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#97-From Explosive Reaction to Empowered Communication: How Moms Are Rewiring Their Responses to Their Teens With One Simple Tool: (Moms, Teens, Communication)20 Jun 202500:13:42

Ever feel like your teen says one thing and you're instantly triggered? What if the key to calm parenting was as simple as pressing a pause button?

As a mom of a teenager, it's easy to slip into reactive mode—snapping, lecturing, or yelling before you even realize what happened. But what if you had a moment to breathe, reflect, and choose how to respond? This episode reveals the science behind why it's so hard to pause—and how mastering this single habit can change the way you parent forever.

  • Discover why your nervous system hijacks your ability to respond calmly—and how to regain control
  • Learn actionable tools to strengthen your pause response before conflict escalates

  • Find out how to use real-life moments—like emotional texts or emails—to practice staying grounded and intentional


Listen now to learn how to use the parenting pause button to create calmer conversations and deeper connection with your teen—starting today.

Why Moms of Teens Flip Their Lids and How Communication Helps

New episodes are released every Monday and Friday at 6:00 AM EST


Have a parenting teenagers question you would like me to help you with?

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Book a free 1:1 coaching consult here

Connect with me at jessicastewartcoach@gmail.com

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.

#96-Feeling Like a Failure As The Mom of a Teen? That Might Mean You’re Doing Parenting Right: (Moms, Teens, Communication)16 Jun 202500:23:16

Ever felt like you're failing at parenting—especially during your teen’s most difficult moments?

If you’ve ever lost your cool, blamed yourself for your teen’s struggles, or believed everyone else has it figured out, this episode is your lifeline. The pressure to be a “perfect parent” during the teen years can leave you feeling defeated, but what if those feelings are misleading—and even a sign that you're actually doing something right?


  • Understand what parenting failure actually is—and what it definitely isn’t
  • Learn how to reframe your parenting role using the powerful CALM method
  • Discover a mindset shift that helps you stay grounded and connected, even when things are messy


Listen now to learn how to redefine success in parenting and support yourself emotionally when it feels like you’re falling short.

Listen to another episode that dives into the CALM framework here

Listen to anther episode about your actual role as the parent of a teen here

New episodes are released every Monday and Friday at 6:00 AM EST

Have a parenting teenagers question you would like me to help you with?

Submit your question here and I will send you a voice recording with some coaching assistance

Book a free 1:1 coaching consult here

Connect with me at jessicastewartcoach@gmail.com

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.

87-How a Simple Smile Can Melt Teen Attitudes and Strengthen Your Bond: (Moms, Teens, Communication)16 May 202500:10:55

Do your eyes light up when your teenager walks into the room—or do you brace for drama?

If you're feeling disconnected from your teen, stuck in a cycle of power struggles, or unsure how to rebuild the closeness you once had, this episode gives you a refreshingly simple (yet wildly effective) tool to shift your energy and theirs—in seconds.

  • Discover the science-backed emotional cue that tells your teen they're safe, seen, and loved.

  • Learn how one tiny change in your facial expression can neutralize tension and build long-term trust.


  • Understand why this subtle parenting move is more powerful now than ever before in their teenage years.

Press play to learn the easiest parenting tool you already have—but probably forgot to use—and watch how your connection with your teen begins to shift today.

New episodes are released every Monday and Friday at 6:00 AM EST

Have a parenting teenagers question you would like me to help you with?

Submit your question here and I will send you a voice recording with some coaching assistance

Book a free 1:1 coaching consult here

Connect with me at jessicastewartcoach@gmail.com

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.

#86-Why Saying “I’m Sorry” to Your Teen Isn’t Weak—It’s Powerful Parenting: (Moms, Teens, Communication)12 May 202500:14:32

Have you ever yelled at your teenager and instantly felt like you ruined everything?


If you’ve ever spiraled into guilt after a blow-up with your teen, you’re not alone—and the good news is, all is not lost. In fact, repairing the connection afterward can make your relationship stronger than it was before. This episode breaks down exactly how.


  • Learn why it’s never too late to reconnect with your teen, no matter how intense the argument was.

  • Discover the four-step repair process that disarms defensiveness and rebuilds trust.


  • Hear real-life role-plays that show what not to do—and how to do it better.


Listen now to learn how to rebuild your bond after conflict and create a calmer, more connected relationship with your teen.

Book referenced in this episode Good Inside by Dr. Becky Kennedy

New episodes are released every Monday and Friday at 6:00 AM EST

Have a parenting teenagers question you would like me to help you with?

Submit your question here and I will send you a voice recording with some coaching assistance

Book a free 1:1 coaching consult here

Connect with me at jessicastewartcoach@gmail.com

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.

#85-Why The Power Tool Emotional Self-Regulation Is the Key to a Stronger Bond With Your Teen: (Moms, Teens, Communication)09 May 202500:17:43

Are you tired of feeling like your teen’s moods control the entire energy of your household?

When parenting teens, it's easy to feel powerless and reactive—especially when your teenager seems to spiral and drag you into their emotional chaos. In this episode, Jessica shares the life-changing tool called the emotional self regulator that gives you back control—not over your teen, but over your own peace of mind.


  • Learn exactly how to use the “pause” to stop arguments before they start.
  • Discover why naming your emotions out loud is more powerful than bottling them up.

  • Hear real-life examples of how this tool strengthens connection instead of causing distance.

