In today’s episode, I’m breaking down all the amazing things I love about sobriety -but I’m also sharing the parts I don’t love. Of course, it’s hard to come up with true negatives, because almost every challenge comes with a silver lining. But I want to be real with you about both the frustrations and the rewards of this lifestyle, so you can hear it all from someone who is 16 months sober and decide what’s right for you.

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Everyone always wants to know about my "rock bottom," and in today's episode, we talk about my version of a rock bottom -the event that finally got me sober. We also discuss how quitting BEFORE you hit rock bottom is the biggest blessing and something more people should do.

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In sobriety, some changes happen immediately, whereas some take time. In today's episode, we are discussing a few benefits that happen right away when you quit drinking. Obviously, everyone is different, so this is just my own personal experience. But hopefully it gives you something to look forward to if you're considering sobriety.

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Today’s episode dives into sleep in sobriety—from the short-term challenges to the long-term benefits. While adjusting can be tough at first, the payoff is huge. Quality sleep = better health, better mood, better life.

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In today’s episode, I’m going back to the very beginning of my sober journey and revisiting the ‘why’ I wrote down in my sobriety app on day one. Knowing our 'why' is such a powerful tool -it keeps us grounded, helps us stay focused when things get tough, and reminds us of the results and life we’re working toward.

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I hate the feeling of being bored, and the old me would have just drank away that feeling. Now in sobriety, we have to face that feeling and sit with our thoughts. It's a tough adjustment, and I honestly don't have a ton of advice to offer.

Today, I am venting... sharing something I still struggle with. Sobriety gets easier with time, but I'm still learning every day.

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Did you know that 43% of people with ADHD will develop a problem with alcohol? It is SO common for people to self-medicate with booze, and unfortunately... it works. That's why so many people fall down a bad path with alcohol -because it's an immediate band-aid fix, but it's not a long term solution.

In today's episode, I provide some life hacks for living life with ADHD, and we discuss why it's so common for ADHD'ers to turn to the bottle.

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I'm not going to lie, dating feels so weird without my comfort blanket. I used to drink alcohol in order to feel comfortable flirting with guys, making the first move, or to get through the first date jitters... and now I don't have that. So dating and flirting feels weird.

I've had a lot of "firsts" in sobriety, but dating is still not crossed off the list. I am loving life right now on my own, so it's tough to get in the mindset of bringing someone else into my little world. But I know it'll happen eventually.

In this episode, we talk about some little flirtatious glimmers I've had over the last year of being single and sober + we talk about why it's different to date as a sober person. Thanks for listening, and feel free to join our online support group below:

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Alcohol used to be my number one interest. Everything I did revolved around booze, and I didn’t even know who I was without it. If you’re feeling that way too, today’s episode is for you.

I want to show you that life in sobriety is not only possible, but so much better than it ever was when we were drinking. If you don’t know what to do with yourself as a newly sober person, sit back and listen — because I’ve got a whole list of fun, exciting things you can try that don’t involve alcohol.

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TW: In today's episode we talk about body image and outward appearances, so if that is a sensitive topic for you, consider skipping this episode.

If you're sticking around, today's episode is about getting MORE beautiful with age. The sober glow makes your eyes sparkle, your skin bouncy, and your smile brighter. Healing on the inside reflects on the outside, whether you notice it or not. You can make the next decade of life better than the prior -physically, mentally, financially, and beyond!

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Cravings and temptations are bound to happen in sobriety, so I want to provide you with some tools to get through those successfully. In today's episode, we talk about redirection, N/A beers, impulse control, and more.

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In today's episode, I break down 10 red flags to be aware when taking a look at your relationship with alcohol. If you are able to avoid all of these things in life, maybe you're one of the "normies" who can drink alcohol in a normal way, without ever developing a drinking problem. Leave a comment to let me know your thoughts on the episode, and feel free to rate/ review the show!

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A visit to LA over the weekend sent me into a spiral... Having to relieve all the horrible memories I made there was extremely difficult and emotional. Everywhere I looked was a reminder of a toxic relationship or a toxic modeling agency or a toxic relationship with alcohol. In today's episode, we discuss what it's like to be forced to revisit your past and how to spin these situations into a positive.

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If you’re feeling bored in sobriety, chances are you just haven’t found your *thing* yet. In this episode, I share a variety of fun and creative ways to spend your time alcohol-free, ranging from activities that can spark a new passion to simple everyday swaps that make life feel fuller. These ideas go beyond the usual suggestions and include options you might never have considered back when drinking was your default.

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I used to set the bar SO low -in relationships, jobs, and the way I let people treat me. I stayed stuck and drank to distract myself from the mundane life I was living. But sobriety changed that. I stopped settling and started choosing better. In this episode, I’m sharing what I’ve outgrown and what I simply won’t accept anymore. Drop a comment and tell me what you’re done putting up with as a sober person :)

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The most common question I get asked is about how to get past the first few days of sobriety, so in today's episode, I provide some tangible tips for success in early sobriety + we discuss withdrawal symptoms and when to consult a doctor.

