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What if your morning iced coffee, non-stop productivity, or daily scroll sessions were less about comfort and more about quiet compulsion? In this thought-provoking episode, Kristen and Scott Boss dive into the sneaky world of socially acceptable addictions—the habits we justify, celebrate, and even admire… but may be slowly sabotaging us.

They unpack how culture often applauds behaviors like workaholism, exercise obsession, caffeine dependence, people-pleasing, and overcommitting—all while ignoring their deeper roots in stress, avoidance, and unmet emotional needs.

This episode isn’t about shame—it’s about self-awareness. Tune in for practical questions to reflect on your own habits, real talk about coping vs. thriving, and gentle reframes to help you build a life that nourishes rather than numbs.

What You'll Learn:

• How to tell the difference between nourishing routines and numbing rituals
• The concept of emotional sobriety and how to practice it
• Why the “dose makes the poison” in socially praised behaviors
• How to shift from compulsive habits to identity-based choices
• The importance of pausing and getting curious without judgment

Your Happywell Homework:

Pick one “harmless” habit this week. Pause it for a day or two. Notice what comes up. Reflect with curiosity, not criticism.

Links & Mentions:

• Atomic Habits by James Clear
• Addiction and Grace by Gerald May
• Dopamine Nation by Dr. Anna Lembke

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• 0:00 – Intro: Is your iced coffee a quiet compulsion?
• 1:55 – Exploring stress types and why we seek comfort
• 5:16 – What makes an addiction "socially acceptable"?
• 8:09 – Workaholism: Hustle culture disguised as dedication
• 10:04 – Exercise obsession: Discipline or dopamine?
• 11:17 – Caffeine dependence: When stimulation masks exhaustion
• 13:32 – Doomscrolling & digital compulsions
• 14:58 – People-pleasing and the addiction to approval
• 15:15 – Overcommitting: Running from stillness
• 18:44 – The emotional cost of avoidant habits
• 21:25 – Emotional sobriety: Feeling without fleeing
• 22:41 – The dopamine loop: Why quick fixes leave us empty
• 24:56 – Self-justification and the “moral license” fallacy
• 28:24 – Burnout, dissociation, and long-term impact
• 31:16 – 5 questions to reflect on your habits
• 35:33 – Reaction-based vs. identity-based habits
• 39:00 – The power of pausing and self-awareness
• 41:52 – Happywell Homework: A gentle curiosity practice
• 45:00 – You are allowed to change your rhythm

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What if it’s not failure you’re afraid of—but success? In this deep-dive episode, Scott and Kristen unpack one of the most overlooked mindset blocks: the fear of success. Whether it’s the pressure to maintain, fear of visibility, or anxiety around losing relationships, success can stir up just as much fear as failure—and sometimes more.

Drawing from personal stories, coaching experiences, and the latest psychology research (including insights from the Harvard Grant Study), Scott and Kristen break down the subconscious behaviors that show up when success feels unsafe. Think procrastination, underdelivering, quitting early, or constantly shifting goals. Sound familiar?

You’ll learn:

• The three hidden fears behind fear of success
• How to recognize if you’re self-sabotaging
• Why your stress response matters—and what to do about it
• Tools to create internal safety and finish what you start

Plus, get a peek into Kristen’s emotional journey from hairstylist to online educator—and the identity shifts that came with it.

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Timestamps:

0:00 - What if everything you’ve been told about happiness is wrong?

1:42 - Introducing the fear of success

4:26 - Why success can feel destabilizing

8:47 - Loss aversion and identity shifts

13:35 - Three hidden fears behind fear of success

18:33 - Subconscious behaviors and stress responses

27:20 - Under-delivering to protect your ego

32:31 - Signs you might fear finishing

39:36 - Happywell Homework: How to move forward

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Do you break out in hives at the thought of setting a boundary? You’re not alone—and this week’s episode of The Pursuit of Happywell is a must-listen. Scott and Kristen dive deep into the emotional minefield of boundary-setting and reframe it as an act of kindness, connection, and self-respect—not cruelty.

Building on last week’s episode on conflict resolution, this conversation explores:

• Why so many people fear setting boundaries
• How people-pleasing, identity, and fear of rejection keep us stuck
• The difference between reactive boundaries vs. compassionate clarity
• Real-life examples in marriage, parenting, work, and friendships
• How to communicate boundaries without controlling or withdrawing
• The pivotal role of self-boundaries in preventing burnout and building trust

With personal stories, powerful analogies (like dogs testing invisible fences), and practical takeaways, this episode is both soul-nourishing and eye-opening. If you're ready to stop abandoning yourself for the sake of “keeping the peace,” this one’s for you.