Press play now to learn how emotional self-regulation can help you stay calm, connected, and confident—even in the heat of teen drama.

New episodes are released every Monday and Friday at 6:00 AM EST

Have a parenting teenagers question you would like me to help you with?

Submit your question here and I will send you a voice recording with some coaching assistance

Book a free 1:1 coaching consult here

Connect with me at jessicastewartcoach@gmail.com

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.

#84-Why Your Teen’s Rudeness Isn’t a Problem — Why It Upsets You As a Mom Isn't a Problem Either: (Moms, Teens, Communication)05 May 202500:20:54

Do you feel personally attacked when your teen snaps at you, rolls their eyes, or talks back with an attitude?

You’re not alone — but what if I told you that what feels like defiance might actually be normal, healthy behaviour for a developing teen brain? This episode dives into the misunderstood science and psychology behind teenage “rudeness” and why your emotional response is just as important to manage as theirs.

  • Learn the brain-based reasons behind teen moodiness, attitude, and pushback.

  • Discover why taking teen rudeness personally adds to your stress — and how to shift that narrative.


  • Get actionable steps to respond calmly, keep your influence, and avoid power struggles.


Listen now to understand your teen’s behaviour in a whole new way — and learn how to protect your peace while parenting through the chaos.

New episodes are released every Monday and Friday at 6:00 AM EST

Have a parenting teenagers question you would like me to help you with?

Submit your question here and I will send you a voice recording with some coaching assistance

Book a free 1:1 coaching consult here

Connect with me at jessicastewartcoach@gmail.com

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.

#83-The Anti-Fix-It Fixer:Why Stepping Back Is the Parenting Power Move You’re Not Using to Improve Communication With Your Teen: (Moms, Teens, Communication)02 May 202500:22:35

Do you ever feel like you're stuck in a cycle of constantly fixing your teen's problems—only to end up feeling burnt out, unappreciated, or disconnected?

Many well-meaning moms try to help their teens by solving every issue that arises—but this habit can unintentionally send the message that we don’t trust them to figure things out themselves. If you’re craving a more connected relationship with your teen without the emotional exhaustion, this episode introduces a transformative shift in your parenting approach.

  • Discover how the "Anti Fix-It Fixer" tool can build trust and boost your teen’s confidence without sacrificing your own sanity.

  • Learn the difference between discomfort and danger—and how recognizing it can empower calmer, more supportive parenting.


  • Hear real-life stories and practical tips to help you pause, stay present, and guide your teen without jumping in to rescue.

Listen now to start using this powerful tool that creates more connection, reduces burnout, and helps your teen grow into their own problem-solving superpowers.

New episodes are released every Monday and Friday at 6:00 AM EST

Have a parenting teenagers question you would like me to help you with?

Submit your question here and I will send you a voice recording with some coaching assistance

Book a free 1:1 coaching consult here

Connect with me at jessicastewartcoach@gmail.com

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.

#82-Why "Stay Positive!" Is Not The Best Advice You Can Give As A Mom When Your Teen Is Struggling: (Moms, Teens, Communication)28 Apr 202500:11:05

Are you struggling to figure out what to say (or not say) when your teenager comes home overwhelmed with emotions?

Many moms feel instinctively responsible for "fixing" their teen’s bad days — but this approach can unintentionally cause disconnection. In this episode, Jessica Stewart explains why your fear of your teen’s big feelings is completely normal, why trying to "make it better" often backfires, and how doing less can actually deepen your relationship.

  • Learn why being the "calm, safe place" is the most powerful support you can offer your teen.

  • Discover how letting your teen fully experience emotions boosts their confidence and resilience.


  • Hear real-life role-play examples showing exactly what to say — and what to avoid — during emotional moments.

Press play now to learn the simple but powerful shift that can transform emotional meltdowns into opportunities for true connection with your teen!🎧

New episodes are released every Monday and Friday at 6:00 AM EST

Have a parenting teenagers question you would like me to help you with?

Submit your question here and I will send you a voice recording with some coaching assistance

Book a free 1:1 coaching consult here

Connect with me at jessicastewartcoach@gmail.com

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.

#81-Why Teens Don’t Talk & How Moms Can Improve Communication Today: (Moms, Teens, Communication)21 Apr 202500:21:26

Ever wonder why your once-chatty teen suddenly clams up — and what you should do when they just won’t open up?

As a mom, it's easy to feel rejected, worried, or even like you're failing when your teenager won't talk to you. This episode sheds light on why their silence is often developmental, not personal, and how understanding this shift can help you rebuild connection without pressure or guilt.

- Understand the real, developmental reasons why teenagers pull away from conversations, and why it’s normal.

- Discover healthier ways to interpret your teen’s silence so it doesn't trigger self-doubt or frustration.

- Learn actionable strategies and role-play examples for staying connected without forcing uncomfortable conversations.

Listen to this episode now and start creating a calmer, more connected relationship with your teenager—even when they don't feel like talking.🎧

New episodes are released every Monday and Friday at 6:00 AM EST

Have a parenting teenagers question you would like me to help you with?

Submit your question here and I will send you a voice recording with some coaching assistance

Book a free 1:1 coaching consult here

Connect with me at jessicastewartcoach@gmail.com

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.

