Are you ready for a new look at the world of sexuality and kink? This podcast, brought to you by Dr. K, Holistic Sexuality Educator, fitness trainer, model, and promoter of erotic intelligence, is an honest and down to Earth deep dive into the world of sex, BDSM, and alternative lifestyle. Dr. K. is a 24/7 submissive, deeply devoted to tantric practices, the power of embodiment, and holistic living, as well as an empowerment and intimacy coach.
Topics range from sex education, LGTBQ+, consensual non-monogamy, Tantra, kink, BDSM, taboos, fetishes, sex toys, advice, experiences, consent, Shibari, and so much more!
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S2-Ep10: The Show is Back! Updates, The Vibe Expo, and More!
Season 2 · Episode 10
Monday, February 19, 2024 • Duration 49:43
After a long hiatus, the show is back with a new sound, new episodes, and more dynamic content than ever before! This is my first solo episode since starting season 2 and I am so excited to share all the exciting news with you! From the behind-the-scenes of The Vibe Expo in Hollywood, the official launch of Artistic Edge Magazine, new Toy reviews, and more! Get your drink and let's get into it!
Video Version of this podcast is available on Patreon!
Call for Submissions for the new Artistic Edge Magazine:
If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, Artistic Edge Magazine and Sexological Blog are currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please submit your pitch to editor@kipani.life
Support the Podcast:
Psss…. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please!If you like what you hear and see, please check out the many ways you can support the podcast, research, and art projects. Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider becoming a Patreon!Supportingmembers through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, curated treasure boxes with art, erotica, souvenirs, and more, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals! It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you!
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About SESTA/FOSTA:Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.
S2. Ep. 9 - Dr. Stefani Goerlich - Kink, Vanilla, and everything in between!
Season 2 · Episode 9
Friday, November 3, 2023 • Duration 01:02:40
Can vanilla and kinky people mix? What kind of people are drawn to kink and BDSM to begin with? And what does cyber security have to do with kink? In this episode, we cover all these topics and so much more! I am beyond excited to bring on the show someone I’ve admired for several years, the award-winning author and certified sex therapist, Dr. Stefani Goerlich! Her new book, With Sprinkles on Top, covers everything vanilla people and their kinky partners need to know to communicate, explore, and connect and she’s here to share her expertise to help others grow and thrive! We also take a surprising detour and discuss the interaction of cyber security and sex tech! You don’t want to miss this episode!
Ep. 41 - BDSM & D/s Myths: Breaking Down Common Misconceptions
Season 1 · Episode 41
Saturday, August 13, 2022 • Duration 54:32
We have all heard some myths about BDSM, Kink, and D/s. For those in the communities, these can feel like a slap in the face and often result in shame that hurts on a deeper level than even humiliation play can reach. They also result in misunderstandings and total avoidance to learning more about the world of kink and BDSM to those new to this world. It's time to dispel some that have made their way across my desk recently and provide the research to disprove them, as well as insight into what it's really like in a consensual dynamic.
Let's talk about Libido... in particular, how do we overcome libido discrepancy? (i.e.: when one partner wants more sex than the other.) While we are at it, let's take it a step further and throw parenting, life, and a little kink into the mix! In this episode, I'm going to address an insightful question from a follower concerning how to talk to their partner about the tough subject of getting more sex when one partner isn't feeling it. I also take you on a deep dive into a conflict resolution technique called "The Imago Dialogue" (and how it can be used as check-in method for D/s dynamics), how this fits in with creating more responsive desire, as well as teach you how to find what your inner self actually needs from sex. I'll also give actionable steps to reframe what pleasure is, and build a container of safety that will help partners connect on a deeper level, even when sex isn't on the menu! Let's get going!
Ep 39. - Let's Talk About Stress & Masturbation + 15 Minute Guided Meditation
Season 1 · Episode 39
Friday, March 25, 2022 • Duration 01:31:00
Are you all as stressed out as I am these days? In this episode, I'm analyzing the science behind stress from the perspective of the Stress Response Cycle, and how our sexuality plays into it. In addition, I'm going to discuss different ways to combat it from a holistic approach, including a thoughtful discussion on how mindful masturbation can be used as a tool to aid in wellbeing and stress managementment. As a bonus, this episode includes a 15 minute Chakra balancing body-scan guided medication to help you achieve a restful state of bliss at the end of the day. Get comfy and a settle-in for some serious self-care tonight!
Ep. 37 - A Little Neuroscience and BDSM With a Side of Kink
Season 1 · Episode 37
Friday, March 4, 2022 • Duration 01:13:44
Are you ready to get down and nerdy with me? Good! And yes, you read the episode number right... I had a brain malfunction and skipped 37, so we are looping back around! In this episode, I take you on a deep dive discussion on the neuroscience of BDSM, the theories behind what makes kink and BDSM a positive experience to those who seek the endorphin rush, as well as the case studies around the prevalence of kink and BDSM today. Class is now in session!
