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In this week's Hot Topic, we dive headfirst into the swirling storm of ignorance, outrage, and eye rolls sparked by Reform Party Leader Nigel Farage MP’s latest comments on SEND (Special Educational Needs and Disabilities) individuals in the UK. From tone-deaf soundbites to a complete misunderstanding of what being a victim actually means, Farage once again proves that when it comes to empathy and education, he's more out of touch than ever.

Join us as we unpack the backlash and throw in a few well-deserved side-eyes along the way. Spoiler alert: it's not just offensive—it's exhausting! If you're tired of politicians using vulnerable communities and minorities for cheap political points, this one’s for you.

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In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, hosts Jordan James and Simon Scott speak with Speaker and Advocate, Asher Jenner, who shares their journey of navigating childhood struggles, school bullying and the complexities of PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance), the impact of trauma on mental health, and the challenges faced by neurodivergent individuals navigating CHaMs, particularly in relation to eating disorders and rumination syndrome.

⚠️ Content Warning: Self-Harm and Suicide

This episode contains open and honest discussions around self-harm, suicidal thoughts, and mental health challenges. Listener discretion is strongly advised. If you or someone you know is struggling, please reach out to a mental health professional or contact a crisis support service in your area.

Here's what we cover in this episode

• We discuss the misconceptions surrounding PDA, the importance of tailored treatment approaches, and the emotional toll of navigating these experiences.
• The need for understanding and support for those with neurodivergent conditions, emphasizing the significance of lived experiences in shaping treatment and care.
• The therapeutic benefits of dance, and the role of stim toys in managing sensory needs.
• Asher Jenner shares insights on their journey, the significance of finding safe ways to express emotions, and the impact of sharing personal stories to help others.

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In this weeks Hot Topic, hosts Jordan James and Simon Scott discuss the alarming new proposals for Personal Independence Payment (PIP) in the UK, which could lead to 90% of current standard daily living awards failing on renewal.

Here's what we cover in this episode:

• We share personal experiences with the PIP application process, highlighting the struggles faced by those with disabilities, particularly neurodivergent individuals.
• What are the implications of these changes, the internalized ableism that many face when attempting the application process?
• We express our frustration over the system's failures and emphasize the importance of community unity in advocating for the rights of disabled individuals.

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This episode isn't just good, it's sofa king good!

Ever catch yourself - or someone else - repeating the same phrase again and again? Why do Neurodivergent people repeat words or phrases over and over? Is it just mimicry or something more meaningful? In this episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, hosts Jordan James and Simon Scott are once again joined by in-house therapist Ashley Bentley to dive into the fascinating world of echolalia, the often misunderstood speech pattern based on mimicry and repetition, a common autistic trait that relates to early language development, and is the backbone of neurodivergent communication.

Here's what we cover in this episode (THE MYSTERY POND):

• We share humorous examples and cultural references that illustrate the quirks of echolalia, the beauty and complexity of using echolalia as a form of expression and connection, while also addressing the potential for misunderstandings and social faux pas
• We explore the nuances of echolalia, particularly how it is influenced by comedy and pop culture.
• We share personal anecdotes about our favourite TV shows , catchphrases, and family dynamics, highlighting how these elements shape our communication styles but create complexities in social interactions with neurotypicals.
• From immediate repetition to delayed scripting, echolalia can serve important roles in learning, self-regulation, and expression for Autistic people and be a relief from when Alexithymia hits!

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In this weeks Hot Topic, Jordan James and Simon Scott explore the complexities of who should play neurodivergent roles on screen and the stereotypes that often arise in media portrayals, particularly focusing on the recent BBC One comedy 'Austin'.

Here's what we cover in this episode:

• The need for neurodivergent actors, and the responsibility of media creators to provide accurate and respectful representations of neurodiverse individuals.
• The importance of recognising when media is laughing at not with Neurodivergent people.
• We discuss the non neuro-affirming nature and hidden etiquette of film sets and the challenges faced by autistic individuals in these spaces.
• We debate the complexities of who should play neurodivergent roles and the huge importance of lived experience in storytelling.

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In this episode Jordan James and Simon Scott chat about one of the worlds most famous and loved tv shows, the Simpsons. Why do we relate to this cartoon family so much and how does the show serve as a medium to explain and represent Autism and ADHD people? Plus we discuss why the titular family aren't the only autistic-coded characters in Springfield who reflect and resonate with the experiences of neurodivergent audiences.

Here's what we cover in this episode:

• Through character analysis, particularly of Bart Simpson, we delve into the neurodivergent traits of Bart Simpson, exploring how his character could reflect the experiences of the show's creators.
• How Ralph and Martin could be viewed as 'high and low functioning' characters yet we relate to both of them!
• We discuss the complexities of Bart's intelligence and struggles with traditional education, as well as the similarities between Bart and his father, Homer.
• The discussion also touches on Maggie's representation of nonverbal autism and the broader themes of mental health and family dynamics within The Simpsons.
• We discuss the complexities of autism representation in media, the significance of non-speaking individuals on tv, and the unique dynamics of characters like Maggie and Marge Simpson.

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HOT HOT HOT!

