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266. An Announcement that Unexpectedly Turned into an Episode.15 Feb 202500:10:56

 In this episode we chat:

  •   Leaning on God's wisdom and not your own understanding
  • What's going to be happening hear on the pod for the next 2 months!

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265. Do you REALLY Value Yourself like You Say You Do?30 Jan 202500:17:39

 In this episode we chat:

  •  The Proverbs 31 woman and how she demonstrated how she VALUES herself
  •  FINDING time to maintain and care for yourself even with a busy schedule-- it's there I promise!!
  •  How the way you carry yourself INFLUENCES how people treat you

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Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

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264. 30 things I learned in the last 30 years-- It's my birthday!.23 Jan 202500:30:33

 In this episode we chat:

  • The 30 things I've learned since turning 30! I promise these are non-generic and totally worth the listen!

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Click here to catch the valued masterclass at $19.95 ONLY through midnight 1/23/25 in honor of my 30th birthday! Valued is:a powerful, 52 minute masterclass that takes you from EFFORTING your way into SCRAPS of attention from INCONSISTENT MEN to attracting the types of men who SHOW you how they VALUE YOU through their actions

CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:

Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

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263. Setting (And Executing!) Yearly Goals, Motivation, and Getting it Together for 2025!.09 Jan 202500:49:07

 In this episode we chat:

  • What I'm doing different in 2025 vs 2024 when it comes to goal setting and why 2024 was quite... directionless.
  •  My yearly goal setting + executing process (and why vision is KING when it comes to goal setting)
  •   Actionable tips all along the way on how to set, execute, AND ACHIEVE ALL your 2025 goals 

WORK WITH BEATRICE:

Click here to join Valued the masterclass at $77 where I  teach you how to go from being a SLAVE TO ATTENTION from a man (aka WAITING ANXIOUSLY next to your phone and putting it on DND to avoid seeing zero notifications, hinting at him to do more even though you know he won't, and feeling CONFUSED ABOUT HOW HE FEELS because he doesn't make you feel SECURE by TELLING you how he feels about you...

to stepping into the SOFT, RELAXED feminine woman who attracts men who SHOW you how they VALUE YOU with your actions.

CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:

Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

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"Your Truth, My Truth, Spirituality, Personal Development, and... Christianity, a much needed conversation"26 Sep 202400:28:17

In this episode we chat:

  • The Personal Development to Spirituality to "My Truth" Pipeline
  • Manifestation and what they DON'T tell you about the spiritual world
  • God, the Truth, + the Spiritual Realm

WORK WITH BEATRICE:

Click here to join Valued the masterclass at $77 where I  teach you how to go from being a SLAVE TO ATTENTION from a man (aka feeling CONFUSED ABOUT HOW HE FEELS because he doesn't make you feel SECURE by TELLING you how he feels about you...

to stepping into the SOFT, RELAXED feminine woman who attracts men who SHOW you how they VALUE YOU with your actions.

CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:

Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!

256. Is dating becoming an idol for you?.12 Sep 202400:32:01

In this episode we chat....

  • Why it's VERY HARMFUL to "see" how things are going and "wait it out" when you KNOW he is a walking dealbreaker
  • How to STOP undermining your dealbreakers when you come across the "nice guy" the guy that seems like "the one"
  • What it looks like to have dating/the marriage thing/the man thing be an IDOL in your life 
  • The dangers of IDOLIZING a man and therefore putting him in God's place

WORK WITH BEATRICE:

Click here to join Valued the masterclass at $77 where I  teach you how to go from being a SLAVE TO ATTENTION from a man (aka feeling CONFUSED ABOUT HOW HE FEELS because he doesn't make you feel SECURE by TELLING you how he feels about you...

to stepping into the SOFT, RELAXED feminine woman who attracts men who SHOW you how they VALUE YOU with your actions.

CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:

Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!

255. Part 2 Confidence vs. Pseudo-confidence.05 Sep 202400:18:14

In this episode we chat....

  • Letting go of OVER-EXPLAINING or JUSTIFYING yourself + your decisions
  • How talking TOO MUCH can actually be a sign of a LACK of confidence
  • Why confident people say LESS

WORK WITH BEATRICE:

Click here to join the FREE 6 day email challenge In Your Feminine Era

 CLICK HERE TO ENROLL IN THE SCHOOL OF RELAXED DATING™: THE FOUNDATIONS

The School of Relaxed Dating™ is a foundational, one-of-a-kind school that teaches you how to effortlessly elevate your love life through skyrocketing your confidence around men and calling forward masculine, provider men who adore, cherish, and VALUE you through their ACTIONS.