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It's never just one... Today we're going to talk about why the idea of having "just one drink" creeps into our heads in sobriety and why it's NEVER worth it. It goes so much deeper than just that one drink, so let's talk about it :)

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Everything that could go wrong... WENT wrong from the years 2020-2023. These were by far the worst years of my life, and I used alcohol to survive them. Some people don't understand how a girl like me could fall into alcoholism. Well, in today's episode, I lay it all out for you -with a focus on the injury that left me bedridden, emotionally exhausted, and broken (literally).

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Today we're talking about getting to the root issue of WHY we drank so heavily in the first place. If we heal and work on the root issues, we won't crave alcohol as much -making sobriety feel easier.

Simply eliminating the substance will make sobriety feel HARD. Because you're eliminated your vice, but all the issues remain. In today's episode, we break down how to analyze your past and begin to heal.

You got this!! Thank you for listening and for being a part of this community.

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If you find yourself drinking for life's most mundane situations like the grocery store or WORK or your morning walk... you're not alone. I used to love drinking in inappropriate situations, where you really should not be consuming alcohol. So today, we're diving into why I did that and how I manage those same situations as a sober person.

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TW: Liver disease, cirrhosis, fatty liver.... If this is a sensitive topic to you, please take caution when listening. I talk very filter-free about all the damage that alcohol can cause on the body, so listeners discretion is advised.

Hello Scoop Troop! Welcome back to another episode. This is a bit of a heavier episode about liver damage from alcohol and how I was "scared straight" into sobriety. Stay safe out there, and always consult a doctor for help on your journey.

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Trying to limit our alcohol intake actually makes us think about booze WAY more than just quitting altogether, contrary to popular belief. Speaking from experience: quitting is peace. It clears your mind and frees up your headspace.

In today's episode, we talk about which moderating strategies I tried and how I failed at all of them. We also dive into the mental clarity and peace that comes with sobriety.

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In today's episode, I’m sharing the 10 things I absolutely do NOT miss about being a drinker. From the physical toll alcohol took on my digestion and weight, to the mental toll of shame, secrecy, and forgetfulnesses, we’re diving into the raw truths of what I left behind when I quit drinking.

I open up about the emotional rollercoaster of hiding a drinking problem, the lies we tell ourselves (and others), and the freedom that comes with letting it all go. Whether you’re sober-curious, newly alcohol-free, or just need a reminder of why you started, this one’s for you.

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Drinking at work became part of my regular routine... and in today's episode, I want to talk about how people get to that point with their drinking and how you can pull yourself out of that -if you're in the thick of it right now.

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TW: About half way through the episode, we discuss body image and weight loss, so if this is a sensitive topic for you, please keep that in mind.

Confidence is something that builds through both emotional and physical changes in sobriety. In today’s episode, we’re diving into all things self-love, self-growth, and how sobriety is at the secret to feeling amazing about yourself.

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I get a lot of questions online about how to tell family, friends, and significant others that you are getting sober & quitting alcohol for good. This can be so intimidating for a number of reasons: Maybe they didn't even know you had a drinking problem? Maybe you're nervous to verbally commit to sobriety forever? Whatever your reason... I get it. All those things ran through my mind too, so in today's episode, I'm going to share how I told the people closest to me that I was getting sober.

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I'm doing an update on one of our most popular episodes called "How to Quit Drinking." In today's episode, I want to provide some tangible tips for quitting alcohol and living a sober life. I also open up about my journey to getting sober & how I finally decided to do it.

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I'm hoping that these 4 mentality shifts can help you think of sobriety in a simpler way. My favorite one: all we have to do to stay sober is NOT drink... we don't have to DO anything! Simple right? Obviously an alcohol-free life comes with its struggles, but I hope that this helps you reframe the concept.

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If you’re squeamish, maybe skip this one -we’re diving into the very NOT glamorous side of having a drinking problem: digestive issues. My gut was a mess when I drank, and “food poisoning” was basically a weekly event. But after quitting, it healed almost instantly, and now when something’s off, I actually know what it is because alcohol isn’t muddying the waters. Digestive peace is honestly such a blessing, and it feels like I've cracked the code to life.

Celebrating a different kind of birthday today: One year alcohol-free! And I couldn’t be more proud of myself. It’s actually shocking to look back over the last year and think about all that has changed in my life. I feel like a completely different person, both physically and emotionally. Letting go of one thing has given me everything, and I’m so grateful that one random Thursday in 2024, I decided to kick a substance that was no longer serving me. Here’s to many more sober-versaries. Thank YOU for listening and being a part of this community :)

I remember feeling so incredibly elated in the beginning of sobriety -almost like I was experiencing a high. It was such an unexpected rush that I actually Googled it to see if it was normal. And, of course (because apparently none of us have an original experience), it was totally normal, and it even had a name: The Pink Cloud.

Let’s talk about it.

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PSA: you do not have to hit a rock bottom in order to get sober. In fact, it should be seen as such a blessing if you're able to nip it in the bud BEFORE you hit rock bottom. In today's episode, I open up about some close calls that I had & some mistakes I've made along the way.