In our first standalone Hot Topic episode (released every Friday) we discuss and debunk the inaccurate remarks made by Robert F. Kennedy Jr (26th United States Secretary of Health and Human Services) in responding to a new report from the Centres for Disease Control and Prevention. This report claims that rates of Autism had increased to one in 31 among 8-year-olds. We analyse the claims made, the studies cited, and the broader impact of such rhetoric on public perception and policy.

Here's what we cover in this episode:

• Mr Kennedy blames environmental risk factors for the uptick, he accused the media and the public of succumbing to a “myth of epidemic denial” when it came to autism. We discuss why he is so wrong!
• He called research into the genetic factors that scientists say play a vital role in whether a child will develop autism “a dead end” and that autism was preventable - while directly contradicting researchers within his own agency on a primary driver behind rising rates of Autism diagnosis in young children.
• The importance of accurate representation, the role of genetics in autism, and the need for advocacy and community support to combat damaging misinformation and stigma.

Resources:

Article written by Columnist (and father to an Autistic Son) John Harris in the Guardian

A new report from the Centres for Disease Control and Prevention

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In this episode Jordan and Simon return to a topic that they first discussed right at the beginning of Season 1 of The Neurodivergent experience - Meltdowns and Emotional Regulation. Its been over a year since they first talked about meltdowns and life could not be more different for either of our hosts. So what has changed and how has Simon's perspective and coping strategies changed now he has better understand of himself as an Autistic and ADHD individual?

Here's what we cover in this episode:

• Emotional regulation through retail therapy shopping and the challenges of self soothing meltdowns by using our special interests
• The significance of family support systems and the complexities of emotional responses in love, relationships, and the challenges of navigating family relationships.
• Parental expectations of personal growth in Neurodivergent children and the necessity of clear communication and boundaries in relationships between parent and child.
• The challenges faced by neurodivergent individuals in the workplace and the systemic issues surrounding assessments and accommodations with a need for better understanding, resilience, and advocacy within the neurodivergent community.
• We discuss our recent life updates, focusing on Simon's new role as a producer at the Autistic Culture Podcast and Jordans new love for oversized hoodies.

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In this episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, hosts Jordan James and Simon Scott, are joined by Jordan's autistic daughter Sophie. Sophie recalls her experiences as a diagnosed women at university interacting with friends, colleagues and lecturers who are yet to recognise or accept they are neurodivergent. We explore how important it is to self-identify rather than self-diagnose, the shocking rates of misdiagnosis for autistic and ADHD women, and the unique challenges faced by women in understanding and accepting their neurodivergent identities.

• We share personal stories, discuss societal perceptions, and advocate for a more nuanced understanding of autism and ADHD.
• Sophie gives her perspective on the impact of societal rhetoric on perceptions of autism and ADHD, the challenges faced in educational settings regarding accommodations, and the stigma surrounding self-disclosure of neurodivergent identities.
• The conversation emphasizes the need for understanding and acceptance of neurodiversity in both personal and professional contexts, highlighting the importance of creating supportive environments for neurodivergent individuals.

This weeks Hot Topic is the dating show 'Love on the Spectrum'. We express our thoughts and feelings about the infantilization and sexualization of participants, the editing choices that misrepresent the spectrum of autism, the lack of diverse representation and the importance of showcasing a broader range of Neurodivergent experiences in media.

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In this episode, Simon Scott and Jordan James share and discuss three hot topics about Autism and ADHD as they celebrate Autism Acceptance Month.

They critique a recent article in The Independent that reflects on the themes of the last episodes hot topic around Bella Ramsey being diagnosed Autistic. The articles author dismisses self diagnosis as 'armchair diagnoses', bashes social media advocating as misinformation and brands the act of suggesting to someone they may be neurodivergent as a rude and unacceptable thing to do. Simon and Jordan emphasize the importance of understanding and celebrating neurodivergence while addressing the harmful narratives perpetuated by ill informed media outlets and share personal experiences and insights on navigating conversations about neurodivergence, celebrating neurodiversity and the positive aspects of being autistic.

The article: https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/bella-ramsey-autism-adhd-diagnosis-tiktok-neurodivergence-b2723125.html#comments-area

The second Hot Topic explores the cultural significance of the custom NBA sneakers campaign that is raising money and awareness in relation to autism acceptance month. They discuss the impact of custom sneakers designed to support the autism community and the importance of broader awareness campaigns: https://www.nba.com/jazz/news/custom-sneaker-campaign-organized-by-utah-jazz-coach-to-benefit-autism-acceptance-efforts-returns-for-second-season

The conversation shifts to the controversial changes proposed by NHS England regarding the Right to Choose, highlighting the challenges faced by neurodivergent individuals in accessing timely diagnoses and support.

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In this engaging conversation, Simon Scott and Jordan James explore various themes including neurotypical interactions, the transition to full-time podcasting and the thought-provoking show 'Severance'. They delve into the concept of 'innies' and 'outies' as a metaphor for the duality of self in the context of neurodivergence. They discuss the impact of past experiences on character building, the struggles of commuting and travel, and the weight of everyday responsibilities we wish our 'Innies' could do for us.