• Boundaries aren’t barriers—they’re gates with keys you offer out of love and clarity.
• A healthy boundary is one that helps you stay your most whole, functional self.
• You can’t set boundaries with others if you constantly violate your own.
• Healthy people respect your boundaries; people who benefited from your lack of them will test them.
• Boundaries evolve with seasons—evaluate and adjust with intention, not guilt.

If this episode resonated with you, don’t keep it to yourself! Share it with a friend, leave a review, and hit that subscribe button. Have a boundary breakthrough? Comment on YouTube or tag @thehappywell on social media and tell us about it.

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• 00:00 – Intro: Why boundaries feel so hard
• 02:00 – What a boundary really is (not a wall!)
• 05:30 – People-pleasing and fear of being unloved
• 08:30 – The identity crisis that comes with becoming a boundaried person
• 11:00 – Healthy vs. reactive boundaries
• 14:00 – How we sabotage our own boundaries
• 18:00 – Compassionate clarity: the new lens for setting limits
• 27:00 – Real-life scenarios: family, work, marriage, kids
• 45:00 – Boundaries with yourself: the game-changer
• 50:00 – Happywell Homework: Your boundary reset

Hosted by Kristen and Scott Boss, founders of The Happywell Podcast, this power duo brings both personal insight and practical wisdom to the table, blending emotional health, neuroscience, and relational wellness for a more grounded life.

What if three simple words could change the entire trajectory of a conflict? In this powerful and vulnerable episode, Scott and Kristen Boss unpack the surprising phrase that has the potential to de-escalate tension, regulate your nervous system, and build stronger connections — whether you're in a romantic relationship, navigating friendships, or managing tough conversations at work.

Drawing from personal experience and psychological insight, they explore why conflict escalates, how our stress responses shape our reactions, and what it takes to “fight clean.” Whether you tend to fight, flee, freeze, or fawn, this conversation will help you recognize your own patterns and give you practical tools to stay connected — even in the messiest moments.

• Why “Help me understand” is the ultimate de-escalation phrase
• The 4 types of stress responses in conflict: Fight, Flight, Freeze, and Fawn
• How childhood and family dynamics shape your conflict style
• What “fighting clean” really looks like in a healthy relationship
• The science behind emotional regulation and effective communication
• How to use curiosity to stay connected and create space for repair

Expect heartfelt storytelling, moments of laughter (yes, including “spirit fingers”), and honest reflections from Scott and Kristen’s marriage and parenting experiences. You’ll walk away with a new lens on conflict and feel equipped with language that fosters deeper understanding.

1. Reflect on a recent conflict — what was your stress response?
2. In your next tough moment, take a breath and ask: “Help me understand.”
3. Practice using the phrase in everyday conversations to build your curiosity muscle.

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• 00:00 – Intro
• A teaser that hints at the power of three simple words to change conflict dynamics.
• 00:33 – Welcome Back
• Kristen and Scott set the tone for the episode, with their signature humor and relatability.
• 01:07 – Why This Conversation Matters
• Acknowledging the discomfort many feel around conflict and why this episode can help.
• 02:07 – The 3 Words That Can Diffuse Conflict
• Hinting at the phrase and setting up the deeper conversation.
• 03:04 – Conflict Styles: Let’s Talk Marriage
• Sharing personal dynamics and funny “boxing ring” moments in their relationship.
• 04:12 – How Childhood Shapes Conflict Views
• Exploring how witnessing (or not witnessing) parental conflict influences adult behavior.
• 06:59 – Conflict Without Resolution = Loneliness
• Why shielding children from conflict may unintentionally create shame or disconnection.
• 08:25 – Why Conflict Escalates So Quickly
• The difference between seeing conflict as a battleground vs. a...

Ever find yourself asking, "Why am I like this?"—especially when old habits creep in, despite your best efforts to change? This episode dives into the hidden patterns driving your behavior, especially in moments of stress.

In this lively and relatable conversation, the hosts break down the four core nervous system stress responses—fight, flight, freeze, and fawn—and how they manifest in everyday life, from procrastination and perfectionism to people-pleasing and overworking. You’ll learn how these instinctive reactions influence everything from your personal goals to your relationships and leadership at work.

