The home of wellbeing and joy. In Episode 19, we’re tackling the everyday kind of expectations, the type that quietly shape our workdays, relationships, and how we show up for things like plans with friends or finishing our to-do lists.

We break down the psychology behind managing expectations, why they matter, how they can help us avoid burnout and frustration, and how to set them clearly and kindly with others (and yourself).

From expectation MOTs to setting boundaries with your boss, this one’s full of practical advice, relatable stories, and a few gentle nudges toward peace of mind.

💡 Expect evidence-backed strategies, personal reflections, and real-world tools to help you set clear, compassionate expectations that protect your energy.

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📍 Pillars explored: Introspection & Inspiration, Presence & Gratitude, Community & Connection, and Wellbeing & Joy (Full house!)

📚 References cited in this episode:

• Eisenberger, R., Huntington, R., Hutchison, S., & Sowa, D. (1986). Perceived organizational support. Journal of Applied Psychology, 71(3), 500–507. @themoodboosterpodcast TikTok: @themoodboosterpodcast Website: www.themoodbooster.co.uk

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The home of wellbeing and joy. In Episode 18 of The Mood Booster Podcast, we’re reflecting on: Pets 🐾

This one’s for the dog lovers, the cat cuddlers, and everyone who’s ever felt emotionally supported by a pet. In this episode, Dr Marcus and Charlie dig into the science behind our love for animals, why they’re such powerful mood boosters, and how we can cope with the pain of pet loss when the time comes.

From oxytocin boosts to complicated grief, we explore how pets affect our minds and bodies, and why the connection runs so deep.

We also reflect on our own stories and talk about:

• The health and psychological benefits of owning a pet

• How to honour the loss of a pet and navigate grief

• Whether pets make us more compassionate humans

• Tips for people considering getting a pet for wellbeing reasons

🧠 Advice covered in this episode:

• Use ritual in grief – Memorialising a pet helps process the loss

• Don’t minimise the pain – Validate that this grief is real

• Reflect on shared meaning – What did this pet teach you?

• Use continued bonds – It’s okay to talk to or about them after they’re gone

• Consider non-ownership alternatives – Volunteering, dog-walking, fostering

📍 Pillars explored: Introspection & Inspiration, Community & Connection, Presence & Gratitude, and Wellbeing & Joy (Full house!)

📚 References cited in this episode:

- Adrian, J. a. L., & Stitt, A. (2017). Pet loss, complicated grief, and Post-Traumatic stress disorder in Hawaii. Anthrozoös, 30(1), 123–133. https://doi.org/10.1080/08927936.2017.1270598

- Ainsworth, M. D. S., Blehar, M. C., Waters, E., & Wall, S. (1978). Patterns of attachment: A psychological study of the strange situation. Lawrence Erlbaum. 

- Beetz, A., Uvnäs-Moberg, K., Julius, H., & Kotrschal, K. (2012). Psychosocial and Psychophysiological effects of Human-Animal Interactions: The possible role of Oxytocin. Frontiers in Psychology, 3. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2012.00234

- Hawkins, R. D., Ellis, A., & Robinson, C. (2024). Exploring the connection between pet attachment and owner mental health: the roles of Owner-Pet compatibility, perceived pet welfare, and behavioral issues. medRxiv (Cold Spring Harbor Laboratory). https://doi.org/10.1101/2024.11.20.24317636

- Loftus, E. F., & Pickrell, J. E. (1995). The formation of false memories. Psychiatric Annals, 25(12), 720-725. psycnet.apa.org 

- Wilson, E. O. (1984). Biophilia. Harvard University Press

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Criticism... it stings, sticks, and sometimes shapes how we see ourselves.

In this episode, we have an open and honest chat about handling negative comments, both online and in real life. Marcus reflects on a recent experience in Morocco where unkind remarks about his appearance brought up old insecurities. We also open up about the unspoken comparisons we sometimes make between each other and how that plays into self-worth.

Despite it all, Marcus shares how he is also feeling the most confident he ever has, and we explore how self-image, friendship and support can help us navigate critical voices... especially our own.

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The oceans cover over 70% of our planet, but how often do we stop to think about what they mean to us?

In this episode, Charlie takes the lead, diving into his passion for marine conservation and reflecting on his time studying the oceans at university. We share facts, memories and awe-inspiring moments from nature documentaries (specifically, Oceans with David Attenborough) and get into the devastating impact of bottom trawling, a destructive industrial fishing practice harming marine ecosystems.

But it’s not all doom and gloom. We explore the joy, curiosity and calm that the ocean brings, and discuss small, meaningful ways we can all play a part in protecting it.

Whether you’re a deep-sea enthusiast or just love a paddle at the beach, this episode will leave you thinking a little more deeply about the water that connects us all.

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Sea, cities, exploring… and sometimes, a bit of stress?

In this episode, we take a lighter look at holidays. From our favourite getaways to the types of holidays we love most. We talk about why holidays can be such a boost for wellbeing, but also how they can sometimes bring their own pressures and expectations.

We reflect on the joy of switching off, the anxiety of taking time off work. We reflect on our favourite holidays, and delve deep into what they meant to us. Plus, we chat about our own upcoming travel plans and what we’re most excited for.

Whether you’re a beach lounger, city wanderer or adventure-seeker, this episode is your laid-back reminder that holidays don’t need to be perfect, they just need to feel good for you.

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We’re sitting in our old house, now empty, echoey, and filled with memories... reflecting on a week of boxes, chaos, and change.

In this episode, we talk about the stress of moving house and all the emotions it brings up. We share how the last week has felt, from the overwhelm to the excitement, and reflect on our own childhood experiences of moving, and how they’ve shaped how we see “home” today.

We explore how moving isn’t just a practical upheaval, but an emotional one too, often triggering memories, identity shifts, and big feelings we didn’t expect.

Whether you’re gearing up for a move or just feeling nostalgic for places you’ve lived, this is a reflective and personal episode about transition, memory, and what it means to leave a space behind.

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What makes someone a role model, and can they actually do more harm than good?

In this episode, we reflect on the idea of role models and why the people we look up to can shape how we see ourselves. From celebrity idols to quiet everyday influences, we unpack what it really means to be a role model, who our own role models are, and how those relationships evolve.

We also explore Albert Bandura’s famous Bobo doll study to understand the psychology of imitation, influence, and how social learning plays into identity and wellbeing.

Whether you’ve been shaped by mentors or just want to rethink who deserves a pedestal, this one’s for you.

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Birthdays: love them, dread them, or just let them pass quietly?

In this episode, we celebrate Charlie’s big 25th birthday and reflect on why he prefers a more low-key celebration. We dive into the idea of whether it’s okay not to celebrate, the pressures birthdays can bring, and how to find joy in the small, meaningful moments they offer.

We explore the social and emotional layers of birthdays, how they can act as milestones, reflections, and sometimes gentle reminders to appreciate where we are in our journey.

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Hobbies might sound like a luxury, but they’re one of the most powerful tools we have for identity, joy, and wellbeing.

In this episode, we talk about how we get into hobbies, how we fall out of them, and what it takes to reignite those sparks as adults. We explore the psychology behind why hobbies matter, using Self-Determination Theory as a framework to explain how autonomy, competence and connection help us thrive.

From wholesome crafts to chaotic side quests, we share our own experiences and offer gentle encouragement to find (or return to) the things that bring you joy, even if you’re not “good” at them.

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🔗 Academic Reference: Deci & Ryan’s Self-Determination Theory Learn more: https://selfdeterminationtheory.org/theory/

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Since launching The Mood Booster Podcast, we’ve been receiving more compliments, which sounds great… until you realise how hard it can be to actually accept them.

In this episode, we reflect on why compliments often feel awkward or uncomfortable, diving into the psychology of self-verification, image regulation, and why praise doesn’t always align with our internal self-image. We explore how to move past the knee-jerk “oh this old thing” and start to internalise kind words in a way that supports real confidence.

We also discuss a brilliant study on compliment acceptance and share our own journeys around self-belief, validation, and finding the confidence to show up authentically.

An episode for anyone learning to say “thank you” and mean it.

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🔗 Academic Reference: “Accepting Compliments” Read the study here

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Life is full of transitions. Some we choose, others take us by surprise. In this episode of The Mood Booster Podcast, we talk about what makes transitions so challenging from a psychological perspective. Whether it’s moving house, launching a creative project, or stepping into a new phase of life, our brains resist change, even when it’s for the better.

We discuss the mental load of transitions, the emotional complexity of leaving something behind, and how we work to optimise this process. Plus, we reference a fascinating study on how our brains process change and memory adaptation.

If you’re in the middle of a transition, big or small, this episode is for you. We hope you enjoy it, and if you do, please leave us a rating and review. It helps more people discover the podcast!

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📚 Academic References:

• Smith, S. M., & Diba, K. (2016). "Modulation and mechanisms of memory replay." Neuron, 89(4), 699-714. Read the study here

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In this episode, we’re pulling back the curtain and introducing ourselves properly. You’ve heard about The Mood Booster, but who are the voices behind it? In this second part of our introduction, we (Charlie & Marcus) share the stories that shaped us, from childhood to where we are today.