This weeks Hot Topic covers Actor and Last of Us Star Bella Ramsey being diagnosed as Autistic after a neuro-affirming crew member spotted the signs: https://www.the-independent.com/life-style/bella-ramsey-autistic-signs-the-last-of-us-b2723641.html

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In this conversation, Jordan and Simon discuss the concept of time blindness, with both speakers sharing their experiences and perspectives on managing time and procrastination in their daily lives. They share their tips and experiences around the intricacies of their morning preparations and daily routines, the struggles they face with time management, the challenges of demand avoidance, and the impact of time blindness on their lives. Plus Jordan talks about his special interest purchases, and Simon delves into the life changes that come with buying a house.

This weeks Hot Topic covers a story in the news about children being rejected by the NHS mental heal services because they are Autistic:

https://news.sky.com/story/children-being-rejected-by-nhs-mental-health-services-if-theyre-autistic-parents-say-13322027

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In this conversation Jordan James and Simon Scott, speak with resident therapist Ashley Bentley about the the impact of RSD (Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria) on mental health, nervous system regulation and self-soothing techniques to manage anxiety and overwhelming feelings. They discuss the importance of visual stimuli in creating a comforting environment, the inner critic stemming from childhood trauma, the complexities of adult responsibilities and the disconnect between empathy and rejection sensitivity dysphoria (RSD) and the tools available for managing anxiety and self-doubt.

This weeks Hot Topic discuss the misinformation surrounding vaccines and autism, emphasizing the importance of education and advocacy for neurodiversity. The conversation highlights the need to debunk myths and promote a better understanding of autism, while also celebrating the contributions of neurodivergent individuals.

Guest: Ashley Bentley: Hypnotherapist, Coach & Breathwork Practitioner, Integrative Coaching, Breathwork & Hypnotherapy

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In this conversation, Jordan and Simon discuss their personal experiences with anxiety sickness, particularly in relation to life changes and global events. They explore the impact of moving house, the nature of anxiety, and how it can manifest physically and emotionally. The discussion also touches on the overwhelming empathy felt towards global crises and the challenges of staying informed without becoming consumed by anxiety as an Autistic person. They emphasize the importance of coping strategies, practicing mindfulness and the need for community support during difficult times.

This weeks Hot Topic is John Cena's heel turn. They discuss the cultural phenomenon of wrestling for the autistic community, John Cena's legacy and its emotional resonance with autistic fans as their hero of 22 years joins the dark side.

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In this engaging conversation, Jordan James and Simon Scott explore the themes of self-care, stress management, and the psychology behind collecting and purchasing items.

They share personal experiences with financial management and the impact of obsessions on their lives, particularly in relation to their neurodivergent experiences. They explore the themes of nostalgia, how childhood experiences shape adult behaviours, the impact of having disposable income on purchasing habits, and the connection to one's inner child. The dialogue highlights the complexities of interests and obsessions, emphasizing the emotional satisfaction derived from indulging in passions and the societal influences that drive consumer behaviour.

This weeks Hot Topic covers The Standard's article 'Daydreaming, social awkwardness: Has the internet diagnosed you with autism or ADHD?' Read it here: https://www.standard.co.uk/lifestyle/autism-adhd-diagnosis-test-surge-tiktok-b1207881.html

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In this conversation, Simon Scott and Jordan James talk to Chris Ash, an autistic student at the University of Exeter, exploring the challenges and experiences of navigating university life as neurodivergent individuals. They discuss the impact of chaotic living environments, the importance of self-awareness, and the fears associated with transitioning into the challenges of navigating adult life. The speakers share personal anecdotes about their experiences with stress, independence, and lifestyle adjustments, including food habits during university life.

This weeks Hot Topic is the controversial statements made by President Trump regarding autism and the impact of misinformation on the public perception of Neurodivergent people.

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In this engaging conversation, Jordan James, Simon Scott, and Ashley Bentley explore the importance of embracing one's inner child, particularly for neurodivergent individuals. They discuss personal experiences, the healing power of connecting with the inner child, and the role of hypnotherapy in this process. The conversation delves into the impact of synaptic pruning on mental health, the dangers of silencing the inner child, and practical steps to foster creativity and self-acceptance. Ashley shares insights on how to navigate shame and the significance of allowing the inner child to express itself freely and the importance of finding community and embracing individuality. They discuss the challenges of adult responsibilities while nurturing the inner child, emphasizing the need to build resilience in children and empower them through imagination.

This weeks Hot Topic focuses on Bill Gates' recent acknowledgment of neurodivergence, underscoring the importance of awareness and acceptance in society.

Guest: Ashley Bentley: Hypnotherapist, Coach & Breathwork Practitioner, Integrative Coaching, Breathwork & Hypnotherapy

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In this episode, Jordan James and Simon Scott discuss their personal journeys with accepting their neurodivergence. They share their experiences with pain, positivity, and the challenges of navigating societal perceptions of autism and ADHD. They discuss the impact of societal expectations on individuals with disabilities, the importance of recognizing and addressing internalized ableism, and the journey towards self-love and acceptance. The conversation also touches on the challenges of communication, the significance of open discussions about neurodivergence, and the human experience in the context of sports, particularly focusing on Luka Doncic's recent trade to the LA Lakers in the NBA.

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In this episode, Jordan James and Simon Scott reconnect for Season 2, sharing their personal journeys of growth, mental health, and the neurodivergent experience. They discuss the importance of focusing on what can be controlled, the challenges of moving house, and reflections on their Christmas experiences. They discuss Simon's journey of unmasking his neurodivergence, the impact of supportive friendships, and the empowerment that comes from embracing one's true self. The conversation also touches on the societal implications of neurodivergence, culminating in a hot topic discussion about Elon Musk and the misuse of neurodivergence as an excuse for behaviour.

