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Top 5 things I'd do if I just realized my child was neurodivergent09 Sep 202600:13:16

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Summary

Let me tell you about the top five actions I would take if I just discovered my child was neurodivergent. I emphasize the importance of pausing to process the information, embracing accommodations, documenting progress, taking proactive steps for occupational therapy, and communicating about neurodivergence in a positive and affirming light. 


Takeaways

Pause and process before taking action.

Accommodations can make daily life easier.

Documenting progress helps recognize growth.

Don't wait for referrals; seek occupational therapy directly.

Communicate about neurodivergence in a positive way.


Links & Resources: 

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WELCOME TO THE SENSORY CODE PODCAST25 Aug 202600:02:53

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Formerly known as The Sensory W.I.S.E. Solutions Podcast — now The Sensory Code Podcast. Every week, pediatric occupational therapist Laura Petix helps you view behavior through a nervous system lens. When parents, caregivers, educators, and therapists understand how sensory processing differences affect learning and behavior, it changes the game forever.

Laura brings a unique POV to the table: her clinical experience as a pediatric OT, her lived experience as a neurodivergent, ADHD, sensory-sensitive person, and her firsthand knowledge of parenting a neurodivergent child. However you're showing up — parent, provider, or both — you're in the right place. 

Just pull up a chair, grab your fidget, and lock in.


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The best app for kids that won’t leave them in tears… even when they need to turn it off21 Oct 202400:49:44

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I’m an Occupational Therapist, and I’m also a Mom with an invisible mental load that never ends. Screen time is a tool that I am NOT afraid to use. But not all screen time is created equal. 


Some games or apps are more dysregulating than others, which is probably a HUGE reason for the meltdowns and behaviors that come up when it comes to turning off the device. Since the day I was introduced to Pok Pok (in 2021) until now, this has remained our ONE app that has never, and I mean NEVER caused behaviors or meltdowns. 


Melissa Cash is the Co-Founder and CEO at Pok Pok, the award-winning company reinventing healthy screen time for kids. One of Canada’s Top 100 Most Influential People of 2024, Melissa is also an advocate and start-up advisor for women and underrepresented founders. Previously, she was a Product Designer for the Walt Disney Company and worked at start-ups in Europe and Canada.


Esther Huybreghts is the Co-Founder and Chief Creative Officer at Pok Pok. With a Master's degree in Animation from the RITCS institute in Brussels, Belgium, she's the creative visionary behind the award-winning children's app Pok Pok, reimagining the way young children interact with technology from the ground up.

Ready to try Pok Pok for yourself? Click [ here ] and use code 25OTBUTTERFLY for a 25% off annual subscription, and a 7 day free trial! 

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“But everyone does that!” and other things people say about neurodiversity16 Sep 202400:17:29

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Listen to this short and sweet episode to help you understand the difference between kids who enjoy some sensory input, and kids who NEED some sensory input to function properly in their day. 

I'm tired of hearing comments like "but all kids do that!" or "aren't we all a little on the spectrum?" and this episode is my attempt to address those conversations.


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Recess is necessary for all kids- stop taking it away!09 Sep 202400:27:58

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Did you know some kids are getting their recess taken away as punishment for not focusing, being distracted, not getting their work done, and other behavioral issues in the classroom? Maybe you’re the parent to a child who has had this done to them. The American Academy of Pediatrics and The Center for Disease Control and Prevention have both made public statements emphasizing the necessity of at least 20 minutes of recess for elementary aged kids, and they both further state that recess should never be taken away as a punitive measure. 


This episode breaks down those research briefs and gives you the tools to advocate so that your child never misses out on their right to recess again.


Here are the links mentioned:

AAP statement

State Policies Database 

CDC + springboard brief

Results from the School Health Policies and Practices Study 2014

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"Help! My child is so dysregulated after school"02 Sep 202400:26:08

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Many of us are back into the swing of things at school, and with that comes so much more dysregulation! Listen in as I talk about where that dysregulation comes from and how you can try to get ahead of it (key word: try!). 


You’ll learn: 

  • What dysregulated behaviors are common to see after school 
  • How after school restraint collapse looks different for neurodivergent kids
  • Some immediate ways to regulate the nervous system right at school pick up
  • What kinds of sensory strategies to try after school once you get home

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A kids book about neurodiversity (Author’s notes version)26 Aug 202400:22:20

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Listen in to this episode to hear more context and insight behind some of the wording and passages I used in my book, A kids book about neurodiversity. You might be surprised to learn that this book’s intended audience is actually neurotypical kids, because I want to spread awareness and acceptance and celebration for our neurodivergent kids; it shouldn’t always be left up to us neurodivergent folks and families to constantly explain ourselves and our kids’ behaviors and needs to the world; what if we lived in a world where everyone just knew that there are variations among humans?

Register for the free 60 minute masterclass
here. 

Buy "A kids book about neurodiversity" here. 

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The Sensory Code Book

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story time: updates on my medication & diagnosis journey19 Aug 202400:35:48

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Listen in to this casual, story time episode where I catch you up to speed with my anxiety/ADHD journey and why I stopped medication. 

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The Sensory Code Book

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9 stupid-simple self regulation tools for parents (that don’t include deep breaths) 12 Aug 202400:22:56

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Do you ever feel like your patience runs out before your coffee does? In this episode, we focus on why it's essential for parents, teachers, and caregivers to prioritize their own regulation. It's not just about being able to stay calm when your child spills cereal all over the floor—it's about being equipped to handle life's daily challenges with a sense of calm and control.