Marcus talks about the teachers who influenced his career path, his time playing lacrosse at university, and navigating grief after losing his dad at nineteen. Charlie reflects on struggling through school, his transformative travels to Australia, Madagascar, and Thailand, and how he is discovering his true sense of self.

This episode is about growth, identity, and the journey of becoming who we are. We hope you enjoy getting to know us, because we’re excited to get to know you too.

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This week, Dr Marcus Bull and Charlie Allnutt are sitting with regret. Whether it’s a choice you didn’t make, something you said (or didn’t say), or a quiet “what if” that lingers, we all experience regret in different ways.

In this episode, we explore where regret comes from, using Self-Discrepancy Theory to understand why certain moments stay with us more than others. We also chat through research into the most common regrets people have, and whether it’s better to feel regret, remorse, or let it go entirely.

As always, we reflect honestly on our own experiences and offer evidence-backed advice to help you sit with regret in a softer, more compassionate way.

Expect:

• Honest reflection and open conversation

• Tangible advice for reframing regret

• Gentle reminders for self compassion

Thanks for listening, and if something resonates, share it with someone who needs it 🧡

📍 Pillars explored: Introspection & Inspiration, Presence & Gratitude

📚 References cited in this episode:

Higgins, E. T. (1987). Self-discrepancy: A theory relating self and affect. Psychological Review, 94(3), 319–340. https://doi.org/10.1037/0033-295x.94.3.319

Roese, N. J., & Summerville, A. (2005). What We Regret Most. . . and Why. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 31(9), 1273–1285. https://doi.org/10.1177/0146167205274693

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It’s here! Our very first episode, and honestly… we’re giddy with excitement. In this episode, we introduce The Mood Booster Podcast, sharing the story of how we met and why we decided to start this journey.

We dive into what you can expect from the podcast, including the four pillars that shape our conversations: ✨ Introspection & Inspiration 📚 Evolution Through Evidence 😊 Wellbeing & Joy 🤝 Community & Connection

From discussing everyday experiences to unpacking the science behind wellbeing, this podcast is all about open, honest, and (sometimes) hilarious conversations. We hope you enjoy this first episode and stick around for the journey ahead!

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The Home of Wellbeing and Joy.

Dr Marcus Bull and Charlie Allnutt are two friends who come together to discuss wellbeing, introspection and their journey to becoming better people. The podcast blends personal reflection with evidence-based advice, offering listeners practical tools to improve their wellbeing and boost their mood. In each episode, Charlie and Marcus explore building a likeminded community, working through difficult emotions and finding joy in everyday life. They lean on scientific research to guide these conversations and ensure their evolution aligns with the best evidence available to them.

With guiding pillars; Introspection and Inspiration, Community and Connection, Presence and Gratitude, and Wellbeing and Joy, Charlie and Marcus invite you to learn, reflect, and grow alongside them, one conversation at a time.

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This week, Dr Marcus Bull and Charlie Allnutt explore the wobbles, wrong turns and frustrating moments that happen when things just don’t go to plan. Whether that’s a weekend trip getting rained off, a tech fail, or those irritating curveballs that throw you off your rhythm.

We reflect on our own recent experience of a not-so-smooth shoot weekend in the Lake District, and talk through the science and psychology behind why small disruptions feel so disproportionately stressful.

Drawing on research by Lazarus & Folkman (1984), we break down how we appraise stress and why our reactions have less to do with the event itself, and more to do with how we perceive and interpret it.

You’ll also learn:

• 🧠 How uncertainty impacts the brain

• 💭 How to reframe stressful situations as growth moments

• 🧘 How to build psychological flexibility

• 🔁 What to do when your routine is thrown off

• 💗 How self-compassion can reduce spirals

• ✅ Why simple "If–Then" plans give you power back

This episode offers practical tools rooted in CBT, ACT and wellbeing science to help you boost resilience, stay present, and find joy even when your day gets derailed.

📍 Pillars explored: Introspection & Inspiration, Wellbeing & Joy, Presence & Gratitude

Whether you're having one of those mornings, or just trying to build more bounce-back into your week, this one’s for you. Let’s turn life’s left turns into tools for growth.

📚 References cited in this episode:

Grupe, D. W., & Nitschke, J. B. (2013). Uncertainty and anticipation in anxiety: an integrated neurobiological and psychological perspective. Nature Reviews. Neuroscience, 14(7), 488–501. https://doi.org/10.1038/nrn3524

Hayes, S. C., Luoma, J. B., Bond, F. W., Masuda, A., & Lillis, J. (2005). Acceptance and Commitment Therapy: Model, processes and outcomes. Behaviour Research and Therapy, 44(1), 1–25. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.brat.2005.06.006

Lazarus, R. S., & Folkman, S. (1984). Stress, appraisal, and coping. Springer.

Neff, K. D. (2003). The development and validation of a scale to measure Self-Compassion. Self and Identity, 2(3), 223–250. https://doi.org/10.1080/15298860309027

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In this episode, we dive headfirst into the chaos of modern news. From Trump and the threat of WW3 to compassion fatigue and activist burnout, we explore how 24/7 news cycles are affecting our minds, our moods, and our motivation to help.

📱 We unpack how being constantly plugged in can impact wellbeing, from heightened stress and anxiety (Johnston & Davey, 1997) to emotional overload from trying to do too much (McLaughlin, Gotlieb & Mills, 2022).

💥 But it’s not all doom and gloom. We celebrate activism and purpose as powerful forces for good (Kim, Herrmann & Nah, 2019), and also talk about how to avoid the trap of doing so much that you burn out.

We chat about:

• The weight of bad news

• The psychology of overexposure

• Activism as a double-edged sword

• How to hold onto hope 🌱

• Tips for taking healthy breaks, finding good news, and talking it out

You are allowed to care and protect your energy.

📚 References cited in this episode:

Johnston, W. M., & Davey, G. C. L. (1997). The psychological impact of negative TV news bulletins: The catastrophizing of personal worries. British Journal of Psychology, 88(1), 85–91. https://doi.org/10.1111/j.2044-8295.1997.tb02622.x

McLaughlin, B., Gotlieb, M. R., & Mills, D. J. (2022). Caught in a dangerous world: problematic news consumption and its relationship to mental and physical Ill-Being. Health Communication, 38(12), 2687–2697. https://doi.org/10.1080/10410236.2022.2106086

Kim, D. H., Von Herrmann, J., & Nah, S. (2023). News portals as a gateway to civic engagement: the case of South Korea. Media International Australia, 191(1), 147–162. https://doi.org/10.1177/1329878x231206643

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This week, Charlie and Marcus sit down to reflect on their personal journeys with movement. From Marcus faking sick notes to get out of PE, to now being 1,600+ days into a daily running streak. From Charlie working out just to get abs, to now finding joy and confidence in movement through community.

We also talk about the psychological benefits of exercise, from movement snacks to Self-Determination Theory, and why making movement accessible is the most important thing. This isn’t a podcast by two fit guys saying “just go for a run.” It’s a real conversation about the ups, downs and growth that movement can bring.

Expect personal stories, laughter, evidence, and a reminder that movement can look different for everyone.

📚 References cited in this episode:

- Mahindru, A., Patil, P., & Agrawal, V. (2023). Role of physical activity on mental health and well-being: A review. Cureus, 15(1). https://assets.cureus.com/uploads/review_article/pdf/121652/20240724-319105-j7fpue.pdf

- Noetel, M., Sanders, T., Gallardo-Gómez, D., Taylor, P., del Pozo Cruz, B., Van Den Hoek, D., ... & Lonsdale, C. (2024). Effect of exercise for depression: systematic review and network meta-analysis of randomised controlled trials. bmj, 384. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10870815/

- Deci, E. L., & Ryan, R. M. (2000). The “What” and “Why” of goal pursuits: human needs and the Self-Determination of behavior. Psychological Inquiry, 11(4), 227–268. https://doi.org/10.1207/s15327965pli1104_01

- Segar, M. L., Eccles, J. S., & Richardson, C. R. (2011). Rebranding exercise: closing the gap between values and behavior. International Journal of Behavioral Nutrition and Physical Activity, 8(1), 94. https://doi.org/10.1186/1479-5868-8-94

- Chekroud, S. R., Gueorguieva, R., Zheutlin, A. B., Paulus, M., Krumholz, H. M., Krystal, J. H., & Chekroud, A. M. (2018). Association between physical exercise and mental health in 1·2 million individuals in the USA between 2011 and 2015: a cross-sectional study. The Lancet Psychiatry, 5(9), 739–746. https://doi.org/10.1016/s2215-0366(18)30227

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Following on from Ep. 11 where Marcus opened up about self-criticism, this episode is all about balance. We're diving deep into positive self talk, what it is, why it matters, and how it can literally rewire your brain.

We explore:

• Why we’re hardwired to focus on the negative

• The neuroscience behind self talk and emotional regulation

• How CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Theory) and distanced self talk can help reframe our internal dialogue

• Real experiences of building a healthier, more compassionate relationship with ourselves

This one blends neurobiology, psychological theory, and real talk. Think: amygdala, inner critic, self-esteem, Beck, Kross, and the power of speaking kindly to yourself.

🎙 Whether you struggle with imposter syndrome, low self-worth, or just want to feel a little more grounded — this one’s for you.