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The Neurodivergent Experience podcast is back with Season 2!

This is a podcast where we share the lived experiences of Neurodivergent people to help create a better understanding for our community. Join us every week as we bring you honest, raw, and inspiring conversations with specialists, advocates, and individuals who know what it’s like to live the Neurodivergent experience.

Meet Jordan James, a neurodivergent specialist, father of neurodivergent children and author of the best selling book 'The Autistic Experience'. And Simon Scott, an Autistic ADHD broadcaster, actor and advocate.

Being Neurodivergent is often shrouded in misconceptions, stereotypes, and limited knowledge. While our experiences may overlap, no two stories are the same. Through this podcast, we aim to challenge those misconceptions and dive deep into the diverse experiences of those in the spectrum by sharing our personal stories, and exploring topics like early interventions, sensory processing, education, employment, and much more. Each episode will feature insightful conversations about living in the spectrum, with guest experts, advocates, and allies who are passionate about creating an inclusive and accepting world.

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In this episode, we discuss living with pathological demand avoidance (PDA), a condition that is not officially recognized by most authorities. We share personal experiences and examples of how demand avoidance affects our daily lives, including struggles with completing tasks, seeking medical help, and pursuing hobbies. We reflect on the impact of demand avoidance on mental health and relationships, the lack of recognition and understanding of the condition, and how it can both help and hinder us in different aspects of our lives.

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"Growing up in an undiagnosed family made me feel different from others and lead to a sense of being strange or weird!"

This episode of the Neurodivergent Experience discusses growing up in an undiagnosed family. Sophie James, Jordan's daughter, joins to share her experience about feeling different from other families, the challenges of navigating the school playground, the lack of support from the school, and the importance of bonding through daddy-daughter days. Sophie, shares her perspective on growing up with an undiagnosed autistic father and the challenges they faced as a family and reflect on the changes that occurred after Jordan's autism diagnosis and the newfound understanding and acceptance it brought them.

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Society's perspective on autism has shifted, but there is still work to be done to combat misinformation and stigma.

In this episode, Jordan James and Simon Scott interview Steve Silberman, the author of NeuroTribes. They discuss the impact of Silberman's book on the neurodivergent community and the importance of embracing neurodiversity. They delve into the history of autism and the misconceptions surrounding Hans Asperger, the legacy of autism, the shift in society's perspective on autism and the importance of finding support within the neurodivergent community. Silberman shares his perspective on the medical model of autism and we explore the impact of the book 'NeuroTribes' in creating advocates for neurodiversity, the concept of the autism spectrum, the need for more frequent and dedicated opportunities for autistic children to engage in their special interests, as these interests can lead to meaningful and successful lives.

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Language matters when discussing autism, and it is important to use inclusive and empowering language that recognizes the abilities and strengths of autistic individuals. In this episode, Simon and Jordan are joined by Dr. Luke Beardon, Author and Senior Lecturer in Autism at The Autism Centre, Sheffield Hallam University. Dr Luke talks about the majority of students in his courses studying autism being autistic, the negative narratives and misinformation surrounding autism, the us vs them narrative, gaslighting and professional misinformation, the identity crisis faced by late-diagnosed individuals, and the criticism of high-functioning individuals on the autism spectrum.

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This is episode #6 of the Neurodivergent Experience, re-released while were on Hiatus. We Will be back with NEW episodes in February

Meltdowns can be overwhelming and uncontrollable experiences, often triggered by sensory overload or unexpected events. In this episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott share what meltdowns feel like from a neurodivergent perspective. They cover the causes and effects of meltdowns, the importance of self-care and coping mechanisms - such as stimming and finding ways to recharge - the challenges of social anxiety and the power of communication.

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In our final episode of the year and our first season, hosts Jordan James and Simon Scott reflect on their experiences and growth throughout 2024, discussing starting a podcast, personal achievements, family dynamics, and the challenges they faced as neurodivergent individuals.

We encapsulate a year of significant personal development and connection, our mental health journeys, the impact of significant losses, and the importance of community. As we look forward to the new year, we set intentions and promises for personal growth and fulfilment, trying to buy less trainers and what to look forward to in Season 2 of The Neurodivergent Experience.

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In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, hosts Jordan James and Simon Scott discuss various themes around the infamous Autistic sense of justice. We share our personal anecdotes and insights on dealing with liars, how past experiences of violence and trauma shape our current behaviours and perceptions, particularly regarding trust and disingenuousness. We delve into the complexities of emotional expression, the impact of hypocrisy, and the challenges of honesty in relationships for Autistic people and the struggle between maintaining emotional safety and the desire for genuine connections.

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In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, hosts Jordan James and Simon Scott explore the multifaceted aspects of being Autistic at Christmas, discussing their personal traditions and the ups and downs of the holiday season.

We explore various aspects of Christmas, from personal traditions and family dynamics to the anxieties and expectations that come with the holiday season. We discuss the significance of family interactions over material gifts and reflect on how our perspectives on Christmas preparations have evolved over time, through kindness, understanding, and creating comfortable spaces for neurodivergent individuals.

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In this episode we answer your questions! We will be doing more episodes like this weekly in addition to our Thursday episodes in the new year!

