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(Best of) Dr. Abe Morgentaler on Testosterone (Top Recognized Urologist)
10 Nov 2025
00:34:33
With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon
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In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon discuss how to accurately measure testosterone levels, the common misdiagnoses that stem from outdated testing methods, and the long-standing medical myths linking testosterone therapy to depression, prostate cancer, and heart disease—revealing how evidence now shows the hormone's true benefits for mood, vitality, and overall health.
01:02 Symptoms and Misdiagnoses of Low Testosterone – Low testosterone often mimics depression, leading to unnecessary antidepressant use instead of treating the hormonal root cause affecting mood, energy, and sexual health.
07:14 Understanding Testosterone Measurement – The doctors explain why total testosterone tests fall short and why free or bioavailable testosterone best reflects real hormonal activity.
15:36 The Legacy of Huggins in Prostate Cancer Treatment – They revisit Dr. Charles Huggins's discovery linking testosterone reduction to cancer treatment, which fueled decades of misplaced fear about testosterone therapy.
17:25 Early Experiments and Discoveries with Testosterone – Dr. Morgentaler shares his early research showing how testosterone restores sexual function, mood, and vitality despite medical doubts.
22:46 Debunking Myths: Testosterone and Heart Health – They expose how a flawed 2013 study falsely tied testosterone to heart attacks, while newer evidence shows healthy levels support heart and overall health.
Resources: Huggins, C. (1941). Studies on prostatic cancer: The effect of castration, of estrogen and of androgen injection on serum phosphatases in metastatic carcinoma of the prostate. Cancer Research, 1(4), 293–297. https://doi.org/10.1158/jcr.1941.293
Vigen, R., O'Donnell, C. I., Baron, A. E., Grunwald, G. K., Maddox, T. M., Bradley, S. M., ... & Ho, P. M. (2013). Association of testosterone therapy with mortality, myocardial infarction, and stroke in men with low testosterone levels. JAMA, 310(17), 1829–1836. https://doi.org/10.1001/jama.2013.280386
Shores, M. M., Smith, N. L., Forsberg, C. W., Anawalt, B. D., Matsumoto, A. M. (2012). Testosterone treatment and mortality in men with low testosterone levels. Journal of Clinical Endocrinology & Metabolism, 97(6), 2050–2058. https://doi.org/10.1210/jc.2011-2591
Muraleedharan, V., Marsh, H., Kapoor, D., Channer, K. S., & Jones, T. H. (2013). Testosterone deficiency is associated with increased mortality and insulin resistance in men with type 2 diabetes. European Journal of Endocrinology, 169(6), 725–733. https://doi.org/10.1530/EJE-13-0321
Meta-analyses of randomized controlled trials on mood and testosterone: Zarrouf, F. A., Artz, S., Griffith, J., Sirbu, C., & Kommor, M. (2009). Testosterone and depression: Systematic review and meta-analysis. Journal of Psychiatric Practice, 15(4), 289–305. https://doi.org/10.1097/01.pra.0000358315.88931.fc
Harvard Urologist Explains His Biggest Breakthroughs in Testosterone Research (Insane Discoveries)
03 Nov 2025
00:52:37
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about the groundbreaking moments that defined Dr. Morgentaler's career—from challenging long-held medical dogmas about testosterone and prostate cancer to reflecting on courage, science, and the evolving state of modern medicine.
00:00 – Introduction and Lifetime Achievement Award In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about his Lifetime Achievement Award and reflect on the meaning of being recognized by peers after decades in sexual medicine.
03:13 – Early Career and Groundbreaking Research They discuss how Dr. Morgentaler's early curiosity about testosterone—from lizard studies at Harvard to treating men others wouldn't—sparked discoveries that reshaped urology.
08:49 – Challenges and Controversies in Urology Dr. Morgentaler recalls standing firm against public criticism from leading urologists as he presented data that contradicted long-held beliefs about testosterone and cancer.
25:03 – Facing the Hardest Moments in Surgery He opens up about the emotional toll of surgical complications and the weight of caring deeply for patients while maintaining composure under pressure.
28:22 – Breakthroughs in Prostate Cancer Treatment They explore his bold use of testosterone therapy—even for men with advanced cancer—and how it restored vitality and meaning for patients once written off.
36:30 – Challenging Medical Dogma Dr. Morgentaler reflects on why medicine resists new evidence, the persistence of outdated myths, and how progress in science often advances one funeral at a time.
Resources: 1. Morgentaler, A., Bruning, C. O., & DeWolf, W. C. (1996). Occult prostate cancer in men with low serum testosterone levels. JAMA, 276(23), 1904–1906. https://doi.org/10.1001/jama.1996.03540230040029
2. Morgentaler, A., & DeWolf, W. C. (1997). Implantation of penile prosthesis at the time of radical prostatectomy: A new approach for erectile rehabilitation. Urology, 49(6), 932–936. https://doi.org/10.1016/S0090-4295(97)00127-4
3. Lincoff, A. M., Nissen, S. E., Krum, H., et al. (2023). Cardiovascular safety of testosterone-replacement therapy. New England Journal of Medicine, 389(6), 514–524. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa2301761
With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon
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AI Therapy Is Here... And It's SCARY Accurate (What You Need to Know)
22 Sep 2025
00:22:32
In this episode of The Sex Doctors, Dr. Brandon & Dr. Morgentaler talk about how AI chatbots are rapidly transforming therapy, potentially replacing many jobs, and why therapists must focus on uniquely human skills to stay relevant.
00:00 Introduction and Article Overview – Dr. Brandon shares a bold new article warning that AI chatbots could soon dominate psychotherapy.
00:35 AI's Impact on Jobs and Therapy – The doctors discuss how AI is already taking over jobs and may soon replace many therapists.
02:12 Concerns About AI Dependency – They explore fears that people are becoming too dependent on chatbots for decisions and emotional support.
04:04 Real-Time AI Demonstration – A live demo shows how empathetic and human-like AI therapy responses have already become.
08:32 Future of AI in Various Fields – The conversation expands to AI in medicine, law, and other jobs, predicting massive workforce changes.
16:23 Concluding Thoughts and Advice – They encourage therapists to focus on work AI can't do, using human connection as their edge.
Resources: Frances, A. (2025). Warning: AI chatbots will soon dominate psychotherapy. The British Journal of Psychiatry.
With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon
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#AIinPsychotherapy #FutureOfWork #HumanVsAI
The Story Behind the Adult Industry's Famous 'Money Shot'
24 Oct 2024
00:13:24
With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon
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In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler discuss a study from the Archives of S*xual Behavior on the "money shot" in p**nography, exploring whether it is degrading to women.
0:17 - Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about the article P*rnography's Ubiquitous External Ejaculation, focusing on the "money shot" in p*rnography.
2:17 - Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler discuss findings that both men and women rated money shots more positively when the female performer appeared to enjoy it.
5:03 - Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler introduce the concept of "s**ual disgust" and how it varies among individuals.
8:00 - Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler explore whether p*rnography is inherently degrading to women.
11:27 - Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about why p*rnography is complex and difficult to categorize.
Resources: P**nography's Ubiquitous External E***ulation: Predictors of Perceptions by Catherine Salmon and colleagues, published in the Archives of S**ual Behavior. - https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/36171487/
#BehaviorResearch #Perceptions #DesireDiscussion
Who Has More Testosterone - Kamala Harris or Donald Trump?
21 Oct 2024
00:17:29
With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon
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In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler discuss testosterone levels in Donald Trump and Kamala Harris, questioning if higher testosterone is linked to leadership qualities. They also touch on hormone therapy for both men and women, with a mix of humor and science throughout the conversation.
1:21 - Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon discuss whether high testosterone is important for leadership in presidential candidates.
8:38 - Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon humorously speculate about the s**ual activity of Donald Trump and Kamala Harris.