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📚 References cited in this episode:

• Beck, A.T. (1976). Cognitive Therapy and the Emotional Disorders.
• Goldin, P. R., McRae, K., Ramel, W., & Gross, J. J. (2007). The Neural Bases of Emotion Regulation: reappraisal and suppression of negative emotion. Biological Psychiatry, 63(6), 577–586. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.biopsych.2007.05.031
• Kross, E., & Ayduk, O. (2011). Making meaning out of negative experiences by self-distancing. Current directions in psychological science, 20(3), 187-191. https://doi.org/10.1177/0963721411408883
• Shapira, L. B., & Mongrain, M. (2010). The benefits of self-compassion and optimism exercises for individuals vulnerable to depression. The Journal of Positive Psychology, 5(5), 377–389. https://doi.org/10.1080/17439760.2010.516763

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In this heartfelt bonus episode, Charlie and Marcus sit down for a festival debrief, and it’s not just about coconuts and flashy flags. After just four months of building the Mood Booster podcast, we take a moment to reflect on how far we’ve come, and to express deep gratitude for each other and the community growing around us.

From Alister recognising us (!), to the joy of hearing strangers share what makes them happy, this one's about presence, connection, and letting the moment sink in.

Come bask with us. 🌞

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Feeling tired all the time, a bit detached, or like you’re running on empty?

In this episode, we take a deeper look at burnout, from its emotional weight to its academic roots. Marcus and Charlie discuss personal experiences with burnout and weave in leading psychological theories, including Maslach’s Burnout Inventory and the WHO’s classification of burnout as an occupational phenomenon.

We break down what burnout actually is, how it shows up in real life, why it’s different from stress, and what helps when you're in the thick of it. We also reflect on recent studies exploring burnout in younger adults and how modern working culture contributes to the rise in chronic exhaustion.

Whether you’re feeling the edge of burnout or just curious about how it works, this episode blends insight, honesty and psychology, with a few laughs in between.

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📚 References cited in this episode:

• Maslach, C., & Jackson, S. E. (1981). MBI: Maslach burnout inventory. manual. Palo Alto, CA: University of California, Consulting Psychologists Press.
• World Health Organization (2019). Burn-out an "occupational phenomenon". [ICD-11 classification] https://www.who.int/news/item/28-05-2019-burn-out-an-occupational-phenomenon-international-classification-of-diseases
• Schaufeli, W. B., Leiter, M. P., & Maslach, C. (2009). Burnout: 35 years of research and practice. Career Development International, 14(3), 204–220. https://doi.org/10.1108/13620430910966406
• Han, R., Xu, J., Ge, Y., & Qin, Y. (2020). The impact of social media use on job burnout: The role of Social Comparison. Frontiers in Public Health, 8. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpubh.2020.588097
• Salvagioni, D. a. J., Melanda, F. N., Mesas, A. E., González, A. D., Gabani, F. L., & De Andrade, S. M. (2017). Physical, psychological and occupational consequences of job burnout: A systematic review of prospective studies. PLoS ONE, 12(10), e0185781. https://doi.org/10.1371/journal.pone.0185781
• https://integrishealth.org/resources/on-your-health/2021/november/what-are-the-5-stages-of-burnout

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Welcome to Episode 22 Reflecting on: Tradition, where Dr Marcus and Charlie explore why humans hold on to rituals and how to keep the ones that serve you while letting go of the rest.

From the comfort of family traditions to the weight of outdated customs, we dive into the psychology of why traditions matter, how they shape our identity, and when they can become harmful if left unchallenged.

We explore:

• Why traditions give us identity & stability 🏡
• How they help us cope with change and uncertainty 🌱
• When they become toxic or exclusionary 🚫
• Ways to adapt, create, and challenge traditions to better serve your life ✨

Practical Advice for Listeners:

1. Keep the meaning, not always the method
2. Balance old and new
3. Use tradition as an anchor, not a cage
4. Challenge harmful traditions
5. Create micro-traditions for joy

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📍 Pillars explored: Introspection & Inspiration, Presence & Gratitude, Community & Connection and Wellbeing & Joy

📚 References cited in this episode:

• Atchley, R. C. (1989). A continuity theory of normal aging. The Gerontologist, 29(2), 183–190. https://doi.org/10.1093/geront/29.2.183
• Greenberg, J., Solomon, S., & Pyszczynski, T. (1997). Terror Management Theory of Self-Esteem and Cultural Worldviews: Empirical assessments and Conceptual Refinements. In Advances in experimental social psychology (pp. 61–139). https://doi.org/10.1016/s0065-2601(08)60016-7
• Helliwell, J. F., & Putnam, R. D. (2004). The social context of well–being. Philosophical Transactions of the Royal Society B Biological Sciences, 359(1449), 1435–1446. https://doi.org/10.1098/rstb.2004.1522
• Tajfel, H., Turner, J. C., Austin, W. G., & Worchel, S. (1979). An integrative theory of intergroup conflict. Organizational identity: A reader, 56-65.

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Ep 21: The Truth About Gossip - Connection or Chaos?

We all gossip. But what if it’s not always bad?

In this episode of The Mood Booster Podcast, Dr Marcus and Charlie unpack the psychology, science, and social dynamics of gossip - and how it shapes our relationships more than we think.

🧠 Why your brain loves gossip 🪢 How gossip evolved as a tool for survival 🤐 When to speak up vs. stay silent 💬 Tools to turn gossip into connection, not control

Backed by research and packed with real talk, this episode helps you rethink what you say about others and what it says about you.

🎧 Listen now to feel clearer, more connected, and a little more in control.

📚 References cited in this episode:

• Robbins, M. L., & Karan, A. (2019). Who gossips and how in everyday life? Social Psychological and Personality Science, 11(2), 185–195. https://doi.org/10.1177/1948550619837000

• Dunbar, R. I. M. (1996). Grooming, gossip, and the evolution of language. Harvard University Press.

• Feinberg, M., Willer, R., & Schultz, M. (2014). Gossip and ostracism promote cooperation in groups. Psychological Science, 25(3), 656–664. https://doi.org/10.1177/0956797613510184

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Welcome to Episode 20 Reflecting on: Managing Expectations Part 2, where Dr Marcus and Charlie explore the emotional highs, lows, and flatlines that follow the big moments we build up in our heads.

Ever looked forward to something for weeks, a birthday, a trip, a major milestone, only to feel a bit… underwhelmed once it actually happens?

In this episode, we dig into the psychology behind that “is this it?” feeling. We explore what happens when anticipation doesn’t match reality, why we often overestimate how good (or bad) we’ll feel, and how to move through emotional letdowns with more self-compassion.

🎢 We unpack:

– The power of anticipation and why it can be more enjoyable than the event itself

– Affective forecasting; the science of why we’re bad at predicting our future feelings

– The truth about hedonic adaptation, and why joy doesn’t stick

– The role of social media in making us feel our lives should look and feel more exciting

– Tools for reframing unmet expectations and finding meaning in the moment

💡 Remember: It didn’t have to be perfect to be meaningful.

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📍 Pillars explored: Introspection & Inspiration, Presence & Gratitude, and Wellbeing & Joy

📚 References cited in this episode:

• Wilson, T.D., & Gilbert, D.T. (2003). Affective forecasting: Knowing what to want. Psychological Science, 14(3), 131–134.
• Gilbert, D.T., & Wilson, T.D. (2005). Why the brain is not built to make us happy and what we can do about it. In E. C. Chang (Ed.), Self-criticism and self-enhancement: Theory, research, and clinical implications.
• Van Boven, L., & Ashworth, L. (2007). Looking forward, looking back: Anticipation is more evocative than retrospection. Journal of Experimental Psychology: General, 136(2), 289–300.
• Kumar, A., Killingsworth, M.A., & Gilovich, T. (2014). Waiting for Merlot: Anticipatory consumption of experiential and material purchases. Psychological Science, 25(10), 1924–1931.
• Chou, H.-T. G., & Edge, N. (2012). “They are happier and having better lives than I am”: The impact of using Facebook on perceptions of others’ lives. Cyberpsychology, Behavior, and Social Networking, 15(2), 117–121.

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Welcome to Episode 72 of The Mood Booster Podcast.

In this Friday Focus episode, Dr Marcus and Charlie takes Monday's conversation on nostalgia and distils it into the essential psychology, the origins, the science, and the tools that help you understand what your brain is actually doing when it pulls you back to the past.

We begin at the very beginning. The word nostalgia itself is built from two ancient Greek words: nostos, meaning homecoming, and algos, meaning pain. It was coined in 1688 by Swiss physician Johannes Hofer to describe a condition he observed in Swiss mercenaries who became so consumed by longing for home that they developed physical symptoms including anxiety, fever, and in some cases death. What began as a medical diagnosis eventually became one of the most universal human experiences we know.

From there, Dr Marcus unpacks the psychology of why we feel nostalgia at all, the competing theories around it, and crucially why we seem to feel it more intensely right now. In times of hardship, austerity, and uncertainty, the brain reaches for the familiar comfort of the past. It is a mood regulation mechanism, and once you understand it that way, it starts to make a lot more sense. We also look at how this psychological vulnerability is being actively exploited, from political parties building entire campaigns around restoration and return, to brands like Claude using nostalgia in advertising to create emotional connection and drive behaviour.