If you have any questions for us email us at theneurodivergentexperience@gmail.com and use Mailbag in the subject line. Who knows, we could answer yours next!

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"Don't worry. Everyone is a little Autistic".

In this episode we delve into the complexities that come from Neurotypicals saying the wrong thing to us, especially Autistic, ADHD or AuDHD people. We discuss the harmful nature of functioning labels, the need for updated language around the disabling sides of neurodivergence and for greater understanding and acceptance of neurodiversity in society as a whole.

Takeaways

• Being neurodivergent is a unique experience that deserves understanding.
• Misconceptions about autism and ADHD can be harmful and diminish individual experiences.
• Functioning labels are often misleading and can hinder support for those in need.
• It's important to educate others about neurodiversity to foster understanding.
• The struggles of ADHD are often oversimplified and misunderstood.
• Misconceptions about autism often diminish individual experiences.
• Support is not special treatment; it's necessary help.

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Extreme Demand Avoidance is the new, rebranded term for what used to be Pathological Demand Avoidance. It is not recognised by the NHS yet so many Neurodivergent people struggling with navigating its demands. After this episode its pretty clear we do too!

In this super sized episode, along with guest Ashley Bentley, we delve into the complexities of extreme demand avoidance in neurodivergent adults by taking a screening test to see how much we are effected by EDA or PDA and how it is different for Men and Women. We discuss how we have used the creation of fantasy worlds as a coping mechanism, how we navigate and can be guilty of several dynamics of manipulation in relationships, the complexities of keeping up your reputation, and the impact of 'outrageous' behaviour and emotional responses that are often misdiagnosed as a 'tantrum' on our lives.

https://embrace-autism.com/eda-qa/

Takeaways

• Extreme demand avoidance can lead to internal conflict about wanting to do things.
• Mimicking others can be a natural response to social situations.
• Demand avoidance can significantly impact behaviour and relationships.
• Creating fantasy worlds can serve as a coping mechanism for stress.
• Manipulation in relationships can be unintentional and rooted in self-preservation.
• Meltdowns can occur under pressure and are often a release of built-up stress and emotions which are often misunderstood. Emotional responses can vary greatly, from crying to anger.

Ashley Bentley: Hypnotherapist, Coach & Breathwork Practitioner, Integrative Coaching, Breathwork & Hypnotherapy

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In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, we discuss the impact of current events on our well-being as life seems to be getting in our way at the moment!

We answer one of your questions and chat about the challenges of navigating outdated perceptions of autism. We talk the significance of understanding autism as a spectrum of experiences rather than a singular definition, and trying to encourage engagement with each other and share resources that promote neurodiversity in a positive way.

We talk neurodivergent identities, the impact of community support, the need to challenge negative narratives surrounding autism, and the responsibility of individuals to advocate for themselves and others.

We have to share the positive aspects of being neurodivergent and show how important it is to education those around in the hope of fostering understanding!

Takeaways

• Social media platforms can hinder genuine connection.
• Conversations about autism can be challenging but necessary as outdated views on autism persist in many families.
• Personal experiences shape our understanding of neurodiversity.
• Advocacy is about helping others and sharing knowledge. Being autistic can be a source of pride and strength.
• Understanding and acceptance from family and community are crucial as the way autistic individuals are treated is often the real issue.
• Community support can significantly improve the lives of neurodivergent individuals.
• Education and open conversations can help dispel myths about autism.
• It's important to challenge negative narratives surrounding neurodiversity.

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In this episode we discuss the educational system in the UK from the perspective of an autistic teacher. Mandy Cook is an influential figure in Autism on Facebook, Instagram, YouTube and TikTok as The Autistic Teacher with over 100,000 followers on Facebook, sharing information and insights to a wider audience. Mandy is a teacher, speaker, trainer and consultant in autism with over 20 years experience working with Autistic children and adults.

She shares her journey as an autistic teacher and how her personal experiences have shaped her approach to education, the need for neurodivergent-friendly environments and the importance of inclusivity in education for neurodivergent children and the benefits it brings to all students.

The conversation explores the current state of inclusivity in schools, the challenges faced by neurodivergent children, and the misconceptions surrounding school refusal.

Takeaways

• Teachers often receive undue blame for systemic issues.
• Personal experiences can greatly influence teaching methods.
• Inclusivity in classrooms benefits all students, not just neurodivergent ones.
• Neurodivergent training from neurodivergent teachers is essential.
• School refusal often stems from fear, not laziness.
• Standardized tests do not accurately reflect a child's potential.

Mandy's Website: https://www.autisticteacher.co.uk/

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Charity: https://www.autismsoutheast.co.uk/

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In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, we delve into various official neurodivergent diagnostic screening tests! So many people begin their autism diagnostic journey by taking a test similar to the AQ-10 test. These questionnaires play a key role for parents, care givers and the large percentage of the population who are yet to understand their neurodivergent brains, to get a diagnosis, but how accurate are these screening tests and are the tools they use to diagnose still fit for purpose? We take three tests that cover autism, ADHD and masking to see how we score and whether we think the screening tools are as accurate in recognising neurodivergent traits as they should be.

Follow along and let us know how you scored!

