The Single Christian Woman | Faith and Relationships, Loneliness, God’s Plan for You, Christian Dating Advice, Spiritual Growth – Details, episodes & analysis

Hey gorgeous friend.

🤯 Ever feel like your happiness is tied to how someone else treats you? Same here. I used to believe that if I could just manage the people in my life—especially that one guy I was totally crushing on—I’d finally be happy. Spoiler alert: it didn’t work. 🙃

In this episode, we’re diving into a mind-blowing truth that changed everything for me: your relationships are simply your thoughts about another person. Yep, it’s not about how much time you spend together, how often they text, or whether they remember your birthday. It’s about what you think about them, what you think they think about you, and—most importantly—what you think about yourself.

🎯 Here's what you'll discover: 1️⃣ Why trying to control others is exhausting and keeps you stuck. 2️⃣ The 3 parts of every relationship (and how to improve all of them). 3️⃣ How your relationship with yourself shapes every connection in your life.

Ready to reclaim your power and start creating better, more loving relationships? Let’s get to it! 💖

Grab that diet coke, put in your ear buds and let’s talk friend to friend.

What’s next?

1. Love-Ready Lab registration: https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/lab
2. Become an Insider! https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider
3. Book your FREE 50-minute call! https://SLCcalendar.as.me/?appointmentType=67361443
4. Follow the show and share this episode with all your single girlfriends.
5. Ask me anything! Email me at sharon@sharonlamarcoaching.com
6. Check out how you can work with me as your private self-confidence coach. https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/coaching
7. Join our Facebook community at The Single Christian Woman! https://www.facebook.com/groups/797710822384649

Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.

💖 What if singleness isn’t a problem—but a place of growth, purpose, and creativity?  What if singleness is the door to love?

Hey gorgeous friends! If you’ve ever thought, “Why am I still single? What’s wrong with me? Is this just something to get through until life really starts?”—this episode is for YOU.

Here’s the truth: Singleness isn’t a waiting room. It’s a dynamic, active space where collaboration with God, creativity, and self-discovery happen. It’s a season full of purpose—a time to learn how to love deeply and unconditionally, starting with the person who matters most: YOU.

In this episode, we’ll explore how to quiet the drama queen in your brain, embrace this season as a time of limitless potential, and take steps toward building the life you love—with God as your partner, not your taskmaster. Ready to see your singleness in a whole new light? Let’s dive in! 🌟

Grab that diet coke, put in your ear buds and let’s talk friend to friend.

What’s next?

1. Love-Ready Lab registration: https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/lab
2. Become an Insider! https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider
3. Book your FREE 50-minute call! https://SLCcalendar.as.me/?appointmentType=67361443
4. Follow the show and share this episode with all your single girlfriends.
5. Ask me anything! Email me at sharon@sharonlamarcoaching.com
6. Check out how you can work with me as your private self-confidence coach. https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/coaching
7. Join our Facebook community at The Single Christian Woman! https://www.facebook.com/groups/797710822384649

Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.

Hey my gorgeous friend,

Are you finding yourself feeling pretty dang frustrated because someone, maybe that guy you are interested in, just isn’t doing it right? 

You know what I mean.  There you are laying down all the clues that you like him and want him to like you back and it just isn’t happening.

Or maybe, it isn’t a particular guy who is doing it wrong.  Maybe it is your sister, mother or friend who is frustrating you.  They just aren’t behaving correctly. 

They aren’t doing or saying the things that you know they should.  If they just, did it your way, you could feel happy, secure, wanted and loved. 

But they aren’t doing it and so you not feeling to happy, secure, wanted or loved. 

Maybe if you just wait long enough, they will come to their senses and do it right and you can feel all those good feelings.  So, you wait and wait some more.  All the while being more and more frustrated.

There is a better way my friend.  And that is what this episode is all about.  You getting what you want.

Let’s jump in.  Grab that diet coke, put in your ear buds and let’s talk friend to friend.

What’s next?

1. Add your name to the list for my 1-hour LIVE Letting Go of Loneliness workshop https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/workshop
2. Follow the show and share this episode with all your single girlfriends.
3. Ask me anything! Email me at sharon@sharonlamarcoaching.com
4. Check out how you can work with me as your private love coach. https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/coaching
5. Become an Insider! sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider
6. Join our Facebook community at The Single Christian Woman! https://www.facebook.com/groups/797710822384649

Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.

