space is where the gospel continues to work as our lives are healed by the good news of Jesus. As Christian leaders, we cant talk about this work without talking about sexuality.
In Episode 56, Bryan and Bonnie share some key points on how we can develop a gospel-centred perspective towards sexuality in our churches and ministries. | |||
| Episode 55 - Chris & Stephanie Teague On Living A Double Life, Divorce & Restoration | 18 Feb 2022 | 00:53:13 | |
They thought that it was all over. They had been high school sweethearts, married for multiple years, but Chris had begun to live a double-life.
Though he was leading worship on Sunday mornings at his church, doubts and questions about his faith were nagging at him. It was a battle in his mind, but also in his soul as he began to live without restraint.
The foundation of their marriage was eroding, and Steph was shocked the day that Chris told her it was over. Shortly after, the divorce papers were signed. But, it wasn’t as over as they thought.
We are grateful to be able to share our conversation with this remarried couple from Out of the Dust music over on The Union Podcast today.
This conversation will help you:
- See the value of transparency, starting right now, today
- Understand the processes of forgiveness and learning to trust again
- Realize the need to put your hope in a God who will not fail you
- Find hope that restoration for your soul is always possible through Jesus
You can find this episode over on our website, on Apple, Spotify, or Google Play. We welcome you to subscribe, rate, and share so that these messages of hope can be found by many more listeners who are at a vulnerable spot and need some love!
And be sure to follow along with Chris & Steph to listen to the beautiful music they have released and to see them live!
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| Episode #90- Jim Anderson On Decoding Courtship and Five Principles for Healthy Relationships | 28 May 2024 | 01:09:07 | |
| Episode 54 - Sathiya Sam On Resolving The Root Issues Of Porn Addiction | 04 Feb 2022 | 00:37:35 | |
| Episode 53 - Jon Tyson On Intentional Fatherhood | 21 Jan 2022 | 00:45:46 | |
Follow Jon on IG: @jontyson Get Your Copy Of “The Intentional Father” | |||
| Episode 52 - Bryan & Bonnie Pue On The Pressures That Leaders Face & Relevance For A Young Generation | 08 Jan 2022 | 00:33:50 | |
Leaders face a cost when they raise their voices on the topics of sexuality and morality. But never forget that the cost of silence is far higher.
And the young generation desperately needs us to pay that price and give them some kind of bearing. Give them some guidance through the minefields of moral relativism, identity crisis, and walking your way back from heartache and shame.
God never shied away from the topics around sexuality that can make us blush and squirm in church auditoriums or Bible study classrooms.
In this episode, Bryan and Bonnie talk about:
- the pressures that church leaders are facing
- the topics that the next generation desperately need some wisdom on
- the link between spiritual awakening and sexual wholeness
- how you can take one step forward this year for the sake of your church community
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| Episode 51 - ErIc Demeter On How Should A Christian Date | 17 Dec 2021 | 00:40:13 | |
| Episode 50 - Dr Ron Welch On The Choices That Help Couples Succeed | 10 Dec 2021 | 00:41:01 | |
| Episode 49 - Bryan & Bonnie On Identity, Sex Changes, & Name Changes | 26 Nov 2021 | 00:35:36 | |
In this episode, Bryan & Bonnie continue on in the theme of identity and the complexities of the current discussion around gender.
In this episode we cover:
Seeing the topic of gender confusion, with a Biblical and historical lens. Seeing that this topic is not really new.
Recognizing that rigid, cultural stereotypes aren’t placed there by God. There are differences between men and women, and there are unique assignments entrusted to men and women, but there is so much space for individual expression within those assignments.
Knowing the love of God for the “eunuch” , the one who has had surgical alteration to their body in order to resist their biological gender, and that God has a place of belonging prepared for those who would surrender these decisions to Him.
For those who are wrestling - God is coming to you. Just like the account of Jacob in the Book of Genesis, God came looking for a lost confused young man who longed to be blessed in who he was. | |||
| Episode 48 - Carissa Shockley On Gender Identity, LGBTQ , Trauma and The Love Of Jesus | 05 Nov 2021 | 00:42:42 | |
For more from Carissa: https://www.carissashockley.com/ IG & TikTok: @cls1727 Transformed Life Podcast | |||
| Episode 47 - Dr. Julia Sadusky -Gender Identity And Learning To Listen | 26 Oct 2021 | 00:44:45 | |
The landscape around gender and identity has changed significantly in the last 20 years. And with this change, new language has developed to express it. But, it leaves many feel like they are falling behind or that they are at risk of being cancelled if they say something wrong.
