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If your resolution needs its own spreadsheet, it's a part-time job and it's not sustainable.

Whether you’re closing out 2025 in sparkles or sweatpants, this mini episode is your permission slip to ditch the shame spiral of unrealistic resolutions. Instead of dramatic overhauls that fizzle by February, I’m sharing a better way: small, sustainable systems that actually support your life.

I’ll walk you through three simple strategies to make your goals stick, without white-knuckling your way into a new personality. Plus, I’ll share one resolution that guarantees lasting impact, requires zero daily effort, and protects both your business and your family.

If your business couldn’t run without you, that’s a problem—a haunting your assistant from the beyond kind of problem. That’s where the Entrepreneur’s Death Folder comes in. It’s your digital contingency plan: all your logins, contacts, workflows, and need-to-knows in one tidy, shareable place.

Peace of mind is the ultimate productivity tool.

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Find It Quickly:

00:50 - The Problem with Big Resolutions

01:31 - Step 1: Make It Small Enough to Win

02:24 - Step 2: Automate Your Future Self's Success

03:12 - Step 3: Focus on Foundations, Not Fixes

04:03 - A Resolution That Sticks: The Entrepreneur's Death Folder

If a holiday tradition makes you want to fake food poisoning to skip it—this one's for you. In this special holiday mini-episode, I’m giving you a permission slip to retire, reshape, or completely reimagine the traditions that no longer fit. Whether you celebrate Christmas, Hanukkah, Festivus, or just Team Cozy Couch, this is your reminder that traditions should serve you, not the other way around.

I’m sharing how my Jewish upbringing gave me a flexible lens on holidays, how to audit your holiday obligations, and how to build tiny micro-traditions that actually bring joy instead of stress.

If your business couldn’t run without you, that’s a problem—a haunting your assistant from the beyond kind of problem. That’s where the Entrepreneur’s Death Folder comes in. It’s your digital contingency plan: all your logins, contacts, workflows, and need-to-knows in one tidy, shareable place.

Peace of mind is the ultimate productivity tool.

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01:00 - Reimagining Holiday Traditions

01:06 - Personal Holiday Experiences

02:48 - Evaluating and Adjusting Traditions

05:08 - Creating Micro Traditions

05:56 - The Entrepreneur's Death Folder

07:02 - Favorite Holiday TV Episodes

Mentioned in this Episode:

The Entrepreneur’s Death Folder

What if the key to transforming your city was simply showing up? For many of us, local politics and civic engagement can feel like a world reserved for career politicians, polished extroverts, or people with endless free time. But what if I told you that you could make a meaningful impact in your community without quitting your day job or becoming someone you're not? 

In this episode, I spoke with Laura Vola, former candidate for city council in Carrollton, Texas, about what it really looks like to get involved locally. Laura stepped up with zero political experience. She simply had a fierce belief in showing up for her community. Whether you're thinking about running for office or just wondering what it means to engage more deeply, Laura’s story offers a roadmap that's equal parts inspiring and incredibly practical.

This episode is brought to you by The Entrepreneur's Death Folder:

If your business couldn’t run without you, that’s a problem—a haunting your assistant from the beyond kind of problem. That’s where the Entrepreneur’s Death Folder comes in. It’s your digital contingency plan: all your logins, contacts, workflows, and need-to-knows in one tidy, shareable place.
Less spooky, more smart. Because peace of mind is the ultimate productivity tool.

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In this episode:

• Getting on the ballot is easier than you think.
• Shared calendars, reminders, and support systems kept Laura’s campaign (and life) running.
• You don’t need experience to get involved. Start small and show up.

Find It Quickly:

00:17 - Meet Laura Vola: A Dynamic Community Leader

01:17 - College Memories and Reconnecting

01:58 - System Reboot: Quick Reset with Laura

04:07 - Laura's Journey to Running for Office

04:27 - Deciding to Run: The Moment of Truth

06:44 - Navigating the Campaign Trail

08:41 - Balancing Life and Campaigning

13:12 - Overcoming Imposter Syndrome

17:21 - Getting Involved Locally: Practical Tips

20:47 - Post-Campaign Reflections and Staying Involved

24:46 - Lightning Round: Local Civic Favorites

Connect with Laura

lauraforcarrollton.com

instagram.com/lauraforcarrollton

If you've ever hovered over the "Buy Now" button with a pit in your stomach and a credit card in hand, this episode is for you. In this episode, I sat down with my personal financial advisor, Michelle Taylor who founded Women in Wealth, to talk about the messy, emotional side of business spending.