 

CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:

Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

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254. Confidence vs. Pseudo-confidence (Part 1???)29 Aug 202400:17:12

In this episode we chat....

  • Confidence vs. FAKE confidence and how to tell the difference
  • Ways insecurity masks itself through FAKE confidence
  • How walking in FAKE confidence is actually incredibly manipulative

 WORK WITH BEATRICE:

 CLICK HERE TO CATCH THE SCHOOL OF RELAXED DATING™: THE FOUNDATIONS

The School of Relaxed Dating™ is a foundational, one-of-a-kind school that teaches you how to effortlessly elevate your love life through skyrocketing your confidence around men and calling forward masculine, provider men who adore, cherish, and VALUE you through their ACTIONS.

Click here to join the FREE 6 day email challenge In Your Feminine Era

CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:

Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!

254. Confidence vs. Pseudo-confidence (Part 1???)29 Aug 202400:17:12

In this episode we chat....

  • Confidence vs. FAKE confidence and how to tell the difference
  • Ways insecurity masks itself through FAKE confidence
  • How walking in FAKE confidence is actually incredibly manipulative

 WORK WITH BEATRICE:

 CLICK HERE TO CATCH THE SCHOOL OF RELAXED DATING™: THE FOUNDATIONS

The School of Relaxed Dating™ is a foundational, one-of-a-kind school that teaches you how to effortlessly elevate your love life through skyrocketing your confidence around men and calling forward masculine, provider men who adore, cherish, and VALUE you through their ACTIONS.

Click here to join the FREE 6 day email challenge In Your Feminine Era

CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:

Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!

253. Can't get over him? Listen to this.22 Aug 202400:14:49

In this episode we chat....

  • That feeling of OBSESSION with him wanting you back and what to do about it
  • The surprising reason behind the OBSESSION that I guarantee you are not aware of
  •  Leaning on God during this time for strength and the ability to LET GO

WORK WITH BEATRICE:

 CLICK HERE TO CATCH THE SCHOOL OF RELAXED DATING™: THE FOUNDATIONS

The School of Relaxed Dating™ is a foundational, one-of-a-kind school that teaches you how to effortlessly elevate your love life through skyrocketing your confidence around men and calling forward masculine, provider men who adore, cherish, and VALUE you through their ACTIONS.

CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:

Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!

252. Are You Dating a Man or a Project?15 Aug 202400:19:03

In this episode we chat....

  • The ONE wounded feminine trait you have that keeps causing you to get FRUSTRATED and EXHAUSTED by dating
  • The dangers of being unequally yoked mentally and emotionally with a man
  • Why dating a man who is operating on a mental and emotional level that is underdeveloped is a destiny KILLER for YOU.... AND HIM.

WORK WITH BEATRICE:

 CLICK HERE TO CATCH THE SCHOOL OF RELAXED DATING™: THE FOUNDATIONS

The School of Relaxed Dating™ is a foundational, one-of-a-kind school that teaches you how to effortlessly elevate your love life through skyrocketing your confidence around men and calling forward masculine, provider men who adore, cherish, and VALUE you through their ACTIONS.

CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:

Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!

250. If You're Doubting the Connection or Relationship, Listen to This25 Jul 202400:17:10

In this episode we chat....

  • How to navigate doubting the romantic connection you're in whether you're single or in a relationship
  • The two types of doubt that exist in dating and relationships 
  • Walking in God's best for you

WORK WITH BEATRICE:

I am running a FREE love + dating masterclass event called The Dating Confidential. This is for you if you... can barely get a text back or you don't experience the PROTECTIVE, provisional, I'm-gonna-treat-you-soft vibes from men or in your relationship

Click here to sign up to the Dating Confidential for FREE

CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:

Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!

249. Why being single is a position of PRIVILEGE18 Jul 202400:23:49

In this episode we chat....