11:54 - Dr. Morgentaler explains the symptoms of low testosterone in men and shares findings from a study on treatment outcomes.
14:01 - Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about women receiving testosterone as part of hormone replacement therapy.
16:30 - Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon invite listeners to form their own opinions on which candidate may have higher testosterone levels.
Parents, Don't Ignore This: The Truth About Kids and P*rnography | What You Need to Know!
17 Oct 2024
00:20:33
With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon
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Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler discuss how parents often underestimate their kids' exposure to p*rn.
1:02 - Article: "U.S. Parents Underestimate Their Children's P*rnography Use" - Dr. Morgentaler & Dr. Brandon discuss a study showing that parents often underestimate how much their teens are exposed to p*rn.
5:29 - Parents: Don't Be Naive - Dr. Morgentaler & Dr. Brandon advise parents not to be naive about their kids' exposure to p*rn and to have open conversations about it.
8:51 - Personal Story: Dr. Morgentaler's Daughter - Dr. Morgentaler shares how his daughter accidentally found a p*rn site while looking for Britney Spears content.
12:57 - How P*rn Affects Men and Women - Discussion on how p*rn creates unrealistic expectations for men and women, especially impacting adolescents.
18:39 - AI and P*rn: Why Parents Need to Talk About It - They stress the growing influence of AI in p*rnography and the importance of parents addressing this topic with their kids.
Resources: "U.S. Parents Underestimate Their Children's Pornography Use and Learning," authored by Wright et al., published in 2023. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/36287301/
The Dangers of Low Testosterone | Serious Signs to Watch For and Treatment!
14 Oct 2024
00:33:03
With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon
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In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler discuss the importance of accurately measuring testosterone, particularly free testosterone, to diagnose and treat symptoms like low libido, mood changes, and fatigue.
0:04 - Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon discuss the importance of getting accurate testosterone readings, especially for patients seeking sex therapy.
9:12 - Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon explain how testosterone circulates in the blood, distinguishing between free, bound, and bioavailable testosterone.
15:08 - Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon review a study that highlights the role and measurement of testosterone in diagnosing deficiencies.
24:31 - Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon discuss how testosterone can help with erectile dysfunction, though it may not always be the solution for vascular issues.
30:12 - Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon emphasize that testosterone deficiency is a real issue in both men and women.
The Key to Stop Being Boring in Bed (Save Your Relationship)
10 Oct 2024
00:08:16
In this episode, we discuss how couples can improve their sex lives by using music to set different moods. We suggest choosing three types of music—sexy, intense, and romantic—and moving to them to create variety and enhance intimacy in the bedroom.
0:08 - How couples can improve their sex life tonight: Dr. Brandon suggests using music to create different moods, encouraging couples to try movements that match the rhythm for a more exciting experience.
2:07 - Why this approach works: They explain how switching up the mood through music can reignite passion and break the monotony.
2:32 - How music impacts mood: Dr. Morgantaler and Dr. Brandon discuss how music influences emotions and energy, enhancing sensuality.
5:16 - Common misconceptions about sex therapy and psychology: They touch on how sex therapy isn't just about digging into the past, but also about practical solutions for improving relationships now.
6:09 - Homework: Dr. Brandon gives homework: pick different types of music, practice moving to them, and bring that energy into the bedroom.
With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon
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Does Monogamy Work? (Listen if You Value Your Relationship)
07 Oct 2024
00:14:21
In this episode, we talk about testosterone research and the differences in men's and women's sexual concerns, including the challenges of monogamy. We also explore how technology, like AI, is shaping modern relationships.
0:10 - Introduction and background of Dr. Morgantaler and Dr. Brandon.
1:59 - Dr. Morgantaler's research on testosterone, how early lizard studies influenced his work, and his thoughts on Viagra's development.
5:32 - Dr. Brandon shares her early impressions as a sex therapist, focusing on the differences between men's and women's concerns in the bedroom.
10:18 - Discussion on the challenges of monogamy in long-term relationships, especially from an evolutionary perspective.
12:04 - Talk about AI's impact on relationships, what different people consider unfaithful, and wrapping up the episode with future topics to explore.
Resources: How the rise of testosterone therapy in men was inspired by lizard research with David Crews: https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1002/jez.2553
With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon
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FDA-Approved Women's Libido Drug… Could It Help Men? (Doctors Explain)
15 Sep 2025
00:20:47
In this episode, Dr. Brandon & Dr. Morgentaler talk about the off-label use of bremelanotide (Vyleesi/PT-141) in men—its potential benefits for libido/erections, origins, side effects (notably nausea), and how patients often access it via compounding pharmacies.
00:05 – Dr. Brandon & Dr. Morgentaler dive into Bremelanotide and share how the Goldsteins have been pioneering its research.
02:08 – They laugh about the iconic Katz's Deli "When Harry Met Sally" scene and its connection to sexual medicine history.
03:06 – The doctors explain how Bremelanotide works, how it's used by both women and men, and why refills tell an important story.
08:43 – They tackle the criticism that women take these meds "for men," pushing back and stressing women's right to pleasure.
19:48 – Wrapping up, they encourage listeners to talk with their doctors or compounding pharmacies if they want to explore this option.
Resources: Goldstein, I., & Goldstein, S. (n.d.). [Abstract on off-label use of Bremelanotide (PT-141) in men: Refill rates and sexual function outcomes]. The Journal of Sexual Medicine.
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Why Some Couples Have MORE Sex After an Affair (Sounds Crazy But It's Real)
11 Sep 2025
00:21:23
In this episode, Dr. Brandon & Dr Morgentaler talk about how affairs can make a couple's sex life better, worse, or just different—and simple ways to heal and reconnect.
00:16 Understanding the Impact of Affairs: They explain how cheating can change desire and closeness in different ways.
01:12 Nuances in Post-Affair Sexuality: Sex may drop, rise, get more adventurous, or face issues—it depends on the couple.
02:49 Addressing Sexual Dysfunction: They cover anxiety, erection problems, low desire, and using mindfulness or medicine to help.
05:00 Rebuilding Intimacy and Trust: Start slow—talk, apologize, slow dance, gentle touch—and add steps over time.
08:38 Therapeutic Approaches and Conclusion: Therapists help couples heal, try new ways to connect, and keep working together.
Resources: Timm, T. M. (2024). The effects of infidelity on the sexual relationship. Sexual and Relationship Therapy, 39(4), 1372–1388. https://doi.org/10.1080/14681994.2023.2283504
Lehmiller, J. J. (2023, June 23). When partners cheat, who do they do it with? Psychology Today. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-myths-of-sex/202304/when-people-cheat-who-do-they-do-it-with
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The CRAZY Truth About Why Women Cheat (According to Science)
08 Sep 2025
00:18:04
In this episode, Dr. Brandon & Dr. Morgentaler talk about why some women cheat through an evolutionary lens, how parenting can dull desire, and simple ways couples can rekindle passion while staying connected.
00:09 Discussing the Article: Why Women Cheat: They talk about a study on why some women cheat.
00:49 Evolutionary Perspective on Cheating: From a science view, some marry "good dads" but seek excitement elsewhere.
02:47 Parenting and Sexual Dynamics: Raising kids can make life less romantic and lower desire.
05:33 Rekindling Passion in Long-Term Relationships: Make space, try new things, and rebuild closeness step by step.
15:29 Conclusion and Recommendations: Most women still prefer their partner; talk openly and try the tips.
Resources: Murphy, M., Phillips, C. A., & Blake, K. R. (2024). Why women cheat: Testing evolutionary hypotheses for female infidelity in a multinational sample. Evolution and Human Behavior, 45(5), 106595. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.evolhumbehav.2024.106595
Brandon, M. (2014). Unlocking the sexy in surrender: Using the neuroscience of power to recharge your sex life [Kindle eBook]. Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00HS9FNMQ
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Match.com Just Dropped INSANE Stats on Sex and Love (MIND BLOWING Info)
04 Sep 2025
00:25:58
In this episode Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about the Match.com Singles in America survey with the Kinsey Institute, exploring how modern singles view sex, porn, love, and relationships across generations.
