Join Rachel for our fourth and final 'Raincheck' of the Summer Holidays. While you wait for new content, here is a short extract from earlier episodes to tide you over. 

This week, we have another short reflection on trust. Trust isn’t just an external experience with others but also an internal relationship with ourselves. This short rain check replays a couple of key conversations we’ve had about trust and how it has been warped and reshaped by our experiences as parent carers.

Extracts From:

• Season 3 Episode 3 and
• Season 1 Episode 17

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Join Rachel for our third 'Raincheck' of the Summer.

While you wait for new content, here is a short extract from earlier episodes to tide you over. 

This week is all about trust.

Rachel didn’t realise how important trust played in professional relationships until she transitioned from one end of the bed, as a healthcare professional, to the other, as a parent of someone with complex medical needs. The difference it makes is like taking a deep breath. 

Extracts are From:

• Season 1 Episode 14 
• Season 1 Episode 17 and
• Season 1 Episode 18

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It is not long until we get the chance to vote in the general election and this week on the podcast we chat about how we might be able to raise our collective voices with Rina and Lauren from the brilliant F**king Normal Podcast.    They imagine what they’d like to say to the powers that be, how invisible the lives of disabled people are, and the need for accessible child care for working parents (especially mothers who still carry the majority of the mental load).   We’d love to hear from you – we love sharing stories, we love hearing how things are going, the good, the bad, the snotty-crying ugly. You can leave a message with us in a number of ways: · Firstly you can leave a message using speakpipe here:https://www.speakpipe.com/TSWUpodcastSpeakpipeTSWU  (Please note calls need to be limited to 90 seconds) · You can send us a voice note from your phone to our email address at tswupodcast@gmail.com · Or, if the thought of hearing your own voice gives you ‘the ick’, then send us an email to tswupodcast@gmail.com Whatever way you choose to get in touch, we really want to hear your thoughts, views, musings, rants and confessions (we love a confession!) . Thanks for listening and being a part of our podcast community -It would make our day if you could like, follow and review the podcast wherever you listen.    Follow us on Instagram @BornatRightTime. Head tohttp://www.bornattheright/www.bornattherighttime.com to find a parent workshop or CPD-certified training for practitioners in communication, collaboration and personalised care with parents/carers.

Join Rachel and Sarah for Episode 15 of The Skies We’re Under. They’re joined by the super cool Rina and Lauren from the brilliant F**king Normal Podcast

as they celebrate the awesomeness of our wonderful collective community. It’s a bit of a love in for the fantastic podcasting community we’re part of (shout out to SendCast and Stories About Autism)

There’s plenty of catch up time with Rachel and Sarah: Sarah has just about survived a hen weekend, they’re both full of the lurgy, feeling feverish, and dreaming of a life like Downton Abbey… Upstairs not downstairs!

As we’re cheering podcasts - can you cheer for us - you can nominate The Skies We’re Under as a listener’s choice NOW at The British Podcast Awards

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Join Rachel and Sarah for Episode 15 of 'The Skies We’re Under' podcast.

Rachel and Sarah reflect on the complexity of life, the contradictory emotions, conflicting demands and false eyelashes that look just like flies that need to be swatted.

There is however, a bucketful of practical tips and suggestions in this week’s episode, from Canvas and Campfires, to hoist hire to Rachel letting you into her top-secret genius invention which will make her millions one day!.

Also featuring Sam Millican-Smith as he introduces Hibi, a free app to support families of children with developmental differences & health conditions to manage, coordinate & navigate care. They designed the app with hundreds of families and care organisations, including Mencap & Parent Carer Forums across the country. Available for download here. 

Finally - please please please can you all head over to the 

British Podcast Awards and nominate 'The Skies We’re Under' for the Listener’s Choice Award? - We’d love it oh so much!

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Join Rachel and Lucy for episode 14 of The Skies Were Under podcast. We’re joined again by Jo Holmes (Mummy Vs AAC) discussing how to find ways for meaningful connection with your child (which doesn’t necessarily need to involve a laminator).

TRIGGER WARNING - Please note - right from the start, we have discussions around end of life care plans and DNACPR. If this is something that will be upsetting and triggering to you please skip this episode, or fast forward to 7 minutes.

To find out more about Jo, and the resources she’s passionate about please go to:

Mummy Vs AAC About Jo

Resource Bank

HOP | Hanging Out Program Interaction for People at Risk of Isolation

Rachel and Lucy also discuss life when you’ve got too many tabs open.

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Join Rachel and Lucy for Episode 13 of 'The Skies We’re Under' podcast. They are joined by the always insightful Jo Holmes, who talks about her life as a recovering Speech and Language Therapist. Rachel and Jo reflect on the impact of life changing moments where we go from one side of the fence to ‘the life we didn’t order.’

In addition to talking about what we’re qualified in, Rachel also takes on something she’s totally NOT qualified for, and her amazing efforts at the best not trying too hard/trying my best World Maths Day outfit.