#80-Why Thinking Your Teen Is Disrespectful Could Be Sabotaging Your Relationship And Breaking Down Your Communication:(Moms, Teens, Communication)14 Apr 202500:15:31

Are you tired of feeling like every conversation with your teen turns into a battle over "disrespect"? What if you could turn those moments into opportunities for real connection instead?

If you're a mom struggling with power struggles and feeling hurt by your teenager's words or actions, this episode is your lifeline. You'll discover why typical teenage behavior often feels disrespectful, but may actually be a sign of something deeper — and how shifting your approach can completely transform your interactions.

  • Understand the true reasons behind your teen's seemingly disrespectful behavior, rooted in brain development and emotional growth.
  • Learn how to shift your own energy to influence calmer, more productive conversations — without feeling like you're "giving in."

  • Hear real-life role plays demonstrating exactly how to handle common situations differently to create more respect and cooperation at home.

If you're ready to approach disrespect with calm confidence and create stronger communication with your teen, hit play now and start making powerful changes today!

Podcast episode referenced in this episode: The Value of Being Able to Remain Calm

New episodes are released every Monday and Friday at 6:00 AM EST

Have a parenting teenagers question you would like me to help you with?

Submit your question here and I will send you a voice recording with some coaching assistance

Book a free 1:1 coaching consult here

Connect with me at jessicastewartcoach@gmail.com

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.

#79-Mom Rage-How to Feel Heard Without Yelling:(Moms, Teens, Communication)07 Apr 202500:12:36

Ever wonder why you end up yelling at the people you love most—and what you can do to finally stop?

If you're tired of feeling guilty after another shouting match with your teen, you're not alone. In this episode, Jessica Stewart opens up about her own experience with "Mom Rage," explores why yelling feels so instinctive, and offers real-world strategies to help you stay calm and feel truly heard without raising your voice.

  • You'll gain a deeper understanding of the emotional triggers behind yelling and how they show up in high-stakes parenting moments.

  • You'll discover practical tools you can use today to pause, breathe, and break the cycle of yelling before it starts.


  • You'll learn how to repair and strengthen your relationship with your teen by responding from a place of calm instead of chaos.

Listen now to uncover simple but powerful steps that can help you shift from yelling to connecting with your teenager starting today.🎙️

New episodes are released every Monday and Friday at 6:00 AM EST

Have a parenting teenagers question you would like me to help you with?

Submit your question here and I will send you a voice recording with some coaching assistance

Book a free 1:1 coaching consult here

Connect with me at jessicastewartcoach@gmail.com

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.

#78-How Moms Can Handle Teens Not Doing Chores With Calm Communication: (Moms, Teens, Communication)31 Mar 202500:14:35

How to Handle Your Teenager Not Doing Their Chores Without Getting Frustrated or Angry

In this episode of Finding Your Calm With Your Teenager, life coach Jessica Stewart addresses a common parental frustration: teens neglecting chores. Using a real-life example from a parenting group, Jessica explains how altering your thought process can reduce conflict and improve communication. 

She outlines strategies for 

😌maintaining calmness 

😡understanding the root of frustration 

🗨️engaging teens effectively to achieve desired outcomes without anger. 

The episode offers practical coaching advice, emphasizing the power of mindset in transforming parent-teen relationships. 

00:00 Introduction to Teen Frustrations 

00:35 Common Frustrating Situation: Chores 

02:07 Breaking Down the Situation 

03:16 Understanding the Impact of Thoughts 

06:02 Shifting Perspectives and Approaches 

08:28 Practical Tips for Calm Communication 

12:49 Coaching and Final Thoughts

Book a free 1:1 coaching consult here

📨Connect with Jessica at jessica.stwrt@gmail.com

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.

#95-How I Got My Teen to Help Out—Without a Fight or a Lecture: (Moms, Teens, Communication)13 Jun 202500:10:24

Do you feel dread every time you ask your teen to do something—because you know the complaints are coming?

You’re not alone. Many moms of teens struggle with feeling rejected, frustrated, or exhausted by constant pushback. This episode introduces a simple yet powerful tool you can use before these tough moments to reduce conflict and stay calm.

  • Learn exactly what the Pre-Objection Overcomer is and why it changes the tone of hard conversations
  • Discover the ideal times to use it (yes, even during screen-time battles!)
  • Get the exact script to use so your teen feels heard—while still doing what needs to be done

If you're ready to reduce conflict and boost cooperation with your teen in just one sentence, press play now.

New episodes are released every Monday and Friday at 6:00 AM EST

Have a parenting teenagers question you would like me to help you with?

Submit your question here and I will send you a voice recording with some coaching assistance

Book a free 1:1 coaching consult here

Connect with me at jessicastewartcoach@gmail.com

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.

#77-Why Even Health Experts Can’t Stop Teen Vaping—And What Moms Can Actually Control :(Moms, Teens, Communication)24 Mar 202500:26:15

 One day I went to my son's room to look for something and I ended up finding a bunch of vapes and vape paraphernalia there. I will just say that I did not remain calm. I was livid. And it was fortunate that he was not home at the time because I needed time to calm down. Let's be real. I get triggered and need all the tools I teach here to help myself remain calm through these challenging times

In this encore episode you will walk away with

-the facts about vaping and smoking

-how to talk to your teenager about it before they are offered it (ideally)

-what to say to them after they have started

Look, I'm a respiratory therapist and could not prevent my teenagers from experimenting with vaping. Let there be some relief in that for you.

