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Explore every episode of the podcast The Single Greatest Choice: For Single Women Exploring Solo Motherhood by Choice (SMBC), Fertility, and Having a Baby on Their Own Through Donor Conception or Adoption

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S7E9 My Story: How & Why I Chose to Have a Baby on My Own25 Dec 202401:03:59

For most of my life, I believed that finding the right partner was the key to starting a family. I spent nearly 20 years searching for the perfect relationship, thinking that marriage had to come first before motherhood. But at 39, I was single and I still deeply wanted to become a mom. That’s when I decided I was done waiting. I would have a baby on my own.

In this special cross-over episode, I’m the one being interviewed! Originally recorded for the Refamulating Podcast with Julia Winston, this conversation dives into my journey of reimagining family, letting go of societal expectations, and embracing solo motherhood by choice. I open up about the pivotal moments that led me to this path, my experiences with egg freezing, fertility treatments, and choosing a sperm donor, and how becoming a mother has transformed my life in ways I never expected.

In this episode on why I chose to have a baby on my own, I share:

  • How I went from searching for a partner to deciding to have a baby on my own;
  • The fears, doubts, and societal pressures I had to overcome to embrace solo motherhood;
  • Why I initially felt ashamed of my choice and how I learned to own it with pride;
  • My journey through egg freezing, fertility treatments, and choosing a sperm donor;
  • The impact of my religious upbringing, marriage, and divorce on my perspective of family;
  • How I built a strong support system and community as a single mom;
  • Why I now believe solo moms aren’t settling but actually raising the bar;
  • The unexpected freedom and joy I’ve found in this choice.

If you’re considering solo motherhood, struggling with the idea of letting go of a traditional family model, or simply curious about what it’s like to have a baby on your own, this episode is for you.

Refamulating on Instagram

https://www.refamulating.com/

👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com

S7E8 Egg Freezing, IVF & Dating as a Single Mother: Eboni K. Williams’ SMBC Story11 Dec 202401:18:23

When Eboni K. Williams froze her eggs, she had zero intention of using them, but she did it anyway, just in case. Years later, at 38, her perspective on motherhood shifted, and she was grateful she had taken steps to preserve her fertility. That decision gave her the freedom to pursue solo motherhood on her own timeline, using IVF to welcome the child she once wasn’t sure she wanted.

In this episode, Eboni, a legal expert, journalist, and media personality, shares her egg freezing journey and how it set her up to make empowered choices about her future. She opens up about the reality of IVF as a single woman, the importance of self-advocacy in healthcare (especially as a Black woman), and why she doesn’t romanticize solo motherhood, even though it’s everything she wanted. Plus, she shares how choosing solo motherhood has actually expanded her dating options instead of limiting them.

In this episode, we discuss:

  • Why Eboni froze her eggs without any intention of using them, and why she’s now so glad she did;
  • The realization at 38 that made her decide she wanted to be a mom;
  • How she chose a sperm donor and why that decision was so critical;
  • Why she went straight to IVF as a single woman due to age-related statistics;
  • The importance of having a doula and ensuring mothers’ needs are prioritized in childbirth;
  • The medical crisis around Black maternal health and the need for self-advocacy;
  • Why she doesn’t over-romanticize solo motherhood, even though it’s been the right path for her;
  • How choosing to parent alone has actually given her more dating options, not fewer.

Whether you're considering solo motherhood, navigating an egg freezing journey, or wondering what life as a single mother by choice really looks like, Eboni’s story is an eye-opening look at the power of taking control of your future.

Connect with Eboni K. Williams: Website | Instagram | Podcast | People Magazine

👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com

S6, Ep 9: Solo Mum Society founder, author and podcast host, Alisha Burns10 Jul 202401:00:26

We discuss more about…..

  • The transition from corporate life to focusing on solo motherhood.
  • The joys and challenges of parenting during a global pandemic.
  • Her mother’s health crisis and its impact on her responsibilities.
  • The process of writing her book featuring stories of 20 Australian SMBCs.
  • Strategies for achieving a better work/life balance.
  • Prioritizing experiences over material luxuries.
  • Tips and wisdom for other women considering the solo motherhood path.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone considering or already on the path to becoming a solo mom by choice. And if you missed her previous episodes on the SGC Podcast, make sure you tune into those by using the links below!


Connect with Alisha!
Follow her on social media! Website | Podcast | @solomumsociety  | @noneedforprincecharming
Learn more and check out her latest book HERE

Mentioned Resources

S1, Ep 14: No Need for Prince Charming with Alisha Burns

S4, Ep 3: Books For Your Child's Bookshelf

Your Dream Life Starts Here by Kristina Karlsson

👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com

S6, Ep 8: “Accidental” SMBC through foster to open adoption with Elizabeth Friedland26 Jun 202401:04:08

We discuss more about…..

  • Elizabeth’s journey to fostering and adoption.
  • Balancing professional life with motherhood.
  • The emotional and logistical challenges of fostering.
  • dating and introducing our children to a future partner.
  • Building and relying on a support system.
  • Insights and advice for those considering fostering or adoption.

Connect with Elizabeth!
Website | Instagram | Instant Mom Podcast

Check out the Central General Store!
Website | Instagram

Learn more about the SGC Childbirth 101 Class for solo moms! 

👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com

S6, Ep 7: SMBC to two through adoption with Emily Driscoll12 Jun 202400:49:36

We discuss more about…..

  • Emily's initial adoption research and the steps involved in the process.
  • The emotional journey and uncertainties of getting matched.
  • The costs and logistical aspects of adopting in the U.S.
  • Adjusting to motherhood and balancing work with childcare.
  • The importance of support and strong friendships in solo motherhood.

👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com

S6, Ep 6: Celine Charlotte, a quick journey from considering to parenting29 May 202401:11:22

We discuss more about…..

  • Celine's transition into embracing single motherhood.
  • The challenges and emotional journey of egg retrieval and embryo transfer.
  • Moving from the Netherlands to Sedona, and eventually to New York City.
  • The vital role of community and support for SMBCs.
  • Balancing business and motherhood, and the importance of surrounding oneself with supportive influences.
  • Celine’s birth and postpartum experience. 


Connect with Celine!
Follow her on social media! Instagram | Website | Media

More info about coaching and community groups at  www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coaching

👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com

S6, Ep 5: Luisa Ruge, SMBC in Colombia15 May 202400:59:00

We discuss more about…..

  • What the fertility process looks like in Colombia
  • The raw emotions while undergoing IV
  • Deciding whether or not to have a second child
  • Support and expectations during pregnancy and postpartum
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More info about 1:1 coaching, group coaching and community groups with The Single Greatest Choice at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/

👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com

S6, Ep 4: Danielle Winston, The Seed Scout01 May 202400:58:54

When Danielle and Paige were ready to grow their family, they knew the route of a traditional sperm bank wasn't right for them.  They went to great lengths to  find a known donor by tapping into their own network and doing a TON of legwork.  After walking that path themselves, they decided to create The Seed Scout to help other families who were looking for options beyond the big, impersonal and deeply flawed major cryobanks.

We discuss more about…..

  • The journey of exploring alternative paths to parenthood beyond traditional sperm banks.
  • The significance of building trusting relationships with potential donors.
  • Establishing The Seed Scout as a business.
  • The need for ethical and transparent practices in the donor conception industry.
  • Acknowledging donors as individuals and fostering a supportive environment.


Connect with The Seed Scout!
Follow them on social media! Website | Instagram | TikTok

👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com

S6, Ep 3: thoughts on a second child as a SMBC17 Apr 202400:51:51
If you’ve been going back and forth about whether or not to have a second child as a SMBC, you’re not alone! I frequently get asked about this topic, and it’s one that’s on my mind a lot these days. From making decisions about egg and embryo freezing to deciding on spacing between children to weighing the pros and cons of being “one and done”...there’s a lot to think about! In this episode, I’m opening the conversation and asking SMBCs with one or more kids to share their thoughts about growing their families. What drives their desire to add more, or conversely, what factors help them decide their family is complete as it is? These audio clips provide a range of perspectives and bring up lots of important considerations. As always, the goal of this podcast is to help women like you and me feel less alone, and I hope these reflections help to do that in some small way no matter where you are in your motherhood journey! 👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com
S6, Ep 2: Meredith Kate, host of The Backup Plan Podcast03 Apr 202400:56:34

For years, Meredith and her gay best friend had a running joke that if they were both still single without kids by a certain point, they’d have a child together. Recently, Meredith decided it was time to take that joke seriously. In our conversation, she’ll explain more about her decision, the arrangements she’s making with her known donor, and how she’s prepping for her future life as a single mom. 

We discuss more about…..

  • ICI/IUI vs IVF
  • Prioritizing community as a single mom
  • Finding a doctor that’s right for you
  • Practical considerations when working with a known donor
  • Living with her supportive mom

Check out The Backup Plan Podcast!
Website | Instagram | TikTok | Youtube
Mentioned Resources
Cosmo article with Lala Kent

👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com

S6, Ep 1: Carla Allen, SMBC through gestational surrogacy20 Mar 202400:50:37

Carla shares her experience from exploring surrogacy options to the complex matching process and the major impact of spiritual faith on her decision-making. She also reflects on the important trust and connection required in the surrogate relationship, and the joys and challenges of pregnancy through the lens of surrogacy. Join us as Carla's story inspires and illuminates the possibilities of motherhood that go beyond conventional norms, embracing the transformative power of love as a single mom by choice.

We discuss more about…..

  • Carla’s infertility journey and Adenomyosis diagnosis.
  • Navigating the gestational surrogacy process.
  • The physical, mental, and spiritual toll of being fully present for the surrogate mother.
  • The intersection of faith and fertility.

Mentioned Resources

https://www.familymatchconsulting.com/

👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com

S5, Ep 10: Keina Newell, Financial Coach13 Dec 202300:50:51

Connect with Keina!
Website | Instagram | Facebook | Podcast

Mentioned Resources

Money Files - 96 | From Finances to Motherhood: Let’s Talk Money Coaching

Check out the SGC Directory!
Email Katie for the password: katie@singlegreatestchoice.com

Join us in El Cuyo, Mexico March 10-15, 2024!

www.singlegreatestchoice.com/el-cuyo-2024

👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com

S7E7 Adopting a Child as a Single Black Woman Based Overseas With SMBC Richelle Carey27 Nov 202400:55:20

Are you waiting for a partner to give you the ‘green light’ to become a mom? For Richelle Carey, the answer became clear in her mid-40s: She wasn’t going to wait anymore. After freezing her eggs at 42 and attempting IVF at 46, Richelle realized she wasn’t attached to biological motherhood. What she truly wanted was to become a mom. That’s when she shifted her focus to adopting a child as a single woman while living overseas.

In this episode, Richelle shares her deeply personal journey of choosing solo motherhood, navigating the adoption process as a single woman, and building her family on her own terms. She opens up about the challenges and rewards of international adoption, the emotional process of bonding with a child, and why prioritizing her own health and happiness made her a better parent.

In this episode on adopting a child as a single woman, we discuss:

  • Richelle’s journey from egg freezing and IVF to adoption as a single woman;
  • What led her to stop waiting for a partner and embrace solo motherhood;
  • The process of adopting a child as a single Black woman while living overseas;
  • How adoption matching works and the role of an adoption consultant;
  • Addressing common fears about bonding with an adopted child;
  • How solo moms can confidently talk to their children about their origin story;
  • The importance of prioritizing personal health as a single parent;
  • Richelle’s perspective on whether she’ll expand her family as an SMBC;
  • And the empowering realization that solo moms can do “big things”, and do them well.

If you’re considering solo motherhood or exploring what it takes to adopt as a single woman, Richelle’s story will give you the inspiration and practical insight you need to take the next step.

Want to check out some of Richelle's incredible work and content as a broadcaster and SMBC advocate?  You can find her on her WEBSITE, INSTAGRAM, and TikTok.

👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com

S5, Ep 9: Laura High, donor conceived advocate29 Nov 202301:08:33

In this episode, we discuss more about…..

  • Advocating for regulations and safety within the sperm donation industry.
  • The dangers of excessively large sibling groups.
  • Practical advice for prospective parents seeking donors.
  • How to support donor-conceived children.
  • Legislative initiatives such as the HR451 fertility fraud legislation.


Connect with Laura!
Follow her on social media! Instagram | Website | TikTok | Podcast 
Watch Laura’s TikTok video rating sperm banks 

Check out the SGC Directory!
Email Katie for the password: katie@singlegreatestchoice.com

More info about coaching and community groups at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coaching

Join us in El Cuyo, Mexico March 10-15, 2024!

www.singlegreatestchoice.com/el-cuyo-2024

👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com

S5, Ep 8: a sperm donor's perspective with Dylan Stone-Miller15 Nov 202301:08:29

In this episode, we discuss more about…..

  • Lack of regulation in the sperm donation industry.
  • Dylan's personal journey, navigating the emotional complexities of moving from being an unknown to known donor.
  • Ethical considerations and best practices for parents and donors.
  • The shifts in attitudes among donor-conceived children as social norms and parenting practices are changing.
  • The complexities of navigating roles and relationships with each of Dylan’s recipient families individually.
  • Dylan's advocacy work and writing project focused on bringing more awareness to what needs to change with donor conception.

Connect with Dylan!
Follow him on social media! Website | Instagram | TikTok

Check out these organizations in the donor conception space! 
U.S. Donor Conceived Council: www.usdcc.org
Donor Conceived Community: donorconceivedcommunity.org

Mentioned Resources
We Are Donor Conceived 2020 Survey Report

More info about coaching and retreats www.singlegreatestchoice.com/

👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com

S5, Ep 7: fertility law with reproductive attorney Rose Pondel02 Nov 202300:59:28

We discuss more about…..