This isn’t about fixing who you are—it’s about understanding how you respond to stress so you can pause, regulate, and make more aligned choices. The hosts also introduce a powerful new tool: the free APT (Adaptive Personality Type) quiz to help you identify your stress response and learn practical, personalized tools to regulate it.

• Why common behaviors like procrastination or overcommitting are actually stress responses
• The difference between reacting and responding to stress—and why that matters
• How stress patterns show up in business, relationships, parenting, and personal growth
• The four main stress responses (fight, flight, freeze, fawn) and their deeper subtypes
• How awareness of your "adaptive type" can transform your habits and relationships
• Why emotional resilience might just be the key to a truly successful life

• You’re not broken—your patterns are protective responses wired for safety.
• Each stress type requires different tools; growth isn’t one-size-fits-all.
• The pause between a trigger and your reaction is where real change begins.
• Emotional regulation is one of the most underrated skills for personal and professional success.

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00:00 – Cold Open: Why do I keep doing things I don’t want to do? The relatable start to the episode.

00:27 – Welcome & Vibes: The hosts set the tone for a “short, sweet, and punchy” episode—and yes, Oreos and treadmills are back again.

01:30 – Personal Habits We Can't Break: Real-life confessions about staying up too late and tinkering with tasks—what avoidance really looks like.

03:00 – The Real Topic: Understanding why we repeat patterns that don’t serve us—and how short-term relief keeps us stuck long-term.

04:45 – When Plans Meet Reality: How stress derails habit-building and why our big goals often collapse under pressure.

05:45 – The Frustrated Question: Why we should shift from “Why am I like this?” to curious self-inquiry.

06:30 – What Is a Stress Response? Redefining stress—not just deadlines, but anything that feels like strain on the nervous system.

08:00 – The Four Stress Types Overview: Fight, Flight, Freeze, and Fawn—what they look like and why your body reacts this...

In this powerful and introspective episode of The Pursuit of Happywell, hosts Kristen and Scott dive into the culturally normalized trap of toxic productivity—the relentless drive to produce at the cost of your wellbeing. They explore how productivity becomes harmful when it's used to outrun shame, anxiety, or a fear of stillness, and why rest isn't laziness, it's necessary.

Through candid storytelling and relatable insights, they unpack how hustle culture is subtly rewarded and how society often praises the very behaviors that are emotionally and physically depleting us. Kristin shares vulnerable reflections on her personal journey with burnout, shame-driven work habits, and the process of redefining success through rest, restoration, and presence.

If you’ve ever felt guilty for taking a break, equated your worth with your output, or struggled to slow down without spiraling into self-criticism, this episode will resonate deeply.

• What toxic productivity is and how it masquerades as success.
• Why slowing down feels unsafe for many people—and how to reframe rest as productive.
• How cultural and internalized narratives feed the hustle and prevent healing.
• The science behind our stress responses and the importance of psychological safety.
• Practical steps to protect your wellbeing and shift away from soul-draining productivity.

• Toxic productivity is self-harm disguised as achievement.
• Culture reinforces the idea that “busy” equals “worthy.”
• Rest is not laziness—it’s how we protect the asset: ourselves.
• Stillness is deeply uncomfortable at first, but essential for healing.
• New life metrics rooted in peace, meaning, and presence are the antidote.

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• 00:00 – Intro & what to expect in this episode
• 01:00 – Defining toxic productivity
• 02:45 – How culture and shame drive the hustle
• 05:00 – Why rest feels unsafe and the internal cost
• 12:00 – The myth of “busy” as a badge of honor
• 18:30 – Stillness as medicine for the soul
• 24:00 – Protecting your production capacity
• 30:00 – New metrics: from doing to being
• 36:00 – Happywell Homework: Stillness without metrics

In this powerful and truth-packed episode, Kristen and Scott Boss challenge the glorified narrative of entrepreneurship that’s been sold to so many—especially in the age of hustle culture and Instagram highlight reels. Not everyone is made to be an entrepreneur, and that’s not a flaw. In fact, it could be your biggest strength.

If you've ever felt burned out by building a business, questioned whether you're "wired for this," or wondered if there's a better way to do fulfilling work without the crushing pressure of being your own boss, this episode is your sigh of relief.

