Starting school is a huge milestone for children and parents but what does it actually mean for a child to be "school ready"?
In this episode of The Toddle About Show, Bill and Emily Clapson look beyond school uniforms, reading and writing to talk about the everyday skills that can make the transition into Reception much easier.
They share five practical things they believe children benefit from being able to do before starting school: using the toilet independently, putting on their coat and getting dressed, recognising their own name, eating lunch independently and understanding simple instructions.
They also talk about the importance of building independence at home, getting children used to routines, waiting their turn and sharing attention with other children.
The conversation then turns to choosing a school. Bill and Emily discuss what they looked for when choosing their children's school, why visiting open days can be so valuable, why you should talk to existing parents, teachers and governors, and why the "feel" and community of a school can sometimes matter just as much as its results.
They also discuss SEND provision, school admissions and the importance of checking the individual admissions criteria for each school.
And there's a surprising connection between physical activity and handwriting. Emily explains why posture, core strength, shoulder and wrist strength, coordination and fine motor skills can all contribute to developing good handwriting meaning activities such as dance, sport and physical play can have benefits that go far beyond simply keeping children active.
Finally, parenting coach Carolina Taylor shares some advice on the emotional side of starting school, including talking to children about their feelings, helping them understand that it's possible to feel nervous and excited at the same time, and finding simple ways to reassure them when they miss you.