Get ready to reinvent your love life with the Sex Reimagined Podcast! This isn't your awkward middle school sex ed class - we're bringing the juicy details with plenty of humor and real talk. Your hosts, Leah Piper (Tantra Sexpert) and Dr. Willow Brown (Taoist Sexpert), have a combined 40 years of turning fumbles into touchdowns in the bedroom.
Leah and Willow don't shy away from oversharing their most hilarious and cringe-worthy sex stories - all with valuable lessons so you can up your pleasure game. Each month they invite fellow sexperts to share their methods and research on everything from healing trauma to the science of orgasm. Get ready to feel empowered, laugh out loud, and maybe even blush as we redefine what fantastic sex can be.
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What would change if you stopped apologizing for your desires and started listening to your body? Pamela Madsen had it all: her high school sweetheart, two kids, and a fertility advocacy career that landed her on Oprah. Then she sat in a Korean spa with her girlfriends and her sister and listened to their stories. These women were alive, beautiful, and bursting with juicy tales, and Pamela was looking down at her own body wondering, "What happened to me being a sex goddess?" Her sex life was fine. It was efficient, it was loving, it was fine. But she wanted to feel alive like them. After a few too many encounters with practitioners and their "magic lingams," she created Back to the Body, a safe place for women's sexual awakening. Women receive touch from trained male sexological bodyworkers who keep their clothes on, wear gloves for genital touch, sign contracts, and never date clients. Full body touch, holding, and play with power help women find their voice, their desire, and their erotic power. Plus, find out why her teaching partner calls her what you'd get if Dr. Ruth, Betty Crocker, and Bettie Page had a baby. Stay for The Dish, where Leah and Willow get real about confidentiality, the triadic model, and the no dating rule.
EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS
The Korean spa moment that made Pamela crave her own sex goddess era
Men got touch, women got metaphors: the gap Pamela set out to close
Clothes on, gloves on, no dating: what makes male sexological bodywork safe for women
Why giving every woman her own practitioner ends competition and sparks sisterhood
Clearing the masculine: emptying out to a man who can hold it all
"The biological clock is finite, but the erotic clock is endless"
LINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE CAN BE FOUND ON THE WEBSITE: https://www.sexreimagined.com/blog/pamela-madsen-back-to-the-body
A New Tantra Exploration, Live in Santa Barbara Leah & Willow are hosting a live 90 minute intro night called A New Tantra Exploration, tracing this ancient practice back to where it began, breath, touch, & all. Fully clothed, beginner friendly, open to solos and couples. November 6, 2026 and January 29, 2027. Grab your seat at $25 early bird / $35 at the door | 90 min https://www.sexreimagined.com/events
The Couples Sacred Spot Retreat | Santa Barbara, Nov 6-8 We are bringing our most intimate couples workshop to California. Over three days, you will learn Sacred Spot Massage, Erotic Attunement, sensual touch as a somatic practice, and the ritual skills that change the way partners meet each other in the body. Ten couple spots only. Register Here
Erotic Polarity On-Demand Masterclass The charge between masculine & feminine energy is real & it can be consciously cultivated. Learn why it's so erotically alive, & how to work with giving, receiving, taking, & allowing, regardless of your gender or relationship structure. Register for $55 HERE
Is the resentment in your marriage actually a check engine light pointing the way back to better sex? Relationship coach Monica Tanner, host of Secrets of Happily Ever After and Amazon bestselling author of Bad Marriage Advice, joins Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown to take apart the marriage advice that keeps couples stuck. She explains why “divorce is not an option” can quietly trap you, how to let go of resentment in marriage by treating it like a dashboard warning light, and why repairing your emotional connection won’t automatically fix your sex life. Together they unpack mismatched libido in marriage, spontaneous vs responsive desire, the tangle of motherhood and desire, and Monica’s bold reframe for men: be turned on by her, and handle that turn on yourself. Then in The Dish, Leah and Willow share how novelty and pattern interrupts keep long term love juicy.
EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS
⇢ Resentment is your check engine light. Ignore it long enough and the repair gets costly.
⇢ “Divorce is not an option” can turn a marriage into a trap. Build one you both choose instead.