You can find out more about Jo at: Mummy vs AAC

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Rachel and Sarah are joined by the absolutely awesome Dr. Mazal Tasgal as they talk about all things communication. They dare to go off the ‘middle of the road’ pathways to explore the ways to nurture and develop communication, building on our innate ability to communicate with our child, right from the start. 

You can learn more about Mazal’s work here, and also the wonderful charity who supported her family at the start of their journey at special effect.

Rachel and Sarah also share their To-Do lists (even their secret ones!) and Rachel finally figures out what Number 5 actually meant - (it was Turtle Braces)

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Join Rachel, Sarah and Lucy for Episode 11 of The Skies We’re Under Podcast as they share their top tips for Hospital stays. From Apocalypse Grab-bags, to hospital passports, to looking after yourself (and your bowels). We’ve got it covered.

We also reflect on when care is not how it should be, (See also Martha's Rule)

In addition to those top tips, we reflect on hopeful news for Lucy, Sarah’s ‘shit-tip for sale’ and Rachel’s ‘small puddle of patience’.

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Pull up a chair to the table with Rachel and Lucy, as they  reflect on some thought provoking words from the inimitable Elly Chapple. Elly talks through her own story, as well as encouraging us to listen to and value the stories of everyone, no matter how different they may at first appear.

You can find out more about Elly (and Ella) at Can Do Ella

You can also see her TedX talk here: Elly Chapple Tedx

Lucy and Rachel also reflect on the competing versions of themselves that they have: Evening Rachel is not currently getting on with Morning Rachel.

We also have a caller to the show - and we’d love to hear from you too!  We love sharing stories, we love hearing how things are going, the good, the bad, the snotty-crying ugly.

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Sarah and Rachel hear from the absolutely spectacular Charlie Beswick (Our Altered Life, Facebook, Instagram @ouralteredlife).

The podcasting equivalent of quadruple strength cordial Charlie covers the mental health advice we all need. From self compassion, patience, perfectionism through to celebrating our achievements. (TRIGGER WARNING - DISCUSSIONS OF SUICIDAL THOUGHTS)

Rachel and Sarah also talk hair-envy, read some lovely feedback and big up the BAPS awards.

Charlie’s Newsletter is available to subscribe at: https://subscribepage.com/oalupdates

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Join Rachel and Sarah for Episode 8 of ‘The Skies We’re Under’ podcast as they do the best they can until they know better (Maya Angelou). They are joined this week by Shurron Rosales, who reflects on ableism, and the ways she has worked through the trauma of her past experiences, at the same time as becoming a better ally for her child and other disabled people.

See Shurron's list of disabled influencers at the bottom of these show notes.*

We also have a caller with a question for Rachel and Sarah…

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*Disabled Influencers

Nina Tame (@nina_tame) • Instagram photos and videos

Dr Amit Patel (@blinddad_uk) • Instagram photos and videos

Gem Turner (@gem_turner) • Instagram photos and videos

Tom Nash (@djhookie) • Instagram photos and videos

Alice Wong (@disability_visibility) • Instagram photos and videos

Jessica Jordan Ping (@therollingexplorer) • Instagram photos and videos

Deaf Twins • Hermon & Heroda © (@being__her) • Instagram photos and videos

Lost Voice Guy (@lostvoiceguy) • Instagram photos and videos

Inclusion + Accessibility Specialist | Dr Shani Dhanda (@shanidhanda) • Instagram photos and videos

 

Organisations

The Valuable 500 (@thevaluable500) • Instagram photos and videos

Scope (@scopecharity) • Instagram photos and videos

Mencap (@mencap) • Instagram photos and videos

Join Rachel for our second raincheck of the Summer.

While you wait for new content, here is a short extract from earlier episodes to tide you over. 

This week we’re in the thick of the summer holidays - we might be experiencing the same weather - but not having the same experience.

Extracts are from:

• Season 1 Episode 22 and
• Season 3 Episode 1

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Join Rachel, Sarah and Lucy for episode 7 of 'The Skies We’re Under', as they navigate one plumbing disaster after another.

Life can throw both figurative and literal sh*t our way sometimes. The trio reflect on this with their usual good humour and lack of filter. 

It’s also friends and family day today, with not one, but two cameos from our family members! We talk about how we cope with helpful comments that aren’t so helpful, and how to appreciate those around us who try and understand the skies we’re under, even if they aren’t under the same rain cloud (or sh*t storm - whatever you prefer.)

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Learning disability health checks, Rachel - you will go on my first whistle… Sarah… you will go on my second whistle… 3.2.1…

Join our two contestants in this week’s episode of 'The Skies We’re Under' podcast, as they discuss half term envy, realising it’s time to move, and the best show on Saturday Night.

Rachel is joined by the recently appointed TSWU Resident GP: Dr. Tim Wright (just don’t tell him) as he talks through all you need to know about Learning Disability Annual Health Checks, how to make sure you can access them, and what a good Health Check should look like.

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Join Rachel and Sarah as they receive not-so constructive feedback on snoring from their offspring, complete ‘To Do or Not To Do’ lists and find the Good Fairies in life.

In this episode we learn all about PATHs - Sarah expertly takes us through the PATH process, how to get the best out of it, and how it can help inject some much needed hope in a really practical way. Jon Ralph helped illustrate ‘Bee’s Best Life’ as part of her PATH.