Autism: https://embrace-autism.com/aq-10/

ADHD: https://embrace-autism.com/asrs-5/#test

Masking or Camouflaging: https://embrace-autism.com/cat-q/#test

Takeaways

• Mimicry can be a tool for learning social skills.
• Expectations from others can influence how we present ourselves.
• It's important to find a balance between being authentic and meeting social norms. Social interactions can be challenging for many individuals.
• The concept of 'normal' is subjective and varies for everyone.
• It's important to find ways to relax and unwind effectively.

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In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott discuss the complexities of anger. Joined by hypnotherapist Ashley Bentley, we explore the importance of therapy, delve into personal experiences with coping mechanisms, the impact of childhood trauma on adult life, the challenges of adulting, and the influence of social media on self-image, self-compassion, and mindfulness in managing emotions.

Takeaways

• Anger is a natural emotion that needs to be managed.
• Self-compassion is crucial in navigating feelings of anger and shame.
• Neurodivergent individuals often experience heightened emotions and sensitivities.
• It's important to recognize that others' behaviours often reflect their own issues, not ours.
• Adulting can be overwhelming, leading to feelings of inadequacy and anger.
• Healing is a continuous journey that requires effort and self-awareness.

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In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, we engage in a deep conversation with Anthony Harding, a nurse associate in the NHS, about the challenges faced by neurodivergent individuals within the healthcare system. We discuss Anthony's personal journey, the lack of understanding and training regarding neurodivergence among medical professionals, and the importance of accommodations for neurodivergent staff. Anthony shares why the need for greater awareness and advocacy for neurodivergent individuals in healthcare settings, and that Neurodivergent Medical professionals bringing unique perspectives can greatly enhance patient care.

Takeaways

• The NHS has significant gaps in understanding neurodivergence and Anthony's journey in the NHS highlights systemic issues.
• Accommodations for neurodivergent medical staff are often insufficient.
• Advocacy is crucial for improving conditions for neurodivergent workers.
• Personal experiences can inform better practices in healthcare as Neurodivergent healthcare workers can provide unique insights into Neurodivergent patients.

You can follow Anthony's story here:

• The Unmasking Man Documentary: https://youtu.be/OLe64sAw2Wo?si=j97FKw4881Os2oo
• Nursing Times Article: https://www.nursingtimes.net/opinion/aged-40-i-was-formally-diagnosed-with-autism-dyslexia-and-dyspraxia-03-05-2023/

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In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, we delve into the complexities of materialism, exploring its good, bad, and ugly sides. We discuss our personal experiences with collecting, the dopamine rush associated with purchases, the emotional and psychological aspects of materialism and the societal pressures that influence consumer behaviour.

Takeaways

• Collecting can be a way to commemorate personal interests and milestones.
• Materialism can lead to clutter and a sense of overwhelm.
• Personal happiness does not always correlate with material possessions.
• The importance of buying for oneself rather than for others' approval.
• True happiness comes from within, not from possessions. 

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In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, we reflect on our first live show at the Autistic Minds Live event in Cardiff. We talk meeting our fans, the challenges of social interactions, the concept of energy hangovers, the challenges of being in a complex environment and the emotional weight of being advocates for the neurodivergent community.

Takeaways

• Social interactions can lead to energy depletion, known as energy hangovers.
• Personal accommodations are essential for managing energy levels.
• Different individuals experience energy differently after social events.
• Finding joy in personal interests can help replenish energy.
• Boredom can significantly impact energy levels and motivation.

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In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience we discuss our Autism and ADHD based on the diagnostic criteria. We discuss our experiences with routine, craving novelty, and the dopamine fixation we both share. We touch on the challenges of seeming blunt, rude, or not interested in others without meaning to, the ability to listen, carry out instructions, and stay focused and the importance of being honest and upfront about one's interests.

Takeaways

• Autism and ADHD are neurodivergent conditions that can coexist in individuals.
• Understanding and accepting neurodiversity is crucial for creating an inclusive society.
• People with autism and ADHD may have different experiences and challenges in social interactions and making friends.
• The diagnostic criteria for autism and ADHD are based on behaviours and can vary from person to person.
• Sensitivities and disabilities are part of the neurodivergent experience and should be understood and embraced.

Our first live show at Autistic Minds Live 2024 Cardiff is fast approaching! It is the Premier FREE to attend event for and by the autistic community. To book your FREE tickets, please visit: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/.../autistic-minds-live...

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This episode dedicated to Steve Silberman, the legendary writer, advocate for the neurodivergent community and friend of the show who recently passed away, aged 66.

In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, we discuss living with sensory issues. We share our personal experiences of hypersensitivity to certain sounds and the challenges of misophonia, the difficulty of asking for accommodations, our experiences with dogs and the need for personal space, as well as the importance of understanding and respecting others' boundaries. We also touch on the topic of children and the difficulties of parenting while managing sensory triggers.

Takeaways

• Sensory issues can have a significant impact on the lives of neurodivergent individuals
• Misophonia, a condition characterized by a strong aversion to certain sounds, can be particularly challenging
• Accommodations and understanding are crucial in supporting individuals with sensory issues and should be a two-way street, considering the needs of both the individual and those around them.
• Engaging in thoughtful and respectful discussions about accommodations can lead to better understanding and empathy.
• Social media can be a platform for both positive and negative interactions, and it's important to consider the impact of our words before posting.