Join me as I share some straightforward and practical strategies for self-regulation that you might already be doing without realizing their true potential. From chewing gum to changing your clothes, discover how these simple acts can actually help you maintain your cool. We’ll dive into the science behind why our bodies react the way they do and explore how we can proactively use these sensory strategies to reclaim our brain's resources and be the best versions of ourselves for our kids.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

  • The importance of self-regulation for parents and caregivers.
  • How to identify your own cues of dysregulation and what they might look like for you.
  • The neuroscience behind why our bodies go into "protective mode" during stress and how it affects our ability to multi-task.
  • Simple sensory strategies you can use throughout the day
  • My most IMPORTANT tip for implementing these sensory strategies



~Formerly known as The Sensory W.I.S.E. Solutions Pocast~ 
Sensory Detectives Boot camp Waitlist

The OT Butterfly Instagram

Work with Laura

The Sensory Code Book

The Sensory Code Newsletter

A Kids Book About Neurodiversity


Does my child need classroom accommodations? 05 Aug 202400:27:19

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Are you receiving constant feedback about your child's behavior or learning challenges in the classroom? 

In this episode, we explore why classroom accommodations are crucial for neurodivergent children and how they can transform your child's educational experience. I'll touch on sensory needs, emotional regulation, and executive functioning, offering general starting points to advocate for your child's unique needs. 

Join us for the upcoming school accommodations workshop on August 11th  
https://theotbutterfly.com/schoolworkshop 


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Sensory Detectives Boot camp Waitlist

The OT Butterfly Instagram

Work with Laura

The Sensory Code Book

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A Kids Book About Neurodiversity


Re-AIR: The "size of the problem" lesson & why I don't use it anymore29 Jul 202400:28:03

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The size of the problem is a common lesson therapists and teachers use to teach kids emotional regulation skills. As I have learned more about the neurodivergent community, I’ve started thinking about this lesson in a different late and want to share that with you in this episode. Don’t worry, it’s not all bad!

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The OT Butterfly Instagram

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RE-AIR: How to support regulation around the summer break 22 Jul 202400:24:14

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The transition to summer comes with so many emotions and behaviors, it can be really exhausting. There are ways to support your neurodivergent child through this transition.


In this episode, you’ll learn: 


  • Why the transition from end of school to summer vacation is difficult
  • How to handle big feelings around the end of school 
  • How to optimize regulation at home 
  • How to structure your time at home 

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Sensory Detectives Boot camp Waitlist

The OT Butterfly Instagram

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The Sensory Code Book

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A Kids Book About Neurodiversity


Re-writing the script: Unlearning childhood narratives with Stephanie Pinto15 Jul 202400:51:41

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Calling all millennial parents! Did you grow up hearing things like:

"Because I said so!"
"You're too old to be acting like that!"
"Give your Grandma a hug, don't be rude!"
"If you don't clean up these toys, I'm throwing them away!"
"I told you that would happen! You never listen."

Our parents were doing the best with the information they had-- not to mention, many of them also growing up with the same narrative. Well, in the age of gentle parenting and respectful parenting, our generation is now doing the work to unlearn all of those and go off script as we try to raise a more emotionally intelligent generation. In this episode, Stephanie and I share examples of what it sounds like to set healthy boundaries in a respectful way with your kids.

Register for the Chaos 2 Connection Summit for free HERE.

Stephanie lives in Sydney, Australia with her family and is a certified Emotional Intelligence coach, paediatric anxiety therapist, and ex-speech pathologist. She is the founder of Let's Raise Emotionally Intelligent Kids, an online community of over 90,000 parents.
Her ground-breaking book, From Chaos to Connection, was published in March 2023 and was an immediate Amazon Best Seller.
Stephanie was appointed as the Emotional Intelligence Mentor for Australia’s Nurture Parenting Magazine in 2021. She has also been featured in numerous international parenting summits and conferences and has now hosted 2 virtual parenting conferences with speakers from across the globe. 
Her platform focuses on supporting parents in learning how to manage their emotions, frustrations and stress so that they are happier, calmer and connect more deeply with their kids. She also helps parents to raise emotionally intelligent kids, who are self-aware and positively manage their emotions and behaviour.

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Sensory Detectives Boot camp Waitlist

The OT Butterfly Instagram

Work with Laura

The Sensory Code Book

The Sensory Code Newsletter

A Kids Book About Neurodiversity


Keeping sensory seekers entertained AND regulated (easy solutions you can do at home!) 08 Jul 202400:17:49

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If you have a sensory seeker and you're in need of easy, indoor ideas to keep them both entertained AND regulated... this is the episode for you.

Listen to this episode (sponsored in part, by Figgy) to hear 7 sensory based movement activities to do inside with your sensory seeker.

Here's a link to grab your own Figgy couch with a $20 discount 

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Why Is My Child's Behavior Worse When They're Sick? 24 Jun 202400:21:26

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If you have a child who’s been sick recently, you’ve probably found yourself wondering “Why are they so moody?” “why do they seem more sensitive than before?” 


You’re not imagining it. The nervous system is in a state of stress when it’s fighting viruses, ailments and bugs. Sensory systems are more impacted and so is behavior. 


Listen to this episode to feel validated for an experience you might have had recently or a reminder for what to expect next time. Stay till the end to hear my practical tips that I think every neurodivergent parent needs to know when helping their child transition back to “normal life” after an illness. 


