Explore every episode of the podcast The Influence Exchange
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| Vacations Don’t Change Your Life, Experiences Do | 18 Mar 2026 | 00:29:05 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. In episode 20, J.V. talks about why vacations often give relief but not transformation and why real growth comes from experiences that interrupt your routine and challenge how you see yourself. You can travel somewhere beautiful and come back the same person. Or you can do something small, unfamiliar, and come back thinking differently. This conversation explores the difference between escaping your life and expanding it, and how confidence, clarity, and direction often come from moments that feel uncomfortable at first, not relaxing. You’ll hear This episode isn’t about luxury travel. t’s about momentum, awareness, and becoming someone new without leaving your life behind. Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||
| Stop Saying No to Yourself Before Life Does | 11 Mar 2026 | 00:25:34 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. How many opportunities have you quietly talked yourself out of? Not because someone rejected you, but because you assumed the answer before you ever tried. In episode 19, J.V. breaks down the subtle ways we hold ourselves back, the thoughts that sound logical, mature, and responsible, but slowly stop our growth. You don’t loudly sabotage yourself. Over time, those thoughts don’t protect you, they limit you. This conversation is not about forcing confidence or pretending fear doesn’t exist. In this episode If you’ve ever felt capable but hesitant, ready but unsure, motivated but stuck, this episode is for you. Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||
| The Influence Code: The 10 Principles That Shape Every Leader | 07 Jan 2026 | 01:02:54 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. Episode 10 marks a defining milestone for The Influence Exchange, not because of the number, but because of the standard it sets. In this milestone episode, J.V. delivers the operating system behind real leadership: The Influence Code. Ten timeless principles that quietly determine how trust is built, how credibility is earned, and how influence compounds over time, at work, at home, and within yourself. Across ten deeply practical and reflective principles, J.V. breaks down what actually shapes influential leaders, not in theory, but in real life. From self-leadership and standards, to presence, discipline, energy, courage, accountability, and legacy, this episode connects everything discussed in the first nine episodes into one clear framework you can live by. You’ll explore: Why influence always starts with how you lead yourself How standards, not goals, determine outcomes Why consistency earns trust faster than intensity How presence outperforms position every time Why discipline is the foundation of credibility How your energy shapes every environment you enter Why identity drives behavior more than motivation ever will How accountability accelerates growth Why courage must come before confidence And how legacy is built daily, not someday Each principle is paired with a direct reflection question, designed to challenge your thinking, sharpen your standards, and move leadership from concept into practice. This episode is for leaders who are done chasing hype and ready to live with intention. If you’ve been listening to The Influence Exchange from the beginning, or if this is your first episode, this is where it all comes together. Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||
| New Year, New Standard: Leading Yourself into 2026 | 31 Dec 2025 | 00:30:52 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. In this powerful New Year’s episode of The Influence Exchange, J.V. challenges the traditional idea of resolutions and replaces it with something far more effective: self-leadership. This episode is not about hype, motivation, or short-lived promises. It’s about how you intentionally carry yourself into 2026 with discipline, clarity, and ownership, so this year looks different. Throughout the episode, J.V. walks listeners through five foundational leadership shifts designed to create lasting momentum, not temporary excitement In this episode, you’ll learn Why the year is not your reset, your choices are How to stop chasing goals and start building identity The one habit that will define your year more than any resolution What must be left behind in 2025 to move forward lighter and stronger A focused 2026 Leadership Challenge built around one rule, one habit, and one bold move This conversation is grounded, direct, and deeply practical. It’s designed for leaders, professionals, and individuals who are done restarting and ready to start executing with intention. Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||
| The Discipline Advantage: Why Consistency Beats Talent Every Time | 24 Dec 2025 | 00:29:11 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. In Episode 8 of The Influence Exchange, J.V. breaks down the real reason some people with less talent go further than people with more discipline. Not the social-media version, the real kind that shows up when motivation is gone, progress feels slow, and nobody is watching. This episode walks you through five key topics, Why Talent Is Common and Discipline Is Rare Why Discipline Means Doing It Anyway he Discipline Gap (real-life scenarios that expose where consistency breaks down) How to Build Discipline When Motivation Disappears (environment, identity, tracking, accountability) The Discipline Blueprint, three big moves that shift your standards and execution If you’ve ever started strong and faded out, set goals and didn’t finish, or felt like your potential is bigger than your habits, this episode is your reset. You don’t need more hype. You need structure, follow-through, and higher standards. Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||
