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27. The Adult Dance Class Rant: Why Ballet, Jazz, and Contemporary Classes Leave You Feeling Behind08 Oct 202600:10:03

Resources mentioned:
🎯 The Flow Codes (free 4-video series):

https://www.poledancefoundations.com/FlowCodes

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You did the responsible thing. You signed up for an adult ballet, jazz, or contemporary class to build the foundation under your pole dancing. And you walked out feeling like the slowest person in the room.

In this episode I break down the curse of knowledge. It is the reason instructors who grew up dancing skip the basics and leave you filling in blanks nobody gave you. I call out my own industry too. Pole teachers do it as well. Then I decode four elements of stage presence people call magic and show you the mechanics underneath: circles, pivots, angles, and pit-stops.

What you'll learn:

  • Why the curse of knowledge is not about your talent
  • Why pole teachers skip the same vocabulary dance teachers do
  • Why "just feel it" is the same curse wearing a different costume
  • The four decoded elements behind stage presence: circles, pivots, angles, pit-stops
  • Why progress is foundations plus the right teacher, not talent
  • How to stop auditing your body and start auditing your training


Note: Pole dance was created by skrippers and sex workers. Full stop. They built this art form from the ground up, the studios, the moves, the culture, all of it. I would not be here without them. I honor that history and I stand in solidarity with sex workers and their rights. Always.

26. The Stew and the Meat and Potatoes: Why You Don't Feel Like a Dancer Yet01 Oct 202600:07:21

Resources mentioned:


💃 Pole Dance Foundations Membership: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.poledancefoundations.com/polefromhome


💃 See EVERYTHING: https://www.poledancefoundations.com/everything


You have the tricks. Inversions, a layback, a couple of drops that make people gasp at open pole. So why does a full song still feel clunky? Trick, awkward pause, walk, trick.

Sergia breaks down the difference between your trick vocabulary and your grounded movement, and why the second one is what actually makes a routine read as dancing. It is also your safety net for the moment your brain blanks on stage.


Note: Pole dance was created by skrippers and sex workers. Full stop. They built this art form from the ground up — the studios, the moves, the culture, all of it. I would not be here without them. I honor that history and I stand in solidarity with sex workers and their rights. Always.

25. Why the Beginners Look Like the Strongest People in the Room24 Sep 202600:15:41

Resources mentioned:

🎟️ Free Pole Performer Summit (Sept 23-26): ⁠⁠https://www.poledancefoundations.com/PolePerformerSummit⁠⁠

💃 Pole Dance Foundations Membership: ⁠⁠https://www.poledancefoundations.com/polefromhome


Watch any pole studio and you'll see it. Beginners look like the strongest people in the room, veins popping, muscling through every move. The advanced dancers in the corner look like they're floating through the same moves. That's not because they got stronger. It's because they stopped paying full price for their movement.

The gap between a beginner and an advanced dancer isn't strength. It's efficiency, and efficiency is a skill you can learn. In this episode I break down two foundational concepts, Orbiting on static pole and perpendicular pressure, that explain why some dancers work so hard for so little and others get the same movement for a fraction of the cost. I also get into why this matters beyond survival, because every bit of effort you save through efficiency is effort you get to spend on your face, your intention, and your performance.


What You'll Learn:

  • Why beginners work so hard while advanced dancers look like they're floating through the same moves
  • The tetherball secret behind Orbiting on static pole, and how fear kills your own spin
  • Why perpendicular pressure, not squeezing, is what actually holds you on the pole
  • Why level one, where you can't go upside down, turns out to be the hardest level of all
  • The lie your brain tells you when someone else looks like they're not trying, and why it's wrong
  • How efficiency saves your energy for artistry, not just for tricks
  • Why your hardest, least efficient tricks are a cost your performance has to pay

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    Note: Pole dance was created by skrippers and sex workers. Full stop. They built this art form from the ground up — the studios, the moves, the culture, all of it. I would not be here without them. I honor that history and I stand in solidarity with sex workers and their rights. Always.