  • Rose's transition from corporate law to fertility law.
  • Sperm banks vs known donors: legal insights.
  • Finding a reproductive attorney and questions to ask.
  • Legal complexities of egg and embryo donations.
  • Challenges in the world of fertility law.


Connect with Rose!
Follow her on social media! Instagram | Website

More info about coaching and community groups at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coaching

👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com

S5, Ep 6: travel tips with travel network innovator and SMBC Julie Munsch18 Oct 202301:02:18

In our conversation, Julie takes us through the hurdles of healing from past traumas, addressing fertility challenges, and how she first became a mom. She is extremely passionate about parents teaching their children how to become a part of their lives and encourages moms to take that vacation, kids in tow! She provides incredible tips on traveling with kids as a single parent that you will not want to miss. Trust me, she’s the expert, so get ready to take some notes!

We discuss more about…..

  • Fitting our children into our lives, not the other way around.
  • Adoption and healing from past trauma.
  • Fertility challenges and the decision to be a single mom.
  • The legal aspects of her parenting arrangement.
  • Julie’s best travel tips as a single parent.

Connect with Julie!

Follow her on social media! Instagram | Website |Podcast – Launching Nov 2023 – Sign up to receive updates

Mentioned Resources - Check out these resorts with baby clubs & childcare options!  All can be booked with Julie’s agency – www.influencedtravelagency.com


More info about coaching and community groups at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coaching

Join us in Sedona December 29 - January 2! www.singlegreatestchoice.com/retreats-sedona-2024

👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com

S5, Ep 5: first comes baby carriage with now-coupled SMBC with Becky Thompson04 Oct 202301:03:27

In this episode, we discuss more about…..

  • Becky’s decision to be a single mom by choice.
  • Fertility issues and the importance of finding a doctor you can trust.
  • Seeking support through online communities.
  • Dating as a single mom by choice.
  • How Becky unexpectedly found love.
  • Growing a blended family. 

More info about coaching and community groups at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coaching

Join us in Sedona December 29 - January 2! www.singlegreatestchoice.com/retreats-sedona-2024

👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com

S5, Ep 4: unconventional families with writer and SMBC thinker Sara Graybeal20 Sep 202300:57:14

Throughout our discussion, Sara opens up about the series of events that led to the birth of her son, Micah, as well as her deliberate (sort of) decision to embrace single motherhood. We explore the advantages and challenges of co-parenting, examine the various choices available for expanding one's family with a second child, and gain insights into her journey within the coaching realm.

We discuss more about…..

  • Defying norms and “choosing” an unconventional family structure.
  • Co-parenting arrangements.
  • Pursuing new relationships as a single mom.
  • Knowing how/when to have a second child.
  • The significant role of connection between loved ones.


Connect with Sara!
Follow her on social media! Instagram | Website | Podcast

Mentioned Resources

Lunchbreak Journaling For Moms: https://www.saragraybeal.com/lunch-break-journaling-for-moms

Supercharge Your Creativity: https://www.saragraybeal.com/superchargeyourcreativity

More info about coaching and community groups at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coaching

Join us in Sedona December 29 - January 2!

www.singlegreatestchoice.com/retreats-sedona-2024

👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com

S5, Ep 3: solo mum survival with Australian SMBC Rachel Toyer06 Sep 202300:45:55

In this episode, we discuss more about…..

  • What led Rachel to desire to become a single mom by choice.
  • The unexpected turns in the search for a donor.
  • How she’s changed since becoming a mom.
  • Navigating pregnancy and postpartum while doing it solo.
  • Launching her Instagram account and handling the critics.  

    Connect with Rachel!
    Follow her on social media! Instagram | Facebook
     

Mentioned Resources
Instagram Reel on the psychological damage of not having a dad.

We Are Family by Susan Golombok: https://www.amazon.com/We-Are-Family-Transformation-Children/dp/1541758641
 

More info about coaching and community groups at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coaching

Join us in Sedona December 29 - January 2!

www.singlegreatestchoice.com/retreats-sedona-2024


👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com

S5, Ep 2: postpartum doula, lactation & sleep consultant and SMBC23 Aug 202300:52:25

Elizabeth wears multiple hats as a postpartum doula, lactation counselor (soon-to-be consultant), infant massage instructor, and infant sleep consultant. After years of dedicated work, she took a courageous step towards single parenthood and welcomed her son in the midst of the pandemic. Join us as we delve into her fascinating journey, exploring her roles as a supportive professional and a mother who embraces the beauty of non-traditional family structures.

We discuss more about…..

