Explore every episode of the podcast The Lesbian Peep Show
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| The "boy crazy" to lesbian pipeline with Natalie Kelley | 06 Apr 2026 | 01:03:47 | |
Natalie Kelly shares her journey of discovering her lesbian identity, the boy crazy to lesbian pipeline, and navigating relationships, gender expression, and societal expectations. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Don't count my p*ssy miles with Erica Smith | 30 Mar 2026 | 00:51:33 | |
We talk about second adolescence pertaining to coming out as LGBTQ+, divorce and/or leaving a high control religion. What it can entail, feel like and why it often serves as an important part of identity development. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Is it worth "blowing up your life" to be gay? with Erin Brown | 12 Jan 2026 | 00:39:22 | |
In this solo episode Erin answers listener questions about identity, relationships and her experience. Other topics include: the new series "Members Only," the importance of d/ke spaces and straight women representation in queer community. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| You're missing out on the TMZ comment section with Jill Louise Busby | 05 Jan 2026 | 00:46:40 | |
Jill Louise Busby is the author of Unfollow me: Essays on Complicity. We talk about the experience of "microfame," reality television, being a new mother and lesbian bed death. You can find Jill's substack here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Bi baddie basics with Devon Day Moretti (reprise) | 30 Dec 2025 | 00:53:22 | |
We talk about the impact of being labeled sluts, discovering her sexuality, dressing for the queer gaze and biphobia. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Starting over (it's never going to be less scary) with Rachel B Turner | 15 Dec 2025 | 00:55:45 | |
We talk about divorce. Starting over. Life scripts handed to women that are mostly about adjusting to disappointment. And being the type of b*tch that keeps it pushing. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Navigating the holidays with Dani Gagnon | 15 Dec 2025 | 00:47:03 | |
We talk about being queer and going home for the holidays (or not!) and different ways you might think about your wants, needs and boundaries. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| BDE (reprise) with Whitni Miller | 01 Dec 2025 | 00:51:24 | |
Revisiting my first chat with Whitni Miller. We talk about intimacy, the ways binary gender dynamics can play out in queer relationships, types of desire, orgasm cheat codes and communication. Enjoy. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Transition & the lesbian I've always been with Richelle Gordon | 17 Nov 2025 | 01:00:31 | |
In this episode, I talk with Richelle Gordon about coming out as a trans lesbian later in life and finding home in queer community. We explore how music, identity, and authenticity shaped her transition and the unexpected joy of becoming an extrovert at 60. She shares reflections on love, belonging, the current political climate and building chosen family. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Lesbian matchmaking with Sophia Spallino | 10 Nov 2025 | 01:02:47 | |
This episode dives into the world of lesbian matchmaking, queer dating, and the emotional reality of seeking love in the digital age. Erin chats with luxury matchmaker Sophia Spallino to explore attraction types, intentional dating, communication in relationships, and her dating platform Queer Country Club. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Unearthing queer history with Katie Castagno | 03 Nov 2025 | 00:37:09 | |
Katie is a geologist and musician who is documenting queer history through song. We talk about her favorite queer history moments, the importance of knowing our histories and their project Our Queer Elders. You can find Our Queer Elders here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| The Sapphic Gaze with Artist Halie Torris | 27 Oct 2025 | 00:47:32 | |
Halie discusses her journey as a lesbian artist, the significance of the female and sapphic gaze in her work, and the importance of representation in media. They delve into the impact of shows like The Hunting Wives on queer visibility, the power of sensuality in art, and the need for older lesbian representation. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Queering identity with Cindy Lee Alves Watley | 19 Mar 2026 | 00:47:19 | |
We talk about the politics of identity and experience, metaphors for pleasure, and somehow land in our favorite conspiracy theories. Shout out Gerald the dolphin. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Queering clothes, grief and sports with Madison T. Clark | 13 Oct 2025 | 00:52:19 | |
Mads is a Kansas City based community staple, organizer and entrepreneur. We talk about their company Grief Cards, their community initiative Gender Affirming Closet and Stonewall sports. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Keeping the party going with Dez Jones | 06 Oct 2025 | 00:47:15 | |
We talk about her DJ career (she recently DJed at one of the 3 Chappell Roan tour stops!!), being a Black lesbian in the midwest, food, politics and media. And her new girlfriend (we love new girlfriend energy). You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Divorcing Comphet with Alena Pollitt | 29 Sep 2025 | 01:07:45 | |
Alena and I talk about our shared experiences with being in decade long heteronormative relationships before coming out and ultimately divorcing our entire lives to create our joyful, queer futures. Spoiler: it was hard and sad and so very worth it. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| We got married! Revisiting the Channon episode | 23 Sep 2025 | 01:10:19 | |
We got hitched this weekend and it was perfect. I'll have to do a whole episode on just that. But first, a revisit of our love story and how we stay so damned content. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| How to spot a lesbian with Pure XTC | 16 Sep 2025 | 00:47:25 | |