00:14 Match.com Survey Insights — Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon discuss key findings from the Singles in America survey with over 75,000 participants.
06:02 Singles' Beliefs and Relationship Expectations — They explore statistics on porn use, emotional disconnects, and the belief in "one true love."
12:49 Rising Trends in Marriage and Singlehood — The doctors highlight how rates of never-married adults and sexless marriages are reshaping social norms.
17:21 The Role of Sexual Chemistry and Cultural Shifts — They reflect on why 90% of singles prioritize chemistry and how media and porn influence expectations.
20:12 Gen Z's Unique Perspectives on Relationships — They unpack Gen Z's conservative stance on sex, intentional celibacy, and uncertainty about long-term commitments.
Resources: Match and The Kinsey Institute (2025). Singles in America: 14th annual study. Match Group.
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Why It Matters WHEN You Test Your Testosterone (From a Harvard Urologist)
01 Sep 2025
00:29:35
In this episode Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about whether the time of day really matters for testosterone testing, challenging the old "only in the morning" rule and showing how real-world evidence proves it makes little difference.
00:43 Debating Testosterone Testing Times – The doctors question the long-standing rule that testosterone must be tested in the morning.
04:56 Research Findings and Implications – A large study shows no real difference between morning and afternoon testosterone levels.
14:36 Understanding Testosterone Levels and Libido – They explain that libido doesn't rise and fall with small shifts in testosterone throughout the day.
15:20 Challenges with Testosterone Testing Protocols – Insurance rules forcing two morning tests create unnecessary hurdles for patients.
18:02 Debunking Myths and Practical Advice – The doctors stress that symptoms and context matter more than rigid numbers on a lab sheet.
Resources: Novaes, L. F., Flores, J. M., Benfante, N., Schofield, E., Katz, D. J., Nelson, C. J., & Mulhall, J. P. (2024). Analysis of diurnal variation in serum testosterone levels in men with symptoms of testosterone deficiency. The Journal of Sexual Medicine, 21(5), 408–413. https://doi.org/10.1093/jsxmed/qdae026
Crawford, E. D. (1997). Prostate Cancer Awareness Week: September 22 to 28, 1997. CA: A Cancer Journal for Clinicians, 47(5), 288–296. https://doi.org/10.3322/canjclin.47.5.288
Mulhall, J. P., Trost, L. W., Brannigan, R. E., Kurtz, E. G., Redmon, J. B., Chiles, K. A., Lightner, D. J., Miner, M. M., Murad, M. H., Nelson, C. J., Platz, E. A., Ramanathan, L. V., & Lewis, R. W. (2018; valid through 2024). Evaluation and management of testosterone deficiency: AUA guideline. The Journal of Urology, 200, 423. https://www.auanet.org/guidelines-and-quality/guidelines/testosterone-deficiency-guideline
Morgentaler, A., et al. (2015). Fundamental concepts regarding testosterone deficiency and treatment: International expert consensus. Mayo Clinic Proceedings.
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Young People Are Having Less Sex Than Ever (Here's Why)
28 Aug 2025
00:22:17
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about how technology is reshaping intimacy, friendships, and sex, warning that without mindful effort to connect in person, future generations may default to tech over human relationships.
00:07 The Impact of Technology on Human Interaction – They explore how our shift from face-to-face contact to device time is changing the way we relate to each other.
01:07 Screen Time and Human Connection – They share personal stories about shocking screen-time stats and how constant device use is eroding real-life connection.
03:53 Intimacy with Technology – They explain how people are forming emotional and sexual bonds with chatbots and other tech, often feeling lonelier in the long run.
05:30 The Rise of Non-Human Romance – They discuss younger generations' growing preference for fantasy and non-human partners in porn and romance media.
12:55 The Future of Human Relationships – They predict that without mindful action, more people will choose tech-based intimacy over real partners, altering human connection as we know it.
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Urologist Answers Questions About Testosterone Therapy for ED (You'll Be Surprised)
25 Aug 2025
00:21:22
In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about how testosterone can, in the right patients, be an effective solo treatment for erectile dysfunction despite common medical guidelines saying otherwise.
00:06 Testosterone and Erectile Dysfunction: The Debate – They kick things off by questioning the common belief that testosterone alone can't fix ED.
00:54 Understanding the Traverse Study – They break down why a big study seemed to show testosterone doesn't help erections—and why its results are misleading.
03:20 The Role of Testosterone in Erections – They explain how testosterone, nerves, and blood flow all have to work together for healthy erections.
08:59 Clinical Insights and Patient Experiences – Dr. Morgentaler shares real-world stories of men whose ED improved dramatically once their testosterone levels were restored.
19:43 Conclusion and Final Thoughts – They wrap up by stressing that while guidelines matter, treating each patient as an individual is the real key.
Resources - TRAVERSE Study Bhasin, S., Snyder, P. J., Cunningham, G. R., Matsumoto, A. M., Stephens-Shields, A. J., Cauley, J. A., Gill, T. M., Barrett-Connor, E., Swerdloff, R. S., Wang, C., Ensrud, K. E., Lewis, C. E., Budoff, M. J., Cohen, B., Pahor, M., Kenny, A. M., & Ellenberg, S. S. (2023). Cardiovascular safety of testosterone-replacement therapy. The New England Journal of Medicine, 389(2), 107–117. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa2215025
The Testosterone Trials (2016) Snyder, P. J., Bhasin, S., Cunningham, G. R., Matsumoto, A. M., Stephens-Shields, A. J., Cauley, J. A., Gill, T. M., Barrett-Connor, E., Swerdloff, R. S., Wang, C., Ensrud, K. E., Lewis, C. E., Hou, X., Hou, X., Budoff, M. J., Ellenberg, S. S., & The Testosterone Trials Investigators. (2016). Effects of testosterone treatment in older men. The New England Journal of Medicine, 374(7), 611–624. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa1506119
2018 American Urological Association Guidelines on Erectile Dysfunction Burnett, A. L., Nehra, A., Breau, R. H., Culkin, D. J., Faraday, M. M., Hakim, L. S., Heidelbaugh, J. J., Khera, M., Kirkby, E., McVary, K. T., Miner, M. M., Nelson, C. J., Sadovsky, R., Seftel, A. D., Shindel, A. W., & SOP Committee. (2018). Erectile dysfunction: AUA guideline. The Journal of Urology, 200(3), 633–641. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.juro.2018.05.004
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When Sex Gets Boring, Here's What Actually Works (Advice From Sex Therapist)
18 Aug 2025
00:17:05
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about how keeping both tender lovemaking and raw, passionate sex in a relationship is essential for long-term intimacy, excitement, and connection.
00:18 Discussing Creative Sex Life Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler explore why variety and creativity keep intimacy exciting over time.
01:23 The Importance of Language in Sex They explain how specific words shape understanding and emotional impact in intimacy.
02:38 Defining Different Types of Sex They break down the differences between lovemaking, sex, and raw, passionate encounters.
08:03 Challenges in Modern Relationships They address how porn and technology can pull primal energy away from partnerships.
15:57 Conclusion and Final Thoughts They emphasize that balancing tenderness and passion is key to lasting connection.
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7 Reasons Men Lose Libido and How to Fix It (From a Top Sex Therapist and Urologist)
14 Aug 2025
00:34:21
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about low libido in men, and how psychological, physical, and emotional factors can all play a role in a guy's desire—or lack thereof.
00:22 – Understanding Low Libido in Men Low libido means not feeling the urge for sex, even if everything seems physically fine.
10:23 – Psychological and Physical Factors Stress, depression, meds, or low testosterone can all mess with a guy's sex drive.
15:41 – Understanding Delayed Side Effects of Medications Some meds don't kill your libido right away—it can take weeks or even months.