  • Elizabeth's journey to becoming a single parent.
  • Her unique experience of selecting a donor.
  • How she’s preparing for baby #2.
  • Navigating career paths and growing her skills.
  • Balancing professional and personal life as an entrepreneur. 

Handling life’s transitions while maintaining her empowering roles. 

Connect with Elizabeth!
www.empoweringmama.com
Follow her on social media! Instagram | Facebook | Tiktok
Enroll now for The Thriving Postpartum Course!

Mentioned Resources
Big Brother Learns All About Babies by Itty Bitty Newborn
 

More info about coaching and community groups at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coaching

Join us in Sedona December 29 - January 2!

www.singlegreatestchoice.com/retreats-sedona-2024

👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com

S5, Ep 1: chosen family with Kiara Rae Schuh, donor conceived daughter of a SMBC09 Aug 202300:55:52

Through her work as an author and speaker, Kiara has been on a transformative path connecting with donor-conceived children and prospective parents, opening the door to a world often overlooked in mainstream narratives. In our conversation, she describes more about her journey of self-discovery, meeting her donor siblings, and the beauty of creating her own family on her terms.

We discuss more about…..

  • Writing Chosen Family and connecting with donor-conceived children.
  • The power of honesty and representation in shaping Kiara's positive story.
  • Redefining family and embracing the concept of chosen family.
  • Building strong bonds with donor siblings and fostering connections.
  • Embracing solo parenthood and reframing perspectives on motherhood.


Connect with Kiara!
www.kiararaeschuh.com
Follow her on IG: @kiararaeschuh
Chosen Family is available now on Amazon!

More info about SGC coaching and community groups at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coaching

👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com

S4, Ep 10: Meet Chekwube, SMBC to be14 Jun 202300:50:41
In this episode, Katie interviews another yet another smart, creative, soulful and wise SMBC in the making (seriously...I am so blown away by the women who are making this choice. It never gets old!). Chekwube is a 31 year old Black queer femme novelist, poet, artist, and professor living and working in Los Angeles. Her warmth and intentionality shine through, as well as her desire for motherhood. I hope you enjoy meeting her as much as I did! You can connect with Chekwube and learn more about her work through her website: https://codanladi.com/ More info about coaching and community groups at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coaching👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com
S7E6 Kids or Childfree? Considering (Solo) Motherhood With Keltie Maguire13 Nov 202400:56:10

Deciding whether to have kids is one of the most personal, and often most complex, choices a woman can make. For many, considering solo motherhood brings up even more questions: Should I wait for a partner? Can I do this on my own? What if I’m not sure I want kids at all?

In this episode, I sit down with Keltie Maguire, coach and host of the Kids or Childfree Podcast, to explore what it really looks like to make an intentional decision about parenthood. Keltie grew up assuming she’d become a mom, because that’s just what women did. But as she moved through her 30s, she started questioning whether that path was truly right for her. Without role models for a consciously child-free life, the decision felt isolating and overwhelming. Now, after making the choice that’s best for her, she dedicates her work to helping other women navigate this deeply personal decision.

This isn’t a conversation about choosing not to become a mom; It’s about choosing the right path for you, whether that means having a baby on your own or embracing a child-free life with confidence.

In this episode on considering (solo) motherhood, we discuss:

  • The struggle of making the life-changing decision of whether to have children;
  • Why considering solo motherhood is often more complex than a simple yes or no;
  • The lack of visible role models for women who choose a childfree life;
  • How societal expectations pressure women into explaining their parenting choices;
  • How Keltie supports women in making the right decision for themselves;
  • Holding space for grief and creating a beautiful life, even when it doesn’t look like you imagined.

If you’re single in your 30s or 40s and feeling uncertain about whether solo motherhood is right for you, this conversation will give you clarity, perspective, and reassurance that you’re not alone.

👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com

S4, Ep 9: Meet Halima, SMBC to be24 May 202300:48:02
I dare you to listen to this episode and NOT be inspired! Halima is a woman who is living life to it's fullest. A few years back, she began the process of shedding every part of life that didn't feel like the truest version of herself - and I am not talking about cleaning out her closet. We are talking about the big things...her job, her marriage, her home - Halima let it all go in order to pursue her deepest desire for motherhood. I am so excited for you to meet my friend and share in her absolute joy at the idea of becoming a solo parent. Halima is one of those people who makes me so very thankful to be on this solo parenting path, and I can't wait to share her story with you. If you want to connect with her, she's @halimaanderson on IG. Enjoy!👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com
S4, Ep 8: Meet Meghann, SMBC to two10 May 202300:36:33
Meghann shares her incredible story of overcoming loss and serious health complications while on her path to solo motherhood. Listen to hear how she beat the odds and stopped at nothing to create her beautiful family as a solo mom to two beautiful donor-embryo conceived kids. Meghann is a trauma surgeon, a pregnancy loss survivor and an amputee. She's had many opportunities to allow circumstances to drag her down, but she's risen above them all to create a beautiful life for herself and her two children. You can connect with Meg on the Quora platfrom @Meghann Kaiser. For more information about The Single Greatest Choice Yoga & Coaching Retreat, visit www.singlegreatestchoice.com/retreats. To enroll in upcoming group coaching, visit www.singlegreatestchoice.com/group-coaching👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com
S4, Ep 7: meet Anna, almost a single mother by choice26 Apr 202300:44:30
In this episode, Katie talks to friend and former coaching client Anna. Anna worked with Katie back in early 2021 as she pursued her own solo mom journey in the midst of the covid-19 pandemic. After a significant breakup and a move back to her hometown, Anna decided to continue dating while she waited for the covid-19 vaccine to become widely available before she began trying to conceive with a donor. This episode tells Anna's story - one that didn't turn out the way she planned! For more information about coaching, community groups, and the Single Greatest Choice Yoga + Coaching Retreat, visit www.singlegreatestchoice.com👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com
S4, Ep 6: two years as an SMBC with Katie B.12 Apr 202300:47:05

In this episode, Katie mentions @giftearlybird, an investing app where you can save for your child's future.  If you create an account and use the code gifteb.co/3FZc2ob, you'll automatically get $15 deposited in your child's account.  The app is super cool and customer service is excellent.  I highly recommend this method of creating a little nest egg for your little one's future! 

👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com

S4, Ep 5: meet Christina, SMBC29 Mar 202300:58:20
Christina Bernhard is a SMBC in Austin, Texas who Katie feels lucky to call a friend. Katie and Christina connected first on Instagram, then in real life. They share a passion for thought work and self-coaching, and both have used these tools to create a life they truly love as single mothers by choice. You'll love getting to know Christina, and I hope you'll go follow her and meet her gorgeous baby girl Aria over on Instagram @mschristinab. As always, you can find more info about the Single Greatest Choice Coaching & Community Groups over at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coaching👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com
S4, Ep 4: meet Anne, single mother by choice15 Mar 202300:58:10
In this episode, Katie chats with her friend and coaching client, Anne. Anne found the Single Greatest Choice community just as she was beginning her journey to conceive her baby girl. In this episode, Anne divulges what it's like to move forward with solo motherhood while still holding a deep desire for both partnership and travel. Anne is someone who will inspire you to go after it all! You can find her on instagram @alyneis424. Find out more about SGC coaching and community group opportunities at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coaching 👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com
S4, Ep 3: books for your child's bookshelf01 Mar 202300:31:51

www.myperfectfamilybook.com

@myperfectfamilybook

@noneedforprincecharming

www.thejourneytoyouchildrensbook.com

@thejourneytoyouchildrensbook

"You're My Little..." boardbook series by Nicola Edwards and illustrated by Natalie Marshall

www.pinholepress.com for creating your own spiral-bound board books to tell your child's story

The Single Greatest Choice Coaching

www.singlegreatestchoice.com/retreats

www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coaching

Get Unstuck Week, March 13-17 - one hour coaching session on the topic of your choice, $55/hour - filling up fast

SGC Community Group - Thursdays, March 23 - April 27 - enrolling now!

👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com

S4, Ep 2: meet Liz, single mother by choice15 Feb 202300:40:46
In this episode, Katie talks with friend and former coaching client, Liz. While exploring the idea of solo motherhood by choice, Liz came across The Single Greatest Choice podcast and became one of Katie's early one-on-one coaching clients. You'll hear us discuss our shared apprehensions about conceiving via donor sperm and raising donor-conceived children. Spoiler alert: Liz worked through her concerns and is now a solo mama to the most adorable baby girl, Mira! Her process is a familiar one: research, research, research, then jump off the cliff! I am sure so many of you will relate to Liz's journey. You can find out more about SGC coaching opportunities at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coaching👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com
S4, Ep 1: meet Lindsay, single mother by choice01 Feb 202300:51:17
Welcome to a new season of the podcast! In this episode, Katie chats with her friend and coaching client, Lindsay. Lindsay first found Katie through the Single Greatest Choice podcast, then chose to participate in both Group Coaching and the first ever Single Greatest Choice Community Group. Lindsay shares her journey to solo motherhood and some of the resources that have helped her along the way. You can find out more about SGC coaching opportunities at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coaching👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com
S3 Bonus: 2022 end of year update with Katie B.23 Dec 202200:45:28
Catch up with Katie after a long break from the podcast. Hear answers to your questions about solo motherhood, the latest on coaching and retreats, and find out Katie's favorite parts of life with a 20 month old toddler!👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com
S7E5 Becoming a Single Mother by Choice After Divorce with SMBC Jamela Black30 Oct 202401:14:29

When Jamela’s marriage ended at 37, she wasn’t interested in dating. Instead she decided to become a Single Mother by Choice (SMBC). With a deep desire for motherhood and a clear vision of the kind of family she wanted to create, she embraced solo motherhood by choice with the full support of her mom, who even helped her choose the right sperm donor. Now, as a mother to 4-month-old twin girls, Jamela shares her journey of resilience, self-advocacy, and creating the life she truly wanted as a Black single woman.