From $997 unopened courses to aspirational hires we’re not ready for, we unpack how to tell the difference between a smart investment and a comparison-fueled expense. Michelle brings over a decade of experience in wealth management and shares both tough love and practical systems for spending with confidence, not guilt.

This episode is brought to you by The Entrepreneur's Death Folder:

If your business couldn’t run without you, that’s a problem—a haunting your assistant from the beyond kind of problem. That’s where the Entrepreneur’s Death Folder comes in. It’s your digital contingency plan: all your logins, contacts, workflows, and need-to-knows in one tidy, shareable place.
Less spooky, more smart. Because peace of mind is the ultimate productivity tool.

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In this episode:

• Why spending can feel like action, but isn’t always
• A simple ROI test for that shiny new course you’re eyeing
• How to build a budget (or “spending plan”) you’ll actually stick to

Find It Quickly:

• 01:07 - System Reboot: Fun and Games
• 03:00 - Understanding Spending Guilt
• 04:53 - Smart Business Spending
• 14:26 - Building a Flexible Budget
• 18:57 - Dealing with Past Spending Mistakes
• 21:49 - The System Shut Down

Connect with Michelle

• womeninwealth.co
• talkwealthy.com
• instagram.com/women_in_wealth

What if your calendar wasn’t just for managing time, but for protecting your energy?

In this episode, I sit down with Christi Johnson, business strategist, podcaster, and founder of the Dream Biz Lab. She helps creative and neurodivergent entrepreneurs build businesses rooted in joy, sustainability, and brain-friendly systems.

Christi shares how hitting a $10K month almost cost her her mental health, how discovering she had bipolar 2 disorder reshaped her entire workflow, and the non-negotiables she's implemented to build a life-first business. From no-meeting weeks to white space for late-night brainstorms, she breaks down exactly how she structures her day to work with her ADHD brain, not fight it.

This episode is brought to you by The Entrepreneur's Death Folder:

If your business couldn’t run without you, that’s a problem—a haunting your assistant from the beyond kind of problem. That’s where the Entrepreneur’s Death Folder comes in. It’s your digital contingency plan: all your logins, contacts, workflows, and need-to-knows in one tidy, shareable place.
Less spooky, more smart. Because peace of mind is the ultimate productivity tool.

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Three Key Takeaways:

• Boundaries aren't about restriction, they're about expansion. Learn how Christie created calendar systems that protect both her time and energy.
• Your body sends signals. Christie shares how anxiety became her clue that something needed to change.
• Not every day is productive, and that's okay. Learn how to build grace, curiosity, and flexibility into your business structure.

Find It Quickly:

• 00:17 - Meet Christi Johnson
• 01:01 - System Reboot: Fun and Personal Questions
• 02:55 - Christi's Journey: Realizing Unsustainable Work Habits
• 05:56 - Building a Sustainable Work Structure
• 09:21 - Managing ADHD in Business
• 13:37 - Setting Boundaries and Finding Balance
• 17:30 - Christi's Latest Offerings and Where to Find Her
• 18:30 - Movie Review: Companion Starring Jack Quaid

Connect with Christi:

• Website: christijohnsoncreative.com
• Instagram: instagram.com/christijohnsoncreative
• Podcast: christijohnsoncreative.com/podcast

If your brand colors (or messaging) don’t spark joy, it’s time for a reboot. This week on System for Everything, I’m joined by Dakota Hersey, founder of More Than Creative. After growing a successful photography business, she’s back to her first love—helping small business owners market and sell their talents authentically. 

Dakota doesn’t just design brands that look good. She helps creatives and service providers build brands that make content creation feel easy, client communication feel seamless, and the whole marketing process feel a little more like you. She’s passionate about bringing marketing back to its original purpose: to connect, communicate, and serve.