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When you’ve used alcohol to mask anxiety for so long, facing those same situations sober can feel daunting. But sobriety teaches you real coping skills—so instead of covering up anxiety, you learn to truly handle it. In this episode, I'll provide some tangible tips for dealing with anxiety & not feeling as much anxiety in the first place.

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Sobriety makes it feel like you can live 3 lives in one day. The days drag on & on... in the beginning of the alcohol-free journey, so today we're talking about how to use that extra time wisely and how to manage feelings of boredom.

In this episode, I’m sharing 15 things I thought I’d miss in sobriety… but spoiler alert: I don’t miss a single one. Sobriety isn’t about focusing on what you’re giving up — it’s about making small shifts in your mindset and routine that actually enhance your life and help you realize you genuinely prefer being sober.

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After about 8 months living with family and having constant distractions around me, I am finally moving into my own place again, and I'm a little scared (but mostly super excited!) Living alone used to be my sanctuary for problematic drinking, but now, I'm going to use my space to be creative and productive and become the best version of myself!

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What does an alcoholic "look like" anyway? Alcohol doesn't discriminate, and people of all different backgrounds, ages, and genders can struggle with it. High-functioning, isolated drinkers can hide behind their cover for a long time, especially when they don't fit society's portrayal of an alcoholic. Let's talk about this & more in today's episode.

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Today we are talking about how easy it is to lean into another vice after quitting alcohol. At the root of it all is impulse control, so let's discuss how to develop strategies to manage our impulses and avoid transferring our addictive behavior from one substance to another.

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Taking your first vacation as a newly sober person can be intimidating, but eventually- vacations become even MORE enjoyable in sobriety! You're not hungover, you're not making all your plans around alcohol, and you're able to enjoy all the different activities available to you. My biggest tip is to still "treat yourself" in sobriety :) I talk about this & more in today's episode. Enjoy!

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I receive a lot of questions from people embarking on day 1 of sobriety, so I wanted to provide an episode with all my tips for the very early days of sobriety. Choosing to quit can be hard, so I hope these tips can ease the transition into an alcohol-free life.

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I hate the phrase "I need a drink" with every fiber of my being... and that phrase is almost guaranteed to be in every movie & tv show you watch. How the media portrays alcohol has a huge impact on society, whether we realize it or not. Let's break it down in today's episode.

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Hold My Drink is now The Sober Scoop :) Starting Tuesday, all new episodes will be under the new name, so please make sure to subscribe/follow so you don't miss anything when the name changes over. Backstory on the name change below!

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Why the change?

There is another podcast called Hold My Drink that is actually quite famous... the confusion between our two pages has already begun, so while the podcast is still new, I wanted to distinguish our show & also avoid any copyright/ trademark issues down the road. I also wanted a name with the word "sober" in it, so people could easily find it when searching for sobriety content on spotify/apple/etc. And the cherry on top... I love the name maybe even MORE than 'hold my drink.' Prepare yourself for all the ice cream puns with "scoop" haha! Anyways, thanks for being here & I hope you like the new name.

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In today's episode, I'm providing a LONG list of non-alcoholic drinks that you can try in sobriety: Soda, tea, hot chocolate, and more + N/A beers and wines. There are so many fun options out there that we forget about when alcohol is running our lives. Cheers :)

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Today I'm talking to the supportive partners of our community. Send this to your significant other if you'd like to give them some insight into being a solid support system for you on your alcohol-free journey. Support is KEY for success, so having your partner on your side, with you through the highs & lows is truly a blessing.

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Welp… I’m laying it all out on the line in this episode! Trust me- anything crazy you’ve done in your drinking days, somebody else has done too. You’re not alone. I hope that hearing some of my past behaviors helps you feel less guilt and shame around your own.

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Sobriety should not feel like a battle every day, so we need to create a life in which we no longer need alcohol to get through. In today's episode, we talk about finding your "why" and doing the deeper work so you can live a happy sober life -without any willpower required!

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PSA: this is my personal timeline, and everyone’s experience is different, but I wanted to share some exciting things that have happened along the way during my journey with sobriety. We talk weight loss, emotions, frustrations, and more… so relax & enjoy the episode ❤️

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There really shouldn’t even be a word for a “non-drinker.” We’re just living a normal & unaltered life, and it’s so weird that we have to constantly explain ourselves when we’re literally not doing anything! It would be more normal if we asked drinkers why they drink. Interesting concept discussed in today’s episode, and I hope it gives you some comfort and confidence. You got this!!

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In today’s episode, we discuss triggering situations in sobriety & how learning to manage those can be the key to success in your alcohol-free journey.

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Today I’m providing some of my top tips for resisting temptation and staying sober. Having these tools in your toolbox will help make quitting alcohol & staying sober feel easier :) I hope you’ll refer back to this episode if you ever need it. You got this! And if nobody told you yet, I am so proud of you for taking this step for your health and well-being.

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