In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD dives into the topic of erotic intimacy after 40 in the context of a captivating conversation with holistic health coach Leah Vachani. They explore the intricate dynamics of maintaining intimacy and passion in long-term relationships, particularly during and after menopause. Dr. Alexandra and Leah debunk the myth of libido mismatch, and explore the crucial roles of self-awareness and emotional intimacy, while covering practical strategies to rekindle desire and pleasure in the bedroom. The conversation emphasizes the importance of embracing daily pleasures, fostering open and honest communication with partners, and challenging the idea that compromise is the foundation of a happy marriage.

Also in this episode:

• Genuine intimacy comes from being true to oneself and sharing those truths with a partner.

• Deepening emotional intimacy paves the way for richer, more fulfilling sexual experiences.

• Practical advice includes improving non-sexual daily pleasures, having vulnerable conversations with partners, and focusing on sensual quality over sexual quantity.

About the Guest: 

Leah Vachani is a seasoned Holistic Health & Hormone Coach with nearly two decades of experience in the wellness industry. Her journey began with a personal mission to reclaim her energy and health as she navigated the challenges of her forties. Realizing that her old strategies were no longer effective during perimenopause, Leah embarked on a transformative exploration of new foods, supplements, lifestyle habits, and biohacks. Now, feeling more vibrant and energetic than ever, Leah is dedicated to helping women thrive through menopause and beyond. Her unique approach focuses on stress management, circadian rhythm balance, and integrating simple yet impactful lifestyle changes.

Connect with Leah on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/leahvachani/

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In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, dives into the importance of nurturing long-term relationships and how to prevent gray divorce, the term referring to divorce among older adults. She explains that having a fulfilling marriage requires constant attention and nurturing, much like tending to a garden. Dr. Alexandra dispels outdated myths about divorce rates and emphasizes the importance of ongoing learning and growth in a marriage. This episode is filled with practical tips and strategies to keep your marital connection vibrant and strong.

Also in this episode:

• Thriving marriages require constant nurturing and should not be taken for granted, especially when life gets busy with careers and children.

• Having a fulfilling marriage is a learnable skill, essential for emotional and physical well-being; it's never too late to learn.

• Actionable advice includes holding hands, spooning, non-sexual caressing, and having regular relationship check-ins to maintain intimacy and connection.

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In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, you'll hear an interview of Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, MD and her husband Rodd, conducted by Aaron and Miranda on their podcast "Love After Lullabies" which focuses on intimacy tips for parents. They dive into the intricacies of maintaining intimacy, passion, and connection in marriage after children are born, providing guidance on how to navigate the challenges children can bring to a relationship.

Dr. Alexandra, Dr. Rodd, Miranda, and Aaron explore the impact of children on marital dynamics, specifically focusing on how to reignite passion and intimacy after the initial wave of adjusting to parenthood. They highlight a number of key strategies for any couple looking to reclaim their connection, from prioritizing meaningful touch and communication to adjusting family routines and fostering intimacy. 

Also in this episode:

• Embrace honest; vulnerable conversations about your needs and desires will foster intimacy.

• Be creative and flexible in finding time for intimacy, even if it means unconventional times and settings.

• Transform routine activities with a mindful approach to enhance the sense of connection and your shared intimacy.

About Miranda and Aaron from "Love After Lullabies" podcast

Miranda + Aaron are hosts of the podcast, Love After Lullabies, a podcast showcasing the real stories of how relationships change after having children. Miranda is a couples therapist in the state of Oregon and specializes in helping new or expectant couples maintain their relationship after baby. Aaron works in the financial industry and adds a different perspective to the conversations. Together they have two beautiful daughters and spend their free time camping, gardening or playing board games. Be sure to follow them on Instagram for all the behind scenes: https://www.instagram.com/loveafterlullabies/

Miranda's practice: https://www.livinggroovecounseling.com

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In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, MD, invites sleep specialist Dr. Funke Afolabi-Brown to delve into the intricate connections between sleep and the quality of your marriage. The conversation centers on how quality sleep enhances relationships by directly impacting communication, emotional closeness, and the sexual vitality of couples. They discuss exhaustion as a common culprit behind strained communication and dwindling sexual intimacy. Dr. Funke emphasizes the profound difference quality sleep can make in our interactions, overall well-being, mental and physical health. 

Also in this episode:

• The quality of sleep has a significant bearing on communication, intimacy, and sexual experiences within relationships.

• Sleep disturbances can be physiological and require medical attention, or behavioral, necessitating better time management and prioritization.

• Practicing healthy sleep habits, such as a consistent bedtime routine and minimizing screen time, improves sleep quality and by extension, relationship satisfaction.

About Dr. Funke Afolabi-Brown

Dr. Funke Afolabi-Brown is a distinguished triple board-certified sleep medicine physician and pediatric pulmonologist. She is the founder of RestfulSleepMD, where she helps high-achieving professionals and their children transform their relationship with sleep, moving from exhaustion to thriving in their families, careers, and relationships. Through her clinical practice at The Restful Sleep Place, along with coaching, speaking, and organizational consultation, Dr. Funke makes a significant impact on improving sleep health. A best-selling author, she has been featured on various media outlets, including ABC. Dr. Funke received her sleep medicine training at the University of Pennsylvania and is a Fellow of the American Academy of Sleep Medicine.

Learn More: https://www.restfulsleepmd.com/

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In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, interviews her husband, Rodd Stockwell, MD, and Victor Mangona, MD. Together with Victor's wife, Kate Mangona, MD, they have an honest and open discussion about how to support an ambitious wife. The men share the nuanced (and rarely articulated) experience of being married to a driven, ambitious, and growth-oriented woman–the challenges and the gratifications. Rodd and Victor share their thought processes, including initial skepticism and eventual support they've felt while navigating their wives' forays into personal growth and coaching. Ultimately it's been something that has had a profound and welcome impact on each of them and their relationships. The husbands are wonderfully frank in describing how they perceived their partners' personal growth journeys, and the consequent adjustments inspired within their marriages. This episode abounds with valuable insights on how to cultivate deeper emotional, sensual, and erotic intimacy with your spouse.

Also in this episode:

• The transformational impact personal growth of one spouse can have on the other, and on the marriage as a whole.

• Importance of supporting each individual's passions and pursuits in service of a sustainable and fulfilling marriage.

• Listening with openness, without feeling any pressure to fix or change one's partner.

• Strategies for integrating new practices when returning home from retreats without it feeling like an added burden on your marriage.

About Kate Mangona, MD

Dr. Kate Mangona is a board-certified pediatric radiologist, certified life & marriage coach, girl & poodle mom, real estate investor and the host of the Love Lab MD podcast and coaching program. When she is not reading pediatric imaging studies or helping physician moms argue less and reignite the sparks in their relationships, she is most likely dancing and singing with her three little girls and hubby:)

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In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by her husband, Rodd Stockwell, MD, to discuss empty nesting and its impact on their marriage. They reflect on a pivotal moment when Rodd expressed concern about what their relationship would look like once their children left home and they had more time with one another. Dr Alexandra expresses how this concern functioned as a catalyst for her to wake up and work on her marriage, eventually leading to her professional evolution and ongoing dedication to coaching couples toward deeper intimacy and strategies to keep the spark alive in long-lasting marriages.