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Join Rachel, Sarah and Lucy on Episode 4 of "The Skies We’re Under" podcast as they debate prioritising your own food or your family’s faces and Lucy has another top titty tale.  

We also hear Part 2 of Rachel’s discussion with the superb Joanna Grace (Joanna Grace (@jo3grace), Instagram Sensory Projects.) We are thinking about the professionals who stick it out and those who go rogue for the sake of families. And as ever, we hear from another listener of the podcast.

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Bring your tissues this week as we feel utterly seen by the wonderful Joanna Grace (Joanna Grace (@jo3grace), Instagram Sensory Projects.) Her wisdom, wit and general wonderfulness. We are so grateful to also hear from our fantastic listeners.

Also includes talk of top titties, wimping out and attempting to gain work/life balance.

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Join Lucy and Rachel on Episode 2 of 'The Skies We’re Under' podcast as they ride the waves of frustration, rage, broken systems, unhelpful comments and hormonal imbalance on the good ship HTS Rifton.

Rachel talks about continence systems and products (Uribag, Rifton) and the continued challenges of transitioning from Childrens' to Adult Services

Lucy and Rachel reflect that as awesome as we are, we are not Superhuman, and that the decisions we’re forced to make and the comments we hear build an unhelpful myth of resilience.

HRT patches are praised for helping navigate the stormy waters, and also, helpfully, not killing your families… Menopause

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For our first episode of season 3 Rachel, Sarah and Lucy have a long overdue catch up on where life has taken them since the end of Season 2 and the biggest items on their ‘F**k That Lists.’

In our new ‘What do you need to know’ section Lucy helpfully takes us through everything you need to know about Universal Provision and EHCPs (IPSEA, SENDIASS )

Finally Rachel rounds things off, with our first caller to the podcast, and an open invitation to our lovely listeners to ‘join in’.

We’d love to hear from you – we love sharing stories, we love hearing how things are going, the good, the bad, the snotty-crying ugly. 

You can leave a message with us in a number of ways: 

• Firstly you can leave a message using speakpipe here: SpeakpipeTSWU

 (Please note calls need to be limited to 90 seconds) 

• You can send us a voice note from your phone to our email address at tswupodcast@gmail.com 
• Or, if the thought of hearing your own voice gives you ‘the ick’, then send us an email to tswupodcast@gmail.com 

Whatever way you choose to get in touch, we really want to hear your thoughts, views, musings, rants and confessions (we love a confession!) . 

Thanks for listening and being a part of our podcast community -It would make our day if you could like, follow and review the podcast wherever you listen.  

You can find the transcripts for each episode on our website. 

Follow us on Instagram @BornatRightTime. Head to www.bornattherighttime.com to find a parent workshop or CPD-certified training for practitioners in communication, collaboration and personalised care with parents/carers. 

 

Bonus episode about: 

• Finding a therapist on the Affinity Hub website focused on Parent/Carers
• Writing an ‘If I die” book
• Spinning plates and choosing to drop them
• Life As-Pland fantastic resource for equipping parent carers with brilliant planners, journals and stickers  https://lifeas-pland.com/
• Being an employer and recruiting PAs – If you would like to see some some of the policies and contract documents that Rachel uses with her son’s PAs, please email tswupodcast@gmail.com 
• Puberty and keeping our young people clean and tidy - plus periods
• Finishing off the podcast with sex 

We recorded this Live Podcast event with special thanks to questions from listeners and people attending the event.

We love creating The Skies We’re Under podcast and want to continue. You could  help us by liking, following and reviewing the podcast wherever you listen.   Maybe even share an episode with a friend or in social media  

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 Head to www.bornattherighttime.com to find a parent workshop or CPD-certified training for practitioners in communication, collaboration and personalised care. 

For our final episode of Season 2 we have the trio back together. Rachel, Sarah and Lucy reflect on life and;

• our need for counselling (hint you can find therapists focused on parent carer well-being at Affinity Huband Lapis)
• the awesomeness of Acute Liaison Nurses
• the gap between our capability and capacity
• knowing what we need to let go of and what we should hold onto
• knowing when we need help in our next step
• how society’s ableist thinking is so engrained we don’t even notice it

All this is sandwiched between a Shitometer and Camel Toe.

It would make our day if you could like, follow and review the podcast wherever you listen.  

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Head to www.bornattherighttime.com to book into one of our parent workshops or CPD-certified training for practitioners in communication, collaboration and personalised care with parents/carers. 

The formidable Mandy Hose & Kate Mulholland are Australian podcasters. Their podcast 'Toopeas in a Podcast' began life to talk about mothering twins with disabilities and to make the world a better place. It is now a podcast with over a million downloads and reaching parents, families, 'peafessionals' and 'rectums' around the world.  

  Don’t know what we mean? Listen to find out more: 

• Terminolopea 
• Surviving on the Disability Parenting Desert Island 
• The importance of that “Me Too” moment and finding our own story 
• How to spot parents of twins  
• Living today like we are trusting our tomorrow selves 

We feel so privileged to share the humour, kindness and awesomeness which are Kate and Mandy. It would make our day if you could like, follow and review the podcast wherever you listen – this small act helps us be seen by more people.   