  • How the patriarchy has distorted your view on your relationship status + what it means about you
  • The privilege in being single that most do not SEE
  • How to THRIVE in your singleness

WORK WITH BEATRICE:

I am running a FREE love + dating masterclass event called The Dating Confidential. This is for you if you... can barely get a text back or you don't experience the PROTECTIVE, provisional, I'm-gonna-treat-you-soft vibes from men or in your relationship

Click here to sign up to the Dating Confidential for FREE

CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:

Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!

248. If You've Went Through a Break Up or Feel Jaded in dating + love, listen to this!11 Jul 202400:15:34

In this episode we chat....

  • How I was able to bounce back after my break up SO QUICKLY
  • How to RESTORE your belief in love and ability to love after a break up or after someone betrayed your trust
  •  Forgiveness after a relationship or betrayal

WORK WITH BEATRICE:

I am running a FREE love + dating masterclass event called The Dating Confidential. This is for you if you... can barely get a text back or you don't experience the PROTECTIVE, provisional, I'm-gonna-treat-you-soft vibes from men or in your relationship

Click here to sign up to the Dating Confidential for FREE

CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:

Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!

247. The Wrong Men will Waste Your Time and... They Don't Care27 Jun 202400:21:41

In this episode we chat....

  • Why it is that the wrong men will waste your time for months, years even and think nothing of it.
  • How boys-- NOT masculine men!-- will waste your time if you're not careful and how masculine men will approach you much MUCH differently.
  •  The case for celibacy, why I'm such an advocate for it-- and why I VERY MUCH BELIEVE masculine men will gladly WAIT!

WORK WITH BEATRICE:

Click here to join the FREE 6 day email challenge In Your Feminine Era

Click here to purchase dating apps 101

CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:

Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!

246 Don't let ANYONE mess with your PEACE20 Jun 202400:32:32

In this episode we chat....

  • Why your STATE of peace + rest should be HIGHLY REGARDED and why the RIGHT MAN would do anything in his power to MAINTAIN your state of rest/peace 
  • The consequences of being around people who CONTINUALLY disturb your state of rest
  • How to become someone that LISTENS TO ACTIONS more than words

WORK WITH BEATRICE:

Click here to join the FREE 6 day email challenge In Your Feminine Era

Click here to purchase dating apps 101

CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:

Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!

245. Vision, Your Assignment, Identity, + Your Destiny13 Jun 202400:24:42

In this episode we chat....

  • Why every single person on this planet has VISION + an ASSIGNMENT from God
  • The importance of keeping the RIGHT COMPANY and knowing when to zip it when it comes to the vision you have for yourself for MORE out of life
  • How God has a plan + a vision for you and why you should know it!

WORK WITH BEATRICE:

Click here to join the FREE 6 day email challenge In Your Feminine Era

Click here to purchase dating apps 101

CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:

Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!

244. Are you Dating a Boy or a Man?06 Jun 202400:20:21

In this episode we chat....

  • Why MEN are providers and BOYS are not
  • The difference between BOYS and MEN and spotting it in dating
  • How the RIGHT man actually will invite EASE + make you 100x the woman you already ARE

WORK WITH BEATRICE:

Click here to join the FREE 6 day email challenge In Your Feminine Era

Click here to purchase dating apps 101

CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:

Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!

243. The Case for Spirituality... An Unexpected Conversation23 May 202400:23:23

In this episode we chat....

  • The influence of spirituality in the online and personal development space
  • Naiveté around spirituality and my relationship to it
  • The spirituality that WORKS

WORK WITH BEATRICE:

Click here to join the FREE 6 day email challenge In Your Feminine Era

Click here to purchase dating apps 101

CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:

Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!

242 Your Purpose, Being on Assignment, and... Dating?!16 May 202400:20:07

In this episode we chat....

  • A life update!
  • What does it mean to be ON ASSIGNMENT/in your purpose and the impact of it on your dating life
  • What happens to your assignment/purpose when you deal with WOUNDED masculine energy

WORK WITH BEATRICE:

Click here to join the FREE 6 day email challenge In Your Feminine Era

Click here to purchase dating apps 101

CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:

Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!

241 My Top 4 Controversial Beliefs About Dating09 May 202400:19:42

In this episode we chat....

  • The 4 controversial dating beliefs I have including ONE I used to be FULLY AGAINST-- Tune in to find out what it is!

WORK WITH BEATRICE:

Click here to join the FREE 6 day email challenge In Your Feminine Era

Click here to purchase dating apps 101

CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:

Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!