The episode closes with a set of practical tools designed to help you notice when nostalgia is pulling at you, understand what it is telling you about what might be missing in your present, and use that awareness to make meaningful changes rather than simply retreating into the past.

📍 𝐏𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐚𝐫𝐬 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐥𝐨𝐫𝐞𝐝: Community and Connection, Introspection and Inspiration, Wellbeing and Joy

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Reflecting on: Nostalgia | Why Your Brain Lives in the Past and What It Says About the Present | The Mood Booster Podcast Ep. 71

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Welcome back to The Mood Booster Podcast. This week Charlie and Dr Marcus are reflecting on nostalgia. Why we crave the past, why it feels so comforting, and why right now, more than ever, the world seems to be looking backwards.

From the rise of Reform UK and Make America Great Again to the fact that more songs in the Billboard top 100 are over a decade old than ever before, nostalgia is not just a personal feeling. It is a cultural force. And understanding why it pulls at us so powerfully, what it is doing in our brains and what it is actually telling us about how we are feeling in the present, might be one of the most useful things you can do for your own wellbeing right now.

This is a wide ranging, honest, and genuinely fascinating conversation that moves from politics to pop culture to personal memory, and lands somewhere that feels both grounding and hopeful.

🎧 In This Episode Charlie and Dr Marcus explore nostalgia as a psychological and cultural phenomenon, from positivity bias and how memory distorts the past, to why low mood triggers nostalgic thinking, what nostalgia is actually doing for us emotionally, how it is being used in politics and media, the tension between present moment living and the pull of the past, and how to find joy in the now without abandoning the warmth of looking back.

🛠 Practical Advice The key insight from this episode is that nostalgia is not weakness or delusion. It is your brain's way of regulating mood and reminding you of what matters to you. The question is not how to stop looking back but how to use those memories as a compass for the present rather than an escape from it.

📍 𝐏𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐚𝐫𝐬 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐥𝐨𝐫𝐞𝐝: Community and Connection, Introspection and Inspiration, Wellbeing and Joy

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Welcome to Episode 62 of The Mood Booster Podcast. 

In this Friday Focus episode, we break down the psychology behind why so many young men are being pulled toward manosphere content, and why these ideas can feel so convincing, even when they are harmful. 

Building on Monday’s reflection, this episode explores the deeper mechanisms at play. We look at how identity threat, uncertainty, and changing social roles can lead young men to search for clarity and belonging. Research in social psychology shows that when identity feels unstable, people are more likely to gravitate toward groups that offer certainty, status, and a clear sense of direction. 

We also explore the role of father figures and modelling. Psychological research suggests that when consistent male role models are absent or emotionally unavailable, young men are more likely to look externally for guidance on how to behave, what to value, and what it means to be a man. This helps explain why confident online figures can have such a powerful influence, particularly during adolescence and early adulthood. 

We then unpack the concept of gender role strain, and how traditional expectations of masculinity can create internal pressure. Suppressing emotion, avoiding vulnerability, and feeling the need to succeed at all costs are all linked to poorer mental health outcomes in men, including increased loneliness and reduced help seeking. 

We also touch on the role of algorithms and how repeated exposure to this type of content can normalise and reinforce certain beliefs over time. 

Finally, we explore what actually helps. Not by criticising, but by offering alternatives. Healthier role models, emotional education, and expanding what masculinity can look like. 

This is an evidence based breakdown designed to help you understand not just what is happening, but why. 

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Welcome to Episode 61 of The Mood Booster Podcast. 

In this episode, we explore the rise of the manosphere, the idea of the red pill, and why so many young men are being drawn into online spaces that promote rigid and often harmful ideas about masculinity. But rather than criticising from a distance, we take a step back and ask a deeper question. 

What is this content offering that feels so compelling? 

We reflect on the emotional and psychological drivers behind this movement, including the search for identity, direction, and certainty in a world that can feel increasingly confusing for young men. We also explore a pattern we noticed in recent media and documentaries, where many of the men involved describe difficult or absent relationships with their fathers, and what this might mean for how young men learn what masculinity looks like. 

Drawing on psychological research, we discuss how the absence of consistent male role models can lead to increased identity confusion, a stronger pull toward external validation, and a greater susceptibility to online communities that offer clear answers. 

We also unpack the role of patriarchy, not as a buzzword, but as a system that places rigid expectations on men. Strength, dominance, success, emotional control. We reflect on how these expectations can leave many men feeling like they are falling short, and how this pressure can quietly contribute to loneliness, emotional suppression, and disconnection. 

Together, we question whether the manosphere is really creating strong men, or whether it is attracting men who feel uncertain, unsupported, and unsure of where they fit. 

This is a reflective and honest conversation about masculinity, identity, and the environments that shape us. 

If you have ever felt unsure of what it means to be a man, or noticed the rise of these ideas online, this episode is for you. 

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Welcome to Episode 60 of The Mood Booster Podcast. Guys... this one is special. 

In this episode, we celebrate one year of The Mood Booster Podcast. What started as an idea between two friends has grown into something far bigger than we ever expected, and this episode is a chance to pause, reflect, and take it all in. 

Recorded in Malta overlooking Valletta at sunset, we open a several beers and take a more light-hearted, honest, and reflective approach as we look back on the past year. This is a conversation about the journey, the growth, the unexpected moments, and everything in between. 

We reflect on what this year has really looked like behind the scenes, from the early days of figuring things out to building a community that now reaches far beyond what we imagined. 

Charlie and Dr Marcus ask each other questions about favourite moments, hardest challenges, standout guests, and how our expectations compared to where we are now. We also explore what this journey has taught us, both personally and professionally, and how it has shaped our perspectives on wellbeing, purpose, and connection. 

This episode is less about advice and more about reflection. It is about appreciating progress, embracing the journey, and recognising how far things can come in just one year when you commit to something meaningful. 

In this episode, we reflect on: 

• What one year of consistent podcasting has really looked like • The biggest challenges we faced and how we navigated them • Our favourite moments and standout experiences  • Guests who left a lasting impact on us  • Expectations vs reality over the past year  • What building The Mood Booster has taught us about purpose and growth  • Why reflection is such a powerful tool for wellbeing 

If you have been part of this journey with us, thank you. Your support genuinely means everything. 

If you are new here, welcome. This is The Mood Booster. 

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Welcome to Episode 59 of The Mood Booster Podcast. In this Friday Focus episode, we turn Monday’s reflections into practical psychological tools to help you deal with rude or aggressive strangers without letting those moments take over your day. 

In the previous episode, we reflected on why sudden hostility from strangers can affect us so strongly. In this episode, we focus on how to respond in a way that protects your emotional wellbeing and prevents someone else’s bad moment from becoming your entire day. 

Dr Marcus and Charlie explore the psychology of emotional regulation during conflict with strangers, including how the stress response activates when someone shouts at us and why we often feel the urge to argue back, defend ourselves, or replay the interaction repeatedly afterwards. 

We discuss practical tools grounded in psychology that can help break this cycle. These include recognising the stress response in real time, separating meaningful feedback from emotional noise, and understanding that many aggressive interactions reflect stress in the other person rather than truth about us. 

The conversation also explores why engaging with angry strangers often escalates conflict rather than resolving it and why choosing not to respond can sometimes be the most powerful form of emotional self-control. 

This episode offers practical strategies for emotional resilience, mental clarity, and protecting your attention and energy when faced with unnecessary conflict. 

🎧 In this episode, we explore 

• How to deal with rude strangers without escalating conflict 

• Recognising the stress response in difficult interactions 

• Why we feel the urge to argue back when criticised 

• Separating useful feedback from emotional noise 

• The psychology of emotional regulation during conflict 

• Why disengaging can protect your mental wellbeing 

• Letting go of negative interactions quickly 

• How to prevent someone else’s bad day from affecting yours 

This episode is about developing emotional control, protecting your attention and energy, and learning practical tools for dealing with hostility without carrying it forward. 

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Welcome to Episode 58 of The Mood Booster Podcast. In this episode, we reflect openly on what happens psychologically when strangers are rude, aggressive, or unexpectedly hostile towards us, and why those moments can stay with us long after the interaction has ended. 

Dr Marcus shares a recent experience of being shouted at by a cyclist while out running. A moment of aggression from a stranger led to hours of replaying the interaction and wondering whether something could have been said differently. Charlie reflects on similar experiences where sudden hostility from strangers felt disproportionate, confusing, and difficult to shake off. 

Together, we explore the psychology behind these encounters. Why do brief interactions with strangers sometimes affect us so strongly? Why do we replay the moment in our heads long after it has happened? And why do we often think of the perfect response hours later? 

We explore the stress response that activates when someone shouts at us, including the fight flight freeze reaction and the role of the amygdala in detecting social threat. We also discuss why humans are wired to care deeply about social judgement and how negative interactions can linger in our minds because of evolutionary sensitivity to rejection. 

This conversation also explores the psychology of attribution. When someone lashes out, we often assume it reflects something about us. Behaviour often reflects stress, frustration, or circumstances in the other person’s life rather than anything we have done. 

This is an honest and reflective conversation about dealing with random hostility, protecting your emotional state, and recognising that someone else’s bad moment does not have to become your entire day. 