Hey my gorgeous friend,

Are you already feeling disappointed rather than excited at the thought of going out on one more first date?  Are you beginning to believe it is less painful to just stay with the feeling of loneliness rather than trying again?

Is it hard to keep the promise you made yourself when you joined that dating app to spend 30 minutes each evening engaging with your matches?  You find you would just about do anything other than what you promised you would do.

Or, has the whole idea of trying to find a companion become too painful to even try.  You are sure that you aren’t attractive enough, smart enough, thin enough so why even try.

Listen my love, there is a better way, a less painful way to create the life you desire.  All that is required is self-confidence.  You don’t have it now, that is why you are ready to give up or have already given up. 

In this episode I share with you the 3 aspects of self-confidence that are required for you to create the life you want.  The truth is you have been trying for a long time to create that life and have not been successful.  When you develop self-confidence, the way I teach it, you will have exactly what you need!

Let’s jump in.  Grab that diet coke, put in your ear buds and let’s talk friend to friend.

What’s next?

1. Add your name to the list for my 1-hour LIVE Letting Go of Loneliness workshop https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/workshop
2. Follow the show and share this episode with all your single girlfriends.
3. Ask me anything! Email me at sharon@sharonlamarcoaching.com
4. Check out how you can work with me as your private love coach. https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/coaching
5. Become an Insider! sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider
6. Join our Facebook community at The Single Christian Woman! https://www.facebook.com/groups/797710822384649

Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.

Hello my friend!

When you dream about the life that you want to be living, the first thought that comes to mind is probably “I don’t know how to get there!”

And that my friend, is a normal thought to have.  All throughout your life, when faced with something new, your brain automatically wants to know the “how”, the “way”, the “method” or “steps” of how to do the new thing.

And when it comes to living the romantic life you imagine, you think you should innately know how to get there.  That somehow, it is just supposed to happen.  I mean, come on, it is happening so easily for all the other women around you.  Why isn’t it just happening for you?  It isn’t happening because you don’t know the way for it to happen! 

Well, my gorgeous friend that is what we are going to dig into today.  I am going to teach you the two ways that are required for you to get what you want.

Let’s jump in.  Grab that diet coke, put in your ear buds and let’s talk friend to friend.

What’s next?

1. Add your name to the list for my 1-hour LIVE Letting Go of Loneliness workshop https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/workshop
2. Follow the show and share this episode with all your single girlfriends.
3. Ask me anything! Email me at sharon@sharonlamarcoaching.com
4. Check out how you can work with me as your private love coach. https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/coaching
5. Become an Insider! sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider
6. Join our Facebook community at The Single Christian Woman! https://www.facebook.com/groups/797710822384649

Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.

Hello my friend!

Are you waking up more often than not in a bad mood?  Your eyes pop open and already you feel the worry, doubt, confusion, anxiety, overwhelm, loneliness, sadness and anger settle in to your day and you haven’t even gotten out of bed.

What the heck!  Another bad day and you haven’t even had your first diet coke. 

But then why would this day be any different than yesterday, nothing has changed you are single still and it seems as if that will never change. 

You want it to change, but it hasn’t and you are believing it never will.  So, here you are living one bad day after another.  Praying it will change.  Hoping it will change. Maybe if you pray harder or hope more fervently it will change. 

Listen friend I want you to keep praying and hoping AND God and I also want you to exercise your agency to do all that is in your power to get what you want…including a better attitude.

In this episode I will share with you why you have a bad attitude and the best way to start improving that attitude.  So, grab a notebook and pen and get ready to wake up with a good attitude.

Let’s jump in.  Grab that diet coke, put in your ear buds and let’s talk friend to friend.

What’s next?

1. Add your name to the list for my 1-hour LIVE Letting Go of Loneliness workshop https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/workshop
2. Follow the show and share this episode with all your single girlfriends.
3. Ask me anything! Email me at sharon@sharonlamarcoaching.com
4. Check out how you can work with me as your private love coach. https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/coaching
5. Become an Insider! sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider
6. Join our Facebook community at The Single Christian Woman! https://www.facebook.com/groups/797710822384649

Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.