240. Talk is Cheap, Attention is a Dime a Dozen, and Value is QUEEN!02 May 202400:15:20

In this episode we chat....

  • Wounded feminine vs. Balanced feminine when it comes to what she's LOOKING FOR in dating
  •  Why his ATTENTION shouldn't be impressive
  • The difference between ATTENTION and being VALUED

WORK WITH BEATRICE:

Click here to purchase dating apps 101

If you're ready to go from SITUATIONSHIP to RELATIONSHIP, snag the FREE 5-day email bootcamp by clicking here

CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:

Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!

239. RELAXED dating (in your feminine) 10125 Apr 202400:33:48

In this episode we chat....

  • The difference between the WOUNDED feminine and BALANCED feminine and how BOTH impact your dating life
  • How to shift from SCARCITY to ABUNDANCE in dating
  • What IS relaxed dating and why dating was NEVER meant to be frantic or have you anxious and on TEN checking your phone every couple of minutes

WORK WITH BEATRICE:

Click here to purchase dating apps 101

If you're ready to go from SITUATIONSHIP to RELATIONSHIP, snag the FREE 5-day email bootcamp by clicking here

CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:

Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

Make sure to share this with someone who needs it!

238 If You Feel Like He Doesn't VALUE You, Listen to This18 Apr 202400:28:12

Listen to this to....

  • REMEMBER who God designed you to be and to understand the VALUE of a woman 
  • To STOP holding on for dear life for someone who doesn't put in any EFFORT TO EARN YOU
  • To understand WHY the feminine is meant to be in a position of CHOOSING who is worthy of her heart not for her to be GIVING it to any old anybody

WORK WITH BEATRICE:

Click here to get access to Dating Apps 101 the masterclass shhhh it hasn't been released to the public yet but i'm quietly dropping it here (Save $10 through 4/18 ONLY)

If you're ready to go from SITUATIONSHIP to RELATIONSHIP, snag the FREE 5-day email bootcamp by clicking here

CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:

Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

Make sure to share this with someone who needs it!

 

236 Value vs. Worthiness (I'm Back!)11 Apr 202400:26:50

It's... been a while hasn't it bestie?!

Well I have an AMAZING episode for you ALL about why it's been so hard for you to "know your worth" and why you should focus on knowing your VALUE instead.

Your VALUE in general AND your VALUE in dating, relationships, marriage, work, your business etc,

Tell a friend to tell a friend that i'm back!!

WORK WITH BEATRICE:

Click here to apply for 1:1 coaching on dating/relationships

If you're ready to go from SITUATIONSHIP to RELATIONSHIP, snag the FREE 5-day email bootcamp by clicking here

CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:

Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

 

235 Expectations vs. Standards and the impact of BOTH on your love life25 Jan 202400:12:47

There's a THIN LINE between EXPECTATIONS and STANDARDS and knowing which is which is the difference between experiencing DISAPPOINTMENT in dating and actually experiencing what you WANT in dating.

Listen in to this week's episode to find out more!

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Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

234 if things never go PAST a situationship but you want an actual relationship, listen to this18 Jan 202400:12:24

If you've found yourself landing in situationship after situationship...

 Or if you've felt the need to SPEED the dating process up or have felt anxious about "where things are going" this episode is FOR YOU!

CLICK HERE TO REGISTER FOR FREE FOR THE 4 DAY LIVE ONLINE EVENT ELEVATED IN LOVE where you learn how to go from confused about your love life to navigating love and dating with maturity and confidence

WORK WITH BEATRICE:

Click here to apply for 1:1 personal coaching and-- BIRTHDAY MONTH SPECIAL--enjoy BONUS month of coaching calls + voxer access when you begin coaching by January 31st!

CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:

Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

233 5 Things I Would Do if I were Single + Dating in 202411 Jan 202400:21:29

Dating is NOT supposed to be hard.

It gets to be EASY.

Tune in to find out what 5 things I would be doing if I were single in 2024 and looking for a SERIOUS, committed relationship.