16:54 – Exploring Low Libido and Testosterone Levels Doctors check testosterone if libido's low, but it's not always the full story.
18:30 – Addressing Psychological and Emotional Factors Feeling disconnected, stuck, or unhappy in life can tank your desire without you realizing it.
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about low libido in men, and how psychological, physical, and emotional factors can all play a role in a guy's desire—or lack thereof.
00:22 – Understanding Low Libido in Men Low libido means not feeling the urge for sex, even if everything seems physically fine.
10:23 – Psychological and Physical Factors Stress, depression, meds, or low testosterone can all mess with a guy's sex drive.
15:41 – Understanding Delayed Side Effects of Medications Some meds don't kill your libido right away—it can take weeks or even months.
16:54 – Exploring Low Libido and Testosterone Levels Doctors check testosterone if libido's low, but it's not always the full story.
18:30 – Addressing Psychological and Emotional Factors Feeling disconnected, stuck, or unhappy in life can tank your desire without you realizing it.
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Not Having Sex With Your Partner? Watch This (3 Sex Therapist Approved Fixes)
30 Oct 2025
00:30:00
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about desire discrepancy in couples, why it happens, and practical ways to address it through communication, scheduling, and creating a positive sexual vibe.
00:38 Understanding Desire Discrepancy – Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler discuss how desire discrepancy occurs when one partner wants sex more than the other and how it's common but can create tension if ignored.
06:46 Strategies for Scheduling Sex – They explain the importance of agreeing on a sexual frequency, like once or twice a week, to keep couples in sync and maintain intimacy.
14:01 Navigating Desire Discrepancies in Relationships – The hosts talk about balancing differences in sexual desire, helping partners feel understood, and addressing resentment before it escalates.
16:25 The Importance of Communication and Initiation – They emphasize taking turns initiating sex, openly discussing preferences, and creating a safe, non-judgmental environment for both partners.
22:59 Creating a Positive Sexual Experience – Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler highlight cultivating a good sexual "vibe," showing passion and connection, and helping lower-desire partners engage fully for enjoyable intimacy.
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In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about why some men fake orgasms, what causes it, how common it actually is, and how emotional pressure, physical challenges, and even kindness can all play a role.
00:50 – The Case of the Young Man A young man starts faking orgasms to avoid hurting his girlfriend's feelings when he can't climax during sex.
04:20 – Understanding Male Orgasm Challenges Some men struggle to orgasm during intercourse, even though they can climax through masturbation.
12:40 – Understanding Early Sexual Experiences How a guy learns to masturbate early on can shape how his body responds to sex later in life.
15:48 – The Ethics of Faking Orgasms Faking orgasms might seem harmless, but over time it can damage trust and intimacy in a relationship.
24:03 – The Impact of Technology on Sexual Relationships With rising pressure around sex, more people are turning to tech and sex toys for no-stress satisfaction.
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about why some men fake orgasms, what causes it, how common it actually is, and how emotional pressure, physical challenges, and even kindness can all play a role.
00:50 – The Case of the Young Man A young man starts faking orgasms to avoid hurting his girlfriend's feelings when he can't climax during sex.
04:20 – Understanding Male Orgasm Challenges Some men struggle to orgasm during intercourse, even though they can climax through masturbation.
12:40 – Understanding Early Sexual Experiences How a guy learns to masturbate early on can shape how his body responds to sex later in life.
15:48 – The Ethics of Faking Orgasms Faking orgasms might seem harmless, but over time it can damage trust and intimacy in a relationship.
24:03 – The Impact of Technology on Sexual Relationships With rising pressure around sex, more people are turning to tech and sex toys for no-stress satisfaction.
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What REALLY Happens Inside a Strip Club (From a Dancer's POV)
06 Aug 2025
00:35:08
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler have a special guest, Patience, on their podcast—they talk about how working in gentleman's clubs has shaped her confidence, challenged stereotypes, and revealed the complex ways technology is changing intimacy, connection, and sexuality.
00:00 – Intro and First Guest Announcement Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler introduce Patience, their very first guest, bringing a fresh, personal perspective from inside the gentleman's club world.
00:38 – Patience's Journey into the Gentleman's Club Industry Patience shares how curiosity and a spontaneous audition in London led to a decade-long, empowering career across the U.S. and U.K.
02:30 – Impact of Technology on the Industry She reflects on how tech has made human interactions feel more superficial, changing the energy and dynamics in clubs and dating.
16:53 – Debunking Misconceptions About the Industry Patience challenges the idea that working in clubs is degrading, emphasizing choice, dignity, and the humanity behind the role.
17:43 – Empowerment and Skills Gained She explains how the job taught her communication, patience, emotional intelligence, and self-respect—skills she'll carry for life.
20:30 – Navigating Relationships and Sexuality Patience opens up about owning her sexuality, setting boundaries, and how the job helped her better understand intimacy and emotional connection.
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Cheating or Not? What Sex Tech Is Doing to Love Today
04 Aug 2025
00:07:04
In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about how advances in sex tech are blurring the lines of infidelity, making it harder for couples to agree on what counts as cheating—and why open, ongoing conversations are more important than ever.
00:00 – Intro to Modern Infidelity Dr. Brandon opens the conversation by exploring how technology is complicating traditional views on what it means to be unfaithful.
00:53 – Defining Cheating in the Digital Age She breaks down how behaviors like sexting with chatbots or forming emotional bonds with AI blur the lines of infidelity.
01:31 – The Impact of VR Porn Dr. Brandon explains how VR porn creates a deeper sense of intimacy and physiological response compared to traditional porn.
03:11 – Gender Differences in Perceptions She highlights that men tend to be more lenient than women when it comes to defining cheating through sex tech.
04:06 – The Importance of Communication Dr. Brandon urges couples to have open conversations about boundaries, even if they disagree, to avoid silent assumptions.
05:13 – Finding Compromises and Solutions She encourages couples to explore compromises and possibly integrate sex tech together, fostering connection instead of conflict.
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Why Young Men Today Have the Lowest Testosterone Levels in History (This is a Crisis)
31 Jul 2025
00:18:19
In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon dive into the alarming drop in testosterone levels over the past few decades, why it's happening, and what it could mean for men's health, fertility, and our future.
00:09 – Declining Testosterone Levels: An Overview Testosterone levels in men have been quietly dropping for decades—and it's starting to raise big questions.
00:22 – Key Studies on Testosterone Decline Major long-term studies show a 15% drop in testosterone over just one generation, and no one knows exactly why.
01:32 – Smoking and Testosterone: Surprising Findings Oddly enough, smokers have higher testosterone—though no one's saying it's worth the trade.
04:08 – Environmental and Lifestyle Factors From plastics to obesity, something in our modern world is messing with men's hormones—and we're only scratching the surface.
16:27 – Conclusions and Future Directions We don't have all the answers yet, but staying lean and rethinking our plastic use might be a good place to start.
Resources: Feldman, H. A., Longcope, C., Derby, C. A., Johannes, C. B., Araujo, A. B., Coviello, A. D., ... & McKinlay, J. B. (2002). Age trends in the level of serum testosterone and other hormones in middle-aged men: Longitudinal results from the Massachusetts Male Aging Study. The Journal of Clinical Endocrinology & Metabolism, 87(2), 589–598. https://doi.org/10.1210/jcem.87.2.8201
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Do Low Testosterone Levels Cause Prostate Cancer? Harvard Urologist Explains
28 Jul 2025
00:16:51
In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler talks about how low testosterone—not high—might actually be the real risk factor for prostate cancer, challenging decades of outdated beliefs.
00:28 – Historical Beliefs and Misconceptions For decades, doctors thought testosterone fueled prostate cancer like gas on a fire—but that fear was based on outdated science.
03:27 – The Traverse Trial: Debunking Myths A massive 2023 study proved testosterone therapy doesn't raise prostate cancer risk—finally putting that old myth to rest.