PS- If you’re listening to this episode before June 30th, there’s time to register for my FREE masterclass, “4 steps to less stressful daily routines with your sensory sensitive child (without using punishments or sticker charts)” Register at THEOTBUTTERFLY.COM/4Steps


Can’t wait to see you there!



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Breaking generational & cultural cycles as a neurodivergent parent with Marcela Collier17 Jun 202400:37:44

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Are you a late diagnosed adult with childhood trauma relating to their missed/ignored neurodivergent needs who is NOW trying to provide better support for their own neurodivergent child? *Sigh* us too. Join Marcela Collier, certified parenting coach and neurodivergent mom to discuss our journey to accepting our neurodivergent brains and advocating for our own needs so we can better show up for our kids. 


Marcela Collier is a certified Parenting coach and former Therapeutic Care Provider-TFC, who specializes in helping parents break free from angry reactions, become secure parents, and raise emotionally healthy children. She is the founder of HIC Parenting Education Agency who has supported 14,151 parents to date in becoming secure parents through courses and coaching programs. She is a neurodivergent mom of twins with sensory processing needs.



Instagram @highimpactclub 

Marcela interviews me on her podcast: Spotify link apple link

Website: HICparenting.com

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Sensory Detectives Boot camp Waitlist

The OT Butterfly Instagram

Work with Laura

The Sensory Code Book

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A Kids Book About Neurodiversity


Your Body, Your Rules: Masturbation, Orgasms & intimacy with Dr. Tracy Dalgleish10 Jun 202400:32:07

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It’s 2024, self-pleasure, masturbation, orgasms…. It’s one of the most natural, fun, immediate ways to regulate our bodies, why should we be ashamed of it? Listen in to this unfiltered discussion about changes to intimacy after becoming parents and how burnt out, touched out moms can start getting bringing sexy back!


Dr. Tracy Dalgleish helps empower women and couples to improve their communication and build strong and healthy connections with themselves and their partner through therapy, wellness seminars, and her work outside of the therapy room. She contributes to popular media sites, including Motherly, Huffington Post, and Bustle. In addition to hosting the podcast, “I’m not your shrink” where she dives deeper into clinical knowledge and research in a relatable and informal way, her book “I Didn’t Sign Up For This: Stories of Unlocking Old Patterns and Finding Joy in Your Relationship” is a fantastic resource, which I highly recommend. Dr. Tracy is a mom of two young children and owner of Ottawa’s mental health clinic, Integrated Wellness, she knows what it means to balance the full load.


Learn more from Dr. Tracy: 

Dr. Tracy website

Dr. Tracy’s free guide to nurturing intimacy 

Dr. Tracy instagram

Dr. Tracy book

Come as you are book


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THC, CBD and Neurodiversity, with Dr. Miyabe Shields Ph.D. 03 Jun 202400:57:14

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Dr. Miyabe Shields, is a Ph.D. pharmaceutical scientist who specialized in the structural biochemistry of the endocannabinoid system for drug discovery. They have received national and international recognition for their pre-doctoral research in the endocannabinoid system and industrial accomplishments in the cannabis and emerging psychedelics industries.


After co-founding a cannabis research startup post-PhD, they delved into rare extract and formulation research, exploring heat-transformed cannabinoids and developed a novel form of cannabis extraction. Miyabe transitioned to community education and science advocacy through social media and podcasts, reaching over 6 million people.


Shifting away from production-focused roles, they now advocate for the therapeutic benefits of cannabis and psychedelics for neurodivergent brains. They co-founded the Network of Applied Pharmacognosy (NAP), a new research non-profit, to disseminate real-world applications of the synergies of nature by analyzing data and communicating research and educational information to the public.


In this episode, we’ll talk all about the difference between ways to take in cannabis, the different ingredients, and how this can be helpful (or harmful) to various neurotypes. Again, please keep in mind- this is not medical advice. This is just a discussion between 2 neurodivergent adults who happen to use cannabis as a tool in our regulation toolbox, sharing our lived experience and clinical research. 


Miyabe's Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/miyabeshields 

Miyabe's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/miyabephd/

Miyaboe's Research: https://www.appliedpharmacognosy.org/ 

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Why are restaurants so hard for my neurodivergent child and how can I help them? 27 May 202400:23:39

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Restaurants are a multi-sensory experience, and if you've got a neurodivergent child, you know that multi-sensory doesn't always necessarily mean a good thing. Between the sensory overload, confined space and social expectations of "behaving" in a restaurant, it makes sense why eating out as a family feels stressful for some families. Today I'll peel back the layers and talk about the specific triggers that are contributing to dysregulation, and give strategies to best support your children.  Plus hacks for keeping busy at the table.

Related episodes:
Social stories
Postural Endurance and wiggly kids
Interoception episode with Kelly Mahler
Interoception episode (Laura only) 

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Neurodivergent kids & birthday parties: the struggle is real20 May 202400:30:36

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Whether attending other celebrations or hosting your own, birthday parties can often be overwhelming due to sensory and emotional regulation challenges. However, with proper preparation and accommodations, we can minimize distress and help our neurodivergent kids fully participate and enjoy the experience. In this episode, I'll share my go-to strategies for birthday party guest OR host preparation. 


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A Kids Book About Neurodiversity


Helping Kids Thrive Outdoors with Nature-Based OT featuring Dr. Laura Park Figueroa 13 May 202400:55:43

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Tune in to hear us discuss the benefits of nature-based occupational therapy with Dr. Laura Park Figueroa. We explore how incorporating natural elements into therapy can help children build skills while regulating their nervous systems. I share some of my own experiences as an "indoor cat" to highlight how nature-based approaches aren’t always inherently sought out, but still incredibly important. 