Send any questions to me at Jessica.stwrt@gmail.com

Learn more about me at www.jessicastewartcoaching.ca

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.

#76-How I Stopped Panicking While Teaching My Teen to Drive—And What Actually Helped: (Moms, Teens, Communication)10 Mar 202500:14:31

Is it time for your teen to learn how to drive? 🚗 Are you terrified of this? 🫣 This is the ultimate in literally letting go of the wheel 🛞 and finding ways to keep your CALM.  Let’s dive in or shall I say drive into this episode where I will share my best wisdom and life coaching tools to help you with this.

I’m going to break it down into a few parts

🛑

➡️Before you even get into the car

➡️While you are in the car


➡️After you get out of the car



Referenced in this episode Link to episode #43 How to Create a Thinking Plan

E-mail me at Jessica.stwrt@gmail.com


Book a free 1:1 coaching consult here

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.


 

#75-Why Moms of Teens Struggle With Acceptance & How To Move Through the Messy Middle: (Moms, Teens, Communication)03 Mar 202500:17:18

We can talk about acceptance at many different levels, acceptance of situations, acceptance of other people and how they are, self-acceptance.  When I myself or anyone else talks about acceptance as in just accept it, I think sometimes we can gloss over the frustration of acceptance and just skip to the part where we expect to be or where we expect others to be.

Today I want to talk about that messy middle part which is the frustration of acceptance.

Here’s what I will cover here

✅The best definition of acceptance


✅Why it makes sense and why it necessary to be in the frustrating messy middle


✅How acceptance alleviates suffering


 


Connect with me at www.jessicastewartcoaching.ca 


Book a free 1:1 coaching consult here

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.



 

#74-Letting Go of Hypervigilance: Helping Moms Trust Their Teens More: (Moms, Teens, Communication)18 Feb 202500:23:30

Do you constantly worry about your teen’s every move? Find yourself checking their location, overanalyzing their tone, or assuming the worst when they don’t text back? If so, you might be experiencing **hypervigilance**—a heightened state of parental anxiety that can strain both you and your teen.

In this episode, we explore:

✅ What hypervigilance is and why it happens

✅ How it impacts both you and your teen

✅ Practical strategies to shift from control to trust 

Take a deep breath—you’re not alone in this. Tune in for **practical steps** to ease the anxiety and strengthen your connection with your teen.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

🧠 The root causes of hypervigilance (fear, past trauma, lack of control)

❤️ How hypervigilance affects your relationship with your teen

💡 Simple mindset shifts and self-regulation techniques to help you **parent with trust instead of fear**

📌 Grab your cheat sheet for having BIG conversations with your Teen here

📌 Learn more about me at www.jessicastewartcoaching.ca

📌 Have a question or topic suggestion? Email me at Jessica.stwrt@gmail.com

If you found this episode helpful, **please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with another parent who needs to hear this!** 🎙️💙

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.


#73-8 Things Moms Should Know Before Talking to Teens About Sex, Drugs & Social Media: (Moms, Teens, Communication)10 Feb 202500:19:44

What is the best way to have the BIG talks with your teens?  We are often afraid to bring them up because we think it will make us uncomfortable or will cause them to engage in behaviour we don't want them to.  It does matter that we have these conversations and you want to be part of that conversation.

Listen to this week's episode for 8 things to consider before you talk about sex, drugs, smoking, drinking and social media with your teenager.  

I also have Cheat Sheet for this to make it extra easy to prepare for these super important conversations

Grab it here


Book your free 1:1 coaching consult here


Learn more about me at www.jessicastewartcoaching.ca

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.


 

#72-I'm Done: What Moms of Teens Can Do When Parenting Feels Overwhelming:(Moms, Teens, Communication)27 Jan 202500:16:35

Have you ever had one of those days where you just feel *done*? Like you've got nothing left to give, and parenting feels overwhelming? You're not alone. In this episode, we’re talking about that drained, burnt-out feeling that so many parents experience—especially when raising teenagers.

I’ll walk you through why this happens, what’s really going on beneath the surface, and how to shift your mindset so you can recharge and reconnect with your teen (without guilt). Plus, I’ll share practical strategies to help you reset when you’re running on empty.

**What You'll Learn in This Episode:**

✅ Why feeling "done" is normal—and what it really means

✅ Simple strategies to try now

✅ How to measure your success as a parent in a more achievable way

Resources & Links:

🔗 www.jessicastewartcoaching.ca

Let’s Connect!

📩 Have a question or topic suggestion? Email me at Jessica.stwrt@gmail.com

**If you enjoyed this episode, please:**

⭐ Subscribe & leave a review—it really helps!

🎙️ Share this episode with another parent who needs it

 This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.


#71-The Essential Mindset Shifts Moms Need to Communicate Better With Their Teens: (Moms, Teens, Communication)21 Jan 202500:12:51

 

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Raising a teenager is a whole new world compared to parenting a young child. As your child grows, your parenting style needs to evolve, too. In this episode, we’ll explore the key shifts parents need to make when transitioning into this stage—so you can stay connected,  and keep your cool when things get challenging.

💡 **What You’ll Learn in This Episode:**

✔️ The biggest mindset shifts needed when parenting a teen

✔️ Why your old parenting strategies may no longer work

✔️ How to understand your own emotions during this time 

✔️ A new perspective on how to create a new relationship with your teen

📩 **Let’s Connect!** 

Got a question or a topic you’d love to hear about? Reach out to me at Jessica.stwrt@gmail.com and learn more about me at www.jessicastewartcoaching.ca

I work 1:1 with parents of teenagers in my 6 week coaching program.  E-mail me to schedule a free consult


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This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.