06:00 – Exploring Low Testosterone as a Risk Factor Now the big question is: could low testosterone actually make prostate cancer more likely?
06:56 – Gleason Scores and Testosterone Levels Turns out, the more aggressive the cancer, the lower the testosterone levels tend to be.
11:25 – Animal Studies and Final Thoughts Even lab studies in rats and cancer cells suggest low testosterone may feed tumor growth—flipping the old story on its head.
Resources: Huggins and Hodges (1941) Huggins, C., & Hodges, C. V. (1941). Studies on prostatic cancer: The effect of castration, of estrogen and of androgen injection on serum phosphatases in metastatic carcinoma of the prostate. Cancer Research, 1(4), 293–297.
TRAVERSE Trial (2023) Lincoff, A. M., Nissen, S. E., Wolski, K., Bhatnagar, A., Glasser, D. B., Picard, D. W., ... & Thirumalai, S. (2023). Cardiovascular safety of testosterone-replacement therapy. The New England Journal of Medicine, 388(8), 698–710. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa2215025
Chu et al. (Lab study) Chuu, C. P., Chen, R. Y., Kokontis, J. M., Hiipakka, R. A., & Liao, S. (2009). Suppression of androgen receptor signaling and prostate specific antigen expression by (−)-gossypol in prostate cancer cells. The Prostate, 69(1), 31–40. https://doi.org/10.1002/pros.20849
Tu et al. (PSA levels and testosterone) Tu, X. M., Lu, Y. Y., Zhang, S. H., Zhang, W., & Wang, H. (2014). The relationship between serum testosterone and prostate-specific antigen levels in men with benign prostatic hyperplasia and prostate cancer. Asian Journal of Andrology, 16(5), 757–761. https://doi.org/10.4103/1008-682X.126384
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This Is the Future of Sex, and Your Teen Is Watching (Disturbing New Data)
24 Jul 2025
00:23:45
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about how chatbots are becoming digital lovers and emotional crutches—and why that's both fascinating and deeply worrying for real human relationships.
00:33 – The Rise of Chatbots Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about how chatbots are becoming more realistic—and how they're designed to build emotional bonds for profit.
02:23 – Impact on Relationships They also explore how young people are turning to chatbots for love, comfort, and even sex—and what that means for real relationships.
05:39 – Real-Life Examples and Concerns They also share wild stories from real users, plus stats that show how many people prefer AI companions over actual humans.
10:46 – Chatbot Demonstration They also test one live on the podcast, showing how calm, kind, and dangerously convincing a chatbot can sound.
22:13 – Final Thoughts and Conclusion They wrap up by warning parents to talk to their kids and reminding everyone: nothing replaces real human connection.
Resources: Skjuve, M. B., Følstad, A., Fostervold, K. I., & Brandtzaeg, P. B. (2022). A longitudinal study of human–chatbot relationships. International Journal of Human–Computer Studies, 168, Article 102903. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.ijhcs.2022.102903
Willoughby, B. J., Carroll, J. S., Dover, C. R., & Hakala, R. H. (2025). Counterfeit Connections: The Rise of Romantic AI Companions and AI Sexualized Media Among the Rising Generation [Survey report]. Wheatley Institute, Brigham Young University. Retrieved from https://wheatley.byu.edu/Counterfeit-Connections-AI-Romantic-Companions
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What Every Parent NEEDS to Know About AI and Chatbots (Protect Your Kids)
21 Jul 2025
00:08:54
In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about how chatbots are becoming digital companions and even "therapists"—but warns they're no substitute for real human connection.
00:21 – Capabilities of Chatbots Dr. Brandon talks about how advanced chatbots have become—some even act like friends, partners, or therapists.
01:33 – Chatbots in Therapy and Companionship She also mentions that many people use chatbots for emotional support, but warns they're not real therapists.
02:33 – Live Chatbot Interaction Example She also shares a live example of a chatbot that sounds super human, warm, and emotionally aware.
04:33 – Risks and Concerns with Chatbots She also brings up serious risks like false info, lack of privacy, and how chatbots can actually make loneliness worse.
07:28 – Final Thoughts and Recommendations She also recommends using chatbots with caution—don't let them replace real people or real therapy.
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The Impact of Porn on Young Brains (Scary Truth)
17 Jul 2025
00:26:46
In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about how early exposure to porn is shaping young people's views on sex, causing confusion, unrealistic expectations, and lasting effects on their brains and relationships.
00:24 – Early Exposure to Porn and Its Effects Dr. Brandon says most kids see porn around age 12, which can shape how they think about sex for years.
02:47 – Research Insights and Real-World Implications Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon share studies showing many college women were choked during sex and link this trend to lessons learned from porn.
13:20 – Adolescent Brain and Porn Exposure Dr. Brandon explains that teen brains rewire fast, so watching porn early can lock in what turns them on.
14:49 – Impact of Porn on Sexual Expectations Dr. Morgentaler notes that porn can give young men unreal ideas about body size and how quickly sex should start.
20:10 – Parental Guidance and Modern Challenges Dr. Brandon urges parents to talk early and often about porn, because filters help but kids still see it outside the home.
Resources: Pfaus, J. G. (2009). Who, what, where, when (and maybe even why): How the experience of sexual reward connects desire, preference, and performance. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 38(6), 901–914. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-009-9526-0
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The Science Behind Why People CRAVE Sex Tech (From a Sex Therapist)
14 Jul 2025
00:08:18
In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about how sex tech hijacks our natural instincts by acting as a "supernormal stimulus"—something manmade that satisfies primal urges even more powerfully than nature ever could—and why it's especially compelling for men.
00:04 – Understanding Supernormal Stimuli Dr. Brandon explains that sex tech grabs our attention because it's made to feel even more exciting than what's natural.
00:42 – Bird Experiments and Supernormal Stimuli She tells a story about birds choosing fake mates or eggs that looked more extreme, showing how easy it is to trick instincts.
02:25 – Food as Supernormal Stimuli She says apple pie is more tempting than a regular apple, just like manmade things can feel stronger than nature.
03:50 – Sex Tech as Supernormal Stimuli Dr. Brandon says sex tech, like VR porn or toys, feels more powerful than real-life stuff, which is why people want it so much.
05:06 – Gender Differences in Sex Tech She explains how men and women react differently to sex tech, like how they act at strip clubs, because of deep instincts.
07:19 – Conclusion and Final Thoughts Dr. Brandon reminds us to enjoy sex tech wisely and not let it take the place of real connection with others.
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Tired, Sad, Unmotivated? This Hormone Might Be Why
10 Jul 2025
00:22:33
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about how testosterone levels relate to age, weight, vitality, and long-term health—highlighting surprising research, the impact of obesity, and why staying lean may be the secret to aging well.
00:08 Testosterone and Aging: An Overview Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon open the episode with a candid look at how aging affects testosterone—and why it's more complex than most people think.
01:00 Symptoms and Diagnosis of Low Testosterone From low libido to lack of vitality, they explore subtle signs of low testosterone and the importance of testing even when symptoms aren't obvious.
03:42 Research Insights on Testosterone Levels They break down surprising research showing that average testosterone levels may not decline as much with age—but free testosterone tells a different story.
09:39 Impact of Weight and Lifestyle on Testosterone The doctors highlight how obesity is a major driver of low testosterone and explain how weight loss or GLP-1s can help restore healthy levels.
16:48 Concluding Thoughts and Final Tips The episode wraps with key takeaways: stay lean, stay engaged, and don't overlook testosterone—especially in overweight or aging men.