🎧 In this episode, we reflect on 

• Why strangers sometimes lash out at others 

• The psychology of sudden aggression from strangers 

• The stress response when someone shouts at you 

• Fight flight freeze and social threat responses 

• Why negative interactions replay in our minds 

• The psychology of attribution and misunderstanding 

• Why strangers’ opinions can affect us more than they should 

• Protecting your emotional state after difficult interactions 

This episode is about understanding the psychology behind rude behaviour, recognising the stress response that follows, and learning not to internalise moments that say more about others than about you. 

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Welcome to Episode 56 of The Mood Booster Podcast. In this episode, we reflect openly and honestly on the idea of manifestation and why so many people are drawn to it. 

Manifestation has become one of the most talked about ideas in self improvement. Vision boards, scripting your future, speaking goals into existence. Some people swear by it, while others dismiss it entirely. 

Dr Marcus reflects on moments in his life where setting a clear intention seemed to change the way he approached opportunities, relationships, and goals. Charlie shares thoughts on how belief, mindset, and direction can shape the decisions we make, often long before any visible outcome appears. 

Together we explore whether manifestation is really about attracting outcomes, or whether it might actually be about something deeper. The way belief changes how we see the world, what opportunities we notice, and how we behave. 

This conversation is less about magic and more about curiosity. Why do humans find the idea of manifestation so compelling? What role does belief play in shaping the direction of our lives? And how much of our future is quietly influenced by the stories we tell ourselves about what is possible? 

How much does belief shape behaviour?  Can intention genuinely change the way we see opportunities?  Is manifestation empowering, misleading, or something in between? 

🎧 In this episode, we reflect on: 

Why manifestation has become so culturally popular 

• The role belief plays in shaping our behaviour 

• Whether setting intentions changes how we see opportunities 

• Personal experiences of goals, mindset, and direction 

• The difference between magical thinking and purposeful intention 

• Why humans are drawn to ideas that give us hope and agency 

• The stories we tell ourselves about our future 

This episode is about belief, perspective, and the powerful role our mindset can play in shaping how we move through life. 

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Friday Focus: How to Improve Your Attention Span | The Attention Myth Explained | The Mood Booster Podcast | TMBP 

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Welcome to Episode 55 of The Mood Booster Podcast. In this Friday Focus episode, we turn Monday’s reflections into evidence-based advice to help you find joy in your every day. 

Earlier this week, we questioned whether our attention spans are actually shrinking. Today, we go deeper. 

We open with the popular claim that humans now have a shorter attention span than a goldfish and examine what the research really says. A 2024 meta analytical study across 32 countries and more than 21,000 participants suggests attentional performance has not universally declined between 1990 and 2021, aligning with broader cognitive trends associated with the Flynn effect. 

We also explore the argument that the concept of an “average attention span” may be flawed. Attention is task dependent. Sustained attention, selective attention, executive control, and divided attention operate differently depending on context. 

So if our brains are not deteriorating, why does it feel harder to focus? 

We discuss how modern life competes aggressively for our attention. Increased cognitive load, variable reward digital platforms, and constant task switching norms shape the way distraction shows up in everyday life. 

Instead of asking what is wrong with our brains, we ask what is constantly competing for them. 

This episode reframes attention as something that is not broken, but pulled. 

🎧 In this episode, we explore: 

• The myth of the shrinking attention span 

• The Flynn effect and what it means for focus 

• Why “average attention span” may be misleading 

• Sustained attention versus divided attention 

• The impact of task switching and digital design 

• Why distraction feels worse even if capacity is stable 

• Attention management instead of willpower 

• Practical strategies to protect and train focus 

This episode is about reclaiming your presence, strengthening your awareness, and designing your environment so your attention works for you rather than against you. 

📚 References Cited in This Episode 

- Andrzejewski, D., Zeilinger, E. L., & Pietschnig, J. (2023). Is there a Flynn effect for attention? Cross-temporal meta-analytical evidence for better test performance (1990–2021). Personality and Individual Differences, 216, 112417. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.paid.2023.112417  

- Flynn, J. R. (2012). Are we getting smarter?: Rising IQ in the twenty-first century. Cambridge University Press. 

- Maybin, S. (2017, March 10). Busting the attention span myth. BBC News. https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-38896790 

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Reflecting on: Our Shrinking Attention Span | Modern Distraction & Presence | The Mood Booster Podcast | TMBP 

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Welcome to Episode 54 of The Mood Booster Podcast. In this episode, we reflect openly and honestly on the idea that our attention spans are shrinking and whether that narrative actually holds up. 

Dr Marcus shares how recently he has found himself flicking between tasks, tabs, and notifications, questioning whether his focus is worse than it used to be. Charlie reflects on our freediving trip, where being underwater demanded full presence. No phones. No noise. No multitasking. Just breath, awareness, and calm. 

This episode explores the contrast between those two experiences. The clarity that comes with single focus and the fast-paced reality of modern life where we are constantly pulled in different directions. 

We ask whether our attention span has truly declined or whether our environment has simply become louder and more demanding. We reflect on the benefits of deep, uninterrupted presence but also acknowledge that switching between ideas and tasks can sometimes fuel creativity and adaptability. 

How do we balance immersion with flexibility?  How do we protect presence without rejecting modern life? 

If you have ever felt overstimulated, distracted, or frustrated with your focus, this episode is for you. 

🎧 In this episode, we reflect on: 

• Feeling pulled between tasks and notifications 

• Our freediving trip and enforced presence 

• The emotional difference between depth and distraction 

• Whether attention spans are actually shrinking 

• The benefits of single task focus 

• Balancing presence with productivity 

• The modern attention economy 

This episode is about perspective, balance, and learning how to protect what matters without assuming your brain is broken. 

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Does Losing Someone Ever Get Easier? | How To Cope with Grief | Friday Focus | TMBP 

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Welcome to Episode 53 of The Mood Booster Podcast, Friday Focus. In this shorter, science-based episode, we turn Monday’s reflections on grief into evidence-based advice to help you find stability, understanding, and compassion during bereavement. 

Today we explore one central question: does losing someone ever get easier? Drawing on grief psychology, attachment theory, and modern bereavement research, we break down what is happening in the mind and nervous system after the death of a loved one. 

We discuss why grief comes in waves, why there is no universal timeline, and why feeling “okay” some days and devastated the next does not mean you are grieving incorrectly. 

Using the Dual Process Model of grief, we explain why healthy grieving often involves oscillating between confronting the loss and rebuilding life. We also explore meaning reconstruction and continuing bonds, and why moving forward does not mean moving on. 

This episode also covers what can unintentionally make grief harder, including suppression, isolation, comparison, and trying to rush healing. 

🎧 In this episode, we explore 

• What grief is in psychology 

• Attachment and loss theory 

• Why grief comes in waves 

• The Dual Process Model explained 

• Loss oriented vs restoration-oriented coping 

• Meaning reconstruction and continuing bonds 

• Why you do not have to “move on” 

• Avoidance, suppression, and emotional control 

• Practical tools to cope with grief 

🛠 Practical Tools to Cope with Grief 

• Name the wave instead of fearing it 

• Use grounding techniques during emotional spikes 

• Plan small windows to process grief intentionally 

• Ask for specific support from others 

• Protect sleep and nourishment 

• Create rituals to maintain connection 

This episode is not about eliminating grief. It is about understanding it, working with it, and learning how to carry love differently over time. 

📍 Pillars Explored  Community and Connection, Introspection and Reflection, Wellbeing and Joy, Presence and Gratitude 

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Reflecting on: The Death of a Loved One | Grief, Loss & Healing | The Mood Booster Podcast | TMBP 

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Welcome to Episode 52 of The Mood Booster Podcast. In this episode, we reflect openly and honestly on the death of a loved one and what grief really feels like in the aftermath of loss. 

Charlie shares his experience of losing his nanna last year, and Marcus opens up about losing his dad and the impact that grief has had on him personally and professionally, including speaking recently on a live panel about bereavement. 

This is a deeply personal and emotional conversation about grief, mourning, love, and what happens after someone we care about dies. We speak about the shock, the waves, the physical symptoms, the guilt, the numbness, and the strange ways grief can show up when life continues moving around you. 

We explore what it means to live with loss, how memories shift over time, and why grief is not something to “get over” but something to integrate. This episode is reflective, vulnerable, and human. 

If you are grieving, have lost someone, or want to better understand the emotional reality of bereavement, this conversation is for you. 

🎧 In this episode, we reflect on 

• Losing a parent and losing a grandparent 

• What grief feels like physically and emotionally 

• The early aftermath of bereavement 

• Waves of sadness, numbness, anger and guilt 

• The role of memory and storytelling in grief 

• Why grief is not linear 

• Speaking publicly about loss 

• Carrying love forward after death 

This episode is about honouring love, validating pain, and reminding anyone grieving that there is no right way to mourn someone who mattered. 

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🌱 The Mood Booster Podcast | A New Chapter for the Mood Booster

Something is changing. And we wanted to tell you about it ourselves.

Episode 70 felt like the right moment to pause, check in, and be honest. Charlie and Dr Marcus have been frustrated. Not with each other, not with the podcast, but with the feeling that something important has been missing. That something is you.

In this episode, recorded outdoors with the portable mics, they open up about where the Mood Booster is heading next and why the community has always been the whole point.