#70-Using Self-Help as a Tool or a Weapon: What Moms Need to Know for Better Teen Communication: (Moms, Teens, Communication)13 Jan 202500:12:02

I personally love to read self-help books.  Is this the better way to be? Not necessarily... I have found myself at times using concepts and tools against myself and make me feel like I'm not good enough.

Listen to this week's episode for a deeper dive into this realm. How do you use personal development?  Do you use it for or against yourself?

Learn more about me at www.jessicastewartcoaching.ca

E-mail me at Jessica.stwrt@gmail.com


This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.


 

#69-How Accepting My Teen’s Sadness Helped Us Communicate Better and Build Emotional Resilience:(Moms, Teens, Communication)06 Jan 202500:16:35

Do you want to know how to help your teen not to feel sad? Of course you do right? That's your job as a parent.  What if it was better for your teen to help them learn how to feel sad or feel any of the so-called negative emotions.

In this episode I make a case for this as part of learning healthy emotional management and regulation.  

Remember, nothing has gone wrong when we are feeling a negative emotion.  This also helps save energy trying to fix things or emotions in ourselves and in our teenagers that don't need to be fixed. 

Learn more about me at www.jessicastewartcoaching.ca

I am taking 1:1 clients currently in my coaching practise. E-mail me at Jessica.stwrt@gmail.com with questions or to schedule a free 1:1 consult

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.


 

#68-AITA? Why This Question Hurts Teen Communication (What Moms Should Ask Instead): (Moms, Teens, Communication)30 Dec 202400:16:01

Have you seen this on your social media channels? AITA?  It makes sense why we ask it but is it the right question to ask?  I don't think so and in this episode I will explain why.  

There are much better questions to ask to create more connection in your relationships and to gain more insights from these "negative" interactions we inevitably have with our teenagers.

Listen and let me know what you think.

Reach me at Jessica.stwrt@gmail.com


Learn more about me at www.jessicastewartcoaching.ca


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This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.


#94-Why Even Well-Informed Moms (And Respiratory Therapists) Can’t Always Prevent Teen Vaping: (Moms, Teens, Communication)09 Jun 202500:30:14

What do you do when you find out your teen is vaping—even when you're a health expert who thought it could never happen to your kid?


If you’ve ever believed that talking to your teen about vaping would be enough to stop them, this episode will challenge that belief. Jessica, a respiratory therapist and certified tobacco educator, shares the shocking moment she discovered her own son was vaping—and how she responded without yelling, spiraling, or shutting down communication.

  • Learn the surprising facts about vaping that most parents don’t know but absolutely need to.
  • Hear the exact approach that helped one mom stay calm and have a productive conversation—even after being blindsided.
  • Get realistic, non-judgmental scripts for talking to your teen about vaping, addiction, and risk without pushing them away.


Listen to this episode now to get the confidence, calm, and clarity you need when navigating the vaping conversation with your teen.

Click here to listen to my other episode about vaping

Click here to access the Vaping Toolkit from CAMH

Click here to learn about the QUASH quit vaping app

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Have a parenting teenagers question you would like me to help you with?

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This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.

#67-Triggered by Your Teen? How Moms Can Stay Calm and Improve Communication: (Moms, Teens, Communication)23 Dec 202400:18:37

Ever found yourself snapping at your teen and wondering, 'Where did that even come from?' You're not alone.

In this episode I discuss how being "triggered" is very normal, why our teens trigger us so much and what to do about it.

Triggered a lot and need help?  I'm a life coach and I can work with you to help move through this process faster.  E-mail me at Jessica.stwrt@gmail.com to schedule a free 1:1 consult or 

click here to book a consultation now


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This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.


 

#66-The Value of Staying CALM: How You Can Lead Teen Communication From Within:(Moms, Teens, Communication)09 Dec 202400:23:34

I'm going back to basics.  I think it's worth making a case for the all that we can do to improve our relationships with our teenagers by working on what is going on within us.  There is tremendous power in learning how to remain CALM within ourselves.

We don't need to have all the answers and know everything to help lead ourselves and our teenagers through these often challenging times.  

By remembering to Connect, Accept, Love and Manage our emotions (as a good manager) we can equip ourselves with what we need to return to actual calm more easily.

Having trouble Finding your calm? I can help. E-mail me at Jessica.stwrt@gmail.com for a free 1:1 coaching consult


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This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.


 

#65-How Letting Go of the “Perfect Holiday” Helped Me Connect With My Teen:(Moms, Teens, Communication)02 Dec 202400:25:18

The "perfect" holiday does not exist!  Does this statement relieve you or give you stress? We know this intellectually but actually letting ourselves enjoy the holiday season without the idea of perfection can be a different story.  Teenagers have a magical way of shattering our perfect holiday dreams like no other.

This episode will help reframe the holiday season and embrace the chaos and reality of this often stressful time in our lives.  Listen for tips on thinking about them differently and maybe even creating more joy for yourself during this special time of year.

Need help coming up with a plan? E-mail me at Jessica.stwrt@gmail.com for a 1;1 consult. 