Dr. Laura Park Figueroa, PhD, OTR/L is a pediatric occupational therapist with over 20 years of experience. She is the founder of Outdoor Kids OT, Inc., a nature-based pediatric practice, and Therapy in the Great Outdoors, LLC, an online hub for nature-based pediatric therapists of all kinds. Her PhD research examined the mechanisms of change at work in nature-based pediatric occupational therapy. 


You can connect with her on Instagram @lauraparkfig and follow Outdoor Kids OT @outdoorkidsot




Resource she mentioned: 

“Last child in the woods” book 

“Balanced and Barefoot” by Angela Hanscom 


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The OT Butterfly Instagram

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A Kids Book About Neurodiversity


How an Autism Diagnosis Saved Paige Layle's Life: Interview06 May 202401:01:24

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Have you ever wondered what it’s like to live as an undiagnosed Autistic person living in a neurotypical world? Maybe you’re a parent to a nonspeaking child or a child who’s too young to be able to properly express their experience. Learning from actually Autistic adults is one of the most valuable things you can do for your Autistic child and other Autistic individuals in the world, and today, we’re lucky enough to be hearing from one of my favorite Autistic adult creators, Paige Layle. 


She just released her memoir, “But Everyone Feels this Way: How an Autism Diagnosis Saved My Life” and we’re diving into it today. 


You can buy her book at Target, amazon, or Hachette’s website and I highly recommend it!


Trigger warning: Paige discusses her experience with thoughts of suicide. Please listen at your own discretion, and do not listen with your children around. 


Listen to this story to learn more about: 

  • Paige’s internal experience with sensory overload in the classroom
  • Her experience of an adult autistic meltdown vs. child autistic meltdown
  • How she made the difficult decision to leave university
  • How she would have benefitted from school accommodations if she were offered them

Link to Paige's book: https://www.hachettebookgroup.com/titles/paige-layle/but-everyone-feels-this-way/9780306831256/
Link to Paige's social: @paigelayle

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Why wiggle cushions AREN’T helping your child sit still29 Apr 202400:16:40

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This week I'm diving into some sneaky reasons why some sensory kids might be wigglers that have nothing to do with needing more movement. Prepare to get your mind blown as I break down the connection between core strength, posture, and focus. I'll also give you tons of do's and don'ts for supporting these kiddos in the classroom. By the end you'll be armed with all the deets to help your little learner shine without extra distractions. 

You’ll learn:

- The hidden connection between core strength, posture, and attention abilities 

- Common signs that weak core muscles may be to blame for fidgety behavior

- Why approaches like weighted vests or inflated seating options can backfire

- Practical seating solutions and positioning tips to support learning


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Sensory Detectives Boot camp Waitlist

The OT Butterfly Instagram

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The Sensory Code Book

The Sensory Code Newsletter

A Kids Book About Neurodiversity


Helping Kids Understand Occupational Therapy: A Guide for Parents22 Apr 202400:19:51

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As an OT, I often get asked how parents should explain why their child has to go to Occupational Therapy visits.

In this episode,  parents will have some guidance on preparing children for evaluations, answering their questions about therapy, and explaining OT to siblings.

You'll learn simple scripts tailored to different child ages that will help demystify the process and make OT a more positive experience.

Whether you're new to OT or a seasoned pro, I'll share my tips for communicating effectively with kids about sensory processing and how an occupational therapist can help them feel more comfortable at home and school.

In this episode, you'll learn:

- What questions to ask of the OT clinic to prepare your child best 

- Age-appropriate ways to explain the evaluation process to kids

- Sample scripts for talking to children about why they attend OT sessions

- Sample scripts for helping neurotypical siblings understand why their sibling attends OT

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The Sensory Code Book

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Celebrating Occupational Therapy Month 202415 Apr 202400:30:27

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Get ready for an info-packed episode on Occupational Therapy to celebrate this wonderful field in OT month (for U.S.).

 I shared how OT can help with all different kinds of challenges like motor skills, focusing, anxiety and sensory issues. Whether assessing needs, modifying environments or teaching regulating strategies, OTs have creative solutions to support kids' skills and behaviors. From building body awareness to providing customized interventions, we get to play all day while helping kids learn. I hope this gave you a taste of what OT is all about - it was so fun sharing all the insights!

- Episode 30: How to Get Started with OT and how it can change your life

- Episode 93: How to identify neurodiverse affirming therapists and some green flags to look for

- Episode 70: An interview with Dr. Krupa Playforth on advocating for OT with your pediatrician 

- Episode 24: Making the most out of OT services

- Episode 69: Understanding IEPs and 504 plans in a school-based OT setting



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Why does my child hate changes in routine? 08 Apr 202400:19:51

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In this episode, I dive into why some kids – especially neurodivergent ones – thrive on routine and struggle when things change.

 As a neurodivergent adult and occupational therapist, I'll share insights into the sensory and cognitive challenges that can make even small changes feel like big disruptions. I'll also dish out practical tips for parents to support their neurodivergent kiddos through these transitions. Join me as we uncover the secrets to smoother sailing in the unpredictable seas of routine changes.