🎧 𝐈𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐞𝐩𝐢𝐬𝐨𝐝𝐞: ✨ Why Charlie and Dr Marcus went back to the drawing board ✨ What has been missing from the Mood Booster ✨ The new format and what it means for you ✨ Why everyday people inspire us more than experts ✨ A conversation that changed everything

🛠 Practical Takeaways:

The biggest takeaway from this episode is a question. What is your story? The Mood Booster has always believed that joy is found in the everyday, not just in the lives of experts and high achievers. From episode 70 onwards, that belief becomes the format. If you have something to share, a struggle, a small win, a lived experience, they want to hear from you. Get in touch via Instagram at @themoodboosterofficial.

📍 𝐏𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐚𝐫𝐬 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐥𝐨𝐫𝐞𝐝: Community and Connection, Introspection and Inspiration, Wellbeing and Joy

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Welcome to Episode 51 of The Mood Booster Podcast, Friday Focus. In this episode, we break down how to overcome fear using evidence based psychology, behavioural science, and practical tools you can use immediately.

If you have ever wondered why fear feels so powerful, why anxiety sticks around, or why avoidance makes things worse, this episode explains the four psychological mechanisms that keep fear alive, and how to overcome them.

Building on Monday’s reflections about free diving, public speaking, and performance nerves, this episode turns lived experience into science backed advice. We explore fear psychology, exposure theory, self efficacy, cognitive reappraisal, and acceptance based models to show what actually shrinks fear over time.

Fear is not just about danger. It is maintained by: • Avoidance behaviours • Low perceived capability • Threat interpretation • Overcontrol of internal experience

This episode explains how fear grows through negative reinforcement, how self efficacy changes anxiety, how reappraising arousal improves performance, and why trying to suppress fear often makes it stronger.

If you struggle with fear of failure, public speaking anxiety, interview nerves, relationship anxiety, or performance pressure, this episode gives you the psychological tools to respond differently.

🎧 In this episode, we explore

• Why avoidance strengthens fear long term • Behavioural learning theory and exposure science • Albert Bandura’s self efficacy theory • How belief in your ability to cope reduces anxiety • Challenge versus threat states in performance research • Cognitive reappraisal and emotion regulation • Ironic process theory and why suppression backfires • Acceptance based models from Steven C. Hayes • Why mastering fear is about competence, not elimination

🛠 Practical Tools To Reduce Fear

• Stay slightly longer than you want to • Build small mastery wins • Reframe nerves as activation or readiness • Focus on coping rather than eliminating fear

Fear does not disappear because you want it to. It decreases when your brain learns you can handle it.

This is not about becoming fearless. It is about becoming capable with fear.

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How to overcome fear | Mastering fear and anxiety | Reflecting on fear and courage | The Mood Booster Podcast

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Welcome to Episode 50 of The Mood Booster Podcast. In this episode, we reflect on fear, anxiety, bravery, and what it really means to master fear rather than avoid it. If you’ve ever wondered how to overcome fear, why fear feels so intense, or how anxiety can actually improve performance, this conversation is for you.

Fear is not weakness. Fear is biology. Fear is philosophy. Fear is growth.

Charlie shares his early experiences with fear of public speaking and performance anxiety in drama. Dr Marcus reflects on confronting fear through freediving, enclosed spaces, and heights, and what it taught him about working with fear instead of fighting it.

We explore where fear comes from: • Is fear evolutionary or learned? • What role does the amygdala play in generating fear? • Why does our body feel out of control when we’re anxious? • Can fear actually enhance performance rather than sabotage it?

We also unpack the philosophy of fear. Drawing on Aristotle, we explore the idea that bravery is not the absence of fear but the ability to act well despite it. Courage sits between recklessness and avoidance.

This is a reflective, honest conversation about anxiety, fear of failure, fear of judgement, performance nerves, and how mastering fear can lead to growth.

🎧 In this episode, we reflect on

• What fear actually is from a psychological perspective • The neurobiology of fear and the role of the amygdala • Fear of public speaking and performance anxiety • Exposure to fear through freediving and heights • Physical symptoms of anxiety and what they mean • Fear versus bravery in philosophy • Why avoiding fear keeps it stronger • How mastering fear builds courage

This episode is about reframing fear as a signal, not a stop sign. Fear does not mean you are incapable. It often means you are expanding.

📍 Pillars Explored Introspection and Inspiration, Wellbeing and Joy, Community and Connection

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In this Friday Focus episode, we take Monday’s reflections on networking and turn them into clear psychological understanding, research grounded insight, and practical tools for building an authentic social network that supports wellbeing and growth. 

We begin by clarifying what authentic networking really is. Rather than being strategic, transactional, or pitch led, authentic networking is value aligned, curiosity driven, long term, and human. It prioritises connection over extraction and relationships over immediate return. 

Drawing on Self Determination Theory, we explore why authentic networking feels better and works better. Humans thrive when their needs for autonomy, competence, and connection are met. Authentic networking supports all three, while transactional networking often undermines them by encouraging performance, self-monitoring, and pressure. 

We then ground this in research. We discuss evidence showing that networking is associated with higher salary growth and career satisfaction over time, but also research demonstrating that the quality, authenticity, and supportiveness of social networks are strongly linked to life satisfaction and happiness.  

This episode is about understanding why how you network matters just as much as who you network with, and why approaching relationships with honesty and curiosity is not only more ethical, but more effective. 

🛠 Practical Advice for Listeners 

• Show interest in values rather than labels
• Follow curiosity instead of usefulness
• Think long term rather than immediate return
• Be honest about who you are and who you are not
• Give without keeping score 

This episode is about shifting networking from something draining and performative into something grounded, meaningful, and genuinely joyful. 

📍 Pillars Explored  Community and Connection, Introspection and Inspiration, Wellbeing and Joy, Presence and Gratitude 

📚 References Cited in This Episode 

• Huang, K., Yeomans, M., Brooks, A. W., Minson, J., & Gino, F. (2017). It doesn’t hurt to ask: Question-asking increases liking. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 113(3), 430–452. https://doi.org/10.1037/pspi0000097  

• Huang, X., Western, M., Bian, Y., Li, Y., Côté, R., & Huang, Y. (2018). Social Networks and Subjective Wellbeing in Australia: New Evidence from a National Survey. Sociology, 53(2), 401–421. https://doi.org/10.1177/0038038518760211  

• Park, Y., Bailey, E. R., & Kuwabara, K. (2024). Why does it feel so fake? Overcoming authenticity challenges in professional networking. Social and Personality Psychology Compass, 18(12). https://doi.org/10.1111/spc3.70027  

• Rossignac-Milon, M., Pillemer, J., Bailey, E. R., Horton, C. B., Jr, & Iyengar, S. S. (2024). Just be real with me: Perceived partner authenticity promotes relationship initiation via shared reality. Organizational Behavior and Human Decision Processes, 180, 104306. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.obhdp.2023.104306  

• Ryan, R. M., & Deci, E. L. (2017). Self-Determination Theory: Basic Psychological Needs in Motivation, Development, and Wellness. Guilford Publications.  

• Wolff, H., & Moser, K. (2009). Effects of networking on career success: A longitudinal study. Journal of Applied Psychology, 94(1), 196–206. https://doi.org/10.1037/a0013350 

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Welcome to Episode 48 of The Mood Booster Podcast. In this episode, we slow things down and reflect openly on our lived experiences of networking, connection, and the relationships that have shaped our personal and professional lives. 

We talk honestly about our own networks, times when they felt strong, times when they felt thin or transactional, and how our relationship with networking has changed over time. We reflect on whether networking is something you consciously build or something that grows naturally through curiosity, listening, and shared values. 

Charlie reflects on moments where networking felt uncomfortable or performative, and how shifting towards genuine interest and long-term connection changed the way he approached people. Dr Marcus reflects on how many of his most meaningful opportunities did not come from strategic networking, but from listening well, showing up consistently, and allowing relationships to develop without pressure. 

Together, we explore what makes networking feel authentic. We talk about the difference between transactional and relational approaches, why listening often matters more than speaking, and how curiosity, presence, and shared humanity tend to build stronger connections than pitching or self-branding. 

This episode is a reflective, grounding conversation for anyone who feels awkward about networking, worries they are doing it wrong, or wants to build relationships that feel meaningful rather than exhausting. 

🎧 In this episode, we reflect on 

• Our own experiences of building and maintaining networks
• When networking feels genuine versus performative
• Listening as a foundation for authentic connection
• Why curiosity matters more than usefulness
• Transactional networking versus relational networking
• How shared values strengthen long term connections
• Letting go of pressure and trusting relationships to unfold 

This episode is about reframing networking as connection, not performance. About people, not outcomes. And about recognising that the most powerful networks are often built quietly, over time, through being human first. 

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Friday Focus: How to Improve Your Attention Span | The Attention Myth Explained | The Mood Booster Podcast | TMBP 

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Welcome to Episode 55 of The Mood Booster Podcast. In this Friday Focus episode, we turn Monday’s reflections into evidence-based advice to help you find joy in your every day. 

Earlier this week, we questioned whether our attention spans are actually shrinking. Today, we go deeper. 

We open with the popular claim that humans now have a shorter attention span than a goldfish and examine what the research really says. A 2024 meta analytical study across 32 countries and more than 21,000 participants suggests attentional performance has not universally declined between 1990 and 2021, aligning with broader cognitive trends associated with the Flynn effect. 