Also in this episode:

• Becoming empty nesters brings up concerns about the basis of a couple's connection, but this transition offers an opportunity for growth and rediscovery.

• Time set aside for a couple's intimacy, like overnight dates, is crucial for maintaining and enhancing a romantic connection–this is the time when the children's needs no longer dominate your attention.

• Authentic communication and a deliberate focus on each other's desires transform the marriage dynamic ahead of and during the empty nest phase.

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In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD is joined by relationship and intimacy coaches, Jodie Milton and Reece Stockhausen to discuss emotional intimacy and the way they see relational happiness as rooted in emotional, not just physical, fulfillment. The discussion dives into the essence of passionate sex, debunking common myths perpetuated by culture and the media. They explore the intricate dance of intimacy and passion beyond surface level interactions, focusing on the emotional and sensual connection that results in fulfilling sexual experiences.

Also in this episode: 

• Passionate sex is more about the emotional and sensual connection than the physical act or performance.

• Elements such as presence, slowing down, and emotional intimacy are key ingredients to creating fulfilling and passionate sexual experiences.

• Regularly expressing appreciation, and desires, greatly deepens the connection between partners and fosters an environment for passionate sex to thrive.
  
  

About Jodie Milton & Reece Stockhausen
Jodie Milton & Reece Stockhausen are relationship and intimacy coaches and married co-creators of Practical Intimacy. Since 2014, they've helped hundreds of couples and over 1 million readers to have the best relationship possible, all while traveling full-time and running a business together. Their no-BS relationship advice draws upon the best research based-strategies, while also drawing upon insights from their own marriage.

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In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD talks about transforming everyday experiences into pleasurable moments. She explores the nuanced world of delight and pleasure within relationship, offering actionable insights for couples wanting to enhance emotional, sensual, and erotic intimacy. Dr. Alexandra makes distinctions in the best ways to pursue more pleasure when it comes to men versus women. She shares practical tips on how to incorporate sensual awareness into your daily life and how to enhance connection with your partner. 

Also in this episode:

• Cultivate a lifestyle that prioritizes sensory pleasure in order to enhance erotic intimacy.

• Simple actions like complimenting a partner, or smiling, profoundly impact intimacy and the quality of your marriage.

• Open communication and specificity when giving feedback significantly improves understanding and satisfaction in your relationship.

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In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD explores the vital role of intimate connection, when navigating struggles couples commonly encounter in their sexual relationship, particularly after facing significant life challenges such as infertility and loss. Offering gentle, compassionate guidance, she describes effective methods to recreate emotional, sensual, and erotic intimacy.

Dr. Alexandra discusses the challenges faced by couples when they experience disconnection during erotic intimacy. It often leads to functional sex rather than pleasure-driven passion. She  emphasizes the importance of reconnecting from a starting point of comfort and familiarity, slowly rekindling passion through tender, patient, calibrated moments together.

Also in this episode: 

• Recognize the impact of life events, such as infertility treatments and personal loss, on a couple's sexual intimacy.

• Understand the significance of starting with small, comfortable steps to re-establish physical connection.

• Acknowledge that both partners have changed throughout the challenging life circumstances, in unique ways, and the importance of integrating new aspects into the relationship.

• Utilize basic, soothing methods like eye gazing, hand-holding, or embracing, to facilitate a gradual and sustainable return to intimacy.

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In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD and Tilly Storm, focus on the pleasure principle as they explore ways to foster passionate relationships and venture into new dimensions of erotic intimacy. Tilly has extensive expertise in women's sexuality and guides couples to renew the spark and access more pleasure in their intimate lives. The two of them discuss "wholeness" as an essential ingredient for pleasure, ways to foster pleasure-positive attitudes in children, and marital challenges such as sexual incompatibility and how to talk about it. 

Also in this episode: 

• Normalizing the conversation around pleasure with children contributes to a healthier understanding of sexuality as they mature.

• Couples often experience a "turn on mismatch," which should be navigated by learning and understanding one another's erotic blueprints.

• Guided sex experiences are a safe, exploratory space for couples to reignite their sexual connection and learn new ways to engage with each other.

About Tilly Storm:

When not at home in Hollywood, FL, Tilly loves traveling the world with her 2 teenage boys for the next hot surf spot, and going on personal growth and development retreats with her life partner, Chris. Tilly's been studying women's bodies and sexuality for over 20 years, first as a pre-med biochemistry major and aspiring OB/GYN, then as a doula and midwife apprentice, and now as a somatic sex coach since 2017. After 350,000+ downloads on her podcast - The Multiorgasmic Millionaire, being voted one of the top 20 sex coaches in the world, and working with hundreds of paying clients, she's learned a lot about what it takes to help high-achieving women integrate things like lack of desire, shame, guilt, fear, and numbness and help them feel amazing in their body and sexuality.

Listen to my past episode discussing the Erotic Blueprints in detail:

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In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD discusses important considerations when it comes to creating fulfilling and passionate relationships. Dr. Alexandra describes how embracing failure and personal growth play pivotal roles in deepening marital connection. She emphasizes the value of learning from both failures and 'near wins' to achieve mastery. By analyzing potentially frustrating moments with curiosity and compassion, couples can reach new heights of intimacy and fulfillment. 

Also in this episode: 

• Embracing and learning from failures and 'near wins' enhances intimacy and connection.

• Self-acceptance is crucial for building and sustaining a thriving connection with your partner.

• Discomfort is a profound teacher, leading to self-discovery and a more robust connection with others.

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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

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In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD is joined by Dr. Ann Tsung for a deep dive into the art and science of achieving peak performance, in both our professional lives and our personal lives. The conversation transcends traditional concepts of peak performance, expanding into a more holistic approach to living optimally. The discussion explores the importance of enjoying moments of passion and connection with a spouse while maintaining momentum and advancement in a career. Such a balance requires aligning effort with the level of significance you give to your relationship.

Also in this episode:

• Harmonizing the level of effort, with the rank in importance for each area of your life, is crucial for peak performance in intimacy and marriage.

• Achieving peak performance requires focusing on all aspects of life, including health, financial freedom, emotional stability, and time management.

• Emotional intimacy is a prerequisite for sensual and erotic intimacy and is a major contributor to satisfaction and fulfillment in your relationship.

• Effective time management and honoring the intimate connection with your partner are vital for nurturing and maintaining a passionate relationship.