Social story podcast: 
https://theotbutterfly.com/social-stories-for-kids/sws-podcast/ 

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How to provide regulation in a home with conflicting sensory needs01 Apr 202400:20:34

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Do you feel pulled in multiple directions trying to meet the unique sensory needs of each child in your home? In this episode, I’ll dish my top strategies for balancing the often conflicting sensory profiles within families.


You'll learn practical ways to create separate sensory spaces, set clear boundaries with alternatives, and rely on sensory layering to make any environment work for everyone. 


Whether you have an overstimulated child and a sensory avoider under the same roof or just struggle with dinner time chaos, you'll walk away with immediate tips you can start using tonight. 


By prioritizing inclusion, boundaries and regulation for all, you'll feel more confident in your ability to meet the needs of every unique individual in your home.


Link from show:
Sensory Layering podcast episode

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Help! My child wakes up dysregulated. What do I do? 25 Mar 202400:18:30

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Parents, are you dealing with a kid who just constantly wakes up on the wrong side of the bed? NO matter what you do or offer them, they're just dysregulated no matter what. 

This episode is for you. I'll help you make sense of those non-sensical moods and give you an action plan to hopefully curb some of that dysregulation.  

Listen into learn: 

  • That chronic dysregulation is a real thing and some children's nervous systems can get stuck in a state of fight or flight activation.  
  • Why your child might be chronically dysregulated
  • 3 in the moment tips to intercept the morning meltdown
  • How waking up earlier oneself can help be more present for a dysregulated child.
  • Ideas on how to start proactively regulating their nervous system


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Brainstorming solutions WITH our kids, instead of for them.18 Mar 202400:16:07

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In this episode, I'm exploring an approach I've found really effective called collaborative problem-solving. I'll break down the steps so you can understand the process. And I'll share a real example from my own parenting journey - what happened when I tried validating my daughter's perspective and attacking the problem objectively (minimizing emotions) to find a creative solution that she could agree to? Collaborative problem solving has really shifted our dynamic from a battle of wills to a feeling of partnership.

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The Nervous System Budget: a new way to think about accommodations for neurodivergent individuals11 Mar 202400:15:08

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 I wanted to share a new concept I've been thinking about called the "nervous system budget." Basically, it's a way to visualize how different tasks and environments affect our nervous systems. I'll explain how we all have a limited amount of "nervous system cash" each day, and how certain things can cost more than others. 

I'll also give some ideas for how parents can help kids spend less and save more for the things that really matter. My hope is that framing it this way can help parents be more intentional about supporting their kids' regulation. 


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Journey from Referral to Recommendations: what to expect (Tips from a Clinical Psychologist) 04 Mar 202400:44:18

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Dr. Alex Reed is a clinical psychologist who specializes in the assessment and support of neurodevelopmental diagnoses across the lifespan 


Alex and I are both contributors in Dr. Becky’s goodinside community- a movement and platform that we really enjoy supporting. Alex and I have so many sideline conversations about neurodiversity and are constantly sharing resources and posts that speak to our souls— they usually have to do with finding ND affirming care. So I invited Alex on today because she does most of her work within the more traditional DSM-medical model, so she can give us more insight into that lens… but more specifically, I invited her on because she and I have both been hearing about how many parents leave this process-their evaluation, their diagnosis with a referral to therapies they aren’t sure about, or they leave with more questions, or they leave feeling icky. 


I’m hoping Alex can peel back some of those layers for us today so we can understand a bit more about the process and the quote unquote system– and more importantly, what’s within our control as parents if we can ONLY access those services through “the system”- what are our options to help our neurodivergent kids thrive as they are? 


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Advice from a 6 year old (Lliana Q&A)26 Feb 202400:26:06

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Liliana surprises me every single day. She’s intelligent, well spoken, mature, empathetic and so so caring. You can see all of those qualities through her in this episode, which was in part created by you who submitted questions for her to answer!


In this episode, you’ll hear Liliana give advice about

  • What to do when you’re worried about going to school
  • What to do when you can’t fall asleep
  • Her favorite calming techniques
  • What to do in the morning if you have a hard time getting up 


And so much more!

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How to use exercise to regulate your nervous system with Dr. Shannon Ritchey 19 Feb 202400:44:08

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We cannot co-regulate our kids if we aren’t regulated ourselves. And most of us (I’m raising both of my hands here) need to make extra effort to activate our parasympathetic nervous system because our sympathetic nervous systems can go into overdrive so quickly as parents to neurodivergent kids. Chronic dysregulation and chronic sympathetic nervous system activation is definitely a THING, our kids can experience, and we can too. And when we’re chronically dysregulated, literally everything in our day just becomes harder, less efficient, and we become crankier, more burnt out, and less able to access the best parenting skills. I put off creating an exercise routine for a long time because I  just wasn’t the most active person and it didn’t motivate me- which I’ll share in the podcast, but trust me when I say- it’s true! It’s true what they say- consistent movement in a way that feels good to your body, that incorporates a good warm up and cool down can do WONDERS for your mental health, and I am truly a better parent and wife now that I have a fitness regime that works for me.

Dr. Shannon is a former physical therapist and the founder of Evlo Fitness. Her mission is to help women get stronger and build muscle with less strain on their bodies. She believes in the power of educating about the physiology of our bodies to create fitness programs that aren’t overly depleting or exhausting. 

This episode dives in to:

> A little background on my workout journey 

> Why it’s important to NOT skip the cool down in an exercise program 

> What is gentle consistency (™) and how can it help you maintain an active lifestyle that works for you

> How to get started with an exercise routine if you feel completely overwhelmed 


Links: 

Fit Body, Happy Joints podcast episodes Laura recommends: 

Is walking enough?