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In this episode, we discuss our experiences living with alexithymia and dyspraxia. We talk about the challenges of expressing emotions due to alexithymia and how it affects our ability to communicate how we are feeling and what accommodations we need to feel comfortable. Plus we discuss our Dyspraxia and how it can affect coordination and communication, can lead to challenges in everyday tasks and leaves you with random bruises!

Takeaways

• Alexithymia can make it challenging to communicate and be sincere in personal interactions.
• The experiences of neurodivergent individuals can vary, and it's important to respect and understand these differences.
• Alexithymia and dyspraxia are lifelong conditions that can be managed but need to be recognised by everyone as disabilities.
• Having a diagnosis can provide solace and understanding, and it's important to recognize and accept one's neurodivergent traits.
• Spelling can be challenging for individuals with dyslexia, and it's important to focus on understanding the message rather than nit-picking spelling errors.

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In this episode, we are in the same room for the very first time on this podcast, so we're bringing you a preview of our live show in Cardiff! Many Neurodivergent people struggle with impulse control and addiction, something we have both struggled with throughout our journeys. We share our personal experiences with addiction to phones and social media, food, video games, plus we talk the need for balance and self-awareness when it comes to addictive behaviours and the dangers of Neurodivergent people chasing the buzz of a dopamine high through narcotics.

Takeaways

• The need for dopamine and the desire for instant gratification can contribute to addictive behaviours.
• Co-dependency in relationships can be both healthy and unhealthy, depending on the individuals involved.
• Finding a balance and practicing self-awareness are important in managing addictive behaviours.
• It's important to be aware of one's own addictive tendencies and seek help if needed.

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In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience podcast, Jordan flies solo as he is joined by Nadine Honeybone and Raj Chand to discuss the importance of autism-led charities and their upcoming live event, Autistic Minds Cardiff. Nadine shares her motivation for creating the charity, her personal experiences as a parent of a nonverbal autistic child and the challenges she faced in raising her son Thomas. Raj Chand, who is an Autistic Business owner, talks about the need for neurodivergent voices to be heard and respected, the necessity for autistic charities run by autistic people and the importance of creating inclusive spaces and opportunities for neurodivergent individuals to thrive in a neurotypical world.

Takeaways

• Autistic Minds UK is an autism-led charity that provides resources and support for the autistic community.
• Employment opportunities for neurodivergent individuals are crucial for promoting inclusion and allowing them to lead fulfilling lives.
• Neurodivergent voices should be heard and respected, and their experiences should inform decision-making processes.
• Support, resources, and inspiration are crucial for the neurodivergent community to navigate and succeed in society.

Our first live show at Autistic Minds Live 2024 Cardiff is fast approaching! It is the Premier FREE to attend event for and by the autistic community. To book your FREE tickets, please visit: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/.../autistic-minds-live...

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In this episode, we are joined by Matt Jolly, the Operations Director at RTN Diagnostics, to discuss the topic of getting diagnosed and whether going private is worth it. We share our personal experiences with the diagnostic process and highlight the challenges we faced within the NHS system in the UK and why we had to go private. Matt shares his personal journey of getting his family diagnosed, the positive effects it had on his family and why he now works in the business of diagnosis with RTN diagnostics. We talk the importance of early intervention and the positive impact that a diagnosis can have on individuals and their families and the right to choose, which allows individuals to choose alternative providers for assessments if the NHS waiting times are too long.

Takeaways

• Getting a diagnosis can provide a sense of peace and understanding about oneself and can help individuals and their families navigate challenges more effectively.
• Private assessments can offer faster and more comprehensive evaluations compared to the NHS, but cost can be a barrier for some individuals.
• The current NHS system often falls short in providing timely and adequate support for neurodivergent individuals and their families.
• Improving training and awareness about neurodiversity among healthcare professionals and educators is crucial to ensure better support for neurodivergent individuals. RTN provides aftercare and support to individuals after the assessment process, going beyond the diagnostic criteria.
• The right to choose allows individuals to choose alternative providers for assessments if the NHS waiting times are too long.

Our first live show at Autistic Minds Live 2024 Cardiff is fast approaching! It is the Premier FREE to attend event for and by the autistic community. To book your FREE tickets, please visit: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/.../autistic-minds-live...

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In this episode, we discuss the challenges of changing schools for neurodivergent individuals. . We start by reading an email from a listener who is a parent who is struggling to find a school that understands and supports their neurodivergent child. We share our personal experiences of moving schools and the difficulties we faced, including bullying, the need to mask their true selves and the frustration with the lack of training and understanding among teachers and school administrators. The conversation explores the challenges faced by neurodivergent individuals in the education system and the need for better support and understanding, the importance of teachers who go the extra mile and the need for schools to be more inclusive and accommodating and the decision of home schooling, and the pros and cons associated with it.

Takeaways

• Changing schools can be a challenging experience for neurodivergent individuals, often leading to feelings of isolation and the need to mask their true selves.
• Many neurodivergent students face bullying and mistreatment in schools, which can have long-lasting effects on their mental health and well-being.
• The education system often lacks proper training and understanding of neurodivergent needs, leading to a lack of support and inclusion for these students.
• Parents of neurodivergent children often struggle to find schools that are willing to listen and accommodate their child's unique needs.
• Home schooling can be a viable option for some neurodivergent individuals, but it comes with its own challenges and considerations.