If you feel like you’re falling behind, you’re certainly not alone. (And the idea of just doing a broad Google search seems like an exercise in futility.) When I recently picked up the book written by Dr. Mark Yarhouse and Dr. Julia Sadusky, I realized that they had compiled so much of the information we are needing today, while maintaining both a compassionate and logical tone.
We are so glad to be able to bring this conversation with Dr. Sadusky to you today. We talked about:
⁃ Why it is so imperative for church leaders to learn about and approach the topic for the sake of people who are looking for guidance and support
⁃ Some key terms and definitions (like even the difference between gender dysphasia and transgenderism)
⁃ key theories about WHY there has been such a steep incline in the number of young people who are identifying themselves in non-binary terms
⁃ the damaging affect of rigid gender stereotypes that have not originated from God, but from culture
I hope you take the opportunity to learn with us today, for your sake, but also for the sake of growing as a compassionate, truthful witness for Christ in your place to influence.
As you listen, we encourage you to share the episode with anyone that is looking for some answers today on these complex issues.
Dr. Julia Sadusky is the co-author of “Emerging Gender Identities: Understanding the Diverse Experiences of Today’s Youth” along with Dr. Mark Yarhouse.
Dr. Sadusky is currently a research fellow of the Sexual & Gender Identity Institute in Wheaton, IL. and an advisor to the Center for Faith, Sexuality and Gender. She is a licensed psychologist based in Colorado, where she offers individual, family, couples, and group therapy in addition to consultations for individuals and families around sexuality and gender. | |||
| Episode 46 - The Church's Identity, Holiness, & What To Do With Brokenness | 08 Oct 2021 | 00:45:25 | |
| Episode 45 - Daniel Block on The Framework Of God's Plan Of Redemption | 28 Sep 2021 | 00:56:11 | |
| Episode #89- Neil & Sharol Josephson On Getting The Rocks Out Of Your Marriage | 03 May 2024 | 01:01:18 | |
Healthy and thriving marriages filled with love are cultivated over longer periods. Just like with grapes grown to make wine, it can take years of purposeful attention to the proverbial soil quality of this covenantal relationship. Sometimes there can be little rocks under the surface that end up choking the life and love out of marriages. Little things left unchecked can become big problems. So, how do we identify these rocks and get them out of the soil of our marriages so that the fruit of this relationship can be intoxicatingly healthy? This is exactly what we are going to discuss in today's episode with Neil & Sharol Josephson from FamilyLife. Before stepping into the call to work with FamilyLife, Neil worked as a Bible school president and Sharol as a TV broadcaster. Together they also worked as marriage pastors at a large church in Southern California. In addition, they have served as the directors of FamilyLife Canada and have recently stepped into a role as the directors of FamilyLife International. Neil and Sharol have been married for over 40 years and have a great depth of understanding and wisdom in what it takes to have a thriving marriage. This was a great conversation and we know it will impact your life. | |||
| Episode 44 - Brent Henderson on The Five Things That Destroy Men | 10 Sep 2021 | 00:28:27 | |
Contact Brent Get your copy of "The Roar Within" | |||
| Episode 43 - Ruth Erickson: On Marriage, Adultery, and Healing From Heart Break | 27 Aug 2021 | 00:50:00 | |
For more from Ruth: www.rutherickson.com IG-@ruthaerickson | |||
| Episode 42 - Mandy Hale On Singleness, Online Dating & Deal Breakers | 16 Aug 2021 | ||
Do you ever wonder if you should go back to an ex? Were they your best chance for love?
Or maybe you are wrestling with the fear that your standards are too high, but you’re not sure what to negotiate on.
Perhaps you are even sensing the need to take a hiatus from dating in general because you feel like you are losing confidence along the way.
Mandy Hale, the amazing 40 year old single woman and best-selling author of the newly released book, “Don’t Believe the Swipe” has some strong encouragement (and challenges) for you in today’s podcast episode.
We talk about:
-How your value is not connected to your relational status
-The changing landscape of dating in a digital world
-Not being afraid to define your deal-breakers and non-negotiables
-How to include a support network into your relationship decisions
You can follow Mandy online @thesinglewoman, and find more of her content at www.mandyhale.com. | |||
| Episode 41 - Making A Clean Break | 23 Jul 2021 | 00:53:31 | |
Have you ever gone through a break up?
They aren’t easy. There can be so much pain and emotional anguish connected to them, especially if there have been lines crossed emotionally and sexually.
In this episode Bryan and Bonnie discuss key elements of how to respond and re-focus after a breakup, as well as fight the real lies that will try to speak to you about who you are and what is in your future.
We cover these topics:
-confronting your past
-handling memories
-walking out of shame and regret
-finding identity and purpose as a single person
-identifying true compatibility | |||