24. You Don't Lack Strength. You Lack a Diagnosis.17 Sep 202600:10:55

Resources mentioned:

🎟️ Free Pole Performer Summit (Sept 23-26): ⁠https://www.poledancefoundations.com/PolePerformerSummit⁠

💃 Pole Dance Foundations Membership: ⁠https://www.poledancefoundations.com/polefromhome


You Don't Lack Strength. You Lack a Diagnosis.

There's a move you keep cutting from your routines. You drilled it for weeks, then swapped it out ten days before your show and told yourself the choreography flowed better without it. It didn't. This episode is about why that move is still stuck, and it's not the reason you think.

Every dancer has a nemesis move, the one that gets cut right before it counts. Most of us respond by drilling harder, watching more tutorials, and deciding we don't have what it takes. I built the Three-Steps-Back Test to prove that's the wrong diagnosis almost every time. In this episode I break down why "get stronger" has become the default answer to every stuck move, and when the real gap sits three steps back in a foundation nobody checked.

What You'll Learn:

  • Why drilling a stuck move harder almost never fixes it, and what to do instead
  • The Three-Steps-Back Test I use with my own students to find the real problem in under ten minutes
  • Why "you need to get stronger" has become pole's catch-all diagnosis, and when it's the wrong one
  • How to tell a technique gap from a strength gap
  • Why a foundation nobody checked months ago shrinks your choreography vocabulary today
  • What expert eyes catch that a tutorial never can
  • The real reason your routines keep feeling the same
23. Why Your Saved Tutorials Never Make It to the Stage27 Aug 202600:10:31

Resources mentioned:


🎟️ Free Pole Performer Summit (Sept 23-26): https://www.poledancefoundations.com/PolePerformerSummit

💃 Pole Dance Foundations Membership: https://www.poledancefoundations.com/polefromhome


Why Your Saved Tutorials Never Make It to the Stage:

You have 400 saved pole tutorials on Instagram. You watch them on your lunch break. You drill them at open pole. So why does none of it connect when a full song comes on?

In this episode I introduce you to Winging It Wanda, the pole dancer who builds her whole education out of 60 second tutorials and ends up with a pile of trick morsels instead of a dance. I break down why demonstration is not instruction, what is actually happening under the waterline of every trick you have ever watched online, and why an audience does not applaud positions, they feel moments.

What you'll learn:

  • Why 400 saved tutorials can leave you more stuck, not less

  • The real reason your tricks won't connect into a routine, even when you can do all of them

  • Who Winging It Wanda is and whether you have some of her in you

  • The difference between demonstration and instruction, and why it matters more than you think

  • What is actually happening "under the waterline" of every pole trick you've ever watched

  • Why an audience feels moments, not positions

  • The one mindset shift that changes how you approach learning a new move

  • Why drilling the same trick for months might be the wrong move entirely

skrippers solidarity 🔥


22. From Concept to Stage 4/4: REFINE13 Aug 202600:06:57
21. From Concept to Stage 3/4: EMBODY06 Aug 202600:13:49
20. From Concept to Stage 2/4: MAP30 Jul 202600:14:22
19. From Concept to Stage 1/4: DEFINE23 Jul 202600:07:22
18. Your Entrance and Your Bow Are Part of the Routine. The Stage Presence Series — Part 416 Jul 202600:12:33

LINKS MENTIONED:

Free Masterclass: Compelling Pole Routines ⁠poledancefoundations.com/compellingroutines⁠

Free Training: The Choreography Code ⁠poledancefoundations.com/poleartistmentorship⁠

Create Your Routine with Sergia 1:1⁠ poledancefoundations.com/routinemap⁠


⁠Follow Sergia: @sergialouise on Instagram

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The Routine Starts Before the Music Does.

This is the final episode of the Stage Presence Series, and I saved my favorite for last.

Most dancers treat their entrance as the walk to the pole before the real thing starts. And the bow? Something to get through after it ends. Both of those assumptions are costing you.