⇢ You can’t read the label from inside the bottle. Here’s when to bring in a coach or therapist.
⇢ Mismatched libido is the number one complaint couples bring in, and understanding spontaneous vs responsive desire changes the conversation.
⇢ Desire without obligation: why a man who can hold his own arousal is the sexiest thing to a woman.
⇢ Shame is the sneaky weed in your erotic garden, and it blocks the safety great sex needs.
A New Tantra Exploration, Live in Santa Barbara Leah & Willow are hosting a live 90 minute intro night called A New Tantra Exploration, tracing this ancient practice back to where it began, breath, touch, & all. Fully clothed, beginner friendly, open to solos and couples. November 6, 2026 and January 29, 2027. Grab your seat at $25 early bird / $35 at the door | 90 min
Mare Simone 3.0: The Tantric Orgasm That Shook the Room | #214
What if the sounds you’ve been holding back are the doorway to a full body tantric orgasm? Tantra teacher Mare Simone, a Dakini and Advanced Tantra Educator, joins us for a juicy, practice forward conversation about somatic intimacy and what it really takes to drop out of your head and into your body. Mare tells the story of the night a woman’s roaring orgasm at a San Francisco Tantra party shook the floorboards and awakened her to the power of sound. She explains why breath, sound, movement and intention work together, and how giving pain or tension a voice with your partner can turn it into a moment of real intimacy. She guides you through a tantric breathwork practice that uses pelvic squeezes to draw energy up the spine, and opens up about rocking on crystal and Shiva lingam stones, cervical massage as a portal to the bliss body, her “Om Zone,” laughgasms, and her newest exploration, the coregasm. Then stay for The Dish, where Leah and Dr. Willow unpack Mare’s inner sanctuary practice and why pleasure for its own sake might be the most spiritual thing you do all week.
EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS
Sound is the secret ingredient: when your breath becomes sound, your partner feels it too
Relaxation fuels arousal: the slower you go, the deeper the pleasure lands
Pain is a message, not something to push through: name it, and sometimes it melts on the spot
Try Mare’s breath and squeeze practice to pull energy up the spine and send it where you need healing
Meet the coregasm: Mare’s newest exploration of tantric breath meets core workouts
Build your inner sanctuary: a place of pure love you can return to before getting out of bed or mid lovemaking
A New Tantra Exploration, Live in Santa Barbara Leah & Willow are hosting a live 90 minute intro night called A New Tantra Exploration, tracing this ancient practice back to where it began, breath, touch, & all. Fully clothed, beginner friendly, open to solos and couples. November 6, 2026 and January 29, 2027. Grab your seat at $25 early bird / $35 at the door | 90 min
Kamala Devi McClure: Jealousy as a Teacher in Open Marriage | #213
What happens when you stop treating jealousy as a problem to fix and start treating it as a teacher? In episode 213, Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown sit down with tantra teacher, mystic, muse, and mentor Kamala Devi McClure. They have lived an open polyamorous marriage for 25 years, some of it in front of television cameras. Kamala Devi gets real about what ethical non-monogamy actually asks of you: honesty about your thoughts, fantasies, and desires, a shared value for growth, and the willingness to repair when things break. They walk us through the many versions of their open marriage, including a 10 page group contract, an experiment with relationship anarchy, and infidelity on both sides. We explore their new book, One Fool’s Journey, which turns the 22 Major Arcana of the tarot into chapters of their life. The Strength card is their jealousy chapter, and the Emperor card was inspired by Charles Muir. If you want to know how to handle jealousy in polyamory, how to keep an open marriage honest, or how tarot archetypes can help you rewrite your own story, this conversation is for you.
EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS
Why “open marriage” first meant open communication, not multiple lovers
The one rule everyone at the table agrees on: don’t lie and hide
Jealousy as your animal nature, and why befriending it works better than trying to conquer it
Attunement over agreements: moving from calendars and contracts to feeling your impact on each other
The Devil card and the hidden addiction to intensity on the spiritual path
In The Dish, Leah and Willow ask whether “patriarchy” still serves us or whether “power dynamics” and “conditioning” land better
A New Tantra Exploration, Live in Santa Barbara Leah & Willow are hosting a live 90 minute intro night called A New Tantra Exploration, tracing this ancient practice back to where it began, breath, touch, & all. Fully clothed, beginner friendly, open to solos and couples. November 6, 2026 and January 29, 2027. Grab your seat at $25 early bird / $35 at the door | 90 min
Leah & Dr. Willow: Presence Over Performance - How to Stop Overthinking During Sex | #212
Ever catch yourself mid lovemaking thinking about the cobweb on the ceiling, an unanswered email, or whether you'll last? In this episode of the Sex Reimagined Podcast, Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown get honest about sexual performance anxiety and how to be present during sex when your mind keeps wandering off. They unpack spectatoring, the habit Masters and Johnson identified of watching and grading yourself instead of feeling, and share the simple practices they use to cross the threshold from mind into body: anchoring into your senses, priming arousal with your own erotic thoughts, belly breathing to calm your nervous system, and the surprisingly powerful pause. But this isn't an anti performance lecture. Leah shares the mirror ritual that carried her through her early Tantra training, and together they explore how playful roles, lingerie, and power dynamics can actually lead you deeper into presence. Plus, Willow offers a Taoist reframe on losing an erection that might change how you feel about going soft.
EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS
♦️ Your senses are the fastest road back into your body when your mind drifts.
♦️ Give your mind a job: a favorite smutty scene can prime arousal instead of fighting your thoughts.
♦️ A pause isn't a failure. It's where intimacy gets room to grow.
♦️ Hard, soft, and hard again? In Taoist sexology, that builds sexual energy.
♦️ Performance has a playful side. Archetypes, adornment, and dominant and submissive roles can bring you right into the moment.
♦️ There are more important places to go than orgasm, and trust is the doorway.
What Happens When an 83 Year Old Former Nun Joins OnlyFans to Teach Sacred Sexuality? What if porn could actually teach you how to be a better lover? In this episode of Sex Reimagined, Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown sit down with Janelle Orion, steward of the Goddess Temple in Denver, and Barbara Penningroth, known to her fans as Gigi, an 83 year old great grandmother and former nun who admits she swings between "I was born for this" and "what would my mother think?" Together they're building educational porn on OnlyFans with a clear mission: make erotic wellness a household term. That means real bodies, no Botox, unscripted lovemaking, and a filmed consent conversation before every single scene. We get honest about the money behind OnlyFans for older women (the average creator earns $131 a month), ageism and sexuality after 60, performance pressure in the bedroom, why exposing your pleasure can actually protect you, and how to follow inner guidance when it hands you an answer you never saw coming. If you've ever wondered whether aging bodies and eroticism belong together, this conversation is your permission slip.
EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS
The real OnlyFans math: how Janelle reached the top 5% of creators, and why she's investing seven times what she earns to grow a mission driven channel.
The RBDSM consent conversation (relationship, boundaries, desires, sexual health, meaning, plus aftercare) that opens every shoot.
Gigi's alter ego secret for dropping self consciousness, plus Leah's "this is the goddess" mirror ritual.
What a legally blind partner taught Gigi about ageism and being desired.
The treasure hunt method for listening to guidance
A New Tantra Exploration, Live in Santa Barbara Leah & Willow are hosting a live 90 minute intro night called A New Tantra Exploration, tracing this ancient practice back to where it began, breath, touch, & all. Fully clothed, beginner friendly, open to solos and couples. November 6, 2026 and January 29, 2027. Grab your seat at $25 early bird / $35 at the door | 90 min
Leah & Dr. Willow: Porn Rewired Your Brain, Here's How to Undo It | #210
Is Porn Rewiring the Male Orgasm? Leah and Willow on Performance Anxiety, Semen Retention, and Getting Out of the Porn Rut. Leah and Willow dig into the male orgasm and why porn has quietly rewritten the rules for so many men, from performance anxiety to porn induced erectile dysfunction to the shame that keeps men stuck in secrecy. They introduce the arousal scale as a way to slow down and actually feel pleasure instead of racing to the finish line, and they reframe the soft on as an opportunity instead of a failure. The conversation moves into semen retention and what it really means to become multi orgasmic once you understand that orgasm and ejaculation are two different things. It's a compassionate, shame free look at what real male pleasure can feel like once performance pressure is off the table.
EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS
Porn creates a real divide between the body and the mind during sex
Shame and secrecy fuel the addiction more than the porn itself does
The arousal scale helps men slow down and stay present through every stage of turn on
Losing an erection can build more sexual energy instead of ending the experience
Orgasm and ejaculation are separate functions, which opens the door to becoming multi orgasmic
Real recovery starts with resensitizing the body and finding support, not more shame
A New Tantra Exploration, Live in Santa Barbara Leah & Willow are hosting a live 90 minute intro night called A New Tantra Exploration, tracing this ancient practice back to where it began, breath, touch, & all. Fully clothed, beginner friendly, open to solos and couples. November 6, 2026 and January 29, 2027. Grab your seat at $25 early bird / $35 at the door | 90 min https://www.sexreimagined.com/events
Joshua Rodriguez: Before You Touch a Rope, Come Inside the Practice That Redefines Kink | #209
Meet Joshua Rodriguez, founder of the Kink Collective and creator of Connection Simplified. In this episode Joshua gets to the real foundation underneath kink, BDSM, and leather culture: vulnerability, trust, and being truly seen. Joshua shares the philosophy of "people before kink," born from his own experience of feeling objectified for his skills rather than valued as a whole person, and walks Leah and Willow through his structured approach to building deep connection with a total stranger before negotiating any scene play. Joshua breaks down how leaving your armor at the door, practicing radical presence, and learning body mapping and negotiation create the emotional safety that real kink and BDSM play require.
EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS
♦️Kink is permission, not performance: Joshua's "people before kink" philosophy puts the whole human being first, before any label, role, or technique.
♦️Connection Simplified is a structured, three hour process that builds trust between strangers through shared vulnerability, accountability questions, and mirrored self disclosure.
♦️BDSM, kink, and leather are three distinct things: kink is the action, BDSM is the relationship framework, and leather is the community and value structure that supports it.
♦️Body mapping teaches partners to negotiate touch and discover where they like, dislike, and can't feel sensation, an essential safety skill before deeper play.
♦️Real transformation happens when people stop searching for safety "out there" and learn to hold that safety within themselves first.
♦️Confirmation bias makes us reject people on sight; softening that reflex, as Leah and Willow discuss, opens the door to some of the most meaningful connections available.
Forget everything you thought you knew about pelvic floor exercises. In this episode, Leah and Dr. Willow sit down with Bel DeLorenzo, author of The Goh!ddess Method, to explore Pompoir, the ancient art of complete vaginal mastery that goes far beyond basic Kegels. Bel traces Pompoir's roots from the Devadasi temple dancers of sixth century India through the ping pong shows of Thailand to the legend of Wallis Simpson, then breaks down the mechanics: twelve distinct zones of movement and sensitivity inside the vagina, built from combinations of vertical, horizontal, and sagittal muscle contractions with names like milking, whipping, squeezing, and the lock. She explains how this kind of pelvic floor training saved her own relationship during a pandemic lockdown, why it can dramatically increase orgasm intensity and arousal, and how it connects to cervical orgasms through the vagus nerve and to a process she calls cortical remapping, where focused muscle training essentially turns up the resolution on your brain's pleasure map. The conversation also covers safety, including how to avoid a hypertonic pelvic floor, and touches on early research into non-ejaculatory, multi-orgasmic training for men. It's a deep, funny, and genuinely educational look at an under-discussed piece of female sexual anatomy and what becomes possible when you learn to use it with real precision.
EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS
✳️ Pompoir is complete vaginal mastery: twelve zones, three axes of movement, and skills like milking, whipping, and the lock that go way beyond a basic Kegel
✳️ The pelvic floor connects to way more than pleasure: posture, squat strength, balance, and running form all showed up in Bel's own training
✳️ Cervical orgasms bypass the spinal cord entirely through the vagus nerve, which may explain why they feel so emotional and whole body
✳️ Cortical remapping means you're not growing new pleasure receptors, you're sharpening the brain's map of the ones you already have
✳️ Pelvic floor training isn't just for women: early research on men points to multiple non-ejaculatory orgasms in a single encounter
Leah & Dr.Willow: Why So Many Women Avoid Giving Oral Sex | #207
Can Fellatio Actually Feel Good for You, Not Just Him? Willow and Leah Break Down 5+ Oral Sex Secrets. In this episode of Sex Reimagined, Dr. Willow and Leah get honest about why so many women avoid giving oral sex and how to turn it into something you actually crave. They share the comfortable positions that save your neck and jaw, the eye contact and hair pulling dynamics that turn submission into a turn on, and the Taoist reflexology map that connects the head of the penis to the heart. Willow and Leah also walk through breath and sound techniques for deep throating, the ejaculatory control trick every woman should know, and the language shift that changed how Leah relates to oral sex altogether. This conversation blends real technique with real vulnerability, making it a must listen for anyone who wants to feel more pleasure, power, and connection while pleasuring their partner.
EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS
Ditch the "on top" position. The right angle protects your neck and completely changes how oral sex feels in your body.
Eye contact and hair holding aren't about control, they're an invitation to feel seen and worshipped.
Every part of the penis has a reflexology point, and knowing them lets you send pleasure straight to his heart.
Coconut oil, breath timing, and slowing down at your edge are the real secrets to comfortable deep throating.
One small hand technique can stop ejaculation in its tracks when you want the fun to last longer.
Changing your language from "blow job" to "honoring" can transform oral sex from a chore into a devotion.
A New Tantra Exploration, Live in Santa Barbara Leah & Willow are hosting a live 90 minute intro night called A New Tantra Exploration, tracing this ancient practice back to where it began, breath, touch, & all. Fully clothed, beginner friendly, open to solos and couples. November 6, 2026 and January 29, 2027. Grab your seat at $25 early bird / $35 at the door | 90 min
The Couples Sacred Spot Retreat | Santa Barbara, Nov 6-8 We are bringing our most intimate couples workshop to California. Over three days, you will learn Sacred Spot Massage, Erotic Attunement, sensual touch as a somatic practice, and the ritual skills that change the way partners meet each other in the body. Ten couple spots only. Register Here
Erotic Polarity On-Demand Masterclass The charge between masculine & feminine energy is real & it can be consciously cultivated. Learn why it's so erotically alive, & how to work with giving, receiving, taking, & allowing, regardless of your gender or relationship structure. Register for $55 HERE
The Couples Sacred Spot Retreat | Santa Barbara, Nov 6-8 We are bringing our most intimate couples workshop to California. Over three days, you will learn Sacred Spot Massage, Erotic Attunement, sensual touch as a somatic practice, and the ritual skills that change the way partners meet each other in the body. Ten couple spots only. Register Here
Erotic Polarity On-Demand Masterclass The charge between masculine & feminine energy is real & it can be consciously cultivated. Learn why it's so erotically alive, & how to work with giving, receiving, taking, & allowing, regardless of your gender or relationship structure. Register for $55 HERE
The Couples Sacred Spot Retreat | Santa Barbara, Nov 6-8 We are bringing our most intimate couples workshop to California. Over three days, you will learn Sacred Spot Massage, Erotic Attunement, sensual touch as a somatic practice, and the ritual skills that change the way partners meet each other in the body. Ten couple spots only. Register Here
Erotic Polarity On-Demand Masterclass The charge between masculine & feminine energy is real & it can be consciously cultivated. Learn why it's so erotically alive, & how to work with giving, receiving, taking, & allowing, regardless of your gender or relationship structure. Register for $55 HERE
A New Tantra Exploration, Live in Santa Barbara Leah & Willow are hosting a live 90 minute intro night called A New Tantra Exploration, tracing this ancient practice back to where it began, breath, touch, & all. Fully clothed, beginner friendly, open to solos and couples. November 6, 2026 and January 29, 2027. Grab your seat at $25 early bird / $35 at the door | 90 min https://www.sexreimagined.com/events