| The Gift of Influence: What You’re Really Giving This Season | 17 Dec 2025 | 00:31:25 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. The holidays are full of pressure to buy more, do more, and show more, but in this special episode of The Influence Exchange, J.V. shifts the focus from presents to presence. Together, we explore a powerful truth, the greatest gift you give your family, friends, and team isn’t wrapped, it’s felt. Through practical insight, honest reflection, and leadership-based coaching, J.V. breaks down how your tone, energy, patience, and emotional habits become the emotional inheritance, the people around you carry long after the season ends. You’ll discover: Why your influence is your greatest holiday gift How your mood and reactions shape the mood at home What your children and loved ones remember about you How to protect the emotional climate of your home during a busy season A guided Influence Audit, and gratitude reset you can start this week If you want this holiday to be about more than gifts and exhaustion and instead of peace, presence, and intentional influence, this episode is for you. Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||
| The Power of Self-Belief: Becoming Your Own Source of Confidence | 10 Dec 2025 | 00:31:05 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. True confidence doesn’t come from validation, titles, or approval, it comes from believing in yourself before the world does. In this episode of The Influence Exchange, J.V. breaks down the foundation of influence and self-belief. You’ll learn why confidence isn’t a personality trait, it’s a mindset and how the way you see yourself determines the opportunities you pursue, the risks you take, and the life you build. Inside this episode, we explore: Why confidence shapes leadership, relationships, and success How self-doubt quietly holds back capable people What psychology and neuroscience reveal about building belief The difference between comfort and growth and why belief lives outside both A powerful 72-hour confidence move challenge to help you act now This is not motivational pep talk; it’s a reality check. If you’ve ever questioned your worth, your ability, or your timing, this episode will remind you of something essential. Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||
| The Energy You Bring: How Your Presence Influences Every Room | 03 Dec 2025 | 00:27:39 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. In this episode of The Influence Exchange, J.V. breaks down the often-overlooked power of the energy you carry into every space, at work, at home, and in your relationships. Before you say a word, people are already responding to your tone, body language, attitude, and emotional state. Your presence sets the temperature. Your energy sets the tone. J.V. unpacks the science behind emotional contagion, why people catch your stress or your calm, and why influence has more to do with presence than job title. He shares a deeply personal story about how a simple question from his 8-year-old son became a turning point in how he shows up for his family and his team. You’ll learn: Why do people respond to your presence, not your position How your energy quietly shapes rooms, decisions, and relationships Real life examples of calming, chaotic, and uplifting presence Practical ways to manage your energy and lead with intention If you’ve ever walked into a room drained, distracted, or overwhelmed and later realized others felt it too, this episode will help you become more aware, more grounded, and more intentional with the influence you carry. Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||
| The Power of Consistency: Showing Up When It’s Hard | 26 Nov 2025 | 00:17:36 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. In this powerful episode, J.V. breaks down one of the most underrated forces behind personal growth, leadership, and everyday success: consistency. Anyone can show up when life feels easy, but true influence is built in the moments when you feel tired, uncertain, stretched thin, or discouraged and you choose to show up anyway. J.V. opens up about times in his life when he didn’t show up how perfectionism, pressure, and self-doubt held him back and the turning point that changed everything. He shares the lessons, research, and real-life examples that helped him transform from someone who started strong but faded into someone who now shows up with purpose, discipline, and daily commitment. In this episode you’ll learn: Why consistency matters at work, at home, and within yourself How small, repeated habits reshape your identity and your confidence What neuroscience says about building discipline and emotional stability How showing up even at 60% can change someone else’s day Practical, simple strategies to build rhythms that last And a powerful personal story showing the ripple effect of just being present Whether you’re working toward a goal, leading a team, raising a family, or just trying to stay grounded during stressful seasons, this episode will remind you that your presence is powerful, especially on the hard days. Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||