Your audience starts forming an opinion the second you step into the light. Before the first note plays. Before your first move. And that opinion? It shapes how they receive everything that follows. If you walk out without intention, you've already made a choice. You've just made it accidentally.

The same is true for the bow. What your character does after the last note fades is still part of the performance. Don't let the routine bleed out awkwardly.

Today I get specific on how to choreograph both, how to stay in character from wing to wing, and why the moments everyone forgets are often the ones that hit hardest.

17. Write a Script for Your Routine (No One Else Has to See It)" The Stage Presence Series — Part 309 Jul 202600:07:56

LINKS MENTIONED:

Free Masterclass: Compelling Pole Routines ⁠poledancefoundations.com/compellingroutines⁠

Free Training: The Choreography Code ⁠poledancefoundations.com/poleartistmentorship⁠

Create Your Routine with Sergia 1:1⁠ poledancefoundations.com/routinemap⁠


⁠Follow Sergia: @sergialouise on Instagram


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Your Character Is Always Saying Something. Do You Know What It Is?

Here's a thing I want you to try: write a script for your routine. Not choreography notes. Not a song map. An actual script — what your character is saying in every single moment, even though the audience will never hear a word of it.

I know. It sounds a little ridiculous. Stay with me.

This comes from actor training, and it's one of the most powerful performance tools I know. You cannot play an emotion on command. But you can play an action. And when your character has something specific to say in each moment, your body figures out the rest automatically. Your face knows what to do. Your eyes know where to go. Your gestures get specific instead of decorative.

I walk you through how to actually write the script, share a real example from a student's assassin routine (yes, it sounds absurd, yes it works), and explain why nobody has to see this document except you.

16. Don't Worry About Stage Presence. Choreograph It In. The Stage Presence Series — Part 202 Jul 202600:06:16

LINKS MENTIONED:

Free Masterclass: Compelling Pole Routines⁠ poledancefoundations.com/compellingroutines⁠

Free Training: The Choreography Code ⁠poledancefoundations.com/poleartistmentorship⁠

Create Your Routine with Sergia 1:1⁠ poledancefoundations.com/routinemap⁠


⁠Follow Sergia: @sergialouise on Instagram


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Stage Presence Isn't Something You Feel. It's Something You Build.

In Part 1, I went on a rant about the note "you need better stage presence" and why it's one of the most useless pieces of feedback in pole. Today I'm giving you the actual answer.

Don't try to conjure up stage presence before you walk onstage. Don't dial up your intensity or make bigger eye contact. Instead: choreograph it in.

Stage presence is the result of specific decisions made during the choreographic process, not in the performance moment. And the most foundational of those decisions is focus. Not vague, general, out-into-the-audience focus. Specific, intentional, character-driven focus. In every moment of your routine, where are your eyes? What is your character looking at? Why?

Most dancers haven't answered those questions. And that unanswered question is what an audience perceives as lack of presence.

We also talk about subtext, actions, and what's actually happening when a routine feels magnetic versus hollow.


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15. Stage Presence Isn't a Vibe. It's Built in Moments (Stage Presence Series 1/4)25 Jun 202600:10:13

LINKS MENTIONED:

Free Masterclass: Compelling Pole Routinespoledancefoundations.com/compellingroutines

Free Training: The Choreography Codepoledancefoundations.com/poleartistmentorship

Create Your Routine with Sergia 1:1poledancefoundations.com/routinemap


Follow Sergia: @sergialouise on Instagram

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In this episode Sergia breaks down why "you need better stage presence" is one of the most useless notes in pole — and what stage presence actually is and how to build it.

You'll walk away with:Why stage presence is not a general feeling you dial up — it's built in specific momentsWhat subtext and action mean in pole performance and how to find them in your own routineWhy smiling more and making bigger eye contact might actually be working against you

—Note: Pole dance was created by skrippers and sex workers. Full stop. They built this art form from the ground up — the studios, the moves, the culture, all of it. I would not be here without them. I honor that history and I stand in solidarity with sex workers and their rights. Always.