Learn more about me at www.jessicastewartcoaching.ca

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.


 

#64-Why Thinking Your Teen Belongs to You Is Destroying Communication:(Moms, Teens, Communication)25 Nov 202400:22:14

Seeing our children at any age as "ours" seems reasonable right?  It makes sense why we see it this way but it is also very problematic from a standpoint of providing our teenagers with the autonomy they need to grow and become independent.

This weeks episode explores this further and the reason why we do this and why it is not helpful for either our teenagers or ourselves.

Learn more about me at www.jessicastewartcoaching.ca

E-mail me at Jessica.swrt@gmail.com to schedule a 1:1 coaching consult

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.


#63-Why Fighting Reality Is Hurting Communication With Your Teen—Acceptance Isn’t Giving Up:(Moms, Teens, Communication)18 Nov 202400:18:03

I know what you're thinking because I've thought it too. If I just accept things that means I like them, condone them or am not going to do anything about it?

This is not true and in fact the reality is when something has happened that we don't like, we spend so much wasted time and energy resisting it.  This does not help.   How do I know?  So much time spent arguing against reality.

In this episode I discuss how acceptance is not passive, how it helps us suffer less, save time and get to better actions sooner.  I also discuss the difference between passive acceptance and active acceptance.

Learn more about me at www.jessicastewartcoaching.ca


E-mail me for a free 1:1 coaching consult at Jessica.stwrt@gmail.com

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.


 

#62-Understanding Teen Mood Swings: What Moms Need to Know for Better Communication:(Moms, Teens, Communication)04 Nov 202400:19:46

Oh the moodiness of teenagers!! It's so frustrating! This episode will tell you why this happens and what you can do to help your teen and yourself through this time.

I will also go over how to tell if there is something more serious going on.  

Learn more about me at www.jessicastewartcoaching.ca

Want to coach with me? E-mail me at Jessica.stwrt@gmail.com to set up a free consult and initial coaching session.


Links to books mentioned in this episode


The Teenage Brain by Frances E. Jensen


Brainstorm by Daniel J. Siegel

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.


#61-How Moms Can Strengthen Teen Communication by Choosing the Right Tech at the Right Time28 Oct 202400:18:37

Texting and e-mail are super convenient and quick but not always the best mode of communication.  When is it best to use these and when is it best to have a phone conversation or a face-to-face?  

This episode gives you some things to consider when choosing the best mode.  Use these strategies to foster good connection with anyone and especially our teenagers.  They need us to lead them on this.

Learn more about me at www.jessicastewartcoaching.ca


E-mail me at Jessica.stwrt@gmail.com

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.


 

#60-Why “I Just Want Them to Be Happy” Is a Problematic Parenting Goal for Moms of Teens21 Oct 202400:20:23

What's wrong with the thought "I Just Want Them to be Happy"?  It sounds like a great thing to think doesn't it?

Well, it is laced with problems for you and for your teenager. In this week's episode I will tell you why and give you some questions to ask yourself to begin questioning this.

Releasing this thought can help you release more anxiety around your parenting and focus more on the parts of the parenting job description that are actually achievable. 


E-mail me for a 1:1 consult at Jessica.stwrt@gmail.com


Learn more about me at www.jessicastewartcoaching.com

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.


 

#59-Helping Teens With Anxiety Starts With Moms: Communication Strategies That Work07 Oct 202400:14:17

Teen anxiety seems to be ramping up these days.  We are hearing about the increase everywhere.  How do we help our teenagers deal with this in the best way possible?  The best way is to be aware of your own emotional landscape and your teenagers will see you as a safe place.

Anxiety is a normal part of our lives and it tries to help us but left unchecked and unexamined, it can begin to run our lives and our decisions. 

Learn how to help your teenager deal with this through some practical tips and insights and remember to start with your own anxiety. 


Learn more about me at www.jessicstewartcoaching.ca


E-mail me at Jessica.stwrt@gmail.com to set up a 1:1 coaching consult

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.



#58-How Managing My Own Anxiety Changed the Way I Show Up for My Teen:(Moms, Teens, Communication)30 Sep 202400:14:35

Parenting teenagers can certainly bring up anxiety in us.  If it didn't I doubt you would be listening to this podcast. Listen to this episode for some practical ways to manage the heightened anxiety that comes with the territory.

Dealing with your own anxiety when it comes up is the best way to know how to deal with your teenager's anxiety.  

Learn more about me at www.jessicastewartcoaching.ca

E-mail me at Jessica.stwrt@gmail.com to set up a 1:1 coaching consult

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.


 

#93-How Not Understanding Your Sadness as Grief Can Be Hurting Your Relationship With Your Teen and Yourself-And What You Can Do About It:(Moms, Teens, Communication)06 Jun 202500:12:50

Are you constantly on edge, irritated with your teen, or feeling sad and can’t quite explain why?

In this episode, you’ll discover how a surprising but common emotional experience—grief—often shows up for moms as their teens grow up and become more independent. By naming and understanding this grief, you’ll uncover how it’s impacting your emotional responses and relationships.

  • Learn how to identify the subtle signs of grief that show up during the teen years.
  • Discover the “Grief Grappler” tool to help you process emotional shifts with clarity and compassion.

  • Understand how naming your grief can reduce reactivity, improve communication, and build deeper empathy with your teen.

If you’re ready to stop feeling blindsided by your emotions and want a practical path to reconnect with your teen, press play and learn how grief might be the missing piece.