CLICK HERE TO REGISTER FOR FREE FOR THE 4 DAY LIVE ONLINE EVENT ELEVATED IN LOVE where you learn how to go from confused about your love life to navigating love and dating with maturity and confidence

WORK WITH BEATRICE:

 Head over to my website to apply for 1:1 personal or business coaching

CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:

Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

232 Why You Don't Need to Be "Fully Healed" to be in a Relationship21 Dec 202300:15:06

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Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

Want to get to know the woman behind the podcast? Find me in these TikTok streets: https://www.tiktok.com/@iambeatricekamau 

231 An Unexpected Chat on Dating and Unworthiness14 Dec 202300:12:25

What if feelings of unworthiness aren't really your problem when it comes to actually experiencing the kind of relationship you desire?

What if there's something TOTALLY different to consider instead?

Tune into this week's episode to find out what exactly that is...

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CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:

Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

Want to get to know the woman behind the podcast? Find me in these TikTok streets: https://www.tiktok.com/@iambeatricekamau 

229. You're dating life isn't changing because of THIS30 Nov 202300:18:23

If you've ever felt like something is wrong with YOU because you keep attracting the SAME types of men over and over again...

Men who are emotionally unavailable...

Men who are not interested in commitment...

Men who are unfaithful...

etc.

There's actually something DEEPER to the story. It's not that you're doomed. Or that something is wrong with you. It's that you may have an UNCONSCIOUS dating pattern running the show and you don't even know it. Tune into this episode to learn more.

WORK WITH BEATRICE:

 Head over to my website to apply for 1:1 personal or business coaching

Listen to OFF THE RECORD, a deep-dive into some of the most intimate parts of my own relationship and how we handle arguments, disagreements, the masculine + feminine dynamic in our relationship and MORE: https://beatricekamau.com/otr 

CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:

Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

Want to get to know the woman behind the podcast? Find me in these TikTok streets: https://www.tiktok.com/@iambeatricekamau 

 

226. "Red flags" + Infusing Maturity in Dating + Relationships16 Nov 202300:20:16

There is... a lot of immaturity in dating that shows up in the form of thinking EVERYTHING is a red flag.

Not everything is a red flag.

MATURITY in dating is understanding 1. That not everything is a red flag and 2. HOW to discern what IS from what ISN'T a red flag. 3. You'll have to listen to the rest of the episode to find out! ;)

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Click here to join the Woman of Desire waitlist (Save 50% off enrollment when the pre-sale begins the week of Nov 20)

 Head over to my website to apply for 1:1 personal or business coaching

Listen to OFF THE RECORD, a deep-dive into some of the most intimate parts of my own relationship and how we handle arguments, disagreements, the masculine + feminine dynamic in our relationship and MORE: https://beatricekamau.com/otr 

CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:

Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

Want to get to know the woman behind the podcast? Find me in these TikTok streets: https://www.tiktok.com/@iambeatricekamau 

 

225. A Conversation About When You're "Confused" About How "He Feels"02 Nov 202300:23:06

If you're hunched over your phone with your magnifying glass out, organizing a conference call with ten of your girlfriends at once, and desperately trying to untangle whether the person you're "talking to" wants to be in a relationship with you…

He doesn't.

I say this with so much love: if you have to do this, you aren't actually confused at all about how he feels. You know he isn't interested in having a relationship…you just don't like that answer.

Desire is not ambiguous. Desire is CLEAR. Desire is BOLD. Desire doesn't dither in the background waiting its turn.

When a man desires you, you'll know. So let's talk about what it actually means when you're "confused" about what "he wants."

 

WORK WITH BEATRICE:

Listen to OFF THE RECORD, a deep-dive into some of the most intimate parts of my own relationship: https://beatricekamau.com/otr 

 

CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:

Want to get to know the woman behind the podcast? Find me in these TikTok streets: https://www.tiktok.com/@iambeatricekamau 

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224. Don't Give Up On Dating! A Relationship IS Meant For You26 Oct 202300:30:08

If you've given up on dating…this episode is for you.

I'm not talking about the people who truly do not desire a relationship. I'm talking to the people who have a soul-deep desire for a relationship, but have gotten so discouraged that they're ready to throw in the towel entirely.

Listen to me–I don't care what your situation is.

I don't care if you're in your late 20s, 30s, 40s, etc.

I don't care if you've been divorced four times and can't imagine a relationship ever working out.

I don't care if you've never been in a healthy relationship and are struggling to believe they even exist.

A relationship IS possible for you–yes, YOU. And if you're walking around with your head down, living in defeat, certain it's never going to happen for you…let me give you some hope today.