They break down the common myths that sell a glamorized version of entrepreneurship—like "be your own boss," "work when you want," and "do what you love"—and expose the real stressors that come with the entrepreneurial life, including decision fatigue, emotional isolation, identity fusion, and uncertainty overload.

Then, they introduce a refreshing and empowering alternative: the intrapreneur—the visionary team player who thrives within someone else's mission. You’ll discover the signs that you might be one and explore a list of exciting, flexible, high-impact roles you might have overlooked.

This episode is your permission slip to pursue meaningful work that energizes you—instead of draining you.

• Why entrepreneurship might not be the right path for everyone—and why that’s okay
• The sneaky myths that lead people into burnout and self-doubt
• The real difference between entrepreneurs and intrapreneurs
• 10+ career paths where you can thrive without carrying all the risk
• How to identify whether you're a firestarter or a firekeeper (and why the world needs both)
• How to align your work with your strengths, energy, and season of life

• You don’t need to be a founder to change lives—you just need alignment and fulfillment.
• Entrepreneurship can be for anyone, but not everyone should do it.
• Intrapreneurs are the under-celebrated powerhouses behind every thriving business.
• There's a big difference between time freedom and free time.
• The myth of "do what you love" often overlooks the 80% of work that isn't in your zone of genius.

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0:00 – Why not everyone should be an entrepreneur

2:30 – Debunking the “be your own boss” myth

6:00 – The illusion of time freedom

9:30 – Doing what you love vs. doing everything

13:00 – The money myth: Stability vs. unpredictability

15:30 – Are you really wired for this?

17:00 – The stressors that drain entrepreneurs

29:00 – Entrepreneur vs. Intrapreneur

33:00 – Signs you might be an intrapreneur

41:00 – 10 energizing intrapreneur career ideas

50:00 – Homework: Is your dream actually a drain?

What happens when the “money talk” in marriage goes sideways—like, full-on flop-to-the-floor dramatic? In this candid and often hilarious episode, your favorite husband-wife duo unpacks the deep emotional layers tied to money in relationships. From childhood money stories to budgeting meltdowns (yes, there was floor-throwing), they get real about how financial conversations became less contentious and more connective over the years.

This isn’t a budget spreadsheet how-to—this is the emotional psychology of how couples navigate money, power, autonomy, and values. You’ll hear about their first budgeting disaster, secret spending (ahem, Kohl's card), revenge buying, and ultimately how they found peace through shared vision, regular money dates, and understanding each other’s financial triggers.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why 57% of divorces link back to money—and what you can do to avoid becoming that stat
• How to identify and reframe your childhood money stories
• The difference between budgeting for control vs. budgeting for connection
• What “revenge spending” looks like and why it’s more common than you think
• How to use “green light, yellow light, red light” decisions to prevent resentment
• How to start having safe, emotionally intelligent money talks with your partner

Key Takeaways:

Money isn’t just about dollars—it's about emotional safety and autonomy

Consistent, low-stress money check-ins can be intimacy-building

Sharing a financial vision helps couples stop fighting and start dreaming

Timestamps:

00:01 – Why money is the #2 reason for divorce

03:00 – The first budgeting fight (feat. a dramatic floor dive)

10:00 – How childhood shaped their views on money and control

16:30 – Spending vs. saving vs. shared vision

25:00 – Secret spending, autonomy, and “beauty budgets”

34:00 – Revenge spending (and how they caught themselves)

39:00 – Using the green-yellow-red light system for decisions

44:00 – How they made budgeting fun with sushi and values alignment

49:00 – This week’s Happy Well Homework challenge

Thanks for listening! Reminder: there are still tickets available for the Breakthrough Live Summit happening this Friday, May 16th. Kristen and Scott will guide participants through exercises designed to create breakthrough, clarity, and forward momentum. Find out more and grab your ticket here.

In this raw and candid behind-the-scenes episode, Kristen and Scott peel back the curtain on what it’s really like to start something new — together. Whether you’re an entrepreneur, changing careers, or simply stepping into a new life chapter, this conversation is for you.

They dive into the high hopes, uncertainties, and unexpected lessons that come when you're building from scratch — all while doing life alongside your spouse. With very little prep and a whole lot of heart, they share stories about startup challenges, unexpected arguments (like co-working chaos and company names!), imposter syndrome, hiring a team, and staying grounded when the doubts creep in.

This episode will inspire you to embrace uncertainty, trust the messy middle, and stay true to yourself even when reinvention feels scary.