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In this episode, we discuss living with pathological demand avoidance (PDA), a condition that is not officially recognized by most authorities. We share personal experiences and examples of how demand avoidance affects our daily lives, including struggles with completing tasks, seeking medical help, and pursuing hobbies. We reflect on the impact of demand avoidance on mental health and relationships, the lack of recognition and understanding of the condition, and how it can both help and hinder us in different aspects of our lives.

Takeaways

• Living with demand avoidance can have a significant impact on various aspects of life, including work, relationships, and personal well-being.
• Demand avoidance is not laziness or procrastination due to anxiety, but a genuine struggle to overcome barriers in the mind.
• The lack of official recognition and understanding of demand avoidance can lead to frustration and a lack of support from others.
• It is important to listen to and validate the experiences of individuals with demand avoidance, as their struggles are real and valid. Neurodivergent individuals often face challenges in receiving support and understanding for their mental health needs.
• The lack of recognition and misdiagnosis of neurodivergent conditions can have a negative impact on individuals' well-being.

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In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience Podcast, we talk about how we switch their brains off when it all gets a bit too much!

We talk about the importance of music in our lives and our love for video games, TV shows, movies, and how they use them as a form of escapism and to switch off their brains. We talk using music and soundproof headphones to balance our moods, stimulate our minds, and find peace. We talk about the role of video games in providing escapism and allowing us to immerse ourselves in different worlds as tools for relaxation and self-expression. Plus we talk the importance of not judging others' interests and finding joy in familiar, the benefits of online gaming for socializing and the challenges of balancing screen time.

Takeaways

• Engaging in activities that stimulate the mind, such as listening to music or playing video games, can help switch off the brain and provide a sense of relaxation.
• Finding moments of happiness and appreciating them can be challenging for neurodivergent individuals, but music and gaming can help create those moments.
• Online gaming can be a valuable form of socializing, especially for neurodivergent individuals.
• Balancing screen time and understanding its impact is crucial, especially for Neurodivergent children.

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In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan is back from Canada and Simon has just turned 30! We talk our travels, big birthdays and the challenges of obtaining ADHD medication. We share our personal experiences with the medication methylphenidate and how it has helped manage the more disabling sides of our Neurodivergence, the lack of understanding and support from healthcare professionals, and why people should treat ADHD as a life long condition. We cover how we use stimulants like caffeine, exercise and how medication affects our brains and provide relief from the more challenging aspects of ADHD.

Takeaways

• ADHD medication can be life-changing for Neurodivergent individuals, helping them manage their symptoms as it can improve their quality of life and reduce the risk of accidents and premature deaths.
• The process of obtaining ADHD medication can be challenging, with issues such as limited availability, brand preferences, and difficulty in accessing the correct dosage.
• Healthcare professionals should have a comprehensive understanding of both ADHD and autism to provide appropriate support and treatment.
• There is a need for a more holistic approach to neurodivergent conditions, where individuals are assessed for their specific difficulties and abilities rather than being categorized into separate diagnoses.
• The current system of managing ADHD medication is often frustrating and lacks empathy and understanding for the needs of neurodivergent individuals.
• Mindfulness can be a helpful tool for managing ADHD symptoms, but it may need to be adapted to suit individual needs and preferences.

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"One of the key disability sides of my hyper focus is that I can hyper focus on things that I don't like and can be quite distressing to think about."

In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott discuss neurodivergent abilities versus disabilities. We share personal experiences and insights into how hyper-focus and tree learning, anxiety, and eidetic memory are both abilities and disabilities. We talk about difficulties processing empathy, deep emotions and how these impact their lives, plus our experiences with exceptional memories and how it can be both a gift and a burden.

Takeaways

• Hyper-focus and tree learning are common traits in neurodivergent individuals, allowing them to deeply explore and understand specific subjects.
• Anxiety can be both helpful and disabling, providing heightened awareness but also causing distress and physical symptoms.
• Eidetic memory, or the ability to recall detailed sensory information, can be both a gift and a burden, impacting daily experiences and emotional well-being.
• Hyper-empathy allows for deep connections with others but can also be disabling.
• Navigating neurodivergent experiences requires patience and not settling for less.

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'One of the worst things that happens to neurodivergent people is their ability to trust themselves and love themselves. Bullying can shape a person's identity and have a lasting impact'

In this episode, Jordan and Simon talk to Summer Farrelly, Animal Behaviourist and Autism Advocate on the topic of bullying. We share personal experiences of being bullied, including by teachers, and highlight the long-lasting impact it can have and have had on our lives. Summer emphasizes the need for teachers to be aware of their power and the effect their words and actions can have on students and the importance of creating a safe and inclusive environment in schools to prevent bullying. We touch on the issue of trolls and the lack of accountability on social media and the need for empathy, understanding, and self-reflection in online interactions.

• Bullying can have a long-lasting impact on individuals, especially during their developmental stages.
• Teachers should be aware of their power and the effect their words and actions can have on students.
• Neurodivergent individuals often have common experiences of bullying and require greater understanding and support. Bullying can have long-lasting effects on self-esteem and body image.
• Finding a supportive community and unmasking around like-minded individuals can help build trust and self-acceptance.
• Online bullying is a prevalent issue, and many people lack accountability for their actions and words.

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