The Kinky Tavern – Details, episodes & analysis

CW: transphobia, homophobia, living in the world as someone in the LGBTQPIA2S+ community 

Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more triggering content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggles in trauma or mental health, please don’t hesitate to reach out to The Mental Health Hotline at 866-903-3787 or visit https://mentalhealthhotline.org/ for access to more free, confidential mental health hotlines and chats. 

Episode Summary: This week, Mx Dizzy and Marquis Pup Rekkr sit down with Van (they/elle), the founder and organizer of the Do Something: Identity(ies) aka DSI conference, an international virtual conference which “centers and celebrates the most erased realities in the LGBTQPIA2S+ community.” The 2nd DSI conference will take place May 31st, 2024. On top of this conference, Van has also facilitated both an interactive book and a documentary on the same areas of focus! Join us to learn about Van and the DSI conference, the “Exploring my Identity(ies)” interactive book, the Do Something documentary, and more!

Resources for this episode (not necessarily a recommendation or positive review of the information within):

• Van’s website - https://vanethanlevy.com 

• Do Something: Identity(ies) Conference 2024 - https://vanethanlevy.com/dsi2024/ 

• Exploring My Identity(ies) book by Mx. Van Ethan Levy (they/elle) - https://vanethanlevy.com/book/

• Do Something documentary - https://vanethanlevy.com/documentary/ 

• Resource page on Van’s website - https://vanethanlevy.com/resources/ 

• List of providers willing to provide letters for gender affirming care after one session - https://vanethanlevy.com/providers/ 

A Big Thank You to our Patrons:

• Moon_goddess

• Sir Quill

• Lady Katerina

• Dopetastic Q

• Chris_Canned_Bread

Join our ⁠Discord⁠ server! Includes discussion, input for episodes, and education opportunities! It’s a great place to chat about sex, kink, bdsm, or whatever! You can ask questions, find out what the next episodes will be about, suggest topics, and just chat with us!

⁠Check out The Kinky Tavern’s socials and more!⁠ If you have any questions about the kink, BDSM, or Leather public, please send them to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous.

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Episode Summary: In the realms of kink and BDSM, we talk about Power Exchange a lot, but what does that actually mean? Does it realistically cover the transaction happening within your dynamic? This week, Mx Dizzy and Marquis Pup Rekkr are sitting down with our good friend, Master Devyn Stone to talk about their ideas on Power Exchange and how the term Authority Transfer fits their desires and dynamic so much better. What’s the difference? What does Power Exchange mean? What about Authority Transfer? We discuss that and so much more in this exciting episode with Master Devyn Stone. 

Resources for this episode (not necessarily a recommendation or positive review of the information within):

• Devyn’s Website - https://www.devynstone.com/ 

• Devyn’s Links - https://poplme.co/DDyTBlSt 

• Devyn’s Fetlife - https://fetlife.com/users/1571357?sp=1

• Devyn’s Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/DevynStone/membership

• Pragmatically Kinking Fetlife Profile - https://fetlife.com/users/2254094 

• Pragmatically Kinking Fetlife Group - https://fetlife.com/groups/72062 

• Pragmatically Kinking Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/Pragmatickink 

• Pragmatically Kinking Merch - https://www.redbubble.com/people/DevynStone/shop?asc=u 

• THRIVE Website - http://thrivevirtualcon.com/

• THRIVE Fetlife Group - https://fetlife.com/groups/72062 

• THRIVE Fetlife Event - https://fetlife.com/events/1383329

• THRIVE Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/ThriveVirtualCon

• THRIVE Facebook Event - https://www.facebook.com/events/654195256694738

A Big Thank You to our Patrons:

• Moon_goddess

• Sir Quill

• Lady Katerina

• Dopetastic Q

• Chris_Canned_Bread

Join our ⁠Discord⁠ server! Includes discussion, input for episodes, and education opportunities! It’s a great place to chat about sex, kink, bdsm, or whatever! You can ask questions, find out what the next episodes will be about, suggest topics, and just chat with us!

⁠Check out The Kinky Tavern’s socials and more!⁠ If you have any questions about the kink, BDSM, or Leather public, please send them to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous.

Support the podcast and our efforts to bring education, discussion, and awareness to the kink, BDSM, and Leather public!

• ⁠Amazon Wishlist⁠

• ⁠Patreon⁠
  

CW: brief mention of abuse/sexual assault and their consensual roleplay counterparts

Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more graphic content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggles in trauma or mental health, please don’t hesitate to reach out to The Mental Health Hotline at 866-903-3787 or visit https://mentalhealthhotline.org/ for access to more free, confidential mental health hotlines and chats. 

Episode Summary: Have you ever found yourself fantasizing about a vampire, a werewolf, or maybe even something more monstrous? Was Beauty and the Beast your favorite movie growing up? Do you look for love in the unlovable? Well, this might be the episode for you! Join us in this episode as Mx Dizzy and Marquis Pup Rekkr talk about the Monster Lovers genre! We discuss what it is, where it shows up in history, our own feelings and experiences, and so much more!  