| The Legacy Mindset: Building Influence That Outlasts You | 19 Nov 2025 | 00:13:24 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. In Episode 3 of The Influence Exchange, J.V. takes a powerful deep dive into what it really means to build a legacy, not through titles, achievements, or recognition, but through the lives you impact along the way. This episode explores how legacy isn’t defined by what you leave behind, but by what you leave within the people around you. Through personal stories, leadership insights, and research backed principles, J.V. breaks down the core elements of lasting influence character, consistency, and purpose. You’ll hear:
This episode is for anyone who wants to lead with heart, lift others up, and leave a positive imprint that outlasts any moment of success. If you’ve ever wondered how to create impact that truly matters, this conversation is for you. Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||
| Mindset Matters: Staying Positive When It Counts | 14 Nov 2025 | 00:10:14 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. In this episode, J.V. dives into one of the most powerful tools in personal and professional success, your mindset. When life gets noisy, pressure builds, and motivation fades, your perspective becomes your greatest asset. J.V. shares real-life lessons and actionable strategies on how to reframe challenges, silence negativity, and stay centered when things don’t go as planned. Listeners will walk away with a renewed sense of control, self-belief, and daily habits that reinforce a positive outlook, even in the moments that test you most. In this episode:
Because mindset isn’t about pretending everything’s perfect, it’s about choosing growth over defeat, every single time. Follow @The_Influence_Exchange and share your story, how do you stay positive when it counts? Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||
| The Influence Exchange | 14 Nov 2025 | 00:08:59 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. In this premiere episode, host J.V. launches The Influence Exchange, a space where motivation meets action and perspective drives growth. J.V. explores what influence really means in today’s world, how it’s not about power or popularity, but about creating impact through authenticity, empathy, and intention. Listeners will uncover how small daily choices can spark major transformations, and how sharing stories of resilience, leadership, and positivity can inspire meaningful change in both personal and professional life. In this episode:
If you’re ready to exchange ideas, energy, and influence with a community built on growth and authenticity, this episode is where it all begins. Follow @The_Influence_Exchange and join the conversation where influence isn’t about being impressive; it’s about being impactful. Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||
| Red Flag or Green Flag? The Game That Exposes Everything | 04 Mar 2026 | 00:30:01 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. In episode 18 of The Influence Exchange, we’re doing something different and a lot more fun, while still keeping it real. We’re playing Red Flag / Green Flag. I’ll walk you through real-life scenarios you’ve probably experienced in For each scenario, you decide Then I’ll give you my take and explain why. What We Cover in This Episode Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||
| Hard Conversations Made Simple: What to Say When You Don’t Want Conflict | 25 Feb 2026 | 00:23:14 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. In this episode 17 of The Influence Exchange, I’m your host, J.V., and we’re talking about something most people avoid, even when it’s quietly draining them, Hard conversations. What we cover in Episode 17: The real cost of avoiding hard conversations (why “keeping the peace” can cost you peace) A simple script to say what you mean without sounding harsh What to do when they get defensive (and how to stay calm and still be heard) How to hold your point without turning cold This episode is designed to be simple, practical, and easy to apply especially if you hate conflict but you’re tired of carrying things you never said out loud. If you’ve been feeling unheard, disrespected, or emotionally tired from holding things in, this one is for you. Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||
| The Respect Reset: Why People Treat You Based on What You Tolerate | 18 Feb 2026 | 00:29:39 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. In episode 16 of The Influence Exchange, I’m breaking down something that impacts almost everyone, but most people struggle to explain it. Why do certain people keep crossing the line and why it keeps happening. What we cover in Episode 16 How people learn what’s acceptable around you (your patterns teach your standard). The difference between being kind and being easy to violate. Real-life situations that slowly drain your respect (without one big blow-up). Exactly what to say in the moment, without starting drama We’ll also talk about how respect breaks down when your words and actions don’t match and how to rebuild it without becoming rude, cold, or someone you’re not. This isn’t about arguments. It’s about clarity, follow-through, and self-respect. Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||