 

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222. Why Finding a Partner that Leads, Plans, + is Ambitious Has Been Difficult for You12 Oct 202300:25:49

If you believe it's IMPOSSIBLE to attract the type of man that has ambition, makes plans, and takes charge in your relationship…I may have an idea why that is.

And you're probably not going to like hearing it.

Once upon a time, I was in the same shoes as you: fed up with attracting men who wouldn't so much as initiate a phone call, sick of having to do ALL the work in every relationship, and wondering where all the ambitious men were.

But you know what else I believed?

That men were dumb as rocks.

No, really. I genuinely, wholeheartedly believed that men were inferior to me, that they couldn't do anything right, and they needed my guidance in everything…

But if that was true, well…why on earth would I want to have one of them leading me?

It doesn't matter what you consciously say you want. If your unconscious mind believes men are inferior, the unconscious will win over the conscious every time. Let's talk about why this superiority is actually sabotaging our dating lives.

 

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221. The DOUBTING Phase of Relationships No One Talks About05 Oct 202300:19:20

There's one stage of new relationships that no one talks about.

We try to pretend it doesn't happen. In fact, we do one better (or worse): we usually dip out of the relationship the second we enter this phase.

The first phase of any new relationship is the honeymoon phase…and it is POWERFUL.

That cocktail of hormones hits HARD. We're floating on cloud nine. All we see in front of us is our perfect, amazing partner. Everything they do is so cute and sweet and amazing…

Until it isn't.

Until one day, we wake up and notice every little thing about them that actually annoys us.

Welcome to the DOUBTING PHASE: the phase of relationships where we suddenly see the reality of our partner, not our hormone hopped-up perception of them. 

The comedown hits even harder than the high. And unfortunately, this is where most people decide it's time to end the relationship, because "the magic" is gone. 

This phase is normal. Everyone has it. But we need to change the way we approach the doubting phase…because if we bide our time and make it to the other side, what's waiting for us is a phase of love unlike any other.

 

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220. Dating Requires Your Effort (Contrary to Popular Belief)28 Sep 202300:39:09

If you're walking around telling yourself "I DESERVE a relationship…"

Sit down for a second. Let's talk.

I say this because I love you: you do not "deserve" a relationship. 

You don't deserve anything from another individual just because you want it. 

Imagine if you walked into a job interview. You did no prep. You did no research. You wore your sweats. And when they start asking you questions, you just go, "What do you mean? Why are you asking me this? I deserve this job. Just give it to me."

They would look at you like you were FUCKING DELUSIONAL…because you'd have to be in order to act that way.

We all know we can't act like that in most areas of our lives. But when it comes to dating…all that goes flying out the window, and suddenly we're deep in our entitled princess energy, believing we deserve something we didn't put in the work for.

If dating feels like it's too hard, it's probably because you're approaching it with a heavy vibe of entitlement and need. But I promise you this: if you just shift this perspective, your dating life will be completely transformed.

 

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219. Why You're Not "Doomed" to "Being Single Forever" + Why God is Not Out to Get You21 Sep 202300:20:51

"God must be out to get me."

"This must be some kind of cosmic joke."

"You know what? Fine. I don't want a relationship anyway."

"I'm focusing on my career. I don't need a man."

If any of these sound familiar, then this episode is for you.

If you're the kind of person who truly enjoys being single…good for you! But if you're saying you're fine with being single, then absolutely SEETHING with anger and bitterness every time you see a happy couple…

I don't think you're being honest with yourself.

If you say you don't want a relationship when you actually do, you become the thing that's sabotaging you. Because when you decide you don't want something…God's going to listen. And pretending you don't care isn't going to trick him into giving you what you want.

This might be a confronting episode for you, but as someone who's been where you are…trust me. Once you come face to face with the truth of your desires, your dating life will NEVER be the same.

 

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218. Transcending Comparison in Business, Relationships, + Dating14 Sep 202300:32:52

I love delving into the shadowy parts of ourselves that no one likes to talk about…comparison being one of them.

We all compare ourselves to others. We all feel envious of someone else's successes, both in business and in relationships…especially when they're in the same industry as us. And I don't think these experiences are wrong…but when we lie about it to ourselves and refuse to OWN what we're thinking and feeling, that's when it becomes a problem.