• Why uncertainty is a sign you're growing, not failing
• The surprising emotional work behind launching a startup
• How working with your spouse can be hilarious (and humbling)
• What to do when imposter syndrome tries to sabotage your momentum
• The power of redefining success and setting new "life metrics"
• How they are intentionally building a mission-driven company without burning out

• Both excitement and doubt are normal when stepping into the unknown. Growth always brings resistance.
• Building a company (or a new chapter) is more about intentionality and less about hustle.
• You don't have to be an "expert" — sharing your experience with authenticity can be even more powerful.
• Protect your energy by honoring your current season and capacity.
• Moving from "me" to "we" thinking can transform how you experience change and leadership.

• 00:00 — Intro: Taking Big Leaps and Asking, "What Did I Just Sign Up For?"
• 01:30 — The Reality of Starting Over (With Your Spouse)
• 04:00 — Startup Expectations vs. Reality
• 06:50 — Our Funniest Fights While Building Together
• 12:30 — The "Uh-Oh" Moment That Made It Real
• 17:30 — How This New Venture Changed Us Personally
• 24:00 — Lessons on Unlearning Hyper-Independence
• 30:00 — Feeling Like Imposters — And What Helped Us Through It
• 40:00 — Life Is Always Life-ing: How to Keep Building Anyway
• 48:00 — Holding Both Excitement and Terror
• 55:00 — How We Support Each Other When One of Us Spirals

If you're navigating a new beginning right now or looking to get inspired in your current season of life, Kristen and Scott would like to invite you to join their upcoming Breakthrough Live Summit. While the in-person event is sold out, virtual tickets are available for the May 16th intensive, where they'll guide participants through exercises designed to create breakthrough, clarity, and forward momentum. Find out more and grab your ticket here.

Did you know millennials are experiencing midlife crises between 30-45, much earlier than previous generations? In this illuminating episode, Scott and Kristen reframe what we've been calling a "crisis" and reveal why it might actually be your greatest opportunity for growth.

What you'll discover:

• Why the traditional view of midlife crisis (sports cars and impulsive decisions) misses the deeper transformation happening
• Carl Jung's powerful concept of the "two halves of life" and what each half is truly about
• The difference between building your container (first half) and filling it with meaning (second half)
• What happens when you cling to your first-half metrics while your soul is crying out for second-half depth
• Two profound questions to help you navigate this transition with intention instead of panic

"Midlife is not about you going crazy. It's about you waking up to yourself and realizing what actually matters." - Kristen

Tune in to discover how shifting from "crisis" to "breakthrough" can transform this challenging transition into the most meaningful chapter of your life.

Share this episode with anyone wondering "is this it?" or contemplating a major life change without understanding the deeper shift happening underneath.

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Your calendar is packed. You're constantly checking items off your to-do list. So why does it feel like you're not getting anywhere? In this eye-opening episode, Scott and Kristen reveal how busyness has become our newest form of procrastination.

What you'll discover:

• The shocking Harvard Business Review stat about how much time we waste on tasks that don't contribute to our long-term goals
• Why being "productive" doesn't necessarily mean being "effective" (and how to tell the difference)
• How staying busy can actually be a clever form of avoidance and emotional numbing
• The uncomfortable truth behind the statement: "Anyone can pretend to be busy, but you can't pretend to be effective"
• Four revealing questions to determine if you're trapped in motion without progress

"Being effective isn't about doing more. It's about doing what matters." - Scott

Tune in to break free from the cycle of constant motion and learn how to create meaningful progress in your life and work.

This episode is for every busy professional, entrepreneur, and caregiver who's ever wondered why all their effort isn't translating to the results they want.

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Struggling to stick with your goals? In this eye-opening episode, Scott and Kristen challenge the common belief that all you need is motivation and willpower to create lasting change in your life.

What you'll discover:

• The surprising reason 92% of New Year's resolutions fail by February
• Why willpower is like a muscle that fatigues (and what that means for your goals)
• The powerful truth behind James Clear's quote: "You don't rise to the level of your goals, you fall to the level of your systems"
• How your environment might be secretly sabotaging your best intentions
• Simple strategies to build habits that stick even when motivation vanishes

"Motivation might get you going, but systems will keep you growing." - Scott

Tune in to discover why those bursts of inspiration keep fizzling out and learn the practical framework that actually creates lasting change in your life.