| The Way You Love Is the Way You Show Up | 11 Feb 2026 | 00:27:56 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. With Valentine’s Day around the corner, Episode 15 is a reset from the noise. This isn’t an episode about romance cliches, grand gestures, or “one-day” love. It’s about something more practical and more powerful: The way you love is the way you show up. In this special episode, J.V. breaks down a simple truth: love isn’t just a feeling, it’s a pattern. The way you listen, the way you respond under pressure, and the way you show up when you’re tired or distracted, that same pattern shows up everywhere, at home, in conversations, in friendships, and in the moments people need you most. You’ll hear a personal reflection from J.V. on learning (sometimes the hard way) that love isn’t proven in big moments, it’s revealed in everyday ones, regular nights, quick conversations, tone, presence, and follow-through. In this episode, we cover:
This episode is designed for real life not highlight reels. No perfection. No pressure. Just practical adjustments that create safer, stronger connection over time. And as always, J.V. keeps it honest: he’s still learning, he’s made mistakes, and this message comes from growth, not pretending to have it all figured out. Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||
| Why You Feel Stuck Even When You’re Doing Everything Right | 04 Feb 2026 | 00:36:10 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. In Episode 14 of The Influence Exchange, J.V. breaks down a truth many disciplined people don’t talk about: sometimes you’re not failing, you’re outgrowing your current level. When progress stalls, it’s often not a lack of effort, it’s a signal that your systems, standards, and identity need an upgrade. In this episode, you’ll learn:
This episode is not about starting over. It’s about recalibrating, raising your internal standards, and making the small aligned decisions that bring momentum back, and if you’ve ever felt behind, this episode will remind you: you’re not behind, you’re being called forward. Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||
| The Follow-Through Formula Why Plans Fail & Systems Win | 28 Jan 2026 | 00:36:10 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. In this episode 13 of The Influence Exchange, J.V. breaks down the real reason goals stall, habits collapse, and motivation fades, and why leaders who finish what they start don’t rely on willpower, but systems. This episode is a deep, practical dive into follow-through as a leadership skill, not a personality trait. You’ll learn how self-trust erodes quietly, how internal credibility is rebuilt through structure, and how to design environments that make execution unavoidable. Inside this episode, you’ll discover: If you’re tired of starting strong and fading fast and ready to build systems that work when motivation disappears this episode gives you the framework to do exactly that. Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||
| Emotional Fitness Training Your Mind Like a Muscle | 21 Jan 2026 | 00:36:49 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. In Episode 12 of The Influence Exchange, J.V. delivers one of the most foundational leadership conversations to date, emotional fitness. This episode goes beyond motivation and mindset. It introduces emotional fitness as a trainable discipline, one that determines how you lead under pressure, respond to conflict, recover from setbacks, and rebuild self-trust when consistency breaks down. Emotional fitness isn’t about suppressing feelings or staying positive. It’s about regulating instead of reacting, building endurance when stress is constant, and strengthening the emotional systems that support real influence. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why emotional conditioning, not talent determines leadership stability How to regulate emotions in real time using practical frameworks Where emotional fitness breaks down in everyday leadership moments A step-by-step Self-Trust Reset Protocol to rebuild internal credibility A 90-day Self-Trust Leadership Challenge to restore consistency, discipline, and follow-through J.V. also shares personal leadership moments that reveal a powerful truth, People don’t remember how fast you solve problems, they remember how you made them feel while solving them. Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||
| The Self-Trust Crisis: Why Most People Don’t Follow Through | 14 Jan 2026 | 00:34:56 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. In this high-impact episode of The Influence Exchange, J.V. takes on one of the most overlooked barriers to personal and professional growth, the erosion of self-trust. If you’ve ever felt stuck, not because you lacked vision, talent, or opportunity, but because you quietly stopped trusting your own follow-through, this conversation is designed to reset your foundation. Across this episode, J.V. unpacks how self-trust silently breaks through small, repeated negotiations with comfort and how true leaders rebuild that trust through structure, standards, and consistent action. You’ll walk away with practical, repeatable frameworks that don’t just inspire. You will learn: Why broken promises to yourself undermine confidence more than failure ever could How motivation collapses without systems and why leaders choose identity over emotion The real reason people stop believing in themselves and how to repair it How to rebuild credibility with yourself through small, non-negotiable actions A 7-Day Self-Trust Reset designed to create momentum immediately If you’re tired of hoping things will change and ready to lead yourself differently this episode is the turning point. Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||