This episode is brought to you by The Entrepreneur's Death Folder:

If your business couldn’t run without you, that’s a problem—a haunting your assistant from the beyond kind of problem. That’s where the Entrepreneur’s Death Folder comes in. It’s your digital contingency plan: all your logins, contacts, workflows, and need-to-knows in one tidy, shareable place.
Less spooky, more smart. Because peace of mind is the ultimate productivity tool.

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Find It Quickly:

• 01:23 - System Reboot
• 03:21 - Building a Brand That Feels Like You
• 09:36 - Creating a Cohesive Client Experience
• 13:54 - Collaborative Rebranding and Marketing Strategies
• 16:40 - Sustaining Your Brand Presence
• 24:19 - System Shut Down

Connect with Dakota:

• Website: morethancreative.co
• Instagram: instagram.com/morethancreative.co
• Instagram: instagram.com/dakotaherseyphotography
• Podcast: open.spotify.com/show/2mMUHHCACRx71ETK4P4PGV

What if your most honest, messy self is your greatest writing superpower? In this episode, I sit down with Jamie Varon, bestselling author, essayist, and creative force, to crack open what it really takes to write the book that only you can write.

Jamie has built a body of work that’s at once personal and deeply resonant—from her viral essays to bestselling nonfiction to novels. We unpack how she developed her voice over a decade of trial and error, her ritualistic approach to writing even when the ideas feel impossible, and how she navigates outside expectations while keeping her art grounded.

You’ll come away with intimate access to her creative process, permission to let your work be messy, and inspiration to keep writing even when you doubt.

This episode is brought to you by The Entrepreneur's Death Folder:

If your business couldn’t run without you, that’s a problem—a haunting your assistant from the beyond kind of problem. That’s where the Entrepreneur’s Death Folder comes in. It’s your digital contingency plan: all your logins, contacts, workflows, and need-to-knows in one tidy, shareable place.
Less spooky, more smart. Because peace of mind is the ultimate productivity tool.

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Find It Quickly:

• 01:09 - Meet Jamie
• 02:14 - System Reboot
• 04:44 - Writing Process and Inspirations
• 16:39 - Navigating the Publishing Industry
• 25:14 - Navigating Trends and Authenticity
• 26:58 - Writing Rituals and Consistency
• 28:41 - Inspiration and Creative Containers
• 31:43 - Transitioning from Social Media to Novels
• 34:19 - Embracing Personal Growth and Change
• 36:38 - The Journey of Self-Work and Writing
• 42:47 - Promoting New Work
• 44:35 - Literary Inspirations and Recommendations

Resources Mentioned:

• What Alice Forgot - https://amzn.to/41OPAJt
• Big Magic - https://amzn.to/47FqfFB
• Save the Cat! Writes a Novel - https://amzn.to/47FqfFB
• The Phantom Tollbooth - https://amzn.to/3VetjAZ
• The Westing Game - https://amzn.to/4mdYyY4
• Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine - https://amzn.to/3IjBRDO
• The Happy Ever After Playlist - https://amzn.to/42sygdg

Jamie's Books

• Radically Content (Book) - https://amzn.to/46hcpGP
• Radically Content (The Journal) - https://amzn.to/4piAA0o
• The Alchemy Within - https://amzn.to/4gk6uWp
• Main Character Energy - https://amzn.to/3VeyqkQ
• Charlie Quinn Lets Go - https://amzn.to/3VKj4EC

Connect with Jamie:

• Website: jamievaron.com
• Instagram: instagram.com/jamievaron
• Facebook: facebook.com/jamievaron

If you're hustling so hard that your soul has taken a backseat, you’re going to want to hear this. Today I’m talking with Juliana Tomlinson, a wedding photographer, speaker, and business coach, who had one of the most successful years of her life professionally, yet the hardest emotionally.

She booked her dream weddings, launched big programs, but also hit burnout so severe she didn’t even recognize the warning signs. We talk about how comparison, over‑commitment, and never saying “no” can lead to running on fumes, and what it really looks like to redefine success from the inside out.