About Ann Tsung MD:

Ann Tsung MD is a NASA Flight Surgeon, Critical Care/Emergency Medicine physician, peak performance/productivity coach at Productivity MD, real estate investor, podcast show host of Productivity MD, and a mother of a 19-month-old. With a unique fusion of medical precision and entrepreneurial success, she guides top physician entrepreneurs to unlock over 10 hours a week, master their mindset, scale their businesses, and achieve unparalleled freedom and leadership excellence.

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Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

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In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD dives into the significance of sex in marriage and explores whether a sexless marriage can be a happy one. She breaks down the various dimensions of intimacy and connection within marriages, noting that societal trends show a decline in sexual activity. Even as collaborative companionship and emotional intimacy are crucial, the enriching experiences brought by sexual intimacy are invaluable. Dr. Stockwell notes that some couples attempt to overcome challenges and dissatisfaction in sex by opening their marriage, and others do so by letting go of sex–the most fulfilling option is to learn how to have really great sex with your partner so that you want more and more of it!

Also in this episode:

• Emotional and physical intimacy are both essential components of a thriving marriage.

• Societal trends show a decline in sexual activity, but individual fulfillment should not be dictated by statistics.

• Enhancing one's sex life and relationship quality are learnable skills requiring attention and intention

• Building emotional intimacy sets the foundation for improved sexual connections.

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Interview on Erotic Blueprints:

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In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD dives into confidence and how it shapes success in love and life. She sheds light on the crucial role of self-confidence and how attractive it is within intimate relationships, and more specifically, how it plays out among ambitious, educated couples. 

Dr Alexandra explores the common scenario where one partner craves more from their relationship while the other seems content with the status quo. She provides guidance on how to reignite passion and cultivate a deeper sense of self-worth, emphasizing the magnetic power of confidence as one of the ultimate keys to a more fulfilling and vibrant partnership. 

Also in this episode:

• Confidence is the most attractive quality in a partner and a fundamental ingredient for a passionate and thriving marriage.

• Seeking affirmation and validation from a partner creates an unhealthy parent-child dynamic, which is detrimental for erotic connection.

• The best course of action for someone feeling needy or rejected is to focus on developing their own sense of value and self-worth.

• Bringing one's confident, successful self (with authenticity, not bravado) from your professional life into your personal relationship is a pivot that will result in a significant improvement in intimacy.

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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

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In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD dives into the intriguing subject of evolving desires within marriages. The conversation offers a deep dive into understanding, embracing, and communicating our desires, especially as they change over time.

Dr Alexandra touches upon the natural progression of tastes and preferences, illustrating how something as simple as a shift in food likes can symbolize the broader dynamic of changing desires. She then moves on to explore the more complex and sensitive evolution of sexual preferences within a committed relationship while emphasizing the importance of open communication and adaptability.

Also in this episode:

• Rather than judging or ignoring shifting desires, it's important to acknowledge them and consciously choose how to respond.

• Sexual preferences and needs can change as relationships mature, and discussing these changes enhances intimacy.

• Approach conversations about changing desires with respect, connection, and collaboration.

• Growth and change in preferences are normal, and sharing these developments leads to a more fulfilling relationship.

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https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

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In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, responds to questions submitted by listeners, providing  emotional and erotic intimacy insights to help improve your marriage. The themes of the questions are varied, as they focus on the role of commitment when it comes to creating intimacy, the pursuit of individual passions and hobbies when a partner isn't interested but wants to do things together, and the impact of birth trauma in rebuilding your sexual connection.

Also in this episode:

• The crucial role of commitment in enhancing intimacy.

• The pursuit of individual passions and hobbies is advocated for, provided they contribute positively to marital fulfillment.

• The significance of gentle, patient healing and reconnection.

• The necessity of open, curious, and non-blaming communication when differences in marital commitment and desires arise.

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Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, explores the critical role of adopting a growth mindset in mastering emotional and erotic intimacy within marriage. Offering actionable advice and insights that challenge conventional perspectives, she guides listeners on how to effectively engage their partners in conversations aimed at enriching their marriage. By positioning a growth mindset as a powerful agent for transformation, Dr. Alexandra encourages her audience to transcend the ordinary, with her strategies to enhance emotional, sensual, and erotic intimacy in relationship.

Also in this episode:

• Embrace a growth mindset to transform and elevate intimacy in your marriage.

• Learn effective communication strategies to encourage reluctant partners to entertain the concept of relationship coaching.

• Understand the significance of recognizing strengths in your relationship as a prelude to discussing areas for improvement.

Sign up for my live masterclass: https://alexandrastockwell.com/masterclass

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Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD discusses rejuvenating and expanding erotic connection as an essential means for transforming your marriage. She invites educated and successful couples looking to infuse their marriages with passion and aliveness to embrace unfamiliarity and creativity. 

Dr. Alexandra draws on her personal and professional experience to offer listeners unique perspectives on cultivating a deeply intimate and satisfying marital bond. She stresses the importance of spontaneity and letting go of control as keys for deepening intimacy. Dr. Alexandra's transformative advice on transitioning from neutral companionship to a juicy passionate marital connection is full of inspiration and actionable suggestions.

Also in this episode: 

• Erotic connection is fueled by creativity and spontaneity, not just in sexuality but in everyday interactions as well. 

• Embracing the unexpected, trying new things, and allowing pleasure to infuse life leads to an enhanced erotic and sensual connection.

• Establishing variety and non-routine experiences rejuvenates the passionate energy in a marriage, thereby reviving erotic intimacy.

• Inviting your partner to partake in new modes of erotic expression strengthens intimacy and deepens the sensual bonds you share.

Sign up for my live masterclass now and learn 5 Essential Lessons from 28 Years of Marriage to Help You Go From Companions to Lovers: https://alexandrastockwell.com/masterclass

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Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

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In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD dives into the profound impact that small, thoughtful gestures can have on creating a deeper connection in marriage. She emphasizes that such acts don't have to be expensive or time-consuming, as the smallest deeds are sometimes the most significant in nurturing a deep connection between partners. Put differently, small gestures are the seeds which grow into emotional, sensual, and erotic intimacy blossoms.

Dr. Alexandra brings up the concept that 'Small is Beautiful,' explaining how minor, deliberate actions—like turning on an outside light or sending an estimated time of arrival—can express profound love and care in a relationship. She provides practical advice on how couples can integrate these minor but mighty acts of love into their daily routine to enhance closeness and connection.

Also in this episode:

• Small, easy gestures in daily life have a huge impact on the emotional and intimate connection in a marriage.

• Consistency in these acts is key, not the complexity or grandeur of the gesture.

• Romantic gestures don't need to be spontaneous; they can be planned and scheduled by the giver while still allowing for a feeling of spontaneity and surprise for the one receiving them.

• The 'no pain, no gain' philosophy does not apply when cultivating relationships; well chosen, simple acts, which require minimal effort, can yield significant results.

Sign up for my live masterclass now and learn 5 Essential Lessons from 28 Years of Marriage to Help You Go From Companions to Lovers: https://alexandrastockwell.com/masterclass

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Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here:
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Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD dives into the importance of communication and how essential it is in creating a passionate marriage. She describes ways to adjust how you listen so as to evoke more depth, meaning, and intimacy in what your partner shares with you.

Dr. Alexandra is a seasoned expert when it comes to fostering deep connection in couples. Drawing on her experience as a physician, relationship and intimacy coach, and her own 27-year marriage, she describes common misconceptions that often play out in marital discourse and how to avoid them.

Also in this episode: 

• Successful communication in marriage results at least as much from how we listen, as from how we speak.
• A partner's actions can be a powerful expression of love; learning to 'listen' to these actions enhances connection, appreciation, and intimacy.
• Simple shifts in a listener's perspective can resolve misunderstandings and open doors to deeper emotional intimacy.
• The concept of "generous listening" is a strategy which leads to richer layers of meaning and feelings of connection while in conversation with your spouse.

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Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here:
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Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, invites educated, successful couples to revitalize their marriage as she guides them to experience new heights of emotional, sensual, and erotic intimacy. 

Emphasizing the unique nature of investing when it comes to your relationship, Dr. Alexandra describes how such investments yield both immediate and long-term returns. Through personal anecdotes and testimonials, she encourages listeners to nurture their marriages, detailing the transformational journey involved in going from a good relationship to a great one. If you're looking for the key to unlock passion in your marriage, this episode is for you.

Also in this episode: 

• Investing in relationships offers immediate and long-term returns, a unique benefit compared to other kinds of investments ie. stocks and bonds.
• Relationship satisfaction, growth, and intimacy can be substantially improved through intentionally investing time and attention to improve communication and increase affection.
• Achieving a deeply satisfying marriage is a learnable skill, accessible through focused effort, and sometimes couples coaching
• Intimacy within marriage greatly contributes to personal fulfillment and establishing the legacy of your soul, in the process enhancing both your individual and shared satisfaction in life.

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Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, delves into the shortcomings of traditional sex education and proposes a new paradigm for learning about sexual intimacy. She discusses the importance of emotional intimacy, experimentation, and releasing preconceived notions about sexuality to craft an artful, gratifying sexual experience. The episode also highlights the crucial role parents have in ensuring their children receive an education that encompasses pleasure, consent, and respect within sexual encounters.

Also in this episode:

• Knowing one's anatomy is fundamental, but exploring the feelings and experiences surrounding the act of sex is what truly enriches intimacy.

• Parents should be proactive in educating their children about the deeper aspects of sex, tailoring the conversation to their family culture and values.

• While traditional sex ed is important for scientific accuracy and health awareness, it falls short in areas of pleasure, connection, and passion.

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Referenced in the episode:

Women's Anatomy of Arousal by Sheri Winston: https://amzn.to/3jpUvZe 

Listen to Episode 128: Embodied Sexuality, with Sheri Winston https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/128-embodied-sexuality-how-to-connect-with-your-partner-through-enjoying-more-satisfying-sexual-experiences-w-sheri-winston/

Listen to Episode 129: Understanding the Complexity of the Sexual Differences between Men and Women

 https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/understanding-the-complexity-of-the-sexual-differences-between-men-and-women-feat-sheri-winston/

Listen to Episode 137: How to Elevate Married Sex from Good to Great

https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/how-to-elevate-married-sex-from-good-to-great-with-expertise-from-an-intimacy-coach/

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Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here:
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Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, explores the profound effect that a loving and intimate parental relationship has on children. Alexandra highlights the naturalness of affection within the family setting, and describes the astonishment of those who have never witnessed such intimacy between their own parents.

This episode stresses the importance of nurturing the spousal relationship for its own sake and also as a gift to one's children. She also challenges the traditional notion that children should always come first at the expense of the couple's connection. 

Also in this episode:

• A strong marital bond is essential for providing children with a positive model for their future relationships.

• Prioritizing the relationship with your spouse does not detract from your children; rather, it benefits them by demonstrating a healthy, loving partnership.

• Intimacy and affection in front of children, when natural and appropriate, contributes to a nurturing family environment.

• It's important to find a balance between focusing on your children and nurturing your marital relationship. Doing so supports the healthy development of a child's identity.

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Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here:
https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl

Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD and Annie Lalla discuss how to enhance emotional intimacy in relationships. Annie shares her insights on the importance of emotional fitness and how feelings manifest as physical sensations in the body. She describes subconscious fears that often keep couples from experiencing deeper intimacy, and provides actionable advice on overcoming these barriers.

They also delve into the intricate dynamics of power within relationships, discussing how unresolved power imbalances can manifest as sexual disinterest or withholding.

Also in this episode:

• The speed of recovery from an upset or conflict is a key indicator of emotional fitness in a relationship.

• Exploring and addressing unconscious power dynamics within a relationship is crucial to resolving sexual disinterest and enhancing intimacy.

• Even in busy lives, short but fully present moments significantly enhance intimate connection.

• Sexual intimacy is essential for nourishing the relationship, just as food is to a growing child. 

• Addressing emotional disconnections revitalizes sexual desire.
  
  

Connect with Annie Lalla:

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www.annielalla.com 

https://www.instagram.com/lallabird/

About Annie Lalla:

As a cutting edge Relationship Coach, Annie maps the complexities of romance and upgrades emotional skills. Specializing in love, sex & conflict resolution, Annie's created a suite of practical tools that resolve unconscious relational patterns, attachment wounds and recurrent conflict. She helps clients cultivate relational esteem and develop collaboration skills that go beyond power struggles, shame or blame. Annie is a fierce stand for creating intimate relationships that last a lifetime.

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Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here:
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Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

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In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, dives into the intricate connection between individual happiness and the quality of marital relationships. She begins by dismissing a common misconception, namely that our happiness depends on our partner's behavior and actions. With a blend of anecdotes, research, and practical advice, Alexandra invites listeners to explore how personal fulfillment can blossom from within and subsequently enrich marital bonds. 

Furthermore, she shares an enticing announcement about her free Valentine's Day course which she designed to help you boost romance and joy during the upcoming season of love, as she invites everyone to participate and spread the word.

Also in this episode:

• Marriage happiness is not contingent on a partner's behavior but on being a happy and fulfilled individual.

• Increased income contributes to happiness more in those who are already happy. Alexandra posits a similar trend in marital satisfaction.

• Four aspects to consider when increasing personal happiness: spiritual, mental, emotional, and physical.

• Feelings of appreciation need to be internalized in order for marital changes to positively impact happiness levels.

Sign up for the FREE Valentine's Day course: https://hubs.ly/Q02kpFxK0

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Website | Linkedin | Instagram

Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here:
https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl

Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, invites Bob Gardner to share his innovative and intriguing perspective on cultivating passion and aliveness in relationships. Bob shares his transformational journey from enduring years of shame and personal distress to removing the inner shackles and attaining the zenith of inner freedom. His teachings, influenced by the resilient ethos of Russian Cossacks, revolve around alchemizing one's bodily and emotional responses to stress. Bob emphasizes the power of direct experience and the liberation from internal constraints, affirming that freedom is indeed a learnable skill, one that stokes passion for life and relationship.

• Understanding the separation between one's thoughts and reality is key to experiencing life beyond self-imposed limitations.

• Freedom from internal tensions can be learned and embodied, rather than just tolerated or willed through.

• Bob Gardner explains the significance of training the body and mind to respond calmly to stressful stimuli through rigorous practices.

About Bob Gardner:

Bob Gardner is the Founder of The Freedom Specialist, a body-based approach to happiness, health, and well-being on auto-pilot. He is also the author of the book Built for Freedom and host of the podcast Alive and Free.

After 18 years of being trapped in addictive patterns, and on the brink of both divorce and suicide, something inside Bob told him it was not time to quit just yet. So, against the prevailing wisdom that said these problems are permanent, Bob chose to create a way to permanently eliminate them from his life. His body-based, no-nonsense approach to freedom has since helped thousands of people leave their struggles behind and find real freedom and happiness. 

Visit his website: http://www.thefreedomspecialist.com

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Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here:
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Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
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In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, explores a question that frequently murmurs in the back of many couples' minds: "How often should we be having sex? What's normal?" With an enlightening approach, Alexandra delves into the complexities underneath this question, offering both men and women advice on how to find the answer that best suits their unique relationship, and desires. She encourages listeners to shift their focus from quantity to quality, emphasizing the importance of creating sexual experiences that both partners look forward to.

• The "normal" frequency of sex in a marriage is subjective and should be based on mutual satisfaction, not societal expectations.

• Quality of sexual experiences is far more important than frequency although they are deeply interconnected.

• Couples with differing sexual desires should work together to create gratifying experiences, seeking external guidance as needed.

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Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here:
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Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by Kate Mangona, MD, to discuss the importance of getting away from your usual routine to be in a beautiful place, engaging in meaningful activities, as a means to uplevel your relationship.

They share their personal experiences with retreats and the transformative impact they have had on their own marriages. This inspired them to create a retreat for couples, which they are calling Honeymoon 2.0. It's for couples who are looking to enhance an already strong connection as well as those wanting to reignite a passion that has faded over time. They highlight the importance of progress in relationships and the positive impact it can have on overall happiness in life.

• The Honeymoon 2.0 retreat in Maui is an opportunity for couples to deepen their connection and enhance their intimacy.
• The retreat offers couples an opportunity for growth and transformation, as progress is the key to happiness in relationships.
• The retreat will include a variety of activities, coaching sessions, and opportunities for couples to spend quality time together.

About Kate Mangona, MD:

Dr. Kate Mangona is a double board-certified pediatric radiologist, supportive physician's wife and mother to three little girls and a mini poodle. She and her husband Victor, a pediatric radiation oncologist and tax code enthusiast, are active and passive real estate investors in thousands of multifamily units and single-family rentals including 3 luxury Airbnbs.

As a certified life & marriage coach, Kate hosts the Medicine, Marriage & Money podcast and leads Medicine, Marriage, & Money Coaching Programs where she helps married physician parents spend less time arguing with their spouse, and more time reigniting the sparks once felt during their honeymoon. She empowers physician mothers to stop stewing in anger, defensiveness, and resentment so they can create more time for love, vacations, & investing! After working with Kate, high-achieving Mothers have the tools necessary to minimize arguments even during conflict and design the life and relationships they crave.

Visit her website: www.medicinemarriageandmoney.com

Follow her on Insta: @katemangonamd

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Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, discusses the importance of the brain in sexual pleasure and intimacy. She emphasizes it's the most important organ for sexual pleasure, as it determines how we think about sex and where we focus our attention during sexual experiences. Alexandra provides practical tips to bring the mind back into the present moment during sex, such as focusing on the breath and putting attention on your body. 

• Slow down and connect with your partner to enhance intimacy and sync up during sexual experiences.
• Communicate your desires and make requests respectfully and simply.
• For optimal pleasure and connection, shift from the vigilant state of the sympathetic nervous system to the relaxation of the parasympathetic nervous system.

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https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

In the final episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast in 2023, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, answers questions from listeners. You've asked about a variety of topics including how to maintain passion when life is really busy, clarification about the meaning of the word "connection," ways to bring wildness and passion into the bedroom, and tips to stay happy when a partner is overwhelmed and unavailable. Alexandra provides insights and practical advice to help you navigate these challenges and create a thriving, intimate marriage.

• When it comes to cultivating passion in your marriage, motivate yourself by inspiration rather than desperation.
• Connection is all about creating a sense of belonging and trust between partners.
• Root yourself in your own sensuality to stay relaxed and happy when your partner is overwhelmed and unavailable.
• To avoid internally contracting, men often need to learn to trust themselves, without seeking validation from their partners.
  
  

Learn More About Aligned & Hot Marriage: www.alignedhotmarriage.com (Instead of $599, use coupon code HOLIDAY by Jan 2 and access the program for just $197)

Contact Dr. Alexandra: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/

Listen To Episode 48: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/the-delight-in-scheduled-intimacy/

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https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by her husband, Rodd Stockwell, MD, to discuss a common dynamic in relationships where powerful, intelligent, ambitious women tend to take charge and express their desires, while their men respond with acquiescence and overwhelm. 

Rodd shares how Alexandra's emotions used to be overwhelming for him. He would look to her for guidance navigating the intensity but didn't like what he found. Alexandra explains that this dynamic often leads to resentment and unhealthy coping mechanisms. They discuss the importance of men cultivating their own point of view and valuing it as highly as their partner's.

Rodd describes aiming to be like an oak tree in the face of his wife's stormy intensity, and how this has brought more stability and connection to their relationship.

• Men should cultivate their own point of view and value it equally to their partner's perspective.
• Recognize your own response in intense situations and practice being an oak tree, rooted in your own reality.
• Being emotionally stable will help both of you.

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Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, discusses the importance of intimacy in a marriage, especially during the holiday season. She shares four rituals that couples can practice to enhance their connection, pleasure, and intimacy, to feel closer and happier with one another. 

These rituals include ways of embracing, presence and eye gazing, connecting with one another at the end of each day, and engaging in sensual exploration in the bedroom. Alexandra emphasizes the need for intentionality and open communication in implementing each of these rituals, which can be done individually, or in any combinations.

Also in this episode:

• Embrace for at least 20 seconds every day to increase connection and reduce stress.
• Practice eye gazing as a way to enhance attraction and deepen the feeling of connection.
• Ask each other about something important from your day to foster meaningful conversation and understanding.
• Engage in sensual exploration in the bedroom, taking turns as the giver and receiver, as you enjoy various sensations.
  
  

Enroll in "Holiday Passion: The Art of Uncompromising Intimacy amidst crazy year-end schedules and seasonal stress": www.alexandrastockwell.com/masterclass

This is Dr. Alexandra's FREE Masterclass which will occur on December 14th at 1 PM PST–if you can't make it live, sign up anyway to receive the replay.

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Contact Dr. Alexandra: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/

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Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.

In this episode, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, discusses the importance of navigating the holiday season in a way that nurtures and enhances intimacy and passion in your marriage. She shares two influential stories that highlight the challenges couples face and the impact it can have on your relationship. 

Alexandra offers insights and strategies for creating a more enjoyable and fulfilling holiday experience with your partner. She also invites listeners to join her free masterclass, "Holiday Passion: The Art of Uncompromising Intimacy Amidst Crazy Year-End Schedules and Seasonal Stress."

Also in this episode: 

• The holidays can be complicated for couples due to the convergence of conscious and unconscious desires and disappointments.
• Many couples experience stress and exhaustion during the holiday season, which can negatively impact their relationship.
• It is important for couples to prioritize their own enjoyment and connection during the holidays, rather than solely focusing on creating a magical experience for others.
• Couples should have open and honest conversations about their expectations and their hopes and dreams for the holidays to ensure both partners feel fulfilled and supported.

Enroll in "Holiday Passion: The Art of Uncompromising Intimacy amidst crazy year-end schedules and seasonal stress" www.alexandrastockwell.com/masterclass

This is Dr. Alexandra's FREE Masterclass which will occur on December 14th at 1 PM PST–if you can't make it live, sign up anyway to receive the replay.

Video of mother who got a robe: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FOVCtUdaMCU

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Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here:
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Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD

In this episode, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by two awesome humans. It's a young millennial couple, with a great relationship, who chose to enroll in the Aligned and Hot Marriage program to support them in building lasting love. 

This couple's bond was strong before we met, but they wanted more tools to cultivate a deeper emotional connection, and to be able to navigate their disagreements with more care. Through participating in the program, they discovered deeper layers of vulnerability and enjoyed more open communication than ever before. Along the way they transformed their relationship, including bringing more joy and intimacy into their interactions. In our conversation, they share the valuable lessons they learned, and the unexpected passion that blossomed. This is a heartwarming and insightful episode on how to build an aligned and passionate marriage, from the beginning!

Also in this episode:

• The couple's dedication to personal growth supports them in continuously strengthening their bond.

• Embracing vulnerability and open communication creates a deeper understanding of one  another's true selves.

• The Aligned and Hot Marriage program provides tools to bridge gaps and create a more aligned and passionate relationship.

• How the Aligned & Hot Marriage program unexpectedly rekindled passion and excitement in their relationship.

• Supporting each other's growth, while standing firm in their convictions, seemed scary at first but it has enriched their connection.
  
  

The couple discovered their love keeps growing, beyond what they imagined. They look forward to a future of continuous growth and intimacy.

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Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD discusses  female orgasms in great detail, in honor of National Orgasm Day. She explores the origins of the day, various types of orgasms, and the differences between "masculine" and "feminine" orgasms. She also explores different types of orgasms, emphasizing that the classification is based on the anatomy and physiology being stimulated. Dr. Alexandra speaks on one way to enhance orgasmic potential, namely slow, deep breathing, as she encourages listeners to explore new realms of erotic intimacy with their partners.

Also in this episode:

• Feminine orgasms are diverse and often misunderstood, requiring an open perspective to fully appreciate their complexity.

• Unlike masculine orgasms, feminine orgasms can be non-linear, with varied patterns of arousal, climax, and resolution.

• Deep, slow breathing can significantly enhance one's ability to experience richer and more fulfilling orgasms.

• For many couples and individuals, male and female, they aspire to the typical masculine orgasm model that aims for climax. But in fact, some of the richest, expansive, erotically vital experiences happen with a more feminine approach to orgasm.

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Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here:
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Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
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This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

In this episode, Alexandra Stockwell, MD talks with Dr. Weili Gray about her realization that tomorrow isn't promised, an insight which arose while grieving her father. She subsequently decided to make each day count and began crossing things off her bucket list, which has had an incredible, positive impact on her marriage and family life. Dr. Gray shares how she transformed her day to day life from burnout and passionless routines to one filled with excitement and fulfillment, including multiple international trips and other adventures.

They also explore the vital message of embracing personal differences in relationships and learning to respect one another without judgment or trying to get a partner to change. Dr. Gray highlights the importance of shifting one's perspective to view your partner as a lover and companion in every moment of life. Ultimately, Dr. Gray's story is an inspiring example of how personal growth and a change in perspective lead to a massive uplevel in family dynamics as well as the cultivation of a passionate and deeply intimate marriage.

Also in this episode:

• Embrace differences in a relationship, and love despite them.

• See your partner as attractive in everyday situations.

• Live life fully, and don't take anything for granted.

• Personal growth and desire fuel passion in marriage.

• Travel is energizing and expands your humanity.

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Dare to Dream Physician Travel Facebook Community (for Physicians):

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About Dr. Weili Gray:

Meet Dr. Weili Gray (pronounced "Way Lee"), a dreamer and physician who experienced burnout and now happily practices sleep medicine in Vermont's tranquil countryside. With her husband and three kids, she crafts a dream life brimming with family adventures and extraordinary experiences, sprinkling a touch of magic to every moment.

Beyond practicing medicine at a rural critical access hospital, Dr. Gray founded Dare to Dream Physician to empower fellow doctors to dream big and embrace life through travel. She's all about boosting physician wellness and shares her wisdom on stages and her inspirational weekly podcast called "Dare to Dream Physician Travel Podcast"

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Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD discusses the concept of everyday eroticism and how it can transform a relationship. She shares her personal journey of discovering the importance of integrating erotic energy into all aspects of life, not just during sexual encounters. 

Alexandra emphasizes the need for couples to tap into the reservoir of erotic fulfillment and create a deep connection that extends beyond the bedroom. She explains that everyday eroticism is about feeling whole, integrated, and alive in all aspects of oneself, including your erotic and sexual self. Alexandra invites listeners to explore the idea of everyday eroticism and shares how coaching will serve you when you're ready to uplevel your relationship.

Also in this episode:

• Everyday eroticism means feeling sexy, joyful and empowered every day, not just during sexual encounters.

• Integrating erotic energy into all aspects of life creates a deep connection and fulfillment in a relationship.

• It is possible to tap into the reservoir of erotic fulfillment and create a richly erotic experience in everyday life.

• Everyday eroticism is different for everyone, no journey is the same.

• Working with a coach can help couples learn new ways of being and create the change you desire in your relationship.

Does everyday eroticism appeal to you? Do you want to explore working with me? Tell me a little about you and your relationship and I'll be sure to respond:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/


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Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights, and opportunities to learn with her: 
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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD and her husband Rodd Stockwell, MD dive into the deeply personal territory of welcoming their future son-in-law into the family when he asked for their daughter's hand in marriage. They touch on the nuanced process of preparing for the conversation, the emotional dynamics involved, and the broader cultural and personal implications of such a significant exchange. 

Together, Dr Alexandra and Dr Rodd reflect on the experience knowing the importance of mutual respect and wanting to be intentional in meeting him with curiosity and open-hearted support. Dr Alexandra shares anecdotes that underline her professional insights, while Dr Rodd emphasizes the significance of being fully present and supportive, not just during the marriage proposal conversation but throughout the entire marital journey. 

Also In This Episode

• Prepare for important conversations by identifying clear goals and adopting a supportive mindset.

• Approach discussions with future family members as opportunities to genuinely understand and respect one another's perspectives.

• Focus on giving your blessing and support, rather than "permission," as a way of respecting the sovereignty of your children.

• Use significant conversations as a way to build deeper connections and nourish support systems within the family.

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Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
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This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD unveils the secrets to rekindling passion and maintaining intimacy after baby. Dr. Alexandra is joined by Jessi Sletten from "Empowering Postpartum." Together they dive into the challenges new parents face, particularly in preserving intimacy and emotional connection during the postpartum period.

Jessi and Dr. Alexandra explore how vulnerability and intentionality can profoundly impact marital happiness, especially when navigating the complexities of parenthood. They emphasize the importance of non-sexual physical touch, clear communication, and emotional presence in a relationship and share practical strategies to enhance intimacy beyond sexual intercourse, focusing on evolving the emotional and physical connection.

Connect with Jessi:

Empowering Postpartum Coaching: https://empoweringpostpartum.com/empoweringpostpartumcoaching/

Instagram: 

https://www.instagram.com/empowering_postpartum/

Facebook: 

https://www.facebook.com/jessislettenpostpartumcoach

Youtube: 

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-mF76_lzBc9TIzWFE-y7qw

Also in this episode:

• Resuming intimacy postpartum requires redefining what intimacy means beyond sexual intercourse.

• Emotional connection and clear communication are vital to maintaining a healthy relationship during the postpartum period.

• Couples should approach intimacy with flexibility and without specific goals, focusing on mutual satisfaction.

About Jessi Sletten: Jessi Sletten, CLC, PMH-C, is a passionate postpartum empowerment coach and host of the Live Television show: Empowering Postpartum with Jessi Sletten. Jessi guides new and pregnant moms through the transition into motherhood so that they can bond with their baby without sacrificing their own self-care.  

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Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
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This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, addresses the importance of feeling desirable in your marriage. Dr. Alexandra shares insights on how women can feel more desirable and desired within committed partnerships while emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and self-care; they are the foundations for creating vibrant, intimate connections with your spouse. She explains that feeling desirable is an inside job and offers practical strategies for women to enhance their intimate connections. 

Also in this episode:

• Feeling "desirable" is an inside job, and doesn't only rely on external validation from a partner.

• Women should know what activities and experiences make them feel alive and sexy and incorporate them into their daily routines.

• Practices such as warm baths, dancing, and spending time with friends can significantly boost a woman's sense of desirability.

• While your self-esteem is your responsibility, discussing what you want and how you feel with your partner enhances mutual understanding and builds intimacy.

Learn More in Dr. Alexandra's $11 course: 
Desires: Awaken The Woman Within: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/desires 

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Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here:
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Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

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In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, delves into the crucial topic of balancing stress and intimacy in relationships. She discusses the importance of deeper connections to create more passionate relationships and provides tips on cultivating emotional intimacy and other common issues faced by most couples. 

Dr. Alexandra answers a series of listener questions, covering topics such as enjoying intimacy while managing multiple external stressors, reviving a sexless partnership, reconnecting with desire after an emotional upheaval, and exploring "outercourse" as a fulfilling sexual experience. Dr. Alexandra emphasizes the importance of honest communication, personal exploration, and celebrating various forms of physical intimacy in service of passion in a long-lasting relationship.

Also in this episode:

• Discover personal rituals to transition from daily stress to intimate time with your partner.

• Learn how "outercourse" can be as fulfilling as traditional intercourse, especially for those experiencing physical challenges.

• Embrace your emotions and reconnect with your desire through self-compassion and allow space for new sexual experiences.

• Integrate personal growth and emotional experiences into your intimate life for a more holistic connection with your partner.

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In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, addresses various complexities when navigating libido mismatch. She offers easily implemented advice and practical strategies for nurturing emotional, sensual, and erotic intimacy in long-term relationships. 

Dr. Alexandra emphasizes the importance of emotional intimacy and relaxation as prerequisites for a fulfilling sexual relationship and answers listener questions about mismatched sexual desires and the challenges of intimate time with adult children around. Learn how to resensitize your clitoris and discover ways to carve out safe, private spaces that allow your intimate connections to thrive, ensuring a vibrant marital bond despite inconveniences and constraints.

Also in this episode:

• Emotional intimacy acts as a cornerstone for rekindling sexual desire in long-term relationships.

• Establish deliberate, scheduled private time to address intimacy barriers related to children or other adult relatives living at home.

• Balancing individual sensual pleasure practices significantly improves overall relationship satisfaction.

• Effective communication about needs and vulnerabilities fosters deeper emotional and physical connection between partners.

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In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, MD discusses how to reimagine date nights. She challenges conventional thinking and advocates for more intentional, meaningful relationship-building activities. This must-listen episode is perfect for any couple eager to strengthen their bond beyond routine and uninspired outings. Dr. Alexandra critiques the overly simplistic view of date nights as a magic cure-all for relationship woes and offers invaluable advice for couples at every stage—whether they're struggling to find time for each other or looking to elevate an already strong relationship. She encourages couples to tailor their quality time to suit their unique needs, whether it's through shared adventures, intimate conversations, or even taking naps together.

Also in this episode:

• Traditional date nights are not a cure-all and need to be intentional and customized to benefit the relationship.

• Focus on meaningful interactions rather than simply spending time together if you want to cultivate emotional and sensual intimacy.

• Discover activities that bring joy and connection, like learning new skills together, engaging in heartfelt conversations, or even spending quiet, restful time in each other's company.

• Reserve date nights for enriching dialogues and avoid logistics and other routine discussions.

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In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, MD and Erica Bove, MD discuss the concept of sensual awakening. Together, they explore the complexities of balancing a high-powered professional life with the emotional demands of romantic relationships, emphasizing nurturing connection despite hectic schedules and times apart. This episode provides a variety of practical strategies to help couples preserve intimacy and passion, even in the face of busyness and other common challenges. 

Also in this episode:

• Strategies and perspectives on keeping romance alive with professional responsibilities and physical distance.

• Introducing the Rose, Bud, Thorn exercise and the importance of matching communication styles to avoid misunderstandings.

• Practical ways to pivot from feeling obligated in daily check-ins to making them meaningful and connective.

• Techniques to awaken sensuality and presence despite a very busy schedule.

• Understanding that the pace of a relationship doesn't need to fit a predefined timeline; it's best to trust the organic progression.

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About the Guest:

Erica Bove, MD, is a double board certified OB-GYN and Reproductive Endocrinologist (REI) physician at the University of Vermont, as well as a certified life coach through The Life Coach School. She is also the founder of Love and Science: Thriving Through Infertility. She has a keen interest in marrying an evidence-based approach with intuitive knowing in the context of a trusting relationship. She empowers professional women to build their families with confidence and self compassion. Her mission is to heal and support the healers and to create a legacy she is proud of. If you're curious: Undergrad: University of Notre Dame Med school: University of Vermont Residency: New York Presbyterian Hospital-Columbia Fellowship: University of Michigan.

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In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, MD, addresses politically polarized marriages, offering perspectives and strategies for navigating political disagreements with your spouse, especially during the 2024 presidential election. She shares insights from her own experiences in her family, and times spent living in rural Kansas in a community with members holding different political, religious, and educational values than her own. Dr. Alexandra emphasizes prioritizing connection over content as she shows couples how to maintain intimacy and respect even when they support different political parties. 

This episode provides practical advice for couples facing major differences in opinions whether it's in a politically polarized marriage or on other issues, and offers guidance on how to leverage your differences in order to build a stronger, more connected relationship.

Also in this episode:

• Learn strategies for maintaining a respectful and loving marriage despite political disagreements.

• Focus on the foundation of your relationship by appreciating differences and aim to deeply understand each other rather than trying to change one another's viewpoints.

• Engage in structured conversations about political viewpoints with set start and end times, and avoid discussions when emotions are high.
  
  

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In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, MD, explores the hidden addictions of high performers with guest Roland Cochrun, focusing on the complex issue of sex and porn addiction and how it plays out in the lives of highly successful individuals. Dr. Alexandra sets the stage for a profound discussion on addiction, recovery, and sustaining fulfilling relationships. Roland shares his personal journey and the innovative strategies he has developed to support high achievers in overcoming sex and porn addictions. Together, they articulate the multifaceted nature of these addictions, highlighting the differences between substance addictions and process addictions. Roland sheds light on how societal norms and masculine stereotypes contribute to the development of addictive behaviors, and underscores the importance of tailored recovery pathways for high-performing individuals.

Also in this episode:

• Discussion on how societal expectations and masculine norms influence and perpetuate addictive behaviors.

• The importance of creating recovery programs that cater specifically to the lifestyles and needs of high achievers.

• The successful outcomes of high achievers who commit to recovery and the significant improvements they experience in their relationships.
  
  

About the Guest:

Roland Cochrun is the founder of The Successful Addict, a specialized sex and porn addiction recovery program tailored for high achievers and entrepreneurs. Recognizing the crucial role of human connection in recovery, Roland established a mastermind-style group that brings together like-minded men on their journey to overcome addiction. His program offers a deeply connected support network, featuring weekly calls, daily accountability, and transformative 4-day in-person retreats. With a focus on finding your tribe, Roland's approach empowers high achievers and entrepreneurs to achieve long-term recovery and reclaim their lives. If you are a high performer seeking a supportive community and a path to sustained recovery, The Successful Addict is the group for you - https://successfuladdict.com

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In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, explores the impact of multitasking drains the depth and efficiency of work and she dives into how this shows up in marital interactions. She discusses the importance of giving undivided attention in communication and the profound impact it has on resolving conflicts and deepening connection. Dr Alexandra offers listeners concrete steps to enhance their connection and intimacy by avoiding the pitfalls of multitasking and opting for more successful strategies while in conversation.

Tune in to learn how compartmentalizing perspectives and fostering genuine curiosity can break through a relational impasse, thus paving the way for uncompromising intimacy. 

Also in this episode: 

• Multitasking during conversations with your spouse diminishes the quality and efficiency of interactions, just as it does in professional settings.
• Giving full attention to one's partner's perspective before responding leads to enhanced understanding and deeper connection.
• Feeling seen and heard is crucial for resolving conflicts and reconnecting emotionally.

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In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, delves into the challenges couples face when aiming to rekindle erotic passion and shares her perspective on how to maintain a passionate, intimate relationship over the years. Dr. Alexandra addresses a listener's heartfelt question about whether it's even possible to reignite the erotic spark in a marriage, especially when young children and life's demands take center stage. She emphasizes the importance of both partners being committed to the quality of their connection and offers practical advice for couples, particularly for men, on how to revive intimacy that has waned. This includes carving out dedicated time for closeness, engaging all the senses to foster connection and excitement, and maintaining open, non-blaming communication to deepen emotional bonds.

Also in this episode:

• Both partners must be fully invested in rekindling their intimate life. If one isn't ready, it's important to address and process any grievance about that in a healthy way, which includes finding out if the other partner wants to focus on this in the future. 

• Let intimacy develop naturally through sensory engagement and emotional connection, rather than rushing into sexual activity.

• For a deeper connection, engage all five senses—sight, sound, smell, taste, and touch. Set aside regular, dedicated time for intimacy, free from daily distractions, to focus entirely on one another.

• Honest, non-blaming conversations about needs and desires are key to understanding each other and reigniting the passion in your relationship. This helps create a safe space for emotional and physical closeness.

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In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, explores how to strengthen desire in long-term relationships by cultivating deeper intimacy and passion. She begins by highlighting the contrast between the brain regions responsible for daily functionality and those that fuel emotional and sensual connections. Dr. Alexandra explains how educated and successful individuals can transcend mere functionality in marriage to achieve both emotional and erotic fulfillment. She emphasizes the significance of non-sexual touch, sharing new experiences, and giving erotic attention to one's partner. 

Also in this episode:

• Engaging in new activities as a couple breaks routine patterns and introduces excitement and novelty, strengthening the bond. 

• Simple, affectionate touches without the expectation of sex builds intimacy and comfort, making partners feel more connected. 

• Paying focused and admiring attention to a partner significantly enhances intimacy and sexual desire.  Attending to feelings and sensations, both physical and emotional, is critical for deepening romantic connections.

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In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, explores playfulness in intimacy, discussing the use of costumes and role play to re-ignite the marital spark and enrich sexual encounters. It's an especially timely topic with Halloween around the corner. Familiar roles in the bedroom tend to limit sexual expression-breaking free from them through embodying new personas can help couples deepen their connection and discover new aspects of their personalities. 

Dr. Stockwell shares real-life examples of couples who transformed their intimacy through role play. She notes that Halloween creates the perfect occasion to strengthen emotional and physical bonds through engaging in imaginative exploration, in ways that enhance your sexual repertoire.

Also in this episode:

• Embracing playful exploration invites unexpressed aspects of one's personality into the bedroom, thus enriching the partnership.

• There is an important distinction between healthy roleplay and the misuse of power dynamics.

• Expanding self-expression is not limited to the bedroom and everyday interactions benefit as well.

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