We talk about their coming out experience, instagram dating, uhauling, how to spot a lesbian in different parts of the country, jorts and more. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| First timer scaries with Eva Bloom | 08 Sep 2025 | 00:38:10 | |
We talk about style, sex, community and cultural differences that come up when people begin to come into their queer identities. Eva is a queer sex educator and coach whose work mostly focuses on later in life queer and trans people. You can find Eva here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Lezzing out at the gym with Izzy Wagner | 31 Aug 2025 | 00:45:25 | |
We talk about how Izzy got into fitness, why she trains queer women specifically and what fitness does for both of us in and out of the gym. Also we both love muscle cars, it's a bit of a bro out, lol. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| De-santizing queer with Cat Yezbak | 25 Aug 2025 | 01:12:29 | |
This episode was one of those “we could go on forever” conversations. We talk about lesbian representation, being dykes, not being into love is love, our different experiences with gender, a little on perimenopause. Something for everyone. And the Rebellious Podcast here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| On being a Black Femme Menace with Doctress Kaila Story | 18 Aug 2025 | 01:25:38 | |
We talk about femme identity, policing of queerness, trad wives, LGBTQ+ history and the lack of inclusion in queer spaces. That's honestly reductive, this is a great conversation and that's just the tip of the iceberg. If you don't know Doctress Kaila, you're welcome. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Happier ever after "The Ultimatum: Queer Love" with Marita Prodger | 13 Aug 2025 | 00:46:03 | |
Marita and I talk about her experience on and off The Ultimatum: Queer Love, what it was like behind the scenes and what she looks forward to as she moves on with the story that is all her own now. (Spoiler: a new show and other creative projects are in the works!) You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| I run with d/kes: on the significance of queer friendship | 11 Mar 2026 | 00:45:34 | |
I start this episode reflecting on the profound impact queer friendships have had on my life and how they’ve shaped the way I see myself and move through the world. Our relationships hold culture, understanding, and a kind of recognition that can be hard to find anywhere else. I also invited a few of my friends to weigh in with voice notes about what queer friendship means to them and it's probably my favorite thing I've ever made, tbh. This week's question is "How have queer friendships impacted or changed you" and you can send your voice note here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| [Encore episode] Body politics, body image and desire with Dr. Kelly Rafferty | 04 Aug 2025 | 01:05:08 | |
In one of the most popular episodes to date, we talk about our shared history in fitness, the politics of bodies and understanding desire outside of cultural expectations. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Divorce, Uhauls and Access to Abortion with Kelsey Rhodes | 28 Jul 2025 | 00:53:52 | |
We talk about Kelsey's journey from a long term heteronormative relationship and marriage to her queer awakening and Uhaul scenario. As well as her work in abortion advocacy and recent initiatives around guiding community conversations on self managed abortions. All the links: https://reprolegalhelpline.org https://www.instagram.com/kelsey_dot_org/ https://kelseyrhodes.substack.com You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| "What do we owe each other?" with Sydney King | 22 Jul 2025 | 01:05:44 | |
Sydney King and I discuss what it means to be a part of a community. Why they believe so strongly that you should inconvenience your friends. Thoughts on un-friending with integrity and the importance of offline connection. And their powerpoint presentation here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Chapstick Magazine with Hannah Shahidi and Isabel Anayaji | 13 Jul 2025 | 00:29:21 | |
Talking with founders of Chapstick Magazine about the lesbian culture, the importance of lesbian spaces and their growing project. You can find Chapstick Magazine here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Lezzy summer book recommendations with Tamara Anderson | 07 Jul 2025 | 01:02:07 | |
Tamara is back and we talk through a vampire book we read together as well as several other sapphic books we recommend. We do our best to not give anything away and give solid recs from across genres. Books we mention: The Gilda Stories -Jewelle Gomez Women -Chloe Caldwell Acts of Service -Lillian Fishman Bury Our Bones in the Midnight Soil -V. E. Schwab Mistakes Were Made -Meryl Wilsner Wow, No Thank You -Samantha Irby This is How You Lose the Time War -Amal El-Mohtar and Max Gladstone Stop Me if You’ve Heard This One -Kristen Arnett All Fours -Miranda July Light From Uncommon Stars -Ryka Aoki So Gay For You -Katherine Moennig and Leisha Hailey Big Swiss -Jen Beagin Delilah Green Doesn't Care -Ashley Herring Blake Voyeur -Nicole Pyland You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Power Bottoming with Emory Parker | 29 Jun 2025 | 00:42:09 | |
Emory Parker (known widely for her power bottom take on Chappell Roan's The Giver) and I talk about making queer art, the representation she grew up with, the creative process and the freedom inside of being queer. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Dyke discourse with Nelly Papazian | 23 Jun 2025 | 01:01:11 | |
We talk about the on and offline lesbian discourse that irks us, ways we maybe stand to communicate with each other better and an assortment of intracultural hot takes. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| From The L Word to SoulCycle with Jess Rothschild | 16 Jun 2025 | 00:53:10 | |
Jess and I talk about her experiences in the early 2000s at Autostraddle, my Roman Empire of celesbian gossip and her recent deep dive into the Cult of SoulCycle. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| The sapphic Fletcher controversy with Kat Nardizzi | 09 Jun 2025 | 00:48:08 | |