We also explore the argument that the concept of an “average attention span” may be flawed. Attention is task dependent. Sustained attention, selective attention, executive control, and divided attention operate differently depending on context. 

So if our brains are not deteriorating, why does it feel harder to focus? 

We discuss how modern life competes aggressively for our attention. Increased cognitive load, variable reward digital platforms, and constant task switching norms shape the way distraction shows up in everyday life. 

Instead of asking what is wrong with our brains, we ask what is constantly competing for them. 

This episode reframes attention as something that is not broken, but pulled. 

🎧 In this episode, we explore: 

• The myth of the shrinking attention span 

• The Flynn effect and what it means for focus 

• Why “average attention span” may be misleading 

• Sustained attention versus divided attention 

• The impact of task switching and digital design 

• Why distraction feels worse even if capacity is stable 

• Attention management instead of willpower 

• Practical strategies to protect and train focus 

This episode is about reclaiming your presence, strengthening your awareness, and designing your environment so your attention works for you rather than against you. 

📚 References Cited in This Episode 

- Andrzejewski, D., Zeilinger, E. L., & Pietschnig, J. (2023). Is there a Flynn effect for attention? Cross-temporal meta-analytical evidence for better test performance (1990–2021). Personality and Individual Differences, 216, 112417. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.paid.2023.112417  

- Flynn, J. R. (2012). Are we getting smarter?: Rising IQ in the twenty-first century. Cambridge University Press. 

- Maybin, S. (2017, March 10). Busting the attention span myth. BBC News. https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-38896790 

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Welcome to Episode 47 of The Mood Booster Podcast. In this episode, we take Monday’s reflections on imposter syndrome and turn them into clear psychological understanding, research grounded insight, and practical tools you can use. 

We begin by breaking down what imposter syndrome actually is. It is not a clinical diagnosis, but a common psychological experience first described by Clance and Imes, where capable people struggle to internalise success and fear being exposed as a fraud. We explore why this experience is especially common during career transitions, academic progression, and periods of increased visibility or evaluation. 

Drawing on psychological theory and large scale research, we discuss why imposter syndrome is more closely linked to perfectionism, fear of evaluation, social comparison, high personal standards, and belonging uncertainty than simple lack of confidence. 

We also explore why imposter syndrome shows up more often in high performing individuals, how attribution styles differ across genders, and why social conditioning plays a role in how success and failure are interpreted. 

This episode is about understanding imposter syndrome so that it stops controlling your decisions and your confidence. 

🛠 Practical Advice for Listeners 

• Name imposter thoughts instead of personalising them 

• Track evidence of competence rather than feelings alone 

• Normalise imposter syndrome through open conversation 

• Focus on action rather than waiting for confidence 

This episode is about taking back power from imposter syndrome and allowing yourself to keep showing up, even when doubt is present. 

📍 Pillars Explored  Introspection and Inspiration, Wellbeing and Joy 

📚 References Cited in This Episode 

• Bravata, D. M., Watts, S. A., Keefer, A. L., Madhusudhan, D. K., Taylor, K. T., Clark, D. M., Nelson, R. S., Cokley, K. O., & Hagg, H. K. (2019). Prevalence, Predictors, and Treatment of Impostor Syndrome: a Systematic Review. Journal of General Internal Medicine, 35(4), 1252–1275. https://doi.org/10.1007/s11606-019-05364-1  

• Clance, P. R., & Imes, S. A. (1978). The imposter phenomenon in high achieving women: Dynamics and therapeutic intervention. Psychotherapy, 15(3), 241–247. https://doi.org/10.1037/h0086006  

• Feingold, A. (1994). Gender differences in personality: A meta-analysis. Psychological Bulletin, 116(3), 429–456. https://doi.org/10.1037/0033-2909.116.3.429  

• Price, P. C., Holcomb, B., & Payne, M. B. (2024). Gender differences in impostor phenomenon: A meta-analytic review. Current Research in Behavioral Sciences, 7, 100155. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.crbeha.2024.100155 

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46: Reflecting on Imposter Syndrome 

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Welcome to Episode 46 of The Mood Booster Podcast. In this episode, we slow things down and reflect openly on our lived experiences of imposter syndrome and what it feels like to doubt yourself even when you are capable, qualified, and showing up. 

Charlie reflects on feeling imposter syndrome very recently while leading our live workshop, questioning whether he was qualified enough to be in the room and worrying about being exposed as not knowing enough. Dr Marcus shares how imposter syndrome followed him throughout his MSc and PhD, appearing even in environments where he objectively belonged and had earned his place. 

Together, we explore where imposter syndrome might come from, including low self worth, perfectionism, comparison, and the pressure to live up to internal and external expectations. We talk about why it often appears during moments of growth and visibility, rather than failure, and how it can quietly shape the way we speak to ourselves. 

This episode also includes a reflective exercise where we ask what might change if we spoke to ourselves the way we would speak to a close friend who was doubting their worth. 

This is an honest, validating, and human conversation for anyone who feels like they do not quite belong, even when they do. 

🎧 In this episode, we reflect on 

• Experiencing imposter syndrome during moments of growth 

• Feeling undeserving of success or opportunity 

• Low self worth, perfectionism, and comparison 

• Imposter syndrome in academic and professional spaces 

• The gap between competence and confidence 

• How self talk shapes our sense of belonging 

This episode is about normalising doubt, reducing self criticism, and recognising that feeling like an imposter does not mean you are one. 

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Welcome to Episode 45 of The Mood Booster Podcast. In this episode, we explore the emotional reality of student hood in 2025. Recorded with Josh Robinson, founder of the London Student Network, at King’s College London’s Entrepreneur Institute, this conversation focuses on identity, belonging, pressure, and wellbeing during one of the most intense life transitions. 

Studentship is often framed around grades and productivity, but for many it is a period of identity formation, uncertainty, loneliness, and comparison. Drawing on UK research showing rising levels of stress and loneliness among students, particularly in London, we unpack why so many students feel they should be thriving while quietly struggling. 

Using psychology and lived experience, we explore emerging adulthood, social identity, and the pressure to have life figured out too early. We discuss loneliness in dense cities, the impact of constant change on belonging, and the pressures created by academic expectations, career anxiety, cost of living stress, and comparison culture. 

This is a grounding and validating episode for anyone navigating university feeling unsure, overwhelmed, or stuck between surviving and thriving. 

🎧 In this episode, we reflect on 

• Student hood as a period of identity transition
• Emerging adulthood and why uncertainty is normal
• Social identity, comparison, and belonging
• Loneliness in London and the density paradox
• The impact of transience on friendships
• Academic pressure, perfectionism, and fear of failure
• Career anxiety and cost of living stress
• Finding balance between control and flexibility
• Small, repeat connections that protect wellbeing 

🛠 Practical Advice for Listeners 

• Build micro communities through small repeat interactions
• Lower the pressure to define yourself too quickly
• Use grounding practices during periods of overwhelm
• Reframe identity as flexible and evolving
• Seek belonging through consistency rather than intensity
• Borrow support rather than pushing through alone 

This episode is about normalising uncertainty, reducing self blame, and reminding students that thriving does not mean having everything figured out. Sometimes it means staying connected, staying curious, and staying kind to yourself. 

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📚 References Cited in This Episode 

None LOL! 

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Welcome to Episode 44 of The Mood Booster Podcast. This episode follows directly from our very first live workshop, Joyful Fuelling for Your New Years Fitness Goals, where we sat in a room with James from BrashNutrition and unpacked the realities of diet culture, misinformation, and the pressure to change our bodies in the name of health. 

In this conversation, we reflect more deeply on one central question: why do we diet in the first place. Is it really about health, or is it about chasing unrealistic body ideals shaped by culture, stigma, and misinformation? 

We explore how diet culture has evolved across history, how thinness became moralised and medicalised, and why body image is so often the hidden driver behind food choices. Drawing on psychology, nutrition science, and lived experience, Dr Marcus breaks down why most diets fail, not because people lack willpower, but because restriction, hyper fixation, and fear-based motivation actively work against us. 

We talk openly about our own early relationships with food, fitness, and online health content, and how misinformation thrives by exploiting insecurity and urgency. We also unpack the psychological mechanisms behind dieting behaviour, including decision fatigue, cognitive restraint, and why the more we focus on food rules, the worse our relationship with food often becomes. 

This is an honest, compassionate, and grounding episode for anyone who feels stuck in cycles of restriction, confusion, or body dissatisfaction. It is not about telling you what to eat, but about helping you understand why diet culture keeps pulling you back in, and how decentring diet can be a powerful step toward both wellbeing and performance. 

🎧 In this episode, we reflect on 

• Why body image is often the true driver behind dieting 
• How diet culture shapes what we believe health should look like 
• The historical and social roots of weight stigma 
• Why thinness does not equal health or fitness 
• How misinformation spreads through fear and reductionist thinking 
• Why most diets fail from a psychological perspective 
• The difference between a diet and your diet 
• Decision fatigue, hyper fixation, and restrictive cycles 
• What it means to decentre food and body control 
• Why fuelling should be context specific, not aesthetic driven 

🛠 Practical Advice for Listeners 

• Question whether your goal is about health or appearance 
• Notice fear-based messaging in nutrition content 
• Shift focus from restriction to addition 
• Reduce food rules and moral language around eating 
• Fuel training for function, not punishment 
• Remember that confusion is not failure, it is a product of the environment 

This episode is about reclaiming autonomy, reducing shame, and understanding that wanting to feel fit or well does not require hating your body or micromanaging food. It is about creating space for balance, joy, and sustainability. 