Email your stories, comments and questions to tswupodcast@gmail.com to join in or follow us on Instagram @BornatRightTime.   Our next podcast live event on zoom is 18th May, join us by clicking here  

 Head to www.bornattherighttime.com to find a parent workshop or CPD-certified training for practitioners in communication, collaboration and personalised care with parents/carers.  

Join Rachel for our first 'Raincheck' of the Summer. While you wait for new content, here is a short extract from earlier episodes to tide you over. 

This week’s 'Raincheck' is all about holes - bodily holes!

Mouths, vaginas and rectums. What they are and what they are not. You will hear from Sarah, Rachel and Lucy as well as part of our interview with Mandy and Kate from the Too Peas podcast.

Extracts From:

• Season 1 Episode 11, 
• Season 2 Episode 14 and 
• Season 1 Episode 18

We’d love to hear from you – we love sharing stories, we love hearing how things are going, the good, the bad, the snotty-crying ugly.

You can leave a message with us in a number of ways:

• Firstly you can leave a message using speakpipe here: SpeakpipeTSWU

 (Please note calls need to be limited to 90 seconds)

• You can send us a voice note from your phone to our email address at tswupodcast@gmail.com
• Or, if the thought of hearing your own voice gives you ‘the ick’, then send us an email to tswupodcast@gmail.com

Whatever way you choose to get in touch, we really want to hear your thoughts, views, musings, rants and confessions (we love a confession!) .

Thanks for listening and being a part of our podcast community -It would make our day if you could like, follow and review the podcast wherever you listen. 

Follow us on Instagram @BornatRightTime. Head to www.bornattherighttime.com to find a parent workshop or CPD-certified training for practitioners in communication, collaboration and personalised care with parents/carers.

Rachel and Rochelle have husbands with the same name and children with the same cheeks and level of complex disabilities. This podcast is full of laughter and also manages to cover traumatic topics such as suicide, still birth and child loss.

We joke and stumble through; 

• Blended diet - successes and failures
• Epilepsy – Keto diet
• Supporting friends through baby loss

There is also a revelation (despite Sarah’s warning about revealing too much in the podcast).

Rochelle blogs over at My Daily Miracle. She’s a mum of two and works as an LSA in a special needs school. You can find everything Rochelle at www.mydailymiracle.co.uk and at My Daily Miracle on Facebook and @lifewithlissencephaly_rochelle on Instagram.

It would make our day if you could like, follow and review the podcast wherever you listen.  Email your stories, comments and questions to tswupodcast@gmail.com to join in or follow us on Instagram @BornatRightTime.   

 Head to www.bornattherighttime.com to book onto one of ‘The Skies We’re Under’ live events (our next one is 8pm (GMT) Thursday 18th May), find a parent workshop or CPD-certified training for practitioners in communication, collaboration and personalised care with parents/carers.  

This is everything I love about podcasts; it’s funny, real, useful and has the most tender conversations brimming with love. In this podcast recorded in December 2022, Jessica Moxham, mother and architect, talks about her book ‘The Cracks that Let the Light In’ on bringing up her disabled son; How complicated it is when our children are in hospital, making homes accessible and doing the best we can. 

You can buy her book anywhere that sells good books but beware! As well as being beautifully written, it might just challenge your perspective on disability, ableism and if you’re listening on Audible, make you pull over in the car to ugly cry. It’s crammed with the complexity, beauty and power of a mother’s heart with a side helping of smashing the patriarchy.  

You can find everything Jess across social media 

Instagram @jessmoxham

Facebook @sonstoriesblog

Twitter @jessmoxham

You can also listen to her on women’s hour:

https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m000tlty  

It would make our day if you could like, follow and review the podcast wherever you listen.  Email your stories, comments and questions to tswupodcast@gmail.com to join in or follow us on Instagram @BornatRightTime.   

Head to www.bornattherighttime.com to book into one of The Skies We’re Under live events (our next one is 8pm (GMT) Thursday 18th May), find a parent workshop or CPD-certified training for practitioners in communication, collaboration and personalised care with parents/carers.  

 

Foofighters, Don’t Call me Mum and planning a funeral for your child - it can only be ‘The Skies We’re Under’ podcast.  

Listen to this great interview with Steph Nimmo who talks about incredibly hard topics with honesty, humour and gentleness. She shares:

• having to hold it all together when your world falls apart
• how grief can wait a couple of years before it comes pounding at your door
• talking about death and loss with children who have disabilities and autism

You can find out more about Steph at https://www.wasthisintheplan.co.uk/ and read her books Goodbye Daisy and Was this in the Plan? wherever you usually buy your books. 

It would make our day if you could like, follow and review the podcast wherever you listen. Email your stories, comments and questions to tswupodcast@gmail.com to join in or follow us on Instagram @BornatRightTime.   

Head to www.bornattherighttime.com to book into one of ‘The Skies We’re Under live events’ (our next one is 8pm (GMT) Thursday 18th May), find a parent workshop or CPD-certified training for practitioners in communication, collaboration and personalised care with parents/carers.  

Dr Joanna Griffin is a parent carer and counselling psychologist. She has the brilliant blend of lived experience and a brain full of useful and important information which we can use to make this parenting lark a little easier.  

In this episode we talk about; 

• how finding it hard is normal and doesn’t mean we are doing it wrong 
• the complexity of telling our story and our children’s story  
• listening to our bodies 
• the difference between difficult emotional responses and trauma 

Plus, Jo has some super helpful information about trauma. 

Find some great parent/carer resources at www.affinityhub.com and all things Dr Jo at on social media. Facebook @Joanna Griffin Instagram @griffinpsychology Twitter @Griffinpsych Linked In Dr Joanna Griffin

The well-being conference is sold out but you can join a waiting list [Parent Carer Well-being Day] The research Jo refers to can be found here.

Trigger warning – just talking about trauma can be traumatic for people with trauma. 

It would make our day if you could like, follow and review the podcast wherever you listen.  Email your stories, comments and questions to tswupodcast@gmail.com to join in or follow us on Instagram @BornatRightTime.   

Head to www.bornattherighttime.com to book into one of 'The Skies We’re Under' live events, find a parent workshop or CPD-certified training for practitioners in communication, collaboration and personalised care with parents/carers.  

James Hunt is the single dad of two autistic boys and the curator of Stories About Autism. With hundreds of thousands of followers across social media, James has created an amazing community – a community, he says, that help him just as much his stories help others.  

 

In this conversation we delve into:

• Autism, adaptation and acceptance
• Changing relationships and siblings
• Co-parenting well and being a single parent
• Parent's aging and being a sandwich carer (which sadly has nothing to do with cheese & pickle)

You can find James across social media as Stories About Autism and on his website www.storiesaboutautism.com. All enquiries (to give him a book deal) can be emailed to james@storiesaboutautism.com  

To join in with the podcast, email your stories, comments and questions to tswupodcast@gmail.com or follow us on Instagram @BornatRightTime. It would make our day if you could like, follow and review the podcast wherever you listen.   

Head to www.bornattherighttime.com to find a parent workshop or CPD-certified training for practitioners in communication, collaboration and personalised care with parents/carers.  

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As well as being joined by Sarah Clayton, we have the pleasure of Jane Hamer’s company. Jane is a physiotherapist in New Zealand who has recently completed research with parents of children who have disabilities and who are introducing night-time positioning equipment.  

We talk about just how hard news can sometimes be and the important steps which can make 'hard' just a little easier. If you’re a parent of someone with limited movement or a practitioner – we think you’ll find this episode super helpful. 

You can read Jane’s research here https://ourarchive.otago.ac.nz/handle/10523/13716 

We're referring to this podcast episode as our first edition of The Skies We're Under practitioner series. Are there any professionals you would like us to talk to on the podcast? We'd love you to email tswupodcast@gmail.com to suggest who you would like to hear from. Similarly you can also email your stories, comments and questions to the same address or follow us on Instagram @BornatRightTime. 

It would also make our day if you could like, follow and review the podcast wherever you listen.   

Head to www.bornattherighttime.com to book onto one of 'The Skies We’re Under' live events, find a parent workshop or CPD-certified training for practitioners in communication, collaboration and personalised care with parents/carers.  

 

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Are you and your partner on the same emotional wavelength when it comes to processing change or caring responsibilities?   Are one of you more practical and the other emotional? Does it wind you up at all?   Can caring and logistics ever be shared out equally?

Kenny and Tutu Popoola are husband and wife founders of Black Special Needs Parents (BSNP). BSNP provides a haven for black parents of children living with disabilities to express themselves and get the support they need to thrive while raising their children. It also serves as a great source of information as well as a signposting service to resources.  

Having been brought up in Nigeria, Kenny and Tutu are now raising two children in the UK, one with complex disabilities. Kenny was slightly outnumbered during our chat but we covered how Dads are often underrepresented and women are more advanced – Kenny actually said it himself.  

We unpick a bit of the typical male and female response to things and discuss the sense of joy (and loss) when a child develops typically and reaches milestones which seem effortless.  

It’s a really comforting conversation which raises some important differences brought about by culture, privilege and faith, but also many similarities in our shared complex emotions. 

Check out their brilliant website https://www.bsnpsn.org/ for more information or follow @blackspecialneedsparentsuk. The church with SEN provision that Kenny and Tutu are part of is https://citygates.london/get-connected/special-needs/  

 

It would make our day if you could like, follow and review the podcast wherever you listen.   

  Email your stories, comments and questions to tswupodcast@gmail.com to join in or follow us on Instagram @BornatRightTime.   

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Marian Selby-Boothroyd is the Director of Development at Certitude (an adult social care provider) and the parent of three boys who have a remarkable array of complexities and awesomeness - Autism, Down Syndrome, rare and life-threatening heart condition and worse of all, for one son – being just like his mum. 