| You Don’t Miss People, You Miss Who You Were With Them | 25 Mar 2026 | 00:22:00 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. Have you ever missed someone, but also knew you didn’t actually want them back? You’re not trying to restart the relationship. You’re not reaching out. You’re not trying to rewind your life. But a memory hits, a song, a place, a random moment and suddenly you’re sitting there asking, “Why do I still feel this?” In episode 21 of The Influence Exchange, J.V. breaks down why that feeling can be so confusing, and why sometimes you’re not missing the person at all. You’re missing the version of you that existed in that chapter, the phase, the routine, the comfort, the identity. In this episode, we cover: This isn’t about forgetting people. It’s about understanding what the memory represents and carrying the lesson without carrying the weight. Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||
| Listener Confessions: Let’s Talk About It | 01 Apr 2026 | 00:18:48 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. In this community focused on episode 22 of The Influence Exchange, J.V. reads real, anonymous listener confessions, the kind of thoughts people carry quietly but rarely say out loud. Inside this episode, we unpack confessions like: For each confession, we slow it down and explore: This episode is about awareness, not shame. It’s about recognizing patterns, not judging yourself for them. And it’s about realizing you’re not alone in what you’re navigating. Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||
| If It Is to Be, It Is Up to Me: Jay Setchell’s Story | 08 Apr 2026 | 00:45:51 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. In this powerful episode 23 of The Influence Exchange, I sit down with Jay Setchell, a man whose life story is built on grit, faith, responsibility, and a refusal to quit. Jay was born and raised on a working farm, served in the Marine Corps, built ventures as an entrepreneur, worked in the corporate world, and carried one core belief through every season of life - never quit. Now in his mid-70s, mostly paralyzed, having survived multiple near-death experiences and endured 73 surgeries, Jay is still building, still believing, and still moving forward. This conversation goes far beyond motivation. We talk about His book, The Strength Within You: It’s Always Too Soon to Quit Jay doesn’t speak from theory, he speaks from lived experience. If you’ve ever been knocked down, questioned your strength, or needed a reminder to keep moving forward, this episode will stay with you. One of the biggest takeaways from this conversation: What lies behind us and what lies ahead of us are small matters compared to what lies within us. Buy Jay Setchell book on Amazon: Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||
| Kristen Crabtree: Remembering Who You Really Are | 15 Apr 2026 | 00:42:24 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. In this deeply honest episode 24 of The Influence Exchange, I sit down with Kristen Crabtree, author of Be the You That’s More You Than You’ve Ever Been and creator of Paramour Paradox, to talk about identity, healing, truth, and the journey of becoming yourself again. Kristen shares how her work was born not from business plans or strategy, but from lived experience after surviving years of deep internal disconnection, including a 22-year psychologically abusive marriage. After leaving in a fog, with no real sense of who she was, she began the difficult process of rebuilding her life and rediscovering her voice. In this conversation, we talk about: What Paramour Paradox really is and how it helps people reconnect with their true identity How thoughts shape emotions, emotions shape behavior, and how many of us live in survival patterns that no longer serve us Why transformation is less about becoming someone new and more about remembering who you already are The idea that we only see a tiny fraction of reality through our mental “filter” Why motivation and discipline become easier when you’re finally in alignment with your truth The difference between surviving life and actually feeling real in it again Kristen also opens up about what it means to leave without clarity, to rebuild from the ground up, and to discover that peace, truth, and self-worth are still possible — even after years of feeling lost. Buy Kristen’s book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Thats-More-Than-Youve-Ever/dp/B0G1S19489/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0 Connect with Kristen: https://www.you2point0.com/ Kristen’s website: https://www.paramourparadox.com/ Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||
| Danny Brassell: Why Storytelling Is the Secret to Leadership, Influence, and Growth | 22 Apr 2026 | 00:39:32 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. In episode 25 of The Influence Exchange, I sit down with Danny Brassell, highly sought-after speaker, trainer, coach, co-founder of Well-Crafted Story, and author of more than 20 books including Leadership Begins with Motivation and Misfits and Crackpots. Danny has delivered presentations to more than 3,500 audiences worldwide, but what makes this conversation powerful is not just his experience, it’s his perspective on leadership, communication, motivation, and the real power of storytelling. In this conversation, we talk about: Danny’s mission to bring more joy back into education and the workplace How losing everything financially became a turning point in his life Why storytelling is one of the most effective tools leaders and entrepreneurs can use The 5 Cs framework for creating presentations that connect and move people to action Why great speakers don’t just tell stories. they tell stories with intention The biggest mistakes entrepreneurs make when presenting Why people connect more with your failures than your bragging How Danny wrote more than 20 books and what motivates his work Danny also shares practical insights for: CEOs and leaders who want to communicate more effectively Entrepreneurs trying to clarify their message Anyone looking to become more confident on stage Creators who want to use their personal story to serve, inspire, and grow their business Danny also shared a free resource for listeners: The Well-Crafted Story Website: https://wellcraftedstoryworkshop.com/workshop Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||