So a sapphic pop singer started dating a man and launched it during pride and the internet around her fandom erupted with a multitude of reactions and we're talking about that. I also read a comment about the whiteness of it all that mentions the following people. Here is more about them. Recent article on Jonathan Joss Action items for Miashah Moses Sponsors: Perifit Kegel exercise trainer discount link (I love, seriously) You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Don't call me a late bloomer with host Erin Brown | 02 Jun 2025 | 00:47:56 | |
This is a solo episode where I talk more about my own story, answer listener questions and am generally elated to be queer. Happy pride! XOXO Mentioned: Red Hare Leather & Lava Dreams You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Are the heteros ok? Love is blind & performing attraction | 03 Mar 2026 | 00:30:09 | |
Is "I like blondes" a sexual orientation or a bro hierarchy? Why does straight people talking about their types feel like what I was doing when I was experiencing comp-het? And what I'm actually into in my 40s. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Celesbian Gossip with Kat Nardizzi | 22 May 2025 | 01:03:51 | |
Kat and I discuss recent lesbian celebrity gossip. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Womontown: The radical lesbian neighborhood with founders Drea Nedelsky and Mary Ann Hopper | 15 May 2025 | 00:53:25 | |
Womontown sought to establish a community where queer women could find financial security, support, and acceptance. Womontown attracted women from across the US, offering support systems for new arrivals. You can watch the documentary here. * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Bad (perimenopausal) bitches with Whitni Miller | 11 May 2025 | 01:03:35 | |
Body changes, better sex, clearer boundaries, and mostly the joys of being older. *The movie I was trying to remember was Go Fish and Guinevere Turner-- icon. * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Smash or pass: Lesbian stereotypes with musician Liney Blu | 30 Apr 2025 | 00:51:18 | |
Liney and I talk about the inspiration behind their new music, astrology and play a light and fun round of “smash or pass” featuring lesbian stereotypes. You can find Liney’s music here. * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Queer restorative history with Amanda Timpson | 28 Apr 2025 | 00:53:00 | |
We talk about the importance of restorative queer history and some of public historian Amanda's favorite stories from her research. * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Bi baddie basics with Devon Day Moretti | 16 Apr 2025 | 00:53:25 | |
We talk about the impact of being labeled sluts, discovering her sexuality, dressing for the queer gaze and biphobia. * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Relational skills & the "femme tax" with Christabel Mintah-Galloway | 14 Apr 2025 | 01:03:58 | |
We answer questions from listeners about how to flag as femme, how to "get out there" and relational skills for building community. You can find her workshop here. * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Assume less & don't be the cops with Jasper | 07 Apr 2025 | 00:53:54 | |
We talk about the diversity within the trans experience, trans masc people in lesbian spaces, where to find bi girls in LA, sharing dyke culture and making art for queer people. * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term You can find Erin @iamerinbrown You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| From Cosplay to New York Fashion Week with Fi Black aka DykeMint | 26 Mar 2025 | 01:11:17 | |
We covered a lot of ground : identity development, family, creating space for ourselves, lesbian style, de-centering men and Fi's slow, sustainable, anime inspired fashion brand. * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Body politics, body image and desire with Dr. Kelly Rafferty | 23 Mar 2025 | 01:03:56 | |
We talk about our shared history in fitness, the politics of bodies and understanding desire outside of cultural expectations. * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Is scissoring real? & other queer sex questions with Cindy Lee | 23 Feb 2026 | 00:49:38 | |
Erin and Cindy Lee talk queer/lesbian sex lore such as the controversy around the validity of scissoring/tribbing (what's the difference?), lesbian bed death, what "counts" as sex and more! You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Hosting queer spaces & religious family experiences with Lo Cowan | 17 Mar 2025 | 00:51:15 | |
Lo is the host and co-founder of Where to Find Us. We talked about her religious upbringing, her first relationship experiences, coming out and the importance of creating spaces where queer people are centered and safe. And her co-founder Tiffany Watts here. * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| Gay clowns and Central Florida with author Kristen Arnett | 10 Mar 2025 | 00:52:33 | |
In spite of just meeting, this episode really feels like old friends. We talk about being from places that are gayer than people realize, queer awakenings, sapphic media and (NYT best selling author!) Kristen's newest book, "Stop Me If You've Heard This One." * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| The Lesbian welcome wagon with Lori Lindsey | 03 Mar 2025 | 00:51:12 | |
We talk about Lori's experience being a part of the US women's national team and all 3 women's pro soccer leagues, her relationships on the teams and the ways they championed one another on and off the field. As well as the progress in women's sports since Lori's career began and where things are headed next. Also, just like, being gay. * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||
| So I'm queer and dating a guy... with Kat Nardizzi | 20 Feb 2025 | 00:55:57 | |
Kat and I talk about her current dating experience, the conversations she's having with herself and her partner about her queerness, and the expansiveness of queer identities. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown * CHEEX OFFER LINK Details: no minimum term | |||