Want to dive into this topic more? Listen to Episode #34 now

New episodes are released every Monday and Friday at 6:00 AM EST

Have a parenting teenagers question you would like me to help you with?

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This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.

#57-What Anxiety Has Taught Me About Parenting Teens and Communicating With Calm:(Moms, Teens, Communication)23 Sep 202400:15:24

Anxiety is a constant companion for me so I'm going to focus on it for the next 3 episodes.  Parenting teenagers can increase anxiety in parents like no other time in life.  

This episode focuses on what anxiety is and some perspectives on how to look at it and think about it a bit differently.  I've learned a few things having anxiety as my constant companion and I'm sharing it with you here.

Learn more about me at www.jessicastewartcoaching.ca

E-mail me for a free 1:1 coaching consult at Jessica.stwrt@gmail.com

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.


 

#56-How Moms Can Stop Yelling at Their Teens and Start Building Better Communication09 Sep 202400:21:41

Are you struggling to stop yelling at your teenager despite knowing it's not helping?

This episode is for you.  

In it I will discuss the very human reasons we yell at each other and what to do about it.  I will also delve into how to release shame about yelling and a strategy for turning your recent yell-fest into some gold that will increase your connection with your teenager.


Learn more about me here www.jessicastewartcoaching.ca


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How to Stop Yelling at Your Teenager video

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.


 

#55-How Looking at Yourself First Can Repair Your Relationship With Your Teen—No Program Needed02 Sep 202400:13:56

Have you watched the shows about these programs that claim to help teenagers reform?  There is good and bad in every industry but what does this say about relationships?  

It's no wonder parents put their faith in this but there is something missing if a program you are looking at doesn't include both people in the relationship.  

I can help you improve your relationship with your teenager by looking at just you.  You are the person you have the most influence with FOR SURE.


Email me to set up a free consult call Jessica.stwrt@gmail.com


Learn more about me here www.jessicastewartcoaching.ca

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.


 

#54-When Your Teen Leaves for College: How Moms Can Navigate the Emotions and Stay Connected26 Aug 202400:15:12

I have been seeing a lot of posts on the socials lately from parents struggling as their teens leave to go away to college for the first time.  

What is the advice for how to deal with this? Do I get a dog?  Do I find a new hobby?  

Before you do any of that listen to this episode.  You can do these things but you need to let your absolutely normal feelings about this be there and feel what you are feeling.  In this episode I offer some of my own personal ways that I dealt with this. 


I am a life coach and I work with clients on evenings and weekends EST.  Please contact me at Jessica.stwrt@gmail.com to schedule a free consult


Learn more about me at www.jessicastewartcoaching.ca

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.


 

#53-Resisting the Reflex to Fix for Better Communication With Teens (Moms, This One’s For You)12 Aug 202400:15:27

Do you find yourself frustrated with your teenager because you have all the best advice but they just don't listen?  

There is a principle rooted in health education called the "righting reflex" and we do it all the time as parents.

Guess what? It doesn't work very well.


Listen to find out what can work better and how it has you doing less as a parent.  I love a principle that can help me do less :)


Email me to set up a 1:1 coaching consults at Jessica.stwrt@gmail.com


Learn more about me at www.jessicastewartcoaching.ca

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.


 

#52-How I Improved My Relationship With My Teen—Without Them Changing a Thing05 Aug 202400:13:18

What happens if the other person in your relationship doesn't want to listen to the podcast or read the book on how to improve it?

No problem.  There is so much that can be made better by JUST YOU doing this work.  I have real life examples from my own life that prove the other person does not have to change for your relationship with them to be better. 

I can help you improve your relationship by working with JUST YOU!  


E-mail me at Jessica.stwrt@gmail.com to set up a free consult and to create a roadmap for where to start


Lean more about me here www.jessicastewartcoaching.ca


Triggered by your teenager? Watch my video on how to manage this here

This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.

 

#51-How I Stopped Striving for Calm and Found a Better Way to Parent My Teen :(Calm Parenting for Moms of Teens)22 Jul 202400:13:46

What if CALM is not somewhere we are trying to get to or strive for? I've been striving to be calm for awhile now and what I've come to realize is that our calm state is covered up by a lot of false thoughts that are disguising themselves as the truth. What if we can be like water and rest into calm. Allow ourselves to settle. The more we do this the easier it gets to come into that state of being.

Think of a lake or an ocean. When is it actually calm like glass with no movement? Very seldom, so don't judge yourself either if you are not calm. It takes some practise and some removal of old patterns to rest into a calmer state. The times when we are agitated are perfect teachers to help us learn and really unlearn our old worried and fearful ways of thinking.

This episode is all about that...... CALM waters ahead.

Learn more about me at www.jessicastewartcoaching.ca


Email me for a free 1:1 coaching consult where we will develop your plan on how to navigate the teenage years and maybe even enjoy them :) Jessica.stwrt@gmail.com

This powerful podcast explores how moms and parents can navigate anxiety, overwhelm, and grief while building resilience, confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.


#50-How a Pixar Movie Helped Me Rethink My Role as a Mom to a Teen :(Calm Parenting for Moms of Teens)15 Jul 202400:16:26

Have you watched the movie Inside Out? I just watched it and I know it's not new but I want to talk about it! It should be required watching for all humans.