| From Loss to Reinvention: How You Rebuild When Life Breaks You, with Chanoa Inez | 29 Apr 2026 | 00:34:26 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. What if the hardest moment in your life wasn’t the end, but the beginning of who you’re meant to become? In episode 26 of The Influence Exchange, I sit down with Chanoa Inez, who shares a powerful and deeply personal journey through loss, grief, and rebuilding her life from the inside out. After experiencing an unexpected and life-altering loss, Chanoa found herself navigating not just grief, but identity, purpose, and the relationship she had with herself. What followed wasn’t a quick fix. It was years of reflection, growth, and learning how to truly rebuild. This conversation goes beyond surface-level advice. We talk about what it actually takes to move forward when life doesn’t go as planned and how self-love isn’t just a concept, but a foundation for everything. If you’ve ever felt stuck, lost, or unsure of your next step, this episode will speak to you. Chanoa’s website: https://www.chanoainez.com/ Buy Chanoa’s book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FCYF7DJ4 Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||
| Bonus Episode: Spending to Feel Better and What It’s Really Costing You. | 01 May 2026 | 00:22:08 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. In episode 27 of The Influence Exchange, J.V. breaks down a pattern most people don’t talk about, emotional spending. This isn’t about budgeting apps, cutting up credit cards, or extreme saving. This is about understanding why we spend in the first place. Because the truth is most overspending isn’t about money. It’s about avoiding something deeper. In this episode, we explore: Why spending feels good in the moment, but doesn’t last The emotional cycle behind impulse purchases What you’re actually “buying” when you click add to cart How short-term comfort can create long-term stress Simple, realistic ways to pause without feeling restricted Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||
| You’re Not Stuck, You’re Afraid of Being Judged, with Robin Clare | 06 May 2026 | 00:49:55 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. What if the real reason you’re not moving forward has nothing to do with your ability and everything to do with the fear of being judged? In episode 28 of The Influence Exchange, we dive into a conversation that hits deeper than most people are willing to admit, Fear of judgment. Not just from others, but the pressure, the expectations, and the self-doubt that quietly hold you back from showing up fully. In This Episode, We Talk About: Why fear of judgment is more powerful than failure How judgment shows up in your life (without you realizing it) The difference between real judgment and someone’s opinion Why waiting for approval keeps you stuck The internal vs external version of yourself (and why alignment matters) How self-leadership and awareness change everything Letting go of perfection and learning to show up anyway Buy Robin book on Amazon: https://a.co/d/0iEw3RMr Robin's website: https://www.robinhclare.com/ Robin's Akashic Harmony Message: https://www.robinhclare.com/akashicharmonymessage Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||
| You’re Not Broken, You’re Carrying Unhealed Trauma, with Malisa Hepner | 13 May 2026 | 00:46:51 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. What if the problem isn’t you, but the pain you’ve never had the space to process? In episode 29 of The Influence Exchange, I sit down with trauma therapist and podcast host Malisa Hepner for a powerful and deeply human conversation about trauma, overthinking, shame, and healing. Because the truth is, a lot of people walking around today don’t feel broken, they feel stuck, overwhelmed, disconnected, and unsure why. And most of the time, it’s not because something is wrong with them. It’s because they’re carrying experiences they never fully processed. In This Episode, We Talk About: Why trauma isn’t just what happened, it’s what wasn’t processed How overthinking is often a response to deeper emotional pain The role of shame and how it quietly shapes your life Why talking and expressing emotions is more powerful than you think How disconnection from yourself shows up in everyday life What it actually looks like to begin healing Navigating grief, loss, and rebuilding after unimaginable experiences About Our Guest Malisa Hepner is a trauma therapist and podcast host who helps people reconnect with themselves, break free from harmful patterns, and find peace after life’s most difficult experiences. Her work is deeply personal, shaped by her own journey through trauma, loss, and healing. Malisa website: https://linktr.ee/Mdhepner Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||