Resources: Wu, F. C. W., Tajar, A., Beynon, J. M., Pye, S. R., Silman, A. J., Finn, J. D., ... & Forti, G. (2010). Identification of late-onset hypogonadism in middle-aged and elderly men. New England Journal of Medicine, 363(2), 123–135. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa0911101
Wu, F. C. W., Tajar, A., Pye, S. R., Silman, A. J., Finn, J. D., O'Neill, T. W., ... & EMAS Group. (2008). Hypothalamic-pituitary-testicular axis disruptions in older men are linked to age and modifiable risk factors: The European Male Ageing Study. The Journal of Clinical Endocrinology & Metabolism, 93(7), 2737–2745. https://doi.org/10.1210/jc.2007-1972
Huhtaniemi, I., Forti, G., & EMAS Study Group. (2012). Profile of the European Male Ageing Study (EMAS): Background, aims, and study design. Archives of Gerontology and Geriatrics, 54(3), e547–e556. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.archger.2011.11.014
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Why Women's Sex Drive Goes Down... And What to Do About It (From a Sex Therapist)
27 Oct 2025
00:21:59
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about low sexual desire in women, why it happens, and practical ways couples can restore intimacy through understanding, communication, and shared strategies.
00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview – In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler introduce the topic of desire discrepancy and why it's a common challenge in relationships.
00:15 Understanding Desire Discrepancy in Women – They discuss how one partner often wants sex more than the other and how this imbalance can create frustration or resentment if not addressed.
00:52 Differences in Male and Female Sexuality – They explain key physical, hormonal, and societal differences between men and women that influence sexual desire and behavior.
10:31 Understanding Female Sexuality from an Evolutionary Perspective – They explore how evolutionary factors shape female sexuality, including why women may experience more "turn-offs" than men.
10:51 Common Issues Affecting Women's Libido – They cover real-life factors that reduce female desire, like stress, parenting, body image, medical conditions, medications, and partner dynamics.
14:26 Strategies to Increase Sexual Desire – They share practical approaches for boosting desire, including scheduling sex, alternating initiation, cultivating good sexual "vibes," and reconnecting with past arousal experiences.
Resources: Dual Control Model (Kinsey researchers): Kinsey, A., Pomeroy, W. B., Martin, C. E., & Gebhard, P. H. (1953). Sexual behavior in the human male. Philadelphia, PA: W. B. Saunders.
Book: Reclaiming Desire (Goldstein & Morgentaler): Goldstein, A., & Morgentaler, A. (2005). Reclaiming desire: 4 keys to finding your lost libido. New York, NY: Berkley Books.
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This Is What Porn Is Teaching Your Kids (And the Talk They ACTUALLY Need)
07 Jul 2025
00:23:11
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about how porn impacts adults and kids differently, why it's becoming the main source of sex education for young people, and why parents need to start having real conversations about it.
00:00 – Introduction and Controversy of Porn In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler open up a real, honest conversation about why porn is still such a hot-button topic.
00:47 – Gender Differences in Porn Consumption They break down how men and women often view porn differently—and how that shows up in therapy sessions.
03:19 – Impact of Porn on Youth and Society The doctors dig into how kids are being exposed to porn too early, and how it's replacing real sex education.
12:19 – The Impact of Aggressive Pornography They discuss the rise of aggressive sexual behaviors like choking—and how porn may be shaping young people's ideas of "normal."
13:57 – Reasons People Watch Porn Turns out, people don't just watch porn because they're horny—it can serve lots of emotional and mental roles, like boredom or stress relief.
18:32 – Concerns About Kids and AI As AI enters the picture, they warn that kids might turn to tech for sexual and emotional connection, with real risks for future relationships.
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Everything You Know About Men and Sex Is WRONG (What's Really Going On)
03 Jul 2025
00:16:27
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about what women often misunderstand about men sexually—from emotional vulnerability and stress to how men experience love, arousal, and connection.
00:00 – Introduction to The Sex Doctors Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler kick off the episode by diving into what women may not fully understand about men sexually.
00:10 – Understanding Men's Sexual Experiences They explore how men and women can engage in the same sexual behaviors but experience them in completely different ways.
01:36 – Strip Clubs: A Tale of Two Experiences The doctors compare how men and women behave in strip clubs to highlight the emotional differences in sexual settings.
04:19 – The Powerful Drive of Male Sexuality They discuss the deep biological urge that drives male sexual behavior, often stronger and more constant than in women.
07:09 – Men's Emotional Vulnerability in Sex Sex becomes one of the few spaces where men feel safe showing emotion, affection, and vulnerability.
11:26 – Challenges Men Face in Sexual Performance The episode wraps with insights on how pressure, stress, and performance expectations uniquely impact men's ability to function sexually.
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Erectile Dysfunction Cure? Top Urologist Shares the Truth
30 Jun 2025
00:17:36
In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler talks about how testosterone therapy can help treat erectile dysfunction in men with low testosterone—especially when vascular health isn't the main issue.
00:14 – Testosterone and Erectile Dysfunction: Expert Opinions In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler explains why some experts say testosterone shouldn't be used alone to treat ED—but why that's not the whole story.
01:19 – Personal Experience and Treatment Approach Dr. Morgentaler shares how treating low testosterone alone has helped many of his patients improve erections without ED meds.
03:38 – Key Studies on Testosterone Therapy He compares two major studies—Testosterone Trials and TRAVERSE—to show why results differ based on patients' heart health.
08:28 – Understanding Erectile Function and Testosterone's Role He breaks down how erections work and the key roles testosterone, nerves, blood flow, and the brain all play.
15:03 – Practical Treatment Strategies and Conclusion Dr. Morgentaler outlines his go-to treatment method: start with testosterone, then add ED meds if needed.
Resources: 1. The Testosterone Trials (2016): Snyder, P. J., Bhasin, S., Cunningham, G. R., Matsumoto, A. M., Stephens-Shields, A. J., Cauley, J. A., ... & Ellenberg, S. S. (2016). Effects of testosterone treatment in older men. The New England Journal of Medicine, 374(7), 611–624. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa1506119
2. The TRAVERSE Trial (2023): Bhattacharya, R. K., Harman, S. M., Coviello, A. D., Snyder, P. J., Swerdloff, R. S., Grobler, A., ... & Ellenberg, S. S. (2023). Cardiovascular safety of testosterone-replacement therapy. The New England Journal of Medicine, 388(15), 1349–1360. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa2215025
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Still Want Sex… Just Not With Your Partner? Sex Therapist Explains Why (And What To Do About It)
26 Jun 2025
00:27:09
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about what it means when you still want sex—but not with your partner—and how honesty, biology, and effort can help bring the spark back.
02:21 – The Monogamy Problem Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler explain how our biology craves variety, making lifelong monogamy a challenge for many couples.
06:36 – Revitalizing Desire in Relationships Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler explain that rebuilding desire takes honesty, effort, and a willingness from both partners to grow.
13:26 – Engaging in Relationship Activities They encourage couples to do fun, shared activities together to strengthen their emotional and physical connection.
15:48 – Understanding Mammalian Sexual Behavior Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler explain how human sexuality is driven by primal instincts—and how couples can tap into that to reignite intimacy.
20:30 – Addressing Sexual Disinterest and Jealousy They explore how disinterest can shift when partners communicate clearly—and even how jealousy can help spark desire again.
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2 Ways to Start Feeling Turned On Again (Your Sex Life Will Thank You)
23 Jun 2025
00:07:33
In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about how women can reconnect with their desire by exploring touch, fantasy, and understanding that female arousal often kicks in even when the brain isn't fully on board.
00:39 – Touch and Self-Discovery Dr. Brandon encourages women to spend time alone, reconnecting with their bodies through gentle, intentional touch.
01:01 – Experimenting with Sex Toys She recommends trying different types of vibrators to explore what feels good and reawaken physical pleasure.
01:55 – The Role of Fantasy in Arousal Dr. Brandon shares that many women lose interest in their usual fantasies, and encourages exploring new ones without judgment.
03:12 – Understanding Female Arousal Research She explains research showing that women's bodies often respond to a wide range of stimuli—even those they don't mentally find sexy.