In this brilliant conversation we touch on tough topics such as: 

• Adjusting to being the parent of a child with Down syndrome and how it can be more about us adjusting to the system than the baby. 
• Do not resuscitate orders. 
• Your child needing CPR and learning how to live in the moment every day. 
• How you can have all the right qualifications as a professional and still miss things as a parent. 

TRIGGER warning, this episode covers topics of cardiac arrest and CPR.

It would make our day if you could like, follow and review the podcast wherever you listen.   

 Email your stories, comments and questions to tswupodcast@gmail.com to join in or follow us on Instagram @BornatRightTime.   

Head to www.bornattherighttime.com to book onto one of The Skies We’re Under live events, find a parent workshop or CPD-certified training for practitioners in Communication, Collaboration & Personalised Care with Parents/Carers.  

 

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Paul and Michael Atwal-Brice in conversation with Rachel Wright.  High profile campaigners and fathers to two sets of identical twin boys.

In this wonderful conversation we talk about  

• How the best Rom Coms start in Cleethorpes. 
• How Paul and Michael fell in love with their boys. 
• How little things can make a big difference (for example a form saying Parent 1 and Parent 2 rather than Mum and Dad).
• How medical trauma impacts parents.  
• The importance of humour and beige food to get us through the day.

TRIGGER WARNING - we talk about epilepsy and ventilation.  

You can find all things Atwal-Brice and more about their beautiful family at www.atwalbricefamily.co.uk (@atwalbricefamily on socials) and as well as links to all the great organisations they work with.

It would make our day if you could like, follow and review the podcast wherever you listen.  

Email your stories, comments and questions to tswupodcast@gmail.com to join in or follow us on Instagram @BornatRightTime.  

Head to www.bornattherighttime.com to book onto one of 'The Skies We’re Under' live events, find a parent workshop or CPD-certified training for practitioners in communication, collaboration and personalised care with parents/carers.  

 

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This great interview with Tracey Huggins looks at; 

• Mental health (ours not our children’s) 
• Her sex life (that bit’s quite quick) 
• Being a nodding dog to the system  
• Having a child who doesn’t have a diagnosis. 

You can find out about all things Tracey at @SENDaccordingtome and www.sendworldaccordingtome.co.uk She has stacks of useful information about all the practitioners who support families of children with disabilities. If you’re a parent new to this gig, it’s a helpful resource.  

 Tracey’s book ‘Sendin Mam round the bend’ is also available from Amazon. 

 It would make our day if you could like, follow and review the podcast wherever you listen.  

Email your stories, comments and questions to tswupodcast@gmail.com to join in or follow us on Instagram @BornatRightTime.  

Head to www.bornattherighttime.com to book onto one of 'The Skies We’re Under' live events, find a parent workshop or CPD-certified training for practitioners in communication, collaboration and personalised care with parents/carers.  

 

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Join Rachel for some of her and our listener’s favourite moments from The Skies We’re Under Season 3.

This week we have three gems:

• Hospital Grab Bags - from Episode 11 - Weathering the Hospital Sh*tstorm;
• Rachel’s Insightful Interview with Shurron Rosales - from Episode 8 - Dealing with our own sh*t
• Last but not least - Sarah’s Poo Story - from Episode 7 - Many Different Types of Sh*t
• Cripes there’s a bit of a theme on this one! 💩 

We’d love to hear from you – we love sharing stories, we love hearing how things are going, the good, the bad, the snotty-crying ugly.

You can leave a message with us in a number of ways:

• Firstly you can leave a message using speakpipe here: SpeakpipeTSWU

 (Please note calls need to be limited to 90 seconds)

• You can send us a voice note from your phone to our email address at tswupodcast@gmail.com
• Or, if the thought of hearing your own voice gives you ‘the ick’, then send us an email to tswupodcast@gmail.com

Whatever way you choose to get in touch, we really want to hear your thoughts, views, musings, rants and confessions (we love a confession!) .

Thanks for listening and being a part of our podcast community -It would make our day if you could like, follow and review the podcast wherever you listen. 

Follow us on Instagram @BornatRightTime. Head to www.bornattherighttime.com to find a parent workshop or CPD-certified training for practitioners in communication, collaboration and personalised care with parents/carers.

Rachel talks to Lucy and Sarah about how being the parents of people with complex needs has taken over – well ... everything. How we have changed and transitioned through seasons of our life and our child’s life. We cover; 

• The emotional phases we go through – rage, resignation and resolve. 
• Deputyship and power of attorney – who needs it and why? 
• Realising there isn’t such a thing as ‘it’ll be easier when...’ 
• How none of us is Mother Teresa incarnate. 
• One of our biggest roles as parents is to enable our children to have fun and feel safe without us. 

We talk about how we might try and shift the idea of motherhood being at its best when we are frantically doing everything for our children, to one where we celebrate and share stories of our children loving life without us. #FunWithoutMum 

It would make our day if you could like, follow and review the podcast wherever you listen.  

Email your stories, comments and questions to tswupodcast@gmail.com to join in or follow us on Instagram @BornatRightTime.  