Are you ready for an ADHD-infused conversation about ADHD? Good! Me too! This episode dives deep into Ari Tuckman's book "ADHD After Dark", case studies, and more, while I share the down and dirty details about how I handle my tendencies during those intimate moments. I'll also share highlights about my appearance on Forsale18's Twitch Stream, "Positive Thots", as well as everything I have found so far as I work on an academic literature review on ADHD & Sexuality. Get ready! This is a long episode!
Ep. 36 - Special Guest: Big Daddy on Dynamics, Scenes, and More!
Season 1 · Episode 36
Friday, January 14, 2022 • Duration 01:00:12
I am so excited to bring you this very special episode! Big Daddy is here and he opens up about D/s dynamics from a Dom's perspective, maintaining a dynamic during a pandemic while working overtime, favorite scenes, orgasms, consent, and so much more! We also bring y'all on a deep discussion about check-ins, favorite toys, and finding pleasure through rituals. Dismantling stereotypes, one sex-positive conversation at a time!
About SESTA/FOSTA:Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.
Ep. 35 - Top 10 List of New Year's Resolutions to Make 2022 Pure Pleasure!
Season 1 · Episode 35
Friday, January 7, 2022 • Duration 38:18
It's 2022 and I have a list of resolutions for you! In this episode, I'm going to not only go into an ADHD tangent or two (when don't I? lol) but also give you a list of my Top 10 New Year's Resolutions aimed to level up your pleasure, expand your mind, improve your self-confidence, and boost self-love! As always, grab your favorite drink, and let's chill!
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Ep. 34 - I'm Back! Updates, Courses, and a Critical Review of Wheel of Time
Season 1 · Episode 34
Friday, January 7, 2022 • Duration 49:54
I'm back! In this episode, I'll explain my hiatus, what projects are in the works, a new course launching THIS WEEK for others looking to get into podcasting within the realm of sexual education, and we chat about a few topics that sprang up for me while watching The Wheel of Time during a recent TV binge. From polyamory, sexism, to power dynamics I noticed in this Prime TV series that has me left with extremely mixed feelings. Come chill with your friendly neighborhood Submissive Next Door and get nerdy with me!
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Call for Submissions for the new Artistic Edge Magazine:
If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, Artistic Edge Magazine and Sexological Blog are currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please submit your pitch to editor@kipani.life
Support the Podcast:
Psss…. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please!If you like what you hear and see, please check out the many ways you can support the podcast, research, and art projects. Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider becoming a Patreon!Supportingmembers through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, curated treasure boxes with art, erotica, souvenirs, and more, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals! It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you!
Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too!
About SESTA/FOSTA:Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.
About SESTA/FOSTA:Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.
Psss…. Don’t forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming aPatreon.Patreon members get podcast episodes, exclusive bonus videos, and my personal sex-positive Zine, Intellectual Intoxication. The Zine showcases my provocative photography projects along with topics such as erotica writing, holistic sexuality, liberating art, embodiment, rituals with a witchy-vibe starting at $3 a month. It's you all that keep the podcast going! Thank you!
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Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too!
About SESTA/FOSTA:Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.
Psss…. Don’t forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming aPatreon.Patreon members get podcast episodes, exclusive bonus videos, and my personal sex-positive Zine, Intellectual Intoxication. The Zine showcases my provocative photography projects along with topics such as erotica writing, holistic sexuality, liberating art, embodiment, rituals with a witchy-vibe starting at $3 a month. It's you all that keep the podcast going! Thank you!
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Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too!
About SESTA/FOSTA:Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.
Psss…. Don’t forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming aPatreon.Patreon members get podcast episodes, exclusive bonus videos, and my personal sex-positive Zine, Intellectual Intoxication. The Zine showcases my provocative photography projects along with topics such as erotica writing, holistic sexuality, liberating art, embodiment, rituals with a witchy-vibe starting at $3 a month. It's you all that keep the podcast going! Thank you!
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Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too!
About SESTA/FOSTA:Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.
Psss…. Don’t forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming aPatreon.Patreon members get podcast episodes, exclusive bonus videos, and my personal sex-positive Zine, Intellectual Intoxication. The Zine showcases my provocative photography projects along with topics such as erotica writing, holistic sexuality, liberating art, embodiment, rituals with a witchy-vibe starting at $3 a month. It's you all that keep the podcast going! Thank you!
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Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too!
About SESTA/FOSTA:Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.
Psss…. Don’t forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming aPatreon.Patreon members get podcast episodes, exclusive bonus videos, and my personal sex-positive Zine, Intellectual Intoxication. The Zine showcases my provocative photography projects along with topics such as erotica writing, holistic sexuality, liberating art, embodiment, rituals with a witchy-vibe starting at $3 a month. It's you all that keep the podcast going! Thank you!
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Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too!
Psss…. Don’t forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming aPatreon.Patreon members get podcast episodes, exclusive bonus videos, and my personal sex-positive Zine, Intellectual Intoxication. The Zine showcases my provocative photography projects along with topics such as erotica writing, holistic sexuality, liberating art, embodiment, rituals with a witchy-vibe starting at $3 a month. It's you all that keep the podcast going! Thank you!
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Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too!
About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.
Psss…. Don’t forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming aPatreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K’s Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing!
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Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too!
About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.
Psss…. Don’t forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming aPatreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K’s Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing!
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Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too!