05:45 – Applying Research to Personal Experience Dr. Brandon suggests focusing on what your body feels—not what your brain thinks—to help rediscover desire.
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The #1 Bedroom Mistake Men Keep Making (And How to Fix It)
19 Jun 2025
00:22:27
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler discuss the emotional and physical misunderstandings men often have about women's sexuality, and how clearer communication, confidence, and slowing down can lead to deeper connection and better sex.
00:49 Understanding the Double Binds in Sexual Dynamics Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler unpack the mixed messages men receive when asked to lead, yet told they're doing it wrong.
03:23 The Importance of Nonverbal Communication They explain how tone, touch, and subtle cues often speak louder than words during intimacy.
06:06 Empowering Men in the Bedroom They highlight how confidence, posture, and emotional presence help men reconnect with their sexual power.
09:12 Sexual Rules and Boundaries They explore how sexual "rules" can reflect disconnection and frustration—and how couples can work through them.
18:10 Practical Tips for Improving Sexual Relationships Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler offer actionable advice to slow down, build safety, and foster deeper intimacy between partners.
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These 3 Books TRANSFORMED How My Clients Connect in Bed (And Out)
16 Jun 2025
00:07:13
In this episode, Dr. Brandon discusses three powerful books that help you grow emotionally, deepen connection, and ultimately become a better lover—because great sex starts with self-awareness.
00:07 The Importance of Emotional Self-Awareness Dr. Brandon explains how understanding your own emotions helps you connect more deeply with your partner.
01:18 Book 1: On Self-Hatred by The School of Life A short, powerful read that explores self-criticism, people-pleasing, and how it impacts intimacy.
03:00 Book 2: Finding Meaning in the Second Half of Life by James Hollis A thoughtful guide full of wisdom and journaling prompts to help navigate personal growth at any age.
04:06 Book 3: A Billion Wicked Thoughts A fascinating look at sexual desires and fantasies, showing just how diverse and normal they really are.
06:05 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Dr. Brandon encourages listeners to read, reflect, and share these books as tools for better relationships and self-understanding.
Resources
On Self-Hatred – The School of Life Finding Meaning in the Second Half of Life – James Hollis A Billion Wicked Thoughts – Ogi Ogas & Sai Gaddam
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Does Testosterone REALLY Cause Blood Clots? Here's the Truth No One Talks About
12 Jun 2025
00:18:01
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler break down the myth that testosterone therapy causes blood clots and explain why the science says it doesn't.
00:05 Media Interaction on Testosterone Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about reviewing a media graphic on testosterone benefits and risks.
00:47 Understanding Erythrocytosis and Clots They explain how high red blood cell counts don't always mean higher risk for clots.
02:10 Testosterone Therapy and Red Blood Cell Count Testosterone can raise red blood cells—but that doesn't mean it causes harm.
03:26 Debating the Risks of Testosterone They share how major studies show testosterone does not raise clot or heart risks.
16:51 Conclusion and Takeaways The big takeaway: testosterone therapy does not cause blood clots.
Resources:
Mayo Clinic Proceedings Article:
Lincoff, A. M., Bhasin, S., Flevaris, P., Mitchell, L. M., Basaria, S., Boden, W. E., Cunningham, G. R., Granger, C. B., Khera, M., Thompson, I. M., Wang, Q., Wolski, K., Davey, D., Kalahasti, V., Khan, N., Miller, M. G., Snabes, M. C., Chan, A., Dubcenco, E., ... Nissen, S. E. (2023). Cardiovascular safety of testosterone-replacement therapy. The New England Journal of Medicine, 389(2), 107–117. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa2215025
TRAVERSE Study (NEJM):
Lincoff, A. M., Bhasin, S., Flevaris, P., Mitchell, L. M., Basaria, S., Boden, W. E., Cunningham, G. R., Granger, C. B., Khera, M., Thompson, I. M., Wang, Q., Wolski, K., Davey, D., Kalahasti, V., Khan, N., Miller, M. G., Snabes, M. C., Chan, A., Dubcenco, E., ... Nissen, S. E. (2023). Cardiovascular safety of testosterone-replacement therapy. The New England Journal of Medicine, 389(2), 107–117. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa2215025
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The One CRUCIAL Relationship Question Everyone Avoids (But Shouldn't)
09 Jun 2025
00:34:57
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler discuss how self-reflection, emotional honesty, and open conversations about sex and respect can help partners improve their relationships and deepen intimacy.
00:10 Self-Reflection in Relationships Dr. Brandon talks about the importance of asking yourself what kind of partner you really are.
04:08 Challenges and Solutions in Partner Dynamics They explain how trying too hard to please your partner can lead to loss of respect and problems in the relationship.
18:33 Addressing Relationship Dynamics The discussion shows how small issues grow when partners don't speak up about feeling ignored or undervalued.
20:02 Sexual Intimacy in Relationships They break down how to bring up sexual wants in a respectful way that opens the door for better connection.
24:10 Effective Communication in Relationships Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler stress that real progress comes from ongoing, honest, and kind conversations.
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Real Talk About Open Relationships (Solution or Disaster?)
05 Jun 2025
00:22:37
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about open relationships—what they really look like, why some couples explore them, and how strong communication and clear rules can make or break the experience.
00:16 Understanding Open Relationships Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about what open relationships really are—and how they mean different things to different couples.
00:39 Common Misconceptions and Realities They clear up the idea that open relationships are just about sleeping around, and share what they actually look like for most people.
02:21 Challenges and Dynamics in Open Relationships The doctors talk about how things like gender, expectations, and life experience can shape how people feel about opening up their relationship.
05:37 Exploring Rules and Boundaries They explain how couples often start with small steps, and why it's important for both people—especially the more hesitant one—to feel safe and set clear rules.
19:46 Final Thoughts and Takeaways The episode ends with the reminder that open relationships aren't for everyone, but honest conversations—even playful ones—can bring couples closer.
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5 Ways To Help Premature Ejaculation (From a Urologist & Sex Therapist)
23 Oct 2025
00:28:57
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about premature ejaculation—explaining why it's a common, treatable condition tied more to physiology and confidence than performance, and how communication, training, and medication can restore intimacy and ease.
01:20 The Double Standards in Sexual Expectations – Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about how society praises women for climaxing quickly but shames men for the same, creating unfair pressure and stigma.
05:02 Medical Treatments for Premature Ejaculation – They also discuss the most effective treatments available today, from topical sprays to antidepressants and other medications that help men last longer.
13:56 Understanding the Effects of Topical Anesthetics – They also discuss how topical anesthetics can safely delay orgasm by reducing sensitivity and boosting control during sex.
15:25 Exploring SSRIs and Their Side Effects – They also discuss how antidepressants like paroxetine or dapoxetine can help manage PE, though some men experience delayed orgasm or mood changes.
16:20 The Role of PD5 Inhibitors and Practical Solutions – Finally, they discuss how drugs like Viagra or Cialis can ease anxiety, improve confidence, and be combined with behavioral techniques for better results.
Resources: Raisi, A., et al. (2025). Efficacy and safety of pharmacological treatments in patients with premature ejaculation. Journal of Sexual Medicine.
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Why Monogamy Is So Hard (Even When You're in Love)
02 Jun 2025
00:05:39
This episode breaks down why monogamy can be tough for some folks and reminds us how important it is to keep talking with your partner along the way.
00:40 Genetic Factors in Monogamy Some research suggests our comfort with monogamy might be partly wired into our genes, like it is with certain animals.
01:33 Personality Traits and Monogamy Traits like being extroverted, super agreeable, or thrill-seeking can make sticking to one partner more challenging for some people.
02:42 Environmental Influences on Monogamy Being surrounded by attractive people—like in certain jobs—can make staying monogamous take more effort.
03:29 Living Life to the Fullest: A Challenge to Monogamy Some people struggle with monogamy simply because they want to explore life and all its experiences while they can.