Head to www.bornattherighttime.com to book into one of The Skies We’re Under live events (our first one is on 16th March), find a parent workshop or CPD-certified training for practitioners in communication, collaboration and personalised care with parents/carers. 

 

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In the second of our festive specials, Rachel, Sarah and Lucy talk about how Christmas for many, far from being magic and nostalgic, can simply become a case of ‘just got to get through it’. How for a lot of parents, we so want to feel one thing but the reality of the many emotions we live with become bigger and bigger as December progresses. 

• Adapting plans and expectations for Christmas – what can be ditched? 
• How to show love and support for a person with complex needs. 
• Feelings of isolation at Christmas. 
• Managing expectations. 
• The contrast of the ‘complex Christmas’. 
• Letting go of emotions. 
• Additional pressures of Christmas.  

Christmas is a time where expectations are highlighted and magnified. Having a child with complex needs takes the ability to create your ‘perfect Christmas’ out of your hands. 

(See our Instagram post for the snow making reel discussed in this episode.)

Please rate, review and follow the podcast. You can also DM our social channels, or email TSWUpodcast@gmail.com.

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In this Christmas episode, we discuss the good, the bad and the ugly of Christmas. We talk the lead up, the lights, the planning, the nativities and the REALITY of Christmas Day, as well as

·      Is Christmas a holiday / break?

·      The experience of a SEN school Christmas / nativity - the carnage, the hilarity, the cuteness and the (in)appropriateness.

·      The emotional overload of the festive season.

·      Christmas presents – buying gifts for a child with complex needs and the overwhelming multitude of people who support them

·      Top tips for gifting including recycling, regifting, wish lists and whether it’s acceptable to buy children everyday essentials.

 

At a time when expectations of joy and magic are so high, what we often overlook is that reality and lived experience don’t change. Rachel, Sarah and Lucy discuss the importance of keeping in mind who Christmas is for and therefore how best to manage expectations and keep them realistic.

Please rate, review and follow the podcast. You can also DM our social channels, or email TSWUpodcast@gmail.com.

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Less support + Less equipment + Less routine + Higher expectations = Holidays

Or as we like to call it, having a different kitchen sink. As ever Rachel, Sarah and Lucy give the slightly sweary warts and all version of life, stresses and loves of parenting a disabled child.

Lucy swears more than normal, spoiler alert (none of us have managed a relaxing summer break yet) and we’re all a bit p****d about all the Instagram spam of leisurely summer family trips away.*

Please rate, review and follow the podcast. You can also DM @bornatrighttime, or email TSWUpodcast@gmail.com 

*There is much to be grateful for and we love our children Blah Blah Blah...

Find more about Family Fund for financing holidays here  

Find out about Camp Jojo here  

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So much has happened since the end of Season 1 we thought you might want a catch-up. Brace yourselves though as not much has gone to plan – nothing new there then!

As ever, just talking and being real with each other helps the big deep breath and sense of not being alone.

Here we have some of our favourite extracts from Season 1 of The Skies We’re Under podcast. We had to do a ‘best of’ episode because we couldn’t end on episode 19 -that would be all kinds of wrong. 

If you’re wondering whether to listen to any of the episodes, here is a sneak peek at some of our truth telling, laughing and the things we’re learning as we trundle along. 

• Confessions of an optimistic parent 
• Little white lies 
• HELP! 
• Self-care – what it is not 
• Sex-ed 
• Pessary gate 
• Finishing with another entry for out poetry competition 

Thank you for coming back week on week. Please share the podcast with your friends, colleagues, or family as there are lots of great episodes for them to listen to.   

You can email us at TSWUpodcast@gmail.com or follow @bornatrighttime on Instagram and Facebook. As ever, it would be super helpful if you could rate, review and follow the podcast. That way you will know exactly when we are back – we will see you with season 2. 

It’s our last recorded episode of TSWU podcast. As ever we laugh and cry. We tell you the good, bad and ugly truth of the last few months for us and get excited about the upcoming live tour*. 

 

Thank you for coming back week on week. You don’t need to stop sharing the podcast with your friends, colleagues, or family as there are lots of great episodes for them to listen to.  

 

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*currently there is no live tour but if you want to host us – get in touch. 

This episode of The Skies We’re Under podcast Lucy, Rachel and Sarah follow on from last week's topic of trust. They talk about we discover is: 

• Trust is hard 
• Trusting takes work on both sides 
• Trusting someone means being vulnerable 
• The system which cares for our children is often not trusting nor trustworthy, despite the best efforts of those working within it. 
• Trust is necessary as the parent of a person with disabilities as trust is necessary when we need others to do something we cannot do alone. 
• “Don’t put that in your mouth!” poetry competition chosen entry for this week. 

We refer to 

 The thin book of Trust by Charles Feltman 

Atlas of the heart by Brene Brown 

Thank you for coming back week on week. Please share the podcast with your friends, colleagues, or family as there are lots of great episodes for them to listen to.   

You can email us at TSWUpodcast@gmail.com or follow @bornatrighttime on Twitter, Instagram and Facebook. As ever, it would be super helpful if you could rate, review and follow the podcast.  