Her story is a testament to the power of making bold choices, letting go of societal expectations, and prioritizing your own happiness. In this conversation, Jamela opens up about the emotional process of mourning both her marriage and the traditional family dream, the challenges and rewards of being a single Black mother, and why she sees solo motherhood as the greatest comeback.

In this episode on becoming a single mother by choice after divorce, we discuss:

  • The pressures women often feel to fit men into their lives to fulfill societal expectations;
  • Jamela’s decision to choose solo motherhood after divorce at 37;
  • How her mom played an active role in her decision to become a single mother by choice;
  • The emotional journey of grieving a marriage while embracing a new vision for family;
  • The challenges and rewards of being a single mom by choice as a Black woman;
  • Why self-advocacy in the fertility process is so important;
  • The biggest benefit of solo parenting, according to Jamela;
  • And more!

If you’re considering becoming a Single Mother by Choice, navigating life after divorce, or wondering if solo motherhood is the right path for you, Jamela’s story will inspire you to embrace your own choices with confidence.

Connect with Jamela on Instagram 

👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com

S3, Ep 5: using coaching strategies to choose the "perfect" donor31 Aug 202200:39:37

In this episode, Katie shares her favorite coaching tools by applying them to the sometimes emotional experience of choosing a donor as a solo parent.  To learn more about these top 3 tools, visit:


You'll also learn about some upcoming ways to work with Katie, including very limited availability for one-on-one coaching, an upcoming discussion group in Oct-Nov, group coaching in Dec 2022, and the first ever Single Greatest Choice yoga and coaching retreat in Summer 2023!  Find out more at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coaching

👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com

S3, Ep 4: choosing a known donor with Stephanie & Porter20 Jul 202201:07:24
Katie talks donor selection with Stephanie, solo mom to Porter George. Stephanie made the shift from considering an open ID donor through a cryobank to selecting a known donor after doing research on the perspectives of donor conceived individuals. You can follow Stephanie and Porter @mamasteph_np on Instagram!👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com
S3, Ep 3: five SMBCs share how they chose their donor29 Jun 202200:42:02
In this episode, five women share their stories and perspective about choosing a donor on the path to becoming a Single Mother by Choice.👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com
S3, Ep 2: a surprise donor sibling connection with Holly & Tatiana18 May 202200:41:25
Holly and Katie describe an unbelievable discovery on the path to solo motherhood. You don't want to miss this story! 👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com
S3, Ep 1: a donor connection with Merav & Noa27 Apr 202200:59:26
Katie has a conversation with another SMC who shares her donor. That's right, our kids are biological half siblings! Connecting with donor sibling families has been a highlight on the SMC path. This conversation will give you an idea of why!👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com
S2 Bonus: one year as a SMBC with Katie B.20 Apr 202200:31:06
👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com
S2 Bonus: I'm (kinda) back! - an update from the trenches with Katie B.08 Feb 202200:32:21
👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com
S2 Bonus: Sarah Parente, Sacred Work Doula25 Jun 202100:55:15
https://www.sacredworkdoula.com/ IG: @sacredworkdoula👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com
S2 Bonus: Katie's birth story and postpartum experience11 Jun 202100:50:32
👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com
S2, Ep 8: taking a break from the pod and a bonus mini-episode24 Feb 202100:15:46

In this episode, I mention a few courses I am working through in my final weeks of pregnancy.  Here are links in case you are interested:

The Real Deal Childbirth Education (local to Austin, but currently online via Zoom)

The Positive Birth Company Hypnobirthing Digital Pack

Better Birth Stories Online Hypnobirthing Course

Austin Born Infant CPR + Choking + Safety Course (online, on demand)

Taking Cara Babies - First Five Months Bundle

👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com

S7E4 The Emotional & Physical Reality of IVF for Single Women with Whitney Foley16 Oct 202400:56:11

Pursuing IVF as a single woman is a deeply personal decision; one that comes with emotional, physical, and financial challenges. For Whitney Foley, the desire to become a mom was stronger than her fear of doing it alone. At 34, after years of dating and waiting for the “right” partner, she realized she didn’t want to leave motherhood up to chance. Instead, she took control of her fertility and embarked on the journey to solo motherhood through IVF.