Productive vs. unproductive stress

Nervous system tools to improve your results

How to train your nervous system


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Making screen time work for your family with Ash Brandin, EdS12 Feb 202400:54:53

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Let's normalize screen time use in whatever way works for your family. I know as parents we are CONSTANTLY bombarded by a list of shoulds and shouldn’ts and really big, click-baity headlines that really create a lot of fear and guilt among parents. You see this for almost every childhood concern, but I see it a lot around screens. And in 2024, we’re definitely not decreasing our kids’ exposure to screens so let’s lean into it a bit and really find out- do we really need to stress about limiting screen time? Are there differences between the screentime use our kids are having, and what does this say about neurodivergent kids? 


Ash Brandin, EdS (they/them) has been a public school educator for over a decade. In that time they found innovative ways of using student interests- including video games- to increase engagement and make learning more fun and effective. Since February 2021, their Instagram page- TheGamerEducator- has helped tens of thousands of families make screen time beneficial for the whole family. Ash believes screens should be part of our lives, not the center of our lives, and helps caregivers navigate the world of tech using consistent, loving boundaries. In their free time, Ash loves to hike, bake, play video games, and spend time with their family. 

Links:
https://thegamereducator.com/

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Understanding nervous system regulation with Dr. Joy Malik-Hasbrook05 Feb 202400:42:28

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Dr. Joy and I chat about why nervous system regulation is so important for parents and kids to understand, and how you can start to explain it to them. We then touch on how you expand the knowledge of nervous system regulation into understanding that some brains and bodies are different, and their nervous system regulation (and finding the green energy) can look different for neurodivergent kids. 

Dr. Joy Malik-Hasbrook, PsyD (she/her), is a licensed clinical psychologist who helps children feel seen and grownups heal. She provides regulation and resiliency-based parenting support, specializes in neurodiversity assessments with kids, and presents on nervous system regulation and neurodiversity-affirming assessment. She is a mama of 2, a highly sensitive human, and biracial of South Asian Indian/white descent. She values integrating both Asian contemplative practices and contemporary psychology into her work and is committed to anti-oppressive practices. Dr. Joy understands how challenges with dysregulation create more distress. She believes that understanding nervous system regulation leads to compassion and resiliency and that all families should have access to this information—this book is a start!


You can find more of her work at: 

https://www.drjoymalikhasbrook.com/

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100 episodes “wiser” [with Liliana] 29 Jan 202400:25:38

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Welcome to the 100th episode of the sensory W.I.S.E. solutions podcast! I'm so excited to celebrate this milestone with all of you. In this special episode, I'll be reflecting on our journey so far and sharing some of my favorite episodes and key stats from the past 100 shows. You’ll also get to hear from my 6 year old, Lilliana who shares her perspective on neurodiversity and gives some advice to any kids with similar support needs out there. And she'll even read a few pages from my kids book, “A Kids book about neurodiversity”! Thanks so much for listening and supporting the podcast throughout its first 100 episodes. 


Here's to many more insightful discussions around sensory processing and neurodiversity.

Episodes we talked about:
>>What is Sensory Processing Disorder?
>>Sensory Processing Disorder: Sensory Sensitive Profile
>>High Threshold: Sensory Seekers vs. Low Registration
>>Neurodiversity and interoception with Kelly Mahler, MS OTR/L
>>The ABA Therapy Controversy
>> Why Is Your Child Acting Out? Uncovering 'The Gap' in Behavior
>>Why your child is a picky eater, and when to seek help.
>> The Number One Reason Your Kid Hates Hygiene Tasks
>> Bed time battles: Practice strategies and when to work with OT, with Dr. Tina Bryson
>> Is it Sensory or Is it Behavior?
>> Having a mixed threshold child
>>Using “sensory layering” to enhance nervous system regulation
>>  How to Get Started with a Sensory Lifestyle in 5 Easy Steps
>> Proprioception: What is it and How does it Support my Child?
>> Making the most out of OT services
>> When sticker charts backfire
>>How to Talk to Your Child About Their Neurodiversity
>> Accommodation vs. Exposure for Sensory Kids



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Kristi Palmer {KIVA founder} on de-stigmatizing cannabis use for millennial parents22 Jan 202400:47:55

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In this episode I chat with Kristi Palmer, founder of Kiva Confection edibles, about how cannabis products can be integrated into our busy lives as parents. Kristi shares how she uses edibles to manage the chaos of dinner time and her kids' bedtime routine. I also discuss how edibles help me relax in the evenings and get a great night's sleep. We talk about dosing, favorite products, educating kids, and more. If you've been curious about edibles but have reservations, give this episode a listen - it may give you the courage to try something new that could make your life a little easier!


Kristi Palmer is the co-founder and President of Kiva Confections. In 2010, Kristi and Scott Palmer were on a mission to bring the highest-quality, safest, most delicious cannabis products to consumers and began making chocolate bars out of their California home kitchen. Now established leaders in the cannabis industry, pioneering product innovation and consumer education, the company is focused on growth and expansion. Kiva offers something for everyone with their award-winning Camino and Lost Farm gummies and fruit chews, Petra mints, Terra chocolate bites, and Kiva chocolate bars. The #1 edibles maker in California, Kiva’s products can be found in 10+ states and thousands of dispensaries across the U.S.