Sarah and Rachel (sorry no Lucy today) are on The Skies We’re Under podcast today talking about how their stories have changed the way they trust themselves. They also prod the possible implosion of trusting the idea that everything will turn out just fine. It seems trust is earned and carved from time, actions and energy. It can’t be conjured from a job title, role or sense of responsibility. So how do we nurture trusting ourselves.  

Also, we cry laughing and pause recording as we pull ourselves together. Thank you so much for listening to The Skies We’re under podcast from whichever of the 34 different countries you are living in.   

To submit your own stories, comments, questions or a poem to the “Don’t put that in your mouth” competition, * you can email the podcast at TSWUpodcast@gmail.com or message us @bornatrighttime on Instagram and Facebook.  

It would be wonderful if you could rate, review and follow the podcast from wherever it is you listen along.  

*prize pending 

This week Rachel, Sarah and Lucy wonder why we label and introduce our children completely differently to anyone else we know. Sarah boasts of her cycling proficiency award while Rachel has ‘musicality’. Who do you think is the most to least competitive amongst us? Listen to find out. 

In the podcast we mention the wonderful Rochelle and her blog My Daily Miracle. Tag some other blogs you find helpful as a parent. 

And tell us all about: 

• The awards you won at and since school. 
• The ways your children been celebrated well? 
• What categories of awards would you like to see in school? 

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Join Rachel for some of our collective favourite moments from The Skies We’re Under Season 3.

This week we have three gems:

• The debut of Rachel’s rather reluctant husband - from Episode 6 - on Learning Disability Checks with Dr Tim Wright (NHS Learning Disability Health Checks)
• Lucy’s exposing moment with a window cleaner - from Episode 4 - When Professionals Go Rogue with Jo Grace
• An extract from our first conversation with the delightful Jo Grace - from Episode 3 - Trust Your Instinct with Joanna Grace (sensory projects)

We’d love to hear from you – we love sharing stories, we love hearing how things are going, the good, the bad, the snotty-crying ugly.

You can leave a message with us in a number of ways:

• Firstly you can leave a message using speakpipe here: SpeakpipeTSWU

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Whatever way you choose to get in touch, we really want to hear your thoughts, views, musings, rants and confessions (we love a confession!) .

Thanks for listening and being a part of our podcast community -It would make our day if you could like, follow and review the podcast wherever you listen. 

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When things go really wrong.  

Today, Rachel, Lucy and Sarah discuss a case where the local authority took parents to court for interfering ‘in a combative way’ in relation to the care package for their child. 

Tough content as we try to hold onto the fact that every person involved with our families -commissioners, young people, parents, practitioners- is human.  

Oh, and an update on Mousegate.  

Trigger warning: animals were harmed during the recording of this episode. 

Do email us at TSWUpodcast@gmail.com or connect @bornatrighttime in Instagram and Facebook. We would really appreciate it if you could rate, review and follow the podcast to help us keep recording. 

Link to the court case discussed https://www.bailii.org/ew/cases/EWHC/Fam/2021/2844.html  Blog discussing the outcome  

http://www.lukeclements.co.uk/a-high-octane-conflict/ 

Institutionalising parent carer blame 

http://www.lukeclements.co.uk/institutionalising-parent-carer-blame/ 

Working together policy 

http://www.lukeclements.co.uk/coroners-criticises-working-together-2018/  

Shifting family dynamics 

https://oadd.org/journal/volume-27-number-2-changing-social-welfare-provisions-and-shifting-family-dynamics/ 

Join Rachel, Sarah and Lucy as they continue to unpick notions of battle language and tribalism among parents and professionals. 

The labels of ‘unreasonable’ and ‘difficult’ parents, and the lack of humanity when we view professionals purely as part of the system that can be so very challenging. 

Oh, and on an entirely unrelated note, Lucy shares her Mousegate story. Actual mouse. In actual house. 

Grab a cuppa and come join us.

Lucy, Rachel and Sarah talk this week on the podcast about living in a goldfish bowl. As we swim around our lives being watched, assessed and scrutinised by many practitioners and services set up to support us.  

But what difference does this constant observation have on our lives, our relationships and levels of stress? 

 We are nearing the end of season 1 of the podcast. If you have a moment, we would really appreciate you taking the time to review, rate and follow the podcast. Then tell anyone who might listen all about it. 

For questions, disability hacks or to share your story, you can email TSWUpodcast@gmail.com - we would love to hear from you. If you have any ideas or resources might support us being able to continue the podcast we would also love to hear from you. 

Lucy, Rachel and Sarah talk this week on the podcast about resilience.  

Do we have it?  

Do we want it?  

Is there a difference between healthy and unhealthy resilience?  

There are also confessions of the umbrella-stand-kind and a couple of handy, practical disability hacks. 

You can find more information about PATH (Planning alternative tomorrows for hope) here and see the photos we talk about on our Instagram @BornatRightTime.  

If you have a moment, we would really appreciate you taking the time to review, rate and follow the podcast. Then tell anyone who might listen all about it! For questions, disability hacks or to share your story, you can email TSWUpodcast@gmail.com - we would love to hear from you.