14. Two Exercises That Will Change How You Choreograph to Music (Musicality Series 4/4)18 Jun 202600:12:14

Join me June 24-27 for the Free Choreo Cookout Challenge: Heels Edition


https://www.poledancefoundations.com/choreocookout

13. Music Has Layers. Here's How to Use Them. (Musicality Series 3/4)11 Jun 202600:10:04

Join me for the Chore Cookout Heels Edition Free Challenge June 24-27


https://www.poledancefoundations.com/choreocookout

12. If You Hear It, It Exists (Musicality Series 2/4)04 Jun 202600:08:07

Join me for the Free Choreo Cookout: Heels Edition Challenge June 24-28


Register here

⁠https://www.poledancefoundations.com/choreocookout⁠

11. Musicality Isn't What You Think It Is (Musicality Series 1/4)28 May 202600:08:47

Join me for the Free Choreo Cookout: Heels Edition Challenge June 24-28


Register here

https://www.poledancefoundations.com/choreocookout

10. The Quote That Changed Everything for Me21 May 202600:11:59

LINKS MENTIONED:

Free Masterclass: Compelling Pole Routines poledancefoundations.com/compellingroutines

Free Training: The Choreography Code poledancefoundations.com/poleartistmentorship

Create Your Routine with Sergia 1:1 poledancefoundations.com/routinemap


Follow Sergia: @sergialouise on Instagram

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In this episode Sergia shares the Martha Graham quote she taped to her bedroom wall at sixteen — and why it might be exactly what you need to hear right now.

You'll walk away with:-Why comparing your work to someone else's is not just painful — it's beside the point-How performing for approval keeps you from making work that's actually yours-Why you don't have to feel ready or confident to keep the channel open

—Note: Pole dance was created by skrippers and sex workers. Full stop. They built this art form from the ground up — the studios, the moves, the culture, all of it. I would not be here without them. I honor that history and I stand in solidarity with sex workers and their rights. Always.

9. Your Spinning Pole Is a Storytelling Tool (Here's How to Use It)14 May 202600:07:07

LINKS MENTIONED:

  • Free Masterclass: Compelling Pole Routines
  • Free Training: The Choreography Code
  • Create Your Routine with Sergia 1:1 poledancefoundations.com/routinemap


Follow Sergia on instagram

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In this episode Sergia breaks down why your spinning pole is one of the most powerful storytelling tools you have — and how to use it intentionally.

You'll walk away with:

-Why where you put your spin pass is a storytelling decision, not just a technical one-The difference between what belongs on static versus spin — and why it matters-How to make sure your spin pass is earned so the escalation actually lands

—Note: Pole dance was created by skrippers and sex workers. Full stop. They built this art form from the ground up — the studios, the moves, the culture, all of it. I would not be here without them. I honor that history and I stand in solidarity with sex workers and their rights. Always.

8. Stage Fright Is Lying to You07 May 202600:06:00

LINKS MENTIONED:

  • Free Masterclass: Compelling Pole Routines

⁠⁠⁠poledancefoundations.com/compellingroutines⁠⁠⁠

  • Free Training: The Choreography Code

⁠⁠⁠poledancefoundations.com/poleartistmentorship⁠⁠⁠

  • Create Your Routine with Sergia 1:1

⁠⁠⁠poledancefoundations.com/routinemap⁠⁠⁠


Follow Sergia: ⁠⁠@sergialouise⁠⁠ on Instagram

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In this episode Sergia breaks down what's actually happening in your body on performance day — and why the voice telling you to run is lying.