📍 Pillars Explored:  Introspection and Inspiration, Presence and Gratitude, Wellbeing and Joy 

📚 References Cited in This Episode 

• Wegner, D. M. (1994). Ironic processes of mental control. Psychological Review, 101( (1), 34–5Control-65.  

• Mooney, J., Burling, T. A., Hartman, W. M., & Brenner-Liss, D. (1992). The abstinence violation effect and very low calorie diet success. Addictive Behaviors, 17(4), 319–324. https://doi.org/10.1016/0306-4603(92)90038-w 

• Weeldreyer, N. R., De Guzman, J. C., Paterson, C., Allen, J. D., Gaesser, G. A., & Angadi, S. S. (2024). Cardiorespiratory fitness, body mass index and mortality: a systematic review and meta-analysis. British Journal of Sports Medicine, 59(5), 339–346. https://doi.org/10.1136/bjsports-2024-108748 

• Polivy, J. (1996). Psychological consequences of food restriction. Journal of the American Dietetic Association, 96(6), 589–592. https://doi.org/10.1016/s0002-8223(96)00161-7 

• Forbes, G. B., Collinsworth, L. L., Jobe, R. L., Braun, K. D., & Wise, L. M. (2007). Sexism, Hostility toward Women, and Endorsement of Beauty Ideals and Practices: Are Beauty Ideals Associated with Oppressive Beliefs? Sex Roles, 56(5–6), 265–273. https://doi.org/10.1007/s11199-006-9161-5 

• ⁠Strings, S. (2019). Fearing the black body: The Racial Origins of Fat Phobia. NYU Press. 

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Welcome to Episode 43 of The Mood Booster Podcast. In this episode, we slow things down and explore one of the most fundamental human questions there is: purpose. What gives life meaning, especially during times of suffering, uncertainty, or emotional pain? 

We centre this conversation around the work of Viktor Frankl, psychiatrist, Holocaust survivor, and founder of logotherapy. Frankl believed that the primary human drive is not happiness or pleasure, but meaning. When we have a why to live for, he argued, we can endure almost any how. 

We unpack Frankl’s core ideas about purpose, including why meaning does not remove pain but makes pain more tolerable, and why purpose is often found through responsibility rather than passion. We explore his reframing of the purpose question, shifting from what do I want from life to what does life expect from me. 

From there, we discuss Frankl’s three pathways to meaning through creation, experience, and attitude, and why even when control is stripped away, our capacity to choose our response remains. We also talk about why the modern pressure to find your passion can leave people feeling broken, and why purpose often emerges after commitment, not before it. 

Alongside theory, we bring in empirical research showing how a strong sense of purpose is associated with lower depression, lower anxiety, and reduced risk of all cause mortality over time. This episode is reflective, grounding, and designed for anyone feeling lost, flat, or pressured to have life figured out. 

🎧 In this episode, we reflect on 

• Why purpose is psychologically protective 

• Viktor Frankl and the foundations of logotherapy 

• Meaning as a why rather than a feeling 

• Responsibility versus passion in finding purpose 

• The three routes to meaning through creation, experience, and attitude 

• A powerful therapeutic story about grief and meaning 

• Why suffering becomes more bearable when it has context 

• What research shows about purpose, depression, anxiety, and longevity 

🛠 Practical Advice for Listeners 

• Stop asking what is my purpose and ask who needs me right now 

• Use the three sources of meaning check when life feels flat 

• Borrow purpose during difficult seasons rather than searching for a lifelong mission 

• Separate purpose from pressure and productivity 

• Remember that small responsibilities done with care still count 

This episode is about reframing purpose as something lived rather than found. Something chosen day by day, rooted in responsibility, connection, and meaning. 

📍 Pillars Explored:  Introspection and Inspiration, Presence and Gratitude, Wellbeing and Joy 

📚 References Cited in This Episode 

• Alimujiang, A., Wiensch, A., Boss, J., Fleischer, N. L., Mondul, A. M., McLean, K., Mukherjee, B., & Pearce, C. L. (2019). Association between life purpose and mortality among US adults older than 50 years. JAMA Network Open, 2(5), e194270. https://doi.org/10.1001/jamanetworkopen.2019.4270  

• Boreham, I. D., & Schutte, N. S. (2023). The relationship between purpose in life and depression and anxiety: A meta‐analysis. Journal of Clinical Psychology, 79(12), 2736–2767. https://doi.org/10.1002/jclp.23576  

• Frankl, V. E. (2004). Man’s search for meaning: The Classic Tribute to Hope from the Holocaust. Random House. 

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Welcome to Episode 69 of The Mood Booster Podcast. This week, Charlie and Dr Marcus take things somewhere different. Recorded in Madeira, surrounded by mountains and good food, this episode is a proper debate. The motion: social media is inherently bad for our mental wellbeing. Charlie argues for it. Dr Marcus argues against. And genuinely disagree. 

From comparison culture and body image ideals to the power of community and the very existence of The Mood Booster itself, this is an honest, unscripted back and forth between two people who see the same platform very differently. The question that sits underneath all of it: if social media does more harm than good, does using it make you a hypocrite? 

🎧 𝐈𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐞𝐩𝐢𝐬𝐨𝐝𝐞:  

• The debate: is social media inherently bad for our wellbeing?  

• Comparison culture and the mental health cost of scrolling  

• Body image ideals and who is responsible for what we see  

• Whether regulation sits with the consumer or the platforms  

• The power of online community and connection  

• Can you criticise social media and still use it without being a hypocrite?  

🛠 𝐏𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥 𝐀𝐝𝐯𝐢𝐜𝐞:  

This one is less about tools and more about honest reflection. The debate format forces both sides to sit with the tension rather than reach for easy answers. If you use social media, which most of us do, this episode will give you a clearer sense of why it affects you the way it does and what, if anything, you 

📍 Pillars Explored  Introspection and Reflection, Wellbeing and Joy, Presence and Gratitude 

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The Home of Wellbeing and Joy.

Welcome to episode 41 of The Mood Booster Podcast. In this episode, we slow things down and reflect on what has been a huge year for The Mood Booster and for us both personally. What started as an idea between two people has grown into something far bigger than we ever expected, and this episode is about honouring that journey.

Charlie comes into the episode with a plan to break down the growth of the podcast and everything that has happened across the year. But Marcus surprises Charlie with a series of photos that capture the story of our year from the very first recording, through races, travels, milestones, and moments we did not realise would mean so much at the time.

We reflect on running the Rome marathon, trips to Scotland, Spain and Copenhagen, recording episodes across the country, building the Monday Mood Booster community, and learning what it really means to show up consistently for something you care about.

Alongside the memories, we talk honestly about growth, discomfort, confidence, friendship, and how both of us have changed over the year. It is reflective, emotional, grounding, and full of gratitude.

This episode is about looking back with pride, learning from the moments that challenged us, and appreciating how far we have come together.

🎧 In this episode, we reflect on:

• The very first Mood Booster recording
• How the podcast evolved across the year
• Surprise photos capturing our journey
• Running the Rome marathon together
• Trips to Scotland, Spain and Copenhagen
• Building community through Monday Mood Booster
• Moments of growth, doubt and confidence
• How our friendship has changed and strengthened
• Favourite memories from the year
• What this year has taught us about ourselves
• How we want to move into the next chapter

📍 Pillars explored: Introspection and Inspiration, Community and Connection, Wellbeing and Joy

📚 References Cited in This Episode:

None!

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The Home of Wellbeing and Joy.

Welcome to Episode 39: How to Give Better Gifts: Reflecting on the Psychology of Gift Giving, where Dr Marcus and Charlie explore why giving and receiving gifts can feel joyful, stressful, meaningful, awkward and everything in between.

From Secret Santa disasters to deeply thoughtful gifts that strengthen relationships, this episode unpacks the psychology behind why we give, what makes a gift actually meaningful, and why thoughtfulness matters more than cost. We look into reciprocity, love languages, and new research showing how thoughtful gifts create deeper closeness.

Whether you love gift giving or find it overwhelming, this episode offers clarity, compassion and evidence based tools to make giving and receiving feel lighter and more connected.

💭 What We Discuss in This Episode

• Our own experiences of giving and receiving gifts
• Secret Santa chaos, budgets, and disappointing gifts
• Reciprocity and why humans bond through gifting
• Love Languages and how gifts express connection
• Why thoughtfulness shows people they are seen
• Material gifts vs experience gifts

🛠 Practical Advice for Listeners

• Give from connection rather than obligation
• Use the Three Meaningful Anchors rule
• Set healthy boundaries around budgets
• Practice allowing when receiving a gift
• Reduce comparison and pressure
• If stressed about gifting, shift to experiences or non material giving

📍 Pillars explored: Introspection and Inspiration, Community and Connection, Wellbeing and Joy

📚 References Cited in This Episode

• Chapman, G. (2015). The 5 love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts. Northfield Pub.

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