The Couples Sacred Spot Retreat | Santa Barbara, Nov 6-8 We are bringing our most intimate couples workshop to California. Over three days, you will learn Sacred Spot Massage, Erotic Attunement, sensual touch as a somatic practice, and the ritual skills that change the way partners meet each other in the body. Ten couple spots only. Register Here
Erotic Polarity On-Demand Masterclass The charge between masculine & feminine energy is real & it can be consciously cultivated. Learn why it's so erotically alive, & how to work with giving, receiving, taking, & allowing, regardless of your gender or relationship structure. Register for $55 HERE
The Couples Sacred Spot Retreat | Santa Barbara, Nov 6-8 We are bringing our most intimate couples workshop to California. Over three days, you will learn Sacred Spot Massage, Erotic Attunement, sensual touch as a somatic practice, and the ritual skills that change the way partners meet each other in the body. Ten couple spots only. Register Here
Erotic Polarity On-Demand Masterclass The charge between masculine & feminine energy is real & it can be consciously cultivated. Learn why it's so erotically alive, & how to work with giving, receiving, taking, & allowing, regardless of your gender or relationship structure. Register for $55 HERE
The Couples Sacred Spot Retreat | Santa Barbara, Nov 6-8 We are bringing our most intimate couples workshop to California. Over three days, you will learn Sacred Spot Massage, Erotic Attunement, sensual touch as a somatic practice, and the ritual skills that change the way partners meet each other in the body. Ten couple spots only. Register Here
Erotic Polarity On-Demand Masterclass The charge between masculine & feminine energy is real & it can be consciously cultivated. Learn why it's so erotically alive, & how to work with giving, receiving, taking, & allowing, regardless of your gender or relationship structure. Register for $55 HERE
A New Tantra Exploration, Live in Santa Barbara Leah & Willow are hosting a live 90 minute intro night called A New Tantra Exploration, tracing this ancient practice back to where it began, breath, touch, & all. Fully clothed, beginner friendly, open to solos and couples. November 6, 2026 and January 29, 2027. Grab your seat at $25 early bird / $35 at the door | 90 min https://www.sexreimagined.com/events
The Couples Sacred Spot Retreat | Santa Barbara, Nov 6-8 We are bringing our most intimate couples workshop to California. Over three days, you will learn Sacred Spot Massage, Erotic Attunement, sensual touch as a somatic practice, and the ritual skills that change the way partners meet each other in the body. Ten couple spots only. Register Here
Erotic Polarity On-Demand Masterclass The charge between masculine & feminine energy is real & it can be consciously cultivated. Learn why it's so erotically alive, & how to work with giving, receiving, taking, & allowing, regardless of your gender or relationship structure. Register for $55 HERE
A New Tantra Exploration, Live in Santa Barbara Leah & Willow are hosting a live 90 minute intro night called A New Tantra Exploration, tracing this ancient practice back to where it began, breath, touch, & all. Fully clothed, beginner friendly, open to solos and couples. November 6, 2026 and January 29, 2027. Grab your seat at $25 early bird / $35 at the door | 90 min https://www.sexreimagined.com/events
The Couples Sacred Spot Retreat | Santa Barbara, Nov 6-8 We are bringing our most intimate couples workshop to California. Over three days, you will learn Sacred Spot Massage, Erotic Attunement, sensual touch as a somatic practice, and the ritual skills that change the way partners meet each other in the body. Ten couple spots only. Register Here
Erotic Polarity On-Demand Masterclass The charge between masculine & feminine energy is real & it can be consciously cultivated. Learn why it's so erotically alive, & how to work with giving, receiving, taking, & allowing, regardless of your gender or relationship structure. Register for $55 HERE
The Couples Sacred Spot Retreat | Santa Barbara, Nov 6-8 We are bringing our most intimate couples workshop to California. Over three days, you will learn Sacred Spot Massage, Erotic Attunement, sensual touch as a somatic practice, and the ritual skills that change the way partners meet each other in the body. Ten couple spots only. Register Here
Erotic Polarity On-Demand Masterclass The charge between masculine & feminine energy is real & it can be consciously cultivated. Learn why it's so erotically alive, & how to work with giving, receiving, taking, & allowing, regardless of your gender or relationship structure. Register for $55 HERE
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