You'll walk away with:

  • Why stage fright and excitement are physiologically almost identical — and how to use that
  • The single most effective stage fright antidote nobody talks about
  • Four practical tools to use before your next performance

—Note: Pole dance was created by skrippers and sex workers. Full stop. They built this art form from the ground up — the studios, the moves, the culture, all of it. I would not be here without them. I honor that history and I stand in solidarity with sex workers and their rights. Always.—


7. Props: When to Use Them, When to Ditch Them30 Apr 202600:05:10

LINKS MENTIONED:

  • Free Masterclass: Compelling Pole Routines

⁠⁠⁠poledancefoundations.com/compellingroutines⁠⁠⁠

  • Free Training: The Choreography Code

⁠⁠⁠poledancefoundations.com/poleartistmentorship⁠⁠⁠

  • Create Your Routine with Sergia 1:1

⁠⁠⁠poledancefoundations.com/routinemap⁠⁠⁠


Follow Sergia: ⁠⁠@sergialouise⁠⁠ on Instagram

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In this episode Sergia breaks down exactly when a prop earns its place on stage — and when it's just a distraction.


You'll walk away with:

The one question to ask before you ever bring a prop to a performance The four rules every prop must follow to actually serve your routine How to know if your prop is helping your story or splitting your focus


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Note: Pole dance was created by skrippers and sex workers. Full stop. They built this art form from the ground up — the studios, the moves, the culture, all of it. I would not be here without them. I honor that history and I stand in solidarity with sex workers and their rights. Always.


6. The One Thing That Makes or Breaks a Pole Performance (That Has Nothing to Do With Pole)23 Apr 202600:06:23

LINKS MENTIONED:

  • Free Masterclass: Compelling Pole Routines

⁠⁠⁠poledancefoundations.com/compellingroutines⁠⁠⁠

  • Free Training: The Choreography Code

⁠⁠⁠poledancefoundations.com/poleartistmentorship⁠⁠⁠

  • Create Your Routine with Sergia 1:1

⁠⁠⁠poledancefoundations.com/routinemap⁠⁠⁠


Follow Sergia: ⁠⁠@sergialouise⁠⁠ on Instagram


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In this episode, Sergia breaks down why concept is the single most important ingredient in any pole performance — and what's actually missing when a routine doesn't land.

You'll walk away with:

  • Why "sexy" and "sad" are not concepts (and what a real concept actually is)
  • What a routine with a concept feels like from the audience's perspective vs. one without
  • Four questions that give you the bones of a concept before you touch a single move

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Note: Pole dance was created by skrippers and sex workers. Full stop. They built this art form from the ground up — the studios, the moves, the culture, all of it. I would not be here without them. I honor that history and I stand in solidarity with sex workers and their rights. Always.


5. Why You Freeze When You Try to Choreograph (And What to Do Instead)16 Apr 202600:06:04


LINKS MENTIONED:

  • Free Masterclass: Compelling Pole Routines

⁠⁠⁠poledancefoundations.com/compellingroutines⁠⁠⁠

  • Free Training: The Choreography Code

⁠⁠⁠poledancefoundations.com/poleartistmentorship⁠⁠⁠

  • Create Your Routine with Sergia 1:1

⁠⁠⁠poledancefoundations.com/routinemap⁠⁠⁠


Follow Sergia: ⁠⁠@sergialouise⁠⁠ on Instagram

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In this episode, Sergia breaks down why choreographer's freeze has nothing to do with creativity — and the simple systems fix that gets you moving again.

You'll walk away with:

  • Why the freeze is a bandwidth problem, not a talent problem
  • How to stop trying to build your routine in order (and what to do instead)
  • The four-part fix that gives your creative brain a way through

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Note: Pole dance was created by skrippers and sex workers. Full stop. They built this art form from the ground up — the studios, the moves, the culture, all of it. I would not be here without them. I honor that history and I stand in solidarity with sex workers and their rights. Always.


4. The Tiny Gestures That Make an Audience Feel Everything09 Apr 202600:04:48

LINKS MENTIONED:

  • Free Masterclass: Compelling Pole Routines

⁠⁠⁠poledancefoundations.com/compellingroutines⁠⁠⁠

  • Free Training: The Choreography Code

⁠⁠⁠poledancefoundations.com/poleartistmentorship⁠⁠⁠

  • Create Your Routine with Sergia 1:1

⁠⁠⁠poledancefoundations.com/routinemap⁠⁠⁠


Follow Sergia: ⁠⁠@sergialouise⁠⁠ on Instagram

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In this episode, Sergia breaks down why small, intentional gestures are one of the most powerful performance tools you're probably not using.