When we try to pretend we aren't playing the comparison game, we actually end up unconsciously letting it steal it the driver's seat…and before we know it, our businesses are being run by our perceptions of what others have achieved and what we think we're doing "wrong."

There are ways to quit the comparison game…and it starts with looking for places where we might be acting a liiittle entitled. Let's examine this together.

 

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217. Business vs. Brand: Why You Need BOTH, Even on Day ONE of Business07 Sep 202300:29:31

Let me ask you a question…

What is BRAND?

If you answered, "Colors, fonts, and logos"...no judgment here. There was a hot minute when I believed the very same.

In actuality, these things are brandING, not BRAND. But when so many people start out in entrepreneurship, they come in business-minded, not brand-minded…and when they look for steps to skip, brandING can take the place of actual brand.

If you're just now learning you were wrong about brand, don't panic–that's why I'm having this conversation today. It's not too late for you to go back to the basics…and once you know what brand really is, trust me, you'll want to.

If you're committed to LEGACY VIBES with your business, brand is your new best friend. Allow me to introduce you.

 

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216. Strong Business Mindset, Foundations, + Legacy with Tayla Bubeck31 Aug 202300:55:32

Please join me in welcoming Tayla Bubeck, an INCREDIBLE business coach + mentor…in fact, she's so incredible that she's MY business coach + mentor!

Tayla specializes in the human behind the business, the execution of strategy for a scalable business, and leveraging personal brands to maximize opportunities and evolution. She helps powerful players in the online world unleash their unique gifts and full potential in business and helps them create a business space where money and success aren't their limits; instead, they become the makers of your limitless business legacy.

If you're struggling to get your VISION straight, build a strong business foundation, and understand what you want your legacy to be…Tayla's your girl. I can't wait for you to hear what she has to share today.

 

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215. Transcending Perfectionism, Imposter Syndrome, + the Confidence to put your POWERFUL work in the online space with STA Alum Taccarra Davenport25 Aug 202300:38:43

This week's episode we have an amazing guest and Self Trust Alchemy Alum, Taccarra Davenport. In this episode, we chat about how she transcended PERFECTIONISM, fear of using her voice, + imposter syndrome during Self Trust Alchemy and published her new book, A Letter To My Sister.

 

This is an incredible and INSPIRING episode you DON'T want to miss!

 

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Tacarra's book: https://taccarra.com/book

 

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213. Building Solid Confidence in Business, Coaching, + Boundaries with Self Trust Alchemy Alum, Chelsi Reina10 Aug 202300:38:07

Today, I have a very special guest joining me on the podcast: Chelsi Reina, a former student in the Self Trust Alchemy program!

Chelsi is a fellow podcaster and self-love coach who is all about helping women stop waiting for the perfect moment to create a life that they actually enjoy living. 

She has come so far since her time in Self Trust Alchemy and I'm so proud of the way she has let go of shame, started protecting her energy by setting boundaries, and shaken off the imposter syndrome keeping her from being her authentic self!

Chelsi has such great wisdom to share, and I can't wait for you all to hear it. Let's dive right in, shall we?

 

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212. Here's why you ALWAYS feel something "bad" is about to happen when things are going "TOO GOOD"03 Aug 202300:39:37

Tell me if this sounds familiar…

You've hit a high in your life, whether that's a business high, a relationship high, a money high, or something else. It feels great…

Except that it doesn't.

You can't stop looking over your shoulder, checking both ways before you move, waiting for the other shoe to drop at any moment. Things have been going too good, so something bad has to be coming next, right?

I've heard almost every single student and client experience this in one form or another. They're always waiting for the other shoe to drop when things start getting good. 

"But Beatrice, it's true! Every time things get good, something bad comes along."

Does it? Or do you think you might be playing into a bit of self-fulling prophecy?

Let's explore where this sense of impending doom comes from…and how we unconsciously do everything we can to prove that sense right.

 

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211. THIS is how you become POWERFUL + CONFIDENT in using your VOICE to set boundaries27 Jul 202300:14:38

I believe that SHORT + SWEET messages still have the ability to be POWERFUL + TRANSFORMATIVE. So today, here's a bite-sized lesson in setting boundaries:

It's time to get reconnected to your VOICE.

When you use your voice to set boundaries with confidence, people FEEL that frequency. It inspires a response of respect. It calls people to listen.