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Feel constantly drained but can't figure out why? In this eye-opening episode, Scott and Kristen dive into "the invisible load" – the unseen mental and emotional labor that's silently draining your energy.

What you'll discover:

• The shocking truth about how much time the average woman spends on invisible labor each year
• Why your brain is like a computer with too many tabs open (and how to close them)
• The hidden reason behind relationship strain that often leads to "silent quitting" in marriages
• How different generations experience unique invisible burdens (especially the "sandwich generation")
• Practical strategies to lighten your mental load without dropping important responsibilities

"The invisible load is the constant internal chatter and noise of running your day-to-day life... and I believe that is where a lot of strain, stress, burnout, and exhaustion really comes from." - Kristen

Tune in to understand why you're so tired, learn to communicate your needs, and discover how to create systems that support rather than overwhelm you.

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Ever wonder why you reach for the cookies when you're on a diet? Or why you scroll through social media instead of tackling that important project? In this episode, Scott and Kristen reveal the surprising truth about self-sabotage: it's not what you think.

What you'll discover:

• Why self-sabotage is actually your brain's way of protecting you
• The real reason you avoid certain tasks (hint: it's not the task itself)
• How your "frustration tolerance" might be the key to unlocking your success
• Scott's eye-opening physical therapy moment that changed everything
• Four practical tools to break free from self-defeating patterns

"It's not your fault that you self-sabotage, but it is your responsibility to do something about it." - Kristen

Tune in to transform your relationship with change and finally stop getting in your own way.

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What if the secret to happiness isn't the bigger house, higher salary, or more Instagram followers? In this illuminating episode, Scott and Kristen dive into Harvard's groundbreaking 75-year happiness study that challenges everything we've been taught about success and fulfillment.

What you'll discover:

• The "Emerald City Illusion" that keeps us chasing the wrong things
• Five surprising factors that actually determine your happiness (backed by science!)
• The shocking truth about loneliness (it's as bad for your health as what?)
• Scott and Kristen's personal "rude awakening" after achieving conventional success
• One simple action you can take today to boost your well-being

"Your money doesn't get you through hard times. I believe your people do." - Scott

Tune in to discover what truly creates a happy, well-lived life — and why it might be simpler than you think.

Don't wait for a crisis to build community. As Kristen warns: "The next time you think about canceling those plans because you're too tired, cool. Then grab 15 cigarettes, because that's what you just did."

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In this debut episode of The Pursuit of Happy Well, hosts Scott and Kristen introduce themselves and their vision for the show. After building a successful business that generated over $20 million in sales and served 8,000 students, they realized they needed to pivot toward something more aligned with what truly lit them up - helping people create fulfilled, balanced lives beyond just business success.

• Our Story: Scott and Kristen share their journey as entrepreneurs, coaches, and a married couple of 13 years living in Colorado with their two kids and two dogs.
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• Why We Pivoted: Though they built a successful business teaching entrepreneurship, they discovered their greatest impact came from helping people transform their entire lives, not just their businesses.
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• The Birth of Happy Well: Inspired by Harvard's 75-year Grant Study on human happiness (the longest-running study on happiness), Scott and Kristen introduce the concept of being "happy well" - both fulfilled in life and physically healthy.
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• Our Mission: The hosts explain how they aim to disrupt the personal development industry by moving beyond mere consumption of content to actual implementation that creates transformation.
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• What to Expect: Each episode will feature meaningful conversations about navigating life well, interviews with people who are living according to their own success metrics, and practical discussions of life's big questions backed by research and statistics.
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• Our Promise: Unlike traditional personal development content that often leaves you unchanged, The Pursuit of Happy Well is designed to help you take action, redefine your metrics for a well-lived life, and resist the "propaganda machine" of marketing that constantly tells you that you need more to be happy.
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Join us on this journey of discovering what truly matters in creating a happy, well-lived life tailored to your unique values and goals. We also have an active community for listeners of The Pursuit of Happywell. Join our community on facebook: The Pursuit of Happywell Community or find the website at LiveHappywell.com

The secret is out! Kristen and Scott Boss are partnering up for a brand new podcast, "The Pursuit of Happywell." New episodes will be dropping every Monday (episode 1 is coming to you on March 17, 2025!). Come get your weekly Monday Mindset Drop with Kristen and Scott and be sure to join our podcast community here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/pursuitofhappywell