Three Key Takeaways:

• How to spot the warning signs of burnout before you crash.
• The systems & habits that actually help.
• Why your business goals should serve your life goals.

This episode is brought to you by The Entrepreneur's Death Folder:

If your business couldn’t run without you, that’s a problem—a haunting your assistant from the beyond kind of problem. That’s where the Entrepreneur’s Death Folder comes in. It’s your digital contingency plan: all your logins, contacts, workflows, and need-to-knows in one tidy, shareable place.
Less spooky, more smart. Because peace of mind is the ultimate productivity tool.

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Connect with Juliana:

Website: julianatomlinsonphotography.com

Program: julianatomlinsonphotography.com/elevate

Instagram: @julianatomlinsonphotography

Instagram: @julianatomlinsoneducation

Ever wondered why you dread building your email list? What if I told you it's not about spam—it’s about showing up with heart, humor, and strategy?

In this episode, I chat with Dawn Richardson—the product education manager at Flodesk, former software engineer, wedding photographer, and all‑around tech‑meets‑creative powerhouse. She shares how she helps entrepreneurs build email systems that feel authentic, not icky.

This episode is brought to you by The Entrepreneur's Death Folder:

If your business couldn’t run without you, that’s a problem—a haunting your assistant from the beyond kind of problem. That’s where the Entrepreneur’s Death Folder comes in. It’s your digital contingency plan: all your logins, contacts, workflows, and need-to-knows in one tidy, shareable place.
Less spooky, more smart. Because peace of mind is the ultimate productivity tool.

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3 Key Takeaways:

• Reframing email marketing from sleazy to service: it lives in your subscriber’s inbox (not the public feed), and they're asking to hear from you.
• Tools you’ll love: why Dawn’s Mac‑chooser quiz and countdown‑timer opt‑ins outperform generic freebies—and what you can do today to start using them.
• Automation with personality: welcome sequences, segmentation, and cleaning your list—done with your voice, so it always feels human.

Find It Quickly:

• 01:16 - System Reboot: Fun and Personal Questions
• 03:03 - Email Marketing Fears and Misconceptions
• 05:06 - Personal Experience with Email Marketing
• 08:36 - Effective Email List Growth Strategies
• 13:23 - Email Marketing Frequency and Best Practices
• 17:42 - Cleaning Your Email List
• 18:29 - The Entrepreneur's Death Folder
• 19:04 - Bringing Your Voice into Automations
• 19:29 - Creating an Engaging Welcome Sequence
• 22:56 - Segmenting Your Audience Effectively
• 26:41 - Building Real Relationships with Subscribers
• 31:09 - Getting Started with Flodesk
• 33:56 - Systems Shut Down

Mentioned in this Episode:

• Flodesk - Use Julie's Affiliate Code for 50% Off Your First Year of Flodesk
• @flodesk

Connect with Dawn:

• @itsdawnrichardson
• Techsavvycreative.com

Some episodes entertain. This one will change you. Dr. Gregory Fried’s story is not just about surviving 9/11—it's about everything that came after. As the Executive Chief Surgeon for the NYPD, he wasn’t just a witness; he was a first responder standing at the very edge of collapse. What he saw, what he carried, and what he still remembers is etched into every word of this conversation. Let me introduce you to my father-in-law.

Find It Quickly

• 01:15 - Early Career and Becoming a Police Surgeon
• 02:45 - Rising Through the Ranks
• 07:13 - September 11th: The Day That Changed Everything
• 11:48 - Surviving the Collapse
• 20:33 - Escape and Rescue
• 27:00 - Arrival in Jersey City
• 27:15 - Hospital Recovery and Miscommunication
• 29:21 - Transfer to NYU and Initial Challenges
• 30:37 - Return Home and Medical Diagnosis
• 31:26 - Involvement in Recovery Efforts
• 33:46 - Health Concerns and Documentation
• 35:26 - Exposure to Toxic Dust
• 38:10 - Long-term Health Impacts
• 48:26 - Decision to Retire
• 52:02 - Reflections on 9/11 and Its Legacy

Connect with Dr. Greg

• gfriedmd.com
• Life on The Thin Blue Line