But if you're DISCONNECTED from your voice…if you don't speak up because you think other people can pick up on your boundaries on their own, or if you feel the need to explain yourself over and over because you don't believe you'll be heard…

That's a different frequency. And it doesn't inspire others to listen and respect at all. Here's how to set boundaries CONFIDENTLY.

 

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210. Confidence, Self-love, Motherhood, + Boundaries with Self Trust Alchemy Alum Brittany Simmons20 Jul 202300:40:14

This week, I am thrilled to welcome Brittany Simmons, Self Trust Alchemy alumni and overall incredible woman, onto the podcast to chat about her experience in the program!

Brittany is here to share about the BEFORE and AFTER of Self Trust Alchemy, how different her approach to motherhood has been, all the ways she's been able to break generational trauma, how she's begun setting boundaries, and soooo much more.

This work is TRANSFORMATIVE. This work is POWERFUL. Not only can it change everything for you individually…but it can transform the people around you, as well.

Brittany's an amazing example of the trickle-down effect of self-development work, and her story is wildly inspirational. Get ready to have your minds completely blown.

 

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209. An HONEST conversation about how my views around food, body image, + working out have changed13 Jul 202300:32:41

I have waited a long, long time to have this conversation.

Not because it hasn't been requested—it has. Not because I didn't know how I felt about it—I do.

I held off for two reasons. One, because I wanted to talk about it when I felt led to do so, and two…

Honestly, I was nervous about how I would be received. But I'm not nervous anymore. So, let's talk about body positivity.

My relationship with food and my body has been a bit of a rollercoaster—I was lucky enough to be raised in a home where I had a healthy view of food, and I'm also a registered dietician, so I "get" food. But when I was in college, things took a bit of a turn…and since then, I've learned a LOT about holding duality when it comes to body image, food restriction, and wanting to look a certain way.

 

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208. Is your APPROACH to personal development ENHANCING or WORSENING your quality of life?06 Jul 202300:36:03

It's time to let go of the heavy energy surrounding personal development and embrace a new paradigm of growth. Discover how to infuse personal development with a sense of lightness, joy, and expansion. Join me today as we delve into practical strategies and insights that will empower you to shift your perspective and reclaim the true essence of personal development.

If you've been feeling weighed down by the personal development journey, this episode is a must-listen. Together, we will challenge the notion that personal growth must be a struggle, and instead, we will embrace personal development as a powerful catalyst for a more fulfilling and joyful life.

Get ready to embark on a transformative journey as we explore a new, enlightened approach to personal development. It's time to release the misery vibe and step into a realm of empowerment, growth, and limitless possibilities.

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207. Working WITH Your Energy + Dropping the Struggle Using Human Design with Cynthia Davidson29 Jun 202300:45:53

I am so, so thrilled to announce that today, we have a very special guest rejoining us: Cynthia Davidson!

If you aren't already familiar with her, Cynthia is founder of Intuitive Essentials. She is your human design strategist and energy alchemist with a wealth of empowering tools to support you in realigning your life personally and professionally.

I've worked with Cynthia myself, and I will continue working with her for the foreseeable future, because her work is without compare. You have no idea of the transformation that's waiting for you on the other side of doing human design work with Cynthia.

If you aren't familiar with human design, consider it your Fast Pass to more ease + alignment in every area of your life. I'm so excited for you to hear what Cynthia has to share about it!

 

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(Disclaimer: Please note, I am an affiliate for Cynthia Davidson's services, meaning I do receive a commission if you book services with her through this link. However, I personally have paid for and continue to pay for Cynthia's services because they have been absolutely transformational for my life, and I would only ever recommend services I have vetted and 100% believe in.)

 

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205. Why Having or Wanting More Money ISN'T Selfish or Greedy15 Jun 202300:45:33

Too many people associate MONEY with GREED.

To be wealthy is to be selfish. To want more resources is to be greedy. You can't desire more than what you already have without it meaning something terrible about yourself…

And I believe that's absolutely false.

To be wealthy is to have INFLUENCE. To have more resources is to create IMPACT. And whether that's a positive or negative impact…

That is completely up to you.

If you believe having more money makes you bad or wrong–even if that belief is unconscious–you will never be able to have more than you have right now. Let's explore the way we tend to project negative qualities and beliefs onto money.

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