Links:

www.kivaconfections.com

https://www.kivaconfections.com/blog/kristi-palmer-kiva-co-founder-and-canna-mom 

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So your child was just diagnosed, now what?15 Jan 202400:20:51

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Listen to this episode if you’re looking for practical next steps after your child receives an autism, ADHD, anxiety or other DSM diagnosis. Listeners will learn how to navigate the many emotions that come with a diagnosis, as I validate the relief, validation but also overwhelmed, confused or worried feelings parents may experience. I recommend taking time to process the diagnosis before making major decisions. Then I outline a step-by-step approach, including re-reading evaluation reports, starting the process for school services if recommended, researching recommended therapies, and focusing research efforts on priority areas during waiting periods for services. My hope is that by laying out this plan, parents will feel less overwhelmed and more empowered to support their child following a diagnosis.

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How does sensory processing actually work?08 Jan 202400:20:55

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In this episode, I break down the basics of sensory processing in a step  by step, easy to understand way. Learn how each of the 8 sensory inputs travel through our bodies, how the brain triggers a response and how that manifests in our behaviors. With this information, you’re ready to start tackling those behaviors from a more sensory informed lens!


You’ll learn: 

  • The 5-step process of how sensory information is processed and integrated
  • How sensory processing happens automatically and constantly in the background to allow us to function
  •  Why familiar routines and environments require less brain energy than new situations
  • What happens when our basic needs are not met 


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Unscripted: My husband was the default parent for 17 days01 Jan 202400:42:30

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Follow along as my husband and I do a quick recap of the 17 days I spent away from home while I was in the Philippines and Mark took on the role of default parent for our daughter Liliana.

We discussed how he handled the daily routines like school drop offs and meals without any reminders from me. Mark shared some funny stories like when he tried taking Lilianato a 4D movie experience that didn't go as planned (IYKYK).

Overall, Mark rose to the challenge and felt more confident in his parenting abilities after having to fully manage everything alone for over two weeks.

Both Mark and I felt this experience strengthened our family dynamic and we are all better for it.

Listen to our previous episode together more on his experience as a neurodivergent parent.


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How to introduce neurodiversity and sensory tools to a general ed classroom18 Dec 202300:24:10

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It’s one thing to be able to identify the best supports, tools and accommodations for your neurodivergent child, but I find that implementing it successfully in the classroom isn’t always easy. One of the things I recommend parents or teachers to do is to spend some time introducing the entire classroom to sensory tools, what they are, who they’re for, and how they help. The idea is to normalize neurodiversity early on, so that when sensory tools or fidgets are being used by an ND student in the classroom, it’s less of a disruption, there’s less stigma and more overall acceptance and awareness that different brains are beautiful! 


Other related podcast episodes: 
https://theotbutterfly.com/episode10/sws-podcast/

https://theotbutterfly.com/whole-body-listening/sws-podcast/

https://theotbutterfly.com/neurodiversity-talk-with-child/sws-podcast/

https://theotbutterfly.com/gifted/sws-podcast/ 

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Navigating Food Allergies with Compassion: A Conversation with the Asian Allergy Mom11 Dec 202300:51:19

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In this episode,I talk with Ina Chung, known as @theasianallergymom on Instagram. Ina shares her personal story of parenting her daughter who has food allergies to peanut, dairy and egg. She discusses how she educated herself on food allergies as a new mom and advocates tirelessly for inclusion of food allergy families. Ina offers practical tips and strategies for managing her daughter's allergies at school and in social settings. We also explore the intersections of food allergies and neurodiversity. This conversation provides valuable insights for both families living with food allergies as well as those wanting to better support their loved ones. You’ll walk away with actionable steps they can take to make food allergy families feel safe and included.


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Identifying Neurodiverse Affirming Therapists: Green Flags to look for04 Dec 202300:40:12

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Listen in as I discuss important signs parents can look for to determine if a therapist or clinic is neurodiverse affirming so they can make the most informed decision when looking into therapy providers for their neurodivergent child.

Links:
episode on making the most out of OT services

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The Truth About Labels: Understanding the Pros and Cons27 Nov 202300:34:33

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In this episode, I explore one of the most nuanced topics in parenting - the use of labels for children. As an OT and mom to a sensory sensitive child, I've seen firsthand both the pros and cons that labels can bring. I discuss my own journey in understanding different perspectives on labels and how my views have evolved. Listeners will gain insight into why labels are so meaningful to some, yet controversial to others. I also share strategies for effective advocacy and community-building regardless of stance on labels. My goal is to start respectful conversations that consider multiple truths on this issue. Ultimately, we must challenge stigma at its root by promoting education over assumptions.

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Short, Sweet or Sassy Comeback Responses for Every Judgy Relative 20 Nov 202300:27:26

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In this episode, I share my top comebacks for dealing with judgmental comments about parenting a neurodivergent child. As parents, we've all experienced unwanted advice or passive aggressive remarks from friends and family about our parenting style or our child's behavior. But it can be hard to know how to respond without causing conflict.

I'll provide a variety of polite, informative, and sassy responses you can have in your back pocket for common comments like "My parents would never let me get away with that" or "Why don't you just try XYZ intervention?" You'll learn different ways to shut down shaming, set boundaries, and educate others without losing your cool.

Whether you need neutral ways to handle helicopter relatives or spicy one-liners to use on particularly judgmental family members, this episode has the perfect comebacks to empower you to engage effectively while still keeping the peace. I'll also share tips for preventing problems and handling difficult conversations with tact. By the end, you'll feel prepared for any parenting critique this holiday season.