Resources for this episode (not necessarily a recommendation or positive review of the information within):

• https://kinklovers.com/bdsm-fetishes/monster-fetish-teratophilia/

• https://kinklovers.com/bdsm-fetishes/tentacle-porn-101

• https://nobd.info/

• https://www.worldhistory.org/Pasiphae/

• https://mashable.com/article/shape-of-water-sex

• https://linkalearnsthings.wordpress.com/2018/04/18/the-surprising-cultural-history-of-tentacle-porn/ 

A Big Thank You to our Patrons:

• Moon_goddess

• Sir Quill

• Lady Katerina

• Dopetastic Q

• Chris_Canned_Bread

Join our ⁠Discord⁠ server! Includes discussion, input for episodes, and education opportunities! It’s a great place to chat about sex, kink, bdsm, or whatever! You can ask questions, find out what the next episodes will be about, suggest topics, and just chat with us!

⁠Check out The Kinky Tavern’s socials and more!⁠ If you have any questions about the kink, BDSM, or Leather public, please send them to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous.

Support the podcast and our efforts to bring education, discussion, and awareness to the kink, BDSM, and Leather public!

• ⁠Amazon Wishlist⁠

• ⁠Patreon⁠

This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr discuss Ethical Non-Monogamy/Polyamory. Both of us have experiences in Polyam and we did some research to explain terms and polyamory in general. Join us for advice, research, and lessons from polyam!

A Big Thank You to our Patrons:

• lovelauseng
• Moon_goddess

https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern

If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous.

This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr sit down with LatexBourne(he/him), a rubbery house-cat who is interested in a myriad of kinks including pony play, dronification, hypnosis, bondage, spanking, and tickling. LatexBourne practices monogamy in romance but is polyamorous in kink. He is also an aspiring latex/kink model and has been involved in professional photo shoots!

Find LatexBourne

• Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/users/10251265?sp=1
• Twitter: https://twitter.com/BourneLatex
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/latexbournemodel/

Mentioned in-episode:

• The Two Hyp Chicks Podcast
• Off The Cuffs Podcast
• Dildorks Podcast
• Hexcorp - dronification information
• Bark Against Campaign - a project by ScruffPup to “help show people in our community that no one is alone and we do not tolerate prejudice of any kind!”
• The BBB - Birmingham area alternative lifestyle market

A Big Thank You to our Patrons:

• lovelauseng
• Moon_goddess **NEW PATRON**

Thank you for your questions:

• NegativeRomance
• Bratty Prison Girl Jessica
• Vpandemonium
• Moon_goddess

https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern

If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous.

This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr discuss and review the representations of BDSM in Media in this continued series. The representation we chose to review this week is the newly released Korean Rom-Com movie called Love and Leashes. It’s on Netflix and if you’d like to watch the film, I’d suggest doing so before we spoil the entire thing in this episode. Tune in as we pick apart the film and how well it represents kink/BDSM as a whole.

A Big Thank You to our Patrons: vpandemonium, lovelauseng, and moon_goddess.

https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern

If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous.

This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr sit down with their partner and friend, Lord Allen Vydra. This chaotic audio experience is filled with laughs, some heavy stuff, and a lot of kink. Join this terrible triad as they attempt to create an entertaining and educational episode for our listeners.

CW/TW: Race and culture fetishization, naz*s

A Big Thank You to our Patrons: vpandemonium and lovelauseng

https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern

If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous.

Honorable mentions:

Podcasts

• Off the cuffs
• What the kink
• WTS Podcast (idk name)

Tikok

• Kinktok tag
• Kink history
• frigianmonk(sp?)
• Moxie
• Tbh i’m a babysub

Youtube

• Watts the safeword
• Evie lupine
• Depraved ero
• Rorie

Books

• Author: Devyn stone
• Author: Bill Reed (A-Z BDSM and Exploring your kink: a practical guide to BDSM play)

This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr discuss and review the representation of kink in the film Secretary (2002) starring James Spader and Maggie Gyllenhal. Join us as we talk about the different aspects and situations which director, Steven Shainberg chose to depict in this Romantic Dramedy centered around a kinky relationship developing between a lawyer and his secretary.

CW/TW: Self harm, mental health, alcoholism, possible abusive situations

A Big Thank You to our Patrons: vpandemonium and lovelauseng

https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern

If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous.

This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr dive into the world of entertainment (for once) to introduce their new mini-series: BDSM in Media!  They discuss how BDSM/kink are shown in media such as tv, books, movies, comics, magazines, etc and how that colors the perception of the general public in regards to BDSM/kink. The mini-series will sometimes pop up as a regular Sunday episode where Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr will consume some kink-related media and examine the accuracies, inaccuracies, and intricacies to expel misconception (as far as our reach goes anyway.)

CW/TW: controlling and toxic relationships, dangerous and risky “kink”

A Big Thank You to our Patrons: vpandemonium and lovelauseng

Thank you to those who asked questions!

• Vpandemonium
• Bratty Prison Girl Jessica
• LatexBourne

https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern

If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous.

This week, Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr switch things up and talk about switches in BDSM and kink!  Both Miss Dizzy and Pup Rekkr are switches and discuss their experiences and the knowledge they’ve gained over the years about switches.

A Big Thank You to our Patrons: vpandemonium and lovelauseng

Thank you to those who asked questions!

• Scurry
• erub
• Bollax the Fox - Dallas
• Vpandemonium

https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern

If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous.