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255. Sexy and Silly: How Playfulness Enhances Erotic Intimacy05 Nov 202500:15:37

Are you ready to bring more laughter, curiosity, and connection into your bedroom?

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell invites you to rediscover the joy of being playful with your partner—because sensuality thrives when you stop taking it all so seriously! Dr. Alexandra shares how playfulness enhances erotic intimacy, reignites passion, fosters emotional safety, and makes you feel more alive together.

Discover how laughter, spontaneity, and creative exploration melt away tension, awaken your desire, and turn ordinary moments into deeply fulfilling experiences of love and pleasure.

 

Episode highlights:

  • How play and laughter open the door to deeper erotic connection

  • Simple, creative ways to add playfulness to your sensual experiences

  • How letting go of self-consciousness strengthens intimacy and trust

  • Ideas for role play, music, and mood-setting to reignite desire

  • Why being "sexy and silly" together leads to lasting passion and joy

 

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Website | Linkedin | Instagram

 

Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here:
https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl

Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

 

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

 

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

254. How High-Achieving Women Can Thrive in Love and Leadership | with Amy Evans29 Oct 202500:39:37

Are you a high-achieving woman who thrives in your career but longs for more depth and connection in your marriage? 

In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell joins Amy Evans — host of Women In Sales Leadership podcast to explore how professional success and emotional intimacy can beautifully coexist. 

These powerful women discuss how to move beyond compromise, embrace vulnerability, and build a conscious partnership that matches your ambition and heart.

Together, they unpack how relationship skills, just like leadership skills, can be learned, refined, and practiced—allowing you to flourish in both your professional and personal life.

 

What You'll Learn

  • The difference between toleration and true growth in relationships

  • How to use your professional strengths to enhance intimacy, not block it

  • The four types of relationships—and how to create a Conscious Partnership

  • Why vulnerability and communication are keys to lasting connection

  • How high-functioning couples stay emotionally and erotically alive



About Amy Evans:

Amy helps high performing sales managers land leader of leaders roles in tech where they can earn $500k+. In 25 years in B2B Tech Sales Leadership at Fortune 500 and Start-up companies, Amy coached dozens of sales professionals helping them level up their careers. Amy also hosts the award winning Women in Sales Leadership podcast.

 

Connect with Amy:

www.amyevanscoaching.com

https://www.linkedin.com/in/alynnevans/



Ready to experience deeper love and lasting connection? Get Dr. Alexandra's book 'Uncompromising Intimacy' https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl

 

 

Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:

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Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:

Website | Linkedin | Instagram

 

Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here:
https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl

Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

 

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

 

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

245. Money Dates: Replace Stress and Avoidance with Fun!27 Aug 202500:16:31

Is there a way to talk about finances that isn't stressful or disconnecting? Yes — start having regular money dates!

In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares how couples can turn financial conversations into intimate, collaborative, and even playful experiences. Inspired by a conversation with her newlywed daughter, Dr. Alexandra offers a simple, flexible framework for celebrating wins, reviewing your finances, and setting meaningful goals together — all while deepening love, trust, and understanding. 

Whether you've been together for a few months or many decades, you'll discover how money dates can strengthen both your relationship and your future.

 

Key insights:

  • How to weave connection and love into financial conversations 

  • A simple, step-by-step approach for meaningful and enjoyable money dates

  • Begin with celebrations to set a positive, collaborative tone

  • Gently review and organize your finances together

  • Create shared goals that inspire your future as a couple




💌 Ready to start having money dates?

Download your free Money Date Guide at www.alexandrastockwell.com/money

 

 

Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:

Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify

Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:

Website | Linkedin | Instagram

 

Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here:
https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl

Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

 

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

 

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

156. Intimacy Rituals To Build A Passionate Marriage During The Holiday Season13 Dec 202300:37:28

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, discusses the importance of intimacy in a marriage, especially during the holiday season. She shares four rituals that couples can practice to enhance their connection, pleasure, and intimacy, to feel closer and happier with one another. 

These rituals include ways of embracing, presence and eye gazing, connecting with one another at the end of each day, and engaging in sensual exploration in the bedroom. Alexandra emphasizes the need for intentionality and open communication in implementing each of these rituals, which can be done individually, or in any combinations.

 

Also in this episode:

  • Embrace for at least 20 seconds every day to increase connection and reduce stress.
  • Practice eye gazing as a way to enhance attraction and deepen the feeling of connection.
  • Ask each other about something important from your day to foster meaningful conversation and understanding.
  • Engage in sensual exploration in the bedroom, taking turns as the giver and receiver, as you enjoy various sensations.

Enroll in "Holiday Passion: The Art of Uncompromising Intimacy amidst crazy year-end schedules and seasonal stress": www.alexandrastockwell.com/masterclass

This is Dr. Alexandra's FREE Masterclass which will occur on December 14th at 1 PM PST–if you can't make it live, sign up anyway to receive the replay.

 

Blindfold recommended by Dr. Alexandra: https://amzn.to/3cUUiib

Sign up for Dr. Alexandra's email list: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

Contact Dr. Alexandra: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/

 

Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:

Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify

Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:

Website | Linkedin | Instagram

 

Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here:
https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl

Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.

155. Amplifying Passion: How To Enhance Intimacy During The Holiday Season06 Dec 202300:24:39

In this episode, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, discusses the importance of navigating the holiday season in a way that nurtures and enhances intimacy and passion in your marriage. She shares two influential stories that highlight the challenges couples face and the impact it can have on your relationship. 

Alexandra offers insights and strategies for creating a more enjoyable and fulfilling holiday experience with your partner. She also invites listeners to join her free masterclass, "Holiday Passion: The Art of Uncompromising Intimacy Amidst Crazy Year-End Schedules and Seasonal Stress."

 

Also in this episode: 

  • The holidays can be complicated for couples due to the convergence of conscious and unconscious desires and disappointments.
  • Many couples experience stress and exhaustion during the holiday season, which can negatively impact their relationship.
  • It is important for couples to prioritize their own enjoyment and connection during the holidays, rather than solely focusing on creating a magical experience for others.
  • Couples should have open and honest conversations about their expectations and their hopes and dreams for the holidays to ensure both partners feel fulfilled and supported.

 

Enroll in "Holiday Passion: The Art of Uncompromising Intimacy amidst crazy year-end schedules and seasonal stress" www.alexandrastockwell.com/masterclass

This is Dr. Alexandra's FREE Masterclass which will occur on December 14th at 1 PM PST–if you can't make it live, sign up anyway to receive the replay.

 

Video of mother who got a robe: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FOVCtUdaMCU


Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:

Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify

Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:

Website | Linkedin | Instagram

 

Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here:
https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl

Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

 

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD

154. Build Lasting Love: A Millennial Couple's Experience In The Aligned & Hot Marriage Program29 Nov 202300:34:10

In this episode, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by two awesome humans. It's a young millennial couple, with a great relationship, who chose to enroll in the Aligned and Hot Marriage program to support them in building lasting love. 

This couple's bond was strong before we met, but they wanted more tools to cultivate a deeper emotional connection, and to be able to navigate their disagreements with more care. Through participating in the program, they discovered deeper layers of vulnerability and enjoyed more open communication than ever before. Along the way they transformed their relationship, including bringing more joy and intimacy into their interactions. In our conversation, they share the valuable lessons they learned, and the unexpected passion that blossomed. This is a heartwarming and insightful episode on how to build an aligned and passionate marriage, from the beginning!

 

Also in this episode:

  • The couple's dedication to personal growth supports them in continuously strengthening their bond.

  • Embracing vulnerability and open communication creates a deeper understanding of one  another's true selves.

  • The Aligned and Hot Marriage program provides tools to bridge gaps and create a more aligned and passionate relationship.

  • How the Aligned & Hot Marriage program unexpectedly rekindled passion and excitement in their relationship.

  • Supporting each other's growth, while standing firm in their convictions, seemed scary at first but it has enriched their connection.

The couple discovered their love keeps growing, beyond what they imagined. They look forward to a future of continuous growth and intimacy.

 

Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:

Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify

Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:

Website | Linkedin | Instagram

 

Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here:
https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl

Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

 

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD

153. From Burnout and Disconnection to the Fulfillment of Dreams And Desires With Dr. Weili Gray22 Nov 202300:43:26

In this episode, Alexandra Stockwell, MD talks with Dr. Weili Gray about her realization that tomorrow isn't promised, an insight which arose while grieving her father. She subsequently decided to make each day count and began crossing things off her bucket list, which has had an incredible, positive impact on her marriage and family life. Dr. Gray shares how she transformed her day to day life from burnout and passionless routines to one filled with excitement and fulfillment, including multiple international trips and other adventures.

They also explore the vital message of embracing personal differences in relationships and learning to respect one another without judgment or trying to get a partner to change. Dr. Gray highlights the importance of shifting one's perspective to view your partner as a lover and companion in every moment of life. Ultimately, Dr. Gray's story is an inspiring example of how personal growth and a change in perspective lead to a massive uplevel in family dynamics as well as the cultivation of a passionate and deeply intimate marriage.

 

Also in this episode:

  • Embrace differences in a relationship, and love despite them.

  • See your partner as attractive in everyday situations.

  • Live life fully, and don't take anything for granted.

  • Personal growth and desire fuel passion in marriage.

  • Travel is energizing and expands your humanity.

 

@DreamPhysician on Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/dreamphysician/

 

Dare to Dream Physician Travel Facebook Community (for Physicians):

https://www.facebook.com/groups/878895016552178/

 

Subscribe to Dare to Dream Physician Travel Podcast

https://daretodreamphysician.buzzsprout.com/

 

About Dr. Weili Gray:

Meet Dr. Weili Gray (pronounced "Way Lee"), a dreamer and physician who experienced burnout and now happily practices sleep medicine in Vermont's tranquil countryside. With her husband and three kids, she crafts a dream life brimming with family adventures and extraordinary experiences, sprinkling a touch of magic to every moment.

Beyond practicing medicine at a rural critical access hospital, Dr. Gray founded Dare to Dream Physician to empower fellow doctors to dream big and embrace life through travel. She's all about boosting physician wellness and shares her wisdom on stages and her inspirational weekly podcast called "Dare to Dream Physician Travel Podcast"

Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:

Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify

Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:

Website | Linkedin | Instagram

 

Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here:
https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl

Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact

 

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD

152. Sensual Secrets Of Daily Life: Embracing Everyday Eroticism15 Nov 202300:28:25

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD discusses the concept of everyday eroticism and how it can transform a relationship. She shares her personal journey of discovering the importance of integrating erotic energy into all aspects of life, not just during sexual encounters. 

Alexandra emphasizes the need for couples to tap into the reservoir of erotic fulfillment and create a deep connection that extends beyond the bedroom. She explains that everyday eroticism is about feeling whole, integrated, and alive in all aspects of oneself, including your erotic and sexual self. Alexandra invites listeners to explore the idea of everyday eroticism and shares how coaching will serve you when you're ready to uplevel your relationship.

Also in this episode:

  • Everyday eroticism means feeling sexy, joyful and empowered every day, not just during sexual encounters.

  • Integrating erotic energy into all aspects of life creates a deep connection and fulfillment in a relationship.

  • It is possible to tap into the reservoir of erotic fulfillment and create a richly erotic experience in everyday life.

  • Everyday eroticism is different for everyone, no journey is the same.

  • Working with a coach can help couples learn new ways of being and create the change you desire in your relationship.

 

Does everyday eroticism appeal to you? Do you want to explore working with me? Tell me a little about you and your relationship and I'll be sure to respond:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/


Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:

Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify

Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:

Website | Linkedin | Instagram

 

Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here:
https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl

Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights, and opportunities to learn with her: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact

 

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD

151. The Art Of Anticipation: Unboxing Lovehoney's Advent Calendar w/ Sarah Tomchesson08 Nov 202300:40:38

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD is joined by Sarah Tomchesson, the resident sexual wellness advisor for Lovehoney, maker of sex toys and related products. 

They discuss the Lovehoney Advent calendars, which contain a variety of sex toys and accessories for couples to explore and enhance their intimacy–they can be opened one day at a time, or all at once. The calendars are designed to build anticipation and offer a range of products for both sex toy newbies and experienced users. Sarah emphasizes the importance of open communication and consent when introducing sex toys into a relationship. She also highlights the benefits of using sex toys, as they can increase pleasure, confidence, and empowerment. 

 

Also in this episode:

  • Open communication and consent are essential when introducing sex toys into a relationship.

  • Sex toys can provide increased pleasure, confidence, and empowerment.

  • Offering a range of sex toys and accessories for couples to explore and enhance their intimacy, Lovehoney Advent calendars make very fun gifts.

  • Sex toys are not a quick fix for relational disconnection and sexual dissatisfaction.

Use promo code AFF-INTIMATEMARRIAGE at www.lovehoney.com to receive 15% off your purchase.

 

Connect with Sarah Tomchesson: 

Lovehoney: https://www.lovehoney.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lovehoneyofficial/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lovehoneyglobal

Subscribe to the podcast: https://fuckyeahpod.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fuckyeahpod/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@fuckyeahpod

 

About Sarah Tomchesson:

Sarah Tomchesson, C.S.E. (she/her) advocates for sexual liberation through her work as a sex educator, sex toy evangelist and podcast host. Sarah's passion for helping people connect to their authentic sexual expression is driven by a firm belief that when people experience and access pleasure in a meaningful way it improves their confidence and overall wellbeing.

Sarah is Lovehoney's Resident Sexual Wellness Advisor and hosts free monthly workshops through Lovehoney.com. She brings an inclusive, informed, and approachable teaching style to a range of topics, specializing in body literacy, embodied somatic techniques, kink, queer sexuality, and sex toys. Sarah is able to speak to all experience levels, sexualities, genders, kinks, and relationship statuses. Sarah's podcast, F*ck Yeah, disrupts traditional ideas about sexuality, intimate relationships, the patriarchy, parenthood, and femininity, and her online education program, Pleasure Practices, supports cultivating personal power through pleasure exploration. Sarah advocates for the inclusion of a comprehensive sex education curriculum in K-12 schools through her role as Vice Chair of the Board of Directors for SIECUS - Sex Ed for Social Change.


Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:

Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify

Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:

Website | Linkedin | Instagram

 

Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl


Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights, and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact

 

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD

150. Money And Intimacy: How To Create A Passionate Relationship Through Financial Transparency w/ Barbara Huson01 Nov 202300:43:19

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by Barbara Huson to discuss the connection between money and intimacy in relationships. They discuss the importance of financial conversations in marriages, the role of power dynamics in money issues, and how to deepen intimacy through shared financial decision-making. Barbara shares her personal journey of overcoming financial challenges and offers practical tips for couples to improve their financial communication and understanding.

Also in this episode:

  • Money challenges in relationships are often about power dynamics rather than the actual money.
  • Financial intimacy can be achieved through open and honest conversations about money.
  • Regular money dates can help couples discuss finances in a loving and supportive way.
  • Women can empower themselves by taking responsibility for their financial education and participating in financial decisions.
  • Learning about money is a rite of passage into adulthood and personal growth.

 

Connect with Barbara Huson: 

The Wealth Connection: https://www.barbara-huson.com/the-wealth-connection/

Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:

Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify

Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:

Website | Linkedin | Instagram

 

Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here:
https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl

Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

 

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD

149. Secrets Of An Intimate Marriage: The Four-Step Process Of Dealing With Loneliness In A Relationship25 Oct 202300:23:48

In this episode of Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, addresses the issue of loneliness within relationships, especially in marriages. She acknowledges that feeling lonely in a relationship is more common than one might think, even in seemingly successful and happy marriages. 

This episode emphasizes the importance of recognizing and exploring loneliness and fostering curiosity and vulnerability within the relationship in order to bridge the gap between feeling unseen and disconnected, and cherished and respected. Alexandra provides a four-step process for transforming loneliness into connection, in order to enjoy a more fulfilling and intimate marriage.

 

Also in this episode:

  • Intimacy and relationships with a focus on feeling fully alive.

  • Relationship loneliness can stem from a lack of emotional connection and feeling unseen or unheard.

  • How to acknowledge and explore loneliness to transform it into a positive feeling.

  • Exploring loneliness through journaling and curious questions to a spouse.

  • The best way to invest time and resources for profound results in marriage.

  Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:

Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify

Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:

Website | Linkedin | Instagram

 

Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here:
https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl

Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD

148. The 80/80 Marriage: A Radical Approach to Relationship Bliss | w/ Nate And Kaley Klemp18 Oct 202300:43:12

Alexandra Stockwell, MD is joined by Nate and Kaley Klemp, authors of "The 80/80 Marriage" to discuss their journey from a failing relationship to a thriving partnership. 

They challenge the idea of fairness in marriage and introduce "radical generosity" instead. This episode emphasizes intention, contribution, appreciation, and open communication as foundations for a healthy and sexually satisfying relationship. Listeners gain insights into overcoming resentment, fostering deeper connections, and redefining marriage dynamics. The contagious nature of mindset in the context of relationships is explored. The Klemps describe role-swap experiments for empathy-building among couples and share how to transform your marriage into an "80/80" partnership, in order to enjoy a harmonious and loving relationship.

Also in this episode: 

  • From Fairytale To Struggle: The beginning of their marriage was like a fairy tale, but it quickly became challenging when they faced the reality of balancing individual success with sharing a life together.
  • A Prolonged Difficulty:  Nate's bike accident, which led to anxiety and depression, and the shift from individual success to shared life responsibilities.
  • The Key Turning Point:  Shifting their focus from "what's best for me" to "what's best for us as a family." This change in perspective helped them reconcile the tension between individual pursuits and shared responsibilities.
  • A Healthy Marriage: Featuring the importance of intention, generosity, appreciation, and open communication in shaping a healthy and balanced marriage.
  • Stop Worrying About Fairness:  They advocate for moving away from a fairness mindset to one of radical generosity in relationships.

 

Connect With Nate And Kaley Klemp:

Website: https://www.8080marriage.com 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/8080marriage/   

The Free Date Night Guide: https://www.8080marriage.com/free

 

About Nate And Kaley Klemp:

Nate and Kaley Klemp are authors of the New York Times Editors' Choice selection The 80/80 Marriage: A New Model for a Happier, Stronger Marriage. Nate is a founding partner at Mindful Magazine and also the coauthor of the New York Times Bestseller Start Here: Master the Lifelong Habit of Wellbeing. He holds a B.A. and M.A. in philosophy from Stanford University and a PhD from Princeton University. Kaley is one of the nation's leading experts on small-group dynamics and leadership development, a TEDx speaker, and the author of three other books, including the Amazon Bestseller The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership, The Drama-Free Office, and 13 Guidelines for Effective Teams. She is a graduate of Stanford University, where she earned a B.A. in International Relations and an M.A. in Sociology, with a focus on Organizational Behavior.

 

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Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here:
https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl

Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD

147. Sex As A Litmus Test: What Sexual Chemistry And Emotional Intimacy Reveal About Your Relationship11 Oct 202300:18:07

Alexandra Stockwell, MD explores how sex acts as a litmus test for relationships and how your sexual chemistry reveals deeper truths about your emotional connection.

No matter how good a relationship seems, when sex falls short, or is lacking, it's often a sign of underlying issues. Alexandra shares that, most of the time, improving emotional intimacy can naturally reignite passion. This episode challenges you to embrace the importance of emotional connection and offers guidance on how to communicate with your partner about your desires and needs. It's an invitation to seek more, increase vulnerability, and enhance both emotional and physical intimacy in your relationship.

Also in this episode: 

  • Sex As A Litmus Test: Just as litmus paper indicates the pH of a solution, sex can serve to assess the quality of a long-lasting, committed relationship.
  • Importance Of Emotional Intimacy: Communication, self-expression, and vulnerability, are foundational elements for a fulfilling sex life.
  • Role Of Emotional Rapport: Enhancing the emotional connection between partners is often the first step in addressing issues related to sex in a relationship.
  • Sexual Fulfillment And Connection: A satisfying sex life, where both partners look forward to it and feel closer afterward, is a sign of a healthy and fulfilling marriage.
  • Toleration vs. True Intimacy: If a couple is not fully satisfied with their sex life, despite getting along well in other aspects of the relationship, they may be in a toleration relationship and can make changes to activate the full potential of their intimacy.
  • Permission To Want More: Couples need to have open discussions about their sexual desires and strive for more intimacy, connection, and fulfillment in their relationship.

 

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Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here:
https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl

Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

 

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD

 

 

244. Why Successful Couples Struggle with Intimacy—and How to Fix It20 Aug 202500:13:02

As a successful couple, do you ever wonder why your relationship doesn't feel as good as it looks?

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores how competence and shame—two complex forces—can quietly shape your intimate life. 

Through real client stories and expert insights, Dr. Alexandra reveals why emotional intimacy is the key to lasting passion. Learn how high-achieving couples can move past disconnection and rekindle desire, by developing the skills no one teaches—but everyone needs.

Tune in to discover how the Aligned and Hot Marriage Program helps couples grow closer, emotionally and physically.

 

Tips in this episode:

  • Why high-achieving couples often feel shame around intimacy

  • How emotional intimacy helps resolve sexual dissatisfaction

  • The link between emotional connection and reigniting passion

  • Tools from the Aligned and Hot Marriage Program to build deeper connection

  • How closing the emotional gap leads to a more passionate relationship

 

 

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Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here:
https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl

Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

 

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

 

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
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146. An Aligned & Hot Marriage Thrives While Navigating The Effects Of Trauma | with Doctors Emma & Derek Andre04 Oct 202301:05:17

Alexandra Stockwell, MD is joined by former clients Drs. Derek and Emma Andre. They share their emotional journey through unimaginable life circumstances and describe the profound ways couples coaching with Alexandra served them years after they finished working with her.

Derek and Emma's challenges, involving terminal cancer, unanticipated moves, and murder, highlight the strength of their bond and their capacity to be present with and for one another.  They attribute their transformation, from loving but somewhat misaligned to deeply connected and gratified partners, to relationship coaching with Alexandra. Their beautiful flourishing relationship serves as a testament to love, their individual commitment to personal growth, and the transformative impact of coaching. Listen to gain inspiration and insights to build a resilient connection with your partner that will hold you even in life's toughest moments. 

Also in this episode:

  • Community is a powerful source of healing: A strong network of friends and loved ones is more impactful than most people realize until they need it.
  • Prioritizing growth: Being growth-oriented, both individually and as a couple, played a significant role in helping them navigate their challenges and deepen their connection.
  • The power of coaching and support: Couples coaching influenced not only their relationship but also their approach to holistic mental health and their work with their own patients.
  • Choice in relationships: Individuals should actively choose to prioritize and nurture their relationships, even in the midst of devastation.
  • Benefits of group coaching: Learning from other couples and being witnessed grows a couple's relationship in beautiful ways. 



About Doctors Emma And Derek Andre

They are a husband-and-wife team of naturopathic physicians. In their Oregon-based practice, they offer cutting-edge ketamine therapy and holistic mental health for adults seeking fast and lasting relief from mental health challenges. They know what it's like to navigate trauma and loss, and have experienced first-hand the potency of psychedelic medicine. It taught them that real and lasting healing comes from within. This impactful journey inspired the creation of 'Medicine Within' to share it with others.

 

Connect With Doctors Emma And Derek Andre

Website: https://medicinewithin.com/

Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/medicinewithinoregon

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/medicinewithinoregon/?hl=en

  Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:

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Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:

Website | Linkedin | Instagram

 

Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here:
https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl

Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

 

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD

 

145. How To Problem Solve In Your Marriage (Without Driving Either Yourself Or Your Partner Crazy)27 Sep 202300:31:32

Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by her husband Dr. Rodd Stockwell, to unpack the art of problem-solving in marriage. 

They stress the importance of clearly identifying the type of conversation you're having, whether it's venting, seeking emotional support, problem-solving, or something else. You need to know which kind of communication you need, and which kind of communication your spouse needs.

When there's a problem, before diving into practical solutions, it's essential to address any emotional baggage first. Visualize yourselves sitting side by side, collaborating on the problem at hand, without disrespect or opposition. When the emotional air is cleared, real solutions arise so don't hesitate to take detours when unexpected emotional issues present. 

Also in this episode: 

  • Communication Types: Understand that there are different types of communication, such as venting, making requests, problem-solving, vulnerable communication, and more.
  • Setting The Stage: Before diving into problem-solving, ensure that both partners are on the same page about the type of conversation they are having.
  • Emotional Alignment: Make sure both partners feel heard, seen, and emotionally aligned on the issue before moving on to practical problem-solving.
  • Teamwork: Approach problem-solving as a team, sitting on the same side of the table, so to speak. Avoid making it about one person being right or wrong. 
  • Efficient Problem-Solving: If emotions or conflicts arise during the process, address them first, and then return to the problem-solving discussion.
  • Building Connection: Successful problem-solving enhances connection and intimacy in the relationship, leading to more efficient and harmonious interactions in daily life.

 

Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:

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Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join my email list to stay connected–it's where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

 

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD

 

144. Sensual vs. Sexual: Exploring The Mysteries Of Erotic Power Through Identifying Your Erotic Blueprint | w/ Julianne Vaccaro20 Sep 202300:46:34

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by Julianne Vaccaro, a somatic sexologist and spiritual guide to discuss the erotic blueprints and her unique way of applying them.    

We delve into the melodic world of erotic blueprints, discussing each type in detail. From the energetic to the sensual, from the kinky to the sexual, we describe each type's superpowers, and their shadow sides, telling truths that definitely challenge societal norms. Join us as we decode the mysteries of sensuality, embrace our erotic blueprints, and discuss how to empower purpose-driven women to unlock their hearts, bodies, and sexualities. In the process, they ignite transformative intimacy in their relationships. Get ready to unlock the secrets of your own erotic power by listening to this inspiring podcast episode.

Also in this episode: 

  • Why there is no such thing as sexual incompatibility
  • What the erotic blueprints are 
  • How to work with your erotic blueprint to experience more pleasure
  • How to work with your partner's erotic blueprint for more ecstasy
  • The shadow side of the sensual type
  • Expand your understanding of the two kinds of kink
  • Shapeshifters and languages of love
  • How to erotically express your humanity

 

About Julianne Vaccaro

From black sheep in a "perfect" family (spoiler alert: nobody's perfect!), to an abusive relationship that ended in betrayal, sexual trauma, and dissociation from her body… to finally unlocking her inner divine feminine & going on a deep-ass path of self-discovery... sometimes it feels like Julianne's been through it all.

But she finally broke through into the life she always wanted — by healing from the inside out, coming home to her body, reclaiming her erotic goddess, & choosing plea$ure.

 

Connect With Julianne Vaccaro

Website: https://www.juliannevaccaro.com/connect-with-j

 

Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in the Aligned & Hot Marriage program, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join my email list to stay connected-it's where I share my latest insights and more personal stories.https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:

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Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:

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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

 

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD

143. Vital Conversations About Menopause (For Men And Women Of All Ages)13 Sep 202300:35:59

Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by Tricia Brouk for an honest conversation about the often misunderstood topic of menopause. The conversation is inspired by and centered around their journey co-authoring "The Invitation: Vital Conversations About Menopause," their new book published on September 13, 2023. 

Together, Alexandra and Tricia challenge menopause stereotypes, emphasizing the unique and positive potential of each woman in this phase of life. They address the lack of open discussions about menopause and invite both women and men to join this crucial conversation. Reflecting on their collaboration, they stress the importance of an authentic exploration of menopause's diverse experiences. Ultimately, this episode is an invitation to reshape the narrative around menopause, fostering understanding, empowerment, and connection for women and their partners.

Also in this episode: 

  • Menopause is an inevitable part of a woman's life, but it doesn't have to be a negative or horrific experience as society sometimes portrays it.
  • Conversations about menopause should be open and inclusive, involving not only women but also their partners and loved ones.
  • Creating a warm and inviting space for discussion is crucial to destigmatize menopause and empower individuals to share their experiences.
  • How interested and responsive men have been about a book on menopause; it's turning out to be an inclusive resource for everyone.
  • Every person going through menopause is the ultimate authority on their own experience.
  • The book "The Invitation: Vital Conversations About Menopause" encourages vital and intimate conversations about menopause, aiming to create connections, expand sexual understanding, and promote a more intimate marriage.



Purchase "The Invitation: Vital Conversations About Menopause" here: https://a.co/d/8FpGwZI

 

About "The Invitation: Vital Conversations About Menopause":

 Whether you're a woman in the midst of menopause, anticipating it, or close to someone who is, you are invited to join a candid, provocative conversation in a safe space where all experiences are honored.

 "The Invitation" is an expansive, meaningful dialogue between two friends that unfolds organically as the authors discuss the nuances of their individual experiences, challenge widely held social constructs, and give rise to empowering new perspectives on the menopause paradigm.

 Chapters explore physical manifestations of menopause, sex and intimacy, marriage through the lens of menopause, and how menopause impacts women at work—a topic for which an expert joins the conversation to enlighten readers about both challenges and solutions for female employees going through menopause.

 There are also important contributions from three women with diverse backgrounds who share their heartbreaking and poignant personal journeys of feeling abandoned by the medical system and betrayed by their own bodies.

 "The Invitation" is not about medical treatments or behavioral solutions. It's about creating a collective sisterhood; engaging in open, honest dialogue; and validating and empowering one another to embody a different and more inspiring relationship with menopause.

 

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142. What Makes A Marriage Last?06 Sep 202300:18:07

Alexandra Stockwell, MD, shares heartfelt stories of couples she's coached and her thoughts on what makes a marriage last. From reigniting intimacy in a 21-year marriage to a couple's transformative journey after 27 years, these narratives inspire and inform.

Alexandra encourages listeners to reflect on their own marital culture and emphasizes the importance of making a deliberate effort to foster a positive relationship within a marriage and within a family. She also provides insights and strategies to maintain focus and intentionality in long-lasting marriages, ways to reignite the spark and engage in the foundational conversations often left unspoken. Dive into the world of authentic, lasting love and learn to enrich your own relationship in this enlightening episode.

Also in this episode: 

  • Long-lasting marriages succeed when at least one partner is willing to stand for the marriage when things get tough
  • Unspoken truths create a lack of intimacy and diminished sexual connection
  • Some couples go through a process of reconfiguring their marriage so it better aligns with their new desires and values
  • The need to pay attention and be deliberate with one another
  • Couples wanting a more fulfilling partnership need to invest attention and intention into their relationship

 

The Invitation: Vital Conversations about Menopause:
https://a.co/d/6KXAqAy

Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:

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Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:

Website | Linkedin | Instagram

 

Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join my email list to stay connected–it's where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

 

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD

 

141. The Secrets Of Desire, Arousal & Sexual Well-Being | With Dr. Rachel Rubin30 Aug 202300:31:30

Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by Dr. Rachel Rubin, a renowned urologist and sexual medicine specialist, to discuss sexual medicine, as well as the art/science driving sexual desire.

Dr. Rubin emphasizes the vital importance of a biopsychosocial approach to sexual medicine, highlighting the significance of understanding a patient's background and their goals for enhancing their quality of life. She defines sexual medicine, discusses when to seek help and addresses issues like low desire and arousal. Dr. Rubin recommends various treatment options, including the use of devices (ie. vibrators) for enhancing intimacy. The conversation takes a personal turn as she shares she's happily married with a supportive partner. 

Also in this episode:

  • How do you define sexual medicine?
  • Why Dr. Rubin considers herself a sex detective
  • Low desire is a common problem for both men and women 
  • Why it's important to ask patients about libido, masturbation techniques, cultural and religious issues, and childhood trauma
  • Erectile dysfunction is a marker for cardiovascular disease in men and women
  • Where to find more information about sexual health products
  • How our personal experiences influence our practice of medicine

About Dr. Rachel Rubin:

Dr. Rachel Rubin is a board-certified urologist and sexual medicine specialist. She is an assistant clinical professor of Urology at Georgetown University and owns her private practice in the Washington DC region. She is one of only a handful of physicians fellowship trained in both male and female sexual medicine. Dr. Rubin is a clinician, researcher, and vocal educator in the field of sexual medicine. She completed her medical and undergraduate training at Tufts University, her urology training at Georgetown University, and her fellowship training under Dr. Irwin Goldstein in San Diego. In addition to being the education chair for the International Society for the Study of Women's Sexual Health (ISSWSH), she also serves as an Associate Editor for the Journal Sexual Medicine Reviews. Her work has been featured in the NYT, PBS and NPR.

Connect With Dr. Rachel Rubin

Rachelrubinmd.com | Instagram | Facebook | Twitter | Threads

Links mentioned in the episode:

Promescent Devices Mystery Vibe 

 

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Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join my email list to stay connected–it's where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

 

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD

 

140. How Dysfunctional Patterns Interrupt Intimacy And Impede The Archetypes Of Love23 Aug 202300:32:50

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Intimacy Coach Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores the dynamics of genuine connection within marriages and how they can be influenced by two specific false archetypes of love.

Delving beyond traditional roles, she navigates two common archetypes that hinder intimacy: the parent-child dynamic and the project manager approach. By embracing the essence of "being" over constant "doing," listeners learn to infuse presence into every interaction, fostering deeper relationships. The episode inspires self-awareness, promoting emotional growth and fulfillment. Discover how to transform roles, prioritize connection, and ignite a profound, soulful bond with your partner.

Also in this episode:

  • How historical roles in marriage have shifted toward modern expectations of personal growth and companionship.
  • Overcoming tendencies to seek emotional rescue or dependence on a partner, hindering true connection.
  • Successful individuals may inadvertently impede intimacy by approaching relationships with a managerial mindset.
  • Shift focus from constant doing to cultivating presence and connection in daily interactions.
  • Nurturing intimacy: develop a deeper understanding of genuine connection, essential for passion and fulfillment in relationships.
  • Evolving archetypes, fostering growth, and fostering soulful, emotionally rich bonds with your partner.

 

 

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Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com

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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

 

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD

 

139. Compromise In Marriage Can Be Very Sneaky16 Aug 202300:24:16

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Intimacy Coach Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares profound insights to help you recognize how varied compromise in marriage can be, and how to let it go. Instead, embrace uncompromising intimacy and all the lusciousness that comes with it!

Discover the power of honoring and expressing your authentic desires, while respecting your partner's wishes. Learn how to break free from unconscious habits of compromise and foster transparent communication instead. Uncover the keys to building a collaborative and adult-to-adult relationship, deep emotional intimacy and sensual passion. Take the first step towards transforming your marriage and embrace the journey of uncompromising love and intimacy today!

Also in this episode: 

  • The four types of relationships that involve some form of compromise. 
  • How sneaky and insidious compromise can be. 
  • The difference between narcissism and compromise. 
  • When a habit becomes routine
  • Pay more attention to your desires.
  • How to figure out what you want to do.
  • It's a choice to be more empowered.
  • How to know what you truly want. 
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Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com

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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

 

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD

 

 

 

138. Love, Risk, And Business: An Intense Journey In Personal And Professional Growth | w/ Joshua And Rachel Lee09 Aug 202300:41:47

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Intimacy Coach Dr. Alexandra Stockwell is joined by Joshua and Rachel Lee, a dynamic power couple, who share their rich journey involving both personal and professional growth.

Joshua's entrepreneurial successes, including working with MySpace, taught him the importance of finding purpose beyond monetary success. Rachel, a branding expert extraordinaire, emphasizes the value of authenticity in corporate life. Together, they describe unexpectedly falling in love while living in different cities and needing to overcome unanticipated challenges when Rachel moved to be with Joshua and his two kids. They share frankly about the development of their business Standout Authority, which combines both of their distinct skillsets; it's a business driven by authenticity and the formation of genuine connections. Listen in to hear them talk about the power of love, vulnerability, and unified partnerships, in both life and entrepreneurship.

Also in this episode: 

  • How Rachel started her entrepreneurial career. 
  • What it takes to share your voice authentically. 
  • The importance of understanding what matters to both people and giving attention to insecurities in the relationship.
  • The experience of transitioning from company employee to co-owner.
  • Navigating roles and responsibilities as husband and wife, and co-owners too. 
  • Using past experiences to educate and inspire others.
  • The power in allowing others to truly see you. 

 

About Joshua And Rachel Lee

They are the dynamic duo behind Standout Authority. Joshua, a seasoned entrepreneur with 20+ years of experience, is known as "The Dopamine Dealer of LinkedIn" and has built 16 businesses while fostering a beautiful marriage and blended family. He realized the digital landscape had become disconnected, leading him to found Standout Authority in 2014. His focus on LinkedIn helps entrepreneurs and professionals humanize their brands and build authentic relationships.

Rachel, a fearless marketing #ladyboss, complements Joshua's expertise by leading the marketing and branding strategy for Standout Authority. With a stellar career in the technology and marketing industry, including roles at Microsoft and Gartner, she brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to the table.

Together, Joshua and Rachel are on a mission to help individuals reconnect and build real, lasting relationships in business and life. Through their expertise and passion, they empower clients to find their voice, create influence, and navigate their careers with purpose and success.

Connect With Joshua And Rachel Lee

Standoutauthority.com | Facebook | Twitter | LinkedIn

 

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Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join my email list to stay connected–it's where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

 

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD

137. How To Elevate Married Sex From Good To Great With Expertise From An Intimacy Coach02 Aug 202300:28:49

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra delves into the topic of enhancing and enjoying your married sex life and how to go from just "good" to "absolutely great." 

She emphasizes the importance of open and honest communication about sex, including sharing your personal experience and desires with your partner. Alexandra provides practical tips on how to initiate conversations about sex, such as starting with positive memories and desires. She also discusses the profound impact that talking about sex can have on emotional and physical intimacy in a long-lasting relationship. Tune in to discover how engaging in open dialogue leads to a deeply fulfilling and passionate sex life that lasts a lifetime.

Also in this episode:

  • The single best thing you can do to enhance your sex life.
  • How to start the conversation about sex 
  • How to be more direct with your desires 
  • Is there something you can do so that she doesn't check out? 
  • How many minutes of sex per day? 
  • How to have a meaningful conversation about sex
  • What's the next level up for your sex life? 
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Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join my email list to stay connected–it's where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

 

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD

 

243. Popular Marriage Myths That Aren't True | with Monica Tanner13 Aug 202500:28:14

Are marriage myths quietly sabotaging your relationship? 

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell sits down with returning guest Monica Tanner to challenge the most common (and misleading) advice couples are told. From "happy wife, happy life" to "compromise is key," they unpack why these popular sayings fall short—and what to do instead. 

If you're ready to trade clichés for true connection, this conversation is for you.

 

Episode highlights:

  • Why "happy wife, happy life" doesn't lead to a wonderful marriage

  • The power of collaboration over compromise in solving relationship challenges

  • How choosing your partner daily leads to growth and deeper connection

  • The role of honest communication in breaking free from unhelpful marriage advice

  • How being intentional and understanding each other's needs creates lasting fulfillment



About The Guest:

Monica Tanner, RLT trained, Relationship Coach and host of the Secrets of Happily Ever After podcast, transforms marriages with simple communication, connection, conflict resolution and commitment strategies. Her mission is to lower the divorce rate and improve marital satisfaction. Through her engaging podcast, new book, Bad Marriage Advice, vibrant social media community, and couple's coaching practice, Monica's expert guidance has impacted thousands of couples, by helping them ditch resentment and roommate syndrome and get back to living their happily ever after love story.

 

https://monicatanner.com 

https://badmarriageadvice.com 

https://www.instagram.com/monitalksmarriage/

https://youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

 

 

 

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136. Juicy, Straightforward, And Sophisticated: A Conversation On Pleasure And Eroticism | w/ Ruan Willow26 Jul 202301:10:29

 In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra shares a recording of an interview she did with Ruan Willow on her podcast. The episode explores topics such as uncompromising intimacy, libido mismatch, eroticism, and the importance of bringing all elements of oneself to a relationship, including heart, mind, and genitals.

Ruan is an erotica author and a romance novelist, with a smooth silky voice. She's comfortable talking about all aspects of sex and sexuality and asked some excellent questions, which makes for a deep, precise, and excellent conversation. 

Alexandra discusses the concept of responsive desire and how it can help address libido mismatch in couples.  She also emphasizes understanding and honoring each partner's needs and desires, and the importance of creating a strong emotional and physical connection. 

Also in this episode:

  • How to marinate in your sensuality
  • Connecting with your hearts and minds
  • The difference between unconditional love and conditional love
  • The myth of libido mismatch
  • How to make sex more inviting
  • How to help women get aroused
  • Sex toys and orgasm. 
  • How do you quantify an orgasm? 
  • Clitoral mapping

 

About Ruan Willow: 

Ruan Willow is an erotica & smut author and a romance novelist. She hosts the podcast Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow, where she talks about everything to do with sexuality, including tips, advice, and ideas about sexual wellness, does sexual product reviews, and hosts guest interviews. She is also a voiceover narrator so look for her audiobooks hitting the market too. She narrates for other authors and also for her own work. Her books are loaded with sexual content; if that's what you like in your books, her books are for you!

Connect With Ruan Willow

Ruanwillowauthor.comFacebook | Twitter | Instagram | Podcast

 

Join The Aligned & Hot Marriage Program:  www.alignedhotmarriage.com

 

Suggested Episodes To Listen To:

Communication As Foreplay | w/ Yvette Racines

Uncompromising Intimacy

 

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Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join my email list to stay connected–it's where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

 

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, With Intimacy Coach, Alexandra Stockwell, MD

 

 

135. The Power Of Intimate Connection: How To Define And Have Amazing Sex With Your Partner19 Jul 202300:15:18

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD dives deep into the concept of amazing sex and what that truly means within the context of a healthy, loving marriage.

Alexandra underlines that amazing sex is a deeply personal and subjective experience, emphasizing that the feelings evoked are far more important than the specific acts engaged in. Alexandra speaks of sex as a form of communication within a relationship, with each sexual encounter carrying a specific message between partners, whether expressed verbally or left unspoken. Alexandra provides various examples of these messages, such as expressing love and appreciation, searching for escape or connection, a desire for help with household chores, or simply wanting to feel nurtured. When both partners communications align, they enhance the overall sexual experience and create truly extraordinary passion, where emotional connection, understanding, and fulfillment flourish.

Also in this episode:

  • Each sexual encounter conveys a message, serving as a means of communication between partners.
  • How to effectively express the emotions you want to convey.
  • Many women use sex to get husbands to help with household chores.
  • Using sex as a tool to escape daily stress and strengthen emotional bonds.
  • Amazing sex is subjective and can differ from person to person.
  • Using communication to enhance sexual experiences.
  • Exploring the definition of unpleasant sexual experiences.
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Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join my email list to stay connected–it's where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 


For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

 

134. Transformative Intimacy, Stories Of Sexual Fantasy, And Communication In A Deeply Fulfilling Relationship | w/ Intimacy Coach Alexa And Jordan Bowditch12 Jul 202300:58:57

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell MD, is joined by Alexa & Jordan Bowditch, founders of Sex & Love Co., to discuss intimacy, stories of sexual fantasy, and how couples can navigate their way to having more connected relationships.

Alexa and Jordan discuss their journey creating a nourishing and passionate marriage while embracing openness of many flavors. They explore the complexities of relationships, communication, and the pursuit of deeply nourishing and fun sex. Drawing from personal experiences, they share practical strategies to enhance presence and connection, including the power of blindfolding. Reflecting on their own growth, they emphasize open communication and introduce programs tailored for couples, like their "Couples Goals" experience. 

Also in this episode: 

  • How to keep sex fun
  • The forbidden pleasure of forbidden pleasures
  • The primary impediment to great sex
  • Very intimates fantasies
  • Differences in awareness between men and women
  • Being sexy is the opposite of intimacy
  • Alexa's favorite blindfold
  • Intimate relationships as a sacred mirror for partners

 

About Alexa & Jordan Bowditch

Alexa is a sex and relationship by design coach and sex coach business mentor on a mission to reform sex education and sexuality across the globe. She is from the deep south of Louisiana and if anyone knows how to bust through taboos regarding sex, it's her. She is known as @thatsexchick across social media and is the founder of The Sex & Love Co. community, a NY Times featured group with love, sex & relationships as the central focus.

Jordan is the CFO and head men's coach at Sex & Love Co., a (kinda) conscious comedian, certified space-holder, and BROfessional edu-tainer. He facilitates elevated connection by creating safe spaces to not play it safe, integrating bioenergetics, interpersonal polarity, sexuality and social magnetism into his work/play. 

 

Connect with Alexa And Jordan Bowditch

 Sexandlove.co |  That Sex Chick With Alexa Podcast | Alexa's Instagram

Jordan's Instagram | The Sex & Love Co. Facebook Community

 

Alexandra Stockwell's Recommended Blindfold

 

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Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join my email list to stay connected–it's where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

133. Is Companionship As Good As It Gets? | Chapter 1 Of 'Uncompromising Intimacy'05 Jul 202300:18:50

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell MD reads the first chapter of her book, 'Uncompromising Intimacy,' we entitled "Is The Comfort Of Companionship As Good As It Gets?"

This chapter delves into the fundamental questions many couples face in long-term relationships. Can emotional intimacy and sensual passion coexist? Is it possible to revive a lackluster sex life? How can couples create a deeply fulfilling connection? 

Exploring the truth about emotional and sensual passion in long-term relationships, Alexandra addresses common struggles faced by couples. Considering couples in toxic relationships, and those tolerating their circumstances, she unveils the blueprint for conscious partnership—a transformative path that nurtures personal growth, authentic self-expression, and deep connection. If you want to continue learning, dive into the rest of the book (available on Amazon and Audible) and unlock the secrets of creating a satisfying, soul-enriching relationship in today's world.

 

Also in this episode:

  • Emotional intimacy and sensual passion in long-term relationships.
  • Challenges maintaining and improving relationships
  • Lack of role model couples 
  • Dissatisfaction in relationships
  • Different types of relationships: toxic, termination, toleration, conscious partnership.
  • Transforming relationships and cultivating conscious partnerships and fulfilling, passionate relatioships.

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A recent review of 'Uncompromising Intimacy' on Amazon

 

[Alexandra] talks straight with openness and honesty. She also has a loving perspective and never talks about what is right or wrong but shares more from the standpoint of does it work or not. Anyone who is wanting to improve their relationship and build a solid foundation of love and connection can benefit from this book. Reading this book amazed me and I was so excited in completing all of the assignments because of how much I was learning about myself and my partner. This is definitely going to be a gift to all of my sisters and friends.

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Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join my email list to stay connected–it's where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

 

132. Power Couple Reveals Secrets To Keeping The Spark Alive During Military Deployment I With Intimacy Coach Dr. Jacqueline And Paul Sherman28 Jun 202300:47:47

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell MD, welcomes power couple Paul and Dr. Jacqueline Sherman to share their inspiring story of love, strength, and erotic connection while navigating the challenges of military life and years-long deployment.

Dr. Sherman is a licensed clinical psychologist specializing in intimacy and relationships, and her husband, Paul, is a senior chief currently on active duty in the US Navy. Through their heartfelt conversation with Alexandra, they reveal the significance of embracing each other's strengths and passions, fostering effective communication, and practicing patience. From navigating difficult conversations after experiencing a miscarriage to seeking advice on leadership and influence, the Shermans offer invaluable insights and wisdom to couples who are geographically separate as well as those who share a bed. 

Also in this episode: 

  • How to define sexual confidence
  • The importance of pushing oneself into uncomfortable situations to build confidence
  • Sexfirmations, the sexual wellness card deck for women
  • Communication, empathy, and creativity improve intimacy in a relationship
  • Navigating grief after a miscarriage 
  • Why it's so important for couples to talk about sex
  • Practice direct communication and assertiveness with your spouse 
  • Scheduling sex without shame 

 

About Dr. Jacqueline Sherman

Dr. Jacqueline Sherman (aka Dr. Jac) is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist, Certified Intimacy and Relationship Coach, and the Creator of Sexfirmation Cards. She helps women and couples have better intimacy, sex, and relationships. She is passionate about helping women overcome perfectionism, body image issues, and judgmental thoughts that distract from confidence and pleasure. Her specialty is working with couples who have experienced pregnancy loss and/or fertility challenges. She coaches from a sex-positive perspective that integrates the mind and the heart.

Connect With Dr. Jacqueline Sherman

Drjac.co | Instagram

Sexfirmation Cards: Drjac.co/shop

*Please use code IMP15 for 15% off Sexfirmation Cards

Have a question? Please email Dr. Jac at: hello@drjac.co

 

Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:

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Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join my email list to stay connected–it's where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

 

131. Where An Intimacy Coach Stores Her Bread | w/ Rodd Stockwell21 Jun 202300:22:34

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, welcomes back Rodd Stockwell to explore the infamous bread story that lead to a shift in their marriage to embrace uncompromising intimacy.

Initially, a trivial disagreement arose between Alexandra and Rodd regarding bread storage. Rodd grew up storing bread in the refrigerator, while Alexandra stored it on the counter. Ultimately, Alexandra compromised by storing the bread in the fridge, leading to resentment. Over time, they grew curious about each other's perspectives, viewing the issue objectively and depersonalizing it. They realized the importance of being seen, heard, and supported in their relationship; they focused on understanding each other's perspectives and approached the matter objectively and impersonally. They achieved a strong emotional bond by openly communicating their needs while still maintaining their individuality. They worked together to enhance their decision-making process by balancing practicality and spontaneity. This journey brought them closer, improved their relationship, and deepened their understanding.

Also in this episode:

  • Differences in upbringing and expectations
  • The similarities between Alexandra and Rodd's backgrounds
  • The first step of compromise is to become curious
  • Compromise is the opposite of drying out
  • Where Alexandra and Rodd store their bread now
  • The power of seeing and hearing your spouse
  • How you do anything is how you do everything
  • How our family cultures may differ

 

Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in the Aligned & Hot Marriage program, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join my email list to stay connected-it's where I share my latest insights and more personal stories. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

130. Intimate Communication As Foreplay: Fueling Desire And Building Passion | w/ Yvette Racines14 Jun 202300:32:40

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by self-love educator and yoga therapy teacher Yvette Racines. Yvette shares her profound journey with the Aligned and Hot Marriage program, highlighting how it has transformed her and her husband's approach to foreplay through accessing the power of intimate communication.

Yvette and her husband have been married for 17 years, and have a good, solid, loving marriage. However they dealt with some communication challenges, especially when speaking about finances. They participated in a workshop with Alexandra and then decided to enroll in her Aligned and Hot Marriage program. Yvette describes how the program provided them with many valuable tools to improve their communication, and how they learned to respectfully resolve conflicts. At the same time their emotional connection deepened, and their relationship became more passionate and intimate.

Yvette speaks of their communication as foreplay, as it sets the stage for their intimate connection. 

Also in this episode:

  • Why it's hard to be vulnerable with your spouse
  • Using the conscious redo to reconnect 
  • Why having a fantastic relationship is a learnable skill
  • The two main reasons to enroll in the Aligned & Hot Marriage program
  • How Yvette and her husband blended their families
  • Learning to communicate without getting angry and upset
  • The importance of respect when communicating
  • Ways our parents communication skills affect our marriage 

 

Connect with Yvette:

Vitallivingwellness.com | Instagram | Facebook

 

Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in the Aligned & Hot Marriage program, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com

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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

129. Understanding The Complexity Of The Sexual Differences Between Men And Women | feat. Sheri Winston07 Jun 202300:52:25

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by returning guest Sheri Winston, a renowned holistic sexuality teacher, author, and founder of the Intimate Arts Center, to discuss the complexity of sexual differences between men and women.

Alexandra and Sheri explore the sexual differences between men and women in this captivating podcast episode. Using the metaphor of "pussycats" and "puppy dogs," they discuss the need for safety, connection, and gradual exploration for pussycats, contrasting it with puppy dogs' more fast-paced and genitally focused nature. These insights apply to any gender and sexual orientation, helping you have successful relationships with partners with different genitalia. Embrace self-awareness and acceptance, and challenge societal norms to unlock the full potential of your sexual experiences.  

Also in this episode:

  • Cultural cliches about sexual polarity
  • How sexuality occurs for many women and many men
  • Utilize the five love languages in your relationships
  • For many women, it takes between 30 and 45 minutes to get aroused
  • The importance of having date nights
  • Complaints from women about the puppy model
  • The yin and yang energy mode
  • Some of the best ways to initiate sex

About Sheri Winston:

Wholistic Sexuality teacher Sheri Winston is a groundbreaking, award-winning author and teacher who offers empowering, entertaining erotic education for everyone. She's the author of the award-winning Women's Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure (which won the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists' 2010 Book of the Year) and Succulent SexCraft: Your Hands-On Guide to Erotic Play and Practice. She's also a contributor to the award-winning Secrets of the Sex Masters. Sheri is the founder of the Intimate Arts Center. She offers pleasure-centered sex-ed for grown-ups via a wide variety of practical and transformational intimate arts educational recorded online classes, books and blogs. Sheri's unique holistic offerings are formed by over 22 years as a sexuality teacher, on top of decades of practice as a certified nurse-midwife, gynecology practitioner, registered nurse, childbirth educator, and massage therapist. Sheri delights in inspiring people to have a lot more pleasure, fun and fulfillment!  

Connect With Sheri Winston: 

Website: IntimateArtsCenter.com

 

Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in the Aligned & Hot Marriage program, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join my email list to stay connected-it's where I share my latest insights and more personal stories.https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

  Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:

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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

128. Embodied Sexuality: How to Connect With Your Partner Through Enjoying More Satisfying Sexual Experiences | feat. Sheri Winston31 May 202301:07:23

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by Sheri Winston, a renowned holistic sexuality teacher, author, and founder of the Intimate Arts Center, to discuss how to connect with your partner via embodied sexuality–a learnable skill that anyone can develop.

Sheri emphasizes the importance of embracing pleasure and connection with a partner before  delving into the intricacies of the female erectile network. She encourages listeners to explore their own bodies, expand their pleasure potential, and understand the anatomy of arousal in order to create more ecstatic and satisfying sexual experiences. She dispels the myth that men already know how to have good orgasms and encourages everyone, regardless of gender or sexual orientation, to explore their sexuality and deepen their intimacy. 

Also in this episode:

  • How to transition from performance-based sex to embodied sex
  • Transactional sex and sex as a marital duty 
  • Women's orgasm and what everyone should know
  • How to become proficient in sex
  • The pandemic of premature penetration
  • How erectile tissue works in both men and women and the role it plays in experiencing orgasms
  • How men can explore their sexual potential so both they and their partners have more pleasure
  • Three things long-term sexual partners need to talk about with one another

 

About Sheri Winston:

Wholistic Sexuality teacher Sheri Winston is a groundbreaking, award-winning author and teacher who offers empowering, entertaining erotic education for everyone. She's the author of the award-winning "Women's Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure" (which won the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists' 2010 Book of the Year) and "Succulent SexCraft: Your Hands-On Guide to Erotic Play and Practice". She's also a contributor to the award-winning Secrets of the Sex Masters. Sheri is the founder of the Intimate Arts Center. She offers pleasure-centered sex-ed for grown-ups via a wide variety of practical and transformational intimate arts educational recorded online classes, books, and blogs. Sheri's unique holistic offerings are formed by over 22 years as a sexuality teacher, on top of decades of practice as a certified nurse-midwife, gynecology practitioner, registered nurse, childbirth educator, and massage therapist. Sheri delights in inspiring people to have a lot more pleasure, fun, and fulfillment!  

Connect With Sheri Winston: 

Website: www.IntimateArtsCenter.com

Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in the Aligned & Hot Marriage program, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join my email list to stay connected-it's where I share my latest insights and more personal stories.https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

127. Love Is Not Enough to Create A Dream Marriage24 May 202300:12:01

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, considers that love is not enough. We want it to be, but many couples love one another and it's not enough to enjoy their dream marriage. 

She discusses the importance of relationship skills, personal growth, and being willing to understand your partner better in order to create nourishing, connected, joyful experiences. She delves into ways our childhoods shape our perception of love and influence our response to our spouse. She emphasizes that these are learnable skills, requiring courage and openness to grow. Key skills include cultivating curiosity, asking open-ended questions, and understanding how your spouse experiences love. Lastly, Alexandra addresses the challenge of aligning emotional and sexual intimacy and offers suggestions to bridge the gap.

Also in this episode: 

  • Why love isn't enough for a marriage to flourish
  • The difference between love experienced by an adult and love experienced by a child
  • Learning how to have a fantastic relationship is totally within reach
  • Transformation begins with cultivating curiosity
  • Connect with your spouse by conveying  that they are deeply loved

Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join my email list to stay connected–it's where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

 

242. An Easy Way to Improve Your Sex Life: More Sleep06 Aug 202500:06:48

Did you know better sleep can significantly enhance your sex life?

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell delves into the often-overlooked link between rest, desire, and emotional intimacy. You'll hear how just one extra hour of sleep can increase libido by 14%—and why prioritizing rest is essential for sustaining passion, vitality, and deep connection in your relationship.

Tune in and explore how nourishing your body with better sleep awakens more intimacy, joy, and fulfillment in your marriage.

 

Episode Highlights:

  • One extra hour of sleep can boost libido by 14%—a small shift with a big impact on intimacy

  • Rest restores hormonal balance, including testosterone, which naturally supports desire

  • Better sleep lowers stress and creates space for emotional and physical closeness

  • As in so many other areas of life, sleep is foundational for a thriving relationship

  • Prioritizing sleep is an act of devotion—to your well-being and to the love you share

 

 

 

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Whether you've been married for years or just want to feel more empowered in intimacy, this is your next step. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/initiating

 

 

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126. Reframing Our Approach To Sexual Intimacy In Terms of Expectations, Stigmas, and STDs: Holistic Sexual Health From A Family Medicine Physician and Sex Coach | With Dr. Tiff Cagle17 May 202300:34:11

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by Dr. Tiff Cagle, a board-certified family medicine physician, sex educator, and coach. Dr. Cagle talks about her passion for providing care through the lens of a person's mind, body, intimacy, relationships, and community.

Dr. Cagle also shares her experience in decreasing stigma around sex and providing HIV testing and counseling. Dr. Cagle discusses sexual concerns including erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, orgasm difficulties, desire discrepancies, and living with sexually transmitted infections. She also provides tips on how to manage herpes in a committed relationship and describes the start-stop method for overcoming premature ejaculation. Dr. Cagle emphasizes the importance of clarifying expectations and refining perceptions when navigating sexual concerns.

Also in this episode: 

  • The importance of mentorship and sexual health
  • How to deal with sexual health concerns like Herpes
  • Treating premature ejaculation and discussing it with your partner
  • The three principles of sensate focus in sex therapy
  • The importance of undressing yourself when being intimate
  • How partners can start touching one another
  • The first three phases of sexual exploration

 

About Dr. Tiff Cagle

Tiff Cagle, MD (she/they/Dr.) is a board-certified family medicine physician, sex educator, and certified coach from Durham, North Carolina. Like many others, she grew up in an environment where conversations about sex were rare and almost always centered around shame. Through challenging the sex-negative attitudes she was taught, she developed a passion for helping others feel empowered to embrace their authentic self.

Dr. Cagle chose to specialize in family medicine because of her desire to provide care through the lens of each person's mind, body, relationships, and community. After years of traditional medical practice, she's now bringing this holistic approach to her work in sexual health. She received her medical degree from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill School of Medicine, where she first discovered her passion for decreasing stigma around sex while providing HIV testing and counseling. She went on to complete her residency training at Duke University Hospital with a concentration in Law, Ethics, and Health Policy, and now holds a consulting position in Duke's Department of Community and Family Medicine providing resident lectures and mentorship.

 

Contact Dr. Tiff Cagle

Website: https://sensatehealthnc.com/

 

Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join my email list to stay connected–it's where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

125. Lessons from Kevin Bacon and Kyra Sedgwick's 34 years of Marriage10 May 202300:20:39

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, discusses how long Kevin Bacon has been married to Kyra Sedgwick and why she thinks they have been able to create their remarkable love story for the past 34 years!

Alexandra is excited to talk about Kyra Sedgwick and Kevin Bacon because they are an attractive celebrity couple who have built a successful marriage and have raised a family together. She discusses their secrets to lasting love and offers insights into what it takes to enjoy a happy, fulfilling marriage. Alexandra also shares how hard it is to find couples to look up to as role models, and emphasizes how important it is for inspiration and emulation. Through that lens, she talks about how she and her husband navigated being children of divorced parents and how that influenced them to find a way to create a relationship filled with intimacy, passion, and connection. 

Also in this episode: 

  • Celebrity couples who inspire Alexandra
  • Learning about relationships through role models
  • Becoming your partner's biggest fan
  • Kevin and Kyra's different roles in their marriage
  • There is a version of this even if you're not a movie star
  • Making sure you have enough elasticity and stability to be creative

 

Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:

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Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:

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Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join my email list to stay connected–it's where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

 

124. Constructive Conflict: How We Can All Resolve Conflict Productively Today and Start Dismantling Racism For The Future | w/ Dr. Lynne Maureen Hurdle03 May 202300:52:03

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by Dr. Lynne Maureen Hurdle, a conflict resolution strategist. Conflict is inevitable and Lynne talks about how she helps people engage in constructive conflict, instead of running from it.

In this conversation the focus is on conflict in marriage, and in the workplace, between any two people and specifically interracial couples. Lynne recommends people engage in conversations with those they are in conflict with, aiming to be vulnerable and staying open to listening. She describes her program, On the Matter of Race, which was created to teach white people about racism and how to dismantle it. The program was inspired by a request from two white women who wanted to understand the experiences of people of color, and how to be effective allies. Lynne clearly articulates the need for white people to understand their role in addressing and dismantling racism and has devoted her life to helping make that happen, at both the personal and societal levels.

Also in this episode: 

  • Why conflict presents an opportunity
  • Why we are scared of conflict
  • Racism and interracial marriages
  • The merging of the present moment and personal history
  • Dr. Lynne's program called "On The Matter Of Race" 
  • Why racism is global
  • Diversity, equity, and inclusion
  • How to be an ally to others in the workplace

 

About Dr. Lynne Maureen Hurdle

Dr. Lynne Maureen Hurdle is a conflict resolution strategist, facilitator, speaker, and coach. In addition, she is the author of the best-seller, "Closing Conflict for Leaders: How to Be a Bold Leader and Develop a Kick-Ass, High-Functioning, Happy AF Team". In many circles, she is known as The Conflict Closer, not just because she helps leaders gain the skills they need to dig deep and finally close the door on those conflicts that have been plaguing their business for too long, but also because she helps bring conflict closer. She helps you bring conflict close enough to examine its roots, the fruits of it, and the long-lasting effects it has on your business and your life. She makes it less scary by helping you to actually see it, get to know it, and be in a relationship with it. Because it is only then that you can use it to help you and your team transform. She has helped a lot of people transform in her thirty-plus years of doing this work and that's because, through a mix of different styles and methods, she makes it interesting and fun.

Connect With Dr. Lynne Maureen Hurdle

Website: https://lynnemaureenhurdle.com/

On the Matter of Race: https://theconflictcloser.com/matter-of-race

 

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Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join my email list to stay connected–it's where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

 

123. The Emasculation of Men Is Not Necessary: Overcoming Societal Pressures and Finding Authentic Connection in Relationships and Friendships | w/ Connor Beaton26 Apr 202300:48:18

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by Connor Beaton, the founder of ManTalks, to discuss the emasculation of men and how they can have real conversations with their partners and friends.

Despite appearing to have a perfect life, Connor hit rock bottom while struggling with addictions and dishonesty. He eventually found a mentor who taught him yoga, psychology, cognitive behavioral therapy, and shadow work. When he opened up to his male friends about his struggles, he found they didn't know how to respond and were used to conversations which lacked depth and substance. This realization inspired him to create ways for men to connect with one another and their partners, in meaningful ways that don't compromise their strength. 

Connor helps men open up to one another, and their partners, without feeling emasculated. Instead, they flourish from doing so.

 

Also in this episode:

  • How a man can find a mentor
  • Struggles with addiction, porn, lying and cheating
  • "When the student is ready, the master will appear"
  • How a good man finds his voice in marriage 
  • Men are more isolated than ever and that's why it's important for them to be around other men
  • The importance of doing shadow work

 

About Connor Beaton

Connor Beaton is the founder of ManTalks, an international organization focused on men's wellness, success, and fulfillment.  He is a coach, facilitator, teacher, podcast host and speaker helping men from all over the world find purpose, healthy love, a joy-filled life, and fulfilling sexual connection. His teachings draw from an in depth apprenticeship in Jungian psychology, Gestalt, Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, and both Buddhist and Taoist traditions.  Connor has a no-BS approach coupled with compassionate understanding of our own human limitations. He has coached thousands of men through private coaching, group work, workshops, retreats and masterminds, and has shared the stage with world class speakers like Gary Vaynerchuk, Lewis Howes, Danielle LaPorte, and many more.

 

Connect With Connor Beaton

mantalks.com/book 

 

Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:

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Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:

Website | Linkedin | Instagram

 

Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join my email list to stay connected–it's where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

122. Licensed Therapists Become Clients: Exploring Physical Intimacy And Feeling Vulnerable Amidst Parenthood And Life's Many Stressors | w/ EJ & Tarah Kerwin19 Apr 202301:00:15

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by EJ & Tarah Kerwin, licensed therapists wanting to expand their sensual intimacy and explore feeling vulnerable within their loving marriage.

As professionals, EJ and Tarah often use the power of sharing vulnerably to help guide other couples in their relationships and this episode is no exception. They show up for me to coach them on this tender topic in a way that others can learn from. As you listen, you will hear EJ and Tarah participate as clients and also as the highly qualified professionals they are - EJ is a licensed professional counselor and Tarah is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. They both specialize in couples therapy. They fell in love while working at a counseling facility and are now raising a blended family, navigating their own challenges, and helping others with skillful devotion.

Also in this episode:

  • How EJ and Tarah got into the field of therapy
  • Their love story
  • Why they sometimes intimidate each other without meaning to
  • Tarah's discovery of sexual abuse and its impact on the intimacy in their marriage
  • Dealing with loneliness and rejection within a loving marriage
  • Asking for intimacy and what that entails for all couples
  • Taking pleasure from touching your spouse
  • Becoming more intentional with non-sexual and sexual touch

 

Stay Connected With EJ & Tarah Kerwin

Website: https://relationshiprenovation.com 

Social Channels: https://linktr.ee/relationshiprenovation

Podcast: https://relationshiprenovation.com/category/podcast-only/

  About EJ & Tarah Kerwin

EJ is a Licensed Professional Counselor, and Tarah is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist; both specialize in couples' therapy. They met while working at another counseling facility, fell in love, got married, and are currently raising a blended family together. They now own and operate the Relationship Renovation Counseling Center and host a podcast that explores various topics concerning all they have learned in the process. They discuss both the joys and the challenges of navigating intimate relationships. Their goal is to help couples better understand themselves and each other in a more fulfilling manner. They are passionate about their work and strive to help couples feel secure and happy in their relationship. They know that when relationships are connected and secure, the everyday stresses of life become much more manageable. They also know cultivating a healthy, loving relationship takes insight, intentionality, and work.

 

Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:

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Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join my email list to stay connected–it's where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

 

121. Redefining Love: Overcoming Blended Family Issues And Letting Go of Expectations For A Truly Successful Marriage | w/ Vince and Krystina Shirey12 Apr 202300:43:08

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by Vince and Krystina Shirey to discuss the many blended family issues they faced when they got married and combined their families. They also talk about how they learned to let go of expectations in order to have a happier marriage.

A pervasive challenge faced by couples when blending a family concerns the delicate balance between prioritizing the children's needs and wellbeing versus prioritizing one another in the marriage. Unfortunately, societal norms and unconscious biases are unhelpful when navigating all the important considerations. The truth is, in a successful marriage with children, it's not either-or and it's key to aim for a harmonious balance. It is crucial to prioritize the marriage while also maintaining a strong bond with the children, which is an inherently lifelong commitment. 

Whether you're in a blended family or not, how do you and your partner prioritize your marriage while also maintaining a strong bond with your children? 

 

Also in this episode: 

  • The challenges of blended families and being a blended family
  • The importance of non-negotiable dates
  • Why you need to start letting go of expectations
  • How to deal with the pressure of your marriage
  • Why sexuality is incompatible with pressure from your spouse
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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

120. Embracing Vulnerability and Maintaining Your Relationship | w/ New York Times Bestselling Author Laura Doyle05 Apr 202300:44:43

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by New York Times best-selling author, Laura Doyle, to talk about vulnerability and intimacy in marriage.

While discussing her latest book, "The Empowered Wife," Laura shares her experiences and perspectives, while focusing on the importance of vulnerability in relationships. She explains that opening up to one's partner leads to deeper intimacy and a stronger connection. Laura has an inspiring personal story as well as a lot of insight into the painful mistakes wives make when trying to get time, attention, and affection from their husbands. 

Also in this episode:

  • Laura's book "The Empowered Wife"
  • Coping with rage and understanding where it stems from
  • How to express your desires in a way that inspires
  • Why marriage is the best self-improvement project
  • The turning point in Laura's marriage
  • The professional woman's dilemma
  • The fear of vulnerability and learning to embrace vulnerability

 

About Laura Doyle

I wrote a book about what I learned and it went to #1 on Amazon, became a New York Times bestseller, and was translated into 19 languages in 30 countries.

That's how I accidentally started a worldwide movement of women who practice The Six Intimacy Skills™ that make relationships playful and passionate, which started me on the mission to end world divorce.

I wrote more books, including my latest, The Empowered Wife, started an international relationship coaching school, hosted The Empowered Wife Podcast and starred in the Empowered Wives series on Amazon Prime.

But the thing I'm most proud of in the whole world? It's my playful, passionate, 30-year marriage with my hilarious husband John, who has been dressing himself since before I was born.

 

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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

119. Celebrating 100K Downloads And Discussing The Importance Of Being Present In All Of Life's Relationships | w/ Chris Stockwell29 Mar 202300:46:15

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, celebrates the milestone of 100K downloads on the podcast with her son Chris Stockwell!

A few weeks back, I hit 100,000 downloads and that means people have been interested in,  and listened to, what I have to say on The Intimate Marriage podcast 100,000 times! For me, it's such an incredible celebration. It's a celebration that belongs for me because I created this podcast and it's my vision. It's also a celebration that belongs to you, the listener, because you have created this with me. What's most important in my view, is that it's a celebration that really belongs to the world, because the more individuals and couples that know how to create a truly wonderful, intimate marriage, the more likely the world becomes a better place. Today is also a celebration, because my incredible son, Christopher Stockwell, is joining me for the show! We have a wide ranging conversation about intimacy in film, building communities and being present in relationships.

Also in this episode:

  • An incredible review from a listener that really touched my heart
  • The privilege for an adult parent to feel seen, not just as a mother or father, but to be seen more fully, in wholeness
  • My mission to change the cultural narrative around long term relationships, so that people know long term relationships are not where passion just tapers off and fades away
  • Intimacy in the movies, and the pace at which relationships evolve in films
  • The best way to center yourself and find yourself present in the moment
  • The importance of respect in relationships and reflections on the volcanic communication style Chris and I navigated when he was in high school
  • Why Chris has accepted that he can have different energy around different people, and connect on different levels with everyone around him.
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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

118. Intention And Love Language Keep Romance Alive | feat. Kaylee and Justin Poulet22 Mar 202300:43:47

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, chats with Kaylee and Justin Poulet about keeping the romance in your marriage alive through intention and using Love Languages.

In addition to his knowledge and ambition, I recognized Justin's incredibly intentional support for his wife as a real asset to his marriage.  For context, we met in Arizona at a conference, and there was a massive snow storm back in his hometown.  This made the situation back home somewhat difficult on his wife, Kaylee, who was managing the kids and household on her own. After we got to talking about Justin's intentional actions to support and connect with Kaylee from afar, I learned just how growth oriented and aware Justin is as a husband. I knew I had to have this couple on the show. I see Justin and Kaylee as true role models: role models for other couples, role models for their children to see what marriage can be like, and I hope, today, they are role models for you too. 

 

Also in this episode:

  • What Justin does to make things easier on Kaylee before he travels out of town
  • How Kaylee receives Justin's intentional love and acts of kindness
  • How Justin and Kaylee prioritize both their marriage and their family life
  • What Justin views as the most pivotal moment in their life and marriage

 

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Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com

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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

117. How To Navigate The Devastating Loss Or Terminal Illness Of A Parent Or In-Law15 Mar 202300:34:46

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, discusses how you can navigate the incredibly difficult landscape when either you, or your partner, suffers through the loss, or terminal illness, of a parent.

This is not a fun topic, but it is an extremely important one that eventually comes up, at some point, in most marriages.  After all, real intimacy is not only about the sexy and fun moments–it is also about supporting a loved one through all aspects of life, and an unfortunate truth is that sickness and death find us at both expected and unexpected moments. Whether you or your spouse have lost one or both parents, or if one of you has a sick parent, or even if you currently have four healthy parents/in-laws, this episode will raise your awareness. It can help you navigate through some of the inevitably hard moments in life, in ways that are meaningful for your marriage. For those who haven't encountered this type of hardship, I realize this is a tough subject and it may even seem morbid. But know that this is about setting yourself and your relationship up, so that you're not blindsided by realities that will eventually happen. The orientation I provide today can also be successfully applied to other hardships you encounter as well.

Also in this episode:

  • The story of when and how I lost both my mother and my father
  • Why the spouse going through the loss can feel lonely even within a strong, connected marriage
  • The differing perspectives between the supportive spouse and the one going through the loss of their parent
  • Guidelines to get through this heartbreaking experience without creating a barrier between you and your partner
  • Specific recommendations for the supportive spouse to be able to love well during this time

 

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    About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

    Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

    For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

    241. Why It's Hard To Initiate Intimacy —And What to Do About It30 Jul 202500:11:45

    You may think that after years of marriage, intimacy should get easier. After all, you know one another better than anyone, you have a routine. So why is it that for so many couples, sexual intimacy becomes more complicated with time?

    In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores why initiating sexual intimacy isn't always intuitive—even in long-term relationships—and what you can do about it. 

    With a blend of psychological insight and real-world advice, Dr. Alexandra shares why rejection often creates distance and how to shift that pattern. 

    She introduces her five-week program, Initiating, designed to help educated, successful men lead with confidence and create deeper, more connected relationships.



    Episode highlights:

    • Initiating intimacy isn't always easy—even in long-term marriages

    • Rejection creates distance, but it doesn't have to stay that way

    • Alexandra's Initiating program helps men lead with confidence

    • Simple tools will improve connection and boost relationship energy



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    116. This Couple Wins At Marriage While Creating Lifestyle Brand With Meaningful And Memorable Party Favors w/ Marx & Amber Succés08 Mar 202300:38:48

    In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, chats with the co-founders of the Cotier Brand, Marx and Amber Succés, about the success in their marriage while building a thriving business together. 

     

    Marx and Amber Succés have a very appropriate last name! This growth-oriented couple has seen success romantically in their marriage, as wonderful parents, and as Co-Founders of the Cotier Brand–a lifestyle brand in which the two create unique and modern party supplies and gift products. It takes a special team to bring creative and joyful products into the world the way these two do, especially when, as you'll hear in this conversation today, they make it seem so easy. The fact that they work well together, with patience and honesty, says so much about them as a couple and as business owners. I absolutely love the fun products they are creating within the Cotier Brand, and I can't wait for you to learn about their business and relationship.

     

    Listen as Amber and Marx share:

    • How they compartmentalize to be able to communicate separately as business partners, as husband and wife, and as co-parents

    • How their communication styles have evolved since they began their romantic relationship

    • The inspiration behind the creative products in their business

    • Amber and Marx's biggest piece of advice for couples starting a business together

     

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    Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com

    Join my email list to stay connected–it's where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

     

    About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

    Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

    For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

     

    115. Reflecting On The Past Year Of Marriage With My Husband, Rodd Stockwell01 Mar 202300:20:57

    In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD chats with her husband, Rodd Stockwell, to reflect on their last year of marriage.


    This conversation has become a wonderful tradition as part of our anniversary celebration, and we share what we've loved about the past year, what's challenged us, and what we're looking forward to. We believe that sharing this provides an invitation for others to learn from our experiences. This year in particular has been an interesting one as we have re-discovered hobbies that light us up, that we each do on our own. You'll hear how, even though we don't directly share in these experiences together, we each bring home a newfound joy that enhances our connection with one another.  No marriage is perfect. We all have our ups and downs. But my goal is for you to see how communication, passion and reflection can deepen your connection so that it continues to improve with each passing year.

     

    Together we discuss:

     

    • My initial feelings when we first got married and the surprising outlook I had on the future back then

    • Our reflections on the past year of our lives 

    • How we've brought more fun into our lives by individually pursuing passions we each cared about long before we met 

    • What we're looking forward to as we head into our 28th year together

     

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    Purchase a FULL copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" HERE

     

    About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

    Her mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement together, every day.

     

    For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

     

    Alexandra Stockwell, MD supports family happiness through facilitating healing and joy for couples.

    114. Practicing Tantra And Tantric Exercises Can Expand The Intimacy In Your Life Quickly w/ Dr. Elsbeth Meuth and Freddy Zental Weaver22 Feb 202300:47:19

    In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, chats with Dr. Elsbeth Meuth and Freddy Zental Weaver about expanding intimacy in your relationship[p through practicing tantra and tantric exercises. 

    If you're not familiar with tantra, this conversation will be a great introduction for you, as this isn't about tantric sex but more so the mind-body connection and meditation practice within the realm of intimacy. It's about both your sexual center and your love center.  As Freddy says in this episode, "tantra is one of the most effective yogas in terms of shifting something in your life."  So if you have something you'd like to shift, whether it's around your relationship or another aspect of your life, I hope you listen to this fascinating conversation. 

     

    Also in this episode:

    • How exactly they define the concept of "tantra"
    • Details on the practice of sexual meditation
    • How these sexual practices impact men and women differently
    • The differences in Freddy and Elsbeth's upbringings in terms of sexual openness and sexual oppression
    • What it's like for this couple working together day-to-day with completely different work styles and personality types

     

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    Sexual Enlightenment Book: https://www.amazon.com/Sexual-Enlightenment-Lasting-Fulfillment-Intimacy/dp/B09N5JTC2L/

    TantraNova YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKincrF-VHfsabcIvsbQEhQ/videos

     

    About Dr. Elsbeth Meuth and Freddy Zental Weaver

    Dr. Elsbeth Meuth and Freddy Zental Weaver are a beautiful couple who work together to bring more love and intimacy, pleasure and bliss into the world. They have built an approach through integrating sex and meditation. Within their practice, TantraNova, they work with couples and singles to discover the secrets to lasting intimacy through private programs and retreats centered around tantra yoga and meditation practices. 

     

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     If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: www.alexandrastockwell.com

    If you're ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, get started with the FREE first chapter from Alexandra's acclaimed bestselling book "Uncompromising Intimacy" HERE

    Purchase a FULL copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" HERE

     

    About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

    Her mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement together, every day.

     

    For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!

     

    Alexandra Stockwell, MD supports family happiness through facilitating healing and joy for couples.

     

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