Whitney opens up about the highs and lows of multiple retrievals, failed transfers, and the unwavering determination that led to the birth of her son. She shares how social media became a powerful tool for connecting with other women navigating fertility for single women, and how she continues to follow her professional passions while embracing motherhood.

In this episode on pursuing IVF as a single woman, Whitney shares:

  • What led to her decision to pursue IVF as a single woman and her ‘aha’ moment;
  • The reactions from her family and how they supported her choice to become a single mother by choice;
  • The reality of undergoing four egg retrievals and three transfers before a successful pregnancy;
  • How Instagram helped her connect with a supportive SMBC community;
  • Handling societal reactions to pregnancy without a partner;
  • Her transition into motherhood, postpartum experiences, and the joy of raising her son;
  • How she launched iWellness Center as its founder and CEO while parenting solo.

If you’re considering having a baby on your own or exploring IVF as a single woman, this episode will give you inspiration, reassurance, and a look at the realities of this path.

You can connect with Whitney on Instagram @wjfoley and check out her business at www.iwellnesscenter.org.

👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com

S2, Ep 7: a "thinker's" perspective on considering solo motherhood17 Feb 202100:45:25
Talitha is a successful, single woman in her 30s who has always known she wanted to be a mom. She took proactive steps in her early thirties to preserve her fertility, but now that she’s into her mid-thirties, she’s questioning what’s next. Should she freeze more eggs? Maybe embryos? Keep searching for that partner and a more traditional route to motherhood, or start considering doing it on her own? Talitha is open and honest about the struggles of being in the midst of this difficult choice of what to do about our finite fertility when life doesn’t work out the way we planned. I know listeners will relate to her story, as it’s one many of us have lived as well. You can connect with Talitha on Instagram @talithabaker.👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com
S2, Ep 6: solo foster to adoptive mama, Lindsay10 Feb 202100:55:59
Lindsay shares her story of choosing to pursue solo motherhood through the foster-to-adopt system in the Los Angeles area. Listen as she shares the ins and outs of the process, as well as her own thoughts and feelings about marriage, dating, solo parenting and more. Lindsay shares great tips and advice for anyone considering solo parenthood, whether through pregnancy, fostering or adoption. I know you are going to fall in love with her big heart and generous spirit. Thank you Lindsay for sharing your story! You can connect with Lindsay at: llamallamafostermomma@gmail.com Instagram @mysocalledfosterlife👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com
S2, Ep 5: Whitney Bischoff Angel, fertility nurse and patient advocate at OVA Egg Freezing03 Feb 202100:49:06
This week’s guest is Whitney Bischoff Angel, and egg freezing nurse specialist at Ova Egg Freezing in Chicago.  Fertility preservation is her career path, but it is also quite personal.  Whitney chose to freeze her own eggs back in 2013, and she used her experience on the reality TV series The Bachelor as a platform to bring awareness to issues of women’s reproductive health and fertility.  In this episode, Whitney will share about her own experience with egg freezing and motherhood, and she will also provide valuable information for listeners who are just beginning to explore fertility preservation through egg freezing.  I am so happy to have Whitney on the show today, especially for listeners who are concerned about their fertility, but not quite ready to make the leap into parenthood. Ova Egg Freezing can be found at: (312)800-0228 www.ovaeggfreezing.com whitney@ovaeggfreezing.com IG: @ovaeggfreezing Stay tuned in the last 10 minutes of the show to hear a bonus mini-episode from an anonymous podcast listener!👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com
S2, Ep 4: cancer previvor and double donor SMBC with Maggie27 Jan 202100:53:30
This week I had the opportunity to talk with Maggie, who learned she has a gene mutation that put her at significantly higher risk for both breast and ovarian cancer. So on top of dealing with the ticking of the biological clock that we all hear to a certain extent, Maggie had even more pressing biological matters to address on her path to motherhood. To me, Maggie’s story stands out because these are exactly the kinds of circumstances that can make us feel hopeless and helpless, like a victim in our own story...unless we chose to write a different, more empowering narrative...which is exactly what Maggie has done. Listen as she shares the ups and downs of her journey in a very candid way. I hope that you’ll learn from her and be inspired by how she has persevered and chosen to see the good in very challenging circumstances. You can connect with Maggie on Instagram @mwilson102 👩‍👧‍👦The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you in every stage of your SMBC journey through  1:1 coaching, community groups, the SGC Village membership community, and retreats and SMBC family trips. Reach out to Katie over at katie@singlegreatestchoice.com
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