04:15 Communication and Problem Solving in Monogamy Having honest, regular conversations with your partner is key to keeping monogamy strong and avoiding future problems.
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What Great Lovers Know That Most People Never Figure Out
29 May 2025
00:26:39
In this episode of The Sex Doctors, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler get real about what makes someone a great lover—and it's not about perfection, it's about being present, giving, and actually feeling connected in your body and with your partner.
00:19 The Concept of a Great Lover Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler kick things off by asking, "Would you want to make love to yourself?"—and unpack what it really means to be a great lover.
04:13 Challenges and Misunderstandings in Sexual Relationships They dive into common issues couples face in bed, from mixed signals to unmet needs, and how much of it comes down to miscommunication.
12:36 Understanding the Male Perspective Dr. Morgentaler opens up about how many men want to be great lovers but feel lost when nothing they try seems to work.
15:49 The Importance of Embodiment The doctors talk about how being "in your body" (not just your head) is key to great sex—and how tech and stress are pulling people away from that.
21:21 Practical Tips for Better Intimacy They share real, doable ways for both men and women to reconnect with their bodies and each other—including touch, movement, and slowing down.
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What Tech Can't Replace No Matter How Smart It Gets (According to a Psychologist)
26 May 2025
00:06:29
In this episode of The Sex Doctors, Dr. Brandon talks about how technology is moving fast—but reminds us that real love, connection, and kindness are things only humans can truly offer, and it's time we focus on doing more of that every day.
00:45 The Role of Technology in Relationships Dr. Brandon explores how technology now mimics love and intimacy, competing with real emotional and sexual connection.
01:33 Human Connection vs. Technological Interaction She warns that if we're not mindful, we may let machines replace the depth and beauty of human relationships.
01:59 Embracing Authentic Human Love Dr. Brandon reminds us that unlike tech, we have the power to love deeply and meaningfully—emotionally and physically.
02:56 Acts of Love in Everyday Life Simple gestures—like listening, smiling, or being present—can be powerful acts of love that strengthen real human bonds.
03:34 Preparing the Next Generation She stresses the importance of talking to kids about sex, porn, and tech so they grow up informed and grounded.
05:18 Conclusion: Cultivating Human Acts of Love Dr. Brandon closes by urging us all to take responsibility for keeping love human—through kindness, presence, and daily connection.
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The Truth About Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction (From a Sex Therapist)
22 May 2025
00:07:23
In this episode, Dr. Brandon breaks down the real reasons behind porn-related erectile dysfunction, explaining why the problem often starts with anxiety—not porn.
00:00 – Does Porn Cause Erectile Dysfunction? Dr. Brandon opens with a common question from clients—does porn actually cause ED?—and sets out to clear the air.
00:27 – Understanding Erectile Dysfunction and Research Quality She explains why not all studies are created equal, and how bad research online can lead to big misunderstandings.
01:33 – The Chicken and Egg Dilemma Often, ED came first—guys already dealing with anxiety or shame may just blame porn because it's easier to point the finger.
02:20 – Emotional and Psychological Factors From body image to relationship stress, Dr. Brandon breaks down how emotional baggage can quietly mess with arousal.
04:16 – Impact of Masturbation Habits Getting used to porn and solo routines can throw you off when it comes to real-life intimacy with a partner.
05:51 – Conclusion and Advice If something feels off, don't jump to conclusions—understanding the real cause is the first step toward fixing it.
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In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about why fewer people are getting into relationships, touching on politics, independence, and the rise of AI as a substitute for real connection.
01:34 – The Impact of Political Differences on Relationships Dating today feels harder because politics are turning potential partners into enemies before we even get to know them.
09:52 – AI and the Future of Relationships With AI chatbots offering comfort on demand, more people are turning to screens instead of real human connection—and it's changing everything.
13:17 – The Importance of Human Connection Even though relationships take work, nothing replaces the emotional, physical, and soul-level support that comes from being truly seen by another person.
14:51 – Combating Loneliness and Depression The more we isolate, the more we spiral—loneliness feeds depression, and the only real way out is reaching out to someone who cares.
20:48 – Balancing Masculinity and Femininity in Relationships For relationships to feel alive and exciting, we need to embrace our differences—strength, softness, backbone, and tenderness all have a place.
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What Doctors Got WRONG About Testosterone and Prostate Cancer
15 May 2025
00:20:37
In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon unpack the myth that eunuchs never get prostate cancer and reveal how powerful stories—not science—shaped decades of medical belief about testosterone.
00:07 – The Story of Testosterone and Prostate Cancer In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about how the belief that testosterone causes prostate cancer became so widely accepted—even without real evidence.
01:52 – Understanding Eunuchs and Historical Context They explain who eunuchs were and how their story got tied to prostate cancer in a way that stuck for decades.
05:43 – The Castrati and Misconceptions Dr. Morgentaler shares how the story of the castrati singers was used to support a medical myth, even though there was no real data behind it.
06:56 – Modern Research and Findings They walk through what today's research actually shows, including cases where people with little or no testosterone still developed prostate cancer.
14:19 – Conclusions and Reflections They wrap up by reminding us how powerful stories can shape beliefs—even in medicine—and why it's so important to keep questioning what we think we know.
Resources: Morgentaler, A., & Caliber, M. (2019). Safety of testosterone therapy in men with prostate cancer. Expert Opinion on Drug Safety, 18(11), 1065–1076. https://doi.org/10.1080/14740338.2019.1666103
Gooren, L., & Lips, P. (2014). Conjectures concerning cross-sex hormone treatment of aging transsexual persons. The Journal of Sexual Medicine, 11(8), 2012–2019. https://doi.org/10.1111/jsm.12563
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Why Great Sex Gets Boring, And How to Fix It (Advice From a Sex Therapist)
12 May 2025
00:09:33
In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about how keeping sex exciting isn't just about trying new things—it's about learning the emotional skill of lovemaking and the raw intensity of fucking, and why mastering both can truly transform your relationship.
00:54 – Dual Skills: Love Making and Fucking Dr. Brandon introduces the idea that keeping sex exciting means developing both emotional and physical intimacy as distinct but essential skills.
01:21 – Mastering Love Making She explains how true lovemaking comes from the heart—using emotion, eye contact, and vulnerability to deepen connection.
03:01 – Mastering Fucking She dives into the raw, body-driven side of sex, where showing desire openly becomes its own powerful form of intimacy.
04:18 – Balancing Both for Excitement Dr. Brandon emphasizes that long-term sexual fulfillment comes from practicing and switching between both styles.
07:41 – Practical Tips and Conclusion She offers practical ways to get started, encouraging couples to build comfort slowly, stay emotionally present, and keep things playful.
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How Porn Affects Your Kids, And How Parents Can Help (Sex Therapist Explains)
08 May 2025
00:13:32
In this episode, Dr. Brandon breaks down why it's time for parents to have honest, compassionate conversations with their kids about porn—because chances are, they've already seen it.
00:31 – Shocking Statistics on Kids and Porn She shares eye-opening stats on just how young—and how often—kids are being exposed to porn, often in places parents least expect.
02:29 – The Impact of Porn on Adolescent Brains Dr. Brandon explains how adolescent brains are rewired by what they see—and why porn can have a deeper impact than you think.
04:45 – Intentional vs. Accidental Exposure She breaks down how much of this exposure is accidental—and why that matters even more than you might assume.
06:38 – Aggressive Content and Its Effects Half the content kids see includes violence or pain, shaping harmful beliefs about what sex "should" look like.
09:03 – Parental Guidance and Taking Action Dr. Brandon urges parents to stop avoiding the topic and gives a first step for starting the porn talk with compassion, not shame.
Resources: Robb, M. B., & Mann, S. (2022). Teens and pornography. Common Sense Media. https://www.commonsensemedia.org/research/teens-and-pornography
With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon
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