| Rock Bottom to Purpose, How One Moment Can Change Everything, with Steve Gamlin | 20 May 2026 | 00:48:51 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. What if one of the lowest moments in your life was actually the turning point? In episode 30 of The Influence Exchange, J.V. sits down with speaker, author, and coach Steve Gamlin for a powerful and honest conversation about setbacks, loss, purpose, and rebuilding your life from the ground up. Steve shares the raw story of hitting rock bottom, facing debt, self-doubt, and one of the lowest points of his life including a moment hitting golf balls alone in a thunderstorm that unexpectedly changed everything. From that moment forward, Steve began rebuilding step by step into the speaker, comedian, author, and leader he is today. This episode goes beyond motivation. It’s about real life: How to find purpose after failure Turning pain into progress The power of small decisions over time How to keep going after loss Why your lowest moments don’t define you, they redirect you You’ll also hear about Steve’s journey through love, loss, and honoring his late wife Tina through kindness, purpose, and impact. Connect with Steve: Schedule a call with Steve: Steve’s Vision Board Mastery: https://www.motivationalfirewood.com/visionboardmastery Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||
| Bonus Episode: Wealth Isn’t Just Money, It’s How You Think, Live, and Decide | 22 May 2026 | 00:30:08 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. What if the way you think about money is the very thing holding you back from building real wealth? In episode 31 of The Influence Exchange, we break down a powerful truth that most people overlook, Wealth isn’t just about money, it’s about how you think, how you live, and the decisions you make every day. Because the reality is you can make more money and still feel broke. You can earn more and still feel stuck. Why? Because wealth isn’t built by income alone. It’s built through habits, mindset, and consistency. This isn’t a “get rich quick” conversation. This is about understanding the foundation, so you can start making better decisions that actually move your life forward. In This Episode, We Talk About: What wealth really means beyond money Why people stay stuck financially (without realizing it) The impact of short-term thinking and emotional spending How your environment and beliefs shape your financial reality The difference between comfort spending and growth investing How to train yourself for wealth through daily habits Simple, practical steps to build discipline and awareness Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||
| From Heartbreak to Healing, How Nikki Allen Turned Pain Into Purpose | 03 Jun 2026 | 00:41:49 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. What if your heartbreak wasn’t the end, but the beginning of who you’re meant to become? In episode 33 of The Influence Exchange, I sit down with Nikki Allen, author, singer, songwriter, filmmaker, and creator, who shares a powerful and deeply honest story about love, identity, and healing. Her novel Love You, Hated You is inspired by real-life heartbreak and explores a question many people silently struggle with: Why do we stay in relationships we know aren’t good for us? In this conversation, we break down: Why people stay in toxic or unhealthy relationships The emotional cycles that keep you stuck How isolation, validation, and past wounds influence decisions The truth about self-love and why it changes everything How to rebuild yourself after walking away Turning pain into creativity, purpose, and growth Nikki shares something powerful: Healing doesn’t start when you leave, it starts when you understand yourself. This episode is for you if: You’ve ever stayed longer than you should have You’ve questioned your worth in a relationship You’re trying to rebuild after heartbreak You want to understand yourself on a deeper level Nikki's Websites: https://officialnikkiallen.com/ https://strikeoutorganization.com/ https://www.theempresscompany.com/ Buy Nikki's Book: https://www.balboapress.com/en/bookstore/bookdetails/866765-loved-you-hated-you Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||
| From Ministry to the FBI, Eric Robinson on Faith, Pressure, and Purpose | 27 May 2026 | 00:48:34 | |
Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. What if your calling took you from helping people spiritually to protecting them physically? In episode 32 of The Influence Exchange, J.V. sits down with former FBI Special Agent Eric Robinson, who shares his powerful and unconventional journey, from 12 years in Christian ministry to 24 years serving in the FBI. Eric opens up about why he left ministry, the unexpected stress that led to that decision, and how stepping into federal law enforcement changed his perspective on life, pressure, and human behavior. This is not a highlight reel conversation. It’s real, raw, and insightful. You’ll hear: What it really takes to become an FBI agent Behind-the-scenes experiences from working gangs, terrorism, and crimes against children A powerful counter-terrorism case that could have ended very differently The truth about human behavior, both good and evil Why is resilience stronger than most people realize How to rebuild identity and purpose after major life transitions Eric also shares insights from his upcoming memoir: “Irreverent: From Saving Souls to Chasing Sinners in the FBI”, a story of transformation, purpose, and real-life experience on both sides of humanity. Eric's Book coming soon: Preacher to Breacher with Eric Robinson: https://preachertobreacher.com/ Eric's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_eric_robinson/ Eric's Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/eric-robinson-9220053a4/ Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms. Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: Instagram: Tiktok: Facebook: | |||