You'll walk away with:

  • Why gestures are the bridge between the story in your head and what your audience actually feels
  • How to find character-specific gestures that work at any pole level
  • A simple pre-studio exercise that changes the energy of your whole routine

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Note: Pole dance was created by skrippers and sex workers. Full stop. They built this art form from the ground up — the studios, the moves, the culture, all of it. I would not be here without them. I honor that history and I stand in solidarity with sex workers and their rights. Always.


3. Who Really Built Pole Dance02 Apr 202600:18:34

In this episode Sergia shares the history of where pole dance actually comes from — and why honoring that history is every pole dancer's responsibility.

You'll walk away with: A mini history lesson on the real origins of pole dance — from carnival tents to strip clubs to the first pole studios The names of the pioneers who built this art form and deserve to be remembered What whorephobia is, why hashtag NotAStripper caused and causes real harm, and what to do instead


LINKS MENTIONED:

AM Davies

Yas Work

Yes, A Stripper Podcast / YAS Podcast

Squeak

Ali Kat

The Black Sex Worker Collective

Strippers United

Michelle Mynx

Nats Honey


2. How to Map Your Music Before You Choreograph a Single Move02 Apr 202600:05:13

LINKS MENTIONED:

  • Free Masterclass: Compelling Pole Routines

⁠⁠poledancefoundations.com/compellingroutines⁠⁠

  • Free Training: The Choreography Code

⁠⁠poledancefoundations.com/poleartistmentorship⁠⁠

  • Create Your Routine with Sergia 1:1

⁠⁠poledancefoundations.com/routinemap⁠⁠


Follow Sergia: ⁠@sergialouise⁠ on Instagram

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In this episode, Sergia breaks down the one step most dancers skip that makes choreography feel chaotic — and how fixing it changes everything.

You'll walk away with:

  • Why starting with song mapping (not movement) is the key to stopping the spiral
  • A simple three-step process for building your music blueprint before you touch a single move
  • How to identify the landmarks in your song that your choreography will want to live in

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    Note: Pole dance was created by skrippers and sex workers. Full stop. They built this art form from the ground up — the studios, the moves, the culture, all of it. I would not be here without them. I honor that history and I stand in solidarity with sex workers and their rights. Always.


1. Why Your Routine Isn't Landing (And It Has Nothing To Do With Your Tricks)26 Mar 202600:05:30

Why Your Routine Isn't Landing (And It Has Nothing To Do With Your Tricks)

If you've ever walked offstage feeling like something didn't land — or you keep freezing every time you sit down to choreograph — this episode is for you.

The hard truth? It's not your tricks. It was never your tricks. A routine that moves people isn't built on what you can do. It's built on why you're doing it. That's the concept. And without one, even the most technically impressive routine can feel like a laundry list of moves.

In this episode Sergia breaks down the 4-step framework behind every compelling pole performance:

Clarity — defining your concept, the heartbeat of your routineStructure — mapping your music so you stop guessing what goes whereConfidence — building anchors and character moments that hold your piece togetherCohesion — assembling, refining, and polishing into something that actually lives and breathes

Your routine doesn't stand out because you're dancing better, stronger, harder, and faster than everyone else. It stands out because you've done the homework.

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Note: Pole dance was created by skrippers and sex workers. Full stop. They built this art form from the ground up — the studios, the moves, the culture, all of it. I would not be here without them. I honor that history and I stand in solidarity with sex workers and their rights. Always.

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LINKS MENTIONED:

  • Free Masterclass: Compelling Pole Routines

poledancefoundations.com/compellingroutines

  • Free Training: The Choreography Code

poledancefoundations.com/poleartistmentorship

  • Create Your Routine with Sergia 1:1

poledancefoundations.com/routinemap


Follow Sergia on Instagram

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