Hello my friend!

It’s Saturday morning and you look at your list of things to do and think to yourself, “I don’t want to do any of that!”

Ever done that?  Decided to do something and then not do it? 

And then Saturday evening, you are wondering what the heck happened!  How is it that you keep falling into this pattern of deciding to do something and then not doing it! 

Well, my friend, first off, know that you are not alone.  We all struggle with this pattern.  And there are two reasons why we often don’t do what we promised ourself we would do. 

In this episode I unpack those two reasons by teaching you the main reason you don’t do what you said you would do and the second reason is about a part of your brain that you may be surprised even exists!

Let’s jump in.  Grab that diet coke, put in your ear buds and let’s talk friend to friend.

What’s next?

1. Share this episode with all your single girlfriends.
2. Ask me anything!  Email me at sharon@sharonlamarcoaching.com   
3. Follow the show so you don’t miss an episode
4. Check out how you can work with me as your private love coach.  https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/coaching
5. Become an Insider!  www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider
6. Join our Facebook community at The Single Christian Woman!  https://www.facebook.com/groups/797710822384649

Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.

Hello my friend!

Are you wondering when your life will actually begin?  You know, the life that you were promised – the one where you are married and have a couple of babies.

Are you feeling stagnant and stuck as you wait for Mr. Right to come along so you can start living?

Are you thinking that God has simply forgotten about you? 

Are you believing that there is something wrong with you and that is why you are stuck in singleness?

Are you desperately hoping there is more to your life than just waiting?

If you answer any of these questions with YES! then this episode is for you.  Lean in as I blow your mind with something you were never taught – the 1st step to living happier now!

Let’s jump in.  Grab that diet coke, put in your ear buds and let’s talk friend to friend.

What’s next?

1. Share this episode with all your single girlfriends.
2. Ask me anything!  Email me at sharon@sharonlamarcoaching.com   
3. Follow the show so you don’t miss an episode
4. Check out how you can work with me as your private love coach.  https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/coaching
5. Become an Insider!  www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider
6. Join our Facebook community at The Single Christian Woman!  https://www.facebook.com/groups/797710822384649

Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.

Hello my friend!

Imagine if you…were no longer lonely.  Imagine if you had a proven method to overcome any obstacle or problem that is keeping you single.

Imagine if you knew how to let go of the self-doubt that has you questioning your next step.

Imagine if you were no longer afraid that you are either ‘too much’ or ‘not enough’ to attract men.

Imagine if you knew how to use the power of your own mind to create the future you desire.

In this episode I share the 6-steps that will move you out of imagination into reality.  A reality of finding the love you desire and deserve.

Let’s jump in.  Grab that diet coke, put in your ear buds and let’s talk friend to friend.

What’s next?

1. Share this episode with all your single girlfriends.
2. Ask me anything!  Email me at sharon@sharonlamarcoaching.com   
3. Follow the show so you don’t miss an episode
4. Check out how you can work with me as your private love coach.  https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/coaching
5. Become an Insider!  www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider
6. Join our Facebook community at The Single Christian Woman!  https://www.facebook.com/groups/797710822384649

Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.

Hello my friend!

Do you feel like you are treading water while you wait for Mr. Right to come along?

Do you believe that once he comes along then your real life begins?

What if it is when you stop treading and start swimming that you grow into the you that is in a position to see him, meet him, date him and marry him?

You are in for a treat today.  In this episode I talk with Single Expert and Author, Joyce Novak.  Listen in to our conversation to hear Joyce’s story and pro-tips that can help you stop treading and start swimming towards the life you desire.

So, let’s jump in.  Grab that diet coke, put in your ear buds and let’s talk friend to friend.

What’s next?

1. Share this episode with all your single girlfriends.
2. Ask me anything!  Email me at sharon@sharonlamarcoaching.com   
3. Follow the show so you don’t miss an episode
4. Check out how you can work with me as your private love coach.  https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/coaching
5. Become an Insider!  www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider
6. Join our Facebook community at The Single Christian Woman!  https://www.facebook.com/groups/797710822384649

Single Know More: Build a Healthy Foundation and Attract the Love You Deserve  By: Joyce Novak  (Available on Amazon and Barnes & Nobel)

Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.