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Understanding Pathological Demand Avoidance: Accommodating PDA Needs with Expert Casey Ehrlich13 Nov 202301:07:50

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In this episode, Laura Petix interviews Casey Ehrlich, a social scientist and expert in Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA). Casey shares her personal story of discovering her son's PDA diagnosis and journey to understanding. She discusses PDA as a dysregulated nervous system perceiving threats to autonomy. Casey provides 5 key accommodation strategies for supporting PDA needs, including letting kids win games, using declarative language, strewing for engagement, letting go of demands for "please" and "thank you", and allowing kids to opt out. Laura asks challenging questions and Casey explains how to apply accommodations thoughtfully. Parents will learn practical ways to connect with their PDA kids through an autonomy-focused lens. This episode is invaluable for anyone seeking to understand and support the unique needs of children with Pathological Demand Avoidance.

About the expert:
Casey Ehrlich, Ph.D. (she/her) is a social scientist, parent educator, and the founder of At Peace Parents, LLC. Casey brings 15 years of work experience and expertise in social science methodology to help parents and therapists understand how to connect with and accommodate PDA Autistic children. She specializes in teaching parents and therapists practical skills in the home or clinical setting to accommodate neuroception-driven demand avoidance and nervous system differences through creative techniques. She has served more than 1,000 families raising PDA Autistic children and teens since 2020 and is also raising a PDA autistic son.


Questions we cover: 

What is PDA?

What is like parenting a child with PDA? 

What are the best ways to accommodate a child with PDA? 

What are some resources to look further into PDA? 


Links: 
@atpeaceparents instagram 

PDA parents podcast https://www.pdaparents.com/podcast 

- Kristy Forbes

- Neuroclastic

- Neurodivergent Lou

- Sally Cat (writes on the internalized expression of PDA)

- PDA Society (for journal articles on research about PDA)

- “The declarative language handbook”


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4 S’s for regulation  in PDA


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Neurodiversity in Society: Embracing Differences for a Better Future (roundtable discussion)06 Nov 202301:14:52

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I recently had an open discussion with my instagram audience on whether or not someone with a clinical diagnosis of anxiety would be considered neurodivergent. This stemmed from an inner conflict I was experiencing and trying to decide– am I neurodivergent? 


I actually shared a more in depth view of where I stand on this topic personally and it’s in the previous episode, 88 if you want to go back and listen to that after this. 


This question brought up such great conversations in my DMs and I realized how nuanced this topic was, and how much I wanted to bring this discussion to a larger platform and to include different voices on the topic. 


So I reached out to some of my most respected peers in this space who all have some personal and professional tie to neurodiversity. 


I invited Dr. Cassidy Freitas (LMFT), Andi Putt (speech therapist) and Mr. Chazz (teacher of teachers and parenting coach) to join me for this round table episode. 

I asked questions like 

  1.  What does the label of neurodivergent/ neurotypical do for people and society
  2. if we classified too many mental health diagnoses as neurodivergent, would that “dilute” the meaning?
  3. If we include mental health diagnoses, it can seem like majority of the population would classify as neurodivergent, what does that mean for a "neurotypical" label if they are in the minority? 
  4. Should you tell your child’s teacher about their neurodiversity at the beginning of the school year?
  5. I asked them to weigh in on a thought someone shared with me that said “is anyone really neurotypical?”

Links:
Mr. Chazz Instagram

Mr. Chazz podcast episode: “Conscious Discipline with a ND child” 

Mr. Chazz podcast episode: “How to handle hitting with an OT” 
Mr. Chazz podcast epsiode: " Vestibular Processing with an OT" 

Dr. Cassidy Instagram

Dr. Cassidy podcast episode:” The trauma experience in parenthood”

Dr. Cassidy podcast episode: “Raising a sensory sensitive child”

Andi Putt Instagram

Andi Putt podcast episode: “Celebrating Autism with a neurodiverse lens”
Self-reflection episode on neurodiversity

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Unscripted: Am I neurodivergent? 30 Oct 202300:35:11

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It all started when a 4th grader at my daughter’s school asked me if I’m neurodivergent after I finished doing a read aloud of my book to their school. And I don’t know why but I stumbled over my words. 


I kept thinking about it over and over again that day and then shared it to my stories with a question, am I neurodivergent? 



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Ask These 4 Questions to Identify Your Child's Dysregulation Patterns23 Oct 202300:33:12

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We talk a lot about noticing when your child becomes dysregulated and paying attention to their behaviors so you can identify a pattern, but what if the pattern isn't obvious?

There are 4 main questions that you could be thinking about to help narrow down patterns around your child's behavior and I'm sharing them with you today.

You'll also get to hear testimony from previous sensory detectives boot camp (SDBC) alum. 


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Why Is Your Child Acting Out? Uncovering 'The Gap' in Behavior16 Oct 202300:20:26

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Are you searching for the answers to help stop a certain behavior that keeps coming up for your child? Maybe they’re always hitting or yelling; maybe they are getting notes sent home from school that they’re not paying attention or keeps disrupting class.


Before you can look for solutions to stop the behavior, you need to understand why the behavior is occurring. And the first place to look for the answer to that question is in “the gap”. Listen to this episode to hear how I talk about the “gap where behavior lives”. 


You’ll learn: 

  • What I mean by “the gap” 
  • How to breakdown the demands of a task/environment 
  • Why your child doesn’t always have access to the skills they previously had
  • 2 ways to decrease “the gap”


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