Listen to find out why our job as parents is not to make our kids happy all the time or to keep them happy. As if that's even possible. This is the way our teenagers love to learn, by watching a movie. This is the perfect movie to learn about our emotions and the importance of them in all our lives.

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This powerful podcast explores how moms and parents can navigate anxiety, overwhelm, and grief while building resilience, confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.

#49-How Letting Go of “Having All the Answers” Made Me a More Present Mom to My Teen :(Calm Parenting for Moms of Teens)01 Jul 202400:20:23

What if you don't know how to handle a situation with your teenager? Does that mean you are not a good parent?

Not even close

This episode is all about releasing the pressure of needing to have all the answers and why our brain likes to tell us that we should.

When we are open to the fact that we can't be everything to our children and also we can't know everything, there is an instant pressure release.


Learn more about me here www.jessicastewartcoaching.ca


E-mail me at jessica.stwrt@gmail.com

This powerful podcast explores how moms and parents can navigate anxiety, overwhelm, and grief while building resilience, confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.

#48-How to Be There for Your Teen During Heartbreak—Even When You’re Hurting Too :(Calm Parenting for Moms of Teens)10 Jun 202400:15:20

Does your teenager's heartbreak also break your heart?

Teen heartbreak is rough on them but also on us. How do we deal with it? What do we do? What do we say?

I'm not sure I can tell you what to do or say but I can give you some ideas on how to "be" with them when this happens as it surely will.

Learn more about me here www.jessicastewartcoaching.ca


E-mail me to schedule a free 1:1 life coaching session to try it out at Jessica.stwrt@gmail.com

This powerful podcast explores how moms and parents can navigate anxiety, overwhelm, and grief while building resilience, confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.

#92-Why Trying to Ban Your Teen’s Friends Is Backfiring — And What To Do Instead To Stay Connected And Keep Your Influence Strong:(Moms, Teens, Communication)02 Jun 202500:21:11

Have you ever felt uneasy — or even jealous — about the friends or partners your teen is suddenly spending more time with?

It’s not just about “bad influence” — it’s about the shift in your role as a parent during a time when peers start having more sway. If you’ve ever felt powerless, disrespected, or pushed aside, this episode will help you navigate that tough emotional terrain without damaging your relationship with your teen.

  • Learn why your protective instinct kicks in when your teen chooses friends you don’t like — and how to handle it with compassion.
  • Discover why banning friends can backfire and what actually strengthens your influence.
  • Hear role-play examples of real parent-teen conversations — and how a simple mindset shift opens up connection instead of conflict.

Press play to learn how to stop reacting from fear and start responding with calm confidence — so you stay connected even when you don’t approve of their friends.

Want to learn more about the importance of connection? Click here now.

New episodes are released every Monday and Friday at 6:00 AM EST

Have a parenting teenagers question you would like me to help you with?

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Book a free 1:1 coaching consult here

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This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.

#47-Why You Need to Make Space for Anger to Improve Communication With Your Teen :(Calm Parenting for Moms of Teens)03 Jun 202400:18:34

I've been really ANGRY lately! I admit it and it took me by surprise. I haven't felt this way in quite some time and being faced with it was a good reminder about how important it is to make space for ALL of the feelings "good" and "bad".

In this episode I will highlight why this is so important and how actually letting it be there can allow you to move through the emotion faster.

Send me a message at Jessica.stwrt@gmail.com

Learn more about me at www.jessicastewartcoaching.ca


Email me to book book a free 1:1 coaching call at Jessica.stwrt@gmail.com


This powerful podcast explores how moms and parents can navigate anxiety, overwhelm, and grief while building resilience, confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.


#46-How Letting Go of Perfectionism Helped Me Communicate Better With My Teen :(Calm Parenting for Moms of Teens)20 May 202400:17:05

Do you have perfectionist parenting tendencies? Do you think it helps or hinders you?

I am a recovering perfectionist and here to share how perfectionism has increased my anxiety over the years, How about some thoughts that can help you become an anti-perfectionist?

I've got you!!! Listen in and enjoy!!!

Learn more about me here www.jessicastewartcoaching.ca

Contact me to schedule a 1:1 coaching consult at Jessica.stwrt@gmail.com

This powerful podcast explores how moms and parents can navigate anxiety, overwhelm, and grief while building resilience, confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.

#45-How A Loving Thought Like “I Just Don’t Want Them To Fail” Can Backfire for Your Relationship with Your Teen :(Calm Parenting for Moms of Teens)07 May 202400:15:40

I just don't want them to fail! This thought makes perfect sense, yet it may be working against your teenagers and you as their parent.

Today is the last episode of my Unhelpful Parenting Thoughts series. Listen in as I break it down and examine ways this is not helpful and what we could think instead.

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#44-Why Thinking “This Shouldn’t Be So Hard” Disrupts Communication Between You and Your Teen:(Calm Parenting for Moms of Teens)29 Apr 202400:18:24

Welcome to Part 3 of this series! I'm exploring some parenting thoughts I have had in my own life that I now recognize as leading to no good outcome.

This week the thought is "This shouldn't be so hard!"

I will explore why it makes sense that we think this, why it is NOT helpful and ideas about what to think instead.

Changing one thought can be so powerful. Listen in to make some shifts today.


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This powerful podcast explores how moms and parents can navigate anxiety, overwhelm, and grief while building resilience, confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.



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